When I was a child I had to achieve success academically to seek approval & love from my narcissistic caregivers. So I was narcissistic at that time with my peers achieved success for some time but failed eventually. Later on I realized that, I was selfish and unkind towards others inorder to achieve my goals. Now I resent egoistic & immoral people who want to achieve success by exploiting others. Your video was really good & helped me gain a better understanding😊.
Thank you for your insights. I am trying to decide wether my mother is a 1 or a 3. You brought up the perfect/efficient dilemma and I have seen this in another video. So I asked her. She has been working with food all her life and is a real workoholic. Now she is retired but still take on projects. She is always stressed and around noon "half the day is gone" and "I have no time to do xxx". Anyway I asked in the middle of her food preparing if you can choose. Would you want to be perfect or be done quick and she chose to be perfect. So 1 I guess. At the same time type 1 don't strike me to be stressed and always wanting to squeeze as much productivity in as possible during a day. That feels more like a 3. But that test still makes me lean more towards 1 so thank you 😊
To make it simple. Strong desire to conquer and possibly reform particular selected areas in life is better fit for Type1 or Type3? Else? There is no rush in achieving goals and even long periods of wasting time is alowed but in long-term it is a must and some goals could be achievied very suddenly. Don't care about how it looks to others but like the fact that have many invisible thropies. Strong perfectionism but learned that it is better done in decent way than perfect never done.
When I was a child I had to achieve success academically to seek approval & love from my narcissistic caregivers. So I was narcissistic at that time with my peers achieved success for some time but failed eventually. Later on I realized that, I was selfish and unkind towards others inorder to achieve my goals. Now I resent egoistic & immoral people who want to achieve success by exploiting others. Your video was really good & helped me gain a better understanding😊.
Thank you for your insights. I am trying to decide wether my mother is a 1 or a 3. You brought up the perfect/efficient dilemma and I have seen this in another video. So I asked her. She has been working with food all her life and is a real workoholic. Now she is retired but still take on projects. She is always stressed and around noon "half the day is gone" and "I have no time to do xxx". Anyway I asked in the middle of her food preparing if you can choose. Would you want to be perfect or be done quick and she chose to be perfect. So 1 I guess. At the same time type 1 don't strike me to be stressed and always wanting to squeeze as much productivity in as possible during a day. That feels more like a 3. But that test still makes me lean more towards 1 so thank you 😊
To make it simple. Strong desire to conquer and possibly reform particular selected areas in life is better fit for Type1 or Type3? Else? There is no rush in achieving goals and even long periods of wasting time is alowed but in long-term it is a must and some goals could be achievied very suddenly. Don't care about how it looks to others but like the fact that have many invisible thropies. Strong perfectionism but learned that it is better done in decent way than perfect never done.
great vid! thank you just what i was looking for
So glad you found it helpful! Thanks for taking the time to share ✨
This is such a clear and useful video. Thanks so very much, from a Type 1! :)
I’m so glad it was helpful - Thank you for taking the time to leave a note!
Wow… maybe I am not a 1 but a 3 after all…. Even if my test says 1.
Nah I’m def a 1
I'm glad it helped clarify!