Unfortunately there are no guaranties in life. I was married to my Filipina wife for 21 years and she passed away from cancer in Aug 2022. She was 68 at the time. We had a wonderful life together and I will miss her every day. So live your life to the fullest and money does not buy happiness.
Man will give there lives so they can have more of it yet it doesn’t bring happiness, lol! I’m not saying money is a cure all cause it is not. Yet, I can tell you never been broke, and homeless before! It’s one thing being a child and not knowing any better. You see money the same way as others. It’s just a piece of paper. The problem with that thought is you forget what was traded to get that value from the real world. Just because some don’t have to give as much as others doesn’t mean that value is lost. I guess you think money is the root to all evil too! Yet who made the money?!. If man did away with money then what would you say about it then? We would still need those things it provides just to survive. How would you get those things? How are you goin to obtain the land? Saying what you said sound like the victim mindset to me. I had girlfriend get hit by school bus after five years. No it wasn’t a lifetime but we was planing for that. I have had to learn that my happiness doesn’t come from anyone but it does come from something’s. Eating tasty food can make me happy. Traveling can make me happy. See the world, and hiking the mountains make me happy. I can do all these things without money but do you know how difficult that is? I could never get passport or go across the world now days without it. So money might not buy happiness or love etc but it sure does fucking help! Try getting a woman broke and homeless… Ps sorry for your loss
I’ve been to the Philippines several times. I met my wife there while on vacation. She is the best thing that has ever happened to happened to me. Two more years we will return to the Philippines to retire. The province people are the best people on earth.
my Filipina wife and I were together for 57 wonderful years. She passed Jan 28, 2022 from covid. I miss her so much. we had 4 children together and then 12 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren. 😢😢
If you married a young filipina, you have to prepare for the day you will leave her. By prepare, I mean you should have things set up so that she can maintain a comfortable life after you pass. Whatever you do, don't leave her a lump sum and expect her to use it wisely. Make it like a monthly withdrawal rate as filipinas are notoriously bad with money over and above the daily necessities. I've seen it numerous times where the filipina is left with a lump sum and her first purchase is that new porsche convertible. After 2 years, she's penniless and has to take up a job if she can even find one.
My brother, I believe this applies to all women. If you can, and your lawyer knows the lingo to account for general inflation/deflation, that would be the way to take care of your other/family, well after you are gone.
The only reason a person dies from any cancer or virus is because of their poor health & vitality from lifestyle. Almost no children die from cancer and viruses etc. If you want to live younger and longer, get in touch with and learn from Don Bennett, and Anne Osborne and Doug Graham...and me. Or you could have a closed mind and so do no research as usual.
I heard of a similar situation with an age gap like that, and the older man's friends and family expressed concern that having sex with such a young girl at his age could be dangerous. He replied, "If she dies, she dies." Actually, that gives me hope--I'm 75. I have a friend in the UK who got married , for the first time, to a nice woman from Hong Kong when he was 66 and she was 36. They're still together and doing fine about eight or nine years later.
Good, informative video! Care and love are very important, but I would also add men of all ages would prefer drama free relationships. When we are done for the day at work, home should be our sanctuary. We want peace after a stressful day. I'd assume that would still apply for retirees.
Wow ! 23 ? I have seen most of your vids. I thought you were in your 30s. Very impressive your world views and stunningly intelligent and insightful content. Well done building this channel. Your family is delightful...I enjoy them very much. It's fun watching what is happening in the background in your vids featuring your family and the province 🙂
@@lorandmagyar Whoa, say these exact words to an American woman of the same age and you'll get a big fat "excuuse me"! No matter how smart and insightful you say they are.
What a lovely heartfelt talk Gelay gave today. I hope you find a nice man to marry and will also go to church with you and has extra money to support you. May God Bless you soon.
I am 60,and nearly divorced. I am not willing to stay alone when I get even older therefor a philippina would be the best option. My problem is that everybody is giving advice for young girls,but what I want is a +/_ 50 year old lady to love and care for,and vice versa. The 2000$ are not an issue, but the honesty and loyalty. I must go there to see myself l think
i have been talking to people from the Philippines here. The men, woman, and trans girls I have meet all keep saying I am so young and i should go. Also spoke to a few of them the other advantage is to have a light skinned baby. So 20 year older guy and white skin high demand. Its just different and hard to accept, but seeing it for yourself will help. Also with the older men, the better you look, the more money, and the better shape of your body will make a big difference.
I am 66 and my Filipina is 57. I went from Texas to the Philippines to meet her after chatting on Facebook Messenger and using the same for video calls. I knew er 1 year before I went there. I had no real iterest in a very young woman. Just someone who was a little closer to my age. Best decision I ever made too! We will be getting married in Texas when I get her K-1 visa. It's going to be a wonderful life! Well, what time I have left with be wonderful. 😂
I was sincerely searching for a wife in the Philippines for 15 years. Sorry to say, most Filipinas are just like any other female around the world. You will support an entire extended family. Every day it's some new expense for one thing and several others. Poverty and government corruption is chronic.
Smile, your video makes me happy. I am 65 and from Germany. I have a gf way up north in the Philippines and I don’t have a lot money. But, we love eachother and of cause, we see eachother for 4.5 years and next time we will get married. Hopefully in church
i'm in my 70s but look like 60s. it gives comfort knowing that young ladies in the phillipines can appreciate the wealth and wisdom of old westerners, you are a sweetheart
If you're over 50 the only thing these women will want from you is money and security you will get scammed thinking that you're going to compete with attractive 2030 and 40 year old men
The only thing they appreciate is $$$$ Start reading books at 70, go for walk have some ice cream in the park. Invest your money in better things like a real doll
@erriconeale6924......I got rid of arthritis when I started drinking 🚰 4 liters of water 💧 on a daily basis. Show me a person who has arthritis and I will show you a person who is dehydrated and more than likely has an acidic diet.
@@Buildsolarhomes4 liters of water can over-hydrate you. You’re basically drowning your cells beyond the 70% we already are. Plus washing away any vitamins and minerals in your body. A full grown male adult only needs to 2 Liters to be fully hydrated.
Gelay On the age gap dating matter I found it very interesting that you and other Filipinas do you not see the “old face” of a foreigner, but see him as exotic regardless of his age. So there is almost an age blindness to westerner appearance?. Therefore The Filipina is free to concentrate on the qualities and financial stability of the man, not his age. Very insightful to an American like me. something I have never Heard before to explain why age gap doesn’t really matter. i’ve watched many Vloggers for years from the Philippines but you are the first to explain this! it is a wonderful thing and I thank you for helping us understand. I have visited Dauin twice now and this insight helps a man be less concerned about his age when looking for a younger Filipina. Great video.
Yes first time I've ever heard that. Funny thing is I have always been attracted to Latin culture and see exotic faces and many times dated 10+ yrs older than myself
A lot of older men choose the Philippines because they loved it and loved the people from their time in the military. When the United States pulled out of the Philippines, it cancelled a beloved port of call for many Sailors and Marines and like myself, I deeply miss the people and the climate
I can sum up for you. A younger man has more time and less money or no time and no money. An older man has the money but not enough time left to spend it all. For an older man, companionship is more important and intimacy is just a bonus.
Hi Gelay, I just want to say I enjoy your content. And your English is very well I’m on my way to the Philippines and would love to meet with someone like you 😊 keep up the good work
You have knowledge beyond your years - and well said - it needs to be said - with compassion - and sensitivity. Well done and i hope you will do more. THANK YOU. I was married to a lady from Palawan for over 25 years and she is till with me - tho she past away 15 years ago - life ends but the relationship does not. She is still with me...
I live in Asia. There is a delusion with western guys about 'a better life in USA or UK or wherever'. Life is better in southeast Asia if you are comfortably off. Why would a filipina (or Thai, Indonesian, Vietnamese etc) want to go to USA? Away from family and culture. I'm not saying that it can't work, it can if you live in SEA, maybe married for 5+ years, she knows your family and has travelled with you many times... AND she is keen to move at some point
They want to go to USA for better opportunities. It's all about perspective. Living in SE Asia is good for westerners with money. Not so good if you're a local looking for a job. @pulau6481
Maybe meant dining out with young Filipinas. Lol. I actually don’t think so because I’ve watched a few of her videos that get a little raw in conversation…
You are so beautiful and care about people for sure. You are also intelligent beyond your young years. You give old foreigners hope they can find happiness.
Just 1 correction: The Americans did not "Colonize" the Philippines. The Spanish-American war (1866-1898) ended Spains colonial empire of over 300 years of BRUTAL treatment, massacres' exploitation of wealth ( The Manila Gallions) by Miguel Lopez, de LAGAZPI of Filipinos after Ferdnand MAGELLON was killed at MACTAN ISLAND, Now CEBU. Filipinos had there freedoms restored by The Americans and complete sovereign independence was granted in 1946. The Americans didn't massacre Filipinos during WW2 . It was the IMPERIAL JAPANESE ARMY, That raped, burned, beheaded, and BAYONETTED, women, men & Children ( including babies in diapers) ( look @ historical war photos of the Manila Battle. The Americans never even came close to treating Filipinos as subjects.
Your way of thinking is so beautiful.. Makes me want to come there and someone like you loving and caring and honest.. It sounds so good we don't get this in the USA at least i have never experienced this kind of affection and caring. It seems we are mostly just used for finances that is why so many leave the rat race to retire with beautiful lady as yourself in the Philippines.. Why are you not married you seem like the perfect woman and have such heart filled words it is so moving for me to watch you. and the catchy titles of your videos ahhahaha 🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😘😘😘
I actually don’t have a preference, all I want is someone to love me the way I will love them, to be honest, loyal, happy, feminine, trustworthy. If she appreciates, respects me loyal to me , gives me attention and be faithful I will move mountains for that woman. I am a very loyal person to My family and friends and whoever is in my inner circle. I don’t know if I could live in the Philippines, more like Vietnam, Malaysia or Thailand. I don’t want to young of a woman and I’m 59, we wouldn’t have much in common and don’t want someone to just be w me for my Money.
I sent a reply to you! But it is in the main reply section area. Look for it about the 3 year tourist visa program in the Philippines. Also everyone speaks English here in the Philippines!
you don't see below the level of her chest during the video, maybe there was a hidden "dining at the Y" demonstration going on and that's why her voice was so soft a soothed sounding?
If i had a woman taking care of the house at all, cooking, cleaning, whatever, it would be a first. That would be the most someone would have offered me in any relationship to date. Love, caring, loyalty, all fantasy luxuries in the United States. I spoke to Filipinas here in the US, they often are here from marriage. They have told me I am so young and I should be talking to 20 year old women. I am 42. I said, I am old. It's such a culture shock. You mean I don't have to marry a 40 year old with 5 kids? There's hope in the future!
Go to ANY other SE Asian country or Latin American country. Seriously. I have lived in and traveled to several countries in both regions. I'm currently in Thailand. Don't waste your time or your money in The Philippines.
Tourism and international money is the life blood of the economy in The Philippines. The reason we come to the country is not the country its the women. Pinay women are good company (generally) of good character. PS: Your headline means something much ruder than (I think) you intended.
I met my wife shortly after being sent to Clark AB in early 1982. We are quickly approaching 42 years of marriage. Best thing that ever happened to me!
I admire you and enjoyed all that you had to say today. Im an early retired airline pilot from Florida, USA and im also a medical doctor. I"m ready to move to the Philipines and ask you out to dinner.
14:44 This mark is AFTER the hostess said her peace on what a Filipina brings to the table, and as an older man, I have to say you hit the nail on the head. The only problem is, I never had kids, but always wanted them. I will need to marry a young 18- to 20-year-old girl who will commit to giving me many children. I was one of six children my parents had together, and they each were one of six, so I had many cousins on both sides of the family. I met my wife when we were both in our 30's, and I told her I wanted children. They never came, and my wife passed away a few years ago of Covid. The dating scene here in the States is a nightmare, and the women are generally not worth the time they demand and not worth the money they think they deserve. What Gelay said spoke to my heart. If she knows a girl in child-bearing age range who is not currently involved with anyone, and preferably never has been, who isn't concerned with the fact that a sixty-year old guy wants to marry her and get her pregnant repeatedly over many happy years. My mother, who currently is in the other room watching reruns of Murder, She Wrote, is in her 80's, so there's no reason I shouldn't be able to watch our oldest children graduate from college, at least, before I die. But the fact is, I am generally healthier now than my mom was at my age, so I should also be healthier at her age now when I get there, if God allows me to.
My asawa is older then me and she is the hardest working person I know. Her values are very inline with mine and we have so much in common (we grew up in the same age). There is one very big advantage to being with a well established Filipina in the Philippines and that is they have connections in their community most would never see, all my asawa's batchmates are established in the community and many have jobs that are great like doctors/lawyers/judges/teachers/business owners/government employs. This community resource tree when you include their family's reach places you would never believe. She is also from Dumaguete!
Warmer weather is nice ! But I love snow skiing 👍. I mostly live in Indiana. But also have a beach condo in Myrtle Beach. I chose this area because it still has 4 seasons. It gets cold...but not like Indiana. I would like the Philippines...but would prefer to live part time there and part time in the US. It's just so damn hard for Filipinas (and their kiddos) to travel. Whereas in Columbia it's much easier for women to travel. Still... I would love to visit the Philippines. I was on the phone with "Bela" who said she was working at a call center in Dumaguete. I didn't realize there were phone centers there.
You are such a beautiful young lady. I pray that God pours His blessings out upon you. I've learned more in one hour of watching your videos than I could've ever hoped for. Thank you! 😘
Younger guys can not come live in the Philippines. That is why filipinas should not worry about passport bros coming. My girlfriend did not want an older guy and we found each other, she knows that younger guys in the Philippines is not common so she tells me that she's know how lucky she is to be with me and I am younger. So even filipinas know it's not common for younger guys to come.
Very well done on this video. I am 62 years old and consider myself young. My love, a very attractive female, passed away at 44 years old. She was a well educated person, a nurse. She made me laugh every day. Now I hurt for her loss.
I wish more American women thought that way, all they care about is money, me, myself, and I, some even think that way over their own kids. Trust me sweetie,Love and care is all I’d need…I’d take care of everything else in life. ❤
Old men didnt choose Philippines, they chose HIM. He has 193 countries to choose from. Why does he go there? Because they chose him. He went where he is treated best
Hello Gelay. I just became a new subscriber to your channel. Thanks for a great video with good information on the people and living in the Philippines.
The number one reason is English is spoken in the Philippines. Signs are in English, they drive on the same side of the road. There’s a good relationship with the US because the Philippines used to be an American colony. The climate in the Philippines is an average of 82 degrees Fahrenheit. Has far less to do with woman than it has to do with being able to live well on a fraction of the salary they received while working. Rent for a 2 br apt is normally under 200 dollars per month, lights are under 60 usd and water is about 6 usd per month. For me these are very good reasons to choose the Philippines if you’re retired.
Hello Gelay my first time viewing your video. Very well done your intelligence and smile simply amazing. The topics you spoke on are truly realistic. Life can be tough so its true enjoy it together keep it fun , exciting and most of all caring for each other. I can see you are obviously a beautiful and caring young lady. Thank you so much
Yes their is many countries in the world why Philippines and other Asian countries it’s because no better women that Filipinas and other Asian women you take relationship love to the max level it’s like you love a man so much if you could you live inside him if only you could. Your on max level of respect love honesty loyalty you love kids so much even if they not yours you still treat them as your kids.
Fillipina wants a money gap relationship. I saw videos where hot young girls say they want to marry a foreigner in their 80s so they will die soon. Probably most guys go to the Philippines just because people speak English. Other places are actually better options, like Thailand which has better infrastructure, government, and food, as well as cheaper and better hotels.
@@user-tm5fk4wm3o That's good to know if I ever have to make a decision between visiting the Philippines or Thailand. For an American, which tastes better, Filipino food or non-spicy Thai food? Although my favorite singers are in the Philippines.
@@user-tm5fk4wm3o I see video blogs of Filipinos eating at gatherings, and it always looks like a lot of fresh meat and other unidentifiable things. Of course, that doesn't speak to the quality of the meat.
Guys, just remember that women are different. Women marry up. Financial stability/security is powerful, women (almost all) are attracted to that. As guys, our first thing we look for is her looks, then we seek a good personality after. Now, you have to spend time with your girlfriend, build that trust, take it slow. Once you know, you’ll know. Trust your gut and you can weed out the true gold diggers. Treat her right, she will treat you right.
Guys she is also talking about some cheating filipinas that she had observed seen and witnessed if you guys are not around that is what she is trying to say.
She is also giving you guys a heads up to watch out for the cheating ones and the cell phone girls they like the young filipinos to flirt with cellphone filipinos. Guys you need to have fun life over there in Philippines be interested in what she is cooking how she cooks and clean just be a cool partner to a filipina you you all will be just fine.
I'm 84 and have been living with a 24 year old philipina for last 5 years.we have great sex life and same hobbies etc . Its great. And I'm not rich so its not about the money.
Biggest clickbait video title ever, but good topics. 😄 It's not as cheap to live well there as some people would think. You can live real poor easily, but many things (computers, phone, appliances) will cost even more over there. Don't get me wrong, it's less to live there, and you can hire a maid, gardener, etc. for a small fraction of what you can here, but the cost of some goods is even greater.
Ahh, now you've done it. I thought it was going to be paradise. Now I'm hearing that not only will the humidity and heat make me miserable, and I'm probably not going to be very satisfied with the "mañana" social attitude towards everything, as well as the insane driving conditions, oh yeah, and the noticeable absence or high prices of good beef, and yada, yada, yada, . . . So, now I'm hearing that prices of goods such as refrigerators, freezers (if available), computers, laptops, smartphones, i-phones, cars, etc., etc., etc., are all going to be MORE (?) expensive? Next, you're going to be telling me that my future sweet, young Filipina's sister(s), brother(s), mother, estranged father, gramma(s), gampa(s), cousins, aunt(s), uncle(s), and best friend will need an extra $10 or $20 a month EACH to help out with daily expenses. Hmm, maybe I better think all this through some before I make a move.
As someone who is 42, who isn't retired, never married or have any kids. I would love to find a work and travel companion. I really want kids and I'm eager to work that into my life as well. Going to try my luck visiting this fall. Going to put myself out there even though im a introvert by nature. But I'm sure I can meet a sweet and lovely Filipina girl who also loves anime as much as me. That would be a perfect match.
You will enjoy talking to everyone in English, in the Philippines. Next is the tourist visa program. Enter the Philippines, get your passport stamp on arrival. You use the tourist visa, without leaving the country for three years. Pay a very low monthly extension fee. Extend a few days before your extension expires. Leave the country as you like, but before three years. Visa run! Return anytime, like a day later, and start in for up to another 3 years! Good luck!
FOREIGNER LOVES EATING OUT YOUNG FILIPINA! There is not one word about this topic in this post.. Gelay is the very bet at getting us here and then not giving it to us. Gelay is the Master Teaser.
Personally, I have no truck here. But my passing will be a gold mine for my mates. They will be well-served and able to decide their course. Their decisions are their decisions. I care very much, yet, I will be dead. I can only trust others.
Let me set you straight, sweetheart. American old men go to the Philippines because they can get a young Filipina as a girlfriend. Period. What's really nice is that Filipina rentals are available. It's just reality, honey. You can put whatever other spin you want on it. The bottom line is that a Filipina is easy to win over. Your attempted high-class attitude is entertaining, however.
I don't think there will be anyone judging you because you're at least trying your best if you guys think the same way leave a like down below to show support to this beautiful lady
Gelay, you are the sweetest most soft spoken woman I have ever heard. Your videos are very heartwarming. You do a wonderful job! keep it up! and god bless you.. Curtis
Because we want our woman fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, and respectful.
Unfortunately there are no guaranties in life. I was married to my Filipina wife for 21 years and she passed away from cancer in Aug 2022. She was 68 at the time. We had a wonderful life together and I will miss her every day. So live your life to the fullest and money does not buy happiness.
So sorry for your loss
Man will give there lives so they can have more of it yet it doesn’t bring happiness, lol! I’m not saying money is a cure all cause it is not. Yet, I can tell you never been broke, and homeless before! It’s one thing being a child and not knowing any better. You see money the same way as others. It’s just a piece of paper. The problem with that thought is you forget what was traded to get that value from the real world. Just because some don’t have to give as much as others doesn’t mean that value is lost. I guess you think money is the root to all evil too! Yet who made the money?!. If man did away with money then what would you say about it then? We would still need those things it provides just to survive. How would you get those things? How are you goin to obtain the land? Saying what you said sound like the victim mindset to me. I had girlfriend get hit by school bus after five years. No it wasn’t a lifetime but we was planing for that. I have had to learn that my happiness doesn’t come from anyone but it does come from something’s. Eating tasty food can make me happy. Traveling can make me happy. See the world, and hiking the mountains make me happy. I can do all these things without money but do you know how difficult that is? I could never get passport or go across the world now days without it. So money might not buy happiness or love etc but it sure does fucking help! Try getting a woman broke and homeless…
Ps sorry for your loss
@@josephspruill1212 Of course you need money, that was not what I was implying. I was just saying that it's not the main thing to happiness.
Money buys you a 🔑 to happiness, it is up to the person to unlock the right 🚪 that leads to the right lifestyle
Sorry for your loss
I’ve been to the Philippines several times. I met my wife there while on vacation. She is the best thing that has ever happened to happened to me. Two more years we will return to the Philippines to retire. The province people are the best people on earth.
Hold on a second. You met your wife there? She didn't even tell you she was going to the filipins?
You live in USA🇺🇸?
@@EinSofQuesterit sounds like he met her there, they went back to his country and will return to the pi
Everywhere is a province - technically. You mean countryside
@@irielion3748 countryside make sense to me , I am from the UK
my Filipina wife and I were together for 57 wonderful years. She passed Jan 28, 2022 from covid. I miss her so much. we had 4 children together and then 12 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren. 😢😢
Now that's a bloodline my man.
Sorry for your loss man
OMG!!! I'm truly so very, very sorry Sir. 😮💨
Beautiful
That is a good life, a successful life!
Where’s the part about…”eating”?
Click bait. Lol
Typographical error:
Dating vs
Eating.
Marketing genius eating over dating lol
:)~~~~
I guess I have misplaced priorities. When I saw "eating out", I thought she was going to talk about restaurants in the Philippines.
Filipinas taste much better than other nationalities!
Absolutely they are so Sweet and Tasty!
Masarap
And much tighter.
Are they spicy.
@@sajalgoswami1217 Interesting.
If you married a young filipina, you have to prepare for the day you will leave her. By prepare, I mean you should have things set up so that she can maintain a comfortable life after you pass. Whatever you do, don't leave her a lump sum and expect her to use it wisely. Make it like a monthly withdrawal rate as filipinas are notoriously bad with money over and above the daily necessities. I've seen it numerous times where the filipina is left with a lump sum and her first purchase is that new porsche convertible. After 2 years, she's penniless and has to take up a job if she can even find one.
Great idea. My lovely wife is awful with money, though she does not spend beyond our means. I should set up some kind of monthly payment to her.
My brother, I believe this applies to all women. If you can, and your lawyer knows the lingo to account for general inflation/deflation, that would be the way to take care of your other/family, well after you are gone.
The only reason a person dies from any cancer or virus is because of their poor health & vitality from lifestyle.
Almost no children die from cancer and viruses etc.
If you want to live younger and longer, get in touch with and learn from Don Bennett, and Anne Osborne and Doug Graham...and me.
Or you could have a closed mind and so do no research as usual.
Im 82 living with 22 year old filipina. Relationship is great, she takes care of me in every way and i take care of her
Wholesome
Does she takes care you don't run out of hemoroids cream?
Your life is better, her life is better... Win win!
@@Dick_Justice_304 Bahahaa!
I heard of a similar situation with an age gap like that, and the older man's friends and family expressed concern that having sex with such a young girl at his age could be dangerous. He replied, "If she dies, she dies." Actually, that gives me hope--I'm 75. I have a friend in the UK who got married , for the first time, to a nice woman from Hong Kong when he was 66 and she was 36. They're still together and doing fine about eight or nine years later.
This young, beautiful lady melted my 60 year old heart.
Like Heaven on Earth
The Filipinas are the most beautiful, sweetest. Sexiest, most feminine..
Good, informative video! Care and love are very important, but I would also add men of all ages would prefer drama free relationships. When we are done for the day at work, home should be our sanctuary. We want peace after a stressful day. I'd assume that would still apply for retirees.
Wow ! 23 ? I have seen most of your vids. I thought you were in your 30s. Very impressive your world views and stunningly intelligent and insightful content. Well done building this channel. Your family is delightful...I enjoy them very much. It's fun watching what is happening in the background in your vids featuring your family and the province 🙂
@@lorandmagyar Whoa, say these exact words to an American woman of the same age and you'll get a big fat "excuuse me"! No matter how smart and insightful you say they are.
What a lovely heartfelt talk Gelay gave today. I hope you find a nice man to marry and will also go to church with you and has extra money to support you. May God Bless you soon.
Filipinas are just so beautiful and feminine.
I am 60,and nearly divorced. I am not willing to stay alone when I get even older therefor a philippina would be the best option. My problem is that everybody is giving advice for young girls,but what I want is a +/_ 50 year old lady to love and care for,and vice versa.
The 2000$ are not an issue, but the honesty and loyalty. I must go there to see myself l think
Sounds like a good idea, I'm with you on that one.
But there's plenty of old birds to be had here!
Might as well stay home, if that's the case..
She there 50+ she will have more bagage most filipina say there old at 35 lol
i have been talking to people from the Philippines here. The men, woman, and trans girls I have meet all keep saying I am so young and i should go. Also spoke to a few of them the other advantage is to have a light skinned baby. So 20 year older guy and white skin high demand. Its just different and hard to accept, but seeing it for yourself will help. Also with the older men, the better you look, the more money, and the better shape of your body will make a big difference.
I am 66 and my Filipina is 57. I went from Texas to the Philippines to meet her after chatting on Facebook Messenger and using the same for video calls. I knew er 1 year before I went there. I had no real iterest in a very young woman. Just someone who was a little closer to my age. Best decision I ever made too! We will be getting married in Texas when I get her K-1 visa. It's going to be a wonderful life! Well, what time I have left with be wonderful. 😂
You can do better in Thailand, Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, Malaysia, Indonesia...
The Philippines has chronic poverty and chronic government corruption.
I spent 13 years over there and ran from airconditioned room to aircon car to aircon Mall/Restaurants ! Never got used to the heat !
nobody does even locals
Well just thank god or whatever that you did not live in South Florida. When I was 4 yrs. old I discovered it and Hell on Earth are one and the same.
Try a mountain town, no?
I will just stay in the USA !
Yeah, just 2 weeks ago it was 107°F there during the night! Lol ❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊
No Counting money just giving, receiving, loving, Give for her basic needs....the spending never ends.
Where's the 'eating' part. This is click-bait. Goodbye!!!
You are really wise and so adorable, I loved this video. I wish you all the happiness in the world.
I was sincerely searching for a wife in the Philippines for 15 years.
Sorry to say, most Filipinas are just like any other female around the world.
You will support an entire extended family.
Every day it's some new expense for one thing and several others.
Poverty and government corruption is chronic.
Smile, your video makes me happy. I am 65 and from Germany. I have a gf way up north in the Philippines and I don’t have a lot money. But, we love eachother and of cause, we see eachother for 4.5 years and next time we will get married. Hopefully in church
hold your money. don't buy a house there.
i'm in my 70s but look like 60s. it gives comfort knowing that young ladies in the phillipines can appreciate the wealth and wisdom of old westerners, you are a sweetheart
She’s farming you for views. Just saying what men want to hear
It's the wealth they want, don't fool yourself believing it's anything but.
If you're over 50 the only thing these women will want from you is money and security you will get scammed thinking that you're going to compete with attractive 2030 and 40 year old men
@@chrisellis9689exactly 🤦🏽
The only thing they appreciate is $$$$
Start reading books at 70, go for walk have some ice cream in the park. Invest your money in better things like a real doll
Some older people like tropical places as it helps with arthritis and joint pain.
@erriconeale6924......I got rid of arthritis when I started drinking 🚰 4 liters of water 💧 on a daily basis. Show me a person who has arthritis and I will show you a person who is dehydrated and more than likely has an acidic diet.
stop lying lol @@Buildsolarhomes
@@Buildsolarhomes4 liters of water can over-hydrate you. You’re basically drowning your cells beyond the 70% we already are. Plus washing away any vitamins and minerals in your body. A full grown male adult only needs to 2 Liters to be fully hydrated.
I have asthma so tropical is great
I grew up in Miami FL. Yes, old people love hot hot hot weather. 95 and above!
Because young foreigners can't afford to stay in the PH long term, Meljean can attest to it
The younger guys don't stay, it's this simple
TOO BAD..................................lol
@@netizenplanetshoot n scoot
They need to go back and work to live
Meljean has earned enough that she can afford to choose a young man and not have to choose an old man sponsor.
Gelay On the age gap dating matter I found it very interesting that you and other Filipinas do you not see the “old face” of a foreigner, but see him as exotic regardless of his age. So there is almost an age blindness to westerner appearance?. Therefore The Filipina is free to concentrate on the qualities and financial stability of the man, not his age. Very insightful to an American like me. something I have never Heard before to explain why age gap doesn’t really matter. i’ve watched many Vloggers for years from the Philippines but you are the first to explain this! it is a wonderful thing and I thank you for helping us understand. I have visited Dauin twice now and this insight helps a man be less concerned about his age when looking for a younger Filipina. Great video.
Yes first time I've ever heard that. Funny thing is I have always been attracted to Latin culture and see exotic faces and many times dated 10+ yrs older than myself
A lot of older men choose the Philippines because they loved it and loved the people from their time in the military. When the United States pulled out of the Philippines, it cancelled a beloved port of call for many Sailors and Marines and like myself, I deeply miss the people and the climate
I can sum up for you. A younger man has more time and less money or no time and no money. An older man has the money but not enough time left to spend it all. For an older man, companionship is more important and intimacy is just a bonus.
Hi Gelay,
I just want to say I enjoy your content. And your English is very well I’m on my way to the Philippines and would love to meet with someone like you 😊 keep up the good work
That was so sweet 😢❤ Thank You ❤
You have knowledge beyond your years - and well said - it needs to be said - with compassion - and sensitivity. Well done and i hope you will do more. THANK YOU.
I was married to a lady from Palawan for over 25 years and she is till with me - tho she past away 15 years ago - life ends but the relationship does not. She is still with me...
Hi beautiful, you are so wise. Thank you for always being there with information about life and love. You deserve happiness and a good man. ❤❤
No one should be dominated...It's about love and mutual respect...Character is a must...
I'm 50 and looking to give a Phillipines lady a great life here in USA. And willing to help her family
Don't bring them to your Country
Bringing a bucket of sand home from a beach makes quite a mess.
I live in Asia. There is a delusion with western guys about 'a better life in USA or UK or wherever'. Life is better in southeast Asia if you are comfortably off.
Why would a filipina (or Thai, Indonesian, Vietnamese etc) want to go to USA? Away from family and culture.
I'm not saying that it can't work, it can if you live in SEA, maybe married for 5+ years, she knows your family and has travelled with you many times... AND she is keen to move at some point
They want to go to USA for better opportunities. It's all about perspective. Living in SE Asia is good for westerners with money. Not so good if you're a local looking for a job. @pulau6481
Am I reading the title of this video correctly?
Maybe lost in translation 😊
I think the "with" is missing
It caught my attention
And yours so well done 👏
I wondered the same thing......lol
Yea, translation problem. Or clic bait?
Maybe meant dining out with young Filipinas. Lol. I actually don’t think so because I’ve watched a few of her videos that get a little raw in conversation…
Yes. That’s what I thought “with” Because she certainly didn’t address the title
So many talented and articulate bloggers in the Philippines. Gelay is one of them!!
Having a loving, caring wife would bring me unspeakable joy. I hope that someday God will allow me to find such a woman in the Philippines.
Well these ladies are fantastic. I love my dearly and I knows she loves me because how she looks at me and takes good care of me
Those people are lucky to have a wife from the Philippines, God bless them 👍
You are so beautiful and care about people for sure. You are also intelligent beyond your young years. You give old foreigners hope they can find happiness.
Title was a genius play on words. It got the views
Agree, click bait!
@@KeyboardWorrier Yes!
Can you explain it? I don't get it.
@@sneakysnickersnoopy Google Urban dictionary and type in the video title.
Just 1 correction: The Americans did not "Colonize" the Philippines. The Spanish-American war (1866-1898) ended Spains colonial empire of over 300 years of BRUTAL treatment, massacres' exploitation of wealth ( The Manila Gallions) by Miguel Lopez, de LAGAZPI of Filipinos after Ferdnand MAGELLON was killed at MACTAN ISLAND, Now CEBU. Filipinos had there freedoms restored by The Americans and complete sovereign independence was granted in 1946. The Americans didn't massacre Filipinos during WW2 . It was the IMPERIAL JAPANESE ARMY, That raped, burned, beheaded, and BAYONETTED, women, men & Children ( including babies in diapers) ( look @ historical war photos of the Manila Battle. The Americans never even came close to treating Filipinos as subjects.
Your way of thinking is so beautiful.. Makes me want to come there and someone like you loving and caring and honest.. It sounds so good we don't get this in the USA at least i have never experienced this kind of affection and caring. It seems we are mostly just used for finances that is why so many leave the rat race to retire with beautiful lady as yourself in the Philippines.. Why are you not married you seem like the perfect woman and have such heart filled words it is so moving for me to watch you. and the catchy titles of your videos ahhahaha 🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😘😘😘
I actually don’t have a preference, all I want is someone to love me the way I will love them, to be honest, loyal, happy, feminine, trustworthy. If she appreciates, respects me loyal to me , gives me attention and be faithful I will move mountains for that woman. I am a very loyal person to
My family and friends and whoever is in my inner circle. I don’t know if I could live in the Philippines, more like Vietnam, Malaysia or Thailand. I don’t want to young of a woman and I’m 59, we wouldn’t have much in common and don’t want someone to just be w me for my
Money.
I sent a reply to you! But it is in the main reply section area. Look for it about the 3 year tourist visa program in the Philippines. Also everyone speaks English here in the Philippines!
Get a dog
My Filipina wife is my everthing!!!
That was such a heart felt conversation. You are wise beyond your years.. ❤
Thank you so much!
No mention of the video title in the video?
Lmao 😂 clickbait but very informational video
But it's still true...
As usual for this channel. Seems to be working for her.
i only click on it because of the title 😂😂😂
you don't see below the level of her chest during the video, maybe there was a hidden "dining at the Y" demonstration going on and that's why her voice was so soft a soothed sounding?
Offering care and love is a great offer, don’t sell yourself short. You seem like a great person. 🙏🏼
If i had a woman taking care of the house at all, cooking, cleaning, whatever, it would be a first. That would be the most someone would have offered me in any relationship to date. Love, caring, loyalty, all fantasy luxuries in the United States. I spoke to Filipinas here in the US, they often are here from marriage. They have told me I am so young and I should be talking to 20 year old women. I am 42. I said, I am old. It's such a culture shock. You mean I don't have to marry a 40 year old with 5 kids? There's hope in the future!
Go to ANY other SE Asian country or Latin American country.
Seriously.
I have lived in and traveled to several countries in both regions.
I'm currently in Thailand.
Don't waste your time or your money in The Philippines.
21 wonderful years knowing my filipina bride !! ❤ We re still very close and still wear each other out 🔥😁
We’ve been together for 48+. And still wearing each other out
Tourism and international money is the life blood of the economy in The Philippines.
The reason we come to the country is not the country its the women. Pinay women are good company (generally) of good character.
PS: Your headline means something much ruder than (I think) you intended.
You are not selfish. Care and love are everything. What we both provide are equal. It's gave with love.
Foreigners do choose other countries too,Thailand,Vietnam, Cambodia,Indonesia, Malaysia are full of Foreigners.
I met my wife shortly after being sent to Clark AB in early 1982. We are quickly approaching 42 years of marriage. Best thing that ever happened to me!
I admire you and enjoyed all that you had to say today. Im an early retired airline pilot from Florida, USA and im also a medical doctor. I"m ready to move to the Philipines and ask you out to dinner.
No thanks I'm already taken, but I have younger sister who is over weight she has 3 kids she's 23 years old I can set you up with her if you wish sir.
💀 😂
You guys crazy but😂 funny as heck. Leave him alone guys, go man get your partner you work hard for whatever you get.
14:44 This mark is AFTER the hostess said her peace on what a Filipina brings to the table, and as an older man, I have to say you hit the nail on the head. The only problem is, I never had kids, but always wanted them. I will need to marry a young 18- to 20-year-old girl who will commit to giving me many children. I was one of six children my parents had together, and they each were one of six, so I had many cousins on both sides of the family. I met my wife when we were both in our 30's, and I told her I wanted children. They never came, and my wife passed away a few years ago of Covid. The dating scene here in the States is a nightmare, and the women are generally not worth the time they demand and not worth the money they think they deserve. What Gelay said spoke to my heart. If she knows a girl in child-bearing age range who is not currently involved with anyone, and preferably never has been, who isn't concerned with the fact that a sixty-year old guy wants to marry her and get her pregnant repeatedly over many happy years. My mother, who currently is in the other room watching reruns of Murder, She Wrote, is in her 80's, so there's no reason I shouldn't be able to watch our oldest children graduate from college, at least, before I die. But the fact is, I am generally healthier now than my mom was at my age, so I should also be healthier at her age now when I get there, if God allows me to.
My asawa is older then me and she is the hardest working person I know. Her values are very inline with mine and we have so much in common (we grew up in the same age). There is one very big advantage to being with a well established Filipina in the Philippines and that is they have connections in their community most would never see, all my asawa's batchmates are established in the community and many have jobs that are great like doctors/lawyers/judges/teachers/business owners/government employs. This community resource tree when you include their family's reach places you would never believe. She is also from Dumaguete!
Warmer weather is nice ! But I love snow skiing 👍. I mostly live in Indiana. But also have a beach condo in Myrtle Beach. I chose this area because it still has 4 seasons. It gets cold...but not like Indiana. I would like the Philippines...but would prefer to live part time there and part time in the US. It's just so damn hard for Filipinas (and their kiddos) to travel. Whereas in Columbia it's much easier for women to travel. Still... I would love to visit the Philippines. I was on the phone with "Bela" who said she was working at a call center in Dumaguete. I didn't realize there were phone centers there.
Gelay, you are such a sweet and charismatic girl it’s amazing. I wish you happiness in your life wherever it takes you.
You are such a beautiful young lady. I pray that God pours His blessings out upon you.
I've learned more in one hour of watching your videos than I could've ever hoped for. Thank you! 😘
They are still acting like real Females, respectful, feminine and devoted
Younger guys can not come live in the Philippines. That is why filipinas should not worry about passport bros coming. My girlfriend did not want an older guy and we found each other, she knows that younger guys in the Philippines is not common so she tells me that she's know how lucky she is to be with me and I am younger. So even filipinas know it's not common for younger guys to come.
Very well done on this video. I am 62 years old and consider myself young. My love, a very attractive female, passed away at 44 years old. She was a well educated person, a nurse. She made me laugh every day. Now I hurt for her loss.
very informative vlog my friend thanks for sharing this about foreigners
Great-title has NOTHING to do with content.
Except that you’re here like me for the same reason 😊
Gelay..this was my first video of yours. At 23 you are so wise and insightful. Thank you for posting
Good video, and thanks for having a good heart!
-Nils
I wish more American women thought that way, all they care about is money, me, myself, and I, some even think that way over their own kids. Trust me sweetie,Love and care is all I’d need…I’d take care of everything else in life. ❤
Old men didnt choose Philippines, they chose HIM. He has 193 countries to choose from. Why does he go there? Because they chose him. He went where he is treated best
Hello Gelay.
I just became a new subscriber to your channel.
Thanks for a great video with good information on the people and living in the Philippines.
The number one reason is English is spoken in the Philippines. Signs are in English, they drive on the same side of the road. There’s a good relationship with the US because the Philippines used to be an American colony. The climate in the Philippines is an average of 82 degrees Fahrenheit. Has far less to do with woman than it has to do with being able to live well on a fraction of the salary they received while working. Rent for a 2 br apt is normally under 200 dollars per month, lights are under 60 usd and water is about 6 usd per month. For me these are very good reasons to choose the Philippines if you’re retired.
You have the most mature, unselfish care and love for people.. especially older foreigners.. t h a n their own families have
Hello Gelay my first time viewing your video. Very well done your intelligence and smile simply amazing. The topics you spoke on are truly realistic. Life can be tough so its true enjoy it together keep it fun , exciting and most of all caring for each other. I can see you are obviously a beautiful and caring young lady. Thank you so much
Your English speaking skills are excellent. English speakers will have no problem understanding your English.
Yes their is many countries in the world why Philippines and other Asian countries it’s because no better women that Filipinas and other Asian women you take relationship love to the max level it’s like you love a man so much if you could you live inside him if only you could. Your on max level of respect love honesty loyalty you love kids so much even if they not yours you still treat them as your kids.
whoa...awesome to the max.
Fillipina wants a money gap relationship. I saw videos where hot young girls say they want to marry a foreigner in their 80s so they will die soon. Probably most guys go to the Philippines just because people speak English. Other places are actually better options, like Thailand which has better infrastructure, government, and food, as well as cheaper and better hotels.
Is there non-spicy food in Thailand?
@@fredbloggs6080 Non spicy thai food and also foreign food.
@@user-tm5fk4wm3o That's good to know if I ever have to make a decision between visiting the Philippines or Thailand. For an American, which tastes better, Filipino food or non-spicy Thai food? Although my favorite singers are in the Philippines.
@@fredbloggs6080 Fillipino food is just slop, except for the much more expensive and rare foreign places.
@@user-tm5fk4wm3o I see video blogs of Filipinos eating at gatherings, and it always looks like a lot of fresh meat and other unidentifiable things. Of course, that doesn't speak to the quality of the meat.
Have a blessed night/day, everyone, and stay safe!
I'm 50, and women look at me when I'm in Philippines about 80% more than in the USA or Europe. I'm 5'9, average looking.
yes it's true and almost like a fantasy.
Guys, just remember that women are different. Women marry up. Financial stability/security is powerful, women (almost all) are attracted to that. As guys, our first thing we look for is her looks, then we seek a good personality after. Now, you have to spend time with your girlfriend, build that trust, take it slow. Once you know, you’ll know. Trust your gut and you can weed out the true gold diggers. Treat her right, she will treat you right.
Guys she is also talking about some cheating filipinas that she had observed seen and witnessed if you guys are not around that is what she is trying to say.
Yeah - that is what I thought she said as well.
Wisdom way beyond her years! Joe
She is also giving you guys a heads up to watch out for the cheating ones and the cell phone girls they like the young filipinos to flirt with cellphone filipinos. Guys you need to have fun life over there in Philippines be interested in what she is cooking how she cooks and clean just be a cool partner to a filipina you you all will be just fine.
good advice
If a foreigner doesnt want his Filipina to work then he should provide for more than the basic necessities, he shouls pay for her SSS and Phihealth
I'm 84 and have been living with a 24 year old philipina for last 5 years.we have great sex life and same hobbies etc . Its great. And I'm not rich so its not about the money.
Best wives ever, just treat them good and paradise will open the door.
Just remember the best way to a Filipina's heart is to love her family. Supporting her family is traditional, don't be a cheap Charlie.
Thanks for the great information Gelay
Biggest clickbait video title ever, but good topics. 😄
It's not as cheap to live well there as some people would think. You can live real poor easily, but many things (computers, phone, appliances) will cost even more over there. Don't get me wrong, it's less to live there, and you can hire a maid, gardener, etc. for a small fraction of what you can here, but the cost of some goods is even greater.
Ahh, now you've done it. I thought it was going to be paradise.
Now I'm hearing that not only will the humidity and heat make me miserable, and I'm probably not going to be very satisfied with the "mañana" social attitude towards everything, as well as the insane driving conditions, oh yeah, and the noticeable absence or high prices of good beef, and yada, yada, yada, . . .
So, now I'm hearing that prices of goods such as refrigerators, freezers (if available), computers, laptops, smartphones, i-phones, cars, etc., etc., etc., are all going to be MORE (?) expensive?
Next, you're going to be telling me that my future sweet, young Filipina's sister(s), brother(s), mother, estranged father, gramma(s), gampa(s), cousins, aunt(s), uncle(s), and best friend will need an extra $10 or $20 a month EACH to help out with daily expenses.
Hmm, maybe I better think all this through some before I make a move.
Thank you so much G, salamat po. Your intelligence, kindness and communicating is excellent.
What old people chose to retire to the Philippines
1. English is widely spoken
2. Cost of living
3. Not appreciated in their home country
You offer everything a man could hope for, love kindness and care, this is all a good man want's or need's.
❤❤❤❤you are absolutely gorgeous and your English is very good ❤❤❤❤❤
I’ve been to the Philippines once, and loved it. You are very smart, and very beautiful! Be my valentine? 🥰
As someone who is 42, who isn't retired, never married or have any kids. I would love to find a work and travel companion. I really want kids and I'm eager to work that into my life as well. Going to try my luck visiting this fall. Going to put myself out there even though im a introvert by nature. But I'm sure I can meet a sweet and lovely Filipina girl who also loves anime as much as me. That would be a perfect match.
If you travel all the time for work, you don;t want kids. Airfare and visa costs are insane.
good on you, brother
@@noelsingletary I want a family more. So it will be ok
Very informative. Much appreciated.
Sweat heart not all American are rich, Actually only 2% of Americans are rich. The rest have money problems one way or another.
What trusted financial, governmental, & domestic sources of information are you using as your basis of your conclusion?
@@xavierkoolat6926 it’s a fact
@@xavierkoolat6926it’s true , more than 50% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck 😂😂😂.
You will enjoy talking to everyone in English, in the Philippines. Next is the tourist visa program. Enter the Philippines, get your passport stamp on arrival. You use the tourist visa, without leaving the country for three years. Pay a very low monthly extension fee. Extend a few days before your extension expires. Leave the country as you like, but before three years. Visa run! Return anytime, like a day later, and start in for up to another 3 years! Good luck!
She is very sweet, and thoughtful,. I wish women here were like her, sweet, and kind 😘
FOREIGNER LOVES EATING OUT YOUNG FILIPINA! There is not one word about this topic in this post.. Gelay is the very bet at getting us here and then not giving it to us. Gelay is the Master Teaser.
Personally, I have no truck here. But my passing will be a gold mine for my mates. They will be well-served and able to decide their course. Their decisions are their decisions. I care very much, yet, I will be dead. I can only trust others.
Let me set you straight, sweetheart. American old men go to the Philippines because they can get a young Filipina as a girlfriend. Period.
What's really nice is that Filipina rentals are available.
It's just reality, honey. You can put whatever other spin you want on it. The bottom line is that a Filipina is easy to win over. Your attempted high-class attitude is entertaining, however.
I don't think there will be anyone judging you because you're at least trying your best if you guys think the same way leave a like down below to show support to this beautiful lady
Gelay, you are the sweetest most soft spoken woman I have ever heard. Your videos are very heartwarming. You do a wonderful job! keep it up! and god bless you.. Curtis