Can A Relationship Survive Without Labels? | In Love or Not

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  • @CyrisDarkness
    @CyrisDarkness 6 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    I might believe that they are not togther, but I won't believe that they don't love each other. Actually they said that they are not togehter not that they are not in love. She looks at him so lovingly. From my perspective the spark isn't gone.

    • @TalTheBest
      @TalTheBest 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      CyrisDarkness love can exist without the attraction and or "in-love-ness"

    • @CyrisDarkness
      @CyrisDarkness 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TalTheBest still have my doubts. I think that's the look of a person in love.

    • @kristinabaker4433
      @kristinabaker4433 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People can love other people without it being romantic or physical

    • @CyrisDarkness
      @CyrisDarkness 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kristina Baker you might be right. But on the other hand if that's the case it might be hard for them to find a partner that won't have a problem with their relationship

    • @PrayingMoth
      @PrayingMoth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It would be one-sided which is why it's sad.

  • @mrsgiggles85
    @mrsgiggles85 6 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Not putting labels upfront leads to a lot of confusion for both parties especially when party wants one thing vice versa. I voted no before watching the video. Ppl are often against labels but they work.

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Interesting thought!

    • @aqualms
      @aqualms 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      good! the thing with labels - if you want to spend your life with someone... eventually they have to put a label on it, right? Theoretically it's not required, but, it should happen for simplicity's sake. Open relationships happen, etc etc etc, but people need to be on the same page. A relationship that is not in agreement is chaotic. I have many best friends, good friends, close friends, etc. Labels are fine and just stand as a reference to someone. I understand someone not wanting labels, and that's totally their prerogative- but it won't last forever. Perhaps some will put a label, but perhaps some won't. And simply, if a label doesn't come- if someone isn't proud/ecstatic to be with you and of you, - they ain't worth your time. And I say this as someone who has been in your shoes. Make the right decision, know your worth, it's quite high

    • @thihal123
      @thihal123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Labels do help with clarity although not fully needed until the need for definition is needed

    • @robynedward125
      @robynedward125 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The guy I'm involved with anyways he said straight out what I was to him I didn't believe it at all but he doesn't do labels lol but I'm something to him and I've known it for awhile lol ,but it can get confusing we fought about things I'm going to say quite a bit ,but we have a lot love I do want him in my life and we could try to be friends, but it will be strained cuz of over 2 half yrs between us longer kinda.

  • @fayzio5282
    @fayzio5282 6 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I knew they weren't in love because they didn't talk about their relationship like it was something special for them. It just sounded like a good relationship that ended because they both realized that they are not the one for each other. I could see that they are still in good terms, but the spark was just not there.

  • @MuusiicRafael
    @MuusiicRafael 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    She was mature enough to end it.
    I think it was smart because both of them need some growing.

  • @xojualxo
    @xojualxo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I knew from the beginning, they weren’t together but they still loved each other. I don’t know what it was, but it was something about their vibe that gave it off.

    • @FixFireFlank
      @FixFireFlank 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The way she put that cushion in between each other, like a physical barrier

    • @sakura4994
      @sakura4994 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea, that was the dead give away.

  • @Rajendra12387
    @Rajendra12387 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Its totally apparent in the guy's body language. He is struggling to look her in the eye, staring down the whole time looking not so happy.
    But the lady was so good at disguising her bad feelings. But her body language too had many give away. Look at the way she is leaning away from him from the beginning 0:47

    • @Laura-CX24
      @Laura-CX24 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      that's what I was thinking, her body language to me said they weren't together, seemed like she wanted to sit further away from him. Also when she said "I remember the bad times.. I also remember the good times" just seemed like she spoke of their relationship in past tense.

  • @carolinerivera3558
    @carolinerivera3558 6 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    I knew they weren’t together since the beginning when she put a pillow in the middle of them.

    • @abhinavrishi8031
      @abhinavrishi8031 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Smart! :) i didn't even notice that lol. Was just looking at their faces.

    • @Rajendra12387
      @Rajendra12387 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Caroline Rivera nice read my observation also

    • @firefly1711
      @firefly1711 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Caroline Rivera I thought the same

    • @cool4ever329
      @cool4ever329 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      EXACTLY!!!!!

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Good thinking!

  • @venturaline
    @venturaline 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's interesting, because they say they are not together, but they do not say that they are not in love. Sometimes, love is just not enough, and we have to be wise and recognize that. I'm glad that they end the relationship in a point where they are not deeply hurt and were able to continue this friendship.

  • @kpopjunkiex3
    @kpopjunkiex3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The fact that they kept talking about their relationship in the past tense was a dead giveaway.

    • @Soundsliketara
      @Soundsliketara 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nameless yeah this one wasn’t as good as the other ones

  • @indonesianlady5695
    @indonesianlady5695 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    the way he looks at her... is not the way a guy in a relationship. he kinda feels afraid and regretful at the same time

  • @rowenah6588
    @rowenah6588 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The " I remember the good ans bad times" was how I knew

    • @keem9554
      @keem9554 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      That line nail it

    • @Laura-CX24
      @Laura-CX24 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yep same, seemed like she was speaking of their relationship in past tense. Also her body language - seemed she wanted to sit further away from him

  • @just_brittny
    @just_brittny 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’ve always assumed people that said they didn’t like labels used it as a cop out to be noncommittal. Once you put a definitive on your relationship you are now committed to that definition, if you don’t label your relationship there is no definitive and it’s easier to walk away.

    • @elat9635
      @elat9635 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have abandonment issues, so I don't like labels or commitment

    • @sselemaNrM
      @sselemaNrM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@elat9635 I do too. But I realize that people come and go in your life, and you have to take chances and and not be afraid of what could happen. Just be the best version of yourself and not take things for granted, and let go of toxic people

  • @damonkain9894
    @damonkain9894 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The whole labels irrelevant thing makes me think this guy is scared of commitment. She seems like she’s ready to settle down and he still wants to explore and grow and discover who he is.

  • @chrisgonzalez1732
    @chrisgonzalez1732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Just because they are not together doesn’t mean they ain’t in love with each other

  • @puza737
    @puza737 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Towards the end, I feel like I can see some regret in him. She said that she felt being taken for granted and after saying they weren't in love he looks very awkward as if he wished things weren't like that. Also he wanted to say at the same time but then he hesitated

  • @Amourd08
    @Amourd08 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her body language and the pillow was the giveaway. But you can tell they were friends before starting a relationship by the flow of their conversation.

  • @donal5029
    @donal5029 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I thought they are in love cause they where so comfortable talking to each others

    • @Randomcollectionofletters
      @Randomcollectionofletters 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      don al that would show you they are not in love. The dude was way too happy to be in a relationship

  • @amy556
    @amy556 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    AH BUT THEY'RE CUTE

  • @nikaswords17
    @nikaswords17 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Disneyland card was such blackmail 😂

  • @kathleen4301
    @kathleen4301 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    They're not cute. They sound toxic when they're in a relationship. And Mark doesn't even seem realize any of that. "Labels are irrelevant"???? Not when talking about long-term, no.

    • @TalTheBest
      @TalTheBest 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Kathleen i wouldn't go as far as to say toxic.

  • @mnfrda2454
    @mnfrda2454 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I kinda related lol 😁
    Labels won't ever be irrelevant if two people really love each other too. If you don't mind having labels, you're not scared to defy the "fear" of staying with just one person in a committed mature relationship. You won't be scared to step up and share a life with someone special enough to have you exclusively. :)

  • @nidhishah4630
    @nidhishah4630 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The pillow between them say all in first few seconds

  • @maaaybel
    @maaaybel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these videos!!!

  • @emilyeshraghi8197
    @emilyeshraghi8197 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My first time seeing a video in this series. This is a cute take on exploring this topic! :)

  • @a.h.3410
    @a.h.3410 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Never been here so fast!

  • @robynedward125
    @robynedward125 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in something for awhile there's no labels were together there's a lot love ,but clashed on things long story were still together I'm tired of dating.We have a deep connection and tried to break it off needless to say we're still together and smoothed it over. Too bad it didn't work out for them Here's my advice u don't have to label it and just live in the moment if they make u happy go with it and there's love don't question it. Sometimes u jump in and it snow balls no harm in taking your time or whatever it is between eachother watching movies and hanging out and other stuff one day at a time enjoy eachothers company.

  • @sirsly8674
    @sirsly8674 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    she is so well spoken

  • @kuepandan
    @kuepandan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just from his look, I can tell that they’re not together. The separation does better on the girl, she looks very put together, he looks kind of lost.

  • @mimisvida6264
    @mimisvida6264 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My guy is in the Army and he has a hard time expressing himself about me. He told me that he learned to not show emotions. Its hard but i like him.

  • @Jason-fz1zd
    @Jason-fz1zd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I wish my life being 15 I never had a girlfriend but I do like a few girls but very shy

    • @Jason-fz1zd
      @Jason-fz1zd 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      un Thank you for the comment I am still trying too overcome my shyness

    • @istentel
      @istentel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      search on youtube Infine Waters(Diving Deep) and look through he's vids, he helped me and might help you

    • @Jason-fz1zd
      @Jason-fz1zd 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cristian Alexandru Thank you and definitely will into this

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      @Mindyourbus 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @Jason-fz1zd
      @Jason-fz1zd 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mindfreedom1 I don't plan on that at all just don't like being alone

  • @QuynhMaitravel-lover
    @QuynhMaitravel-lover 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do more videos like this. Love it

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      @Participant  6 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @edsheeran1852
    @edsheeran1852 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aww not in love but they look good together

    • @edsheeran1852
      @edsheeran1852 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mr. Qwertyuiop 😂😂😂😂

  • @8952ification
    @8952ification 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    A little tear comes down in my cheek

  • @gantzartig
    @gantzartig 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They sat down and I knew they aren't together anymore

  • @LT808HI
    @LT808HI 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Idk for some reason I get a feeling that there is still a connection there. Maybe it’s just the friendship idk. I felt more connection from this pair than some of the other videos. I think the missing piece is when she talks about him taking her for granted. They don’t talk about how much they had disconnected.
    I am happy though that they found their friendship again. It’s a rare and difficult thing to do. It doesn’t seem like a situation where there was a bad break up. I wish I could have that friendship with my ex again. We broke up due to distance but were friends for a long time before. I miss her as a friend in my life.

  • @PrayingMoth
    @PrayingMoth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Technically...no. If there aren't labels then you can't call it a relationship, hence it not working because it never existed.

  • @jenniferh.7219
    @jenniferh.7219 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    She has the same face smirk / look + aura as Diana Chamomile

  • @caezsty
    @caezsty 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i could tell, the way she put the pillow between them at the beginning

  • @tashasterling9654
    @tashasterling9654 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pancake is just sooo😍😍

  • @the_hedgie_reads
    @the_hedgie_reads 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    According to the way this seems to be going, I'm going to exact opposite of the editing and say they are not together...
    Edit: Mmmmhmmmm, 'twas correct.

    • @speedcubingman
      @speedcubingman 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sarah S it seems like if they talk about bad times they end up together and vice versa. Kinda ruins the game.

  • @amberfirexx9
    @amberfirexx9 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i could tell they were gonna be not in love but also that it was gonna hurt they seemed so cute together lol

  • @robynedward125
    @robynedward125 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think break ups are difficult and being friends after is difficult very

  • @sofiarosenbaum7819
    @sofiarosenbaum7819 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    HELL YEE I FINALLY GOT ONE RIGHT!!!!!!!!

  • @sophiaha818
    @sophiaha818 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Now *that* was unexpected!

  • @SmellyT33
    @SmellyT33 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Gosh I’m not even through the video but I hope they’re not in love. She deserves a lot better and if she wants something labeled, she deserves it.

  • @anna-michellecourshon505
    @anna-michellecourshon505 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I knew that they weren't together from the start because she literally put a pillow in between them when they sat down

  • @skylarsa
    @skylarsa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I guessed it right!

  • @livelaughlove12
    @livelaughlove12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    obvious in the first 20 seconds when she put the pillow between them when she sat down.

  • @hamisa_mahimbo
    @hamisa_mahimbo 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not together, I thought they are boring.. no energy.. no chemistry... different people, I feel they have fires inside them and they don't inspire each other to release that energy from within..

  • @miceymolander
    @miceymolander 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    pillow in between at the first shots was a giveaway

  • @tameryasin5616
    @tameryasin5616 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:20

  • @hughfrazer1734
    @hughfrazer1734 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Their faces are distracting me because they're soooo shiny

  • @stephenyap6748
    @stephenyap6748 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right now I'm inlove with a girl in my class. When i confessed to her she also confessed that she has a crush on me. So we kept texting and hanging out until we fell inlove with each other. But when i asked her to be my girlfriend she said "I will, but not now" and ibwas like "Oh, well ok if you're not ready yet then I understand". We continued our "Non labled" relationship but in my mind she loves me and i love her so much so i think there would be a chance bcuz she's gonna go home to her mom in Davao(A place in philippines) which is very far fron me. She said after 6 years of study she'll be mine. But i wan't to spend our remaining time as a couple and when i asked her this morning she said "I'm sorry, i love you so much, but i can't be your girlfriend right now. I can't give you what you want right now". I kinda feel bad,sad and hopeless cuz if she realy love me? Why can't she be mine even if she'll leave in the next couple of months? She also said to me that her ex still has a place in her heart but when i asked her if she wan't to comeback to her ex she said "No i wanna be with you but, i'm yours but i'm sorry we can't have a label rightnow". Please, what should i do? Should i keep hoping that she'll be mine?💔 It hurts bcuz she's saying that I'm different from her past boyfriends but won't officialy label our relationship. I love her so much but should i keep on going even if there is no chance that she'll be my first girlfriend?💔

  • @miamaxfield
    @miamaxfield 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew from the start when she put the pillow between them

  • @yral247
    @yral247 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    What board game did they play? Anyone know?

  • @grancrackers4284
    @grancrackers4284 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The legend has finally fallen, I thought this one was gonna be a trick.

  • @TheBrokenfences
    @TheBrokenfences 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    she looked so sad. It was clear that it was over and not a long time ago

    • @LT808HI
      @LT808HI 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      TheBrokenfences yeah it is sad. I think there is still something between them if a chance would be given

  • @GK-ui8fv
    @GK-ui8fv 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    If he had a controlling military man as a father then why would he want a replica of controlling person in married life. Some can live with controlling person by fighting every other moment and some want to walk from continuing to fight. It is better it ended right before they were locked in.

  • @carolihinemurrahay220
    @carolihinemurrahay220 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    what is the outro song???

  • @kristinabaker4433
    @kristinabaker4433 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    She was needy & he was/is emotionally available

  • @williammontgomery7915
    @williammontgomery7915 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    They still love each other

    • @LT808HI
      @LT808HI 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      William Montgomery i feel like if she gave him a second chance they could work it out. I feel they are good together

  • @AJITHPJ18
    @AJITHPJ18 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dafuk ....... If it isn't transparent it's not true love

  • @mehnazyeasmin702
    @mehnazyeasmin702 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i decided or understand down the show way of the show that they r nt together. ppl who live together they dont smile at each other while sitting...tada

  • @Artsingitup
    @Artsingitup 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both of your parents were divorced you say? Interesting. How else would that work?

  • @cahidijoyoraharjo7833
    @cahidijoyoraharjo7833 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So... it can't survive without labels?

  • @LT808HI
    @LT808HI 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is it me or are all the couples that are not in love seem to be on good friendly terms

  • @hollyken3
    @hollyken3 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this series but I ALWAYS get it wrong xD

  • @mdb2879
    @mdb2879 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    she is giving me Gina Rodriguez 's vibes

  • @Erika-gn4ep
    @Erika-gn4ep 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    He looks like Lorne Malvo from Fargo series

  • @samrivera2574
    @samrivera2574 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This history makes me so sad :(

  • @Mika10603
    @Mika10603 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boy am I bad at this game

  • @mykkimouse2262
    @mykkimouse2262 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    could tell they weren't together the minute she put the pillow in between them

  • @ladyred8948
    @ladyred8948 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awe my first time getting it wrong oh well

  • @littlerush99
    @littlerush99 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew this from the start! Whenever a woman is looking for Knight in Shinning Armor Crap! She has unreal Expectations and how in the Hell ! Does one know how you feel if you don't Communicate or Say how you feel ! Women irritate me with that Crap! Yes, I use to Date a girl like her! Run the Hell Away!

  • @kingpin6736
    @kingpin6736 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who remembers Kid President?

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      We do! Thanks for watching!

  • @jhazellednaco1569
    @jhazellednaco1569 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The girl look a lot like AMBER! :)

  • @hanoj10
    @hanoj10 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The comment section should be labeled: Hindsight Bias

  • @flipyao
    @flipyao 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    guy looked like Tom Cruise for the first seconds

  • @creativechaos9007
    @creativechaos9007 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am i the only one who see the girl look like donghea from super junior ?!

  • @mricecream5194
    @mricecream5194 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not

  • @Rhythm825
    @Rhythm825 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    lol @ anyone who gets into a serious relationship with a person who dyes their hair crazy colors.

  • @christine1439
    @christine1439 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    A stupid vote can't tell you whether you're in love

  • @darkinside2203
    @darkinside2203 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is so uncomfortable

  • @vinnyval9914
    @vinnyval9914 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    If F(x) Amber had long hair this girl would be her

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, they kind of resemble each other!

  • @austinreheiser414
    @austinreheiser414 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    He said “dated” as in past tense. Dead giveaway

  • @saraalzaki4040
    @saraalzaki4040 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I KNEW !!!!!! ): it makes me sad ....

  • @elizabethmenegon8057
    @elizabethmenegon8057 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another woman that use the princess nonsense and I'll transition.. 🤦

  • @renlife2337
    @renlife2337 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is sad

  • @sabahalkhair3153
    @sabahalkhair3153 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    She look like amber liu fx kpop

  • @lovelyindia71
    @lovelyindia71 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love or divorce, get married enjoy your life... Important= when you love, you wont divorce, because of lust of flesh, ther is misunderstand. So thr is divorce, many of them. Think about your children future, then think about divorce, you wont do it.

    • @lisalala4830
      @lisalala4830 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hell no. It would have been better for everyone involved, especially for me and my sister, if our parents had divorced years ago. People need to let go of their perfect-little-family-fantasy and look at what the best realistic option for everyone is

  • @retro9173
    @retro9173 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    ugh .. oy' vey ..

  • @lovelyindia71
    @lovelyindia71 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Now a days sex has become common, due to lot confusions and understanding leads into love and divorce. God is against sex before marriage, but sex is gift from god, after marriage for to put a seed for new bodies, but because satan every has been destroyed. Thats why jesus came into the to save sinners, believe in jesus, he cares for you and your future. This world temporory, not permanent. Thr is a place after death it is heaven, the is no tear only joy and happiness always.... Jesus is coming soon.

    • @Mokoshhy
      @Mokoshhy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shiva Shakthi you know a lot of people don't believe in God? Sex is just sex no need to put to this imaginary dude

    • @lovelyindia71
      @lovelyindia71 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mokoshh thats the problem dude....many of them they wont believe in god.... My god jesus, show your power to them, almighty god, you are exalted high above the heaven. Jesus, you created us, but we have forgotten you, by living through sin and curse, but you loved us, you gave your life for us, were we need die on the cross, but you died for us. Jesus, you are great god, almighty. How can i express your love to them..... Jesus save us, coz your coming is nearer. ......
      ....amen

    • @AlyTarmin
      @AlyTarmin 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shiva Shakthi jesus didn’t create you, i’m atheist and even i know that.

  • @dickson0007
    @dickson0007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    On the onset she talks about a princess in a Disney movie....not good.