Like you said, in self development it’s you vs you. Most people don’t want to become divided against themselves in this way because it’s outside of the comfort zone. The #1 addiction - which is never even discussed in the mainstream - is the addiction to the comfort zone.
Pain is always going to exist in your life. You can choose the pain of the present to better your future, or the pain in the future for choosing comfort in the present.
@alex-ander-13 Because they're different kinds. Some feel good in the moment but bad afterwards (junk food, binge watching TV, etc). Others create resistance in the present but create a feeling of joy and fulfilment longterm (physical activity, learning, building a business, etc).
You're 100 % right for anyone of us that is in this place that you are describing. Yeah I am right there in this description and I am looking at what the Lord asked me to do and a carreeer that I might truly love I'm not sure but, the Lord told me a few years back to go to the Mountains and train to help many. Sounds crazy...trust me I know. When I was taking care of my dying mother for years until she passed at a very weak moment I cried out to the Lord exclaiming that I was too weak to continue as I was headed home to meet the ambulance bringing her home and as I cried out I literally felt the Lord swoop down and picked me up and carried me for a while. I literally felt him lift my weight is kinda what it felt like. Later he asked me to lay my burdens down at his feet and so I did for the first time in my life and I instantly experienced the most amazing sensation of peace that I have ever experienced. I still have Holy Spirit. I commented because I left home at 12-13 and moved in with an older brother and sister and by 17 I had my own place through my employer. So, I was thinking at 12 geez I was abused. So, I often wondered after I broke the cycle of abuse and studied 36 credits of psych and I took all of my kids to therapy and I went aswell for a while. So, I dunno. I think God wants me to help others in some way. Nothing is more important than what you are talking about. You're right. I have choices to make.
That is so me... my health is fine and I am always trying to find fault yet it is all in my mind! I need to look in the mirror and tell myself I can do this and I do believe ❤🙏
That you want to share your time to help others shows your compassion, intelligence, drive and passion. I am grateful that that was your choice. In education I always say if I can make a difference for one child I have done something special. It also helps heal me. "The look in the mirror" comment resonates.
The pain is always there and will always be there, physical pain and mental pain, I know that now, are you able to make my life 100 percent comfortable? no it's not possible. When I was young, 10 or 12 years old, I went to my mother that I wanted to play computer games and I can only do it now at this time, I don't know why. No one cares about my mental health, this is the problem of today's modern society. If anyone cares, it's leeches or narcissistic abuse. God bless you.
I appreciate and respect what you had to say. However, I must add that where you said don't listen to the voice that says it's okay to wait til tomorrow or do it tomorrow... sometimes, it's a good thing to take a break. If you've been, say, writing a book, and you've been getting up early and staying up late and go go go all the hours in between, you do fabulously on chapter 11, you're in the flow, it's beautiful! Then, on chapter 12, ya got nothin', and you sit there writing complete nonsense all day long and it makes you hate your life, sometimes you NEED to take a break, go write in your journal, go numb, go watch tv, turn your brain off. Because life is not 100% hustle. If you aren't willing to take the time to sip and savor your coffee, or laugh with your children, or walk the track with your mother, or watch something on tv that makes you smile to alleviate some of the pressure in your life, you will run out of steam and joy and happiness. I say yes, work hard, get after it, reach your potential, attain your goals and desires. But enjoy the journey along the way and when your brain is out of juice, don't beat yourself up and down because you need to take a break. Rest is something that should be scheduled into your daily planner. Never forget and always get rest to refuel. And then get right back after it!! Because it is true, if you don't bust your ass for what you want, you'll never get it. I fight my demon and angel both on the daily. In the end, I do what feels right in my body at any given moment. Most of the time, it's work work work, 5am to 10pm. It's hard to cut myself a break but I do recognize the importance.
why let people dream? we all have a dream, doesnt mean we want to make it reality all the time. sometimes i just wanna dream on,dream to dream, because reality aint doin it for me.
It's so easy nowadays to lose focus, we live in a world full of distractions. I do have those 2 voices in my mind too. The first voice says: "Don't be so hard with yourself, relax, you don't need to do all of this stuff." The second voice: "Stay hard"
I know what I like but is it what I want or desire. Kinda like a child or marriage. I know I want and desire it but will I get that. I had one thing in my 20s and one in my 30s but both failed and now I’m in a new relationship but still trying to find what will make me happy or what career path I want to take.
Life’s hard since my 16 ‘ I’m 28 and I’m still grinding but I know that I’m already be THAT person it’s written I never gaved up it’s mathematical at this point and logic
Like you said, in self development it’s you vs you. Most people don’t want to become divided against themselves in this way because it’s outside of the comfort zone. The #1 addiction - which is never even discussed in the mainstream - is the addiction to the comfort zone.
I feel it's more like a paralysed trap, the comfort zone
@@KMAK88 None of your video work in getting a women full of packed fraud you tuber all a big waste of time. No monitors bs loads of videos.
That's exactly why I've been waking up early sacrificing putting in the work in other words working on myself
watched this on 1.75 speed and on a morning walk 🧍♀️ we're up LOL
Kkkkk just woke up here and watching 0.75x. ❤😂❤
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Very powerful message i will listen again as I drift off to sleep and again when I wake up..thank you for sharing.
Pain is always going to exist in your life. You can choose the pain of the present to better your future, or the pain in the future for choosing comfort in the present.
💭 "How would I live my life knowing that pain and discomfort is inevitable?"
@alex-ander-13 Because they're different kinds. Some feel good in the moment but bad afterwards (junk food, binge watching TV, etc). Others create resistance in the present but create a feeling of joy and fulfilment longterm (physical activity, learning, building a business, etc).
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Great video Bianca. Looking forward to the July self-improvement challenge.
You're 100 % right for anyone of us that is in this place that you are describing. Yeah I am right there in this description and I am looking at what the Lord asked me to do and a carreeer that I might truly love I'm not sure but, the Lord told me a few years back to go to the Mountains and train to help many. Sounds crazy...trust me I know. When I was taking care of my dying mother for years until she passed at a very weak moment I cried out to the Lord exclaiming that I was too weak to continue as I was headed home to meet the ambulance bringing her home and as I cried out I literally felt the Lord swoop down and picked me up and carried me for a while. I literally felt him lift my weight is kinda what it felt like. Later he asked me to lay my burdens down at his feet and so I did for the first time in my life and I instantly experienced the most amazing sensation of peace that I have ever experienced. I still have Holy Spirit. I commented because I left home at 12-13 and moved in with an older brother and sister and by 17 I had my own place through my employer. So, I was thinking at 12 geez I was abused. So, I often wondered after I broke the cycle of abuse and studied 36 credits of psych and I took all of my kids to therapy and I went aswell for a while. So, I dunno. I think God wants me to help others in some way. Nothing is more important than what you are talking about. You're right. I have choices to make.
That is so me... my health is fine and I am always trying to find fault yet it is all in my mind! I need to look in the mirror and tell myself I can do this and I do believe ❤🙏
This is exactly what I wanted to hear thank you thank you ❤
This is your best chat yet, thankyou.
That you want to share your time to help others shows your compassion, intelligence, drive and passion. I am grateful that that was your choice. In education I always say if I can make a difference for one child I have done something special. It also helps heal me.
"The look in the mirror" comment resonates.
So true !!! It’s so REWARDING
The pain is always there and will always be there, physical pain and mental pain, I know that now, are you able to make my life 100 percent comfortable? no it's not possible. When I was young, 10 or 12 years old, I went to my mother that I wanted to play computer games and I can only do it now at this time, I don't know why. No one cares about my mental health, this is the problem of today's modern society. If anyone cares, it's leeches or narcissistic abuse. God bless you.
Thank you God this podcaster is under to earth success is our ally.
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So inspiring video ❤❤
Keep your feet on the ground and reach for the stars.😂
Amazing amazing video Bianca, and right on time for us creators!! June’s momentum is steady and soaring!! 💜🙏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼💖🥰
I appreciate and respect what you had to say. However, I must add that where you said don't listen to the voice that says it's okay to wait til tomorrow or do it tomorrow... sometimes, it's a good thing to take a break. If you've been, say, writing a book, and you've been getting up early and staying up late and go go go all the hours in between, you do fabulously on chapter 11, you're in the flow, it's beautiful! Then, on chapter 12, ya got nothin', and you sit there writing complete nonsense all day long and it makes you hate your life, sometimes you NEED to take a break, go write in your journal, go numb, go watch tv, turn your brain off. Because life is not 100% hustle. If you aren't willing to take the time to sip and savor your coffee, or laugh with your children, or walk the track with your mother, or watch something on tv that makes you smile to alleviate some of the pressure in your life, you will run out of steam and joy and happiness. I say yes, work hard, get after it, reach your potential, attain your goals and desires. But enjoy the journey along the way and when your brain is out of juice, don't beat yourself up and down because you need to take a break. Rest is something that should be scheduled into your daily planner. Never forget and always get rest to refuel. And then get right back after it!! Because it is true, if you don't bust your ass for what you want, you'll never get it. I fight my demon and angel both on the daily. In the end, I do what feels right in my body at any given moment. Most of the time, it's work work work, 5am to 10pm. It's hard to cut myself a break but I do recognize the importance.
Yes this was good reality check
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why let people dream? we all have a dream, doesnt mean we want to make it reality all the time. sometimes i just wanna dream on,dream to dream, because reality aint doin it for me.
I needed this
Wow! This was well needed. ❤
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Needed to hear this right now. Seems so😢
ITS SO SUFFERING ITS HARD
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Like, subscribe, and share. Thank you for changing my mindset. That is all I have to say. Please keep making these wonderful videos. 💖
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It's so easy nowadays to lose focus, we live in a world full of distractions. I do have those 2 voices in my mind too.
The first voice says: "Don't be so hard with yourself, relax, you don't need to do all of this stuff."
The second voice: "Stay hard"
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Do you think something about believing everyone in the audience is rooting for you affects how you play as a team?
I know what I like but is it what I want or desire. Kinda like a child or marriage. I know I want and desire it but will I get that. I had one thing in my 20s and one in my 30s but both failed and now I’m in a new relationship but still trying to find what will make me happy or what career path I want to take.
When do you have to have a hard life in order to have potential tho? Who made up that rule?
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Life’s hard since my 16 ‘ I’m 28 and I’m still grinding but I know that I’m already be THAT person it’s written I never gaved up it’s mathematical at this point and logic