This is not normal.. I want to disconnect from this person.. I don't want to know what he is doing, feeling etc.. No matter what I do to stop thinking about him.. I feel and also dream about him everynight it's tiring.. I need freedom.. If we are not meant to be together what's the point of all these things?! 😔
I couldn't agree more with you... Its horrible when you are that connected to someone knowing you can't be together but the connection is not allowing you to move on cause its constantly reminding you of that person... After 5 years I am tired I am exausted and I wish I have never met him... I pray for a soulmate to come into my life and then I hope the bond will not be that strong anymore... Is there any way we could disconnect? I realised that with kundalini calming down all my spiritual gifts calmed down as well, thank God... But I still feel tingles on my body, I still get aroused out of nowhere... And I am tired of triggers... So so tired
@@IvanaXavierFanCRO I'm hoping for a soulmate too I'm so tired and angry.. This is not fair and this looks like a curse not a godly thing.. We are going to make it ❤️
The presence of his energy and the sensations I am feeling are triggering a huge trauma I endured years ago prior to meeting him and at times I feel I will go insane cause of it... I am unable to heal the trauma and his energy is constantly triggering it all over again not allowing me to move on... The energy is gentle and loving but still, the fact I am not able to stop it triggers me like hell... Like life hasnt been hard on me so far... I need to endure the TF connection as well 🤦 and the kundalini awakening... I mean the worst is over, thank God, but I wouldnt wish the symptoms of kundalini awakening to anyone... It was too strong and out of control with noone by my side to help me ease the symptoms... Only God knows how come I didnt got locked up in a institution...yet Argh... God help us all 😥
you know what i’ve done for someone out there: i made a self concept tape with my own voice with affirmations, and at the end i put a provision: i trust this is done and i am not anxious or worried or think about how and when throughout the day. I feel really good! i think it has to be your own voice and your own affirmations not youtube ones. idk for someone out there who is feeling bad, try it out ❤
Exactly, and you know why? Because your soul knows best when it comes to your connection! There is no guru and teacher that knows more about your specific journey than your own soul! It is the only one carrying your blueprint of your connection. That is why journaling is so important. I have just discovered the power of own voice recorded affirmations and guidelines, it is a real thing.
I wish I had found this video 2 years ago when my ego was being a very difficult customer. Still, it’s very helpful for all the people who are trying to understand what on earth is going on. You share great stuff and thank you ever so much 🙏🥰
I feel like the part of me that longs for this connection in the 3D is a beautiful, authentic and deep part - my soul. I have learned a lot and processed a lot during our long separation, and also by watching readings (not all readings, but the deeply resonant ones). The love has only grown, and I have continued to grow too. But my ego became stuck in certain areas, because I was afraid - both to let him into my life in the 3D, and to move on without him. I felt trapped for the longest time, feeling like I could do nothing but wait. I think he meant to come back earlier, but then it didn't happen. I finally dreamt that we met - both of us naked and vulnerable. But then it was like he vanished - the next dream he wasn't there anymore. I waited a few months, he didn't come. I then woke up, and my fearful ego gave way. At first I felt like I was abandoning my soul … but now, I feel free. I feel peaceful in the knowing that we are connected. And I had been holding on to what was, but as I realised that that time will never come back, that the years have passed and that we have both changed, it was easier to let go. I did mourn for a while and that was necessary for me. I am getting ready to throw myself into the unknown again. If and when we meet again we will start over, we will not be the same as we were. I understand now that I too have to let change happen for me in order to get to where I'm meant to go. it took me a loooong while to understand and accept this, but now I do.
It’s super helpful to know it’s just a part of this whole thing - they’re going to continue to be in your head, but you have control over what you do with the thoughts (observe, resist, and/or obsess). Tysm!
Very helpful. I am glad I saw this as a reminder to not overwhelm myself and detach. Trust the universe and the process that has been done billions of times. Sending everyone love and light during this tough times during our TF journey.
I was wondering about this! I have met my twin, and ever since separation began, I’ve been obsessed with learning about all of this. I need to let go and let the universe do its thing. Start chasing myself. ❤🙏
Ahahaha perfectly put. It's annoying but also comforting 😂 and also fun. And my ego gets annoyed when the link is stronger but also sad when the link is weaker. 😂 It comes in waves so I've just learned to enjoy whatever stage it's in.
I was so happy living my boring day to day. This person comes along and turns everything upside down. I'm kinda traumatized cuz they're an avoidant. I wanna forget and let go but just can't. I never had this kind of obsession. So tiring.
@@wearethesamenergy yes, I did. This person triggered a lot of deep wounds I had and reminded me I should take better care of myself. To work on self development, clear all the stagnant energy I had.
I was obsessively watching tarot readings all day long after the separation looking for answers 🤪🤪 When I think about it now I am just ashamed of the old me 😁😁
It’s interesting that google search offered me the twin flame concept and your videos when I was looking for information on how to help yourself if you’re obsessed with someone before actually going to seek the professional help from a therapist with your obsession. Most of the obsession help-tips and information I was able to find were oriented to people who think someone is being obsessed with them. I was not able to find something working for me, for my side of a situation. I like to think I have some meditation experience and usually utilize that as a tool to calm my mind… but in this case that didn’t work at all and even made me cry, literally, while meditating at some point... not a pleasant experience at all, so I wouldn’t want to repeat that in relation to this. I don’t feel a person as a twin fame theory states, I don’t have the dreams, or a feeling that I’ve known that person for my entire existence, or anything like that. I don’t think I’m a twin flame case, but some of your videos give a good perspective on life in general. I really appreciate you creating them. Thank you!
After you have been on this journey a while you know you don't need to try and look for signs or syncs. They'll just appear out of nowhere. And yes, I completely agree, stop watching twin flame videos. It's very hard when you're first on the journey. But after a while you will definitely overcome that.
The most disgusting thing is that we actually pre-decided to manifest this TF in this incarnation. I found myself in his city at my dad's suggestion. I didn't want to leave but somehow I did. I went to university: I didn't finish it because my father died in an accident, and after a year I became seriously ill. so I finished other studies: the same ones as TF, of course... I could describe 20 years of my life like this... a series of strange events. e.g. and I meet TF. We both recognize each other, no one has the courage to have a serious conversation because we don't know the term TF. We both think it's a midlife crisis (40). I'm running away because I have a partner, and besides, the age difference is not encouraging... damn it, I still don't know why I needed this meeting. I have learned some lessons and I am trying to implement them, but it is not easy when you are looking for a new job under stress after something like a TF meeting. It took me half a year to regain balance. I would like to believe that all these traumas were FOR SOMETHING.
I’ve been doing all that work for two months and still wake up with the first thing I think of is her. I wish I’d of been able to be calmer and connect again before I pushed her away and now I’ve begged and texted from unknown numbers and got myself looking so crazy I hope it’s not too late. I know she felt this fire I know it couldn’t be all in my head.
Thank you so much for this video Alexx! I’ve spend years fantasizing the next opportunities to meet up with my “twin”. I can see it’s the mind’s way of taking me out of the Now moment and projecting future scenarios because there’s a discontentment of my current situation. It made me feel the fantasies of my “twin” is bringing me closer to him…but I’ve learned the truth is that, it is keeping me further away from him. He can only show up in my current reality and not in my head. Each time the mind throws me into the fantasies, I have to remind myself to come back to the now through the help of meditation. It feels like I have to withdraw myself from an addiction. I can see that it’s more of in love with “being in love” and not the actual person. I had to come to a place that I’m ok with letting this person go and be ok if he is not my twin. It’s a win-win situation, because I will make space for my real twin to come into my life. Have you heard of the term Limerence? Probably most of us on this TF journey had been traumatized through abuses in our childhood and the fantasies of “Prince Charming “ will come and rescue us one day. Thank you again for all that you do Alexx. I wish you all the best on your journey of expanding your consciousness.💜✨🙏
It’s taken decades for me to arrive at this clarity!! Wow it feels so good everything coming together in a union within myself! Coming home to my divine blueprint 😍❤️ Such a great explanation 🙏 I have been doing all the right work to tackle this without support or mentors. The timing feels so good, right and perfect. Receiving this beautiful confirmation!
😮😮😮 This! Video! Mentioning “ruminating”! This was like looking in the mirror and finally understand what I see! ❤❤❤ Thank you 🙏🏼 This knowledge will help me rest.
🙏Thank you soo much 🙏 It all makes sense. I'm so grateful to have found your channel, and now I'm super grateful that you telle me to leave your channel (for now). I've seen many TF channels, as you can imagine (I'm the male chaser💔), but none of them resonates with me like yours. You put things in perspective in a very honest and pure way. I'm lost and beat up inside, but I know I have to get through this. Thanks again for your support. You know how important this is.
I went through the whole thing of ruminating, thinking about them, even made the mistake of going to a medium who told me it was a false twin, at that point i was like oh good, that means i can get rid of it, i went through a whole lot of growth and learning, I'm at the point of pointlessness, no longer having the chasing energy, yet it still pops up in my head and i have no control over it whatsoever😅 also the pulling feeling and the punch in the gut energy feeling at times, i don't even know what to think anymore, but i'm here, i also bought your book, so i guess i'm learning😄
All we can do is learn; it doesn't matter what title you give to the person, ultimately, as long as you're growing, expanding, and learning. I appreciate your support!
I agree BUT my twin won’t leave me alone lol 😂. Once she told me what was going on(I already knew but let her bring it up) and started stacking me(showing up where I was) and we kept one other up In 5D 😂. But I have found our connection is different because we care about one another as people too. Not just because we are tied to one another in 5 D. Last time we talked in person I told her when she needs to see me I will see her. I embraced our connection because it’s so special plus we really care about one another also we people and love one another in the 3D. But if we didn’t click so well together I would honestly hate this experience. To me it’s a creepy experience.
I don’t like this experience but I don’t totally hate it either. I dreamt about my twin flame 20 years ago. I think she hates me and she’s scared of me, mind you I’m scared of her too, for some reason? I think this is one of the best videos so far and I’ll take your advice on twin flames and give it a break. 🙏
Question: Some days out of the blue, I cannot stop thinking about this person, it's insanely intrusive. I feel intense sense of loss, of missing him, grieving & love. It takes everything I have not to reach out to him but I don't. It comes out of nowhere. Now when we were speaking he told me he thinks of me every day (unfortunately, I think of him every day too...ongoing for 25+ years), so if I'm going about my day, having a good day even and then I'm suddenly consumed with all these feelings and thoughts, is that me picking up his feelings? (and the energy and sensitivity around him has always been spot on and I've always intuitively known his past, his future & he can attest to this. But I'm asking because I thought (hoped) I put an end to it all but now all this is starting up all over again. Today I woke up fine, thankfully. Thank you.
on my opinion since i love watching twinflames advices like this channel of yours. i think it is all about our energy, our energy that we can control like while i was watching you im not obsessively thinking of my twin instead of when he pops up on my mind i just say "owh,!? u miss me? yes i missed u too" then let go... (i hope i share this with sense) been two years now on this journey and its all about self discoveries, unconditional love and self love..😊 thankYousoMuch muchLove from🇵🇭🥰
Thanks for popping up in my world! Great share. So now I now it's a 5D thinking feeling connecting No I am not exactly miserable but the feelings Re damn intense at times (a lot of the times)...so much so that even though you "know" that you are being prepared for the right time to answer your higher calling (which I am), ...at the same time, that does bring up the thought of your other self and your beautiful life serving mankind together while in union. Isn't this also chaser energy? (I am aware it's a mind question) 😂 and thank you
Hi! Glad you made your way over to my channel, and thank you for watching! You may want to watch a few of my videos, because I speak on Twin Flames very differently than other teachers. I would start with "The Purpose of Twin Flames," "Twin Flame 'Stages,'" and "What is Twin Flame Union Like (in the 3D) and (in the 5D)."
Im connected with my other self and still watching videos. The thinking and wonder won't end my people. I am mostly in balance, and also obssessed. You will be able to flow in and out of the two states. We are energy workers. Here for study like a boot camp or PhD dissertation..
You are a precious jewel of soul wisdom and blessed with a rare ability to communicate this! Thank you from the bottom om my heart…perhaps I can navigate this after all 🙏🙏🙏
I am happy to see this video. I was doing well not thinking about him. He would cross my mind occasionally, but not that often. Now I am thinking about him more. I am also feeling anxious for no reason. This anxiety is something new, after being peaceful for quite a while.
I am revisiting this older video. Although I feel neutral now, my twin is still on my mind. Not as much as before, but he's there. I have decided to take a break from twin flames. My spiritual journey takes a lot of my time. Healing core wounds is sometimes a challenge, especially the symptoms of lack and limitation. I am going to stop watching anything on twin flames. That should help. 💕🙏
Ok, so. I'm at a stage where I don't think about my twin anymore (no online stalking, no tarot readings) and just want to go about my day. But I still very often feel our "5D energy". It's like I think about myself and I suddenly feel really turned on. Or I have a random thought and my energy really starts rising and I can just feel that we are connected in that moment. It happens a lot, like multiple times a day. I never know which thought will trigger "our connection", but I feel like in these moments, all my thoughts are suddenly visible to him. This causes an anxiety sometimes as my twin is not my friend. He is my colleague and superior. We are both also married to others. So naturally I don't want to be an open book to him. The reason why this "thought transfer" often happens is because as our energetic frequency starts to rise - I get a rush of thoughts in my head. I sometimes even worry that my thoughts are disturbing him. Perhaps he wants to do his work or be with his family or whatever and here I am, thinking about some embarassing body issue or some illness or whatever random shit that goesn't get out of my head. But I don't want to share with my boss!!! I have been on the TFJ for 3 years, and I thought I have managed to heal most of my triggers, yet, there are still times when I find our connectedness annoying and just want my peace. I feel like I am going aroind in loops. Is this normal? How do I cope with TF telepathy anxiety? Any help is appreciated.
Do you have a vid how to stop wanting DM and relationship with me especially after inter course?im so badly struggling with this,every time i cry cause think how he can be such a open towards me and telling me through his eyes he has love for me and then acting like nothing happened…😢
Alexx, I hope one day you understand how much I appreciate your videos. You and I both know I need Ego work, and I AM tired. Going to put today’s advice to work. Starting vacation tomorrow with the FAM, so I think I will try out the Cacao ceremony as a good way to start things off. No excuses now. Your messages always hit me square in the nose. That’s why I appreciate them so much. Keep being awesome and proud of the work you have done. PS-🤞🤞🤞 Your book is still in the works!! I’m buying the first one once it comes out. 😆😆💯 -The Universe
Omg I ran into ex after 4 years of not seeing her, she ask if I wanted to walk with her not once but twice has she was in her car on. A country lane. I said no im almost done here maybe I see u next time. Anyways I couldn't stop thinking about her🙄 then my feelings where starting to act all weird has I thought we ok by now but is it possible she manifested me has I had no control over body 1 of the nights, like aching, being upset, desire, being happy even talking to her etc. I thought jeez has someone broken into my house and put cocanie in my coffee😲. That was so powerful it freeked me out and thought shit man I need a shrink/councillor to speak too. I feel like I've lost my peace. Id rather her run me over with her car than this crazy ass stuff🤕
This is the 2nd time that we broke up .and after the first time all I wanted it growth , time to reflect and self love . After months of seeing different psychics in 4months part to be exact . they’ve confirmed why I can’t let go of that person. She said that while we were apart all she could think is me and we even meet when we dated other people. and couldn’t explain the energy pull. I didn’t believe in this whole thing of twin flame , but here we are again and all I see is 11:11,12:12,3:33,4:44 when I stare at my wrist watch or my phone ,all the freakin time . All I do is growth work and this time I broke off things cause she was in her ego too many times . And I can feel her which is insane but not really since we’re all made of energy and vibrates on frequencies . I did cutting court ceremonies four times from the same person that everybody said that he helped him and guess what happened I was drawn to her even more. I believe and I’m attracting now instead of chasing/running from her
Wow! You are so honest! This is actually very true. I have to stop watching all the related videos etc. I have been in a no-contact zone with my TF for the past three years. He is married now. The TF journey for me had been a roller-coaster ride for 9 years plus 3 years of separation. I do meditate and invest in self-love and self-care. I try my best not to think about him, not by consciously forcing it, but it happens organically. However, as you mentioned, his memories do flash and linger during my work routine or daily chores. I am way better now than I was, but I want to eliminate these thoughts. I pray to the Universe to send me someone who can be the love of my life, someone new who can make me feel loved.
@@jasmineg.4878 well! None. Im still working on myself, keeping busy and finding happiness in all the things I have in hand. Honestly, i feel like I don’t crave him anymore. It’s not that I don’t miss him, but this missing him is a different feeling that sways away. There is no response from him so far. But, I guess deep down I still want him to contact me. Let’s see!
My twins birthday is in a few days, and lately I have been bombarded with thoughts about her. It almost feels like I am being tortured. I don't know what to do. I feel stuck & I feel like I am going crazy. I want to be with her but I am overwhelmed with the amount of "work" that it requires
I have still a question... Would you consider it ok to regard your running twin as your happy thought? As a sort of reinforcement of self love? I can get in a state where I am truly grateful that I have deeply connected with her. Enough to find energy in the connection for the rest of my life. Hmm, I guess you basically answered that question in your last sentence of the video. I suppose it is ok, as long as we stay self-centered, right?
I appreciate these tips! I’m fairly certain I’ve found my twin flame, and we are currently in separation. I know that I’m taking in extreme amounts of information watching all of this, but it’s nice to know I’m not doing too much yet, seeing as it’s my first separation and I’m just now learning about all of this. I can definitely see where ego is getting involved here, as I’m desperately seeking answers and guidance. I think I’ll take a break soon, as I’m definitely feeling overwhelmed. Do you have a video about meditation or suggestions on that?
As the Chaser, decidedly giving up all chasing, do I literally look down and pretend to ignore if I'm still in a situation where I have to walk past my Twin (Runner) several times per week? And btw, they are sometimes completely ignoring me and sometimes waving, smiling...
How can we tell the difference between obsessive rumination and when we’re thinking of them because they’ve sent us energy? I’ve recently met my TF (a few months now) and the connection is getting stronger. Meeting him has catapulted me into a profound awakening. Not only have I been healing my inner wounds, I’m starting to even develop the clairvoyance and clairaudience (within the last week) and my sharp intuition is even stronger now. For the most part he’ll pop up while I’m going about my day, I feel him we communicate - and then the day goes on. Until he crosses my mind again. The days I think of him less, i genuinely feel that he’s probably so occupied with his day he doesn’t even have the time to think; let alone think of me. But when his day is a little more chill, he’s back with a vengeance. I watch a lot of these videos and tarot from certain readers because this is my first time going through this experience and I want to learn about it. But I really don’t know if I think of him a lot because of the energy he’s sending me, or if I’m ruminating… I also feel like I think of him a lot - because I feel like he’s always around. Not only can I feel him in my heart, I’m always expecting to turn my head and see him somewhere. any insights?
Can you make a video about why you feel your twin flames presence/energy inside of you random times that last for like a minute or so… does it mean they are thinking of you or just a reminder about them 🙄?
How can I not only stop thinking about them and not only detach myself from them but also move on without them???? I’m actually at the point in my life where I want this person to live a long happy life because I always think about them but I just want to be single and live my best life because I’m ready to grow on my own.. I don’t know if this is possible but it just makes me feel like I’m ocd about our “future” and I even manifested him coming to my apartment (he was dropping off a package) yesterday but then as soon as I saw him I ran away 😂 I hope he didn’t see me
If the runner reaches out to only say Merry Christmas or to check on me is it ok to respond or does that affect the learning process of the separation?
What does it mean when the pulling feeling and obsessive thoughts stop? I sent him your book and ever since I have not wanted to watch TF videos or tarot readings and I feel so much lighter and freer. Does that mean I have done the work to calm my ego down or could it also be that he read your book and is starting to understand the connection as well? Is it just a lull and it will ramp up again sometime? I'm enjoying the sense of relief I feel right now. Thank you again for all your helpful videos! :)
Synchronicities and angel numbers seem to have stopped too. Now that I think of it, it all seemed to stop after I read your book so maybe it was that that helped me calm down and just accept that we're always connected!
@@wearethesamenergy You're welcome! After I sent him my copy I ordered another for myself because I realized I wanted one to reference whenever I needed a little support. :)
Is my counterpart feeling the same? Am I in his head as much as he is in mine? It's really exhausting not being able to willingly let him go. I stuck in this situation already since 2019.
You never have to ask anyone if what you feel is okay! Everything you feel is always correct and valid because you feel it. I would suggest watching my videos "What is the Soul Family (Part I and II)"
I do not have a Twinflame.(whatever that means). I am however married, So why are all these unwanted videos keep popping up all of a sudden in our TH-cam feeds? Does my partner have a Twinflame?
The most important thing is to first understand that “Twin Flame” concept is a man made (mind made) thing! second is you’ll observe the obsession as a normal natural phenomenon that needs professional care and believe me if take some modern medicines you’ll completely get out of obsessive compulsive behavior and from this ground you can start caring for yourself day by day. thank me later 😊
"Stop watching twin flame videos"
Don't call me out like that 😂😂😂
For real
This is not normal.. I want to disconnect from this person.. I don't want to know what he is doing, feeling etc.. No matter what I do to stop thinking about him.. I feel and also dream about him everynight it's tiring.. I need freedom.. If we are not meant to be together what's the point of all these things?! 😔
Maybe watch my videos "The Purpose of Twin Flames" and "Twin Flame Separation (an important message)"
Exactly
I couldn't agree more with you... Its horrible when you are that connected to someone knowing you can't be together but the connection is not allowing you to move on cause its constantly reminding you of that person... After 5 years I am tired I am exausted and I wish I have never met him... I pray for a soulmate to come into my life and then I hope the bond will not be that strong anymore... Is there any way we could disconnect? I realised that with kundalini calming down all my spiritual gifts calmed down as well, thank God... But I still feel tingles on my body, I still get aroused out of nowhere... And I am tired of triggers... So so tired
@@IvanaXavierFanCRO I'm hoping for a soulmate too I'm so tired and angry.. This is not fair and this looks like a curse not a godly thing.. We are going to make it ❤️
The presence of his energy and the sensations I am feeling are triggering a huge trauma I endured years ago prior to meeting him and at times I feel I will go insane cause of it... I am unable to heal the trauma and his energy is constantly triggering it all over again not allowing me to move on... The energy is gentle and loving but still, the fact I am not able to stop it triggers me like hell... Like life hasnt been hard on me so far... I need to endure the TF connection as well 🤦 and the kundalini awakening... I mean the worst is over, thank God, but I wouldnt wish the symptoms of kundalini awakening to anyone... It was too strong and out of control with noone by my side to help me ease the symptoms... Only God knows how come I didnt got locked up in a institution...yet Argh... God help us all 😥
From my experience, when signs and synchronicities no more overwhelm you, see more of them.😅
😂true ❤
Love and appreciate your authenticity. The fact that you would say "stop watching my videos" speaks volumes about your heart posture 💚
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you know what i’ve done for someone out there: i made a self concept tape with my own voice with affirmations, and at the end i put a provision: i trust this is done and i am not anxious or worried or think about how and when throughout the day. I feel really good! i think it has to be your own voice and your own affirmations not youtube ones. idk for someone out there who is feeling bad, try it out ❤
Exactly, and you know why? Because your soul knows best when it comes to your connection! There is no guru and teacher that knows more about your specific journey than your own soul! It is the only one carrying your blueprint of your connection. That is why journaling is so important. I have just discovered the power of own voice recorded affirmations and guidelines, it is a real thing.
I wish I had found this video 2 years ago when my ego was being a very difficult customer. Still, it’s very helpful for all the people who are trying to understand what on earth is going on. You share great stuff and thank you ever so much 🙏🥰
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I feel like the part of me that longs for this connection in the 3D is a beautiful, authentic and deep part - my soul. I have learned a lot and processed a lot during our long separation, and also by watching readings (not all readings, but the deeply resonant ones). The love has only grown, and I have continued to grow too. But my ego became stuck in certain areas, because I was afraid - both to let him into my life in the 3D, and to move on without him. I felt trapped for the longest time, feeling like I could do nothing but wait. I think he meant to come back earlier, but then it didn't happen. I finally dreamt that we met - both of us naked and vulnerable. But then it was like he vanished - the next dream he wasn't there anymore. I waited a few months, he didn't come. I then woke up, and my fearful ego gave way. At first I felt like I was abandoning my soul … but now, I feel free. I feel peaceful in the knowing that we are connected. And I had been holding on to what was, but as I realised that that time will never come back, that the years have passed and that we have both changed, it was easier to let go. I did mourn for a while and that was necessary for me. I am getting ready to throw myself into the unknown again. If and when we meet again we will start over, we will not be the same as we were. I understand now that I too have to let change happen for me in order to get to where I'm meant to go. it took me a loooong while to understand and accept this, but now I do.
Somehow I got goosebumps reading this. Thank you for sharing your experience ❤
@@ralsumaaji Thank you for telling me! ❤
It’s super helpful to know it’s just a part of this whole thing - they’re going to continue to be in your head, but you have control over what you do with the thoughts (observe, resist, and/or obsess). Tysm!
Very helpful. I am glad I saw this as a reminder to not overwhelm myself and detach. Trust the universe and the process that has been done billions of times. Sending everyone love and light during this tough times during our TF journey.
I was wondering about this! I have met my twin, and ever since separation began, I’ve been obsessed with learning about all of this. I need to let go and let the universe do its thing. Start chasing myself. ❤🙏
Ahahaha perfectly put. It's annoying but also comforting 😂 and also fun. And my ego gets annoyed when the link is stronger but also sad when the link is weaker. 😂 It comes in waves so I've just learned to enjoy whatever stage it's in.
I was so happy living my boring day to day. This person comes along and turns everything upside down. I'm kinda traumatized cuz they're an avoidant. I wanna forget and let go but just can't. I never had this kind of obsession. So tiring.
Have you watched "Twin Flame or Obsession?"
@@wearethesamenergy yes, I did. This person triggered a lot of deep wounds I had and reminded me I should take better care of myself. To work on self development, clear all the stagnant energy I had.
@@daniloyamasaki7676 Amazing!
Online tarot was the dumbest
stupidest thing I’d immerse in. You always make me chuckle 😂 as long as this ego doesn’t bust outta the muzzle(🤫) 😂😂😂
I was obsessively watching tarot readings all day long after the separation looking for answers 🤪🤪 When I think about it now I am just ashamed of the old me 😁😁
@@Dounia8686damn same and im not even sure if he is my tf
How did you stop that obsession? I am watching them almost 24/7, they keep playing while I am sleeping too...
Thank you to the Moon and Back
You're very welcome! Thank you for watching!
This is almost like therapy, thank you for the video❤
It’s interesting that google search offered me the twin flame concept and your videos when I was looking for information on how to help yourself if you’re obsessed with someone before actually going to seek the professional help from a therapist with your obsession. Most of the obsession help-tips and information I was able to find were oriented to people who think someone is being obsessed with them. I was not able to find something working for me, for my side of a situation.
I like to think I have some meditation experience and usually utilize that as a tool to calm my mind… but in this case that didn’t work at all and even made me cry, literally, while meditating at some point... not a pleasant experience at all, so I wouldn’t want to repeat that in relation to this.
I don’t feel a person as a twin fame theory states, I don’t have the dreams, or a feeling that I’ve known that person for my entire existence, or anything like that. I don’t think I’m a twin flame case, but some of your videos give a good perspective on life in general. I really appreciate you creating them. Thank you!
After you have been on this journey a while you know you don't need to try and look for signs or syncs. They'll just appear out of nowhere. And yes, I completely agree, stop watching twin flame videos. It's very hard when you're first on the journey. But after a while you will definitely overcome that.
The most disgusting thing is that we actually pre-decided to manifest this TF in this incarnation. I found myself in his city at my dad's suggestion. I didn't want to leave but somehow I did. I went to university: I didn't finish it because my father died in an accident, and after a year I became seriously ill. so I finished other studies: the same ones as TF, of course... I could describe 20 years of my life like this... a series of strange events. e.g. and I meet TF. We both recognize each other, no one has the courage to have a serious conversation because we don't know the term TF. We both think it's a midlife crisis (40). I'm running away because I have a partner, and besides, the age difference is not encouraging... damn it, I still don't know why I needed this meeting. I have learned some lessons and I am trying to implement them, but it is not easy when you are looking for a new job under stress after something like a TF meeting. It took me half a year to regain balance. I would like to believe that all these traumas were FOR SOMETHING.
I’ve been doing all that work for two months and still wake up with the first thing I think of is her. I wish I’d of been able to be calmer and connect again before I pushed her away and now I’ve begged and texted from unknown numbers and got myself looking so crazy I hope it’s not too late. I know she felt this fire I know it couldn’t be all in my head.
Thank you so much for this video Alexx! I’ve spend years fantasizing the next opportunities to meet up with my “twin”.
I can see it’s the mind’s way of taking me out of the Now moment and projecting future scenarios because there’s a discontentment of my current situation. It made me feel the fantasies of my “twin” is bringing me closer to him…but I’ve learned the truth is that, it is keeping me further away from him. He can only show up in my current reality and not in my head.
Each time the mind throws me into the fantasies, I have to remind myself to come back to the now through the help of meditation.
It feels like I have to withdraw myself from an addiction. I can see that it’s more of in love with “being in love” and not the actual person.
I had to come to a place that I’m ok with letting this person go and be ok if he is not my twin. It’s a win-win situation, because I will make space for my real twin to come into my life.
Have you heard of the term Limerence? Probably most of us on this TF journey had been traumatized through abuses in our childhood and the fantasies of “Prince Charming “ will come and rescue us one day.
Thank you again for all that you do Alexx. I wish you all the best on your journey of expanding your consciousness.💜✨🙏
Yes, limerence is simply obsession. I talk about it in my video "Twin Flame or Obsession?" I'm glad you're doing well on your journey 🙏
What a cute haircut 😍 and the timing of this video though…🙏🏼 thank you
You are so right! You describe things so accurately and eloquently!❤
I'm glad my videos resonate with you! 🙏
I always look forward to your video. Somehow you are so comforting amidst the challenges of tf journey..
It’s because she is legit and not just repeating from the rest of the other TF channels.💜
Aww, thank you both so much; I'm so happy I can be of some help 🙏🙏
It’s taken decades for me to arrive at this clarity!!
Wow it feels so good everything coming together in a union within myself!
Coming home to my divine blueprint 😍❤️
Such a great explanation 🙏
I have been doing all the right work to tackle this without support or mentors.
The timing feels so good, right and perfect. Receiving this beautiful confirmation!
Thanks so much for the lessons
Awesome 👍🏻 practical approach ❤ rather moving away from obsessive thoughts better to watch from a distance n tap your energy rather draining.
😮😮😮 This! Video! Mentioning “ruminating”! This was like looking in the mirror and finally understand what I see! ❤❤❤ Thank you 🙏🏼 This knowledge will help me rest.
🙏Thank you soo much 🙏 It all makes sense. I'm so grateful to have found your channel, and now I'm super grateful that you telle me to leave your channel (for now). I've seen many TF channels, as you can imagine (I'm the male chaser💔), but none of them resonates with me like yours. You put things in perspective in a very honest and pure way. I'm lost and beat up inside, but I know I have to get through this.
Thanks again for your support.
You know how important this is.
I went through the whole thing of ruminating, thinking about them, even made the mistake of going to a medium who told me it was a false twin, at that point i was like oh good, that means i can get rid of it, i went through a whole lot of growth and learning, I'm at the point of pointlessness, no longer having the chasing energy, yet it still pops up in my head and i have no control over it whatsoever😅 also the pulling feeling and the punch in the gut energy feeling at times, i don't even know what to think anymore, but i'm here, i also bought your book, so i guess i'm learning😄
All we can do is learn; it doesn't matter what title you give to the person, ultimately, as long as you're growing, expanding, and learning. I appreciate your support!
I agree BUT my twin won’t leave me alone lol 😂. Once she told me what was going on(I already knew but let her bring it up) and started stacking me(showing up where I was) and we kept one other up
In 5D 😂. But I have found our connection is different because we care about one another as people too. Not just because we are tied to one another in 5 D. Last time we talked in person I told her when she needs to see me I will see her. I embraced our connection because it’s so special plus we really care about one another also we people and love one another in the 3D. But if we didn’t click so well together I would honestly hate this experience. To me it’s a creepy experience.
I don’t like this experience but I don’t totally hate it either. I dreamt about my twin flame 20 years ago. I think she hates me and she’s scared of me, mind you I’m scared of her too, for some reason? I think this is one of the best videos so far and I’ll take your advice on twin flames and give it a break. 🙏
Question: Some days out of the blue, I cannot stop thinking about this person, it's insanely intrusive. I feel intense sense of loss, of missing him, grieving & love. It takes everything I have not to reach out to him but I don't. It comes out of nowhere. Now when we were speaking he told me he thinks of me every day (unfortunately, I think of him every day too...ongoing for 25+ years), so if I'm going about my day, having a good day even and then I'm suddenly consumed with all these feelings and thoughts, is that me picking up his feelings? (and the energy and sensitivity around him has always been spot on and I've always intuitively known his past, his future & he can attest to this. But I'm asking because I thought (hoped) I put an end to it all but now all this is starting up all over again. Today I woke up fine, thankfully. Thank you.
You're most likely feeling him, yes.
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you and thank you for the quick reply.
on my opinion since i love watching twinflames advices like this channel of yours. i think it is all about our energy, our energy that we can control like while i was watching you im not obsessively thinking of my twin instead of when he pops up on my mind i just say "owh,!? u miss me? yes i missed u too" then let go... (i hope i share this with sense) been two years now on this journey and its all about self discoveries, unconditional love and self love..😊 thankYousoMuch muchLove from🇵🇭🥰
Love this
Thanks for popping up in my world! Great share. So now I now it's a 5D thinking feeling connecting
No I am not exactly miserable but the feelings Re damn intense at times (a lot of the times)...so much so that even though you "know" that you are being prepared for the right time to answer your higher calling (which I am),
...at the same time, that does bring up the thought of your other self and your beautiful life serving mankind together while in union.
Isn't this also chaser energy? (I am aware it's a mind question) 😂 and thank you
Hi! Glad you made your way over to my channel, and thank you for watching! You may want to watch a few of my videos, because I speak on Twin Flames very differently than other teachers. I would start with "The Purpose of Twin Flames," "Twin Flame 'Stages,'" and "What is Twin Flame Union Like (in the 3D) and (in the 5D)."
Im connected with my other self and still watching videos. The thinking and wonder won't end my people. I am mostly in balance, and also obssessed. You will be able to flow in and out of the two states. We are energy workers. Here for study like a boot camp or PhD dissertation..
You are so amazing. ❤ Thank you for speaking to us about this.
Thank you for taking the time to watch 🙂
You are a precious jewel of soul wisdom and blessed with a rare ability to communicate this! Thank you from the bottom om my heart…perhaps I can navigate this after all 🙏🙏🙏
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I think I need a mental evaluation thinking obsessively about him isn't normal.
You're doing great! No need to criticize your Ego when it's just trying to figure out what's going on.
I am happy to see this video. I was doing well not thinking about him. He would cross my mind occasionally, but not that often. Now I am thinking about him more. I am also feeling anxious for no reason. This anxiety is something new, after being peaceful for quite a while.
It's the planets!
@@wearethesamenergy Thanks.😊
It's just crazy when i feel i am more peaceful,the thoughts and the energy is almost gone ..but it just hits me hard that i can't breathe..
Thank you for this! ✌️
I am revisiting this older video. Although I feel neutral now, my twin is still on my mind. Not as much as before, but he's there. I have decided to take a break from twin flames. My spiritual journey takes a lot of my time. Healing core wounds is sometimes a challenge, especially the symptoms of lack and limitation. I am going to stop watching anything on twin flames. That should help. 💕🙏
Thank you very much !!
To paraphrase the Tao te Ching, Controling a relationship is like frying a small fish; you will ruin it with too much poking.
Thank you so much for this video. I'm so glad i clicked on it. Feels a lot lighter after hearing you ❤️ much love to you
I'm glad it resonated!
So …. You are the best … i have seen dozen of information.. yours is short and to the point. Thank you for this!❤❤❤
I cut mine out of my mind and then bam he contacted me and I’m right back to obsessing - I don’t want it
Ok, so. I'm at a stage where I don't think about my twin anymore (no online stalking, no tarot readings) and just want to go about my day. But I still very often feel our "5D energy". It's like I think about myself and I suddenly feel really turned on. Or I have a random thought and my energy really starts rising and I can just feel that we are connected in that moment. It happens a lot, like multiple times a day.
I never know which thought will trigger "our connection", but I feel like in these moments, all my thoughts are suddenly visible to him. This causes an anxiety sometimes as my twin is not my friend. He is my colleague and superior. We are both also married to others.
So naturally I don't want to be an open book to him. The reason why this "thought transfer" often happens is because as our energetic frequency starts to rise - I get a rush of thoughts in my head. I sometimes even worry that my thoughts are disturbing him. Perhaps he wants to do his work or be with his family or whatever and here I am, thinking about some embarassing body issue or some illness or whatever random shit that goesn't get out of my head. But I don't want to share with my boss!!!
I have been on the TFJ for 3 years, and I thought I have managed to heal most of my triggers, yet, there are still times when I find our connectedness annoying and just want my peace. I feel like I am going aroind in loops.
Is this normal? How do I cope with TF telepathy anxiety? Any help is appreciated.
Thank you! 🙏🏼 this was insightful
I'm glad it resonated!
This was the video I needed today!❤
So glad it resonated!
Thank you so much. This was very helpful.❤
Mam your each word are like guidance for me & Thank you for sending high vibration to me at the last of video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I stopped all of that and it still hasn’t stopped
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Thank you! I really needed that
Do you have a vid how to stop wanting DM and relationship with me especially after inter course?im so badly struggling with this,every time i cry cause think how he can be such a open towards me and telling me through his eyes he has love for me and then acting like nothing happened…😢
OMG YES THANK YOU! FFS TY, TY THANK GOD! THANK YOU. I needed this video.
I heard there is something called cord cutting to terminate your soul contract with your twin flame? How does it work??
"How to Break the Twin Flame Bond" in my Twin Flame playlist. But you do not have a "Soul contract" with a Twin.
Instead of calling them twin flame, let's call them your other self because your twin flame is you and what you are is soul..
That would be a great music lyric!
I needed this
I'm glad it resonated!
You know it’s real when she says stop watching her stuff lmaooo thanks!
Alexx, I hope one day you understand how much I appreciate your videos.
You and I both know I need Ego work, and I AM tired. Going to put today’s advice to work. Starting vacation tomorrow with the FAM, so I think I will try out the Cacao ceremony as a good way to start things off. No excuses now.
Your messages always hit me square in the nose. That’s why I appreciate them so much.
Keep being awesome and proud of the work you have done.
PS-🤞🤞🤞 Your book is still in the works!! I’m buying the first one once it comes out. 😆😆💯
-The Universe
Have a beautiful vacation, and let me know how the cacao ceremony goes!
Omg I ran into ex after 4 years of not seeing her, she ask if I wanted to walk with her not once but twice has she was in her car on. A country lane. I said no im almost done here maybe I see u next time. Anyways I couldn't stop thinking about her🙄 then my feelings where starting to act all weird has I thought we ok by now but is it possible she manifested me has I had no control over body 1 of the nights, like aching, being upset, desire, being happy even talking to her etc. I thought jeez has someone broken into my house and put cocanie in my coffee😲. That was so powerful it freeked me out and thought shit man I need a shrink/councillor to speak too.
I feel like I've lost my peace.
Id rather her run me over with her car than this crazy ass stuff🤕
Love you thank you so much 🙏🏻♥️♥️
This is the 2nd time that we broke up .and after the first time all I wanted it growth , time to reflect and self love . After months of seeing different psychics in 4months part to be exact . they’ve confirmed why I can’t let go of that person. She said that while we were apart all she could think is me and we even meet when we dated other people. and couldn’t explain the energy pull. I didn’t believe in this whole thing of twin flame , but here we are again and all I see is 11:11,12:12,3:33,4:44 when I stare at my wrist watch or my phone ,all the freakin time . All I do is growth work and this time I broke off things cause she was in her ego too many times . And I can feel her which is insane but not really since we’re all made of energy and vibrates on frequencies . I did cutting court ceremonies four times from the same person that everybody said that he helped him and guess what happened I was drawn to her even more. I believe and I’m attracting now instead of chasing/running from her
Wow! You are so honest! This is actually very true. I have to stop watching all the related videos etc. I have been in a no-contact zone with my TF for the past three years. He is married now. The TF journey for me had been a roller-coaster ride for 9 years plus 3 years of separation. I do meditate and invest in self-love and self-care. I try my best not to think about him, not by consciously forcing it, but it happens organically. However, as you mentioned, his memories do flash and linger during my work routine or daily chores. I am way better now than I was, but I want to eliminate these thoughts. I pray to the Universe to send me someone who can be the love of my life, someone new who can make me feel loved.
Any updates?
@@jasmineg.4878 well! None. Im still working on myself, keeping busy and finding happiness in all the things I have in hand. Honestly, i feel like I don’t crave him anymore. It’s not that I don’t miss him, but this missing him is a different feeling that sways away. There is no response from him so far. But, I guess deep down I still want him to contact me. Let’s see!
You are so right on!!
But they're always there. Even inside you, so it's everyday.
My twins birthday is in a few days, and lately I have been bombarded with thoughts about her. It almost feels like I am being tortured. I don't know what to do. I feel stuck & I feel like I am going crazy. I want to be with her but I am overwhelmed with the amount of "work" that it requires
I talk about this in #5 of my video "Choosing a Soulmate Over a Twin Flame"
I have still a question... Would you consider it ok to regard your running twin as your happy thought? As a sort of reinforcement of self love? I can get in a state where I am truly grateful that I have deeply connected with her. Enough to find energy in the connection for the rest of my life. Hmm, I guess you basically answered that question in your last sentence of the video. I suppose it is ok, as long as we stay self-centered, right?
I appreciate these tips! I’m fairly certain I’ve found my twin flame, and we are currently in separation. I know that I’m taking in extreme amounts of information watching all of this, but it’s nice to know I’m not doing too much yet, seeing as it’s my first separation and I’m just now learning about all of this. I can definitely see where ego is getting involved here, as I’m desperately seeking answers and guidance. I think I’ll take a break soon, as I’m definitely feeling overwhelmed. Do you have a video about meditation or suggestions on that?
Suggestions on meditation?
As the Chaser, decidedly giving up all chasing, do I literally look down and pretend to ignore if I'm still in a situation where I have to walk past my Twin (Runner) several times per week? And btw, they are sometimes completely ignoring me and sometimes waving, smiling...
How can we tell the difference between obsessive rumination and when we’re thinking of them because they’ve sent us energy? I’ve recently met my TF (a few months now) and the connection is getting stronger. Meeting him has catapulted me into a profound awakening. Not only have I been healing my inner wounds, I’m starting to even develop the clairvoyance and clairaudience (within the last week) and my sharp intuition is even stronger now. For the most part he’ll pop up while I’m going about my day, I feel him we communicate - and then the day goes on. Until he crosses my mind again. The days I think of him less, i genuinely feel that he’s probably so occupied with his day he doesn’t even have the time to think; let alone think of me. But when his day is a little more chill, he’s back with a vengeance. I watch a lot of these videos and tarot from certain readers because this is my first time going through this experience and I want to learn about it. But I really don’t know if I think of him a lot because of the energy he’s sending me, or if I’m ruminating… I also feel like I think of him a lot - because I feel like he’s always around. Not only can I feel him in my heart, I’m always expecting to turn my head and see him somewhere. any insights?
You can watch my videos "Twin Flame or Obsession?" and "Signs of Twin Flame Connection (During Separation)" and those should help you out.
@@wearethesamenergyOkay awesome! I’ll check the first one out, I’ve watched the second already :)
Thanks for your work.
Can you make a video about why you feel your twin flames presence/energy inside of you random times that last for like a minute or so… does it mean they are thinking of you or just a reminder about them 🙄?
"Signs of Twin Flame Connection (During Separation)"
How can I not only stop thinking about them and not only detach myself from them but also move on without them???? I’m actually at the point in my life where I want this person to live a long happy life because I always think about them but I just want to be single and live my best life because I’m ready to grow on my own.. I don’t know if this is possible but it just makes me feel like I’m ocd about our “future” and I even manifested him coming to my apartment (he was dropping off a package) yesterday but then as soon as I saw him I ran away 😂 I hope he didn’t see me
I have a series on my website called "Non-Attachment and Union" that you may like
@@wearethesamenergy thank you so much I just saw this comment it’s starting to become less of a “burden” but I’m going to check it out
If the runner reaches out to only say Merry Christmas or to check on me is it ok to respond or does that affect the learning process of the separation?
If you're not responding simply because you think it's teaching them a lesson, you're still in Chaser mode. If you want to respond, then respond! 🙂
Thank you!
Love love love you
What does it mean when the pulling feeling and obsessive thoughts stop? I sent him your book and ever since I have not wanted to watch TF videos or tarot readings and I feel so much lighter and freer. Does that mean I have done the work to calm my ego down or could it also be that he read your book and is starting to understand the connection as well? Is it just a lull and it will ramp up again sometime? I'm enjoying the sense of relief I feel right now. Thank you again for all your helpful videos! :)
Synchronicities and angel numbers seem to have stopped too. Now that I think of it, it all seemed to stop after I read your book so maybe it was that that helped me calm down and just accept that we're always connected!
I truly don't know...you'll just have to wait and see what your Ego does! But I appreciate the book support!
@@wearethesamenergy You're welcome! After I sent him my copy I ordered another for myself because I realized I wanted one to reference whenever I needed a little support. :)
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Thank you so much💐💐💐
Thank yoy so much!🙏
Is it normal that i don't feel connection or love for him after 5 years of being madly in love
I'm confused would you clarify this feelings?
He was a Karmic relationship
@@wearethesamenergy thanks for your attention 🙏❤️
I wish you were my twin hehe
Now I want French Fries! 😂
Is my counterpart feeling the same? Am I in his head as much as he is in mine?
It's really exhausting not being able to willingly let him go. I stuck in this situation already since 2019.
It depends on what member of the Soul Family they are
Can you please explain how long the separation lasts
It's different for each journey
I dont have these obsessive thoughts about my twin, what does that mean? I am questioning now, if I am on this journey even? is that okay to feel?
You never have to ask anyone if what you feel is okay! Everything you feel is always correct and valid because you feel it. I would suggest watching my videos "What is the Soul Family (Part I and II)"
What if I show symptoms of all 3?
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Now i want french fries... and mytwin too 😅
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I do not have a Twinflame.(whatever that means). I am however married, So why are all these unwanted videos keep popping up all of a sudden in our TH-cam feeds? Does my partner have a Twinflame?
Hmm, I have no idea. But I do not only talk about Twin Flames, so if you watch any spiritual content, that's probably why.
I'm on my 3rd Twin flame 😂 maybe the 4th one will work. 🎉
I'm really upset right now.
I'm sorry, girl, I'm sending you my best and highest vibrations. You've got this!
I'm so tired, please tell me what is the point of these healings, karma of the race and all kinds of wounds? are they any point?
Maybe read my book?
@@wearethesamenergyMaybe when I have money to buy it for now, these coaches have exhausted me
Totally get that!
I dont want to feel when hes having sex with someone else...💔
The most important thing is to first understand that “Twin Flame” concept is a man made (mind made) thing! second is you’ll observe the obsession as a normal natural phenomenon that needs professional care and believe me if take some modern medicines you’ll completely get out of obsessive compulsive behavior and from this ground you can start caring for yourself day by day. thank me later 😊
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I’m so tired of his energy distracting me…I miss him disgustingly
Im trying to push him away I told him to loose my number…I hurt myself 😢
I just want to stop obsessively thinking about him all day long. And there's this considerable gap between us. I want to forget him completely
Thank you, Alexx. That's all I needed to hear.
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I know she's obsessing over me by constantly stalking my Facebook