Irrespective of gender, I'd like to say, a huge age gap can bring lots of difficulties...there are many biological reasons behind it..above all in recent times, a gap of 3-4 years can also bring a huge generation gap...dating a guy/girl 18 years older might sound cool, but that's impractical...now someone will say our ancestors used to have huge age gap, but time has changed...but if now also someone can manage a beautiful relationship with no hidden agendas behind, with the age gap of 18 years then a salute to them
There are certain rules set by our elders and society and its good for us if we abide by that... for eg man being elder to woman so that they have already started earning and ready to take care of his wife etc etc... and we have to divert ourselves from all nonsense and move on...otherwise life cycle gets disturbed... woman is selfish here....if we divert our minds immediately before getting serious than everything can be forgotten .... Nice message 👌
This could totally happen around us and is a realistic situation. From what I understand, you are not encouraging it but at the same time not age-shaming a relationship like that. So I am myself married (2nd marriage) to an 18 year older man who I met while I was recovering from my past trauma. We got along together, had our careers set and took the plunge after knowing each other for 2 years. Yes, it's tough to not get judged, or worry about the future age-related issues but our family accepted us happily and welcomed us with open arms after some Q&A sessions of course 🤪. Today i am 39, we have a beautiful 4 year old daughter and planning our next baby. One thing that keeps me away from societal pressure is that I am not living in India, I am in the US but you are absolutely right about this raising eyebrows even here but to a much milder extent. At the end, we are all responsible for our own actions and make our lives what we want it to be.
Age diff do matters. Dont say one will marry a person of opposite sex of old age. Age must be kept in mind as marriage is no joke. It not only requires trust and love but also time. That comes through physical love and caring. But not that also the person should ignore a other for age sake. If you soon to be partner is 2 or 5 or may be 10 years elder or younger and if all is ok then fine. I guess over 20 years will matter in many ways. Its partical to think rather than to take decision out of open minded brains. Irony is that if a women is 2 to 5 years elder then the men then its considered nonsense and the women/girl is taken for granted. But if she is of bit younger then the men/boy then its ok. Thats the hard play now a days.
Ladka 20 lakh jyada kamaye to chalta h.... Ladki 2 hazar jyada kamaye to ladko ki jindgi Nark... Exceptions are always there..... Unfortunately social norms ne dono ki waatttt laga rakhi... Sorry if I have said anything wrong!!
There is nothing in wrong with age gap love but older women or men who have seen that young partner ageing from childhood in front of them would be somewhat messy
Thought provoking topic,but considering practically, biological aspect, marriage should be difficult but there could be a relationship where there is respect for each other, compatible without being named in a particular bracket.Bhakti you were awesome,also all characters performed well.
Here matter is not about age rather affair with ur aunt i.e. mother's friend. He is son and she her aunt...like her mummy. There couldnt be a relationship and sexual affair between them..kitna ghatiya hoga ek beta aur mausi ka relationship....its all western culture spoiling indian culture and dignity of relations.
You have spoken perfect that we should not play with our feelings rather we should go for a rational morality for these big and important decesions of life
Sahi baat hai age bhaut matter karta hai nahi toh koie kisi sabhi kisi bhi age may shaadi kar lay kya farak parta samaj ko ( its a biological reason ,age also matter )
To stay with a person who is your agemate, worthless, don't value small efforts due to trends and genz drama, cheats you and domestically abuse you is better than being with someone who respect and love you though having thousands of age gap. It is shame in today's generation that couples of same age unable to understand better themselves and part there ways away in a short span of time with minute misunderstanding and dramas. Yes we can consider biological fitness... Well what can you say about the one who is not divorced and by her own wish marry in her 40s , Will she not live her life happily with childrens (may be adopted) The problem is not that she is 40s but she is in love with the one who is in 20s. Right? Remember... No one is perfect even the agemates... Atleast the couples are respecting each other difference is enough... Which is lacking in today's perfect couple in front of society. Don't know how many are there who lost their loved one and compromise their life and became disturbed forever. Thank you. Just shared my views.
Mam please ish topic me video banaye ye ek true story h mera mai jb 8th me the mujhe mere English teacher me crush tha nd kuch din baad unhone mujhe khud propose kya nd hum dono close v hue h 18th year me abi Mai 20ki hoon ur wo mujhse 20saal bara h but i really love my bf ❤❤❤ ur unka family agree h mere liye but Mera family me thoda problem h hum dono family ko pura mana rhe h aasa h jald hum dono ek ho jaye 😢😢❤❤
Such relationships wil never be accepted. The woman wil always be blamed. Other men wil also look at her with lust.wil think of her as a sex starved & easily available woman. Respect oneself. But I liked the way ,she told the young man, did we ever discuss marriage.she took a good decision at the end 👍👍
@aamnajaved Wish you a happy married life forever Remain happy remain blessed And doesn't give attention to those who can't do anything better for you , and putting laugh emoji to ruin your mental health If you both are happy in marriage life and compatible to each other Then age doesn't matter
Lady doesent lose anything As long as the marriage works, she has a young stud If the stud leaves when lady turns 50 or at post menopause, no problem at all as post menopause, young stud is useless At 32 yrs, the young stud - if rich- can marry a 22 yo girl The stud can taste a ripe fruit & just riping fruit ❤😂
Be bhai bhut harmful hota hain body ke liye 10 15 year age gap girls body is not full prepared for this gives very harmful side effects aging jayda lagne kagti hain many loses in body
Priyanka chopra. Nick jonas 10yrs age gap wonderful couple Sambhavna seth avinash. 8yrs gap I think still theyre great match.. Sachin Tendulkar his wife 10yrs gap..age no bar. But 20yrs koi accept ni krega better to stay best friends ❤❤
Agar ladka 18 years baada ho tho ladki se they are so cuit couples...agar ye he ladki 18 years baadi ho tho bolty hai aunty se shadi kiyaa waaaahhh ...aisaa kyun haii soch ....y can't both b same ...ladka bada hoya ladki baadi ye kyun nhi samjty......
Aaj kal ye aam baat hain choti age ke ladke badi umr ki ladies ko approach karte hain attract ho jaaye hain but women's should stop them and let them understand tht search someone of ur age.
Maturity is when you realise manav's father is pervert Instead of solving problems with maturity, he was there to insult the lady and saying he will satisfy her needs , leave my son😂😂😂 He had no trust on his upbringing, and thinking his son is there to satisfy that lady only,
@@_Never_Stop_learning_ First of all when the lady already know that manav was 18 years younger than her and does not have any future with her than why she is in relation with her and secondly as a father he care about his son for his better future. without insulting the lady she could never understood that this is wrong Instead she thinks that Manav's father was jealous from their realtion and She could definitely pressurize Manav to get engage with her, Which is wrong. According to me in this situation Manav's father was absolutely write .
@@BeSafeBySIT pura hi dekha h mane Baki video bhi dekta hu pure But ye pyar umar nhi dekta Ye pyar se pet nhi barta do din ke chochle h fir age ho jayegi tab kha jayege
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If both are happy in marriage life and compatible to each other
Then age doesn't matter
Today's relationships are materialistic. Stay single stay happy. Marriage is a defunct institution.
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@@ayushiydvKG 👍
Do pyaar karne walo ko problem nahin
Magar duniya ko problem hone lagta hain
I don't understand one thing, how can one have a physical relationship with a boy who could be her son's age. Unacceptable 🤔
Viceversa
हर चीज की एक सीमा होती है. इसलिए ये बोलना की age सिर्फ एक नंबर है. सो
प्यार भी एक सीमा मै ही होना चाहिए
सोच बदलो जमाना बदल रहा है
Irrespective of gender, I'd like to say, a huge age gap can bring lots of difficulties...there are many biological reasons behind it..above all in recent times, a gap of 3-4 years can also bring a huge generation gap...dating a guy/girl 18 years older might sound cool, but that's impractical...now someone will say our ancestors used to have huge age gap, but time has changed...but if now also someone can manage a beautiful relationship with no hidden agendas behind, with the age gap of 18 years then a salute to them
absolutely!!
Some Love Stories have a very uncertain future. This is based on a true incident. tell us know your thoughts and we will respond to you.
There are certain rules set by our elders and society and its good for us if we abide by that... for eg man being elder to woman so that they have already started earning and ready to take care of his wife etc etc... and we have to divert ourselves from all nonsense and move on...otherwise life cycle gets disturbed... woman is selfish here....if we divert our minds immediately before getting serious than everything can be forgotten ....
Nice message 👌
This could totally happen around us and is a realistic situation. From what I understand, you are not encouraging it but at the same time not age-shaming a relationship like that.
So I am myself married (2nd marriage) to an 18 year older man who I met while I was recovering from my past trauma. We got along together, had our careers set and took the plunge after knowing each other for 2 years. Yes, it's tough to not get judged, or worry about the future age-related issues but our family accepted us happily and welcomed us with open arms after some Q&A sessions of course 🤪. Today i am 39, we have a beautiful 4 year old daughter and planning our next baby. One thing that keeps me away from societal pressure is that I am not living in India, I am in the US but you are absolutely right about this raising eyebrows even here but to a much milder extent.
At the end, we are all responsible for our own actions and make our lives what we want it to be.
Thanks for educating!!! true story are really heart touching!!!
Age diff do matters. Dont say one will marry a person of opposite sex of old age. Age must be kept in mind as marriage is no joke. It not only requires trust and love but also time. That comes through physical love and caring.
But not that also the person should ignore a other for age sake. If you soon to be partner is 2 or 5 or may be 10 years elder or younger and if all is ok then fine. I guess over 20 years will matter in many ways. Its partical to think rather than to take decision out of open minded brains.
Irony is that if a women is 2 to 5 years elder then the men then its considered nonsense and the women/girl is taken for granted. But if she is of bit younger then the men/boy then its ok. Thats the hard play now a days.
Ladka 20 saal bada ho toh chalta h.lekin ladki ek saal badi bhi nhi chahiye nhi same age ki.
Great point, it is because of our society's misplaced notion that a great relationship can flourish only when the man has to be older, not the woman.
Sahi kha
it is because of hypergamy inherent in women. Google it.
Ladka 20 lakh jyada kamaye to chalta h.... Ladki 2 hazar jyada kamaye to ladko ki jindgi Nark... Exceptions are always there..... Unfortunately social norms ne dono ki waatttt laga rakhi... Sorry if I have said anything wrong!!
@@spyadav4060 Nope, you are not wrong, brother. Social norms have, indeed, screwed our mental health.
Manav Acting Specially Tears In Eyes Good 👍👍👍
There is nothing in wrong with age gap love but older women or men who have seen that young partner ageing from childhood in front of them would be somewhat messy
But when the girl is 18 years elder to the boy... It's a problem no doubt.
It's soo complicated situation 😢😢but good message to all 👍👍👍
It is hard with the age difference when one partner is older. As both partners grow at different rates and it can cause polarity
Thought provoking topic,but considering practically, biological aspect, marriage should be difficult but there could be a relationship where there is respect for each other, compatible without being named in a particular bracket.Bhakti you were awesome,also all characters performed well.
3:21 😂😂i thought it was Abhishek Bacchhan 😂😂😂😂😂😂
15:03
Chavi , Mohits acting was great .... he should also give him a chance in acting
Nice factual story 👍💚
Rishi Rohini Meera wala episode Lao yarrrr. .....missing u guys a lot
Very Inspirational ❤
Thank you so much
@@BeSafeBySIT ur Wlc PlZ Make one film on interfaith relations ❤️
Here matter is not about age rather affair with ur aunt i.e. mother's friend. He is son and she her aunt...like her mummy. There couldnt be a relationship and sexual affair between them..kitna ghatiya hoga ek beta aur mausi ka relationship....its all western culture spoiling indian culture and dignity of relations.
She is not her mausi
Totally agree this is so shameless story just to spoil the society more and more
Beti ki umar ki ladki se baap ki umar ke admiyan jab shaadi karte hai tab kya hota hai...!!!😂😂
Excellent
Thank you so much 😀
You have spoken perfect that we should not play with our feelings rather we should go for a rational morality for these big and important decesions of life
Sahi baat hai age bhaut matter karta hai nahi toh koie kisi sabhi kisi bhi age may shaadi kar lay kya farak parta samaj ko ( its a biological reason ,age also matter )
In pure love . age caste doesn't matter. you showed it wrong manner
Very true whatever the friend told him.
Just wonder about Malaika dating Ranbir. Actually the fact is that it is acceptable in higher class, but not in upper middle class or so
So Sweet
To stay with a person who is your agemate, worthless, don't value small efforts due to trends and genz drama, cheats you and domestically abuse you is better than being with someone who respect and love you though having thousands of age gap.
It is shame in today's generation that couples of same age unable to understand better themselves and part there ways away in a short span of time with minute misunderstanding and dramas.
Yes we can consider biological fitness... Well what can you say about the one who is not divorced and by her own wish marry in her 40s , Will she not live her life happily with childrens (may be adopted)
The problem is not that she is 40s but she is in love with the one who is in 20s. Right?
Remember... No one is perfect even the agemates... Atleast the couples are respecting each other difference is enough... Which is lacking in today's perfect couple in front of society.
Don't know how many are there who lost their loved one and compromise their life and became disturbed forever.
Thank you.
Just shared my views.
Nice story 😢😢
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there is no such question raised when a man married to 18 yrs old girl
Mam please ish topic me video banaye ye ek true story h mera mai jb 8th me the mujhe mere English teacher me crush tha nd kuch din baad unhone mujhe khud propose kya nd hum dono close v hue h 18th year me abi Mai 20ki hoon ur wo mujhse 20saal bara h but i really love my bf ❤❤❤ ur unka family agree h mere liye but Mera family me thoda problem h hum dono family ko pura mana rhe h aasa h jald hum dono ek ho jaye 😢😢❤❤
Such relationships wil never be accepted. The woman wil always be blamed. Other men wil also look at her with lust.wil think of her as a sex starved & easily available woman. Respect oneself. But I liked the way ,she told the young man, did we ever discuss marriage.she took a good decision at the end 👍👍
nyc
I am 33 and my husband is 48 years old...we are living a happy life Alhamdullilah
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😂😂😂😂😂😂 oh Godddd
@aamnajaved
Wish you a happy married life forever
Remain happy remain blessed
And doesn't give attention to those who can't do anything better for you , and putting laugh emoji to ruin your mental health
If you both are happy in marriage life and compatible to each other
Then age doesn't matter
Very common in your community
Is matters in real life.. it is not a one day life it's a huge life after years he will realise what I did😂😂😂😂😂
Episodes r not interesting now a days.... please come back with ur SIT videos
Full episode???
This is the full episode
Lady doesent lose anything
As long as the marriage works, she has a young stud
If the stud leaves when lady turns 50 or at post menopause, no problem at all as post menopause, young stud is useless
At 32 yrs, the young stud - if rich- can marry a 22 yo girl
The stud can taste a ripe fruit & just riping fruit ❤😂
Male prostitute bolte hai unko gadha kahika😂😂😂
yeh show daily video honi chaiye
Parents khud jab 10-15 years bade ladke se arrange marriage karate hain apni beti ka tab kya. Ladki badhi ho gayi toh dikkat
Be bhai bhut harmful hota hain body ke liye 10 15 year age gap girls body is not full prepared for this gives very harmful side effects aging jayda lagne kagti hain many loses in body
Priyanka chopra. Nick jonas 10yrs age gap wonderful couple
Sambhavna seth avinash. 8yrs gap I think still theyre great match..
Sachin Tendulkar his wife 10yrs gap..age no bar. But 20yrs koi accept ni krega better to stay best friends ❤❤
Agar ladka 18 years baada ho tho ladki se they are so cuit couples...agar ye he ladki 18 years baadi ho tho bolty hai aunty se shadi kiyaa waaaahhh ...aisaa kyun haii soch ....y can't both b same ...ladka bada hoya ladki baadi ye kyun nhi samjty......
MOST THIRD CLASS
Nice video ❤
If an old lady gets a young stud, then why reject the stud & lose all the hot fun
I like the elder girl
AGE DOSENT MATTER IF TWO PEOPLE WANT TO SPEND LIFE TOGETHER...❤
Ye to uncle ji ki thi...
18 yrs 😂
18 saal 😱
Same set as the previous SIT show
18 years kuchh zyada nahi hai ..
Aaj kal ye aam baat hain choti age ke ladke badi umr ki ladies ko approach karte hain attract ho jaaye hain but women's should stop them and let them understand tht search someone of ur age.
Relationship between young man and older woman can be good too.
Women should not stop them. There is nothing wrong in it.
Beta baap hi genetically same nhi lag rahe hai
Baap ki height itni jaida hai and beta lag hi nhi Raha uska
The young man in question should weigh the pro and cons of cougar relation before taking the plunge in marriage considering our societal norms.
Maturity is when you realise manav's father is right.
Maturity is when you realise manav's father is pervert
Instead of solving problems with maturity, he was there to insult the lady and saying he will satisfy her needs , leave my son😂😂😂
He had no trust on his upbringing, and thinking his son is there to satisfy that lady only,
@@_Never_Stop_learning_ First of all when the lady already know that manav was 18 years younger than her and does not have any future with her than why she is in relation with her and secondly as a father he care about his son for his better future. without insulting the lady she could never understood that this is wrong
Instead she thinks that Manav's father was jealous from their realtion and
She could definitely pressurize Manav to get engage with her,
Which is wrong.
According to me in this situation Manav's father was absolutely write .
@@PriyankaSingh-xf4jw Tum ne nehi kiya...!!! Baap ke Umar ke log se shaadi...!!!! 😂😂😂😂
Ladke ke baap ki soch kitni ghatiya thi, pyar main koi umar nahin dekha jaata pyar dil se hota hai
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@@Priyanshu-r6t aapko agar pyar hota toh yeh hasni wali emoji nahi lagate 😡😡😡😡😡😡
@@parthchrangoo dude you're crazy
You're stupid if you are dating & ready to marry girl of your mom's age..
Te konsa chutiypa dikha rahe ho
15 sal bad ye 40 ka hoga or wo 60 ki tab kya
Limit hoti h kisi chiz ki
Watch till the end before commenting.
@@BeSafeBySIT pura hi dekha h mane
Baki video bhi dekta hu pure
But ye pyar umar nhi dekta
Ye pyar se pet nhi barta do din ke chochle h fir age ho jayegi tab kha jayege
@@maheshdhayal5252 Purane zamane mai choti Umar ke ladko ke sath 35, 40 ki buddho ki shaadiyan hoti thi.... Tab kaha tha tum jaiso ka ye logic....😊😂
@Your-Paulami lodu tab hum paida bhi nhi hue the
Or jo phle glt hua usi ko krte rahoge kya
Lag raha h Tu bhi kisi budau ke fasi h
Jyda gyan mat chodna muje