Why I'm Taking Back Control of My Life

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  • @FredsChannel
    @FredsChannel  ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @FredsChannel
    @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi guys! How are you doing? What's going on in your life? ✨
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  • @TheCountryCollectors
    @TheCountryCollectors 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey. You make some very points. We can literally be addicted to anything. It can be a lot of pressure to be consistent and doing what needs to be done every week. I hope you find your way! Hang in there!

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words! And thanks for watching 🙏🏽✨Happy New Year!

  • @TheTravelingSwiss
    @TheTravelingSwiss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video really resonated with me. It’s so easy to get caught up until one day you realize you aren’t enjoying something as much as when you started. Important to take back control and find a balance - a great reminder for a mental reset heading into the new year :)

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words! Yes it really is, and I find it very important to stop up once in a while and rethink, that’s why I wanted to share this one. And thanks for watching 🙏🏽✨Happy New Year!

  • @TravelingontheGo
    @TravelingontheGo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I totally agree with you, being controlled by the algorithm. You have to do what makes you happy and go in the direction you feel is right. So many people say you should do this or that, just do what you want to do. If something makes you happy, then you don't have to explain it to anyone (I heard that once, I love it). I like the open and honest effort

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words! I totally agree with what you wrote! And thanks for watching 🙏🏽✨wish you a very Happy New Year!

  • @Outlawes
    @Outlawes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It feels so strange to see you all wrapped up in the cold, we're so used to sunny Mexico Fred! Jaja, thanks for being so open in this video, and you really are building a beautiful community through your channel. So we're thankful that we can support you along the way.

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi there guys! Ah thank you so much guys! Haha yes here we have temperatures down to minus 13 degrees haha (makes me miss the Mexican sun in between) 😆

  • @Thorkenn
    @Thorkenn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing. It’s really not easy how to be with my self and I’ve been also some ups and down experiences in life. Now still in middle of balancing my life.. 👍👍

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching. And thanks for sharing your honest words. Balancing life is an ever going thing I think. Meditation, yoga, reading/writing etc can be great helps. Wish you a beautiful day. Thanks ✨

  • @traveladvisorak6065
    @traveladvisorak6065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sitting outside in -5degrees, I will freeze. I would love to stay in this house, away from the city. Looks great. Good to hear your thoughts. Thanks for sharing.

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha yeah it was pretty cold, but a beautiful day✨ Thank you so much 🙏🏽

  • @SaltyBeaverExplores
    @SaltyBeaverExplores 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First off your cabin is so very cute! More importantly is you message - its from the heart and so important! TH-cam channels can be all consuming and I think it is crucial that we don’t put so much pressure on ourselves. I try to post twice a week - but - I don’t berate myself if I miss a day or if I take a month off. It is important for our mental health to take a break from it. When you are inspired make videos, and when not, then don’t as it shows up in the content. I love your honesty and wish lots of success in 2022!

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah thank you so much for your sweet words, and thanks for the beautiful words too🙏🏽 Very true, and exactly would I will do too. I have another one in the making, and it’s one I’m very passionate about but I don’t know when it will be released. It will be done when it’s done. Maybe this week, maybe not before next one 🤷🏼‍♀️ Thanks and you too! ✨

  • @CarolandDerek
    @CarolandDerek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sure it will work out well. We don’t travel far some times just to the woods at the end of our road. Love your message 🙏👍

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much. Beautiful way to put it. Wish you a beautiful day ✨

  • @ruzad-therovers4647
    @ruzad-therovers4647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching🙏🏽

  • @expatchick
    @expatchick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for those words of wisdom. And for being vulnerable with us. My addiction is worry. I worry about the future and money. But I'm getting help for it so it's all going in a positive direction.

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for being honest and vulnerable with us too. Many worry about exactly this, and I find it such a shame that this is often the worry people carry for most of their life due to how the society is constructed. However I'm happy to read that it's getting better. Remember that everything happens for a reason, and if you let it flow, it will flow. Meaning you'll (always) find your way, so manifest what you want in life instead of thinking about what you don't want or are afraid of in life. Wish you all the best. Hugs 💛

    • @expatchick
      @expatchick 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for sharing this. I look forward to seeing where life takes you next.

  • @EmilyandTom
    @EmilyandTom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello lovely Fred! We have found not having a super strict uploading schedule (at the moment) really nice. We´ve found it easier to travel and actually enhoy it without the pressure of WE HAVE to get something out. We definitely need to care less about our youtube stats and just create content we´re proud of. Love your message Fred, we can´t wait to watch your journey (whatever that may look like!) :)

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing this. Happy you have found your balance and you’re enjoying your travels (it looks amazing btw)! Thanks and curious to see your journeys as well. Wish you a beautiful day. Hugs and cheers from here 🥳💛

    • @EmilyandTom
      @EmilyandTom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FredsChannel Aww thanks! It definitely feels more amazing now that we’ve let go a little bit 😌 Hugs and love from Guatemala ❤️

  • @trendingtopics7626
    @trendingtopics7626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really appreciate your courage and strength, this is a must watch video

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah thank you so much for your kinds words. Sharing is caring 💛

  • @NearBo
    @NearBo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You just got a new subscriber from Algeria 🇩🇿
    i liked so much ur house ❤️
    ur video inspired me to live in the woods among the trees
    keep it up 👍🏻 *THUMBSUP*

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome on board! Ah thank you so much, I’m really happy to hear 🙏🏽🥳

  • @StepsbyKaatje
    @StepsbyKaatje 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, I also sometimes have a feeling that TH-cam takes over my life. I normally post every Thursday, but every things that comes with it takes up so much time! So on one hand I love it, but on the other it's hard to cut down on it, cause I do want my channel to grow and build a bigger community! So I understand your reflections perfectly! So take a bit of distance and don't give yourself to much stress. It's still a hobby, so it has to be fun and not stress... Take care! Kaat

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words! This is really how I feel as well. I love creating the videos and I hope to grow a community so I (hopefully) can help and inspire many more. But I also have other projects that I have to spend my time on, so it’s really about finding a balance ☺️ I hope you’ll find your balance too ✨ Thanks for watching 🙏🏽✨wish you a very Happy New Year!

  • @laura-yu3kh
    @laura-yu3kh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lovely video. It shows courage in self-reflection. One idea (not original) that I am finally understanding and adopting is to “manage my expectations”. We actually only have control of how we respond and take action under the circumstances presented for us. These have brought me much relief and reduced rumination. I see this as a life-long endeavor that will present many opportunities to become my highest most genuine self.

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah thank you so much. Sharing is caring 💛 And thanks for sharing these beautiful words. I fully agree with you. You might be put in a situation but you (always) have the control of how you want to react to the situation, what emotions you will allow to rise up and what you will do from that. (And I also believe that every situation happens for a reason. So it might not be in your control that you suddenly find yourself in it. But you're put there for a reason - maybe as a test, lesson, challenge, a break etc. So all situations are beautiful and can be controlled, because they are all just steps on your journey to a higher vibrations). Wish you a beautiful day ✨

  • @WDWBound
    @WDWBound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fred, I really enjoyed this video and seeing you be so open with your subscribers and about your life. I think when we choose to lead a life that is a little out of the conventional, it can feel odd to be true to ourselves, but I think you're doing an amazing job! As I've gotten older, I've learned that being true to myself and my family, and what's best for us, is really all that matters!

    • @WDWBound
      @WDWBound 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can't wait to see more of your adventures - and this bundled-up Fred!

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words! Yes for me it’s very important to be true to myself, and I know that people often find my decisions odd or very surprising, but I don’t let that stop me, because I know what’s true to me. And thanks for watching 🙏🏽✨Happy New Year!

  • @arunram5628
    @arunram5628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just loved the video I watched first time and watched it again to hear your words of wisdom :). Thanks for sharing :)

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah thank you so much! Wish you a beautiful day ✨

  • @arunram5628
    @arunram5628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks a lot for those words of wisdom. You are dong a great job with all your videos. Keep posting more :)

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your sweet words! And thanks for watching 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Happy New Year!

  • @AdventuresOfATravelingDon
    @AdventuresOfATravelingDon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First off, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! This video touches home. I get you on getting lost in the algorithm with TH-cam. It can down right drive you nuts and become an addiction itself. There are many others I deal with personally. Alcohol is my biggest one. Oddly enough when I travel I drink a lot less. Because I'm driven and have goals set. Whenever I get sedentary, that's when I start to lose myself again. Thanks for doing this.

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Merry Christmas and happy new year to you too! Thank you for your kind and honest words! Turning to alcohol is often a way of escaping. So with a lot of warmth I encourage you to sit down and face what you’re escaping. It might be childhood traumas, bullying, low self esteem or something completely else, but no matter what the way to get out of the addiction is to accept & love yourself completely, forgive everyone and especially yourself and connect with the present now. I know this because when I lost my dad when I was only 16 years old I turned to parties and alcohol to escape the loss I was feeling. I was not a day drinker but I would party hard in all weekends and black out the memories. I regained control through the way I just explained. Books I’ll recommend: books from Louise Hay and “the power of now” by Eckhart Tolle. And thanks for watching 🙏🏽✨And I wish you all the best with finding your balance and self love ✨

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I suggest to start with “you can heal your life” by Louise hay

  • @leoscotiatravels
    @leoscotiatravels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really loved this video! This can really help a lot of people - myself included. After watching it, I had to watch it a second time right away. It has given me a lot to think about - as I hope to engage in re-evaluation.

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your kind words! I’m really happy to hear that it inspired you. Wish you all the best with your re-evaluation and may the new year bring you lots of happy moments and beautiful decisions! 🙏🏽✨

  • @NghiaPhamV84
    @NghiaPhamV84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great share, good experience my friend! It's really inspiring! It's hard to keep a balance but yeah, TH-cam is fun so just take it easy.

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your kind words! And thanks for watching 🙏🏽✨Happy New Year!

    • @NghiaPhamV84
      @NghiaPhamV84 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FredsChannel You're welcome! I'm here to support ^_^ Happy New Year!

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NghiaPhamV84 thanks! Happy new year! 🥳

    • @NghiaPhamV84
      @NghiaPhamV84 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FredsChannel great! How's everything now? Any big plan for this new year of 2022?

  • @TravelingontheGo
    @TravelingontheGo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another watch, I like hearing this honesty for sure - I agree with you about how and why to upload a video. Uploading one day per week, being consistent is key BUT its hard to product quality vs just getting a video out. I struggle with this a lot. I started to just enjoy the video process (editing too) and upload when I feel I created quality. I do think I will get a lot less traction on YT but I'll figure it out. I hear you about the YT algorithm controlling you, its tough. I'm trying to get like minded people in my group for motivation and comparing to in prove my process. Everyone is in an age old question, do it for you vs fit into society - determining the core values helps a tone

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for this beautiful reply! I think it's really a shame that youtube works the way it does. But I'm happy to hear that you have found your balance in it. Wish you a beautiful day ✨

  • @sshenbaga
    @sshenbaga 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A good one! Really nice video ! Thanks for sharing!

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah thank you so much! 🙏🏽

  • @asulcelnou2277
    @asulcelnou2277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, I like to see such an open person and it is good that you want to change your life

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, I appreciate 🙏🏽 And thanks for watching ✨

  • @elmaestrachavacana3142
    @elmaestrachavacana3142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi ... It seem so cold out there. Hope to experience that season since my country have only two season☺️... New friend here🖐️...

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes very cold here for the last couple of weeks. Thanks for watching! 🙏🏽

  • @Jeresean
    @Jeresean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hi supported u!

  • @veronicawu8374
    @veronicawu8374 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ciao Fred, sono Grace. Tutto bene? Sei in Denmark adesso?

    • @FredsChannel
      @FredsChannel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ciao grace! So tutto bene. So I in Denmark a ora pero marrero viaggio a Mexico. How are you all? I hadn’t seen your reply before just now because I have uploaded a new video this entire year 🙈 I’ll send you an update on WhatsApp. Wish you all the best! Hugs Fred 💛💛