I Am SICK of people Like This | Selling Your Soul For Attention | Extra Roly

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  • I Am SICK of people Like This | Selling Your Soul For Attention! After filming my Oli London video where he says he is no longer trans and has now detransitioned back into a man & the downfall of Twitter I needed a little chat to destress. I don't understand how people are still like this in 2022. It's like we are moving backward in time and just hope it stops. let me know what content you would like me to make over on Extra Roly
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  • @ExtraRoly
    @ExtraRoly  ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Hi everyone thanks for letting me vent today!

    • @dakotachristopher5532
      @dakotachristopher5532 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Roly, how are you doing? I heard that Oli London has become a Catholic Christian. I'm Lgbtq and catholic and all I can say is that Oli puts me in a bad position because people within both the Catholic community and lgbtq community are just starting to get along because I know that pope Francis supports gay marriage, so for Oli to do that it ruins that platform on both sides.

  • @marjoriebroyles5062
    @marjoriebroyles5062 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Hello Roly, I absolutely love you and Luxeria!! I was born in 1956, so yes I am a boomer, but I love that you are so straight forward. When I was growing up you never heard about gays or trans, gay was something you felt not something you were (coke was something you drank not something you sucked up your nose). I have found out so much from watching you and Luxeria. I understand more now as well. I started watching you at first so I could try and understand my granddaughter. She identifies as non-binary and bisexual, she as feelings for both male and female (I forgot to mention that she is 12 years old). I love her with everything that is in me and accept her as she is. So I needed to find out all I could. You are very compassionate person. Please don't let the butt holes ruin your day. Love you Roly.

    • @hayleycatswildadventure6777
      @hayleycatswildadventure6777 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Marjorie must be protected at all costs

    • @chloe3348
      @chloe3348 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      You sound like an amazing grandma, I wish I had family like you

    • @lilme7052
      @lilme7052 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well done to you, my dad was born in 51 and won't accept his bi granddaughter my niece.

    • @janetsimpson4799
      @janetsimpson4799 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hi Marjorie, I'm a boomer as well lol also Aug 1956, what you've said I totally agree ,now I don't have to text as much ,I feel that oli etc are putting the community decade's behind ,I have 2 grandchildren and 3 divorces under my belt ,well said Marjorie I'm in your gang

  • @trinacostar7772
    @trinacostar7772 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    There is something pathological in someone to always need attention by tearing others apart. I am a boomer and a retired nurse who worked during the AIDS epidemic and I saw my colleagues judge these men. I was engaged as these patients needed compassion and love. They were great people with an ugly virus. ❤

    • @ShyAnn291
      @ShyAnn291 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m sure they greatly appreciated your kindness!!

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for being a source of Light in the utter darkness that was the 1980s.
      I'm Gen-X, and came out to a country that hated me, with all of my mentors dead or at home with PTSD and survivor's guilt. So, yeah, my generation was _angry._

    • @LizHolland76
      @LizHolland76 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much for being compassionate and treating your patients with love and dignity. 💜

    • @Him_He_Me
      @Him_He_Me ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My friends got the compassion and love from me, when they contracted AIDS. lt was a damn terrifying time.

    • @samanthafairweather9186
      @samanthafairweather9186 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankyou for being a loving and compassionate person in those horrible times. So many lives were lost during the 80's to such a horrible disease. Those people, mostly gay men, needed compassion and understanding - not the hate and vilification they received.
      I lost a few friends back then, and the way they were treated was terrible. I also lost 2 friends, who were brother's in their mid 20's in the early 2000's as a result of AIDS, and even after all these years, they were treated terribly by some of the medical staff.

  • @KhloeeLouise
    @KhloeeLouise ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I think oli needs serious help and a reality check. What he's doing isn't OK and it's very destructive to the community x

    • @IamWriggley
      @IamWriggley ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think his reality check bounced

    • @seamstressdragon8707
      @seamstressdragon8707 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are a grifter like Candice Owens or Dave Rubin, tokens from ethnic minorities or the LGBT communities that the right weaponise to say ‘Hey we are not bigots, there are gay and POC ppl who agree with us’ whilst they throw their own communities under the bus for power and money.
      I don’t know if Olli is doing it for money, but throwing the LGBT community under the bus to gain attention from alt-right/ fascist news outlets is appalling to say the least.

    • @aiden3627
      @aiden3627 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree I think oli may not be well and if he is he’s a total dickhead. Well either way he’s a dickhead but you know.

  • @GracieLions
    @GracieLions ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Narcissists don't have a conscience. Brutal, but true.

  • @ineffablemars
    @ineffablemars ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I do really like these videos, I like hearing Roly's opinions about this stuff and a more relaxed "sit down" video is nice.

    • @ExtraRoly
      @ExtraRoly  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So glad to hear! It's been a nice change for me :)

  • @MarcelWhy
    @MarcelWhy ปีที่แล้ว +30

    always feels better to let it out, gurl. glad to be a sympathetic ear! ❤

  • @Resilient_Sage88
    @Resilient_Sage88 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Kinda reminds me of the phrase "If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything." It seems to apply mostly to people who have little to no sense of personal integrity because the most important thing in their mind is the attention. Doesn't matter who they have to step on to get to the top.

  • @heatherbaker3903
    @heatherbaker3903 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Your video is very timely in you speaking out against hate. Last night
    A 22-year-old gunman entered an LGBTQ nightclub in Colorado Springs, Colorado, just before midnight Saturday and immediately opened fire, killing at least five people and injuring 25 others, before patrons confronted and stopped him, police said Sunday. This world is too filled with hate.

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss ปีที่แล้ว

      My hope is that those patrons were angry Drag Queens wielding panty-hoses filled with rocks.
      And I blame FuxNoose and every last damned Republiqan politician in this country for that shooting.

  • @surrealrosalynd
    @surrealrosalynd ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's so upsetting for me watching Instagram slowly turn to shit. I have been on it for years and it's the only social media that has ever worked well for me, and when reels started to be a thing it was just disheartening. I can't use TikTok bc the endless scrolling makes me anxious. I'm trying to build up a following for my desired career as a fine artist so I'm trying to make reels and stuff so I can do that, but it's just annoying as filming reels take up a lot of time for me. It is also upsetting for me to see art distilled into a short video because it feels like it sucks the soul out of it. I'm trying to make reels in a way that still sort of interesting and fun, but I would rather it wasn't a thing I had to do! I'm mostly housebound rn, so social media is my outlet and platform for me to build some sort of career on, so it is scary when they start to crumble. ❤

  • @aFuckinToaster
    @aFuckinToaster ปีที่แล้ว +9

    About this channel, I love it so much, I love putting on a video here and it feels like I’m on face time with a friend. Thanks for the new video Roly, keep it up I think I can speak for myself and others when I say we enjoy it as much as you do.

  • @frogurtcremebrulee5252
    @frogurtcremebrulee5252 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hey Roly, hope you’re doing well. This is an extremely obnoxious time with Oli, and I hope you have a great day ahead of you ❤️

  • @morganjane111
    @morganjane111 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    It’s unfortunate that we really can’t do anything to stop people like Oli & Caitlin Jenner from spewing their nonsense & from further harming the LGBTQ+ community. I just have to tell myself that their karma will come back around to them one day. Now, I’m not wishing suffering on anyone, but I do hope for a rude awakening for people who purposely use their platform to spread misinformation & hatred.
    I feel you, Roly!

    • @AWlpsSHOW36
      @AWlpsSHOW36 ปีที่แล้ว

      What did Caitlin Jenner do??? She didn't de-transition, did she?

    • @pinkghostie
      @pinkghostie ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AWlpsSHOW36 I'm not completely sure, I don't really keep up with the Kardashians but I've heard she voted for Trump and I've heard her given as an example of a terf on quite a few channels. She might be similar to Blaire White in being trans but 'one of the good ones' to a right wing audience.

    • @HauntedHeroine138
      @HauntedHeroine138 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AWlpsSHOW36 She's very famously anti trans she's against trans people integrated in sports. Very weird irony. And last week or so she's said some very hateful things about Tik-tokker Trans woman Dylan Mulaney.

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AWlpsSHOW36 No, she's just a rancid Quisling who thinks her Republiqan "friends" won't load her into the ovens with the rest of us when the time comes.

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We just need to be louder.
      And we need to harp on it. Like, any time any LGBT activist is on TV, they should just, out of the blue, state, "And Oli London didn't detransition because he never transitioned in the first place. He claimed to be 'transracial' and got surgery to make himself look Korean, then started stalking KPop band members." Just, y'know, spit some facts.
      And people need to do that at every chance they get. I mean, what's he gonna do, sue for slander? When the Internet is forever, and we _have the receipts?_ And in any such lawsuit, could call BTS' management company and Jimin himself as witnesses against Oili Loser?

  • @SparkleLuna77
    @SparkleLuna77 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You’re not on your own Roly. I despair how much hate their seems to be. The world needs to change but I’m so scared for my teenage children that it’ll take something catastrophic to change. Please remember you’re one of the good guys and it’s people like you spreading your voice that helps this world too. You lift so many people up with your videos so be proud of who you are cause all your fans (like me ☺️) think you’re awesome.

  • @lisam.kingrealestateagenta8243
    @lisam.kingrealestateagenta8243 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I never, ever comment but I have to today. I am a much older woman however I am biracial and I can completely get all of what you are saying Roly, I hate it too.

  • @mikeybirchall8791
    @mikeybirchall8791 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I bet jimin's like "Thank god he stopped!"

  • @AetherIdol
    @AetherIdol ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I truly feel like there are two distinct types of human beings. People like Oli just seem to be missing some vital element of humanity which makes us capable of feeling genuine empathy for others. It's really difficult to navigate too because they are often capable of feigning whichever trait suits their agenda on any given day. No wonder I don't leave the house much!

  • @thevillagehaunt8417
    @thevillagehaunt8417 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t think the world realizes how special you are!! I am in my 40s, and grew up in the southern United States. I grew up in fear of coming out. Which in turn has instilled internal homophobia in my self! We didn’t have folks like you in the mainstream 30 years ago. I am proud to be who I am, and so happy that people like you exist. If you ever come to the US, I would love to shake your hand and hug your neck. Keep doing you!!

  • @behindzerosp
    @behindzerosp ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Instagram is horrible for artists so it is loosing many people. I think twitter will be able to survive on half lung for long time because even with being so toxic it's home for many people. I see some trying to move to Tumblr so we may see Tumblr coming back which feels weird

  • @jackriver8385
    @jackriver8385 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    With the social media thing you mentioned, I've seen a similar thing happen to tiktok. I made an account at the start of 2021 and it was really fun back then, I met a lot of amazing people and it was actually kinda good for my mental health as well.
    But now, everyone is just so mean to each other constantly. And if I dare to mention in any comment section that I'm a trans man, I get a huge wave of comments such as "you're not a man, you're a mentally ill woman!"
    It's just not fun anymore to exist on the Internet as an lgbtqia person, especially when you're a trans person. I just started T and I'm scared of making public videos about my transition journey because I might end up on the wrong person's fyp, or end up on libsoftiktok.

    • @ExtraRoly
      @ExtraRoly  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am sorry to hear you have had to deal with that

    • @Call-me-Ez
      @Call-me-Ez ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Felt that. I’m trans masc and I stay far away from Twitter and TikTok. Fb is the only “safe” place for me but it’s just because I vet people before interacting.

  • @kirstenblalock
    @kirstenblalock ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ready for the pokémon unboxing ! i hope you feel better after making this video. love you roly 💜

  • @lucymullen8344
    @lucymullen8344 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so sorry you’ve gone through all that Roly. How horrific to have had that incident with a stalker in the first place then to find out your ex housemate was in communication with said stalker THEN to find out a close friend is wilfully unashamedly spending time with said ex housemate. It’s awful!
    I have fallen out with every close friend I ever had to the point where I now have no friends. I see people online saying “if you’ve got no friends maybe you’re the problem”, and I can completely understand that logic, but I can also say without any doubt that I’m not the problem. I’ve found out over the years that lots of people said horrible/ weird things about me behind my back. In secondary school a close friend had been calling me fat and ugly. In sixth form, after very obviously avoiding my texts/ calls and making excuses not to see me, my best friend had been saying that he wasn’t happy about me getting on well with some people he had introduced me too, and he said that he ‘knew I was going to make it in life but he wasn’t going to stick around for a piece of the fame’, which was by far the strangest thing someone has said as a reason to distance themselves from me. Another of my friends told me straight up a couple of years ago that he was ‘tired of talking about illness and drama all the time’, not long after I’d been diagnosed with a chronic illness that has completely changed my life. That one hurt a lot because he made me feel like I was never allowed to talk about my issues, but I was always there helping him through whatever was going on with him. Also the ‘drama’ he mentioned was me having to cut contact with my dad. These are just a few examples.
    All this to say I completely empathise with that sense of betrayal you’ve been experiencing. It can make you feel quite sick. And I do think it’s normal to wonder if you can trust people after all that. As I’ve said I don’t have any friends now, and that’s largely because I don’t leave the house anymore due to my illness. But honestly sometimes I feel relieved that I don’t have to deal with all that shit anymore. If I do meet someone lovely of course I wouldn’t avoid their friendship, but I think I’ll always have a bit of skepticism towards new people. And I won’t be sharing anything particularly personal until I feel I can really trust someone. I’m glad you have Calum and Luxeria and I hope you can move past all this as best as possible ❤

    • @Xombic0780
      @Xombic0780 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi I’m your new friend now! You seem so lovely and genuine, and I completely understand where you’re coming from too. People are tricky. I hope you’re doing alright now, I know how it feels. Take care, yeah? 🖤

    • @vickymaddox3791
      @vickymaddox3791 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know what it's like to have no friends and nobody to confide in. I cut my family out my life as they were so toxic it was making me ill. Now because of health problems I struggle to go out and meet new people. I also have no clue how to make friends in this day and age lol Keep strong 💪 you got this x

  • @Malfoy1594
    @Malfoy1594 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Twitter has been like this for YEARS in my opinion. I hardly ever click on Trending Topics cz I think "Ooooh God, who's fighting now?" There is NEVER a single TT where someone isn't attacking someone else, and that has been a thought of mine for a few years now... especially during the rona. It's been a wild ride. I like tweeting nonsense, viral videos or funny shit with friends but literally anything outside of your circle of followers etc... It's just arguments.

  • @sarahwithstars
    @sarahwithstars ปีที่แล้ว

    I fully relate to your utter confusion you experienced in response to outwardly TERF or LGBTQIA exclusionary ideals. I felt that way in the last Candice Owens scandal because I couldn't understand how a woman of colour could broadcast and spread such exclusionary ideas when she lives in a community that is so openly racist in parts and is in the very fabric of society and societal structure. It was almost the realisation that people who experience oppression, marginalisation or othering aren't exempt from also being part of another group that is oppressing someone else.
    Some people really believe that all people aren't equal in value. And it's a sorry state of affairs, but is not new.
    The stagnant state of society is disgusting. Some things change and grow and develop in the blink of a eye....but basic acceptance of your fellow man feels like an impossible task along with the view that all people should strive to be in a default state of basic polite decency with each other.

  • @ZasukiJean
    @ZasukiJean ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love this video, you should do stuff like this more often (just my opinion and ofc do only what ur comfortable with ofcourse but I just love to hear your take on things) indeed Twitter and Instagram are also turning into cesspits. As an activist who shares stuff about Palestine, Ughyurs etc , being shadowbanned is not new on insta for me but definitely it's spreading

  • @anthonypecorara
    @anthonypecorara ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As I watch this Elon has reinstated Trump’s twitter and we had a mass shooting in a queer bar in Colorado. I just can’t anymore.

  • @horsefacejames
    @horsefacejames ปีที่แล้ว

    omg honored to be the twitch shout out 😂💖 glad i finally got around to seeing this

  • @GingerNinja_2319
    @GingerNinja_2319 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I actually really like this style of chatty video 👍

  • @jessicammcmahon
    @jessicammcmahon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Roly, it was very interesting to see this side of you. Don’t get me wrong I love your normal content, and I love how fun and full of character you are. But to see you doing a more subdued chatty style video where you talk about your opinions and values is a very happy addition to your channel. As far as Oli London goes its important that we continue to show how he uses people their race, their sexual identity and religion for his own gain. We need to highlight how much of a pathetic individual he is, so there’s no one alive who doesn’t know what he has done. We need to get him where it hurts, his paycheck. Anyway I think I’m starting to ramble now. But I’d love to see more of this type of content. Sending love from Ireland 😘🇮🇪

  • @Tree-House69
    @Tree-House69 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will say that as far as people go you and Lux are my favorite millennials on stuff like this, y'all still have a lot of insight and don't have a "got mine f yours" mentality, I'm a 'zillennial' where I could be classified as either, a baby millennial or an elder zoomer, and in my limited time I have seen so many millennials turn around and do the same things they hated the boomers doing as soon as they feel like they've either "got theirs" or will get theirs if only they act enough like a boomer in their lifestyle and morals.

  • @stephutech
    @stephutech ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'll be honest with you... I'm really not liking instagram lately... I wanna look at my explore page assuming it'll actually be based off of my actual interests and lots of floofy animals, but I tend to run into a lot of gross videos that I really don't want to see and it's really upsetting and unsettling sometimes. I don't know if you get them too but oh my god, put a warning on or something! The algorithm is so fucked up!
    Also the you talking about Oli London make me think about how 2 years ago, Lohanthony (if you don't know him, he was a gay youtuber and he's 23 years old at the moment i think) disappeared from youtube for a bit and came back and he said he is christian, did conversation therapy, blamed substance use on being gay etc, and it's really sad when people from their open-mindedness to... that.

    • @ExtraRoly
      @ExtraRoly  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh I did not know that happened with Lohanthony. I won't like I did not know much about him but heard people talking about him back in the day!

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss ปีที่แล้ว +1

      …and in another 5 years, he'll be caught in a park with a Grindr hookup.
      Because that's how these stories go. It's so common, it's become cliche.

  • @beckett7707
    @beckett7707 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wonder if there will be a point where the new, radical way of networking will be face to face communication? Like with music on vinyl. 🤔

  • @christinakyleloves
    @christinakyleloves ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love you Roly!! Loving all the Extra Content!! 💜💜

  • @ocean_vampire
    @ocean_vampire ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All my love to u roly! Glad u can vent and destress here.
    I think oli realized the lgbt+ doesn't support him. So he needs to find another group that will. (Even though they probably wont) but I think oli feels like he needs to fit into a niche somewhere.
    For social media...MySpace back in the day will always be the best. It was fully customizable and the only drama you had was "the top 8" haha. And AOL instant messenger haha. I'm sad Instagram is dying cause it's my current favorite. I miss the way it used to work though.

  • @sooth15
    @sooth15 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The only problem with "something new" (to replace Twitter) is that it will still be all the same people and opinions migrating over. It's just a sad reality that some people are just awful.

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon ปีที่แล้ว

    I think we should bring back MySpace or something like it. That way we can post and not get hate nearly as much as we do on other apps. TH-cam is okay for the most part (even though they shut down my other channel), and I agree that something needs to take it's place for some of these other apps that have become unbearable to scroll through, post on or have comments open.
    Another thing I'm actually surprised at was that Tucker (replace the T with an F is what my friends say about him lol) is known in more than just the U.S. YIKES!!! UGH!! Nasty guy who loves to seek out and prey on anyone who might be looking for that kind of stuff to spew.
    I like these types of videos as well. It's always interesting to see "behind the scenes" of any channels I watch, more perspective and understanding of what's going on!

  • @iisnuffles
    @iisnuffles ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i really love these second channel videos, feels like im sitting down with a friend for a chat :)

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s been so much fun making these So I am so happy to hear this ❤

  • @blackfeathercrafts
    @blackfeathercrafts ปีที่แล้ว

    New sub here! I’m a bi woman and 55. My wife is trans m2f. I think as a society at least in America we are going through nightmarish growing pains right now. I wish our government would do something about the violence going on over here.
    I love your channel! Going to stick around. :)

  • @BlueAnubis-hu5cg
    @BlueAnubis-hu5cg ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your always making it a point to put so much "reality" against the "stereotypes" and the fact that you try to show all sides and understand certain things.. but also show how INSANE the current state of humanity is with all this hate.

  • @Scorchy666
    @Scorchy666 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've only been watching yours and Luxeria's channels for a little over a month, but already I'm quite fond of both your vlogs. As for Oli, I think it's safe to assume he will never, ever be happy. As far as Twitter goes, I deleted it years ago before Musk because it was so toxic.

  • @superdrwholock
    @superdrwholock ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Couldn't agree more, these kinds of people who do this stuff just end up hurting marginalized people for their own monetary gain, or to try so desperately to get attention. Surely they can't be happy doing this, but then maybe they just don't have a conscience/morals? I mean if you really wanna be famous, get in to something like fashion or modelling and try to be good at it, or TH-cam or streaming, or even reality TV, I don't get why you'd be hateful or try to make a whole community look ridiculous just for attention.
    Edit: Also I'm 20 and from the UK so was in school not that long ago, and being queer is still stigmatised and we're hated on. I wasn't even out as a trans guy then (tried to come out at 13 but was dismissed again and again until my parents finally accepted me 2 years ago at 18), and I got severely bullied for not fitting in. I got bullied in PE in year 7 and 8 because I wore boxers (they were technically girl boxers but I remember they gave me a little bit of gender euphoria lol, wasn't even fully aware of what that was back then) and having hair on my legs and got called the D slur just weird shit like that. I've never understood it. But yeah I was queer and not allowed to be out and myself, but I was still severely bullied in school up until I left 2 years ago, so I can't imagine that it's being taught in schools the way the conservatives like to make out. Even in sex ed there was one single mention that gay men exist but when I say one mention I mean it literally, one sentence, didn't even talk about lesbians or any other LGBT+ people. This was like 6-7 years ago so I highly doubt that much has changed in the way oli portrayed it lol

  • @justagirlfromdownunder8362
    @justagirlfromdownunder8362 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm loving what you're doing with this channel, I feel like we're sitting down and just chatting about general life, I love this and I love you thank you for sharing your truth with us xx

  • @fionapithouse9010
    @fionapithouse9010 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's ok to vent Roly 😌 always here to listen but yeah oli needs to stop its crazy !!!

  • @wolfsangel6334
    @wolfsangel6334 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Roly 😊. I hope you are doing well. I subscribed to your other channel just about 1 year and a half - 2 years ago. It is a sad state of affairs when people's actions are so hateful. I do think you are right about He is just trying to get attention. Good, bad, indifferent doesn't matter to those type of people. Unfortunately, there are people that are willing to give someone attention even when they are doing the wrong thing. It is terrible what he has done to the LGBTQ+ community. And the fact that those far right channels and "personalities" didn't ask him actual important questions says ALOT. Unfortunately there are many many people that take those channels as 100% fact. Regardless that what they are actually doing is just spouting hate. I do think you do a wonderful job in your videos. You are considerate, compassionate, and you do try to give people the benefit of the doubt. keep being your awesome self. And keep calling out the bs. No matter where it's coming from.

  • @cynthiashaw9668
    @cynthiashaw9668 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for being so real with us. ILY

  • @Tashycat78
    @Tashycat78 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally after an hour of waiting for power to see your video. I hate these power cuts.

  • @krissylynne14
    @krissylynne14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this, Roly. It's just sad. Last week Oli was doing that far right anti-lgbt press tour and this weekend there's (another) shooting in a queer club in the US. People saying things like "well I feel more sorry for the kids they groomed." Like do people like that and like Oli feel any shame at all?

  • @SupaDupa97
    @SupaDupa97 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'd say let's revive Tumblr, but I like the fact that it's not as popular as it was, and it's kinda chill now lol

    • @pinkghostie
      @pinkghostie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, I joined around 6 months ago now after watching strange aeons for around 4 years and its such a nice break from all other social medias I've tried out. I love how you can go into comment sections of lgbtq+ stuff and they usually won't be complete cesspits of right wingers and how the ads aren't intrustive (ehem, youtube) and you can unapologetically engage in fandom.
      I feel like if tumblr gets a ton of users (especially people who are used to arguing on twitter) the comments will become a bit more of a cesspit and corporations and ads will slowly start invading.

    • @SupaDupa97
      @SupaDupa97 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pinkghostie yeah I joined back in 2014 and it used to be so chaotic, but it was okay depending on which sort of blogs you followed haha. I do prefer the layout of Tumblr for discovering artists compared to Twitter and Instagram.

  • @wendyboenke3678
    @wendyboenke3678 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sending you a hug.

  • @victoriahayden2961
    @victoriahayden2961 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoy the format of these more relaxed videos. I learn a lot from watching you both you and Luxeria and think you are both wonderful.

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Victoria! I’m so glad they are being received so well! Will for sure keep making them 🎉

  • @theMermaidRhonda
    @theMermaidRhonda ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, I didn't even know you had this channel. I'm with you..I don't understand the hate. I deactivated my Twitter account because of the cesspool it's become. OMG, it's awful! I agree that it's most likely dead. I'll honestly be amazed if Musk is able to pull it out of the dumpster fire, especially now that he let Mango Mussolini back on. UGH! So glad I left! Sending you hugs!

  • @CupOfTeaX
    @CupOfTeaX ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to watch you back on the day glad to see your still about and posting. Still can’t believe what oil London is doing. Unbelievable

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh they’ll have to drag me off TH-cam kicking and screaming if they ever wanted me to stop 😂😂😂

  • @Babesinthewood97
    @Babesinthewood97 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just wanted to say that I love seeing your face and listening to your reasoning. A happy moment among all the noise

  • @chananjahmulder3782
    @chananjahmulder3782 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for telling us you're story

  • @emilyhanmore1427
    @emilyhanmore1427 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i hope your okay roly luv u

  • @charliezard-_-8174
    @charliezard-_-8174 ปีที่แล้ว

    The laid back content on the second channel is a nice change ❤ chatty ramble videos are always good to have in the background of overwatch lol

  •  ปีที่แล้ว

    In Brazik we call that type of media "dog's world"

  • @angel_existential
    @angel_existential ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the vibe and energy of this video. 😌

  • @whatismylife8100
    @whatismylife8100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hate ppl who do these things just for fame at any cost. Oli London really needs some help. It's like he's just constantly being fake to find the easiest route to fame. Like 'I don't care what ppl are saying about me as long as they're talking about me'

  • @PaulaLPope
    @PaulaLPope ปีที่แล้ว

    People are learning just how easy it is to go online and take out their frustrations on others with little to no retribution. So, just about all social media platforms are rife with miserable people whose sole goal is to make others feel worse, like it somehow elevates themselves. It's faulty thinking, but here we are. The platforms are great, but many of the users need a reboot. I think those leaning far right need to lean a little in the the left and those leaning far left need to lean a little in the the right...we gotta find some common sense middle ground. We're not going to find that out there on the perimeter.

  • @danielprice2743
    @danielprice2743 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm always happy to see a little Extra Roly in my day. Keep uploading. I'll watch.

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Daniel 😊

  • @selenagomezkilldemi
    @selenagomezkilldemi ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s beyond shocking what people will do for fame. Surely these people aren’t actually happy.

  • @undeaddissection
    @undeaddissection ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this channel 🖤

  • @icedragon936
    @icedragon936 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unfortunately evil and hateful people will never go away and I just don't understand. I wish everyone could be just nice to each other, but that's definitely wishful thinking so I try to do the best I can at being me and not caring about what others think. I've grown up, most of my life having friends that just decide to not want to know me anymore for no reason so now I'm careful how I choose my friends and thankfully now I have a small circle of really close friends that I truly can call family 🖤💜

  • @ionecrossing
    @ionecrossing ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly i feel like its getting worse and worse for anyone whos LGBTQ+. Its beyond not safe for us anywhere (not thay it ever REALLY was). Im just so scared. And its terrifying to watch people you know suddenly become far right biggots. One of my closest childhood friends flipped and is gomophobic and transphobic too, and its wild to expierence that. .
    Also, Im late to the game but I just now am finding your Extra Roly account and I am PUMPED bc I LOVE pokemon and box openings 💖💖
    Sending you all my love!

  • @womenwotreads
    @womenwotreads ปีที่แล้ว

    Roly , you are a beautiful soul and because of that of course all this hate and toxicity will affect you, I hope you manage to not be floored by it. There's a verse in the bible that you don't have to believe in God for it to make sense " Do not be overcome by evil but overcome evil with good" Sensitive and compassionate souls have a tendency to be overcome and get sad, and angry and depressed by peoples hatefulness but the best we can do is be the alternative. You do that already. I;m a boomer too 😀 and my eldest child is a nonbinary lesbian . I will do everything in my power to stand up and fight for LGBTQ people . We both love you . Keep on being you and that will dispel some of the darknessx

  • @KhloeeLouise
    @KhloeeLouise ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why is it every time I need u u show up. It scares me how u know x😭❤️

  • @she_evel
    @she_evel ปีที่แล้ว

    This is how I view Ollie: I LOVE DOGS, (even tho I'm a cat, I identify as a dog!) ESPECIALLY Marmaduke! I wanna look like Marmaduke!! OMG my surgeries went smashingly, I look just like Marmaduke! I'm marrying Marmaduke, at least a cardboard cutout! Wait, now I'm a German bc Marmaduke is From there!! Ok then, that was fun, I'm no longer German, Marmaduke or a dog at all!! I am and always have been a CAT!! It's bc dogs were pushed onto us in school, social media, EVERYWHERE!! SHAME, SHAME ON SOCIETY!! that's my breakdown of his "life"! PLEASE, I'm just using cat and dog as my examples! I could've used a tree and a nut, or WTF ever I wanted!! ✌🏻❤️Stay safe and stay sane out there people!!

  • @FlaccidPancake72
    @FlaccidPancake72 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with what you said about Instagram I used to have an art Account where I’d post and sell my art and it used to be very popular and pick up well I got a lot of engagement but around a year ago something happened and now I stopped getting a lot of engagement and I just don’t do it anymore now. Btw very excited to see the new Pokémon boxes, I just bought Scarlet can’t wait to play it

  • @emthethem
    @emthethem ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this ramble..it's really helpful and I appreciate how you feel as tbh you ain't alone.. big love and get a cute Pikachu x

  • @josiebunner8485
    @josiebunner8485 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You know when I was younger, and I heard the story in the Guinness world records book about the first pregnant man and I just thought that was normal. I knew nothing about him being transgender nor did I know what transgender was or that it was a term I just thought it was a normal man that was pregnant. Nobody taught me about being transgender. I eventually learned over time about what that was and I came to realization like oh okay that makes sense. Nobody’s taught me.

  • @slytherinsanka5157
    @slytherinsanka5157 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My mum used to be a TERF bc she is in the gender and health field focusing on women’s rights but then she bought a book and spoke to people and her views have totally changed

  • @lukemerrell7725
    @lukemerrell7725 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so weird when people go so far left that they turn right! I have lost a few friends that way. They went from "fight hate" to "all lives matter" I couldn't understand or reason with them.

  • @Angeleyes672006
    @Angeleyes672006 ปีที่แล้ว

    I honestly had the same rant to my husband after watching your video. I think it is disgusting at how Oli can change their mind and then blame everyone else for it. They are a grown adult and need to take responsibility for what they are doing.

  • @owrilm
    @owrilm ปีที่แล้ว

    What gets me is all those current tlc programmes started as you tube channels and the trashy channels search for them. Granted i am a gen x who isn't quite sure about the influencer thing. what does oli london do?
    I use youtube as an entertainment and informative channel. It's how i managed to drill through tiles to put up a cupboard.

  • @aar8n955
    @aar8n955 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so disgusting to see members of our community just grift against their own self-interests, ala Oli London, Dave Rubin, Milo Yiannopoulos, Caitlin Jenner, etc. I totally agree with you Roly, especially given another shooting in one of our spaces in Colorado Springs. 😡

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh isn’t it absolutely disgusting these people have done nothing but fuel what happened yesterday with their hateful words

  • @angeltt4390
    @angeltt4390 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think we all feel your need to vent and the totally unsettling effect that thing has on people with its constant shock exhibitionist content (its like a walking soap opera - one thing dies down and another shock factor event crops up). I vaguely move around on some other social medias but only ever look at those that interest me like the mains for games I play or artists I follow and try to scroll past the complete twaddle that seems to be the norm for some. Honestly if they want to read so much junk just get a Mills n Boons box set FFS! Never understood tiktok/Snapchat though, never really understood the ritual some people have of obediently watching things like soaps or news morning and night or reading a newspaper either so I'm usually out of the loop on a lot - which a lot of people in my age group seem to revel in.

  • @contentcontent7863
    @contentcontent7863 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES ROLY ‼️‼️YOU SPOKE ON IT‼️

  • @chloebreslin
    @chloebreslin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we love you roly🥺🤍

  • @phoebejay5731
    @phoebejay5731 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honestly, even watching his previous video, (where he came out as nb and "transracial"-__-) it alreaDy felt like some kind of weird, vicious commentary on trans identities?
    Like him trying to compare being transgender to "changing your race" and the nonsense with the Korean Jimin pronouns like, it felt like ridicule towards the trans community.
    And part of me sort of felt like, he was being an undercover transphobe, like a weird stunt to make some point that like 'oh if you all say claiming another race is bad/offensive/crazy, how is it different to claiming another gender' type thing??
    'm not saying I saw thiS coming exactly, but it did give off troll vibes, and wow he uh, did the ultimate troll really I guess O__O
    Unhinged.

  • @silverghostcat1924
    @silverghostcat1924 ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand the need to decompress from that video. To be honest I couldn't even watch it all the way through because I couldn't stand Oli's stupidity. Nothing annoys more than buyer's remorse BS. If this is that, and not just a stunt for more attention. I understand regretting choices you've made and learning from them. What I detest, is some of those people deciding "for the good of others" trying to make those choices either unavailable or illegal. Smoking, abortion, drinking etc. Everyone should have the right to make the choices that are right for them. Not every one has the same experience with the same choices. Live your life to the best of your ability and give others the freedom to do the same.
    No one held a gun to London's head and made him get those surgeries. He just needs to be in the limelight at all times regardless of how that's achieved. Maybe if people quit giving him attention he'll disappear into oblivion.

  • @krisztiharmat
    @krisztiharmat ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Elon should rename the site to Twatter 😂😂 Sadly to some people like Oily London, every attention is good attention

    • @ExtraRoly
      @ExtraRoly  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES!!

    • @stephutech
      @stephutech ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Twatter 😂 Also, I dont know if you meant to say oily instead of oli but that was GOLD too

    • @krisztiharmat
      @krisztiharmat ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@stephutech Totally intentional 😁 watched a lot of reaction videos, some creaters started calling him Oily Lotion 🤣

  • @kassemir
    @kassemir ปีที่แล้ว +1

    TH-cam has a good algorithm, which is both a good thing, and a bad thing. I think a lot of flat earthers and conspiracy theorists got more radicalized from falling in to a bad rabbit hole of content on TH-cam.
    That is kind of the big problem with algorithms based on engagement. It can really send people down a horrible path in a really bad way.
    Because all it takes is a little engagement, which then snowballs 'cause the algorithm keeps serving up more, and more bad content.

  • @angelacaeiramartin3867
    @angelacaeiramartin3867 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally with you on it all x I never liked those style shows when they where popular back in the day. It's all basically a freakshow where the only winners are the greedy money grabbing media. Hate it all, makes me shudder.

  • @Agothandherbirb
    @Agothandherbirb ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you were bang on where you said he's just out there for attention and money.

  • @dg7666
    @dg7666 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you say again the name of the show you did a reaction to (that you mentioned in this video)? Sorry, new to the channel and I have a lot of lovely content to catch up on❤

  • @alexisgrey3633
    @alexisgrey3633 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Arielle Scarcella seemed to be like a shitty person even in her 'liberal' phase, she made a video of lesbians talking about bisexual women, saying really derogatory things (as a bi person I had to stop watching it was so upsetting), I heard a great deal of criticism of her from other trans people, and she also made a video with Jaclyn Glenn basically bullying Riley Dennis's girlfriend for calling out her transphobia, she is also a Trump supporter now.

    • @icravedeath.1200
      @icravedeath.1200 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm pretty sure jacyln Glenn has separated from her now.

  • @james01uk91
    @james01uk91 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel exactly the same way as you!

  • @paulakelly6457
    @paulakelly6457 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Roly love, just found this second channel ❤❤❤

  • @marcielynn4886
    @marcielynn4886 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like humanity, it's people I can't stand.

  • @LoonZoomBoo
    @LoonZoomBoo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Rolilicious. Hope you are well xx

  • @wombat333
    @wombat333 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, you hate what societies become because your an Empath. The world needs more of them. I agree 1000%, I've commented on videos that make fun of people suffering addiction. They wrote me a reply and said, their just wasted junkies. Breaks my heart, their humans and don't deserve more ridicule. Same with the bigger people on here, don't laugh, give me a hand. Grrrrr pisses me off big time.
    You though beautiful man care alot, don't ever lose that.
    ✌💕💕💕💕🥂😊

  • @ida-w2j
    @ida-w2j ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Roly ♥️♥️

  • @TheMiseh1
    @TheMiseh1 ปีที่แล้ว

    These kinds of shows are still a thing because people havent changed about how they feel about themselves and others in comparison. It's easy to point at someone on a show and think 'oh look at this freak (no matter if they're too heavy or have mental health issues (like hoarders or my strange addiction)) and think to themselves 'that makes me feel so much more 'normal'.
    And I think lgbtq+ ppl just get thrown in there because they're a minority. The thing is, cis het average Joe will never be able to really relate to anything like that fully and even if they dont openly hate on people then, they might still look at it all like it's a big freak show and they're the only person that's sane. It just makes them feel better. I don't think these shows will ever stop existing.

  • @thomascarpenter8750
    @thomascarpenter8750 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even though I don't know him and I don't want to know him. But what Oli London is doing makes me angry and upset. I don't know why but it does.

  • @lemongrabloids3103
    @lemongrabloids3103 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I knew you weren’t finished with Oli London 😂 draaaag him lol

  • @novasite7795
    @novasite7795 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's money. Hatred has become monetized. The right offers a lot of money to preach hate. Sick but true.

  • @Him_He_Me
    @Him_He_Me ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its unforgivable what he's done. l thought it was illegal to discriminate against people's orientation and gender??
    l mean isnt that what that TV talk show was doing?? Why arent they fined or something?? That's just not right.
    And yes, Oli is doing it totally for attention so he can get more money for more surgeries. That's all it is about, money.
    But how he can backflip like that only means he was never part of the community in the first place, it's all a PR exercise for him and his popularity at being a loser. He can give me some of his money so l can have top surgery. Rips my soul out watching fools like him waste money like that.

  • @4lovebysara
    @4lovebysara หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its capitalism, at least in part. People are struggling to survive. When they realize how much money they can make, and fairly easily, its enticing to them. I couldn't ever do it because I wouldn't be able to live with throwing my community under the bus. But I can understand how the money makes it easier for some people. 🤷‍♀️ It's very sad.

  • @TheZarlo
    @TheZarlo ปีที่แล้ว

    twitter has been a pit of hate for years