Apparently no one taught me to phahla I just picked it up from the spirit, I was amazed to come across this, like excuse me I do this I just never understood why. I lit my candles and when I was talking my candles would light brighter ,it was like it's a competition 🤣 I ended up laughing and I felt so special and fought for . My dad's side candle consumed first and my mom's was slow, but in the end my mom's side is still lit even after the candle is finished just the rope burning. Even from dad's no traces of a candle ever being lit, this is interesting thou I use sea water I don't even understand how and why I just do, and put pillows around
Thokoza Khehla.You made my day because i am currently Abroad and would like to Phahla and at least i have water and candles.Thanks for the information.Siyabonga Mkhulu.Thokoza!!👏
We all have duties. We are the ancestors of our future selves (future generations). Therefore we must set aside our difference and form alliances without considering the groups that have inherited unsettling truths.
Truly Insightful! Certainly appears to be a Good Practice to develope over time. Journaling has "nearly always" been a practice of mine. Of course, writing my dreams down, well...I have not.
Thokoza🙏🏽 Well here is my situation on impepho im the only surviving boy child left on my father’s side of the family both my father and uncle passed away and I don’t live with my mother she lives out of the country, my question now is how do I perform this because my father passed when i was 5 yo never had a male figure and I recently went to look for my fathers grave for the first time and I want to connect with him and my ancestors more plus I keep having these strange dreams i have tried to search for the meanings on Google but solid answer. Can i use ukupahla?
Umsamo Institute syabonga kakhulu with the information I do hope we get more and more info intense videos like such in future. I do have a few questions please bear with me. Question one umuntu angaphahla kuphi? Emsamo maybe? Secondly, what time is most appropriate to phahla at? Thirdly if you use sea water, amanzi olwandle adungekile most of the time so with that said is it still appropriate to ask your ancestors to make things clear as the aforementioned water since edungekile, and also uyasfaka yini ishlabathi solwandle along with that sea water? Lastly ukzalwa wembethe does it make a difference in how you phahla? Apologies for the essay.
What do you do if you have never been close to your fathers family? What if you have only been only around your mother's family What do you do to connect
I have a question, I am raised by a single mother and recognize my mothers side ancestors and I have never had an issue with my fathers side in that they never really pop up even when I consult, so what I want to know is do I have to use 2 candles even though I just want to communicate with my mothers side of the family? Can’t I just use one candle because I just want to talk to my mothers side ancestors.
Thank you for sharing this info. You spoke about two candles representing the maternal and paternal side of the family, umlanjwana yena? Do you then stick with 1 candle
Khabazela, thank you so much for your guidance. May you kindly help me out with my dilemma, bathi ngazalwa ngembethe, i dont know and its a sensitive topic within muy family. so i once dreamt of my grandfather presenting me with a blanket and recently i had a vision of quadruplets, all boys. i dont know what it means.
Thokoza Khehla... I’m one of the guilty parties when it comes to impepho mostly coz we get so many different versions when doing research. So I’m Zulu (I don’t know if this is of any significance) does the head of the household rule apply to all cultural groups or just some? Also, I saw someone speak of the direction one should face when ephahla you replied east... how strict is this rule? The coins what do they represent? Does it have to be an enamel dish? Are there different rules that apply to different genders due to women’s hormonal monthly cycle and any other rules that you deem necessary to mention? Isniff, how is it used? How much time do we give for the candles to burn, over night? Also, are there specific times during the day when it’s more convenient to phahla or when one should avoid ukuphahla or does it not matter? We Really appreciate the information you have provided here but please please please record a more elaborate episode on this, should you find the time it would be greatly appreciated 🙏🏽 Thank you
This is a very confusing practice for me. The left side for women is where you put isphandla for your father's side, whilst for men it's the opposite, does that apply here with the candles? There's a lot that's unsaid, e. g. If you're using the R1 coins, should the heads or tails be facing up. If you are not acknowledged by your father's family or the father is unknown, do you still light a candle for them?
Thokoza, uma ngiphahla, since the candles come in packages of six. In each day yokuphahla do i light the candles and let them burn aphele or do i just use them throughout the ukuphahla process?? I dont know if u get me but i mean does each day have its own candles or i can use the same candle ize iphele??
I think uBhuti Siya uyikhohliwe indwangu emhlophe under the silver enamel basin, according to izimfundiso zikaBaba uVVO, angaz, Ngixolise uma ngiphambuka or he left it out deliberately. Thanks while awaiting for explanation
Hi Umsamo, just thinking about the general logistics. So uyaphahla then you leave the candles there and go to sleep. When you wake up, the more amount unburnt candle still left - the bigger your problem on either side?
Awami ama khandlela ngathenga1 white 1 yellow 1 blue and ngawabeka according to the explanation above 1 white + yellow were burning down well but blue was very slow burning . Can you able to explain or kumele ngiqale phansi ngiphahle kabusha ngama white candles as well i also used impepho and ngise mqashweni
So this is done before you sleep right? Then you let it burn through the night?.. I think that I'll use a tray and a candle holder just as a precaution
BABA MINA UBABA NO MAMA ABAZANGE BAGANA UMAMA NGUM SOTHO UBABA NGUM XHOSA KODWA NGIKHULISWE KOMAMA NGOKU SENDINGANILE NGOKU NGAHLULEKA UKUBA ABANI ABANTWANA BAZAKUBIZA ESIPHI ISIBONGO MINA NDISEBENZISA ESIKA MAMA PLZ ENLIGHTEN ME PLEASE
When you get messages from your ancestors (dreams) God is talking to you through Angel's appearing with your ancestors appearance, because you know them and you will take note of that, other than some creature that you dont even know (angels). Then that doesn't mean you should call on your ancestors for help,but you go on you knew and pray to the Father in Jesus name for clarity. The very same ancestors will come back with response from the heaven. African got it all wrong. #idloziVsingilozi
Thokoza, Umsamo Institute is about inclusivity. We do not for others of different ethnic groups to be unable to access this knowledge because of a language barrier. We are for all people.
Everyone has a version of how to do it. Seems to me that your spirit and intent are what is more important
I love how practical you are in your explanation. 👌🏾 our spiritual journey is our own responsibility
Apparently no one taught me to phahla I just picked it up from the spirit, I was amazed to come across this, like excuse me I do this I just never understood why. I lit my candles and when I was talking my candles would light brighter ,it was like it's a competition 🤣 I ended up laughing and I felt so special and fought for . My dad's side candle consumed first and my mom's was slow, but in the end my mom's side is still lit even after the candle is finished just the rope burning. Even from dad's no traces of a candle ever being lit, this is interesting thou I use sea water I don't even understand how and why I just do, and put pillows around
Thokoza Khehla.You made my day because i am currently Abroad and would like to Phahla and at least i have water and candles.Thanks for the information.Siyabonga Mkhulu.Thokoza!!👏
So. Much information on TH-cam about ukuphatlha😭😭😭😭some use colored candles 😩😩😩yoo it's confusing 😰
We all have duties. We are the ancestors of our future selves (future generations). Therefore we must set aside our difference and form alliances without considering the groups that have inherited unsettling truths.
He explains it so well!
Truly Insightful!
Certainly appears to be a Good Practice to develope over time.
Journaling has "nearly always" been a practice of mine.
Of course, writing my dreams down, well...I have not.
I hope someday you'll show us the different types of impepho and also maybe clarify the kinds of amabhayi and their meaning.
Thokoza.
ngena kumaVidoes aGogo Bathini Mbatha echaza amabhayi ngokuhlukana kwawo
I always wanted to know how to phahla coz I've been having dreams and I'm in the process of starting a spiritual journey
Thokoza Khabazela. Thank you for sharing the knowledge
I'm happy that mine always appears as a swimming pool in My dream
Thokozani. Do I burn the candle to finish or I switch off and repeat with the same candles?
Thokoza🙏🏽 Well here is my situation on impepho im the only surviving boy child left on my father’s side of the family both my father and uncle passed away and I don’t live with my mother she lives out of the country, my question now is how do I perform this because my father passed when i was 5 yo never had a male figure and I recently went to look for my fathers grave for the first time and I want to connect with him and my ancestors more plus I keep having these strange dreams i have tried to search for the meanings on Google but solid answer. Can i use ukupahla?
Umsamo Institute syabonga kakhulu with the information I do hope we get more and more info intense videos like such in future. I do have a few questions please bear with me. Question one umuntu angaphahla kuphi? Emsamo maybe? Secondly, what time is most appropriate to phahla at? Thirdly if you use sea water, amanzi olwandle adungekile most of the time so with that said is it still appropriate to ask your ancestors to make things clear as the aforementioned water since edungekile, and also uyasfaka yini ishlabathi solwandle along with that sea water? Lastly ukzalwa wembethe does it make a difference in how you phahla? Apologies for the essay.
Very informative
What do you do if you have never been close to your fathers family? What if you have only been only around your mother's family What do you do to connect
I have a question, I am raised by a single mother and recognize my mothers side ancestors and I have never had an issue with my fathers side in that they never really pop up even when I consult, so what I want to know is do I have to use 2 candles even though I just want to communicate with my mothers side of the family? Can’t I just use one candle because I just want to talk to my mothers side ancestors.
No you dont have to do that wena ikhaya lakho likomalume
U must use 2candles only, yellow for your mother's side and white only
Siyabonga Baba. I have done it and I wake up in the morning the candles still burning equally. I dreamed a lot of things.. What deos it mean.
Mama uyazi ungenza busy mawshaya okukaMthaniya nokubukekakwakho hay
Thank you for sharing this info. You spoke about two candles representing the maternal and paternal side of the family, umlanjwana yena? Do you then stick with 1 candle
Thanks syaa
Khabazela, thank you so much for your guidance. May you kindly help me out with my dilemma, bathi ngazalwa ngembethe, i dont know and its a sensitive topic within muy family. so i once dreamt of my grandfather presenting me with a blanket and recently i had a vision of quadruplets, all boys. i dont know what it means.
So informative. Sibonge👏🙌
And when u pray u must Face where the Sunrise
East!
Thokoza Khehla... I’m one of the guilty parties when it comes to impepho mostly coz we get so many different versions when doing research. So I’m Zulu (I don’t know if this is of any significance) does the head of the household rule apply to all cultural groups or just some? Also, I saw someone speak of the direction one should face when ephahla you replied east... how strict is this rule? The coins what do they represent? Does it have to be an enamel dish? Are there different rules that apply to different genders due to women’s hormonal monthly cycle and any other rules that you deem necessary to mention? Isniff, how is it used? How much time do we give for the candles to burn, over night? Also, are there specific times during the day when it’s more convenient to phahla or when one should avoid ukuphahla or does it not matter? We Really appreciate the information you have provided here but please please please record a more elaborate episode on this, should you find the time it would be greatly appreciated 🙏🏽 Thank you
Co ask
Niyone ngokuthetha isi ngesi
Thokoza Gogo, this is so informative. Really appreciate this information
Dankie for clarity khabazela👏✊
This is a very confusing practice for me. The left side for women is where you put isphandla for your father's side, whilst for men it's the opposite, does that apply here with the candles? There's a lot that's unsaid, e. g. If you're using the R1 coins, should the heads or tails be facing up. If you are not acknowledged by your father's family or the father is unknown, do you still light a candle for them?
This is insightful very informative. What if you don't get dreams? what can you do?
Tell them you not dreaming thts what I'll tell them
At shat time do we phahla and when I finish to phahla ngiya qima amakhandlela and light them again tomorrow and for how many days
Thokoza, uma ngiphahla, since the candles come in packages of six. In each day yokuphahla do i light the candles and let them burn aphele or do i just use them throughout the ukuphahla process?? I dont know if u get me but i mean does each day have its own candles or i can use the same candle ize iphele??
Ngicela ungicacisele njengomuntu ozalwe engumlanjwana ukuthi kubalulekile okanye kubaluleke ngani ukuba ngibeke ikhandlela lasophikweni lukababa uma ngiphahla ngoba ngokuqonda izimfndiso eziningi zabisolwazi, kubaluliwe kaningi ukuthi umuntu ongumlanjwana akukho okumuxhumanisa nethongo likayise, konke okwakhe kubophezeleke esandleni sakomalume.
Manje akungakho yini ukuba ngingabeka ikhandlela lasophikweni lakomalume kuphela ngikhulume okanye ngibuze ethongweni lakhona kuphela na?
Ngabe ase ngiziphambanisela izinto yini uma sengiphahlela nezinto zasophikweni lukababa na?
Not answering a question some of us we got dreams totally before you even get to a book and pen to write on
I think uBhuti Siya uyikhohliwe indwangu emhlophe under the silver enamel basin, according to izimfundiso zikaBaba uVVO, angaz, Ngixolise uma ngiphambuka or he left it out deliberately.
Thanks while awaiting for explanation
Hi Umsamo, just thinking about the general logistics. So uyaphahla then you leave the candles there and go to sleep. When you wake up, the more amount unburnt candle still left - the bigger your problem on either side?
Thokoza, yes you are correct.
Awami ama khandlela ngathenga1 white 1 yellow 1 blue and ngawabeka according to the explanation above 1 white + yellow were burning down well but blue was very slow burning . Can you able to explain or kumele ngiqale phansi ngiphahle kabusha ngama white candles as well i also used impepho and ngise mqashweni
So this is done before you sleep right? Then you let it burn through the night?.. I think that I'll use a tray and a candle holder just as a precaution
Thokoza, yes before you sleep.
@@UmsamoInstitute Thokoza🙏🏽
If ukhuluma ekuphahleni,youCall only two surnames of Father's side and Mother's side or you call names of people's you know from Both families?
Thokoza Makhosi, I was wondering if I could have your contacts. I want to buy Solwazi Mkhize's books..🙏🏿🙏🏿
Mina ngyaphahla kdw impendulo azbuyi ngicela ukubuza klesimosami kmiswa kanjani
Thokoza, cela uzame ukusebenzisa amanzi olwandle
UBab’ uMkhize calls it UKUTHETHA ABAPHANSI .
Onpoint ngunezi
Awuyishisi impepho uyifaka phakathi endishini nemali emhlophe
BABA MINA UBABA NO MAMA ABAZANGE BAGANA UMAMA NGUM SOTHO UBABA NGUM XHOSA KODWA NGIKHULISWE KOMAMA NGOKU SENDINGANILE NGOKU NGAHLULEKA UKUBA ABANI ABANTWANA BAZAKUBIZA ESIPHI ISIBONGO MINA NDISEBENZISA ESIKA MAMA PLZ ENLIGHTEN ME PLEASE
Search " Impunga Yesintu". Uyawuphendula umbuzo wakho ngokuphele. Kunesihloko esithi "Igana kanjani insizwa ekhulele komalume"
Camagu mkhulu
Even if it's a pig flying. 🐷🤣
😂😂
When you get messages from your ancestors (dreams) God is talking to you through Angel's appearing with your ancestors appearance, because you know them and you will take note of that, other than some creature that you dont even know (angels).
Then that doesn't mean you should call on your ancestors for help,but you go on you knew and pray to the Father in Jesus name for clarity. The very same ancestors will come back with response from the heaven. African got it all wrong.
#idloziVsingilozi
One of that lady for morning show she must dressing nice not to come to work with short pant it's not disco side their
So that guy for body parts his South Africa guy that's why yr not talking too much once his foreigner yoh every day talking and toytoy too
What does that do with phahla?
Speak in Zulu,khulu ma likhuluma ngalezinto
Thokoza, Umsamo Institute is about inclusivity. We do not for others of different ethnic groups to be unable to access this knowledge because of a language barrier. We are for all people.