No need to even have the conversation...the.moment she said "I'm going away fornthe weekend with another man"...that would've cemented my choice of scorched earth...NEVER GET MARRIED.
The timeline of this is like that Doctor Who wibbly wobbly timey wimey stuff. She's going away for a weekend yet it's an entire week of investigation and Reporting and all. Then it's his house that she was in and left but she never came back to it and all. The author really needed to tighten that one up
The moment she walked out the door he should call her parents and tell them the wedding is off and why. On social media change to single and announce that the wedding is off. Change the locks, throw her crap out the door. Lastly post all the evidence online. And she had to move in with her parents because she couldn't afford her apartment? What happened to her living with the OP???
I 100% disagree with the man's ultimatum at the 7:12 point. The man has already lost her, no need to speak to her anymore. Simply state one of you is leaving THAT DAY! Issuing ultimatums at this point is just wasted words.
Is she a bonehead or what? She is clueless. I’m going to cheat and then I might come back to you. He gladly dumps her. What a cheater and she thinks nothing is wrong with it. It’s over sweetie. Get out. Don’t forget to get the ring back. Nice choice sweetie. Time to email everyone that the wedding is off and you are single again. Stay single men!!!
Okay do you want a real problem I have with the story is the timing. She went away for "the weekend" BUT is gone for a week. I'm assuming she didn't bother coming back after leaving for the weekend.
Hard to understand, but sounds like she was definitely cheating on him emotionally before that weekend and physically too? So the point of telling him that she was leaving for the weekend after sneaking around for months was what? To humiliate him?
Of course he's "JUST A FRIEND" She NEEDS to do it for "US" oh that's rich Its never "WHAT YOU THINK" Expose her betrayal to both families HER Silence speaks louder than words If he's "everything you ever wanted" than WHY do you want to go through with being a cheater. Well now you can be with as many people as you want. He was supposed to be "EVERYTHING SHE EVER WANTED" & YET she leaves & says she's "sorry" She made her choice. Ditch her. Im betting she's already sleeping with him He's HER BOSS!?! so much for "JUST A FRIEND" And now the cheating witch comes crawling back saying she made a "mistake, was confused" She wasn't confused. She knew exactly what she was doing. And now that everything is coming full circle with her affair she comes back begging
Utter Fiction. She walked out the door. He hires his PI friend who unearthed evidence and photos of his fiancee and her boss dining out spending nights together. HOW? He knew nothing till his buddy (the potential spouse) asked for his help. Sure once on the case he could follow her get pictures etc but not before! Once he had the AP's details he could and did inform the Company that the guy cheating with his fiancee was her boss and embezzling his employer. So how come it wasn't uncovered by the company till 2 or 3 weeks later and she was also fired. I'm sure once told about the affair and embezzlement they'd have moved heaven and earth to find out the truth. Not wait till be told by the ex fiancee. Even an author of fiction does research to ensure his story, plot and contact is accurate, plausible and believable!
What is it with these fictitious stories that always have these guys doing the pick me dance? Like any real guy would actually give a 304 planning to cheat on him a choice? Him ore me. Yuck. it makes my skin crawl! If there are guys out there that actually do that, they probably also make their own dresses!
SEE! See how EASY it is to break up with someone you are not married to! vs ...
Well the answer to the "situation" is the simplest that can be : Bye! Bye! Felicia!!
He dodged a missile! Go live the good life, my man!!
Oh yeah
1. Change the Locks
2. Cancel joint financial entanglements.
3. Inform everyone of her betrayal and why he cancelled the wedding.
4. Stay single in the future. They're all 304s.
Publicly expose her betrayal to her family and yours
She "told" you what she is do going forward !
No need to even have the conversation...the.moment she said "I'm going away fornthe weekend with another man"...that would've cemented my choice of scorched earth...NEVER GET MARRIED.
The timeline of this is like that Doctor Who wibbly wobbly timey wimey stuff. She's going away for a weekend yet it's an entire week of investigation and Reporting and all. Then it's his house that she was in and left but she never came back to it and all. The author really needed to tighten that one up
she goes for the weekend, and never returns? he passes the next days planning? The timeline is wrong
The moment she walked out the door he should call her parents and tell them the wedding is off and why. On social media change to single and announce that the wedding is off. Change the locks, throw her crap out the door. Lastly post all the evidence online. And she had to move in with her parents because she couldn't afford her apartment? What happened to her living with the OP???
the second he asked her "me or him, chose" he d fcked up big time. this "chosing part" should ve done the time they ve engaged.
I 100% disagree with the man's ultimatum at the 7:12 point. The man has already lost her, no need to speak to her anymore. Simply state one of you is leaving THAT DAY! Issuing ultimatums at this point is just wasted words.
He told her what would happen if she left.
Is she a bonehead or what? She is clueless. I’m going to cheat and then I might come back to you. He gladly dumps her. What a cheater and she thinks nothing is wrong with it. It’s over sweetie. Get out. Don’t forget to get the ring back. Nice choice sweetie. Time to email everyone that the wedding is off and you are single again. Stay single men!!!
Okay do you want a real problem I have with the story is the timing.
She went away for "the weekend" BUT is gone for a week.
I'm assuming she didn't bother coming back after leaving for the weekend.
Screwed up story. He telks her they're through if she leaves. They aren't married, so what's the issue?
Hard to understand, but sounds like she was definitely cheating on him emotionally before that weekend and physically too? So the point of telling him that she was leaving for the weekend after sneaking around for months was what? To humiliate him?
Of course he's "JUST A FRIEND"
She NEEDS to do it for "US" oh that's rich
Its never "WHAT YOU THINK"
Expose her betrayal to both families
HER Silence speaks louder than words
If he's "everything you ever wanted" than WHY do you want to go through with being a cheater.
Well now you can be with as many people as you want.
He was supposed to be "EVERYTHING SHE EVER WANTED" & YET she leaves & says she's "sorry"
She made her choice. Ditch her. Im betting she's already sleeping with him
He's HER BOSS!?! so much for "JUST A FRIEND"
And now the cheating witch comes crawling back saying she made a "mistake, was confused"
She wasn't confused. She knew exactly what she was doing. And now that everything is coming full circle with her affair she comes back begging
Utter Fiction.
She walked out the door. He hires his PI friend who unearthed evidence and photos of his fiancee and her boss dining out spending nights together.
HOW? He knew nothing till his buddy (the potential spouse) asked for his help.
Sure once on the case he could follow her get pictures etc but not before!
Once he had the AP's details he could and did inform the Company that the guy cheating with his fiancee was her boss and embezzling his employer.
So how come it wasn't uncovered by the company till 2 or 3 weeks later and she was also fired.
I'm sure once told about the affair and embezzlement they'd have moved heaven and earth to find out the truth. Not wait till be told by the ex fiancee.
Even an author of fiction does research to ensure his story, plot and contact is accurate, plausible and believable!
What is it with these fictitious stories that always have these guys doing the pick me dance? Like any real guy would actually give a 304 planning to cheat on him a choice? Him ore me. Yuck. it makes my skin crawl! If there are guys out there that actually do that, they probably also make their own dresses!
How stupid can these stories be grab her bags and just throw them out the door how dumb can you get