Finally, someone gets it. It's impossible to express to anyone I know what I'm going through. They think I'm just being overdramatic. I even have physical pain in my stomach area and horrible migraines when I'm not near my twin flame.
I have pain in chest, stomach and sometimes in my throat. I cry in an unexpected time that I have to run to bathroom before people see me. I’m crying now while I’m writing this reply message.
When im driving toward my twin i get lighter and exited when i turn off and head the other way its physically painful..in my chest. I get heavier and sadder.
It is obsessive. First thought in the morning. Last thing at night. It’s been over 8 years. I still wake up and cry sometimes. I have his number again after 5 months because he called me..... texted me. After blocking me 5 months ago !!! I listen to his voice. I’m a freak. Why else does he keep coming back. Even though he keeps coming back I do doubt. Then here he comes again. When I cry it’s the end of the world. This pain never fades never goes away ever !!!! Over and over !!! He is the best . The best. The most beautiful brat ever !!!! It never stops.....
Yes, it is something so difficult to explain. It's like a small dot in the middle of my brain that just won't go away. It's there all the time. And I think that is what makes it stressful, the fact that no matter how hard I try to take that person out of my head, out of my thoughts, it seems impossible. For the past few months, I primarily try to focus on myself, on my wellbeing, and whatever happens next, whether it's good or bad, I trust the universe knows best.
Yes, you've described it perfectly. This is why its isn't healthy to deal with this alone. You should seek people who have gone through it and know the answers, that way you won't be mislead.
Lol! I laughed through this whole vid! The obsessive thinking is ridiculous Kurt! Lol wow ... Yup... thx for the advice! Loved the vid! I have to stop spying on his social media and stop watching these tarot vids bc it is not making the situation any better... It's making me think about him even more to the point where I can’t work or sleep... It's like my mind is going insane. I even screamed one day ” Get the fuck outta my mind!” haha.... yeah, it sucks...
Not being able to share with other humans adds to the pain and loneliness we are exposed too This whole thing feels like a curse. i just want my old life back. Thats all
@@danielvasquez8117 He has been doing similar with a " friend" of mine. Cruelly treating me like a joke. People that listen to other readers have told me that he is not my twin because a twin would never actually try to hurt me. That doesn't set well with me due to I have had every single sign of him being a twin. He has been cruel. I actually started to believe that I was the karmic and hanging out in a place that I should not be.
You just explained my day in life 😂🙄🙄🤦♀️ It’s crazy how one person can have you all bonkers! It’s stupid and painful and I’m going to fix it! Power Of Now here I come! Thanks a lot kurt 💯💯❤️
Either you’re dreaming about them or thinking about them. It is out of control you can’t function you can’t do simple things like eating or drinking water. Thank you for this video only your twin flame videos work. I even thought about him during a thoughtless awareness meditation. Lmaooooo “hes effing her” 😂 you’re hilarious those are my thoughts exactly
Thank you for this message Kurt ❤️ just to have someone truly understand this pain is so comforting. After 3 years I feel like I'm about to lose my mind.
I just started the program last week, feeling better… but there has been days that I still cry. I have truly said while crying that I wished I had never met him.
Another great video Kurt, please make more videos about getting out of your mind, dealing with painful thoughts and attachment or non attachment, I'm really struggling with this right now, your video came in perfect divine timing! Much love to you and your Twin
I constantly speak "I detach from my twinflame" then breath in detachment, release attachment 11 times. I feel relaxed. I then say everything I forgive myself for. Accepting the illusions, ignored red flags, getting mad at people who warned me, accepting I allowed myself to be hurt. Forgive yourself 1st
How do i detach ...I'm really stuck and I've seen the red flags I don't know whst to do. I keep thinking walk away till you ate happy with your life and you aren't obsessively thinking about them..then i panic and think..k then they will be with done one.. else...what do I do???!!!I'm on the edge!!!
Omg I am so glad I found this video!!! I swear I thought I was loosing my mind. Not saying it's good to know its normal, but it's good to know its normal. 😐
6 months now and this journey is absolutely intense I thought I was going crazy like I have to talk to him everyday and I haven’t seen him in forever and I feel like I can’t function without him and I was always productive and now I’m not anymore
This is super helpful. Thank you very much, Kurt! 💖 I let my twin flame go because we are one. We are one with thw Universe and what is meant to be will be.
I picked out some self help books about a month ago right before I realized I was on a TF journey of my own, and one of the books I picked up was The Power of Now. I haven’t gotten around to reading it because I’ve been going through my Dark Night of the Soul 😓 but I will be sure to force myself to start reading it today. These videos have been so helpful, thank you so much
I have suffered and suffered and suffereeeddd like i have never had in 25 years of my life. The first time i experienced it. Everyone thought its impossible to go crazy over a random guy i met 2 months ago and i am being dramatic or i am lunatic. But i know i am not and these feeling wese true. I am healed and healing more.
Anytime I get in my mind I'm coming to you. You are the FIRST person that helped me to calm down lol. WE GOT THIS ! Lol Dont forget to breathe and forget about outcome!
I am a family counselor and I studied psychology. Nothing similar ever happened to me. What you described in that video of the dark night happened to me as is. Now, although we communicate from time to time, since he began to tell me to feel something strange with me, it is to focus on myself, in the criteria of the power of now they make me feel full. But it's true, NOBODY understands you AT ALL.
It's been 3 and half yrs..he is not around in my life but omnipresent in my head all the time...he got married and I pray for all his goodness... But I still have him around me in my mind all the time..Your videos are helping me see a new perspective of the twin flame thingy and I hope I will at least stop making myself suffer soon
If he married with someone else how come he's your twin flame? Or is that mean you do not make your spiritual calling successfully? Because if the person is my twin flame, "i don't see the reason why not to be with the one who was created to be with me". Or maybe i have a bad understanding about it!
I'm really glad there are so many that can relate to what i go through. I've been experiencing this for over 5 years.... I wonder how I'm not in a mental hospital by now.
Vibes for me it's 8 years....😪 I am wondering the same thing...the worst thing is that I can't talk to anyone about it,not even him which is hurting me the most...😪 But...patience..and we have to align with our soul...be who we are..go within and remember the core of who we are..in the end TF is other half of you,so "they" are always "with" you,no matter what is going on on the outside,we just have to realize there is no separation... Stay strong,you can do it💯🙌
I love the analogy that’s it’s the best drug you ever had. Your brain is like “where are they, you know you need the next fix!” Crazy. I’m going to read that book now!
It’s absolute torture. You feel like a piece of you is missing. You get anxious especially knowing their isn’t anything you can do about them coming back. This is way worse than my break up from a 7 year relationship. And I’ve only knowing my twin flame for a lil over a year. Had a physical relationship for 3 months and now he’s gone and moved on to someone else. I hate this feeling. And I’m not someone who usually pines over someone who doesn’t want me. But this guy is so different. It does feel like an addiction and I don’t get addicted to guys. I’ve never said out loud that I want a guy but with my TF I keep saying it. It’s so not healthy and I hate that I can’t control it. I’ve prayed for it to stop, but it won’t! I feel like I’m going crazy!
You are are so funny... just that helps to make all this easier. I have accepted it is what it is. With or without him i have unconditional love fo rhim.. and I let it go, concentrating each present moment on me :) Thanks !
stop obsessive thinking, oh I can say that the thought towards the TF is extremely reduced thanks to the reading of the book The Power of Now. Thanks brother Kurt!
"HE'S FUCKING HER?!" 😂😂 That took me out. I really have had several good laughs while on this journey. Most out of my soul watching me have epiphanies about what's real but some out of how absolutely ridiculous this journey is sometimes 😂
This is nuts that this video appeared randomly after a day which I was thinking so much about 1 who may be my TF. It's all positive. But I needed to chill out !! Thank you so much
It's been four months since the breakup. DNOTS was extremely painful, even though I saw the breakup coming and began to prepare for it months earlier. The obsessive thinking continued for awhile. I still have thoughts a great part of the time, but not obsessively. I am doing the work: meditating, Eckhardt Tolle, etc. For me, the thoughts have served a purpose. Over time, I have processed the "relationship", and realize I don't want my other self in my life. It's just too much trouble, and we're both too old for this. I will not be his friend (what he has always wanted). I want him out of my life . I really hoped he isn't a twin flame, but with 24 similarities, he's something. He has an emotional disorder which prevents normal relationships. I wish him well with his new love. A soulmate would probably work better for me. Your videos have helped with this " other self" thing. I worked as a social worker/therapist before retirement. I know that people are what they are unless they desire to change. I don't think he is motivated to change. NC at first, now radio silence.
Okay I did it, after watching your vids for like a week now I did what you said and started the power of NOW. I didn’t want to read it but there is audiobooks on TH-cam AND Spotify which is amazing!! I’ve been listening to it for two days now and the trajectory of my life has changed forever. Wow I am in love with this new knowledge!! Thank you
Thank you 😁, this is it. This is some good sh*t BEST way of explaining everything. I felt like you were describing me when you were explaining the DRAMATIC OBSESSIVE OVERTHINKING...luckily I feel I'm subsiding now... BEST VIDEOS EVER!!! THANK YOU KURT🥰 Twinflame Rule! 😘 haha🤣
Not always bad thoughts but always thoughts. Hit the nail on the head its insane hahaha. I for sure need to practice more. Do you really miss him right now? You're in the middle of skydiving... I doubt it hahaha 😂
I developed an obsession with playing sad songs over and over....I was in a leadership program called ILP....meeting my twin flame during it a d I couldn't concentrate for the life of me then didn't complete program. I can't stop thinking about him still. I'm like desperately trying to get out of my mind. Yes, I will. Thank you. Yes, I know!!! Ok....acceptance.
I have recently come out of DNOTS and I don't think there was any way possible to shift attention off of my suffering. I can now meditate and read and do all the things but not then...I was completely consumed by my misery.
I've been dealing with the twinflame bullshit for 7 years now. Took me about 3 years to even figure out what it was. I've had a soulmate after the twinflame. took about a year to fully move from her, but the twinflame well that seems to never go away. I no longer live in the past I've done a 180 on my self. Am very fit and active and healthy. I'm stable and can maintain relationship and jobs and I have a much better understanding for love, acceptance and understanding of people. I've became completely fine with being alone, but for some reason the thought of her and the pain in my heart always remains there no matter what. Are separation was a very bad one. I destroyed her heart and stabbed her in the back because of fear of letting her to close and we have not spoken in 7 years. I understand the separation was worse for her than me I was the runner, but I felt every bit of her pain, but I believe now that she fights the soul every step of the way not wanting to come to terms with it. Witch I understand she has a husband now and to accept that the person who broke her heart and caused her the worst pain imaginable. is truly the love of her life and loves her unconditional is a hard one to accept. So I've realized there's nothing more I could do and there's nothing really that can be done this is just life now.
I did a similar thing (broke his heart and ran from him 24 years ago but I married another man instead). I was the runner. In 2018 I travelled across the whole globe to see him again (for the first time in 16 years, we had not spoken for all that time). He never married. But he could not come to terms that the person who had broken his heart and caused him immense suffering was the one who loves him unconditionally ...
Omg 💯💯💯 and the worst part is that people think we can just shut these thoughts like turning off a lamp. That shit pisses me off. I’ve been with this 17 months. But I vow I going to make it out and align with my soul and come together with my Twin Flame. And be each other’s inner peace bliss and beautiful drug. Lol
Just stop the obsessive thinking and I'll be happy. I don't even care anymore. I feel like a damn crazy person. Burst into tears and cry from my soul for a reason I do not understand then go back into think, think, think.. can't send to detach
Hi Kurt! I love your videos because they scientifically make so much sense as compared to any other coach out there. It's request can you make a video about how to consistently stick to detachment from the physical person and focusing on spiritual growth? I keep fluctuating at times.
when i first met him (and made him freak out), i couldn't sleep at night for an entire year, and basically just passed out from exhaustion in the middle of the night. i thought i was just being a crazy, unreasonable teenager, but while i had been strongly in love, it has never been to this extent. years later i found out about telepathic and energetic connections, and now i kinda get what happened there... now he pops up on my mind, but i feel rather tranquil about it all, like "ok, it makes sense that he's in here way too often". it would be nice to reunite, talk and exchange experiences together, and there's a bit of longing at times, but nothing too shaking. somehow knowing this happened to a lot of people helps making it easier to accept?
prosie2011 I’m embarrassed to admit I bought it a couple weeks ago when he kept talking about it, bought both books and only read 5pages of one book lol. Ugh
I know right???? I did not know where that came from. 😳 Finally I understand this obsessive thinking. Thank you so much. 8 months, and I think it's getting better now, because I'm using some serious tools to stabilize. Getting out of my mind. I doing my spiritual exercises, meditating, observing my thoughts and reading the book. I'm learning to accept what is.
I literally thought I was crazy when I couldn't stop thinking about him. It took me awhile and I was doing good and then he sucked me back in.. now I gotta start all over... But I'm not doing it the long way again.. bout to go listen to the power of now RIGHT NOW!!!
Just find someone else. It's so refreshing to find someone who loves you back or feels like they will love you back without a lot of effort. Stop worrying about a spiritual connection and find someone to connect with physically and emotionally.
And this is what I have been praying on as of late...ugh so hard tho..hard,but doable. Wonderful video thank u for sharing these tid bits bits of info im gonna go apply it now 🙏🏾💟👌🏾
I passed through all pains heart chakra stomach pain I felt like my soul was tearing... finally I feel better my dark night was soooo painful I tried to get out of my body
That's exactly how I felt everyday for 2 years now. My buddy just asked me tonight how I was doing and my answer was.. I have a lot of noise in my head. Truth
Best medicine is to find someone else, and quickly. 😜 Meditate. Play videogames. Go out more often, Keep yourself busy. Learn to love yourself, choose yourself first. Make more friends.
it’s been a year & a few months since this obsession have started & you are so right. i definitely need to accept that we are not together right now but eventually we will be once i’ve healed & stepped fully into my power. thank you for the book recommendation.
Took me too years to calm down.. You will always think they will be there but now not as painful or as bad or good etc.. Just is.. And it goes down too.. But as you surrender ultimately grow more.. They subsides.. Detachment is.. No expectations in any way shape form.. But that little nudge the presence will always there though not in obsessive.. Ways..
Finally!I get a group that gets me.at first I thought this intense feeling is because it's first love, dating 6mnths ,break up!n wait for it... let's get back together and pride came in and before I knew it.i am acting crazy, stalking him,texting him nonstop.when he doesn't respond I go crazy,tell everyone about us to anyone that cares to listen,over time,missing him crying all night.rebounding him, getting better for days n falls back, texting calling n trying to convince him am not crazy or obsessed.am in the internet for answers,gets better n then back to the cycle. For those that are Catholics I did novena guys,praying to get over him,and the pain you feel in your heart,you can't breathe ,eat and he moves on without you,like you were nothing,how crazy is that??n you start to wonder did I imagine us being happy together?am I crazy??why can't I move past this,7yrs people,just revolving around one person feeling like a mess.until 2021 when I started my spiritual journey and it feels great.
5 years now!! Even trying to be with some one else it’s terrible!! Because you can’t be in a nice relationship because my tf comes back over and over!!! But you reach the point when you surrender and accept that you are already together at the energy level. And start enjoying the present with love and gratefulness every day. Because the present day it’s really a 🎁 present. And it’s all about you!!! All about the journey of your reality. ✨✨✨✨💫☺️
20 years...... It's like be here now, she here now.? Be her now? I'm here now 😊 she's here too ... But not really. BUT REALLY.... SO AAAAAARGH still here now. It is what it is.... I love her 😍 dammit😒♥️☺️
Only been 5 weeks I just want to stop the obsessive thinking I don’t need her to come to me I just want it to stop so I can enjoy life completely, but I don’t want to be a spiritual guru like tolle 😞
Been 18 years since dnos. I'm peaceful and accepting of the situation. I read P of Now back then/last month, and Conversations with God back then, Samadhi recently. Am aware my mind isn't me. Ready for the OT to be done. Have never focused on an outcome but am ready to be done.
Here’s how I know this is different than all the others. My 3 past exes cheated on me. And I was heartbroken and mad and wondered what is wrong with me?? I split with my guy and even though he told me he was seeing a girl that we both know. It bothered me. But I have this sense of. It won’t last. We’re meant to be. We’ve been in no contact. I feel like I gave him his space to figure it out. Do what he feels he must without any contact from me. But I have a knowing that we are meant to be. This is strange to me
Finally, someone gets it. It's impossible to express to anyone I know what I'm going through. They think I'm just being overdramatic. I even have physical pain in my stomach area and horrible migraines when I'm not near my twin flame.
Same, I've been getting nausea and throwing up. Nobody understands and everyone's against it. No help, not even my mom.
I have pain in chest, stomach and sometimes in my throat. I cry in an unexpected time that I have to run to bathroom before people see me. I’m crying now while I’m writing this reply message.
I feel pain too ..
When im driving toward my twin i get lighter and exited when i turn off and head the other way its physically painful..in my chest. I get heavier and sadder.
Omg, Me too! I never had migraines before and my stomach hurt as well. I can’t wrap my head around it all. Feel like am on an island.
It is obsessive. First thought in the morning. Last thing at night. It’s been over 8 years. I still wake up and cry sometimes. I have his number again after 5 months because he called me..... texted me. After blocking me 5 months ago !!! I listen to his voice. I’m a freak. Why else does he keep coming back. Even though he keeps coming back I do doubt. Then here he comes again. When I cry it’s the end of the world. This pain never fades never goes away ever !!!! Over and over !!! He is the best . The best. The most beautiful brat ever !!!! It never stops.....
Get help
I get it. I’m always thinking of him even though I don’t want to anymore. I feel like a crazy person.
Yes, it is something so difficult to explain. It's like a small dot in the middle of my brain that just won't go away. It's there all the time. And I think that is what makes it stressful, the fact that no matter how hard I try to take that person out of my head, out of my thoughts, it seems impossible. For the past few months, I primarily try to focus on myself, on my wellbeing, and whatever happens next, whether it's good or bad, I trust the universe knows best.
You need to realize, your twin flame 🔥 is thinking of you.
Yes, you've described it perfectly. This is why its isn't healthy to deal with this alone. You should seek people who have gone through it and know the answers, that way you won't be mislead.
Lol! I laughed through this whole vid! The obsessive thinking is ridiculous Kurt! Lol wow ... Yup... thx for the advice! Loved the vid! I have to stop spying on his social media and stop watching these tarot vids bc it is not making the situation any better... It's making me think about him even more to the point where I can’t work or sleep... It's like my mind is going insane. I even screamed one day ” Get the fuck outta my mind!” haha.... yeah, it sucks...
Sw same here, EXACTLY
Im so had now when i saw that someone has same experience like me.
Yes!!!!! 😂🤣
Yes. It makes it worst. Delete social media and pictures. Omg.
I've screamed the same thing!!!! And"wtf is wrong w me???!!!!"
Not being able to share with other humans adds to the pain and loneliness we are exposed too
This whole thing feels like a curse. i just want my old life back. Thats all
I feel you on this. I just want to go back to before even meeting my tf
Me too. I dont even want this
4 yrs for me. Even when I think I'm detached..... It is in the very back of my brain.
3 years and counting. A new struggle every single day...
Been 10 years and I had no bloody clue. Never even heard of twin flames.
Now ever since the last 1year, Kurt has been a great help.
@@danielvasquez8117 so so much Love and Light to you. So much.
Thank you.
@@danielvasquez8117 He has been doing similar with a " friend" of mine. Cruelly treating me like a joke. People that listen to other readers have told me that he is not my twin because a twin would never actually try to hurt me. That doesn't set well with me due to I have had every single sign of him being a twin. He has been cruel. I actually started to believe that I was the karmic and hanging out in a place that I should not be.
@@danielvasquez8117 I will. Thank you so much
If so many of us experience this...we cant all be crazy!
You just explained my day in life 😂🙄🙄🤦♀️ It’s crazy how one person can have you all bonkers! It’s stupid and painful and I’m going to fix it! Power Of Now here I come! Thanks a lot kurt 💯💯❤️
Either you’re dreaming about them or thinking about them. It is out of control you can’t function you can’t do simple things like eating or drinking water. Thank you for this video only your twin flame videos work. I even thought about him during a thoughtless awareness meditation. Lmaooooo “hes effing her” 😂 you’re hilarious those are my thoughts exactly
I thought I was by myself lol
Thank you for this message Kurt ❤️ just to have someone truly understand this pain is so comforting. After 3 years I feel like I'm about to lose my mind.
I just started the program last week, feeling better… but there has been days that I still cry. I have truly said while crying that I wished I had never met him.
Yip I told him it would of been better if I never meet you!
I found your channel at the right moment.
Boy oh boy! I feel the same way!😮❤
Another great video Kurt, please make more videos about getting out of your mind, dealing with painful thoughts and attachment or non attachment, I'm really struggling with this right now, your video came in perfect divine timing! Much love to you and your Twin
I constantly speak "I detach from my twinflame" then breath in detachment, release attachment 11 times. I feel relaxed. I then say everything I forgive myself for. Accepting the illusions, ignored red flags, getting mad at people who warned me, accepting I allowed myself to be hurt. Forgive yourself 1st
How do i detach ...I'm really stuck and I've seen the red flags I don't know whst to do. I keep thinking walk away till you ate happy with your life and you aren't obsessively thinking about them..then i panic and think..k then they will be with done one.. else...what do I do???!!!I'm on the edge!!!
@@louisegroves7870 are you doing any better? Its a very challenging and painful, but the advice here is incredible. I hope you are doing ok
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This is what I'm going through at the moment. He is in my every thought, everything I do he's there. The tachometer is a perfectly analogy. 🥰
These type of videos help me a lot. Short and to the point. Keep them up Kurt! ☺️
I've been waking up to understanding how I truly am by listening to what my soul is telling me.
I’m always focusing on what he’s thinking and always scared when I think of negative things about us that he thinks of it too
Omg I am so glad I found this video!!! I swear I thought I was loosing my mind. Not saying it's good to know its normal, but it's good to know its normal. 😐
As always, a ray of sunshine to a broken heart 💖
Omg im going thru this and uts BADDDDD and i see his name in your comment (Ray) 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you Kurt. You're a wonderful person 🤗
Aww schucks 😊
You explain things so simply. I love it. And still with your own sense of humor.
6 months now and this journey is absolutely intense I thought I was going crazy like I have to talk to him everyday and I haven’t seen him in forever and I feel like I can’t function without him and I was always productive and now I’m not anymore
Amen sister ❤️
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This is super helpful. Thank you very much, Kurt! 💖 I let my twin flame go because we are one. We are one with thw Universe and what is meant to be will be.
I picked out some self help books about a month ago right before I realized I was on a TF journey of my own, and one of the books I picked up was The Power of Now. I haven’t gotten around to reading it because I’ve been going through my Dark Night of the Soul 😓 but I will be sure to force myself to start reading it today. These videos have been so helpful, thank you so much
I have suffered and suffered and suffereeeddd like i have never had in 25 years of my life. The first time i experienced it. Everyone thought its impossible to go crazy over a random guy i met 2 months ago and i am being dramatic or i am lunatic. But i know i am not and these feeling wese true. I am healed and healing more.
Thank you for explaining with that much relatability ❤
Anytime I get in my mind I'm coming to you. You are the FIRST person that helped me to calm down lol. WE GOT THIS ! Lol Dont forget to breathe and forget about outcome!
I am a family counselor and I studied psychology. Nothing similar ever happened to me. What you described in that video of the dark night happened to me as is. Now, although we communicate from time to time, since he began to tell me to feel something strange with me, it is to focus on myself, in the criteria of the power of now they make me feel full. But it's true, NOBODY understands you AT ALL.
Thank you ! You saved me! Since I enrolled in your course a couple months ago I have been feeling so much better! Thank you!
It's been 3 and half yrs..he is not around in my life but omnipresent in my head all the time...he got married and I pray for all his goodness... But I still have him around me in my mind all the time..Your videos are helping me see a new perspective of the twin flame thingy and I hope I will at least stop making myself suffer soon
Are you together with your twinflame now?:) ♡
If he married with someone else how come he's your twin flame? Or is that mean you do not make your spiritual calling successfully? Because if the person is my twin flame, "i don't see the reason why not to be with the one who was created to be with me". Or maybe i have a bad understanding about it!
Exactly it. Thank you for putting it into words. It makes me feel insane sometimes. 2 months of silence and she just crawls through my mind so often.
Kurt this how i trip over you.You lift me up from dark night of the soul...i never new about that
This is your first and best video!
I'm really glad there are so many that can relate to what i go through. I've been experiencing this for over 5 years.... I wonder how I'm not in a mental hospital by now.
Vibes for me it's 8 years....😪
I am wondering the same thing...the worst thing is that I can't talk to anyone about it,not even him which is hurting me the most...😪
But...patience..and we have to align with our soul...be who we are..go within and remember the core of who we are..in the end TF is other half of you,so "they" are always "with" you,no matter what is going on on the outside,we just have to realize there is no separation...
Stay strong,you can do it💯🙌
@@sanjasoul8788 so can you xx always happy to chat if you need xx
@@StarFireHarmony thanks dear🥰
I love the analogy that’s it’s the best drug you ever had. Your brain is like “where are they, you know you need the next fix!” Crazy. I’m going to read that book now!
Thank you for this, i literally feel like checking myself into a mental institution its getting so bad… power of now, here i come😭😭
Just get on with your lives. Love yourself first!
Shininglight Joi that would be in a normal breakup, this pain is just everywhere and it’s a very different situation.
tbh this honestly sounds like you dont know wtf about tf
Thank you, Kurt. Starting The Power of Now today.
Thank you, Kurt.❤️❤️🙏🙏 Hearing you speak is so validating. Power of Now, here I come.
It’s absolute torture. You feel like a piece of you is missing. You get anxious especially knowing their isn’t anything you can do about them coming back. This is way worse than my break up from a 7 year relationship. And I’ve only knowing my twin flame for a lil over a year. Had a physical relationship for 3 months and now he’s gone and moved on to someone else. I hate this feeling. And I’m not someone who usually pines over someone who doesn’t want me. But this guy is so different. It does feel like an addiction and I don’t get addicted to guys. I’ve never said out loud that I want a guy but with my TF I keep saying it. It’s so not healthy and I hate that I can’t control it. I’ve prayed for it to stop, but it won’t! I feel like I’m going crazy!
I get it, we are are all going through the phase unfortunately. Don't lose hope.
You are are so funny... just that helps to make all this easier. I have accepted it is what it is. With or without him i have unconditional love fo rhim.. and I let it go, concentrating each present moment on me :) Thanks !
So glad I found your channel!!!
I’m so glad I listened to your video… I don’t feel I’m crazy anymore… thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
stop obsessive thinking, oh I can say that the thought towards the TF is extremely reduced thanks to the reading of the book The Power of Now.
Thanks brother Kurt!
"HE'S FUCKING HER?!" 😂😂 That took me out. I really have had several good laughs while on this journey. Most out of my soul watching me have epiphanies about what's real but some out of how absolutely ridiculous this journey is sometimes 😂
This is nuts that this video appeared randomly after a day which I was thinking so much about 1 who may be my TF. It's all positive. But I needed to chill out !! Thank you so much
I don't do drugs drink or smoke i do my twinflame
Yeah that changed didn't it
Except for the twinflame part
Very good explanation with a tachometer example and an engine explosions every time💝🙏
It's been four months since the breakup. DNOTS was extremely painful, even though I saw the breakup coming and began to prepare for it months earlier. The obsessive thinking continued for awhile. I still have thoughts a great part of the time, but not obsessively. I am doing the work: meditating, Eckhardt Tolle, etc. For me, the thoughts have served a purpose. Over time, I have processed the "relationship", and realize I don't want my other self in my life. It's just too much trouble, and we're both too old for this. I will not be his friend (what he has always wanted). I want him out of my life . I really hoped he isn't a twin flame, but with 24 similarities, he's something. He has an emotional disorder which prevents normal relationships. I wish him well with his new love. A soulmate would probably work better for me. Your videos have helped with this " other self" thing. I worked as a social worker/therapist before retirement. I know that people are what they are unless they desire to change. I don't think he is motivated to change. NC at first, now radio silence.
Okay I did it, after watching your vids for like a week now I did what you said and started the power of NOW. I didn’t want to read it but there is audiobooks on TH-cam AND Spotify which is amazing!! I’ve been listening to it for two days now and the trajectory of my life has changed forever. Wow I am in love with this new knowledge!!
Thank you
Your awesome Kurt. Thank you. 7:35 is super funny 😂 Love your expressions
Thank you 😁, this is it. This is some good sh*t BEST way of explaining everything. I felt like you were describing me when you were explaining the DRAMATIC OBSESSIVE OVERTHINKING...luckily I feel I'm subsiding now... BEST VIDEOS EVER!!! THANK YOU KURT🥰 Twinflame Rule! 😘 haha🤣
6 years...then I found this Channel...now i feel better every day.
Become conscious of your mind! And consciousness is soul!
Not always bad thoughts but always thoughts. Hit the nail on the head its insane hahaha. I for sure need to practice more. Do you really miss him right now? You're in the middle of skydiving... I doubt it hahaha 😂
I developed an obsession with playing sad songs over and over....I was in a leadership program called ILP....meeting my twin flame during it a d I couldn't concentrate for the life of me then didn't complete program. I can't stop thinking about him still. I'm like desperately trying to get out of my mind. Yes, I will. Thank you. Yes, I know!!! Ok....acceptance.
I have recently come out of DNOTS and I don't think there was any way possible to shift attention off of my suffering. I can now meditate and read and do all the things but not then...I was completely consumed by my misery.
4 years 🙈🙈🙈 But thanks for your videos. Meditation is really helpful. ❤ And the only thing to stop it
I've been dealing with the twinflame bullshit for 7 years now. Took me about 3 years to even figure out what it was. I've had a soulmate after the twinflame. took about a year to fully move from her, but the twinflame well that seems to never go away. I no longer live in the past I've done a 180 on my self. Am very fit and active and healthy. I'm stable and can maintain relationship and jobs and I have a much better understanding for love, acceptance and understanding of people. I've became completely fine with being alone, but for some reason the thought of her and the pain in my heart always remains there no matter what. Are separation was a very bad one. I destroyed her heart and stabbed her in the back because of fear of letting her to close and we have not spoken in 7 years. I understand the separation was worse for her than me I was the runner, but I felt every bit of her pain, but I believe now that she fights the soul every step of the way not wanting to come to terms with it. Witch I understand she has a husband now and to accept that the person who broke her heart and caused her the worst pain imaginable. is truly the love of her life and loves her unconditional is a hard one to accept. So I've realized there's nothing more I could do and there's nothing really that can be done this is just life now.
I did a similar thing (broke his heart and ran from him 24 years ago but I married another man instead). I was the runner. In 2018 I travelled across the whole globe to see him again (for the first time in 16 years, we had not spoken for all that time). He never married. But he could not come to terms that the person who had broken his heart and caused him immense suffering was the one who loves him unconditionally ...
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Omg 💯💯💯 and the worst part is that people think we can just shut these thoughts like turning off a lamp. That shit pisses me off. I’ve been with this 17 months. But I vow I going to make it out and align with my soul and come together with my Twin Flame. And be each other’s inner peace bliss and beautiful drug. Lol
This is exactly what I needed today ☺
Just stop the obsessive thinking and I'll be happy. I don't even care anymore. I feel like a damn crazy person. Burst into tears and cry from my soul for a reason I do not understand then go back into think, think, think.. can't send to detach
Hey from Dublin 💙 Ireland 🇮🇪💚🍀. Sick of this 💩. Most definitely my head is 🤯24/7 😴🤕💤. Time to change that taught process! 💯
Thank you for the way you have chosen to describe this❤ You are super entertaining 😂and that lightens the pain🙏
Hi Kurt! I love your videos because they scientifically make so much sense as compared to any other coach out there. It's request can you make a video about how to consistently stick to detachment from the physical person and focusing on spiritual growth? I keep fluctuating at times.
when i first met him (and made him freak out), i couldn't sleep at night for an entire year, and basically just passed out from exhaustion in the middle of the night. i thought i was just being a crazy, unreasonable teenager, but while i had been strongly in love, it has never been to this extent. years later i found out about telepathic and energetic connections, and now i kinda get what happened there... now he pops up on my mind, but i feel rather tranquil about it all, like "ok, it makes sense that he's in here way too often". it would be nice to reunite, talk and exchange experiences together, and there's a bit of longing at times, but nothing too shaking. somehow knowing this happened to a lot of people helps making it easier to accept?
I've never experienced anything like it either. I like your insight.
I bought The Power of Now years ago....finally started reading it a few days ago 🤦♀️
prosie2011 I’m embarrassed to admit I bought it a couple weeks ago when he kept talking about it, bought both books and only read 5pages of one book lol. Ugh
It's a slow read because I'm actually trying to implement it. I spend ALL day in silence....and I have THOUSANDS of random thoughts every hour 😫
Your right...just observe and accept!!
This is so true! Lol. I just want him out of my mind. You’re speaking facts. I’m glad I decided to check some of your videos.
I know right???? I did not know where that came from. 😳 Finally I understand this obsessive thinking. Thank you so much. 8 months, and I think it's getting better now, because I'm using some serious tools to stabilize. Getting out of my mind. I doing my spiritual exercises, meditating, observing my thoughts and reading the book. I'm learning to accept what is.
I literally thought I was crazy when I couldn't stop thinking about him. It took me awhile and I was doing good and then he sucked me back in.. now I gotta start all over... But I'm not doing it the long way again.. bout to go listen to the power of now RIGHT NOW!!!
Just find someone else. It's so refreshing to find someone who loves you back or feels like they will love you back without a lot of effort. Stop worrying about a spiritual connection and find someone to connect with physically and emotionally.
And this is what I have been praying on as of late...ugh so hard tho..hard,but doable. Wonderful video thank u for sharing these tid bits bits of info im gonna go apply it now 🙏🏾💟👌🏾
Yes 1,5 jears of thinking... Meditation saved me and now I read the power of now and it's getting better.
I passed through all pains heart chakra stomach pain I felt like my soul was tearing... finally I feel better my dark night was soooo painful I tried to get out of my body
Let’s keep letting ourselves sparkle and shine
Lately you’ve really been saving me... thank you for your videos... you always calms me down.
omg i lol'd at the tachometer going round and round150x and springs flying off. great analogy.
Thank you! ❤😢😢😢😢
Dated someone else for a while the obsessive thinking diminished,then broke up with him.then the obsessive thinking and feelings came right back
That's exactly how I felt everyday for 2 years now. My buddy just asked me tonight how I was doing and my answer was.. I have a lot of noise in my head. Truth
I do feel better. Still having woopsies though. Learning slowly I'm a TF with ocd on top of it....ugh
Kristin Gallo this is me!! I swear it’s the OCD that’s killing it and what led me to find out what a twin flame is!
me toooo!!
It's been over 4years on and off for me and when I stop thinking about him he gets in touch once again
Damn!!! You weren’t lyin! Thank you! I love your page!
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Best medicine is to find someone else, and quickly. 😜 Meditate. Play videogames. Go out more often, Keep yourself busy. Learn to love yourself, choose yourself first. Make more friends.
it’s been a year & a few months since this obsession have started & you are so right. i definitely need to accept that we are not together right now but eventually we will be once i’ve healed & stepped fully into my power. thank you for the book recommendation.
Took me too years to calm down.. You will always think they will be there but now not as painful or as bad or good etc.. Just is.. And it goes down too.. But as you surrender ultimately grow more.. They subsides.. Detachment is.. No expectations in any way shape form.. But that little nudge the presence will always there though not in obsessive.. Ways..
Finally!I get a group that gets me.at first I thought this intense feeling is because it's first love, dating 6mnths ,break up!n wait for it... let's get back together and pride came in and before I knew it.i am acting crazy, stalking him,texting him nonstop.when he doesn't respond I go crazy,tell everyone about us to anyone that cares to listen,over time,missing him crying all night.rebounding him, getting better for days n falls back, texting calling n trying to convince him am not crazy or obsessed.am in the internet for answers,gets better n then back to the cycle. For those that are Catholics I did novena guys,praying to get over him,and the pain you feel in your heart,you can't breathe ,eat and he moves on without you,like you were nothing,how crazy is that??n you start to wonder did I imagine us being happy together?am I crazy??why can't I move past this,7yrs people,just revolving around one person feeling like a mess.until 2021 when I started my spiritual journey and it feels great.
5 years now!!
Even trying to be with some one else it’s terrible!!
Because you can’t be in a nice relationship because my tf comes back over and over!!!
But you reach the point when you surrender and accept that you are already together at the energy level.
And start enjoying the present with love and gratefulness every day.
Because the present day it’s really a 🎁 present.
And it’s all about you!!!
All about the journey of your reality.
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20 years...... It's like be here now, she here now.? Be her now? I'm here now 😊 she's here too ... But not really. BUT REALLY.... SO AAAAAARGH still here now. It is what it is.... I love her 😍 dammit😒♥️☺️
Great Video, everything we talked about in our session. Thank you for the reinforcement!!!!!
Only been 5 weeks I just want to stop the obsessive thinking I don’t need her to come to me I just want it to stop so I can enjoy life completely, but I don’t want to be a spiritual guru like tolle 😞
I swear once I started reading that book, it made so much sense! Being the moment helps so much!
Been 18 years since dnos. I'm peaceful and accepting of the situation. I read P of Now back then/last month, and Conversations with God back then, Samadhi recently. Am aware my mind isn't me.
Ready for the OT to be done. Have never focused on an outcome but am ready to be done.
Here’s how I know this is different than all the others. My 3 past exes cheated on me. And I was heartbroken and mad and wondered what is wrong with me?? I split with my guy and even though he told me he was seeing a girl that we both know. It bothered me. But I have this sense of. It won’t last. We’re meant to be. We’ve been in no contact. I feel like I gave him his space to figure it out. Do what he feels he must without any contact from me. But I have a knowing that we are meant to be. This is strange to me
Yes meet you I'm at EF with some old insecurities coming up that's always fun! Starting to look into Power of Now unbelievable you are right Kurt!