Dating/Getting Married In The Military - Is It Worth It?

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  • @OldWizard-tt5lt
    @OldWizard-tt5lt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is great material! I also like to add that couples in the military live in a sub culture. Where marriage is heavily promoted and especially with people who are away from there families are extremely vulnerable and fall in love rather quickly in a way that it almost seems irrational. I seen this to with “Tech school marriages” and divorces. My advice would be date that person through distance first to see if they can handle that if your going to make the military a long term career. Secondly I find it odd that people do so much to prepare for a wedding and NOTHING to prepare for marriage. Use the recourses the military gives you for premarital counseling. I can’t stress this enough. Everyone should Utilize pre martial counseling because no one breaks up when there in love. Also know that marriage isn’t a fairy tale. Your going to have ups and downs and highs and lows. Lastly please consider the person your going to marry and there prospects. Are they going to stay at home ? Do they have a job that’s versatile enough to find employment with PCS especially overseas location? Are they ok to handle separation/deployments ? I can go on forever but if you want to get married please do your best before you get married not to fail at it . Rant over and please look out for my podcast and this topic

  • @nylebrynxpoluza
    @nylebrynxpoluza 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I got married as an e-2 got me right out the dorms lol I’m 37 now and still married

    • @09WhitneyMarie
      @09WhitneyMarie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Brett Reed one of the few. Congrats

    • @blanco1301
      @blanco1301 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Real rare

    • @nylebrynxpoluza
      @nylebrynxpoluza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@blanco1301 almost 40 now still married 😂

    • @texan903
      @texan903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nylebrynxpoluza lol just stay married so you avert the possibility of a grey divorce.

    • @chyylee7321
      @chyylee7321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hopefully this works out for me

  • @bacmac1715
    @bacmac1715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    You just made my day in my opinion no it's a fact that you are the best air force TH-camr

    • @MartinProductions
      @MartinProductions  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      bac mac thank you ❤️

    • @bacmac1715
      @bacmac1715 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MartinProductions your welcome

  • @markh.2899
    @markh.2899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The wisdom is strong is this one ... Very sound advice, Airman Martin - you are wise beyond your years...BTW, I'm almost 3x your age..

    • @MartinProductions
      @MartinProductions  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really appreciate that!!

    • @markh.2899
      @markh.2899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MartinProductions You have been of great help to me, the parent of a son (your age) in the AF. He's at Nellis and being considered for BTZ - sorry, I'm just a very proud dad...take care!

  • @dizzydellz7438
    @dizzydellz7438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Martin I agree with you 100% a lot of new military soldiers are trying to get a bigger check and trying to get the other privledges that come with being married off post housing and etc.

  • @donniezawadski2047
    @donniezawadski2047 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Great examples here , I can't wait for the Air Force. I'm 30. Caring for my disabled brother and now I have a chance to go. #GlenMiller #USAF #LiveFree

    • @MartinProductions
      @MartinProductions  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good luck!

    • @dizzydellz7438
      @dizzydellz7438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go for it their is no time like the present alright put it like this the sooner you start the sooner your curiosity will be met. (I'm prior service Army and I'm trying to get back into the Army now)

  • @JRMcDowell
    @JRMcDowell ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with you. The person who goes into Basic "WILL CHANGE" and what you valued or accepted prior to BOOT, will have a new higher standard.

  • @carsoncasper5144
    @carsoncasper5144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow you are almost at 10,000 subs about dang time,we’ll deserved.i am proud of you and watching this channel and our community grow over the last 3 years.😀

  • @carlycapps7847
    @carlycapps7847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just enlisted, my boyfriend and I broke up very recently because we knew it wouldn’t work, and I needed to come across this video

    • @casper1374
      @casper1374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nah you just wasn’t committed

  • @BlueAbyssHH
    @BlueAbyssHH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    look at you mister fancy man with your OCP's

  • @davidhutchinson5233
    @davidhutchinson5233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good sage advice. When I joined the Marines in 88 we started with around 80-85 guys. We ended up at graduation with bout 40. Not all were kicked out, some just needed additional training, failed rifle range, failed swim qual, failed PT, etc.

  • @Littlentern
    @Littlentern 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aww I love this channel. I didnt know you had merch. Just ordered a shirt.

  • @Monkeh420
    @Monkeh420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You like the new ocp's more than the abu's? I just got out of meps and now I have job counseling with my recruiter tomorrow! So excited to get this career started!

  • @carsoncasper5144
    @carsoncasper5144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I see you are back to monthly uploading.i am happy.

    • @MartinProductions
      @MartinProductions  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      A gamer jr I’m trying my friend! Make sure you watch my streams and my podcast if you want more Martin content!

    • @carsoncasper5144
      @carsoncasper5144 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Martin Productions I just watched your podcast and I enjoyed it.i am glad you are doing more and more things.very proud

  • @zachaleman5736
    @zachaleman5736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great content, really helped me with my journey to the Air Force. 👍🏽

  • @babyally15
    @babyally15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your logic about finding someone you like more as a reason to not be married right before through me for such a loop but then I had a quick reminder that your young and inexperienced so you’re speaking from that perspective so hmm I get you

    • @MartinProductions
      @MartinProductions  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Holiness Baby mhm

    • @marvicbodie69
      @marvicbodie69 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      First off Holiness: your grammar is trash.
      Based off of what I think you were trying to convey in your autistic comment, shouldn’t you ALWAYS find someone you like before you even consider marriage?? Tf?? Also, isn’t everybody inexperienced with marriage or dating initially? I’d question the individual that’s experienced dating/marriage. That’s a whole lot of red flags.

  • @lyndonlonzanida
    @lyndonlonzanida 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just stay single for your heart safety lmao

  • @sksman71
    @sksman71 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My son has the same last name @ Martin productions.He just arrived at Lackland AFB on 2/23/2021 For BMT.Hopefully there will be another Martin in the AF

  • @charleysantini
    @charleysantini 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those OCPs look brand new!! Nice. I hear it’s better to get your name tapes sewn on. I hear the Velcro looks like shit after several washes

  • @luismendezizabal7175
    @luismendezizabal7175 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Did you had any problems joining with your glasses?

    • @youngkobrah6692
      @youngkobrah6692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did I just had to get a waiver

  • @ellydestiny8105
    @ellydestiny8105 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this setup

  • @christianhenry4173
    @christianhenry4173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome.

  • @carsoncasper5144
    @carsoncasper5144 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cant wait for another video

  • @wavythesniper3877
    @wavythesniper3877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But What If You Guys Have A Child And Been Together For Years ? Whats Your Opinion On That ?

    • @MartinProductions
      @MartinProductions  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TheLifeOfQuin you do what’s best for the child. Not you

  • @FishStudiesWord
    @FishStudiesWord 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this lol. this is actually what ive been worrying about

  • @tru3o_o399
    @tru3o_o399 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad to see you succeeding man bet post more lol

  • @thelastcomment8121
    @thelastcomment8121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Me and my gf are planning to get married after I get out of tech school but we've been together 5 years this October and it will be 6 once I get out

    • @maximilianogonzalez5966
      @maximilianogonzalez5966 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Connor Winters congrats man

    • @MartinProductions
      @MartinProductions  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Connor Winters congrats! Just be careful

    • @kutariXO
      @kutariXO 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Connor Winters LOL.... GGs mate.... you’re screwed

  • @TheRealSefffire
    @TheRealSefffire 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly perfectly said! I just turned seventeen and want to join the Air Force. Recently found your channel and I definitely love your channel and I’m going to sub and check you out on insta ect. ect.

  • @ltspeirs3743
    @ltspeirs3743 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    did you sign a 4 or 6 year contract?

    • @johnsullivan186
      @johnsullivan186 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THE G.O.A.T sign a 4 year contract. 6 year is only a 2 thousand dollar bonus overall for 2 years of your life.

  • @XboxOne_IronPatriot8787
    @XboxOne_IronPatriot8787 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Havent had luck in high school (2012) to now in between jobs with the ladies. 25. Still lonely. Thats "extra"/ after BC.

  • @Mars700
    @Mars700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im watching over her in Montreal Quebec Canada Time check inn 8:30 am Saturday Morning December 26,2020 im nervous caused im getting married my us military in america..his coming soon to get me .he gota ll my ducuments ...🥰🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦👰👰👰

  • @jameskim9144
    @jameskim9144 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    just keep your hands to yourself!

  • @mirasolpino3813
    @mirasolpino3813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope I find soulmate?

  • @alibabaworldwide920
    @alibabaworldwide920 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Will you help me please

  • @kutariXO
    @kutariXO 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    FUCK. NO.