My girlfriend returned the ring on the day I proposed to her saying that she wanted it to be grand..

My girlfriend returned the ring on the day I proposed to her saying that she wanted it to be a grand event. I decided not to marry a self-absorbed and materialistic woman.
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[@mksk4395]

If she doesn't accept your first proposal because it wasn't "grand enough", she does not marry you for you. You know what to do from there

[@davidehl323]

Only a simp would propose a second time.

[@marthajackson1388]

What's in common with all the ex's and him? They all didn't want to marry her.

[@TheKadanz]

I think samantha might not just be a narcissist but a sociopath as well.

[@demonic_myst4503]

You normaly arbt borh their completly difwrnt types of issues

[@MyntRoom]

*Dodged a nuke.*
*People, remember: when you start to be with someone, at least give a little thought before accepting them blindly. Your self respect comes first before anything else.*

[@kellysorensen1419]

Wow, the first proposal was amazing! Why do some women expect to have such elaborate proposals? Drop her hard! She doesn't deserve you! I wonder why her other bfs dropped her?

[@susanrand512]

OMG, run boy 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ run. Have an attorney write her a letter and/or sue her for defamation.

[@rjgernhardt8568]

Dude, glad you woke up before it was too late!

[@devincooper7821]

if you're the type of guy who allowed for the initial rejection, only to then sell your car to finance a better proposal, then you ask for any BS that comes your way.
Snap out of it boys.

[@christopherdelgado595]

Why would anyone even get to the point of proposing to someone like this???

[@stanford-nf4jk]

@christopherdelgado595 It’s usually because they don’t think they can do any better. It’s quite sad, to say the least.

[@habarovchanec]

After she said that he didn’t try hard enough for her the first time, she should have immediately been sent to hell. And he continued to eat all the crap that she dished out on his head. If a person is an idiot, then this is forever. He deserved everything she offered him as a partner.

[@MeyaRoseGirl]

While I have compassion for the ordeal his ex put him through, I can't help but feel like OP was a total idiot. Even before the first proposal there were plenty of red flags about her being narcissistic, materialistic, and just plain mean. Who says to their romantic partner "You're lucky to be dating me" in a non-joking way? The only acceptable thing to say on that subject is "I am so lucky to be dating YOU." He should have dumped her ages ago.

[@janbentzen6814]

I hope he gets the ring back.

[@gorenchick]

Shoulda dumped her after the first proposal. If you marry her she'll dump you thrn take everything she can from you in,the divorce. Run like hell dude..

[@ZuriSmooth]

Fr

[@nofrackingzone7479]

I know this is fake but wow the Simping is real

[@oneuup2490]

This is actually old peaceful because this lady was showing who she was prior to the engagement and he did not believe her now he shocked that she talking down on him what she's been doing this whole time in a relationship.
His problem was he went by how she looked instead of how her attitude was and that's what f**ks a lot of you up.

[@user-fw7fj3df5r]

All pretty girls are crazy

[@hypezar]

All girls are crazy. It's up to us men to accept what level of craziness we can endure.

[@ruokuojaden3690]

Only. And idiot would propose in the first place
If she exaggerated your private life to others even on social media dude I would be long gone by now
Way before whn she said i gave you a change your not successful as my ex but kind
run forest run