Seth Andrews - On Recovering his Humanity

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  • Seth Andrews is a former evangelical and Christian broadcaster who now hosts The Thinking Atheist…one of the most popular online atheist communities in the world. The Thinking Atheist is not a person. It is an icon encouraging all to reject faith and pursue reason and evidence. Since its launch in 2010, The Thinking Atheist podcast has been downloaded over 50 million times.
    Seth has authored five books, including his latest offering, “Christianity Made Me Talk Like an Idiot.”
    With a mix of humor and heart, Seth Andrews has spoken for audiences large and small in the U.S, Canada, Europe, and Australia about his former faith, the promotion of science and skepticism, the importance of Humanism in this often crazy world, and why we should all pursue a personal relationship with reality.
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  • @lprosser5841
    @lprosser5841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Favorite! Thank you for this discussion. So many great things to ponder, but also, both of you have such a calming and soothing voice, it was relaxing. Some discussions out there are just a lot of yelling and talking over one another. Thank you :)

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad you enjoyed our podcast chat! Thanks for the encouragement.

    • @lprosser5841
      @lprosser5841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ComeToCORT Awww, the honor of being a pinned comment! :) Thank you!

    • @ilovethe80sNW
      @ilovethe80sNW 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Janice! Great interview! And yes Seth is right! 80s music was music of my young adulthood as well! 80s New Wave for me!!!!

  • @tinyshepherdess7710
    @tinyshepherdess7710 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow, what a first guest! Can't get enough of Seth Andrews.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know, I was surprised, too! He is a great guest and a thoughtful speaker.

  • @juba9575
    @juba9575 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Seth is my all-time favourite Athiest. His speech titled " The God of Cancer " did it for me.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, he is fantastic. Thanks for watching.

  • @panpsychism_
    @panpsychism_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Seth Andrews- what a radio voice!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว

      He's dreamy, alright!

  • @adamc1966
    @adamc1966 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow. Seth has a great channel and I can personally relate to what he deals with in his family.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, he is terrific. Glad you subscribe to his channel!

  • @GB-ez6ge
    @GB-ez6ge ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm from the middle-American Boston area with very religious but not evangelical parents, I became an atheist at age 11, and I've met many dozens of atheists in the fifty years since. What I haven't encountered is this "losing my religion" trauma that is common on TH-cam, Fortunately, my parents are still alive and my atheism has never caused any trouble within the family, but it isn't just me, I have never known an atheist to suffer this "big emotional trauma". Have I been oblivious to the obvious?

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Possibly, yes. We don't know unless others disclose their own experiences to us. Many atheists grew up in fundamentalist homes and bear the scars.

  • @Bryan198026
    @Bryan198026 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I enjoyed all of Seth's books and I love his podcast. I've actually managed to get on three episodes as a caller, most recently the show about purity culture. I was thankfully raised without religion, a conscious decision by my Catholic-raised folks, but my very first girlfriend, already sheltered because of having a visual impairment (we met at a school for the blind), was definitely also indoctrinated into purity culture. She was and is a devout Christian, already a bone of contention in our relationship, and the fact that my parents were more easygoing than hers in the matter of their children's dating lives also caused some problems for us. So when Seth did the purity culture episode a few months back I called in to share a story that pertained to it.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seth is terrific! Thanks for watching and commenting. Religion definitely complicates relationships.

  • @hamitupagain
    @hamitupagain ปีที่แล้ว +6

    More like this please

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll sure try! Thanks for watching.

  • @Scorned405
    @Scorned405 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Seth is so cool. I come from a similar background.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He sure is! I am glad that you also found your way out!

  • @joycesky5041
    @joycesky5041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I call it a BLOOD SACRIFICE DEATH CULT. I love Seth…he’s helped me a lot with his channel. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
    It’s a good thing that we can’t un-see things that we’ve seen about the Bible and Christianity.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree - Seth is a real gem! Thanks for watching and commenting.

  • @avagomez7448
    @avagomez7448 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful discussion. Lots of great insights. Very refreshing. One of the best videos i listened on religious deconversion. Fully resonate. Keep on doing what you do. Thank you very much.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Seth is a very thoughtful human and great to interview on such topics.

  • @DLB-m3g
    @DLB-m3g 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm so grateful to have met these two beautiful people at a time in my life when I was ready to really lean in to the truth.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How wonderful! Thank you for watching and commenting.

  • @stevesingkofer8879
    @stevesingkofer8879 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I listened to an interesting conversation on another atheistic podcast today. The young, teenaged children of the caller to the show had encouraged the call. The caller insisted that he continued to believe in a deity, despite all lack of evidence for that deity. The reason I'm commenting here is because the teenaged children were apparently atheists or on their way to becoming atheists, and were encouraging their father to "come to the light", as it were. A different dynamic than that which so many people think of.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very interesting! I hope the caller was open to a new perspective. Thanks for commenting!

  • @Godlessmom
    @Godlessmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Amazing! What a fantastic first guest. Congratulations on your new podcast!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you very much! We are so pleased!

  • @rationalist8805
    @rationalist8805 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    @32:00 "when I busted out of that religious corset"... excellent analogy. Also "fundamentalism would have us starve to death at a buffet table." The god believer is afraid us atheists will approach the buffet table and eat until we are sick, leaving nothing for others. They fear that without god we will live completely unrestrained. Some fear themselves - how they think they would behave without a god belief. But atheists follow secular laws just like theists. And secular humanists are generally self restrained because it is the right thing to do.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Excellent point! Thanks for watching.

  • @malkneil
    @malkneil ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Seth is a powerhouse...glad to see him on your channel. Thankfully I was raised by Catholic atheists so I never had to contend with freeing myself from religion. That said, my family hasn't escaped entirely unscathed on account of Jehovah Witnesses-ism infecting a large part of my family. Growing up around this family schism has always made me acutely aware of the very real harm fundamental religion can pose to people themselves as well as those they care about. Good luck with the channel.
    Shout out to Seth, Christopher Hitchens and Lloyd Evans.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the encouragement! Glad your folks were nonbelievers and raised you to eschew fundamentalism.

  • @reneelindemann5542
    @reneelindemann5542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So good. The words “rebellious” and “embarrassment” and other experiences resonated strong with me.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, those words hit home.

  • @jackmyers2359
    @jackmyers2359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hope to hear much more from you Janice, you couldn't have started with a better guest! Welcome to the community!💙💙

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much, Jack! It was an honor to interview Seth. I hope many people find Divorcing Religion to be an interesting and helpful podcast.

  • @rasberries566
    @rasberries566 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for making this channel. I had a difficult day feeling lonely in family while I destruct my faith. I appreciate everything that was shared here💚

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're very welcome! I also host an online support group. Visit my website to learn more: www.divorcing-religion.com

  • @enigmatist666
    @enigmatist666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you both. This is the perfect video to introduce Seth (whom we've been following for over 18 months) to our friends. :) And looking forward to finding out more about Janice and her work. :)

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so glad you enjoyed it. Thaks for sharing it - and thanks for the encouragement!

  • @barbseewald5772
    @barbseewald5772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Amazing! Congrats on this much needed podcast. 💖

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks, Barb! It's rewarding to see it come to fruition. I hope folks feel encouraged to embrace secular life, making the most of every moment.

  • @tulpas93
    @tulpas93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What a coincidence - I just watched Seth's Blood Cult video yesterday!
    Thank you for posting all of this amazing material. ❤❤❤

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Seth is terrific. Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment.

  • @ruthokelley5833
    @ruthokelley5833 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You all made me realize that my journey matches up with all that you all report…and the hardest part was being with the anxiety and the uncomfortable relating until i felt grounded in my true nature…a non-believer!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว

      Well done reconnecting with your true nature! Glad you enjoyed our chat.

  • @chrisgreen8803
    @chrisgreen8803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Comment for the TH-cam algorithm

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Appreciated, thanks!

  • @kandrie9320
    @kandrie9320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very great episode. Highly recommended!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! I appreciate the recommendation.

  • @K_Rae_Bee
    @K_Rae_Bee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Amazing first guest!! ❤

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree! Seth is a fan favourite, for sure. And that dreamy voice... 😏Thanks for watching.

  • @ravenna9969
    @ravenna9969 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    New sub great interview. Can’t wait to binge watch the rest

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome! Thank you!

  • @iw9338
    @iw9338 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Excellent thanks very much 😅

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're welcome!

  • @bettybrodnan850
    @bettybrodnan850 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow.. you’re telling my story

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry you can relate, glad you got out.

  • @neilforbes416
    @neilforbes416 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Okay, now chase up Aron Ra, Dan Barker, Andrew Seidel for future videos.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aron Ra and Dan Barker are both on deck! I'd love to interview Andrew Seidel, too.

    • @eddieclark9802
      @eddieclark9802 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please don't interrupt your guest with any little vocal sounds, i.e. yeah, wow, okay, yes, anything like that. Thx.
      Be a pro. 😁

    • @eddieclark9802
      @eddieclark9802 ปีที่แล้ว

      And never say it was a good answer and thank them for it.

    • @neilforbes416
      @neilforbes416 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@eddieclark9802 TGhe presenter is only starting out. This was her first presentation.

  • @shawnesseyandbettyboop
    @shawnesseyandbettyboop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fantastic, my friend xo Heather

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much!

  • @bobbart4198
    @bobbart4198 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ... I had the good fortune of being raised by a moderate Anglican mother and a rebellious ex Catholic father. My Dad accompanied my Mom with the kids to a nice neutral-feeling Protestant Church (when we kids were quite young - mostly to keep Mom happy.
    Dad's rebellion was born of mistreatment by Teacher/Nuns in a small Country Town in the 1920's (he was born in 1916), Mom's experience was far more pleasant.
    In 1976, I married my high school sweetheart and we're still together. She was a moderate Protestant, and I a burgeoning Agnostic, destined to become an Atheist. At 16, my young lady was Christened into the Mormon Church - Jesus Christ of the Latter Day Saints. I was not exactly happy about this, but it WAS her right to decide this, not mine.
    Over time, my (by then) wife came to doubt many of the Mormon teachings, possibly due to MY lack of faith (which had faded pretty much into nothing by then), but I had never made any effort to disabuse her of her beliefs.
    Once we had kids, we pretty much repeated my own Parents route - she wanting to get our kids Christened (as nice neutral-feeling Protestants), and I - not wishing to push my feelings on my family, reenacted my Dad's routine. I didn't join in the Prayers or the Singing, I just had my head bowed respectfully and my eyes open - not a hypocrite just a respectful observer.
    Now, at 69 years of age, (my wife is 67), I am still an Atheist, although a far more vocal one, and my Wife is still a Christian - though no longer a Mormon. My 34 year old Son is an Atheist (having come by that position based upon his OWN experiences in life) and my 39 year old Daughter is a Lutheran - having married a German from Northern Ontario ...
    Everybody's happy and there is little discussion of Religion in our family, not because it is a hot-button issue, but because we all feel free to believe the things we believe ... ☮

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a wonderful story! Thanks for watching and sharing!

    • @bobbart4198
      @bobbart4198 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ComeToCORT ... Actually, I suspect it's a very common story, but Thanks !

  • @BiddyLove
    @BiddyLove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching now.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful! Thanks for tuning in!

    • @BiddyLove
      @BiddyLove 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My pleasure, it was what I needed reminding of yesterday, thank you for having Seth on 😄

  • @victorjvanderwoude3102
    @victorjvanderwoude3102 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Does he really mean discovering Humanism rather that his humanity? If so that's a different discussion with different frameworks. Humanism as a sub group within atheism while discovering your humanity being a connection with others on a personal level (rather than in philosophically terms). You can connect with people without embracing atheism and Humanism. I realize some people may not get there's a difference.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know some Jewish people (Reform) who are humanists, as well. However, this discussion was largely about him reconnecting to his own humanity, as the title implies.

  • @dawnpham8394
    @dawnpham8394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great show! Always like " the thinking Atheist " host Seth Andrews. Thank you

    • @Godlessmom
      @Godlessmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's so enjoyable to listen to and it's not just his awesome voice.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, Dawn! I really enjoyed interviewing Seth.

  • @Z3NBEAT
    @Z3NBEAT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Greetings from México.

  • @geetagill9243
    @geetagill9243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I HATE anything fear based!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed - fear is not a good basis on which to build a life!

  • @katalytically
    @katalytically 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "God is just"
    Translation: "God is vengeful"

  • @tklyte
    @tklyte 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seth, If I'm actually going to hell, I'm so glad you'll be there with me. Can we hang out once in a while?

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      haha! Make room for me!

  • @ponyboygarfunkel1675
    @ponyboygarfunkel1675 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't find those hopeful secular fairytales, as expressed at the end of this piece, to offer much hope. Take a long view of humankind. Our struggles will continue, in much the same way. Sadly, we humans have been dealt an unplayable hand.
    Endeavor to define and practice decency. That's often the best one can do.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The world would surely be a better place if we all did so. Thanks for commenting.

  • @rubenchoychoo8551
    @rubenchoychoo8551 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    58m
    There must be a design behind..

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว

      A design behind what?

  • @Licencetochill-c2p
    @Licencetochill-c2p 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    JESUS IS NOT RELIGION.......he went against religion !!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching.

  • @brynpookc1127
    @brynpookc1127 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good work, Joyce, but too much mhmm… mmhm… umnhn. Just quit the subvocalizations until you actually have something to say. It was the same with Matt. There is an expectation that women need to always be supportive to every word. Umhum said between every word the other person is saying is just distracting.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My name is Janice, but thanks for your thoughts.

    • @MorTheGrim
      @MorTheGrim ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ComeToCORT I didn’t find it distracting at all, Janice. I thought your responses were on-point.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MorTheGrim Thank you.

    • @tulpas93
      @tulpas93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's really incredible how polished people expect free content to be! 😮
      Thanks for your time and effort in creating these videos, and I appreciate your keeping it real with all of the pauses and subvocalizations included. To me, it makes you work all the more approachable and inspiring! ❤

  • @joshuamartinpryce1237
    @joshuamartinpryce1237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Human thinking is a natural thought, spiritual thinking is a divine thought. Spirituality adds to the natural man making him complete. There is no trauma for faith in Christ unless you are not fully engaged and transformed by the renewing of the mind in Jesus. Bad thoughts come from people not God. God loves us enough to die for us and collect us into His fold. You need to focus on God and do what God says, hell is not trauma for the righteous. Hell is trauma for those who do not believe in Christ. people wonder why God doesnt literally show up to everyone all over the world. The answer is religious trauma.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sorry, but you are speaking as one who remains indoctrinated.

    • @shawnesseyandbettyboop
      @shawnesseyandbettyboop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      well now, someone's been living under a rock

    • @jajkat
      @jajkat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wheres hell? Never been there

    • @joshuamartinpryce1237
      @joshuamartinpryce1237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jajkat Neither have i, but i have interacted with demons, and seen the aura of angels. These are literal things. But my experiences are worthless to you. With great sacrifice comes great responsibility.

    • @curbroadshow
      @curbroadshow ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joshuamartinpryce1237 There’s no trauma at all if you don’t get taken in by religious BS
      Their religion convinced you that you need saving from their Jesus/god/not god, and only their religion can save you.
      Ever felt like you’ve been conned?

  • @coryg7051
    @coryg7051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Seth is a huge guest for you to land for your inaugural episode. Congrats! Love the 2 episodes so far. Keep it up. From Victoria BC.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for the encouragement!

  • @Ronnymikkonen2686
    @Ronnymikkonen2686 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like to listen to your speak. I was in the religion for many years. But I was never comfortable with it! Sometimes it was fun. My economy was good. But then I got tired? It's a abuse! And I read 1000 Cristian books! I was in. But I had always some bad feeling! I got so tired! And I was evangelist for 30 years!? I'm to tired to explain to people? I don't care anymore. I'm better off now without religion!?

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It sounds like you were very committed to doing work that you felt you had to do. I'm glad you've been able to step back from it and engage in questioning those religious beliefs. Being freed from religious burdens is wonderful. You don't have to explain your choices to anyone! I hope you enjoy your freedom.

    • @Ronnymikkonen2686
      @Ronnymikkonen2686 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ComeToCORT i do ! I respect people,,! And I haven't to lure them to Christianity? I'm better off now without religion.