Grief, Heartbreak & Red Flags

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  • @shikomuhuri
    @shikomuhuri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It’s her voice for me. I could listen to her all day. Love it. Love her story telling too

  • @carolinemwazi5583
    @carolinemwazi5583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That is powerful. 'Would you want this for your daughter?' Helps to clarify things. Never ignore the red flags - no matter how tiny.

  • @survivingmillenials4631
    @survivingmillenials4631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I love her energy she made this episode so funny yet it is supposed to be sad😂 I literally can’t stop laughing 😂😃

  • @jaccylaughter
    @jaccylaughter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow could listen to her all day, she's bubbly. I love her.
    Thanks for having her Adele.

  • @melissagitts
    @melissagitts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I loved her humour in the conversation..also the vulnerability and authenticity is just something else. As well her appreciating her wrongs and going ahead to correct them. Amazing!

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Melissa ❤️ The life journey continues 💪

  • @misspriscilla953
    @misspriscilla953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I lost my mum last year December and buried her on Christmas Eve.. your story has made me have bitter sweet memories of the ordeal we had to go through. Grief is not an easy journey but we somehow find a way to stay a float. I like your sense of humour and calmness as you tell your story. I hope to share mine with such grace someday.

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry about our mum! Grief is quite tricky to navigate for sure. Sending you peace and grace!

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Priscilla 👋 It's definitely a journey that I think we'll be on for all our lives and you might not know this but you already doing the best you can ❤️❤️❤️ And I know your mom is your forever guardian angel👼

  • @naomimuthoni2473
    @naomimuthoni2473 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That point of losing someone and doing everything else to fill in the void touched me, relates to me . Thankyou for this

  • @suesjournalmedia7634
    @suesjournalmedia7634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She's told her story in a beautiful way even the sad parts are very well put across. Waiting for the next video

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Sue 😊

  • @laurencewesonga9418
    @laurencewesonga9418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Her energy is outrageous...Rae you are nothing but a queen.❤️

  • @feinussayid2938
    @feinussayid2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dark humor. It’s a coping mechanism from trauma. I do that too. Laugh at painful memories.

  • @nilahm
    @nilahm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Rae has such an amazing voice and her laugh is everything

  • @JayDwayneShow
    @JayDwayneShow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She Kept introducing me as a friend and not the Man, made me feel insecure and awful yet I got a lot of appreciation from other people. Im glad it ended.
    I totally relate to this 💯💯💯 Boldness
    Not settling for less 😍😍😍🔥

  • @hanifasalim5822
    @hanifasalim5822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Everything about your story was just amazing! You spoke so gracefully through every feeling, such an eye opener

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That means so much 💕 Thank you

  • @annenjoki3006
    @annenjoki3006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    She's so bubbly.. I could listen to her for a whole day 😄

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww Anne!!!

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely! You should check out her radio show on Soundcity :)

  • @amazingme4718
    @amazingme4718 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My dad was hospitalized, and I had a feeling like a heavy log on my chest all day. I called my sister to ask after my dad. She said, "Don't shout!" It didn't register then. She repeated herself, "Don't shout!" I flung my phone and fell on the floor. I would never forget that moment. It felt like my life came to an end. It's been almost a year and I'm still hurting. In all of my pains, I give thanks.

  • @matildaasha4148
    @matildaasha4148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Rae it was a joy listening to you. Great storytelling skills.

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy you watched it :-)

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching Matilda and yes Rae is amazing!

  • @MissSheri
    @MissSheri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how well spoken she is.

  • @yb6559
    @yb6559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    HER ACCENT YOU GUYS....OMG, and her laughing at it while narrating is hilarious

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rae's energy is everything!

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂 Being able to laugh at these things now is one major thing I'm grateful for

  • @peninahwamuyu3349
    @peninahwamuyu3349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Woooo..... Loss loss loss.... this takes me back to 1999. I lost my mum when I was 11yrs old. 22yrs later I'm still in the process of healing. Coincidencidetally today is her birthday. "Happy 59th birthday mum!" 🎂🎉🎊.

  • @cebilendwandwe6857
    @cebilendwandwe6857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    came across your channel. im hooked. love from South Africa.

  • @fu_raha
    @fu_raha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The ' I was just here on trust' aaah the character development associated with this sentence😂😂😂😂😂😂😅

  • @_Sharon_J
    @_Sharon_J 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is such an excellent bubbly speaker!! What a Rae of sunshine.

  • @christinekawira5113
    @christinekawira5113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This sooo far is my best. Humour in the delivery of such serious life lessons.

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching Christine! So glad you enjoyed it!

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heart is so full ❤️ Thank you Christine

  • @martinamireri3719
    @martinamireri3719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amazing story telling!! Glad that the video series is back

  • @antonettewambani805
    @antonettewambani805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My condolences on your loss even if it's years later. You shall heal from your break up , your positivity is on another level

  • @maurynmbote3605
    @maurynmbote3605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love, love this video. She's making it soo interesting in a good way even if it's a sad story.

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching Mauryn! Yes Rae is amazing!

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww I'm just so glad that you watched 😊🤗🤗

  • @gathonz
    @gathonz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    she's such a brilliant story teller . I loved this episode

  • @tokyococo6996
    @tokyococo6996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Rae you're very charming, lovely and your energy is contagious 🥰🥰🥰.
    I'm glad you realized your worth and left the situation. Must have been hard.

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was ...I think it always is where love is/was involved. I'm so glad you watched this and thank you so much for your kind words 💕

  • @Zambarau20
    @Zambarau20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
    You're so much stronger than you think 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
    I'm really proud of you babe!

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely Mary-Magdalene! We're so proud of Rae as well!

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks big sis ❤️

  • @kristelmackrine5890
    @kristelmackrine5890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She's such a vibe😂 plus the great voice...this story's really inspiring

  • @Lucynduku327
    @Lucynduku327 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love her personality, she is such a beautiful lady and a great story teller❤

  • @water_guy692
    @water_guy692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I didn't know how much i needed this♥️

  • @tokyococo6996
    @tokyococo6996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I ugly cried when you spoke about your dad 😓🥺🥺

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miss him every day ❤️

  • @michaelzuberi3000
    @michaelzuberi3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love Rae's enthusiasm and how she tells her story!! Such a beautiful soul to be around. 💯🥰

  • @riikoriawacu162
    @riikoriawacu162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Her little jokes making me smile amidst sobs of her sad story.
    You are a gem rae❤️

  • @anitakarimi_kenya
    @anitakarimi_kenya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like her and she is great at story telling.

  • @torikalekye3003
    @torikalekye3003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love her storytelling so much. It was a sad story but I had quite a few laughs....

  • @chepkemoimaurine6534
    @chepkemoimaurine6534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing story, takes alot of courage..been there before. Sorry about your dad and I hope you heal.

  • @vaatinyamai9888
    @vaatinyamai9888 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her voooooice 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰. How she's turned her dissapointment into humor is just magical.

  • @beckyphala5436
    @beckyphala5436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Her humor is out of this world 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @alisonlyezire9951
    @alisonlyezire9951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am sorry for your loss. May God continue to comfort you and your family.

  • @dicieokaya3434
    @dicieokaya3434 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is probably the realest episode I have heard... It's crazy how I am able to relate to it...

  • @blessedmweru2486
    @blessedmweru2486 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wise girl - you walked put of toxicity and have a money management structure that you follow to safeguard debt and brokenness. Well done!!

  • @geraldgichuhi9573
    @geraldgichuhi9573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing to listen to one of the best voices on the radio that I love listening to since back in the days #HRB

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gerald!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @singlesmeetinternational
    @singlesmeetinternational ปีที่แล้ว

    , she is very whitty and loving. I love her voice and command of the English language. More grace and many blessings. ❤

  • @raychellewairimu2199
    @raychellewairimu2199 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad that you left early enough...some of us are still stuck in such relationships full of financial infidelity and unaccountability...😡

    • @Prosperity23846
      @Prosperity23846 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Leave girl❤!!!!! Even if you have kids together you'll manage!!! Ignore what family members and the society will say! You can't be toiling for money from morning to evening then someone misuses and doesn't take accountability😠

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you left!

  • @Amanda-u1k7r
    @Amanda-u1k7r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so beautiful. I’ve always loved Rae and knew she loved her father but I didn’t the whole heartbreaking story behind it. Hugs to you Rae. You’re such a beautiful person with such a beautiful voice, and yes we hear you ❤️

  • @yusufbamulanga7865
    @yusufbamulanga7865 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesomeness at it's best. Stumbled on this page following Lynn Ngugi but it's super super nice.
    Am a Ugandan domiciled in cold and deep NewHampshire but I only interact with Kenyans as in Mungaano yya Africa Mashariki and that's how I get good content from Jamhuri yya Harambee instead of chaotic Matooke land and M7's stranglehold on the Nation.

  • @SteveWachira
    @SteveWachira ปีที่แล้ว

    RaeRae!!! Wow.. Thank you 😊

  • @kaharalilian9065
    @kaharalilian9065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had missed the video series ❤️

  • @wangechiwangareassociatead4345
    @wangechiwangareassociatead4345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oooh wow. great lessons, well told lovely personality. I love how you laugh at yourself. same things I can relate. Eye Candy too

  • @carol5368
    @carol5368 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow....sorry for the loss .Thanks for being authentic. I relate with the hospital scene...really heart breaking.even in the sadness, you made me laugh.

  • @elinamwikali1884
    @elinamwikali1884 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved listening to this episode, mostly because it's an experience i totally relate with and also coz we share a therapist big up - Daisy form Convocare, she really helped me deal with my nasty experiences in life and now I'm a living testimony that therapy works 🎉😊

  • @georginaloise8477
    @georginaloise8477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My favorite episode 🤩

  • @beautyinalens1720
    @beautyinalens1720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so interesting listening to her Talk.... LOVELY lady and the laughter 😊...

  • @nyokafikamau
    @nyokafikamau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such beautiful energy. Thanks for sharing Rae ♥️

  • @lindagatwiri869
    @lindagatwiri869 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn't even notice time passing by,I love her personality.

  • @annechawe8363
    @annechawe8363 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I looooove her 😍😍😍
    Thank you for these stories Adelle

  • @petercarolynemunini2737
    @petercarolynemunini2737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved her from HBR

  • @survivingmillenials4631
    @survivingmillenials4631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Finally season 2👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️👯‍♀️

  • @njeri.wa.solo18
    @njeri.wa.solo18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That man didn't deserve you and thank you for setting the standard for your daughter,it takes a lot of courage. I'm sorry about your dad.

  • @EvalyneNyambura
    @EvalyneNyambura 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Our Ray of Sunshine

  • @kindoreen7887
    @kindoreen7887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was really waiting for this episode. Notification gang

  • @survivingmillenials4631
    @survivingmillenials4631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This episode was so beautiful 😭

  • @shishi.p
    @shishi.p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful in and out

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sheila 🤗🤗❤️

  • @FaridaKaru
    @FaridaKaru 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We went to Uni together... the most bubbly person. Sad to think she went through so much ♥️

  • @neens8109
    @neens8109 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her story telling is so engaging.
    That Timbuktu comment though, we as a people, need to realise that place holds so much wisdom and shouldn't taint it, in the same tongue and gaze as the coloniser. Visit it and learn about our history

  • @angiewamuchomba8106
    @angiewamuchomba8106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's the Humor for me.....
    Wow wow

  • @munenenesh2295
    @munenenesh2295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have always loved Ray kiragu on radio

  • @gracenzivo6790
    @gracenzivo6790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope my hugs are needed.Hugs dear

  • @dashb9053
    @dashb9053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is such a vibe😊😊

  • @risperwambui8369
    @risperwambui8369 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤she's beautiful in and out

  • @carolynegatwiri7076
    @carolynegatwiri7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I liked before listening 😁

  • @ruthcleopatra
    @ruthcleopatra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥰 your style of telling your story eases the viewers mind. Time to move and humor about it too 🤭😍

  • @dotibernis
    @dotibernis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You've got a great voice Rae

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love #Rae, listened to her then on #HBR, she is just a ray of sunshine 🌞😆✨. Thanks for sharing💕🤗, hii Kanairo jo😂😂. Kazi safi👏🏾😘 #Adele this is a beautiful concept🇰🇪.

  • @nancy41064
    @nancy41064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy you are back and I am loving it🙏

  • @Kenyan28
    @Kenyan28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are very strong 💝

    • @raekiragu
      @raekiragu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥰 Not all the time which I've also realized is okay 🙂 Thank you Zipporah! ❤️

  • @jjkui4535
    @jjkui4535 ปีที่แล้ว

    The VOICE WOOOW

  • @tlotlisosekete7396
    @tlotlisosekete7396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Notification gaaanggg!!!!!🥳🥳🥳

  • @beautyinalens1720
    @beautyinalens1720 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic podcast...

  • @Msapere
    @Msapere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My take:
    1. There was a lot of good fucking in this relationship
    2. They both grew as humans
    3. She's is/was a freak (I support that)
    4. Life is interesting
    Peace

  • @RebeccabeckyMwangi
    @RebeccabeckyMwangi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    New Set 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @omendaalice9905
    @omendaalice9905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was fast asleep.
    Then I just remember yesterday was Friday... It's 1:04am and I woke up to watch this .
    I couldn't wait to wake up.

  • @wangarindiritu7643
    @wangarindiritu7643 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who can hurt such a soul? 🥺🥺

  • @nataliewangeci4007
    @nataliewangeci4007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I could like this video twice I totally would

  • @DjNiche254
    @DjNiche254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rae ❤️❤️❤️

  • @danielrerimoi7632
    @danielrerimoi7632 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "solid things"??

  • @catherinenjau5615
    @catherinenjau5615 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is interesting!
    How does one make it to the cut.....to share their story?
    I honestly feel like I have a novel to share :)

    • @LegallyCluelessAfrica
      @LegallyCluelessAfrica  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fill out our storyteller form: linktr.ee/LegallyClueless

  • @Missguided28
    @Missguided28 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's Soo fun... I followed all the way easily! 🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @groomedbymuthoni7534
    @groomedbymuthoni7534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New subbie😊

  • @mwatumusili7703
    @mwatumusili7703 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sleeping on the floor when you're the bereaved is really ghetto behaviour for sure. 😂

  • @thicker94
    @thicker94 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😊

  • @aluha
    @aluha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

  • @_risingphoenix
    @_risingphoenix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sakaform
    @sakaform 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂😂this is not supposed to be funny …its really nice laughing at your pain once you’re past it.

  • @gladwellmuchere1687
    @gladwellmuchere1687 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so interesting...

  • @florencekamau4366
    @florencekamau4366 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have learnt alot...I need your insta handle..I really need to talk to you

  • @girl_woman
    @girl_woman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    14:35

  • @thicker94
    @thicker94 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😊