THIS GUY AND I LIVE THE SAME (BE NICE LIFE).... GOT NOTHING BUT HATE FROM EVERYONE. FAMILY RELATIVES SEE YOU AS NOTHING BUT MONEY AND BETTER THAN THEM AND THEY ENVY YOU BIG TIME. HATRED WITHIN YOUR OWN FAMILY IS VERY REAL BELIEVE IT! LOVE HURTS, LOVE KILLS, LOVE STABS YOU IN THE BACK THE DEEPEST.
That’s one thing I don’t do anymore, do business with families and lend them money. Cov neeg uas txais koj nyiaj tsis them ntawd nws lub hom phiaj yeej yog txhob txwm kaus/nyiag koj tab sis tsis zoo hais tias kaus es lam hais tias txais xwb. You and your wife are too nice. When it comes to lending family money, being nice does not benefit you. It’s a good lesson for all. God bless your family.
Well, I'm just glad you had the guts and glory to tell koj niam ntxawm txiv ntxawm about them helped paid for your wedding but in return you paid them lots more! I've heard so many stories like this but yet no one answer back like you did. Kudos to you tus mes txiv tsev. Ntxhub cov neeg coj mes nyuam ntsuag los tus es expect them to owe their life time to these people. God bless you and your family, sir.
Ua ntaub ntawv kom zoo tiag tiag thaum kawg kom thiaj tsis muaj teeb meem yog koj tsis txawj ces thaum kawg koj cov nyiaj yuav rov los ua yeej ncuab rau koj ntag
Nyiaj yog yus li tsis kam txais, tsis pub los yeej tsis txhaum li os. Leej twg yuav hais yus npe qia dub los tsis ua cas zoo dua luag tiv yus os. Hlub yus tus kheej, txhob mus nyuab siab thiab xav kom luag hais zoo rau yus, txawm pub los luag yuav hais phem ces yus yeej hloov tsis tau lwm tus kom los hais zoo txog yus li os.
You finally learned something. The other thing you haven’t learned is - boasting about your richness. No body would know how much you have until you boast about it. Nobody knows, nobody would come and get money from you. Khav theeb ces kawg teeb meem xwb tiag
I'm sorry those things kept happening to you. You and your wife were too nice to them all. Too nice to even give $500 when people asked to borrow. I'm glad you spoke truth to your uncle and aunt and demanded the $ at the funeral because if you didn't get it then, then you'll never get it. So I'm proud of you for that. That's also good advice you're giving.
Tus me kwv los yog tus me tij laug. Nco ntsoiv tias tiam neej no yog hnub twg yus siv yus cov nyiaj tsis txawj tag lawm mam txais rau neeg os mog. Peb hmoob lub siab tsis zoo li koj lub nawb ntsib li koj thiab kuv lawm thiaj li nkag siab os. Kuv li ces niaj hnub niam no leej twg txais kuv nyiaj ces kuv muaj li cas muab li ntawv pub kuag rau xwb yuav ces yuav tsis yuav ces tsum lawm xwb tiag.
Muaj ib co niag neeg mas tsis paub cai thiab siab dev xwb os thaum txais mas hais zoo tabsis thaum txais tag ces ntsej lag muag dig li lawm yus tsis nug kuj tshuav yus nqi koj hais ces kev Yeeb ncuab tawm tuaj I don’t like people like that
Uhhh...if the bank won't lend them money, why should you? If you don't got money to give, don't lend. People shouldn't borrow money with no intention of paying their lender back. These are just irresponsible people who want a free payout. Live and learn.
Cov ua yus txais nyiaj rau mas siab phem tag2 hais kos them los tsis kam them tsis hais los nyiaj ntau zoo tiag mas txhob txais nyiaj rau ib tus neeg twg lis thiaj zoo xos.
Brother kev txais nyiaj ces yeej kawg tau txoj Xwm ko xwb os mog yav no tom thov Tsi txhob txais nyiaj rau leej twg ntxiv lawm os yog yus yog tus luag saib Tsi taus na
Lawv e nej yeej paub hais tias yog thaum luag tsi kam xee ces twb yog luag yuav kaus yus noj mog lawv ua li no rau kuv tus txiv wb tib yam tabsis hais tsi tau cia rau vajtswv mam los txiav txim peb lawm xwb os.
Brother, your brother in law admit his wrongdoing after he came home from jail. Your brother refused to admit that he owes you. There's a difference. Don't worry about what people say about you. You have a kind heart. People close to you used you. Thanks for sharing your heart-felt story.
Some people are so money hungry and greedy. I hate the fact that family members always pull the 'family' card so they get it easy or a discount. I don't care family or not; discount or not, I still pay full price bc I know how hard it is to run a business. I've always worked with hmoob people, they like to launder money and back stab each other. Never seen them work well together.
If you borrow money, have the decency to pay back. Some people just take and take and show no gratitude. Now a days, no matter who, no matter how much, sign a contract. And then yog sawv daws muaj kev tu siab los tsis kk. Its your hard earn money, dont allow anyone to take advantage of you.
Yup. I learn if someone asks to "borrow" money, if you're going to give them money, look at it as it'll never return it'll be a gift. But you don't have to tell them that, in hopes they will honestly pay you back. Only give what you can afford to lose. Or better yet, set a limit so you won't suffer. Like, your max to lend money is $1,000 or $500 or whatever. That way you won't lose so much. You and your wife are too nice. But your story is a good story to learn from
I agree. That’s what someone who once told me that too and they were right. Never give anyone more than what you can’t give and give it as a gift so you don’t expect it in truth if they don’t give it back.
wow bro never borrows or lend money to whoever. tell them go to banks! these is 21century that why call bank 4 peoples need lending money. peoples borrow money is greedy.
Txij hnub no mus ces leej twg tuaj txais nyiaj no ces hais rau lawv tias kuv tsis yog BANK txais nyiaj rau neeg, muaj BANK ntau2 nej mam mus txais tom BANK lawv thiaj muaj nyiaj txais rau nej no xwb mas. Txoj kev txais tsis yog ib qho zoo nawb.
txoj kev txais nyiaj mas nyuaj nyuaj hais kom luag them rov qab rau Yus li os lawv…kuv tus niam hluas txais kuv $ 8;000 nyiaj xyoo 1985 txog Tsav no twb tsis them kuv li .kuv hais do 3 zaug xwb ces yeej tsis zoo hais li lawm ,tus txais Yus nyiaj los cia li ntxub Yus li lawm thiab,tseg kiag txhob thab txais nyiaj rau leej twg li lawm nawb….
My dad was an orphan and he was the scape goat. His cousins “adopted him” just so they can use him and blame him. They never loved him genuinely but in the end he was the most successful and the only one not in the flower business or the only one not with a niam Mos ab wife. To this day his cousins still come to ask him for money and always tells him he owes them. But he learned his lesson when his youngest cousin borrowed $5k then moved to avoid paying back. Blood is not always thicker than water. Never trust even those closest to you
THIS GUY AND I LIVE THE SAME (BE NICE LIFE).... GOT NOTHING BUT HATE FROM EVERYONE. FAMILY RELATIVES SEE YOU AS NOTHING BUT MONEY AND BETTER THAN THEM AND THEY ENVY YOU BIG TIME. HATRED WITHIN YOUR OWN FAMILY IS VERY REAL BELIEVE IT! LOVE HURTS, LOVE KILLS, LOVE STABS YOU IN THE BACK THE DEEPEST.
Money is always a problem. Don't borrow money to family and friends. There are places called the bank.
Never lend money to relatives or sell anything to them. It’s best to just do business with others where there’s a contract.
Tus kwv tij, koj tsev ko yog ib tsev neeg siab lim hiam kawg. Koj tus niam ntxawm txiv ntxawm los phem kawg nkaus thiab.
They will pay you, your next life god watching them.
I learned something of great value today. One can recover their debt during funeral service.
Yes. There’s always a part of the funeral where they ask if the deceased owes any money to anyone. Or if anyone owes them money.
Hais yog tshaj. Qhov zoo ces txhob txais rau lawm xwb.
Nej ib niam txiv lub siab zoo heev tswv ntuj teb foom koob pub neb lawm txhob tu siab.
Tub ntsuag to pheej raug tej kwvtij luam los vim ntshaw2 kev hlub los ntawm kwvtij tiag. Your life same as mine.
You work so hard for your money, and they took advantage of you. Glad you're smarter now.
When it comes to money, I always tell people to go to a bank. They can do loan.
Kuv lo ntsis txoj kev no lo no the
That’s one thing I don’t do anymore, do business with families and lend them money. Cov neeg uas txais koj nyiaj tsis them ntawd nws lub hom phiaj yeej yog txhob txwm kaus/nyiag koj tab sis tsis zoo hais tias kaus es lam hais tias txais xwb.
You and your wife are too nice. When it comes to lending family money, being nice does not benefit you. It’s a good lesson for all. God bless your family.
Well, I'm just glad you had the guts and glory to tell koj niam ntxawm txiv ntxawm about them helped paid for your wedding but in return you paid them lots more! I've heard so many stories like this but yet no one answer back like you did. Kudos to you tus mes txiv tsev. Ntxhub cov neeg coj mes nyuam ntsuag los tus es expect them to owe their life time to these people. God bless you and your family, sir.
Yes I agree
Lub neej me nyuam ntsuag mas koj yeej tsa tsi tau taub hau li os ib tsoom kwv tij ntsuag
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Vim tib neeg lub siab phem thiaj muaj kev nyuaj tas npaum. Tus neeg tuaj txais koj li nyiaj, cov coob ces twb yog cov tsis txawj ua neej
I am agreed with you 100%.
Brother your stories 100% right.
I am has been wearing your shoes once for the last time.
Thanks
Peb nrog koj tu saib tshaj li
Tus txiv tsev no ua yog tshaj plaws li lawm nb thov qhuas nws
Ua tau li koj ua ko ma thiaj yog number 1 os tij aw peb ua neeg nyob txob zoo tag2 thiab yuav tau ua phem rau cov neeg ua phem rau yu thiaj nawb
Kuv ntxub neeg Siab li koj,us tseem luag hais tabsis Tsis qhov qia22 neeg hais suavdaw paub.
Don't lend more than you're willing to lose. Better yet, just don't lend. That's what banks are for.
It’s best not to do business with family, no matter what they say.
Never lend money to anyone unless you don’t need it back.
Ua ntaub ntawv kom zoo tiag tiag thaum kawg kom thiaj tsis muaj teeb meem yog koj tsis txawj ces thaum kawg koj cov nyiaj yuav rov los ua yeej ncuab rau koj ntag
Nyiaj yog yus li tsis kam txais, tsis pub los yeej tsis txhaum li os. Leej twg yuav hais yus npe qia dub los tsis ua cas zoo dua luag tiv yus os. Hlub yus tus kheej, txhob mus nyuab siab thiab xav kom luag hais zoo rau yus, txawm pub los luag yuav hais phem ces yus yeej hloov tsis tau lwm tus kom los hais zoo txog yus li os.
Yeej muaj tseeb tiag es niam no kuv thiaj li xyaum us neej siab nqaim neeg qia dub lawm xwb es thiaj li tsis mob hlwb
You finally learned something.
The other thing you haven’t learned is - boasting about your richness.
No body would know how much you have until you boast about it. Nobody knows, nobody would come and get money from you.
Khav theeb ces kawg teeb meem xwb tiag
This actually happened to me, I still waiting for that funeral.
The time will come
I'm sorry those things kept happening to you. You and your wife were too nice to them all. Too nice to even give $500 when people asked to borrow. I'm glad you spoke truth to your uncle and aunt and demanded the $ at the funeral because if you didn't get it then, then you'll never get it. So I'm proud of you for that. That's also good advice you're giving.
Hais yog tshaj plaws lawv tshuav yus nyiaj yus cav txaj muag rau lawv thiab hos txhob txais nyiaj rau luag lawm o mog
Ces lawm mus txias Tom mekas xwb os thiaj Tsis muaj teeb meem
You and your wife never learned, you guys are too nice.
It's not nice it's called hlwb tsis duav tus kheej.
@@mayalor5081 hahaha and also thinking they are too rich. Lol
Zaj kwvhuam nov zoo rau ib tsoom mloog ua kev kawm kawg li.
Mob hlwb tsaj plaw ua hau lwm dhog cov txeeb zes
Muaj tseeb lis tus nus nos hais tiag os.
There’s BANKS for people to “borrow” money from!
This is why we have banks to loan money…!
Tus me kwv los yog tus me tij laug. Nco ntsoiv tias tiam neej no yog hnub twg yus siv yus cov nyiaj tsis txawj tag lawm mam txais rau neeg os mog. Peb hmoob lub siab tsis zoo li koj lub nawb ntsib li koj thiab kuv lawm thiaj li nkag siab os. Kuv li ces niaj hnub niam no leej twg txais kuv nyiaj ces kuv muaj li cas muab li ntawv pub kuag rau xwb yuav ces yuav tsis yuav ces tsum lawm xwb tiag.
Nyiaj mus luag ntxhi rov dubtxig ces li ko tiag koj muaj ces yeej meem pub me2 rau xwb os
😂😂😂😂yog yog
Cas txoj no es yog kuv kiag li, neeg tseem tshuav kuv nqe ntau ua luaj es yuav ua cas tshe tos mus ntsib tom tsev txias li koj hais lawm xwb
You still keeping giving them money. Fuk let me borrow $5K too
💯 glad you stand your ground!
Good question
Haub yau yog li ko ces kuv yuav mus txais tsis tau nyiaj lawm lau...neeg ntshai ntshai ces tsis muaj leej twg kam txais nyiaj lawm tiag 😂😂😂😂
Txhob raum ruam, yuav tsum ua neeg phem thiaj li tsi muab neeg thab thab yug.... ua neeg zoo ces zoo li no xwb luag khuj yug
Nowadays, I just tell people to go get a loan from the bank. Bank will deal with them.
Nej kawm tag Computer Science cas tsis ntse li.
My parents always told us never borrow to or from relatives. If you’re going to borrow money, make sure you pay them back.
Zoo kawg yog tshaj plaws li os❤❤
Muaj ib co niag neeg mas tsis paub cai thiab siab dev xwb os thaum txais mas hais zoo tabsis thaum txais tag ces ntsej lag muag dig li lawm yus tsis nug kuj tshuav yus nqi koj hais ces kev Yeeb ncuab tawm tuaj I don’t like people like that
Teb chaws no mas cia mus txais tom npeej xwb os lawv aw
Better stop borrowing money to ppl especially families!
Yog tshaj li os
Uhhh...if the bank won't lend them money, why should you? If you don't got money to give, don't lend. People shouldn't borrow money with no intention of paying their lender back. These are just irresponsible people who want a free payout. Live and learn.
Blood not thicker than h2O sometimes.
Kuv xav mas tsis yog tim lawv lawm..Vim twb tsis yog ib zaug xwb ntau zaus lawm ..Yog muaj tseeb li koj hais tiag..Nws kuj Yog tim koj lawm koj siab zoo npaum li koj hais tiag kuj pub ib qho rau peb cov pluag2 no‐ peb ho hais ib lo lus zoo rau koj los pod😅😅😅❤
Cov ua yus txais nyiaj rau mas siab phem tag2 hais kos them los tsis kam them tsis hais los nyiaj ntau zoo tiag mas txhob txais nyiaj rau ib tus neeg twg lis thiaj zoo xos.
kev txheeb ze ces tso tseg kev txais nyiaj es thiaj li tsis tau kev xyob txhiaj
Brother kev txais nyiaj ces yeej kawg tau txoj Xwm ko xwb os mog yav no tom thov Tsi txhob txais nyiaj rau leej twg ntxiv lawm os yog yus yog tus luag saib Tsi taus na
Muaj tseeb li tu tij no hai kuv twb tshib lo lawm
Lawv e nej yeej paub hais tias yog thaum luag tsi kam xee ces twb yog luag yuav kaus yus noj mog lawv ua li no rau kuv tus txiv wb tib yam tabsis hais tsi tau cia rau vajtswv mam los txiav txim peb lawm xwb os.
Money an family don’t mix sorry uncle you have to learn the hard way always get something in writing notarize/contract an both of you sing
Brother, your brother in law admit his wrongdoing after he came home from jail. Your brother refused to admit that he owes you. There's a difference. Don't worry about what people say about you. You have a kind heart. People close to you used you. Thanks for sharing your heart-felt story.
In America, it is called applying for a loan at a bank when you need money. Periodt!
I have no patience for these kind of stories where a person is too kind/ruam and gets walked on over and over again...🤦♀️ Please live & Learn!
Yeej yog tim koj tsis ua kom zoo thaum pib tus neeg noj tau koj ces nws tua tau koj thiab
Completely agree.
Tus neeg siab phem tsis yeej tus neeg siab zoo ncaj ncees li os
Yog tshaj plaw li lawm os mog .
Some people are so money hungry and greedy. I hate the fact that family members always pull the 'family' card so they get it easy or a discount. I don't care family or not; discount or not, I still pay full price bc I know how hard it is to run a business.
I've always worked with hmoob people, they like to launder money and back stab each other. Never seen them work well together.
Yep we have a cousin always borrowed money and never so we learned our lesson and if he borrowed $1000 then we gave him $100 free no asked back.
Brother, thanks for sharing your story. Txhua yam lus koj hais yeej muaj tsheej.
Tus tub aws peb nyob lub teb chaws no ces yog tias txais tsaj ib phav lawm kom mus txais tom thab nab qhas xwb mam.
Sad story sister 😭😭😭😭
niam ntsuab teev kuv xav tuaj qiv $100,000.00 thia seb nws pos pub 10,000 rau kuv thiab ne yom
If you borrow money, have the decency to pay back. Some people just take and take and show no gratitude. Now a days, no matter who, no matter how much, sign a contract. And then yog sawv daws muaj kev tu siab los tsis kk. Its your hard earn money, dont allow anyone to take advantage of you.
When people's asking for that much why don't you told them to go to the bank? Bank got a lot of money's for a loan?
Yup. I learn if someone asks to "borrow" money, if you're going to give them money, look at it as it'll never return it'll be a gift. But you don't have to tell them that, in hopes they will honestly pay you back. Only give what you can afford to lose. Or better yet, set a limit so you won't suffer. Like, your max to lend money is $1,000 or $500 or whatever. That way you won't lose so much. You and your wife are too nice. But your story is a good story to learn from
I agree. That’s what someone who once told me that too and they were right. Never give anyone more than what you can’t give and give it as a gift so you don’t expect it in truth if they don’t give it back.
Agreed with everything you said, brother…
I totally agree with your story brother. It's sad but family is the one that are jealous. Do good and good karma will always prevail.
wow bro never borrows or lend money to whoever. tell them go to banks! these is 21century that why call bank 4 peoples need lending money. peoples borrow money is greedy.
I agree, don’t lend! Give them what you can without expecting in return. This will save everyone the head ache.
Family money hungry…sounds like some relatives…and yes family are the worst 🤨
Txij hnub no mus ces leej twg tuaj txais nyiaj no ces hais rau lawv tias kuv tsis yog BANK txais nyiaj rau neeg, muaj BANK ntau2 nej mam mus txais tom BANK lawv thiaj muaj nyiaj txais rau nej no xwb mas. Txoj kev txais tsis yog ib qho zoo nawb.
kV laj,2 tos tau hlooog li
👍👍👍
You are so true brother.....
Nyiaj tsis tau kev rau. Tabtom.
Good life lesson. Never borrow but give if you can lol .
Niam laus kuv xav nrog koj tham lus tab sis kuv tsi paub yuav hu li cas thiaj tau rau koj kuv nyob nyab laj ó
Koj hai yog kawg lawm
txoj kev txais nyiaj mas nyuaj nyuaj hais kom luag them rov qab rau Yus li os lawv…kuv tus niam hluas txais kuv $ 8;000 nyiaj xyoo 1985 txog Tsav no twb tsis them kuv li .kuv hais do 3 zaug xwb ces yeej tsis zoo hais li lawm ,tus txais Yus nyiaj los cia li ntxub Yus li lawm thiab,tseg kiag txhob thab txais nyiaj rau leej twg li lawm nawb….
Tupid can't help tupid 😅!
Neb muaj nyiaj dhau lawm os. Ib sij nqi nyiaj rau tus ub tus no. Neb niam yog lub bank los cas. Ntshe tiam tas los neb tsuav lawv nqi pob.
My dad was an orphan and he was the scape goat. His cousins “adopted him” just so they can use him and blame him. They never loved him genuinely but in the end he was the most successful and the only one not in the flower business or the only one not with a niam Mos ab wife.
To this day his cousins still come to ask him for money and always tells him he owes them.
But he learned his lesson when his youngest cousin borrowed $5k then moved to avoid paying back.
Blood is not always thicker than water. Never trust even those closest to you
Cov neeg taxis nyiaj rau es yus cia li taxis rau. Tsis ua ntaub ntawv rau ces ua. Li koj hais xwb yog nws taxis ntawm yus ces txhob taxis es muab li 4 5. Puas pub nws xwb lwm hnub nws tsawj xav es tsis pab yus tsis nco yus tej txiajntsig loskav Liam xwb yus taxis nyiaj mas yus yog tus. Txhaum thiab
Koj nyob lub lav twg ne kuv xav tuaj txais thiab laiv!
Omg why people never learn their lesson on doing business and borrowing money with/to family and relatives?