Not only single mothers, unmarried and above 30 girls also face such issues. M 35, unmarried, independent and ofcourse single, but people think just because m not married and have no boyfriend they can take my advantage. I am single by my choice. I am waiting for someone of my kind… is this wrong???
Yes it is wrong unless it is designed by God that you would not get married at all. If you want to get married but still waiting, then there is a problem in your thinking and your ability to identify good men. Hope God bless you.
@@SureshKumar-gu9cu I never said that marriage is wrong I only said that you should find a right partner and shouldn’t marry in force of society… now I hope u get a clear answer
If a man doesn't marry then also problem that he is not taking responsibility, if a man earns for the family then also problem that he is not earning enough. If a man likes a woman since his wife is not satisfying him, then also problem. It is the mindset of people and women.
@@SureshKumar-gu9cu if a guy or girl like someone else cz of some reason, discuss with ur life partner and legally get separated. But some people think killing them as solution, that must not happen right. I don't say all wives are good. Even I have seen cases where they create problems to husband as well
@@alphonsemaria6101 Yes both husband and wives create problems in various cases. But these days people have become blind that they only talk for women issues but do not talk for men issues. That is the double standards of people and women in particular.
Ya I know. There are so many men doesn't express cz of this. They know even if they do also no one will believe. This thinking must change@@SureshKumar-gu9cu
Just so happy to see that your are spreading awareness about very important issues that have penetrated into our society and we don't see them inspite of them existing around us. Speaking from experience, this is absolute truth that men see divorced/going through divorce women as an easy opportunity. Very typical mentality especially in Indian men. Societal pressure is even worse. Really very sad. Women don't need to succumb to any man in these situations. Just say no, their offered help is really asking for something in return. It helps if your family support is around. I was fortunate to get out of a pressured situation like this and i thank myself for putting my foot forward, but i taught myself a big lesson. The only that could help myself was me. Lots of love for the channel ❤️ ❤❤
Disgusting thoughts how people judge a single women .I am a single woman being a professional Psychologist I can relate every single thing shown in this drama. Mostly married men approaches me its very difficult to manage them I try my best to handle them with friendly way but also. ...And this aunty and her concerns are like my mom's.
Yes I'm 30 happily enjoying my life with my mom, 10 saal bd meri life m kya hoga uska soch k m aaj apna pl wast ni krna chahti, m bachche pda ni kr skti mre se ni ho payega ye sb, unko paalna, pti k taunt sunna, sasural me slave bnke rehna, apna ghr chhodna, bltkr ko jhelna, bla bla bla ye sb soch kr muje goosebumps ho jta h, isiliye m dr jti hu sadi k naam se,
@@Shalini7448kya baat kar rahi ho😂 Shadi ke bina tumhara jindagi ache se kat jaega kya? I know shadi karne ke baad ladkiyo ko problems hoti hai jo jo tumne bataya but kya kar sakte majboori me karna hi padta hai warna jindagi kaatna bahut muskil hota hai. Agar tumhe love ya arrange marriage kisi se bhi koi farak nahi padta tab to tumhe wo tumhari sari baato ko ignore kar ke shadi kar leni chaiye kyunki ishi me bhalayi hai kyunki tumhari problem utni bari nahi hai jitni unlog ko hai jinko love marriage hi karna hai kyunki wo anjaan se shadi nahi karna chahte jise wo jante nahi. But agar tumhare liye love/ arrange wali factor matter karti hai tab to nahi karni chaiye. Agar kisi se pyar hua to thik hai karlo shadi warna arrange karne ka koi matlab nahi hai kyunki isme life barbaad ho sakti hai aur tumhe mental satisfaction nahi milega. Main bhi shadi nahi karna chahta kyunki main kisi aisi ladki se shadi nahi kar sakta jisko main janta nahi. I hate arrange marriage. Ye ek shauda se jada kuch nahi hai. Jis ladki se shaadi karunga mujhe kya pata wo kaisi nature ki hai, agar wo mere liye sahi nahi nikli to. Aur waise bhi jisse pyar nahi karte use shadi karne ka kya tuk baith ta hai. Ye to luck ajmane wali baat hui ki ho sakta hai meri partner theek nikle, ho sakta hai aaj pyar nahi hai baad me ho jaye. Par jitne main janta hu most of the case me pyar nahi hota, sirf responsibility nibhaiye jati hai. Shaadi koi majak thodi hai ki kisi se bhi karlo. Jo log arrange marriage karte hai, to unlog ko kya pata hota ki dono kaise hai. Jo ladka dikhata hai, jo ladki dikhati bas hum usse such maan lete hai aur kuch baatein chupa li jati hai taki rista pakka ho sake. Ye bilkul galat hai kyunki kuch bhi chipa nahi rehna chaiye warna baad me dikkat aati hai, jhagde hote hai etc . But love marriage ne aisa nahi hota, wahi kuch bhi chipa nahi rehta aur dono ek dusre ko samjhte hsi. Aisi hi shadi karni chahiyei. Par kya karu ye mere liye possible hi nahi hai kyunki mujhe iske bare me koi idea nahi, na mujhe ladki ko impress karna aata hai aur koi bhi chij nahi aati jisse koi kisi se pyar kare. Isliye main shadi hi nahi kar sakta kyunki mere pass dono option available nahi hai. But mujhe pata hai koi kitna bhi keh le shadi nahi karni par jaroorat to sabko hoti hi hai kyunki puri jindagi mummy papa nahi dekh sakte na tumhe. Kabhi na kabhi to shadi karni hi parti hai. Agar koi kehta hai main khud apni care kar sakta/ sakti hu, mujhe jaroorat nahi kisi ki to wo dimag se nahi soch raha. Usse lagta hai ki jindagi asan hogi par actual me hogi nahi. Jab budhe ho jaoge, bimaar ho jaoge tak kaun dekhega tumhe. Maa baap to rahenge nahi tab tak. Agar shadi ki hoti to bachee bhi kar li hoti. Phir wo bare hote aur unki shaadi hoti. Tab beta bahu dekh rekh karte tumhari. Ye hota hai shadi na karne ke consequences . Ye sab jante hue bhi shadi nhi karna chahta bcz I want to marry a girl whom will I love. Also, that's not possible for me.😂
@@Shalini7448 but it may be difficult for u after 10 yrs even I am thinking to live a life like u after hearing many marriage stories but my mom says that everyone lead a different life and many happy and satisfied couples too exist in a marriage but even I am confused and not in an idea to marry anyone 😢😮
Muje saadi k naam p goosebumps ho jta h, kuki sadi k bd stree ki jivan narag hta h, usse bache pda kra k usko maid bna k rakhte h, kaamvali bna k rakha jta h, sasuraal m slave bnke rho, kanyadan k naam p apna ghr chhod do, 10 minutes me riste pkke liye jta h, its so humanliating .............. My mom always taunt me gor getting married.......
No sister, mana ki merrege life ki apni chalenge hai but it is besis of our society... Eske bina aap nahi hoti, main nahi hota aur problem kis ke life main nahi hai... Eska matlab hum logo ko selfish nahi hona chahiye aur nagetive to bilkul bhi nahi
Soniya Ji, har Mard aik Jesi soch nhi rkhta na he har Mard Gandi Nigah se dekhta hy, Jin ki tarbiyat achi hui ho wo har aurat ki izat krta hy aur Dua krta hy, Jo usko Pyar aur sukh, Khushi de, wo aurat mil jay..aise he har aurat bhi achi nhi hoti, bas nasal, khandan aur tarbiyat har jaga ahmiyat rakhti hy.. Kch bura Lage to Mafi chahon ga
i know many women who are divorced for their personal reasons but really people judge their character from their own perspective. its very uncomfortable for an already hurt lady... we need to understand that everyone has their own problems with their own ways to solve them.. plz dont judge anyone's character like this... well scripted video.. 😍
Dear sir/madam, ea sab aaj se 25-30 yrs pehele hota tha. Nowadays men ko easab sahana padta hai, divoice kisi bhi karan se ho, 50% kamai women le nathi hai, sath hi aaj kaal har women job karti hai, uska paisa aalag se, aap ko bata du ek baar divioce bala metter husband ke office main chala gaya to usko job se bhi haat dona padta hai. Kehete hai women ke prati aap ka nazariya galat hai, islia aap ki wife aap ko chod ke chali gayi.
Allah ka shukar hai ke main ache logo ke sath kaam karti hu or ache logo se hi ghiri hui hu... issiliye itne saal divorce ko hogae par kabhi aesa kuch face nhi kia...
I am an indian woman strongly decided on staying single forever unless i find a compatible guy who gives me equal freedom opportunities and equal choice as him. I will not be forced and pressed into a marriage and firced into a pregnancy through force.
Yes even in metropolitan city mei it's very difficult to live being single women Family also distroy girls life... There is no use of being loyal,honest ........
Ldko ko sb pta hota h, ye male dominated society nahi chahti ki orate divorce de pti ki gulami se chhotkara paye, vo chahti h ki orat ko slave bnke hi rehna chahiye, isiliye vo br br use nicha dikhane k liye usse asa behave krti h, taki vo yahi soche ki divorces le k galat kiya or usse or orate bi yahi seekh le ki..... Pti k sath rehti to sahi rehta.......... Male dominated society#patriarchy
Not only single mothers but even a teenager who lost her only family member which is her mother and got alone r treated like a sex object....it happened with me when i was a teenager...
I have seen this type of mindset prevailing in the society. A female is many times better than a male in terms of capability, will power and patience. She is a very beautiful creation of God. Value that. If such things happen with one's sisters or mother, how will they feel? Why don't these nasty people develop a holy feeling for her as a mother, a sister, a friend or a daughter? Today most of the people suffer on one count or other because of such dirty thoughts. Please treat everybody with respect.
it's not only men to be blamed it's also the women around whom we work n stay . the women are not less to humiliate n insult a single parent mother. l hv experienced this in my life . N bcoz of that women boss l had to leave my job. Men are unsatisfied but if we have women and society who donot support or care for single mothers then how can we blame only the men .? This is my question . what support does a single widow mother gets from her community, family, friends, society ,etc ? Do you'll know wht that women goes thru , no she alone knows wht she goes thru n how she handles her family. There is lots to say but on wht l have written let me see wht reply n help do l get shall wAit for the response
Mere apne ghar me yahi kahani chal rahi hai meri badi sister ka shadi ke 17 years ke baad divorce le liya woh chod kr aayi thi apne husband ko samaj ke logo me bahut taana maara divorce mat do tum kya karogi kaha rahogi beti ka kya hoga ushne divorce ke baad paise bhi nahin liye husband ne kaha paise chahiye ya divorce chahiye meri sister ne kah divorce paise rakho apne paas ushke paas kuch bhi paise nahin the kapre bhi jyada leker nahin aayi kuch saalo tak taklif hui sab ne kaha wapas chali jao apni pati ke paas kya karogi itni badi ho gyi itni badi beti hai kaun shafi karega pata nahin kaise kaise rishte laker dikha rahe rhe meri sister ko lekin ushne kisi ka haa najin ki sab log bas ushe jaise taise ghar sr nikalana chahte the lekin ushne himmat nahin hari pahle to papa the ab to papa bhi chale gye bhahwan ke paas lekin ab woh pranic woh dipression me chali gyi fir ushne apne gahne bech ke pranic healing ka course kiya jo ki bahut costly tha ushke liye fir bhi ushne kiya ab woh bimar logi ki healing karti hai sab log pay bhi karte hai aur bless bhi karte hai sabhi log ushki respect karte hai sab ka muh band kar diya ushne apni ladai khud akele ladi lekin haar nahin maani
Mera to divorce nhi hua hai. par fir bhi Mai 10 saal se akele apne bete ke sath rah rahi hu. Kyunki jisse meri saadi hui thi 11 saal pahle uski mental health khrab thi. Isliye Mai usse alag ho gayi.. Lekin ye jaalim Jamana Bhot gandi soch rakhta hai. Mai bhi Bhot jhelti hu ye sari chizen. Bhot dukh hota h. Lekin fir bhi Mai himmat nhi haari or akele hin rah rahi hu 😢😢😢😢
America me ye sb nahi hota, isiliye apne bachchp ko khub pdhayo taki vo job ki vajah se America me settle ho jaye kyuki india k logo ki soch bahut hi cheap h...
This is the problem with indian society. You need to be progressive. If marriage is toxic it's ok to leave and start a new life. This problem occur only in third world country. Where people in the name of culture behave like this and think it's just a women fault. Live and let live. A women is not available if she is single, widow or divorced. Period
This sick mentality towards women, particularly single mothers is so prevalent. Infact in this video too, it makes me wonder why her one office colleague who actuallt does not carry such weird fantasies did not warn her against the boss. Reality is, a lot of women jusdge such women. In this story, had she complained to the house association secretary's wife, a good chane the wife's response would have been "I know my husband, he is a gem. You must be the loose woman!!"
Bahut achchha prayas h,divorcee ya single wo apni marzi se hoti h,but widow bhagwan ki marzi se aur wo bhi single hi hoti h,aur bada hi iteresting bat ye h ki divorcee ko badnam karte h aur widow sympathy ki aad me maje lene lagti h,actually ladies jab aisi bold hongi tabhi ye samaj shayad sudhare,on the other hand aajkal mostly har chauthe ghar me needy ladies ka aatank bhi hum jaisi gharelu airaten jhel rahi hain, to kehne aur dekhne me bhi wo bhi auraten hi hain, jo maried man ko fans kar apne kam nikalwa rahi h, kanun ke nam par ki koi bhi kisi ke bhi sath rah sakta h ,specially widows ne aafat macha rakhi h
Shadi buri cheej nahi hai shadi bahut achchi cheej hai. Shadi se ek aurat aur mard dono ko suraksha milti hai.But abhi ke daur me bs ek content compition bana diya hai aurat best mard best aurat jib jindgi head mard ki jindgi hard bs yahi chaal raha hai.ek aurat ka jeena mard se jayada aurat ki haram karti hai. Koi aurat aone bete ko nahi sikhati ki biwi ki respect karo ghar ki kaam me uski help karo.
Not Every man like that type of person But those Man Are like this they are Not Real Man the Real Man Always respect a woman and I am also a man who see women as my sister and mother.
I think In 2024. This is only a North Indian. Problem.my mom was single at35 in 1985 when she this video she told me and my wife how much better is kerala. We talking about keral is a bad place to live we have to move to eny western country. Much much better than north india
@eazyetodre573 My mum leaves through this.she doesn't have this problem, yes she has some relationship hir, and there . no long term relationship all most a single mother after 1985 she doesn't face this kind of torture from her seniors or house Owner.
Not only single mothers, unmarried and above 30 girls also face such issues. M 35, unmarried, independent and ofcourse single, but people think just because m not married and have no boyfriend they can take my advantage. I am single by my choice. I am waiting for someone of my kind… is this wrong???
Yes it is wrong unless it is designed by God that you would not get married at all. If you want to get married but still waiting, then there is a problem in your thinking and your ability to identify good men. Hope God bless you.
@@SureshKumar-gu9cuso one should choose any 🐛 worm to marry
I meant that as well. They are also single.
Definitely you are not wrong but our society is not ready for it. And worst part is played by relatives and neighbours.
@@SureshKumar-gu9cu I never said that marriage is wrong I only said that you should find a right partner and shouldn’t marry in force of society… now I hope u get a clear answer
If a girl is not married also problem, if she is divorced also problem. Its the mindset of the people.
So true if a girl is 25+ or 30+ still there is problem of society and family relatives why she's still unmarried
If a man doesn't marry then also problem that he is not taking responsibility, if a man earns for the family then also problem that he is not earning enough. If a man likes a woman since his wife is not satisfying him, then also problem. It is the mindset of people and women.
@@SureshKumar-gu9cu if a guy or girl like someone else cz of some reason, discuss with ur life partner and legally get separated. But some people think killing them as solution, that must not happen right. I don't say all wives are good. Even I have seen cases where they create problems to husband as well
@@alphonsemaria6101 Yes both husband and wives create problems in various cases. But these days people have become blind that they only talk for women issues but do not talk for men issues. That is the double standards of people and women in particular.
Ya I know. There are so many men doesn't express cz of this. They know even if they do also no one will believe. This thinking must change@@SureshKumar-gu9cu
This is the bitter truth of the society... collective strategies to fight against it should also be discussed in this episode.
Just so happy to see that your are spreading awareness about very important issues that have penetrated into our society and we don't see them inspite of them existing around us.
Speaking from experience, this is absolute truth that men see divorced/going through divorce women as an easy opportunity. Very typical mentality especially in Indian men. Societal pressure is even worse. Really very sad. Women don't need to succumb to any man in these situations. Just say no, their offered help is really asking for something in return. It helps if your family support is around.
I was fortunate to get out of a pressured situation like this and i thank myself for putting my foot forward, but i taught myself a big lesson. The only that could help myself was me.
Lots of love for the channel ❤️ ❤❤
This is very true. And being a single lady is a tremendous stress.
Disgusting thoughts how people judge a single women .I am a single woman being a professional Psychologist I can relate every single thing shown in this drama. Mostly married men approaches me its very difficult to manage them I try my best to handle them with friendly way but also. ...And this aunty and her concerns are like my mom's.
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Single ladies aur ladkiyo k liye is society me survive krna bhut muskil hai...
Yes I'm 30 happily enjoying my life with my mom, 10 saal bd meri life m kya hoga uska soch k m aaj apna pl wast ni krna chahti, m bachche pda ni kr skti mre se ni ho payega ye sb, unko paalna, pti k taunt sunna, sasural me slave bnke rehna, apna ghr chhodna, bltkr ko jhelna, bla bla bla ye sb soch kr muje goosebumps ho jta h, isiliye m dr jti hu sadi k naam se,
@@Shalini7448 tho single hoke jhelo
@@Shalini7448kya baat kar rahi ho😂 Shadi ke bina tumhara jindagi ache se kat jaega kya? I know shadi karne ke baad ladkiyo ko problems hoti hai jo jo tumne bataya but kya kar sakte majboori me karna hi padta hai warna jindagi kaatna bahut muskil hota hai. Agar tumhe love ya arrange marriage kisi se bhi koi farak nahi padta tab to tumhe wo tumhari sari baato ko ignore kar ke shadi kar leni chaiye kyunki ishi me bhalayi hai kyunki tumhari problem utni bari nahi hai jitni unlog ko hai jinko love marriage hi karna hai kyunki wo anjaan se shadi nahi karna chahte jise wo jante nahi. But agar tumhare liye love/ arrange wali factor matter karti hai tab to nahi karni chaiye. Agar kisi se pyar hua to thik hai karlo shadi warna arrange karne ka koi matlab nahi hai kyunki isme life barbaad ho sakti hai aur tumhe mental satisfaction nahi milega. Main bhi shadi nahi karna chahta kyunki main kisi aisi ladki se shadi nahi kar sakta jisko main janta nahi. I hate arrange marriage. Ye ek shauda se jada kuch nahi hai. Jis ladki se shaadi karunga mujhe kya pata wo kaisi nature ki hai, agar wo mere liye sahi nahi nikli to. Aur waise bhi jisse pyar nahi karte use shadi karne ka kya tuk baith ta hai. Ye to luck ajmane wali baat hui ki ho sakta hai meri partner theek nikle, ho sakta hai aaj pyar nahi hai baad me ho jaye. Par jitne main janta hu most of the case me pyar nahi hota, sirf responsibility nibhaiye jati hai. Shaadi koi majak thodi hai ki kisi se bhi karlo. Jo log arrange marriage karte hai, to unlog ko kya pata hota ki dono kaise hai. Jo ladka dikhata hai, jo ladki dikhati bas hum usse such maan lete hai aur kuch baatein chupa li jati hai taki rista pakka ho sake. Ye bilkul galat hai kyunki kuch bhi chipa nahi rehna chaiye warna baad me dikkat aati hai, jhagde hote hai etc . But love marriage ne aisa nahi hota, wahi kuch bhi chipa nahi rehta aur dono ek dusre ko samjhte hsi. Aisi hi shadi karni chahiyei. Par kya karu ye mere liye possible hi nahi hai kyunki mujhe iske bare me koi idea nahi, na mujhe ladki ko impress karna aata hai aur koi bhi chij nahi aati jisse koi kisi se pyar kare. Isliye main shadi hi nahi kar sakta kyunki mere pass dono option available nahi hai. But mujhe pata hai koi kitna bhi keh le shadi nahi karni par jaroorat to sabko hoti hi hai kyunki puri jindagi mummy papa nahi dekh sakte na tumhe. Kabhi na kabhi to shadi karni hi parti hai. Agar koi kehta hai main khud apni care kar sakta/ sakti hu, mujhe jaroorat nahi kisi ki to wo dimag se nahi soch raha. Usse lagta hai ki jindagi asan hogi par actual me hogi nahi. Jab budhe ho jaoge, bimaar ho jaoge tak kaun dekhega tumhe. Maa baap to rahenge nahi tab tak. Agar shadi ki hoti to bachee bhi kar li hoti. Phir wo bare hote aur unki shaadi hoti. Tab beta bahu dekh rekh karte tumhari. Ye hota hai shadi na karne ke consequences . Ye sab jante hue bhi shadi nhi karna chahta bcz I want to marry a girl whom will I love. Also, that's not possible for me.😂
@@Shalini7448 but it may be difficult for u after 10 yrs even I am thinking to live a life like u after hearing many marriage stories but my mom says that everyone lead a different life and many happy and satisfied couples too exist in a marriage but even I am confused and not in an idea to marry anyone 😢😮
Right
A great point raised.. almost every single woman has faced this
True it applied not only to single mothers to all women who is alone of any reason
So true
Nice great content aur ek divorced single mother ke saath aisa treat karna nahi chahiye infact usko achi se support karna chahiye ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏✌️✌️👍✌️
Not a single mother.
Age jara si bad kya Jaye
Bahar to choriye Ghar me bhi rehna muskil Hai.
After i had breakup...every men i talked... Tried to do same with me by showing empathy....
Muje saadi k naam p goosebumps ho jta h, kuki sadi k bd stree ki jivan narag hta h, usse bache pda kra k usko maid bna k rakhte h, kaamvali bna k rakha jta h, sasuraal m slave bnke rho, kanyadan k naam p apna ghr chhod do, 10 minutes me riste pkke liye jta h, its so humanliating .............. My mom always taunt me gor getting married.......
Jbki unhone khud ak toxic marriage ko face kiya 40 sal tk fr bi
@@Shalini7448 mujhe lagta hai ki bevkuff hai vo thoda bahut
No sister, mana ki merrege life ki apni chalenge hai but it is besis of our society... Eske bina aap nahi hoti, main nahi hota aur problem kis ke life main nahi hai... Eska matlab hum logo ko selfish nahi hona chahiye aur nagetive to bilkul bhi nahi
Aap apne ghar ka bhi kaam karte hoge apke papa ne apko slave rakha hua hai...
Education of boys is essential now a days
Ab se nahi history se hi education or empowerment awareness ki need adami ko ti, orat ko nahi,.................
pehle khud ko educate krle
@@Mrx-k7x educate kia h, tbi to aaj kl k ldke sadi ni krna chahta, 😂😂😂
I'm 34 and unmarried.
Mujhe to nahi but bahut se Admiyo ko tension rehti hai mere akelepann ki😅😅
Really what did they say to u 😅😮
People said " Jaan se chali Jana, per kisi k kaam na aa jaana😅😅
Ham se karlo shadi😅
Soniya Ji, har Mard aik Jesi soch nhi rkhta na he har Mard Gandi Nigah se dekhta hy, Jin ki tarbiyat achi hui ho wo har aurat ki izat krta hy aur Dua krta hy, Jo usko Pyar aur sukh, Khushi de, wo aurat mil jay..aise he har aurat bhi achi nhi hoti, bas nasal, khandan aur tarbiyat har jaga ahmiyat rakhti hy..
Kch bura Lage to Mafi chahon ga
Shadi karna koi buri baat nahi hai Aaj kal ziyada Umar ki ladki se koi shadi nahi karta😊
i know many women who are divorced for their personal reasons but really people judge their character from their own perspective. its very uncomfortable for an already hurt lady... we need to understand that everyone has their own problems with their own ways to solve them.. plz dont judge anyone's character like this... well scripted video.. 😍
Dear sir/madam, ea sab aaj se 25-30 yrs pehele hota tha. Nowadays men ko easab sahana padta hai, divoice kisi bhi karan se ho, 50% kamai women le nathi hai, sath hi aaj kaal har women job karti hai, uska paisa aalag se, aap ko bata du ek baar divioce bala metter husband ke office main chala gaya to usko job se bhi haat dona padta hai. Kehete hai women ke prati aap ka nazariya galat hai, islia aap ki wife aap ko chod ke chali gayi.
@@Rou85872👍
Mohit Sir - Negative Acting - So Funny - He Is A 💎Gem Of Person 🌈
Allah ka shukar hai ke main ache logo ke sath kaam karti hu or ache logo se hi ghiri hui hu... issiliye itne saal divorce ko hogae par kabhi aesa kuch face nhi kia...
I am an indian woman strongly decided on staying single forever unless i find a compatible guy who gives me equal freedom opportunities and equal choice as him. I will not be forced and pressed into a marriage and firced into a pregnancy through force.
@@frenzybuzz3703 hi
This short video is very true & it's the reality of our society & it must be changed.
@@barnaliadhikary1495 hi
We have to recognize basic human rights of everyone in the society.
I salute this type of women
This is the truth for unmarried too not only single mothers
Yes even in metropolitan city mei it's very difficult to live being single women
Family also distroy girls life...
There is no use of being loyal,honest ........
Superb content. Women are facing this everyday. Thanks for bringing this to everyone’s awareness and talking about it.
True reflection of society regarding single mom 👍
Wowwww Deepraj ♥️bahot badhiya story ek strong message ke sath 🎉👍
Such men go for married women too... Any women who is available 😅
Aur ajib baat ye hai ki yha comment section me sirf females k comments hai
Qki 90% male aise hi hote hai
Sad but True..
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If you are a good human being, never ever disclose anybody's personal info to any random or known pervert be it office or any other place ..
Many woman are judged for being unmarried and if they are working too
Thank you for raising awareness..... You guys are amazing.... I have felt it too
Our pleasure!
Ldko ko sb pta hota h, ye male dominated society nahi chahti ki orate divorce de pti ki gulami se chhotkara paye, vo chahti h ki orat ko slave bnke hi rehna chahiye, isiliye vo br br use nicha dikhane k liye usse asa behave krti h, taki vo yahi soche ki divorces le k galat kiya or usse or orate bi yahi seekh le ki..... Pti k sath rehti to sahi rehta.......... Male dominated society#patriarchy
And even we don't get support from women in society, they see single girls as threat 😢 that's seriously concerning
Beautiful woman great job ma’am 🙏👌👌👌
Not only single mothers but even a teenager who lost her only family member which is her mother and got alone r treated like a sex object....it happened with me when i was a teenager...
I have seen this type of mindset prevailing in the society. A female is many times better than a male in terms of capability, will power and patience. She is a very beautiful creation of God. Value that. If such things happen with one's sisters or mother, how will they feel? Why don't these nasty people develop a holy feeling for her as a mother, a sister, a friend or a daughter? Today most of the people suffer on one count or other because of such dirty thoughts. Please treat everybody with respect.
it's not only men to be blamed
it's also the women around whom we work n stay . the women are not less to humiliate n insult a single parent mother. l hv experienced this in my life . N bcoz of that women boss l had to leave my job.
Men are unsatisfied but if we have women and society who donot support or care for single mothers then how can we blame only the men .?
This is my question .
what support does a single widow mother gets from her community, family, friends, society ,etc ?
Do you'll know wht that women goes thru , no she alone knows wht she goes thru n how she handles her family.
There is lots to say but on wht l have written let me see wht reply n help do l get
shall wAit for the response
Mere apne ghar me yahi kahani chal rahi hai meri badi sister ka shadi ke 17 years ke baad divorce le liya woh chod kr aayi thi apne husband ko samaj ke logo me bahut taana maara divorce mat do tum kya karogi kaha rahogi beti ka kya hoga ushne divorce ke baad paise bhi nahin liye husband ne kaha paise chahiye ya divorce chahiye meri sister ne kah divorce paise rakho apne paas ushke paas kuch bhi paise nahin the kapre bhi jyada leker nahin aayi kuch saalo tak taklif hui sab ne kaha wapas chali jao apni pati ke paas kya karogi itni badi ho gyi itni badi beti hai kaun shafi karega pata nahin kaise kaise rishte laker dikha rahe rhe meri sister ko lekin ushne kisi ka haa najin ki sab log bas ushe jaise taise ghar sr nikalana chahte the lekin ushne himmat nahin hari pahle to papa the ab to papa bhi chale gye bhahwan ke paas lekin ab woh pranic woh dipression me chali gyi fir ushne apne gahne bech ke pranic healing ka course kiya jo ki bahut costly tha ushke liye fir bhi ushne kiya ab woh bimar logi ki healing karti hai sab log pay bhi karte hai aur bless bhi karte hai sabhi log ushki respect karte hai sab ka muh band kar diya ushne apni ladai khud akele ladi lekin haar nahin maani
Waise Aap kya karti ho
Mera to divorce nhi hua hai.
par fir bhi Mai 10 saal se akele apne bete ke sath rah rahi hu.
Kyunki jisse meri saadi hui thi 11 saal pahle uski mental health khrab thi.
Isliye Mai usse alag ho gayi..
Lekin ye jaalim Jamana Bhot gandi soch rakhta hai.
Mai bhi Bhot jhelti hu ye sari chizen.
Bhot dukh hota h.
Lekin fir bhi Mai himmat nhi haari or akele hin rah rahi hu 😢😢😢😢
Stupid society
Ye sb village or lower middle class society m jda hota h or dukh ki bt to ye h ki isme 90% orate hi h jo judge krti h😏😒
America me ye sb nahi hota, isiliye apne bachchp ko khub pdhayo taki vo job ki vajah se America me settle ho jaye kyuki india k logo ki soch bahut hi cheap h...
Hi
This is so common in India, women are taken advantage of being single or a single mother
Absolutely great content
Male dominating society me aurat ke liye yahi soch hai
Widows and single ladies are easy pray as they too feel the need. Nothing wrong but with caution
Great content. Very true. Liked and subscribed. 🙏🏻
Awesome, thank you!
Thanks for making this video. It's true society thinks that way only.
Pata nhi kyun aaj bhi India me ek single aurat ko dekhke log bhot jaldi judge krdete hai ye logonka ye cheap mentality kbhi nhi jayega lgta hai 🥺🥺
Single Lady is Not a Object❤❤❤❤❤
wonderful performance Deepraj 💛
@@renukasharma4932 hi
Very good Media
This is the problem with indian society. You need to be progressive. If marriage is toxic it's ok to leave and start a new life. This problem occur only in third world country. Where people in the name of culture behave like this and think it's just a women fault. Live and let live. A women is not available if she is single, widow or divorced. Period
Very nice story and concept 👍
Thanks for watching
Great content
This is not opportunity mostly single women is fed from her past....
00:30 mummy or bacche ke saath AKELE!!!!! How???
Good story
Just leave the ladies alone, you want a lady go to an registered escort agency instead.
This sick mentality towards women, particularly single mothers is so prevalent. Infact in this video too, it makes me wonder why her one office colleague who actuallt does not carry such weird fantasies did not warn her against the boss. Reality is, a lot of women jusdge such women. In this story, had she complained to the house association secretary's wife, a good chane the wife's response would have been "I know my husband, he is a gem. You must be the loose woman!!"
When father less brotherless single mother child also face it
The woman should show more courage. Then only we can live in this world
Very true. ❤
Truth ❤
Yes Im also single moh its veryyyy difficult HORRIBLE TO.SURVIVE THIS SITUATION EVEN MNDIR JESE HOLLY PLACE PR BHI ESA HARRACE.ENT HOTA HE
Woh kamuk ke Cabin mein jaane ke time mobile record in karake gayee hotaa toh aur be acchaa hotaa tha!!!!!😅😅😅😅😅
Nice content
It is sickening the way society treat divorced or single mother's.
Bhut acha video h
Nice topic
Single ladies our society in survive single lady
Bahut achchha prayas h,divorcee ya single wo apni marzi se hoti h,but widow bhagwan ki marzi se aur wo bhi single hi hoti h,aur bada hi iteresting bat ye h ki divorcee ko badnam karte h aur widow sympathy ki aad me maje lene lagti h,actually ladies jab aisi bold hongi tabhi ye samaj shayad sudhare,on the other hand aajkal mostly har chauthe ghar me needy ladies ka aatank bhi hum jaisi gharelu airaten jhel rahi hain, to kehne aur dekhne me bhi wo bhi auraten hi hain, jo maried man ko fans kar apne kam nikalwa rahi h, kanun ke nam par ki koi bhi kisi ke bhi sath rah sakta h ,specially widows ne aafat macha rakhi h
The only solution is second marriege...Society implement the tradition of second marriege by accepting diverced womens..
Love u Deepak bhai❤❤
I m 34 and divorcee...
No buddy knows what I'm going through...
I m a government employee
Same here mam
@@vandanayadav6105 ... Han
Divorcee ho
Kha se ho
@@vandanayadav6105 vanadna turn bhi divorce ho
Vanadna turn bhi divorce ho
M bhi unmarried hu or mujhe bhi is trah ke issues face karne pad rahe hai
Shadi karogi ham se😊
Nice content
If some guy married divorce women also society look down
Ladki ki jada age ho gai to Job interview m bolte bhi h aree abhi tak shadi nhi kia jimmedar nhi hogi control kese krte h....
Felt like m standing in front of a mirror.😢
Respect women
Shadi buri cheej nahi hai shadi bahut achchi cheej hai. Shadi se ek aurat aur mard dono ko suraksha milti hai.But abhi ke daur me bs ek content compition bana diya hai aurat best mard best aurat jib jindgi head mard ki jindgi hard bs yahi chaal raha hai.ek aurat ka jeena mard se jayada aurat ki haram karti hai. Koi aurat aone bete ko nahi sikhati ki biwi ki respect karo ghar ki kaam me uski help karo.
Es vadlaab ki shuruaat single lady ko hi krni hogi or dikhana bhi hoga ki usme bhut taakat hoti hai...self depend banaker
Not Every man like that type of person But those Man Are like this they are Not Real Man the Real Man Always respect a woman and I am also a man who see women as my sister and mother.
Ha aisa hi same experience mera bhi hai.
It's sit set na?
Esy mard ki video banao or viral kr do. Aj kal social media ka zamana h.
Kitna ajib lgta hai jab koi admi aise bate krta hai kiske sath 😢😢😢😢
Jayeshhh bhaiiiiiiii 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Really It is true
So bad thinking of our society 😞
Very good girl
Single ledie ke ye hi haal hai mere bhi yahi haal se
Very very sad. I dont understand how to change this mindset of men
😂😂😂 Really 😂😂😂
Ayse hi karte hai
SIT set up
Me to ye bdduva deti hu ki jo mard esi hrkt kre, unki betiya bhi is halt pr aa jae, ese hi tourcherd ho
I think In 2024.
This is only a North Indian. Problem.my mom was single at35 in 1985 when she this video she told me and my wife how much better is kerala. We talking about keral is a bad place to live we have to move to eny western country. Much much better than north india
It's not about north or south. It is also prevalent in south. It's about the society. Seeing a happy single woman makes them go crazy
@eazyetodre573 My mum leaves through this.she doesn't have this problem, yes she has some relationship hir, and there . no long term relationship all most a single mother after 1985 she doesn't face this kind of torture from her seniors or house Owner.
Main single mother hun. Pr mujhe koi problem nhi hoti blki jhanshi ki rani wali feeling hoti h.... Har mard ko ignore kro bs problem khtm.
M facing same issue in my day to day life
Yeah mostly people do think like that what shows in story
Don't ask Islamic scholars especially Zakir Naik😂
Ji haa madam 😢