Stripper Stories: Old Men in Strip Clubs
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- While older gentlemen have been some of the best customers I've ever worked with in strip clubs, three men made themselves memorable in ways that were less flattering.
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Hey, a girl called me "not innately gross" today! Awesome!
🤣🤣🤣Must have made your day.
Hell yeah! Better than I got today.
It's a start.
Damn bro, you are WINNING!
ha ha
As a 68 year old man I found your story interesting and heartening as well in that I have had running conversations with many younger woman and none of them have thought me a creep. For this I am truly thankful.
THEY WERE LYING FOOL
"Hey hun, $20 for a dance?"
"I'm an independent contractor and I don't dance for anyone."
"😧"
😂😂😂😂
If she didn't ask you the she didn't want to dance with you. It's been ten years Craig, get over it!
She doesn't dance for anyone she doesn't want to*
i am 60... went to a strip club in my 30's. Last time I ever went. I spent $80.00, left horny AF. It was a waste of money, felt really stupid.
You can use the PUA community's strategy of "stripper rules". Essentially you have to get her not to think of you as a customer. Not easy. I was not able to do it myself, but some other guys have succeeded.
That's exactly why I don't go!
Get an escort. The ultimate goal is sex. Why would someone spend 1 hr on lapdance. That's just dumb. I can understand 1 or 2 lapdance, but 1 hr. That's krazy. Must be the booze
Could've got a blowjob for 80.00 $. You went in your 30s and your 60, so 30 years ago 80$ was 155$. You Could've easily got a blowjob for half and hour from escort.
Fascinating content and so reality based! So clear and true! Thank You Miss for your recollections. The story of an isolated life with an oldster reveals how lonely many old men can be. There are many more where he comes from in a society such as ours.
Now 76, I remember being in ironworker apprentice night school. All the guys would meet after work at a local strip club near the school. Great cheap food, beer and nice ladies.
We mostly talked about the jobs we were working.
One night, the MC said that the scheduled dancer had a flat tire but an off-duty dancer offered to fill in. She was in street clothes and the whole place LOST IT'S MIND.
She was ... the girl next door, a real girl.
No fancy stripper clothes, no pretense. Interesting.
Because the most naked woman is naked but the sexist woman in a strip club is the one with her clothes on strippers also look hot showing up for work in their street clothes porn stars are always hot wearing gowns at the porno film awards.
A strip joint with cheap food and beer? Never, ever have I experienced that!
@@noodler696 Keep searching
Either way it's a front, you are being fooled by a front, either the sexy dancer front, or the girl next door front. Sometimes things are obvious. They are only there to exploit you and take your money.
@@user-th3ll8rl7i Clearly.
Thank you for your understanding of us older guys. I’ve always enjoyed my conversations with professional dancers.
lol....She "understands" you because you have MONEY... younger guys dont have money and are always broke
Their just taking your money.
😂😂😂😂😂
You have an awesome insight. My son's mother (R.I.P) was a stripper for a few years when he was a child. I remember some of the stories and scares that she had working there. I actually bought her a small pistol after someone tried to get into her car at a stoplight. She would tell me stories of some of the nicest men she met and some of the worst people you could meet. As I get older, I realize that this thing called life is a never ending stream of meeting strangers. Some of them become friends and loves, and some of them become warnings. Sadly, a lot of them become forgotten memories never to be seen again. Like the video, thanks for sharing.
I HATE your response!... I!..wanted to post a COOL observation like this!😫............basterd!......three years late.....😏
You said it OakLeavesAndOnions. Last time I was in a strip club as in 1986. My present sweetheart, she's a couple years older than me, I'm 66 and well heeled. I need to curl up with a lady atleast 1/2 my age because I feel 25. Thought, what's a man my age have that a young woman would want but my money. Thanks for your video.
"As I get older ..." Nicely written!
I’m an older guy, can’t say I’ve had much luck with the ladies, because when I was in school I was too interested in my education, when I graduated, I went pretty much straight to Alberta where I was a drunk so too interested in my next drink, then I was involved in terrible road accident, became Brain-Injured so here I am 28 years later, but I did have sex with a prostitute while I was in my drunk phase
You are just delightful, and a great story teller. ❤
"laughing at your expense",that sums up the stripper- clientele relationship for men of all ages.
They loathe men, but love the mans money.😂
Often the case, but not always.
Laughing and taking the money 😀
Really stupid game.
This was very insightful! Thank you for taking the time to give some perspective on the profession.
As an older guy (65) I find that dancers usually pay more attention to older guys. One reason is that typically older guys have more resources to play with i.e. we got more money. I usually tip $5's. Also, older guys usually don't think that they are going to "get lucky" with a stripper. Young, immature guys think "Oh yeah, she wants me!!" LOL! Lastly, older guys aren't going to become obsessed with a particular dancer. And older guys are comfortable in their own skin. At least, this has been my experience.
Sometimes they're right...although I watched an old guy go down on a stripper right at the main stage once so really anyone can get lucky with the right girl. Looked like he was eating dinner...
@@skoparweaver7692 Yes, I got lucky with a stripper once but not IN the club. After tipping a sweet lady $5's all night she asked if I wanted a private dance. Yup. During the dance she commented "You're not a regular are you." Nope. "You travelling on business?" Yup. "Staying nearby?" Yup. "You alone?" Yup. "Want some company later?" Yup. "Great! But I'll have to give the babysitter $300." No problem. 👍 I gave her my number and after the club closed she called my room and came over. We had a great time. Now, I don't drink and that might of had something to do with it as I was probably the only sober guy in the club at the time. Also, it pays to be generous. 😁
@@skoparweaver7692 I got lucky in a strip club once. Well, not actually IN the club but after. I always tip $5's. Let's the ladies know who has the money. As I mentioned I'm 65 and have a bit more funds usually than younger guys. A sweet young lady must have noticed and asked if I wanted a private dance. Yup. During the dance she commented "You're not a regular are you?" Nope. "Travelling on business?" Yup. "Staying in a hotel locally?" Yup. "You alone?" Yup. "Want some company later?" Yup. Then she said "Sounds good but the babysitter will need $300." No problemo. So I gave her my hotel and room number and she called after the club closed. We met and had a great time. Now, I don't drink so it might have helped that I was probably the only sober guy in the club but I don't know. Felt like I was in Vegas.
@@skoparweaver7692 The entree was bearded clam I presume?
"we got more money. I usually tip $5's" what an oxymoron lol
What a wonderful account of life so beautifully told. Thank you so much for such perspective!
I am an older guy who has a love for all beautiful things. Like nature and all this world has to offer. Women are one my favorite things to visually cherish. And the age doesn't matter. Women are just so lovely. They are beautiful flowers that walk and talk.
weirdo.
Age DOES matter, and no they are not all flowers
That will take half your stuff and leave you for some other guy and you have to pay her every month and there is nothing you can do about it if they decide to to that to you.
Damn God buddy what women are you talking to; none. Lol...naw, I hear ya, just listening to her she is captivating. Shes a doll baby.. Not that she's the sexiest thing alive by far...only see her face. I can definitely see myself spooning with her. Like so many other things in this universe....they may have a dark side😮😮...and feelings may change...or just be aware.. approach with caution..
Weirdo pervert...
Great information and stories! Every club has it's own vibe and can change just because of the customers. On of the best kept secrets it's many have fantastic food at a very reasonable price. Several times I stopped by for lunch and ended up closing the place! If the ladies are having fun then normally the guys are. I love the scenery, the music, the lights and being able to flirt like crazy without any commitments of any kind. Good for the dancers and good for the customers.
You're very aware of life as a whole. I really appreciate you :)
Nice observations. I'm an older man now (67), but when I was younger, I never thought of myself as handsome. I spent a lot of time in strip clubs. I've always been interested in people. Other men in the clubs would ask me why so many dancers would spend so much time with me when I wasn't spending more than they were. The secret is that I would ask the dancers questions about themselves. Some dancers weren't interested in that, they were only interested in making money and partying, but those weren't the women I was interested in. I quickly developed a rapport with many dancers, and they would consider me a person they could take a break with, just to mentally recuperate. I would usually offer to buy them a drink, but that wasn't why they came over to talk to me.
My success with women outside of strip clubs I attributed mostly to my ability to make women laugh.
I still have friends today who I met as dancers in strip clubs many years ago.
Your story about once-in-a-lifetime opportunities is something I heard many times from many dancers. I only know one woman who went for it, and she was back dancing a month later.
They would all rather not work there doing that. But no other job offers the kind of $$ that it does.
I'm also an older guy 66, and I spent my whole life dating strippers and
married 2 of them. They were very goodlooking brunettes, but
we're very promiscuous.
They loved black guys, and I didn't mind at first,
but it really got out of hand.
Both of them got viscious in
divorce court.
They put me through hell.
I went to prison, convicted of being a child
molester, because she
took videos of
her son kissing
my feet while she gave me head. She brought him up
gay and she charged guys money to have sex with him.
I never did! She
had videos of him doing that
and she belonged in
prison, not me.
I had to move out of state and change my
identity. She took me back
and gave me a weekly allowance. I been told I'll be
dead if I ever rat her and her black crack dealer boyfriend ever rat them out.
Now I have a choice of 3 options, accept my new life as a homosexual slave, go the rest of my life
homeless and broke, or spend the rest of my life in prison!! Oh well, my destiny has will be chosen
on April 6, the day of my gay rebirth back in 2014.
I am an old guy who loves strip clubs. Thanks for the post.
ewwwwwww
Thanks for sharing, as I'm also an older Guy and after listening to Your wisdom and a select few Others, I actually feel more alive than ever instead of the way I thought it was. I hope that You found happiness and I'm assuming from Your beautiful smile and bright & shiny demeanor that You have and God has truly blessed You, so again, thank You for being You!
I think older men will appreciate you more, too. You are articulate and well-grounded, so while this is normally not the type of YT video I would watch, it was a distinct pleasure to listen to your thoughts.
This young lady has a good head on her shoulders and sees reality of the world
She knows where her bread is buttered 😉
My house keeper always cleans and does the laundry with a smile and good attitude.
My two ex wives never did.
Say what you will about strippers, but they completely understand the male brain and how to utilize it to their advantage. This one is spot on about the window of beauty, and it is the 1st time I've ever heard a women talk about it.
Bad-girls appreciate Nice-Guys
i see though this was not born a female.@@perfectsplit5515
@@perfectsplit5515
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Take advantage of what you've got while you have it. That window is fleeting.
Looks like i was off.
That’s the best story I’ve ever heard ❤❤❤
Thank you very much for making my day sweetheart 🥂
Have a great day ahead.
Great stories. You do an excellent job of storytelling.
When ever I have the chance I tell the dancers thank goodness for you ladies.
It takes a certain type of person to do what you do.
You give men a certain type of happiness and attention that we long for.
It can’t be an easy job.
You ladies are awesome !
I date a stripper once. I was 43 and she was 28. She was the sweetest and most down to earth girl I was ever in a reationship with. That was 25 years ago and I still think of her fondly.
why didnt it work out?
@@bevs9995 That's almost besides the point. What matters most are the memories of the people you loved, becomes some day all relationships end, be it one person moves on or dies. All that are left are recollections of the dreams we had.
@@bevs9995 His wife couldn't learn to get along with her. **cough**
@@bevs9995 It didn't work out because he ran out of money for tips4tits!!!
@@bevs9995 He ran out of one dollar bills.
the first time i was called "daddy" it was by a girl 2 years older than me.
i explained to her how paternity worked.
"just like how a father would"
Pfffffffff
?????
Steve Martin was 67 when he had his child. His wife was 41. His daughter, Mary, is Steve Martin's only child, born in 2012. That means Steve Martin is 78 now (in 24) & his daughter is 10. I hope she gets at least another 10 years with dad.
Smart lady! I was younger.. weren't we all. I was shy. I didn't go to a club to degrade women..but to watch their moves athleticism..grace...put me under your spell. Teach me to be appreciative. I think my experiences made me a better person to be with a woman...I think it's great a woman has the confidence or need...to share her beauty and confidence with a man. I haven't been back in 20 years...I have my memories. Thanks for helping us guys..it would of been great to personally know some of the women...but you only have a few moments alone w a fantasy.
I too was an apprentice Ironworker (Local #167) in the early 1980's, and after a particularly upsetting breakup with a close girlfriend, my classmates took me to a local strip club called Tiffany's. Naturally, I immediately fell for one of the younger dancers (I was only 24 myself) and I spent a good chunk of many paychecks on her over the next few months. Looking back, it was the best psychotherapy I could have spent the money on, and helped me move on to another girlfriend that I eventually married.
sin good sure Jesus you tell savoir and city in David a
@@benmcfarren6337 English, please. Or at least accepted syntax.
lol simp
It's ironic isn't it, sometimes it's not all about sex, us guys just want to have a pleasant non-judgmental conversation with a lady once in a while. Get things off our chests, and yes a bit of ego-stroking is also nice ( how many of us get compliments from our other halves), and even perhaps some good real-world advice.
Prob cheaper than a therapist too 🤣🤣
@@benmcfarren6337 Sin is a religious term for breaching religious rules. It has no relevance to immorality which only relates to what harms others. There was no harm in the story you responded to.
Young man: Have you ever danced for an old, creepy dude?
Don't worry son, you'll be a creepy old dude soon enough..
I'm 67 - Thank You; you hit the nail on the head! Your right, Your Beautiful, and above all, you are wise!
a priest, a father and a rabbit walk into a blood bank ... rabbit thinks he's type-o
Nice
😂
Why did I click on this ... ?
morbid curiosity? Same😂
Seriously I had the same thought. This is stupid.
This video makes me want to go back to a strip club.... just for the conversation and the psychological aspect of it. lol I'm 53 now, last time I've been I was 39. One of the dancers loved how easy I was to talk to so much, I ended up taking her out on a date. It was actually really nice to have a woman appreciate a simple dinner at Applebees(that was her choice lol), because of course, her ex-bf/boyfriend never took her anywhere.
Did you get any???
Simp
@@mistersniffer6838 That was not my intention.... but yes I did! lol
@@BryanKalentek Uhm, yes, we go to the strip club to see pssy so we can decide on the color were gonna paint the living room?????? Glad you figured out what a nudy bar is for!
Why don’t you just pornhub it like a normal guy.
Do you know why you are so attractive? It isn't your lovely face, but your thoughtful, intelligent monologue. You are very engaging and pretty, coupled with wit and insight. Just wonderful.
When i was in my late teens and early 20s i used to date only older women, usually 10 years older, i was attracted to maturity, it was easier to talk to them and they knew what they wanted.
Im in my 40s now and my wife is in her late 30s and we get along great, she is very smart and easy to talk to.
I lived in a town in CT and right across the border was a small Massachusetts town - I went to Dallas TX and met a dancer and we chatted for a long time - turns out she was from the small Massachusetts town next to mine - we knew a lot of the same people!
Weird - I travelled to Dallas TX to meet a girl that lived 5 minutes from the house I grew up in.
Life is so wild!
I'm an old guy. I haven't been to a strip club in 25 years or so. Having beautiful daughters kind of ruined it for me. I cannot disassociate myself from my actual person and pretending to be a "regular stranger".
*sigh* I wish I could have had beautiful daughters because this means I could have slept with a *still young beautiful woman and not only leftovers and scraps or prostitute/mail order bride*.
Yep. Same.
Your in luck, I am willing to let you know how well they do on stage!!
Just wait until they get their onlyfans page
Agreed, strip clubs were never really my thing, and I've somehow always been attracted to women slightly older than me even at a young age. But when I met my current g/f of 6 years, her twin daughters were 17 (yes I said twins- fit division 2 volley ball players at that) and after getting to the know them over the last 6 years, my brain just won't let go there. Even though they are not my biological daughters, I lost the ability to look at anyone even closer to their age and think anything remotely inappropriate.
Interesting insigt into psycological/sociological dynamics of human interactions with personal anecdotes. You're good at keeping the listener interested.
This video is really entertaining, and actually hilarious. Thanks so much for sharing this. Very colloquial and respectful way of relating the tale.
I WILL GIVE YOU A TALE....
Thank you for sharing this. I'll never set foot in another one of those places again.
Sweet lady, thank you for being a dancer. My first wife was one. I just LOVE you ladies so much! My favorite women, because they are willing to give us men, not what we want, but what we NEED! God Bless You!
And what do we need??
What a wonderful, intelligent, insightful and totally honest sharing. Thank you.
She found her once in a life time opportunity in the city instead of a wheat field 😂
I used to be a regular at the strip club. In my youth, I had this naïve view that I was gonna hook up with a stripper. After becoming a cab driver and hearing these woman's drama, I realized I didn't want a stripper. lol 20 years later, I don't even go to strip clubs anymore.
Very interesting. Never heard of such an experience from a girl working at a strip club. Actually, I had never been to a strip club so I had no idea except what we see in movies etc. Glad I watched your video.
Loved your points made and was nice to hear. The old guys seem to take a beating by younger guys. Nice to hear your perspective!
Old men in strip clubs keep the lights on
I'm getting ready for my shift tomorrow and practicing my makeup and stuff and am listening to this and just cackling 🤣 lmao the dry/ polite -matter of- factly humor just kills me! Makes me feel like my experience is understood hahaha 💙
You certainly know how to read people. Great video. Thank you.
At the age of 50, I was teaching high school freshmen. During the month of February, 4 girls asked me to be their Valentine. (3 of them were actually pretty) One of them gave me a paper flower she made in Art Class. A 5th girl called me, "My sexy-@$$ teacher", told me that she liked me, and said she wanted to go on a date with me.
I'm not sure if they were all just joking, but it was actually congruent with something I once read - that as long as a man has authority, he doesn't need to be good-looking - to attract females.
Unprofessional creep.
A man with a beautiful car and a large bank account is like the equivalent of a gorgeous woman. A man with no money and no car is like the equivalent of a very ugly woman.
Younger men usually don't have a lot of disposable income. This isn't an insult because like you mentioned, younger men are just getting started and don't have the experience necessary to properly manage money.
...nor do they have the experience to properly take care of any offspring they create while spreading their seed. #thetruthhurts
Properly manage their money lmfao. This is coming from a Guinea, who pi$$'es his money away on strippers.
It's 2024 champ, many young women outearning young men, and once he does have money he's usually considered "too old".
@@coiledsteel8836 A 21 year old with a 20 in his pocket has the same buying power as a 50 year old with a 20 in his pocket. Besides, so long as the cash is flowing, strippers really don't care about age.
I heard this one woman who joined a sugar daddy club. The only reason she joined was because all the guys that she dated were always broke. She went where the money was.
You've kept your sense of humor even though this industry can be nasty. It's nice to see. Yes, you're correct.......I'm an older gent and my interactive skills are definitely better now than in my 20's.
It’s fun. One of my best friends is an older gentleman. Not only is he wise, he’s got a hilarious sense of humor. :)
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Interesting. Well said. More stories pls.
Swedish guy here. It's very strange and foreign to me to pay money for affection. Im 47 years old and I never paid money for affection. I hope it stays that way.
Great commentary from a wise and experienced lady. She has been very observant with the men she has met of various ages. She proves that a gentlemen can be 21 or 65. Anyone who has been to a strip club or plans to go should listen to this video. Being an older man I can say there are dancers who can and cannot carry a decent conversation.
There is nothing wrong with enjoying a beautiful woman. Never feel guilty about enjoying God's work. Anyone who makes you feel guilty for natural things has issues that you can't help. Enjoy life.
Look at all the articulate old guys joining in to display us a dose of their good seasoning, lol. This was an interesting contrast of male and female attraction points, and the stories are very real sounding.
Not sure why this showed up in my algorithm but it was an excellent watch. Thank you, and make sure you call me big daddy 😂
I'm an old man now, but I don't frequent strip clubs and have only been to three when I was younger (once in my early 20s and twice in my early 30s).
I remember the first and only lap dance I had. More specifically, I remember the conversation that I had during the lap dance. We talked about her job, her boyfriend, art that she liked, she asked me a number of questions etc etc. Basically, a respectful and easy conversation. Then she said to me, "You know, you're allowed to put your hands on me", and I was like, "What?" and a few seconds later, the bouncer said time was up.
Nice stories my dear! My Fiancé is 20 years younger than me and calls me Daddy. I love that shit!! LOL
I was going to pass over this. But refreshing to hear your life experiences on this.
Thank you so much for this video. I’m an older man single not how I planned it but that’s where I am younger women are like bright, shiny diamonds just beautiful.
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to really appreciate the playful energy of my younger male coworkers. There’s something very comforting about being around young people. I think they help remind me that I’m not dead yet, lol.
This video is very interesting, intelligent and funny at the same time. Thank you very much for sharing your life experiences as a exotic dancer. Love your channel and other videos that you did. You are the kind of person that I'd love to sit and talk a lot for hours. Smart, intelligent and beautiful. Thank you, I'm a brazilian man.
I'm a 50ish man that manages a non-profit, and my grandfather had five daughters that are younger than me by five or more years. This ex-stripper is a pragmatic realist and she has the age issues between the sexes down to a science. In America women, in general, think older men should marry and or date women that are older and not younger women. What should a man in his 50s do when he wants more children? This is a rhetorical question. It is my understanding that men should be older than his wife. There are some younger women that like and look for the stability and "Down-To-Earthness" of an older man.
This is great. I love how Americans have this skill to call a spade a spade. It's direct
100% agree with your honest observations about men's talk game. The truth is I just "get" women more at 40. I'm not sure why. I just understand them in a way I didn't at 25. The rule is simple: make them laugh and have fun
100 percent HONEST!! Love it!! Xx
It sounds like the first two guys with a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity thought they were offering you a way out of a shameful and degrading lifestyle, like they were rescuing you from something you felt trapped by. So interesting! Thanks for sharing.
they were obviously clueless.
@@sal78salnormal well-adjusted women don't become strippers. It's not hard to imagine some of them being stuck in that lifestyle with few options.
@derek96720 They don't want to be rescued. They don't feel trapped. She knows she has a long list of guys that "will take care of her" she has a life outside that club. She might be married if not she probably has a boyfriend or 2 she lives with or just has a lot a boyfriends.
If you meet her in the club. The chance of her dating you for anything other than money (no future) are probably zero. That makes you a lucky guy. There are so many things people can do for employment now.
She's got options. If you date a stripper She is gonna want you to treat here Like a sunday school girl. And that's how she'll act because she'll have her stripper life. You won't be a part of. Where everybody treats Her like a stripper. And where she is. She's never gonna be the sexy slut for you. Maybe once. She's gonna be out there doing it every night for strangers. She won't you to treat her differences though. Trust me.
Yes. And a lot of men cannot fathom that a woman has her own life: Goals, friends, family, hobbies, interests. No, she is just dreaming of you giving her the chance to be locked in your house, be your sexslave and maid .
yeah, she's not telling you the whole story
I was waiting for one of them to be like "Deal of a lifetime ... Bitcoin!"
"Big Daddy!" I busted out laughing at that part of the video. How you did not laugh in front of the customer is beyond me.
Lots of self control lol
Your observations are really so true!
The once in a lifetime opportunity wasn't so once in a lifetime lol
Beautiful, articulate, smart, sympathetic. I hate strip clubs, but you, I could see chilling with you and throwing money at you. :D
„…different wheat field…“ 🤣🤣🤣
The most dangerous fight I was ever in was in a strip club.
I was sitting with my buddy in front of a woman who was dancing, trying to get our attention and she was very very unattractive. My friend looked at me and said she’s pretty nasty and I said, she looks like Morticia from the Addams family.
She got mad and kicked a beer bottle onto my friend and he stood up fast because he was angry and all hell broke loose in the club with lots of blood and a very frightening situation because I guess everyone was looking for that first opportunity to throw hands and chairs And bottles.
I did very well in the brawl, but my friend did not do so well but we laugh about it today 40 years later.
Yes, she absolutely looked like Morticia from the Addams family
I have no idea why youtube suggested this vid to me but as long as I am here, what the heck. So I ran a gentleman's club back in the day, 90s, for the corporation, and most know what I mean by that in the industry, in Montreal. It what I would refer to as "Cheers" where everybody knows your name. Local patrons , very few problems etc. We had a few retired clients who were very respectful and popular with the girls and in fact I know one of them was given a brand new Mercedes for no quid pro quo. He sort of felt for her situation of getting a little long in the tooth for the business. Nuff said. My opinion of the place years later is that any man under 30 is wasting his time and money on an illusion. I guess today's equivalent would be Onlyfans. Sort out your lives gentlemen and the opportunities will present themselves but not in a club.
You're very eloquent and well spoken. The base level between women and men are child-rearing and resource-providing. There are lots of overlays - but at it's core, that's what came from our development. It also explains the unique qualities about the genders (men - focused to the point of tunnel vision, women - multi-task), how our bodies hold fat and muscle, and all the rest. Much of what you're discussing is more engrained in our western/particular social structure.
I remember running into strip clubs first years ago at a marine base on the east coast. It was usually good for kicks. You could visit 3 or 4 clubs on the same street sometimes. The girls at that time would be making money hand over fist while the bar poured out beer. All I remember was it was like having a psychedelic light trip by the end of the night. It became an occasional opportunity through my single years. Surprisingly relaxing for some reason although never very deep.
Interesting stories and well told. Kudos to your husband, and hope you both are still happy and healthy. It's interesting how society sometimes view people, things, etc. Age differences, what you do for a living, where you come from. I never thought anymore or any less of the girls I met in strip clubs, in the club they dealt their hand of the game they played. I myself didn't make silly conversation asking silly questions, I let the conversation flow and be as normal as possible. Of course you realize where you're at, and the girls need to make money. House cover, time talking to a customer, how many dances they need to have in certain areas. I never took it seriously, had fun in and outside of the clubs with acquaintances from the clubs, and let it happen with the attractions that humans have for one another at certain moments. You can't really look for a lot in these places, but can certainly find almost every kind. We all know crazy things happen, but some of the offers to some of the girls are in another stratosphere. Remember, and I believe me, age is a number. Keep your mind and body active, positive thoughts in the most challenging times, and make someone smile and laugh.
Strip joints are dangerous places. I always approached them with caution. Years ago I was talking to a stripper on stage who had a big cast on her arm. I asked her: "What happened to you?" She replied, "I was doing a handstand and a guy grabbed me and I fell and broke my arm." I then asked her, "What happened to that guy?" She then replied in a voice as cold as ice, "The bouncer beat the hell out of him." If you get drunk and lose control at a strip club bad things can happen to you.
I've been hundreds of times over the years and the atmosphere is way safer than a regular nightclub. I've seen plenty of fights in nightclubs and beat up a dude on one occasion. At the strip club the chances of seeing somebody get a beating is way lower.
By accident ive clicked on this video.. and damn this was so interesting. You are a very goot storyteller too. Thank you for sharing this story !
I know this sounds insulting, but you are much more insightful and cerebral than I would have expected.
Honestly, it makes me happy to hear that. I know most people hear “stripper” and assume it means “dumb”. I’m not gonna pretend the stereotype isn’t there for a reason. But I’m always grateful when someone approaches me with an open mind.
I couldn't imagine going to a strip club to talk.. In younger years my friends and I went to 'boys night out' to have some good clean fun at the strip clubs and get sh!t faced
We had lots of conversations with strippers that were done w/ the act and just wanted to sit and have a beer with us.. most were really easy to get along with.
Easy to see you used your experience for wisdom... I dated a dancer through her college years, it's about respect which I always showed her, she was a beautiful piece of art.
"exotic dancer" bwahahahahhahahha
This was the most fascinating twenty minutes I've spent in years. Call me an old dude, okay.
You are a beautiful, wise and intelligent woman. I haven't been to a strip club in maybe 15 years (I am now 65) and when I did go to the clubs - yes I enjoyed the sexuality / sensuality of the environment because I was freshly divorced - but the thing I enjoyed most was talking to the women who worked there. I have a high regard for how brave and courageous you ladies are to do what you do. I know there are tons of stories of women who are addicted or broken in some way and strip to get by and I get that. But I know first hand that there are an equal number of women who take pride in being a professional and do extremely well for themselves in that industry and I have a huge amount of admiration for them. As an old dude who would NEVER proposition a stripper, or anyone else, with a "Once in a lifetime opportunity" (gimme a break !) - I appreciate you and think that you all perform a valuable service for lonely men both married and single. Thank you for what you do. Take care and be safe out there !
Excellent video. You are a super-engaging speaker. Of course, the reason the two got mad at your rejection and "Big Daddy" came at you like he did in all seriousness was because they all had it in them that you were mentally lower than them and had literally nowhere to go with your life, and thus, they felt rejected. They arrived at that conclusion to keep themselves going by telling themselves that they were wayfarers who still had it going on, and you needed saving. Sad, really.
Very interesting, thanks for this!
I enjoyed that…Hilarious!
Very intelligent and interesting !
When I was in my 30s. I had friends that always wanted to go the strip clubs. Most girls are just trying to make a buck and don’t care about the men there. I was in Canada at a club with friends and one girl kept bugging me for a private dance. I cordially declined her several times. She wasn’t attractive to me. Later that night a girl that I found very attractive approached me for a dance and I went back with her and enjoyed the time with her. When I came out the first girl went off on me and had the bouncer kick me out. These club never interested me at all as I am very happy with my wife. I have a few horror stories from few clubs in NYC. Complete rip offs just to get in the door was $$$. To each their own!
it's a common occurrence to be kicked out by the bouncer if you decline one woman for another and the first woman finds out. lol
I used to go to Baby dolls in Euless Texas when I was 15. I could drink and party.
I'd like to hear them. It would be interesting from a guys point of view going to a club.
Thank you for answering my questions
Im Almost 60 and i have no problem talking to anybody, no matter where they are at in life you are a very smart women and smooooookin hot 🔥 in my book. Great episode!!
Exactly, it's the ability to engage with women, to put them at ease and to entertain them - a skill that I have worked at diligently to develop over the years. The funny thing is that as a young gentleman I, of course, liked women my own age but older women were a fascination, a challenge, an oddity, somewhat taboo and seemingly greener grass in the next pasture. Especially during college and university, when it's all about being a student and learning... I sought out older women hoping to better myself from what they could teach me in the bedroom. Older women I found bring the benefit of generally having less STDs and unwanted pregnancies. Now that I am not a spring chicken any more... as you well point out, women and flowers have much in common age wise. You're a very nice lady. Thank you.
You are a very sick human being and should be kept away from women. Fucking weird pedo..
You know it I’m an older gentleman I’ll be 57 years old and I find it more easier to talk to a younger woman at the age of maybe 2535 and have a good conversation. I noticed they are very attracted to older men but you are absolutely right. I noticed they feel more secure around me than a younger guy because the way they talk able to dress myself as a gentleman and they really enjoy it. I am not a bad looking man I am actually salt and pepper and they find me very attractive than a younger kid but you are right.
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Big Daddy? LMAO... Priceless! 😂
You are a very intelligent woman. I could sit here and listen you to talk all day. 🙌😀
In younger men, there seems to be a certain hurried rush to get in and get off. In older men, there's definitely a sense of relaxation. We're in no rush.
When i was young and not very good with women, i always found it easy to talk to stippers because , well, to be frank, i didn't care if they liked me. Banter and flirting was easy, and i picked up a few.
A few years ago, in my mid-40s, i picked up a beautiful woman that i knew from work. At a funeral, no less..
She worked in a cafeteria and should have been a super model. She was a daddys girl and very sheltered. At 30 years old , she seemed quite a bit younger. The age difference made me not all that interested, but she was so strikingly beautiful, it was insane. Out.of 10,000 women who worked at my hospital she stood out like a shinig star.. Im an average looking guy with a very average salary and would normally never think i had a chance with her, but just like with strippers , i didn't care one bit if she liked me . That was the key, and it always is.. the women who i like the best that might make me nervous and self-conscious , i usually strike out with..
It's all about confidence with women. And in retrospect, the most amazing times I've had with women , the most fun I've had, and the strongest feelings I've ever had for a woman, it never had anything to do with their looks.
Pretty ironic all around...