Drag Queens Are A Mockery?! Trixie Mattel Reacts to Girl Defined

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  • @druidonshrooms
    @druidonshrooms ปีที่แล้ว +15560

    I definitely agree not all drag shows are appropriate for children, however it's the parents responsibility to not take their children to those shows. You're not gonna take your child to a strip club then blame the strippers.

    • @ireliyuhh
      @ireliyuhh ปีที่แล้ว +1324

      Exactly, especially as a drag queen who performs only at family friendly events, I definitely keep it completely kid appropriate. I mean my last number was literally me dressed in all white and glitter performing let it go lmao, I don't see how people think that's grooming when singers and Disney performers do just that all the time

    • @myasmith1820
      @myasmith1820 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      💯

    • @stephaniemitchell8509
      @stephaniemitchell8509 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      @@ireliyuhh I think most parents expect family friendly drag shows to be just like you described, more classy and composed. The issue is with the Queens themselves that don't understand or care what makes a performance "family friendly." They're doing a great disservice to Drag Queens in general, who in my experience have been some of the warmest & funniest people to be around.

    • @ireliyuhh
      @ireliyuhh ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @Stephanie Mitchell yeah I think when it comes to those kinds of things its mostly a production issue because it's the job of whoever is producing the show to make sure the queen knows or has an idea of what Child friendly is supposed to be for them. Like I have to run songs and numbers by my producers first before they approve them lol

    • @maxsync183
      @maxsync183 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      @@PatricenotPatrick uh, these disgusting shows are still drag shows. Drag is about such a wide variety of things that saying that drag is for kids is wrong and saying that it's not for kids is wrong. Some films are for kids, some aren't. Some books are for kids, some aren't. Some drag is for kids, some isn't.

  • @michelelynn5698
    @michelelynn5698 ปีที่แล้ว +19401

    As a former Christian who is a therapist. I can tell everyone I have NEVER had clients traumatized by Dragqueens. I DO have a LOT of clients that have endured horrific trauma in churches and religious families!

    • @frankelliott244
      @frankelliott244 ปีที่แล้ว +766

      My niece who is a clinical psychologist who specializes in trauma gets most of her patients from Catholic high schools. Please, tell you patients that they should never accept shame from the shameless.

    • @Moth_IRL
      @Moth_IRL ปีที่แล้ว +393

      @@frankelliott244 'Never accept shame from the shameless' You dropped this but I think I need it? Do you mind if I keep it?

    • @olympae5327
      @olympae5327 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Ya, but did they meet katia in person? lol I jest!

    • @justinaacuriouswanderer1496
      @justinaacuriouswanderer1496 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      yup. exactly. same. and what they're doing is like saying that all movies are inappropriate for children. No. don't damn the whole movie industry. Some are appropriate, some clearly aren't. There's such a thing as * genre * .
      Not all clowns are appropriate for children (like horror ones).
      Not all circuses are appropriate for children.
      Not all movies are appropriate for children.
      Not all concerts are appropriate for children.
      Not all spectator sports are appropriate for children (especially ones with swearing and violence).
      Not all religious services are appropriate for children.
      Not all drag shows are appropriate for children.

    • @sarahcrown2001
      @sarahcrown2001 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      As someone with extensive religious trauma, I actually found a lot of comfort in drag queens, and the art of drag in general. The idea that someone was out there who could make a complete farce all while looking stunning, and lip-synching to some of my favourite songs. It was so comforting and got me through tough times, where, conveniently enough my religious trauma over took my life.

  • @Dana-hc3lg
    @Dana-hc3lg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18152

    "Why are they dressing like overly sexualized females??"
    The last drag show I went to: *had a drag queen dressed as Buzz Lightyear*

    • @fruitloopsallaround3639
      @fruitloopsallaround3639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +336

      LMAO

    • @meganold443
      @meganold443 ปีที่แล้ว +571

      Last drag show I went to they were all dressed like monsters, ghouls, and zombies lmao

    • @smaugkat
      @smaugkat ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Sexy buzz light year?

    • @quinnaddison420
      @quinnaddison420 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      Didn’t Vivacious talk about a show where she dressed up as a radiator on season 5?

    • @Dana-hc3lg
      @Dana-hc3lg ปีที่แล้ว +211

      @@smaugkat I mean she ate but no it was like, the purple head covering and the giant chunky plastic wings 😭

  • @kayla92791
    @kayla92791 ปีที่แล้ว +3372

    The fact that these women’s brother was sexually abused as a child and their mother saw it happen and did nothing to stop the abuse let’s you know who the real predators are

    • @kmallory100
      @kmallory100 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

      What?!!!!!

    • @Jayxroberts
      @Jayxroberts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Oop 💀

    • @najadahmer4862
      @najadahmer4862 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      WTF?! Are you serious?

    • @cisvandyck146
      @cisvandyck146 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

      Ashley and Amber got CLOCKED

    • @Imtoobusyslayingrn111
      @Imtoobusyslayingrn111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      explain pls 💀

  • @nicola646
    @nicola646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7646

    Trixie is such a kind person for not mocking people like these, but instead, she feels sad for them.

    • @carlyaskren359
      @carlyaskren359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +249

      yeah, they're so disconnected and it's hard to watch because they could be having so much fun but instead they're just ashamed and doing/saying what they've been taught

    • @gizmo_joy2726
      @gizmo_joy2726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Its not even being kind, really, just enlightened and evolved.

    • @RecoveringChristian
      @RecoveringChristian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      INNOCUOUS NOT INNOCULOUS, tracy

    • @daielesign
      @daielesign 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      exactly i still can't find my peace with people like this after living all my life being told by people like them that i'm evil and wrong for being the way i am... i really hate that

    • @Ganbarizer
      @Ganbarizer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      She has much more restraint and poise than I do.

  • @CinfulArts
    @CinfulArts ปีที่แล้ว +4627

    If a child is at a non-child friendly drag show, that’s on the parents, not the queens/kings. As Lady Gaga once said “Who tf hears the words Lady Gaga and Las Vegas and thinks ‘I’m bringing my kids!’“ like seriously, if you bring your kids to an adult drag show, the queens/kings aren’t going to change the performance to be more child friendly

    • @hannarivers5872
      @hannarivers5872 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      they shouldn't change the performance but they shouldn't let the kids in

    • @ElizabethGeis
      @ElizabethGeis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +237

      @@hannarivers5872 that isn't their responsibility. they have so much going on with the show, kids coming is on the parents and no one else. and if kids do get in, it's out of their control

    • @hannarivers5872
      @hannarivers5872 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ElizabethGeis then they're weird

    • @overgrownkudzu
      @overgrownkudzu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +206

      @@hannarivers5872 it's not usually the performers who enforce door policies

    • @hannarivers5872
      @hannarivers5872 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@overgrownkudzu yeah not usually but they can and they should.. would u just let a kid into a strip club? no same thing if ur going to be talking about/doing s3xual things

  • @mhc701
    @mhc701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9453

    As a larger *chested* woman, I never knew I was just “overdeveloped” lol

    • @juliacreamer1752
      @juliacreamer1752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      Me either but ya learn something new every day now don’t ya

    • @lonelytoker_3409
      @lonelytoker_3409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +354

      We developed more bc they can't develop at all

    • @MinaIbarrar
      @MinaIbarrar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We’re not. Their brains are just “underdeveloped”

    • @daraleigh6375
      @daraleigh6375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, and girls like this are exactly why I hated my body for most of my life, because God's Design made my knockers "oversize.

    • @mallssunnyday
      @mallssunnyday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +277

      They’re just jealous because their brains are underdeveloped. You’re beautiful!

  • @DarkVeracity
    @DarkVeracity ปีที่แล้ว +841

    I love how Trixie immediately picked up how these girls hate each other 😂 it's so obvious that they do not like each other. Also I love the transparency Trixie and I absolutely agree with you. I just... It's so weird to me that Christians live in this delusional world where the idea of letting other people exist, do what they want live how they want seems like terrorism to them.

    • @pingu3984
      @pingu3984 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Nail on the head. It literally is like terrorism to them. I escaped the church 10 yearsa ago and I've never met a less loving group of people.

    • @bluesakura2092
      @bluesakura2092 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It’s sad that once you walk into a Church you instantly feel the need to “ prove “ yourself.

  • @elsadixon
    @elsadixon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39082

    Trixie, so many of my dear friends in the late 1980s in San Francisco were drag queens who did not survive the AIDS crisis, and I miss them so badly. The hilarious humor, raunchiness, and sense of the absurd that you and Katya bring to my life make me feel their presence again. Thank you so much for that.

    • @Billibab
      @Billibab 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1092

      Sending you ❤️

    • @daashazireael6613
      @daashazireael6613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +879

      Sending you love and I'm glad that you get to feel their presence again

    • @aghasearmyshawolblinkonce8039
      @aghasearmyshawolblinkonce8039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    • @ethans.6645
      @ethans.6645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      So wholesome I love this content

    • @itac.2280
      @itac.2280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +279

      I’m so sorry for you loss, that vive for life from friends you meet cannot be replaced. I’m sure you meant a lot to them

  • @hannahl610
    @hannahl610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6199

    “Broadway twinks lip syncing to mother knows best from tangled” is my ideal night out tbh

    • @larrystylinson9128
      @larrystylinson9128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +242

      The fact that the editors put a pic of Jinx up at that moment💀

    • @day6545
      @day6545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Honestly same..

    • @waa3718
      @waa3718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She read Jan.

    • @aidans9885
      @aidans9885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I was at that performance by Jinkx, it was honestly transient. The crowd loved it too

    • @bagelbenji
      @bagelbenji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Girl is this the Jinkx Monsoon BRAND!

  • @sarahm3414
    @sarahm3414 ปีที่แล้ว +10312

    The irony is those ladies probably have no issue with child beauty pageants

    • @sharroon7574
      @sharroon7574 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      I know a lot of conservative people and they find those pageants disturbing. It's a minority that accepts it.

    • @aloeleaf
      @aloeleaf ปีที่แล้ว +187

      @@sharroon7574 ok?

    • @skyco5395
      @skyco5395 ปีที่แล้ว +370

      ​@@sharroon7574 no they don't. if you watch those shows like toddlers and tiaras. the gigantic majority, if not All of the people there are conservatives.

    • @sharroon7574
      @sharroon7574 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@skyco5395 yes, however they are not representative of all conservatives.

    • @Amethyst_06
      @Amethyst_06 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@sharroon7574 ok??

  • @sarahbailly2195
    @sarahbailly2195 ปีที่แล้ว +1742

    "there is FREEDOM when we FOLLOW god's design" what an oxymoron

    • @andromedaspark2241
      @andromedaspark2241 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

      It's the freedom of not making choices because someone is always making the choices for them. It's not real freedom at all.

    • @topsi0130
      @topsi0130 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@andromedaspark2241 it's literally the opposite of freedom, honey

    • @amarapapalia6311
      @amarapapalia6311 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I RAN here to comment this and you already did it for me

    • @Notiravgsarah
      @Notiravgsarah 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      @@topsi0130that’s what they said lmao

    • @groves4523
      @groves4523 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@topsi0130
      Are you actually this dumb?

  • @roddersrodders
    @roddersrodders 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4417

    So true about "Do people go to therapy because they went to a Drag show? No". Meanwhile you've got millions of people scarred for life because of organized religion.

    • @nashatalniemandskind3430
      @nashatalniemandskind3430 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true. I had a horrible time as a kid in church as well. Protestants claim to be so much more progressive compared to catholics but it was a protestant church we had a pastor being physically violent against "misbehaving" children, (He was moved after the second incident he hit a child as a form of punishment.) and a Sexton preying on underage girls. Lovely people these are...

    • @pingu3984
      @pingu3984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      THIS!!!!
      Can speak having been in the Christian church for most of my life growing up....they are the least loving people you will ever meet.

    • @Turielen
      @Turielen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I kind of do go to therapy because of UNHhhh because thanks to it discovered that I wanted to live and needed professional guidance to go about that.

    • @AnxiousKoala
      @AnxiousKoala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      YES. YES. YES.

    • @jillsarah7356
      @jillsarah7356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Just say Christianity! Plenty of other religions let people live.

  • @peachii3124
    @peachii3124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3199

    i appreciated that, while trixie maintained a sense of respectfulness, she still called them out with no hesitation when they said something genuinely damaging. cruel people don't deserve to be baby-talked.

    • @joanalovesyou
      @joanalovesyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      !!!!!

    • @gfhit7520
      @gfhit7520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      yes, this! it could have been very easy for Trixie to just go for full mockery or scathing, but she actually answered to the main point with eloquence and taking them seriously.

    • @thepandoricaoffandomsbacku7349
      @thepandoricaoffandomsbacku7349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      They say the most hurtful stuff with that baby tone ughh

    • @junethefangirl
      @junethefangirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Say it louder for the people in the back with their fingers in their ears

    • @alim.9801
      @alim.9801 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes!!! They may be immature but they're full grown women.

  • @beezee1196
    @beezee1196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3568

    As someone who was raised to be just like these two, there's something really healing about having an outside party acknowledge how fucked up it is.

    • @Yupitsmeagain2
      @Yupitsmeagain2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Same

    • @kelsey.shutup_7173
      @kelsey.shutup_7173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Oh totally same here

    • @ctheo2020
      @ctheo2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      I give you all of the congratulations for making it out alive💐

    • @Ibuddy66
      @Ibuddy66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I agree 100%.

    • @Louise-wk5yf
      @Louise-wk5yf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Breath of fresh air

  • @francesscaena6822
    @francesscaena6822 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    It‘s the hypocrisy that gets me. They have a problem how drag is „pushed onto them“ (when it’s not) and them turn around pushing their religious beliefs on other people

    • @myaren0101
      @myaren0101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      I see almost every video unrelated to christianity have atleast 1-3 people comment Christian related things. I havent seen ANYONE comment under a random video "repent to Trixie Mattel"

    • @the.sole.survivor.
      @the.sole.survivor. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      jehovas witnesses. atleast twice a month. however not once have i encountered a queen show up at my door and tell me to do drag (totally would though)

  • @bipanic_420
    @bipanic_420 ปีที่แล้ว +2325

    the “it’s not gonna lick itself” is a tagline for a popular ice cream chain in tx…

    • @keelyhockley7958
      @keelyhockley7958 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The girls will take anything and everything out of context just to suit their narrative

    • @theredphoenix19
      @theredphoenix19 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      LMFAO that’s great

    • @belrussell-lynch502
      @belrussell-lynch502 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Screaming!

    • @ctylorhendrick4413
      @ctylorhendrick4413 ปีที่แล้ว +435

      Yea the drag show they are talking about was at a Cauldron Ice Cream. It wasn’t at a gay bar or nightclub it was at an ice cream shop.

    • @evangelion286
      @evangelion286 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      You'd think they would know that, but I don't think fundie christian girls are allowed to leave the house.

  • @racheldawn_7
    @racheldawn_7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1595

    the best part is when she says “we tell kids anyone can be anything” and then has to try to find a way to make that sound like a bad thing

    • @binkin7304
      @binkin7304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Literally like a Disney villain saying an objectively wrong thing in their speech so it can happen later. "Oh you really think friendship is going to save you" type beat.

    • @firasjemil213
      @firasjemil213 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its bad because it's not true. For example, if you're a boy you can never be a girl

    • @PrettyGuardian
      @PrettyGuardian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@binkin7304 This comment was so on point that I laughed out loud.

    • @klayd5930
      @klayd5930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      You can almost SEE in her eyes the look of panic like, "Well I really stepped in it now, gotta follow through with this..."

    • @binkin7304
      @binkin7304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@PrettyGuardian I just wonder do these people not hear themselves when they speak? Just spitting pure evil without blinking

  • @_cherry_soda_
    @_cherry_soda_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6069

    Trixie and Katya NEED to do a drag parody of these two

    • @lnfreeman
      @lnfreeman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +241

      Bathed in his blood

    • @AlasKenn1
      @AlasKenn1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When Ashley hits her head with the board it should just explode into a geyser of fake blood and confetti.

    • @scottydoggymama
      @scottydoggymama 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      @@lnfreeman I think this is plenty of time spent on them no need to acknowledge them further

    • @lalafunnys
      @lalafunnys 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@scottydoggymama Baethd in hes blüüd

    • @daemionluccas490
      @daemionluccas490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@scottydoggymama while I do love the idea of a novympia style parody of these ahem.....ladies, this is a valid point

  • @paige_jones
    @paige_jones ปีที่แล้ว +841

    If only people like this cared as much about child poverty, homelessness, and abuse, as they do about children going to a drag show...

    • @TheRaspyAspie
      @TheRaspyAspie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Those sisters energy is misdirected

    • @flickrebeat8936
      @flickrebeat8936 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or about the abuse of Children, the Immigrant Children in Those Damn camps, by the OFFICIALS

    • @CaptainPlasma1117
      @CaptainPlasma1117 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yup, bring up child marriage to these people and they don’t care

    • @user-mv5zt8qd9l
      @user-mv5zt8qd9l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@CaptainPlasma1117 If it's a fringe case from a group they don't align with, then it needs to be plastered on all front pages. When it's institutionalised repression from their camp, suddenly it's a diversion tactic and a mischaracterisation of their personal lives.

  • @christenawashburn8193
    @christenawashburn8193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1998

    The attitudes of Ashley and Ashley are why I kept my sexuality closeted for three decades. Drag queens make life bearable for us .

    • @ruth8911
      @ruth8911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Exactly! I live for drag. Sorry you had to go through that 😪

    • @plathfer
      @plathfer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I think you sumed it up perfectly. Those views are exactly why I stayed closeted and ashamed of who I was. Course the tide is turning big time and hopefully they will be the minority soon. Drag Queens gave me joy during my darkest times. Thankyou so much. What I have been through is probably nothing compared to what drag Queens have had to go through. From the bottom of my heart, thankyou queen's!

    • @neversaw
      @neversaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yep I grew up with very accepting parents but we went to church, well mum did and my brother and I went with her, and I learnt to feel ashamed of myself. Took me a long time to realise I was denying who I was because of internalised shame I learnt far too young.

    • @jacquelinebourque1849
      @jacquelinebourque1849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It is clear that these girls are also closeted or in relationships with men who are closeted. That’s the ONLY reason that I can give them an ounce of grace.

    • @Logick
      @Logick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💛

  • @evangelion286
    @evangelion286 ปีที่แล้ว +19705

    As a woman, I've never felt insulted by a drag queen OR trans women. I have, however, had Christian cis women repeatedly insult me and try to take my rights away.

    • @sewingintrifocals-alisonde7778
      @sewingintrifocals-alisonde7778 ปีที่แล้ว +461

      I just got some great eye-makeup tips from a video by Kim Chi, and I’m also a cis woman. Not offended.

    • @MyBlackSheep
      @MyBlackSheep ปีที่แล้ว +216

      Insulted? LOL actually the opposite!
      I have never ending respect and awe (hope this is how it’s spelled) for drag queens, because I know much work and how hard it is to look like a hot woman… as a woman, imagine they are able to do it as men!! 🫶🙌

    • @cryspbacon
      @cryspbacon ปีที่แล้ว +55

      as another cis women, i also agree.

    • @ellycall3851
      @ellycall3851 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      This 100% (as another cis woman)

    • @AnnekeOosterink
      @AnnekeOosterink ปีที่แล้ว +197

      I mean, the only ones who insulted me are girl defined. I'm a cis woman, and girl defined just told me that my body is unacceptable, bit butts and boobs are clearly bad in their eyes. And simply existing with those features is "oversexualising" apparently.

  • @sarahgreen1006
    @sarahgreen1006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35011

    Honestly, God's Design is kind of an amazing drag name

    • @ashleyredsheep
      @ashleyredsheep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1735

      or some kind of satirical, demonic-themed makeup line

    • @Gugunet26
      @Gugunet26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +400

      Welcome to the stage...

    • @chamipoi
      @chamipoi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      Welcome to the stage Gazee Zayn!

    • @candymareSweets
      @candymareSweets 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      @@lydiajohnson4888 who tf is u and why u replying to ever single comment!? Get help💀 it gives “I want attention”

    • @herb2627
      @herb2627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lydiajohnson4888 nigga what just join a debate class 😭 💀 not the gaslighting into wanting to argue, distraught discord emo behavior

  • @yarrowandlace1
    @yarrowandlace1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    I actually went to church where they had “drag Easter” because it was also transgender day of visibility. They had a really lovely drag queen who read a story to the kids, everyone came in drag, and our pastor talked about his journey of coming out as trans. My cousin got up during the sharing part and talked about how glad they were to feel safe, and I got to play around with masculine gender expression and found I had a lot of fun with it. I wish that church wasn’t two hours away from me because it’s one of the few places I still feel respected after leaving my really nice church when I moved.

  • @trinityl7367
    @trinityl7367 ปีที่แล้ว +2111

    When I was younger I got lost in Las Vegas and I have never felt safer than with a group of drag queens who helped me find my parents. The drag community is amazing and anyone who says otherwise is wrong and I also have more trauma from people in the church than any other community I have been around.

    • @sdk278
      @sdk278 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      That's a cute story. Tysm for sharing

    • @faithkeyes
      @faithkeyes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Aw that’s so sweet

    • @gazepskotzs4
      @gazepskotzs4 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Aww that is cool af and so nice of them to help you. Lol! Somehow i can imagine it happening as if it was a scene from a book or film.

    • @jameshopkins503
      @jameshopkins503 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Sounds like the plot to an Amazing movie that I would watch over and over.

    • @Avalee-rc8os
      @Avalee-rc8os 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      as someone who lived near vegas and was absolutely horrified of it, i would be so comforted if a group of drag queens helped me find my parents.... and i am a pastors kid

  • @moldy-grapes5272
    @moldy-grapes5272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3854

    "Do people go to therapy because they went to a drag show? No." MY FAVORITE LINE RELIGIOUS TRAUMA IS SO REAL PLENTY OF THERAPISTS SPECIALIZE IN IT

    • @skyco5395
      @skyco5395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      Trixie finally became so famous that bots are pretending to be her. that's a milestone for some

    • @mayhem0001
      @mayhem0001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well I've seen Trixie's show and needed therapy after LOL

    • @SIRENTAROT
      @SIRENTAROT 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✨💯✨

    • @vivtzka
      @vivtzka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they both cause trauma.

    • @kick_c422
      @kick_c422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@vivtzka there's no kid in therapy cuz they saw a drag show literally none and if you want to make that claim provide the evidence I'll wait .

  • @alexandrialeonora6542
    @alexandrialeonora6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6075

    I think they have no idea that doing drag and being trans are two different things…

    • @Bones1220
      @Bones1220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +227

      That is very real. My boss said as much in a meeting and we had a round-table discussion between financial reports.

    • @samanthaabreu782
      @samanthaabreu782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      They have no idea about Christ message as well.

    • @michelaforeman9739
      @michelaforeman9739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      theyre completely uneducated on drag, trans folks and christianity/the bible

    • @Joodles280
      @Joodles280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Most likely- I wasn’t a Christian and before I started watching drag race I was very confused about this

    • @Jack-la
      @Jack-la 2 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      And that both are perfectly okay, and do not affect them in any way whatsoever.

  • @JordanLiberty
    @JordanLiberty ปีที่แล้ว +320

    These girls saw Mrs Doubtfire as kids and I doubt that it ruined their lives.

  • @dragdive
    @dragdive 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4154

    When they say "look at this drag queen who became Christian" it's really easy to say, look at the thousands of drag queens who grew up religious and now they aren't 🤷‍♀️

    • @Moonaraw
      @Moonaraw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A single case is enough for them, UNLESS it's all the cases of priests being rapists 😇

    • @teaeyedoubleguhur
      @teaeyedoubleguhur 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      Or the queens that are gay affirming Christians. They know that the "clobber clauses " do not apply to them.

    • @firasjemil213
      @firasjemil213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes but the drag queen who turned Christian is much healthier and happier

    • @sassagrass7095
      @sassagrass7095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +223

      @@firasjemil213 Lmao, no ma'am

    • @pink-a-palouza7888
      @pink-a-palouza7888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@sassagrass7095 well there are a lot of famous drag Queen that are religious

  • @RandomLifeTips101
    @RandomLifeTips101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13125

    "Skimpy clothes" "lets get back to gods design" Honey, being naked was God's design 😂

    • @500TurtlesFilm
      @500TurtlesFilm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +457

      AMEN

    • @Voirreydirector
      @Voirreydirector 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1444

      When they get back to their original hair color I would at least not call them hypocrites.

    • @io.io.io.
      @io.io.io. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Lmao exactly

    • @AdamantErinyes
      @AdamantErinyes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +475

      Yeah, let's not forget that it was Adam and Eve who first decided that being naked was shameful.

    • @gothcsm
      @gothcsm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      @@Voirreydirector YOU ATE THEM UP OMG 💀

  • @HamCommy
    @HamCommy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2045

    Ashley and Ashley talking about delusion while being delusional, I can't😭😭😭

    • @ermjaewuuuuu
      @ermjaewuuuuu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I am DYING 🤣

    • @sortasofi254
      @sortasofi254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      ashleigh and ashlee

    • @epicY8
      @epicY8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Assley and Ashslay

    • @Ynot785
      @Ynot785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Pretty sure it's Ashleigh and Ashley 😂😂

    • @halatiny6537
      @halatiny6537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sortasofi254 💀

  • @houstonrose6004
    @houstonrose6004 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +242

    I’m a Christian and before I was saved I would use my fake ID to go to drag bars bc it was safer to go there and have fun than to go to normal bars. After I got saved I was still an ally. Going to drag shows and having friendships with queens make me feel so happy for many reasons but my favorite is that I genuinely feel celebrated in womanhood. I didn’t have a mom growing up queens taught me everything I know. I’m forever grateful they exist.

    • @renegarza9
      @renegarza9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      As an atheist, I’m genuinely happy for you. Keep doing you sis 💅

  • @peachypanda57
    @peachypanda57 ปีที่แล้ว +3089

    i went to my first drag show recently, and for what it’s worth it’s the safest i ever felt. literally almost cried because i just knew that the people in that room are people who wouldn’t judge me for who i am.

    • @kairayasmin1738
      @kairayasmin1738 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      I felt the same when I went to pride parade in our city. Thousands of people in the heat with little clothes on, yet I felt very safe and never uncomfortable. Can’t say the same for any nightclub with straight men

    • @user-ci4qq1om4o
      @user-ci4qq1om4o ปีที่แล้ว +1

      touch grass please lol

    • @zippermonster9596
      @zippermonster9596 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have serious mental health issues.
      Get off social media and drink more water.

    • @CANADIANBELLS
      @CANADIANBELLS ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Unless you disagree with them. Then watch out.

    • @rileypredmore2302
      @rileypredmore2302 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      How I felt when I went to a trixie concert. I felt so safe and so seen. It was beautiful.

  • @Bmilam18
    @Bmilam18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3408

    They keep on mentioning the big breasts because they hate the female body, they hate themselves. The internalized misogny is so intense, I can't image what their internal thoughts are like.

    • @GothBoyUK
      @GothBoyUK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To play Devil's Advocate here, the Church teaches that women's bodies are shameful and partially caused the downfall of Mankind. It's easy to see why they have a problem with the 'female' form. Such religious beliefs are just a form of PTSD, IMHO. 🖤

    • @janeeyre1990
      @janeeyre1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      But these women also seem a lot more judgemental than I was, so I think they take all that anxiety and project it onto others.
      Less "am I godly enough" and more "OMG, Becky, look at how ungodly she is"

    • @ロロノアゾロ-h4m
      @ロロノアゾロ-h4m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      The worst thing is that so many women pull down other women because of their insecurities, envy, and jealousy. 90% of the insults that I've received all my life about my body and clothes came from other women.

    • @neversaw
      @neversaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      And that's on religion sis

    • @Jennifer12342
      @Jennifer12342 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They were probably abused (or their mother's projected their body issues on them) and they do hate their bodies. Or, and this is even more ridiculous and seriously damaging, since they belong to a wacko church, they probably had to do one of those ceremonies where they had to pledge their virginity to their fathers.

  • @landonbrown6663
    @landonbrown6663 ปีที่แล้ว +4804

    Trixie: "Drag is valid, and no one is going to therapy because they were exposed to drag."
    *Katya enters the room*
    Trixie: "I take back everything I said..."

    • @robinferdinandsen7122
      @robinferdinandsen7122 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      🤣

    • @calebhopler6662
      @calebhopler6662 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For real, she really said hate that skank

    • @BlueRidgeBubble
      @BlueRidgeBubble ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Katya is just in therapy because they're Katya and that's why we love them

    • @beckybnyc322
      @beckybnyc322 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This was classic ❤

    • @yourdadjustcallsmekatya
      @yourdadjustcallsmekatya 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@BlueRidgeBubblei’m also in therapy because katya is katya

  • @noahegan3382
    @noahegan3382 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    My wife and I are Christian individuals and plan to have kids. We don’t attend church because it’s such a toxic environment. The percentage of girls who grew up in church being sexually assaulted by church staff or volunteers is heartbreaking. I really do believe drag would be safer for kids than church.

    • @nicolelewonkenobi
      @nicolelewonkenobi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And the amount of boys who have been molested by said people.

    • @cloudy7007
      @cloudy7007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      i really think it's a matter of which country you live in, in the Philippines it's not as big as an issue as mostly everyone is catholic and christians, I do love the churches I ever went to (not all because the speakers are bass boosted)

    • @Karishma_Unspecified
      @Karishma_Unspecified 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      i think the safety of a church depends a lot on what neighborhood you live in. I live in a very secular, progressive, "university city" - if my church tried to pull anything icky on us (including homophobia or transphobia), they will get called out on it IMMEDIATELY. The power imbalance required for abuse to go unpunished is a lot harder to establish in a world where you are surrounded by nuanced messaging emphasizing the importance of consent and accountability.
      I hope you and your wife find a non-toxic church to attend if that is still something you wish for yourself and your family - church has been my safe space, when having to heal from family abuse trauma, and I wish that everyone had supports like that in their lives.
      Anyway, have a nice day!

  • @annettebernier8346
    @annettebernier8346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2087

    I am 61 and straight and I ADORE YOU and Katya!!! I would never ever watch these miserable hate filled idiots , but I know that they exist. As a mom of a trans daughter, they terrify me!! But having you post this and watching your calm , even tempered and eloquent rebuttals of all of this slime is so WONDERFUL!!!! Thank you!!!!

    • @merrymermaid
      @merrymermaid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      queen annette

    • @startinatavern1541
      @startinatavern1541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      Please welcome to the stage, Anne Ally!

    • @heidibangbang
      @heidibangbang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Loves to all the cool moms ❤️

    • @TheBuddyboy6321
      @TheBuddyboy6321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      A true queen has spoken! Thank you for sharing!

    • @livig429
      @livig429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

  • @annarajala578
    @annarajala578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2286

    "I saw someone lip syncing with a puppet and now I'm not Christian anymore" had me CACKLING

    • @seofra8252
      @seofra8252 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The only reason they wouldn't be Christian anymore is because of all the BS that false Christians spew out making people not want to be like that.

    • @doomkoff9932
      @doomkoff9932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      That someone was james mansfield

    • @Wizard101IsMyPassion
      @Wizard101IsMyPassion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I want this on a tee shirt so bad.

    • @eg5062
      @eg5062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      11:41

    • @MedicFromTF2_REAL
      @MedicFromTF2_REAL 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg I happened to read this comment as it happened in the video lol

  • @claireclaireclaireclaire
    @claireclaireclaireclaire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3916

    it’s the way drag queens actually helped me embrace my femininity instead of hating it?? like i grew up in an environment where being feminine was “embarrassing” but after finding drag and watching trixie over the years, i’ve came to really love how feminine i am

    • @kaylinsmith6921
      @kaylinsmith6921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +265

      This is how I feel about trans women. No one made me want to embrace my femininity and made me feel powerful in it until I saw a few trans women truly shine in their truth. I didn't realize how much shame I actually had about being female before then.

    • @PrettyGuardian
      @PrettyGuardian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      I dont know if there is an "Overton window" for gender expression but I completely understand what you mean. By expressing femininity in a way that is joyous, fun, and over the top, it makes our more every day expression of it feel more joyful too.

    • @Ninkira
      @Ninkira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Big same

    • @JaseekaRawr
      @JaseekaRawr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@PrettyGuardian oh, gender is definitely on a spectrum! 😊💯!

    • @josiewhite8208
      @josiewhite8208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      that's so beautiful!!!

  • @justarandomsapphic
    @justarandomsapphic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +152

    Saying no drag is child friendly is like saying no theatre is child friendly. There is a world of difference between musicals like The Lion King and musicals like The Book of Mormon.

  • @wickedphant0m
    @wickedphant0m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37334

    They will say the most AGGRESSIVELY hateful and disrespectful things about queer people, but if you come back at them with even 10% of the same energy, they'll immediately start crying and say that we all just need to get along and respect each other's beliefs.

    • @gabriellecress3867
      @gabriellecress3867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They love to lean into that "Christian Persecution" that is really just people telling them that the world does not and should not revolve around them.

    • @autumnlynn7517
      @autumnlynn7517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      One of the million of reasons I absolutely hate Christian’s

    • @toebiter69
      @toebiter69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4174

      no hate like Christian love!!

    • @andrewLoz
      @andrewLoz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1073

      @@toebiter69 I don't know if you came up with that, but that's a fierce line

    • @imandrewsol
      @imandrewsol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      Amen

  • @giselleescobedo6109
    @giselleescobedo6109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2461

    Ten years of attending the Mormon cult made me develop OCD and sent me to therapy. Watching drag healed my brain 💜💜💜

    • @clo_beanery
      @clo_beanery 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Oh my gosh…I developed scrupulous OCD too thanks to my religious and cultish upbringing. Glad to know I’m not alone and hope you’re doing well!! 🖤🖤🖤

    • @joanalovesyou
      @joanalovesyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Being raised Roman Catholic gave me OCD as well

    • @kelschan88
      @kelschan88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Born and raised Mormon and am now currently working through the trauma it caused in therapy. Religion is a poison.

    • @reynap343
      @reynap343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      omg fellow exmo in the wild💖 sending all the love and healing

    • @ruth8911
      @ruth8911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I also have OCD

  • @dylanraeann6470
    @dylanraeann6470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1146

    I was harassed by several adult men at
    church, but never at a drag show. 🤨🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Tvd97
      @Tvd97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I grew up in a very conservative area. Like, the progressive Mormon families were less strict than some of the Baptists kind of area. Lived next to a Baptist preacher that gave my mom the creeps...turned out he had multiple affairs with women he was giving marriage counseling to, and was caught by his daughter who suspected it, and had her husband follow him with a camera.

    • @dianafossi1295
      @dianafossi1295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I'm sorry that happened to you

    • @loveliestskull8463
      @loveliestskull8463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I hope you're ok :(

    • @HeyItsNovalee
      @HeyItsNovalee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No really the way most drag queens respect women so much more than cis men do, enough that they’d be the last to ever harass a woman, despite how conservatives keep saying “cross dressers” only dress up to perv on women….

  • @Meta.Empress
    @Meta.Empress 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

    They're women wearing pants... which was drag 100 years ago...

  • @chillmcgren200
    @chillmcgren200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1743

    Having grown up in a very conservative church, I am so tired of the assumptions they make due to breast size. As a child, I was repeatedly shamed because my mother _believed_ I would develop large breasts. Not to mention the way I was treated once I actually developed them.

    • @shawnbay2211
      @shawnbay2211 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The way conservative Christians sexualise kids is extremely creepy.

    • @heyheyitrachelgray
      @heyheyitrachelgray 2 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      Glad someone is commenting on this. It is a very strange thing being shammed on something you cannot even control.

    • @goldfishsnake
      @goldfishsnake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      it's like they should've accepted glob's design or something

    • @groovydakota
      @groovydakota 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      There are some sects / churches of Christianity that really act like you should hate yourself and be ashamed of yourself for having a rockin bod lol
      Like what a contradiction to all the other teaching about loving yourself and others 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @kimareska
      @kimareska 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wait what sis--- 😭

  • @allienimmons308
    @allienimmons308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    Katyas cameo in this video is a priceless gem and I will watch it over and over.

    • @SarahHarper
      @SarahHarper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I live for unexpected Katya cameos

    • @eurekamreum5458
      @eurekamreum5458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She's my Church

    • @ctheo2020
      @ctheo2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      all hail Katya! 👑

  • @mintminari
    @mintminari 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1058

    "I think we all know where men put on dresses and f*ck kids." She snapped with this lmao. It's true and you should say it

    • @andrewLoz
      @andrewLoz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      S N A P P E D

    • @dylanraeann6470
      @dylanraeann6470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I literally screamed 💀💀

    • @cecilhoangle3070
      @cecilhoangle3070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      the call is coming from inside the house mam

    • @eye_nead_2_dookey
      @eye_nead_2_dookey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LET IT BE KNOWN MISS MAMAS

    • @pevenshy
      @pevenshy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      she ate DOWN 😭

  • @GreyBobTheSecond
    @GreyBobTheSecond ปีที่แล้ว +78

    “do people go to therapy because they went to a drag show?” is a legendary perspective. i literally go to therapy heavily because i went to church and experienced, well, church things.

  • @sofiao5343
    @sofiao5343 ปีที่แล้ว +6562

    Those girls were not only talking about drag without having knowledge about what drag actually is, they were also being transphobic af

  • @brielizabeth4344
    @brielizabeth4344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2584

    I got sexually assaulted at church but never once felt unsafe at a drag show

    • @laurenturtleful
      @laurenturtleful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      PERIODDD

    • @Squirrelbear5950
      @Squirrelbear5950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      I went to a drag club for the first time about a month ago and I never felt safer.

    • @vellichords
      @vellichords 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      I’m sorry that happened to you ❤️

    • @madmartigankilmer89
      @madmartigankilmer89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I am so terribly sorry that happened to you. My heart goes out to you 💕💗

    • @beepboop4016
      @beepboop4016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@laurenturtleful maybe don’t say period to a comment were they say they got assaulted

  • @mommas1276
    @mommas1276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5068

    As a small child in the 70’s, I was exposed to drag queens. What happened was SHOCKING. It made me open minded. And it taught me how to do my eyeshadow. These poor little morons.

    • @weinbergdecid8254
      @weinbergdecid8254 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow guess you got off easy then. A kid just got molested by one of these clownz! It was dragqueen story hour. You foolz need to stay away from the children honestly. Even other drag queens said this

    • @kaydincegerstman805
      @kaydincegerstman805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      @Yung Mohel Lmao you think you made a valid point. Is that you? Ashley? Or is it your other awful sister, Ashley?

    • @Laurica-lb6nv
      @Laurica-lb6nv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @Yung Mohel girl be fr

    • @corinazzz1347
      @corinazzz1347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Yung Mohellearning how to do eyeshadow is abuse? What kind of snowflake are you?

    • @LoXena
      @LoXena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      ​@Yung Mohel Seeing a drag show is not abuse lmao 🤣💀💀 you most likely need to go see a professional yourself.

  • @CaitFalconer
    @CaitFalconer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I spent so much time trapped in internalized misogyny; drag queens helped me to understand and appreciate the unique power of femininity. I’ve grown so much bc of drag ❤

  • @niccvier
    @niccvier 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2080

    I love how Trixie is both this cursed, silly drag queen while simultaneously being very eloquent, intelligent and well spoken. She is talking with so much maturity and respect. Truly a great person to represent the community.

  • @mercygal1
    @mercygal1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4106

    Speaking as a suspiciously large cis woman, the popularization of drag has been amazing for me because for the first time ever, I can actually FIND thigh-high stockings for a six-foot tall person. (Don't even get me started on shoes--I end up shopping in the men's section at the mall whether I like it or not.) I've nothing but gratitude for the drag community; so much cute stuff just wasn't made in my size that's now accessible to me because online stores are selling to queens.

    • @TheManaPrism
      @TheManaPrism 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      OK but your comment is awesome, seriously I love it

    • @Easori
      @Easori 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      I have never been able to relate to a statement more. I have the exact same problem. Nothing is ever long enough for me, and I wear a size 11 shoe. So happy that I can find things now.

    • @Cfaerify
      @Cfaerify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      As a 5’11” tall cis woman I feel this in my bones

    • @luxlior
      @luxlior 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where did all this “cis” nonsense come from?? People shouldn’t have to apologise for being straight male or female. Too many made up labels these days, so silly.

    • @naomirose9498
      @naomirose9498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Haha that's great I love that for you :) there's a king of the hill ep about that

  • @whereisCarmenSandiego
    @whereisCarmenSandiego ปีที่แล้ว +2756

    I just get hateful vibes from them. I get warm, loving, accepting vibes from you. That says everything, in my opinion.

    • @jordanfogarty1329
      @jordanfogarty1329 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      I do too! They give fake mean girls vibes

    • @sakuraseranipoji
      @sakuraseranipoji ปีที่แล้ว +14

      period

    • @Kimis505
      @Kimis505 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      i mean regardless the attitude theyre mindset is just toxic and dumb and well not a fan personaly

    • @catastrophicfailure2745
      @catastrophicfailure2745 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      they look like they were the middle school bullies who constantly played the victim when they got caught

    • @at_brunch3852
      @at_brunch3852 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Truth. 💕💕💕💖

  • @elenazaurova6830
    @elenazaurova6830 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Totally in agreement with you about how weird it is when people, primarily the older generation, refer to “girlfriends” and “boyfriends” of little children. I have two daughters and I cringe every time an older relative comments on them “flirting” when they smile at them. Ew. Do they not hear how they’re sexualizing them? Yet they’re the same ones who think drag queens are corrupting our youth 🙄.

  • @harmonydevaney8940
    @harmonydevaney8940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1886

    My moms a lesbian so I grew up in the community going to pride every year. I can honestly say they didn’t sexualize me. But, I can also say I have 100% been sexualized by Christian figures

    • @musingmusic6143
      @musingmusic6143 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They now want us to say: person with a uterus!!
      I am a women!!!
      How can that new term be described as anything other than s€×ist?!!
      It literally means a person who can give birth!!
      They are saying that is our only defining feature!!!
      How is that not s€×ist?!!
      And guess why they want us to say that.
      So that we can be more inclusive to MEN who identify as women!!!
      Yeah, nah!!!
      I am never saying that!!!
      I am a woman!!!
      And if you have any pride as a woman, then quit defending these men!!

    • @musingmusic6143
      @musingmusic6143 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Those aren't Christians than, they are liera

    • @carleighvanderkooi430
      @carleighvanderkooi430 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      A little louder for those in the back mama 👏👏

    • @amandawebster7244
      @amandawebster7244 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I’m so sorry you went through that. I did too. It sucks. I’m glad you’re speaking on that.

    • @captain-insano
      @captain-insano ปีที่แล้ว +11

      YUP. It’s so backwards

  • @katherinebarton9056
    @katherinebarton9056 ปีที่แล้ว +982

    ban kids from hooters, then!!!! ban child pageants, then!! do these people not understand that it’s not the performers decision, but the parents??

    • @shunkela
      @shunkela 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Say it!!!

  • @iEATrainb0wz
    @iEATrainb0wz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18104

    “Do you guys get the sense that these women hate each other?”
    Yes, Trixie. They hate all women

  • @Mro183
    @Mro183 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The rustle of your outfit reminds me of my mum before dementia took her over. She always dressed up she was an incredible dressmaker so her outfits were made of all the fancy stuff sequins, silk, tulle etc and she loved it and I loved it 😍 even though she can’t sew now and wears sweats, when I bring in a creation of hers she gets so excited and loves feeling the textures and running her hands over the detail etc ❤

  • @sarahs.6838
    @sarahs.6838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1808

    I've been so anticipating this video. The amount of trauma women like this inflict in the church is wild. I'm still recovering and glad people are speaking out against. You were so much more gracious than I would be. Thank you for speaking out.

    • @fluffyphoenix8082
      @fluffyphoenix8082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      they inflict trauma because they HAVE been traumatized. they perpetuate the abuse they receive. I was one of these people. I am also recovering. toxic religious perfection and hypocrisy is so tiring.

    • @obviouslysj
      @obviouslysj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I'm about 10 years out of the church and you know, I don't think I'm ever going to unpack the trauma from being raised in a fundamentalist christian church.

    • @sarahs.6838
      @sarahs.6838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@fluffyphoenix8082 100%

    • @sarahs.6838
      @sarahs.6838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@obviouslysj I hear you. Me too.

    • @Deathdeathdeathmoney
      @Deathdeathdeathmoney 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And it’s the fact that those women are married to closeted gay men who think it’s wrong to be who they are. Imagine if their brains weren’t so warped where they’d be, I bet SO much happier

  • @tylerwyatt7443
    @tylerwyatt7443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1597

    Trixie could have (and should have) been as mean spirited as these two women but instead she talked about how nice they looked and how much their video quality has improved over the years. There’s only one classy woman here and it’s not Ashley or Ashley

    • @camel6848
      @camel6848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      morr like Ashley and Ashleigh 😭

    • @MsSphinx91
      @MsSphinx91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      We've just decided that they're both called Ashley, and I love it 😆

    • @thatsclownshit3145
      @thatsclownshit3145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@camel6848 Aheshileiygeh

    • @daemionluccas490
      @daemionluccas490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      meanwhile......nick diramio is saying..."if you can't think of anything nice to say about them,,,,,come sit by me" lol

    • @JaseekaRawr
      @JaseekaRawr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@daemionluccas490 the two sides of the spectrum we needed 😌 Nick dragged tf outta them & even made a mini remix song of the "it's not gonna lick itself" part 😆😆😆 Love both Trixie & Nick. Amazing creators 😌❤🙏🏻

  • @dschultz6361
    @dschultz6361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2290

    I’m soooo glad you did this! I was raised catholic. Seeing the disturbing things that priests GOT AWAY with was so awful to me, it’s one of the reasons I don’t go to church any longer. Replacing the priests to different locations isn’t a justified punishment. But furthermore this ‘girl defined show’ is ridiculous. They are so uninformed it’s pathetic. It’s kind of sad more than anything.

    • @MeganHeath52
      @MeganHeath52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Girl same xx

    • @Chollachollacholla
      @Chollachollacholla 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wish you get justice

    • @SaintShion
      @SaintShion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Also the "it's not going to lick itself" was a double entendre because they were handing out ice cream. Way to twist the narrative Ashleys.

    • @lorinaharding6091
      @lorinaharding6091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Priests? Men in dresses at a whole other level.

    • @gabriellasanchez7334
      @gabriellasanchez7334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      P

  • @christinamichelleee
    @christinamichelleee ปีที่แล้ว +103

    “We all know where men put on dresses and f*** kids and its not at drag shows”
    MIC DROPPPPPP

  • @c_w2266
    @c_w2266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1372

    Some of the worst bullying i’ve ever experienced in life, came from youth groups at church.

    • @moonlily1
      @moonlily1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I was emotionally abused on a daily basis by my evangelical peers going to school in conservative Alabama. I'm not gay or gender non-conforming, I'm just another version of "different". 'Godly' people said horrible things me, harassed me, sometimes sexually, pelted me with french fries in the cafeteria. What was I doing? Nothing. Sitting there eating my lunch.

    • @ajabee2957
      @ajabee2957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same

    • @crimebrulee
      @crimebrulee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@moonlily1 I'm sorry you had to go through that :(

    • @Miramiyami
      @Miramiyami 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I have never felt more comfortable then being surrounded by a group of queer kids. I jave never been less comfortable sitting in my churches youth group with girls my age.

    • @jaketan8485
      @jaketan8485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yikes... Mine was a Catholic school. 😅

  • @fabarcat_271
    @fabarcat_271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10205

    "dressing as oversexualized women" trixie is literally dressed like her grandmother 60 years ago

    • @skyco5395
      @skyco5395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +659

      literally, most drag queens and drag is mostly known for the over glamorous gowns and pageants. where's the oversexualization they talk abt so much 😟😟

    • @LM-hv9xm
      @LM-hv9xm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Almost a Barbara Cartland character.

    • @elenalizabeth
      @elenalizabeth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +440

      “With oversized breasts”.... Ummm... do they not realise women can naturally have MASSIVE chests 😂 like J cups that end up needing to go on those TV shows so they can get a reduction

    • @haleymosley9265
      @haleymosley9265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +304

      @@elenalizabeth there's a lot of fatphobia in churches and shaming of curves.

    • @TenderNoodle
      @TenderNoodle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      That and the fact that a huge portion of camp queens literally dress more conservatively than Bethany and christen do💀

  • @Shivxngee
    @Shivxngee ปีที่แล้ว +6904

    Trixie, if I were in your position, I'd be so triggered and annoyed. You're so emotionally mature and calm, I hope to be like you one day.

    • @Shivxngee
      @Shivxngee ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I couldn't even watch the whole video because i wanted to throw something at those two girls

    • @maxsync183
      @maxsync183 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      Honestly this stuff is so not new. Like girl defined portrays themselves as "brave" for speaking out about it but basically every Christian does so at a certain point it stops being that upsetting and just becomes funny lol

    • @bookgirlny8511
      @bookgirlny8511 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      So true. She’s a class act

    • @kellyoppenheim820
      @kellyoppenheim820 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my gosh every time I start to get heated I start remembering how dumb they sound and just laugh and go please let others see their blatant stupidity
      And why do these bitches hate themselves so much???
      I love trixie ❤

    • @lmaoxd2892
      @lmaoxd2892 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@bookgirlny8511 queer people are used to this

  • @TwiggyAnn
    @TwiggyAnn ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I genuinely think they don’t know the difference between drag and trans, etc. Its all lumped together in one big “scary” thing that’s super homophobic.

  • @edsonv.barreraguzman5531
    @edsonv.barreraguzman5531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +913

    Drag is actually saving lives, the amount of joy and laughter I've been able to experience through this art have helped me go through my depression. Love you so much Trixie.

    • @supremegirlxo2758
      @supremegirlxo2758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Literally!

    • @Dee_Snuts27
      @Dee_Snuts27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Ngl, there have been times where I genuinely felt like ending it, but then I'd turn on "UNHhhh" with Trixie and Katya and all of those negative emotions are filled with nothing but joy and laughter. It's genuinely insane how these people think.

    • @pashanvaine
      @pashanvaine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same for me...

    • @treebles
      @treebles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      100%!

    • @mellymel8876
      @mellymel8876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's cause these two want everyone as miserable as they are. Sorry we actually find things to make us happy, Ashley and Ashley.

  • @ohitsme921
    @ohitsme921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4077

    “Do people go to therapy because they went to a drag show?” As a person with church trauma this line is underrated.

    • @TwoGerbils
      @TwoGerbils 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Tell me about it

    • @cottagebirder
      @cottagebirder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same

    • @lydiajohnson4888
      @lydiajohnson4888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They should go to therapy, and many of them do

    • @becp488
      @becp488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      For some people drag is therapy.

    • @lydiajohnson4888
      @lydiajohnson4888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@becp488 no it isn't. They might act like it's therapy, but it's actively hurting them

  • @sparklingarias
    @sparklingarias 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4659

    them saying drag queens shouldn't be near children/shouldn't be allowed at drag shows is really ironic since children are far less safe being in a church than being at a drag show 💀

    • @Androgynous_alien13
      @Androgynous_alien13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      OUUU U SPILLEDD

    • @stainedglassleaves1130
      @stainedglassleaves1130 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      not to side with them, but children are at more risk of getting molested at school than at a church

    • @alimay4342
      @alimay4342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +370

      they safer at a drag show then they are at school

    • @supernova622
      @supernova622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      💅

    • @barbiecentral
      @barbiecentral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      ​@@alimay4342 LITERALLY w all the padding queens wear they're basically bulletproof

  • @janell7132
    @janell7132 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    “We all have a designer” donatella VERSACE 💜

  • @HoneyFawnCakes
    @HoneyFawnCakes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3422

    I feel so awkward when people use chest size to refer to being explicit. I'm roughly a 42I and hit puberty early, I feel like for my whole pubescent period I've been trying to escape judgement from others.

    • @marieeden8009
      @marieeden8009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      I was going to comment something similar!! I’m a G / H size and I’m always struggling to find clothes that I’m comfortable in.
      I’ve seen online and in person, people with body types I’ve seen on Drag Race. It’s not “oversized” or “provocative” it’s a body shape.

    • @lalapoo7110
      @lalapoo7110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Baby girl, express that God’s design and don’t mind these judgmental weirdo. It’s the same with women with naturally big butt “I didn’t ask for it, Karen. Sorry it offends you”

    • @JaraelMoonsilver
      @JaraelMoonsilver 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      Yes! I had a full rack at 13, and had to change my entire wardrobe bc it was suddenly “too inappropriate” like… it’s just how my body it shaped.

    • @raeganarmstrong4854
      @raeganarmstrong4854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Literally the entire time they shamed bigger breasts as if a lot of people don’t also naturally have them

    • @ons_jj_sc
      @ons_jj_sc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I heavily relate, especially being a non-binary trans. when you think more about it, you realize that the judgment mostly comes from a place of sexualization and it just makes me feel even more horrible. But as long as we're here for each other and keep our respect to one another, then no one can really take that away from us!

  • @spicyt0fu
    @spicyt0fu ปีที่แล้ว +2158

    Honestly, as a girl with I cups and only 130-140 lbs I hate the oversized notion. I'm constantly sexualized and struggle to find any clothes that can fit properly. I know these women would judge me if they met me and that just makes all of this seem so fake, like jealousy and judgement directed at who they see as women but who don't fall into their standards of modesty and acceptable proportions. This is the reason I'm getting a reduction, because it's not worth dealing with people like them

    • @goldenboy3154
      @goldenboy3154 ปีที่แล้ว +265

      It’s also the girls with the personality of cardboard that hate on other women. My friend is absolutely stacked and people accuse her of having all sorts of work done. It’s worse because she’s also so shy.

    • @spicyt0fu
      @spicyt0fu ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @@goldenboy3154 poor thing. Tell her she's a great woman and that she'll find people who care about her for her personality, it just takes some time!!

    • @Laila-if1vs
      @Laila-if1vs ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I'm so sorry that that happened to your friend!! Ppl can be so idiotic and ignorant

    • @hdimyb9856
      @hdimyb9856 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm so sorry. I hope you are happy with your reduction but I really wish you didnt have to get one because of these people. These people are not worth being around and their opinion is invalid and misguided. You deserve better.

    • @robinferdinandsen7122
      @robinferdinandsen7122 ปีที่แล้ว +4

  • @Fourth0rca
    @Fourth0rca 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4765

    It has never occurred to me that drag was something worth worrying about in a negative way. Ever.

    • @jaketan8485
      @jaketan8485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Same, like Trixie said. It's just dressing up. I guess the conservatives are ....overreacting or something.

    • @Gayoinion
      @Gayoinion ปีที่แล้ว +45

      It’s the rights new talking point. A divisive issue to get everyone riled up and distracted from the people up top not doing their jobs

    • @crackkillspuppies
      @crackkillspuppies ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It wasn't until recent years when a bunch of people started insisting on involving kids in drag events.

    • @Fourth0rca
      @Fourth0rca ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@crackkillspuppies no one is insisting it and they do have drag queens that have kid friendly material aside from the more mature ones. It's no different than someone dressing up for party entertainment.

    • @Fourth0rca
      @Fourth0rca ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@crackkillspuppies what you consider family friendly and what they/the people who attend those events consider it is subjective. My point is no is being forced to go or be involved. So why are they being told to stop as a whole when, like many other things, it's something some people enjoy and others don't. And that's perfectly fine.

  • @conversejuice3466
    @conversejuice3466 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    For my 13th bday I practically begged my mom to take me to a drag show and she did, I never had so much fun and felt so comfortable in such loving environment. I cant say the same about the church I used to go to though

  • @zoelaboda5918
    @zoelaboda5918 ปีที่แล้ว +1009

    “drag queen nightclub party” sounds like how shein would advertise a drag show

  • @katiemurphy5721
    @katiemurphy5721 ปีที่แล้ว +2614

    these girls must be SO miserable walking around letting every little thing deeply upset them like just. let people exist and you’ll be happier ashley and ashley

    • @keelyhockley7958
      @keelyhockley7958 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      I wonder if Ashleigh or Mckinleigh have a job aside from saying words with no substance

    • @SewardWriter
      @SewardWriter ปีที่แล้ว +47

      ​@@keelyhockley7958 I doubt they're allowed.

    • @jaymekarina
      @jaymekarina ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you SEEN their husbands? Those poor mfers are trapped in the closet (one is ex conversion therapy) so best BELIEVE they are projecting from their sad little Christian lives.

    • @kyewikeley
      @kyewikeley ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Krysstinne and Behthuhny will never learn to let go, I don't think

    • @mitzara25
      @mitzara25 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      lmao ashley and ashley

  • @JediJudes
    @JediJudes ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I personally think it is such a compliment and honor that drag queens feel strong and empowered to dress and perform as woman. In a world where many men insult men by saying things like "you throw like a girl" or "your acting like a little girl" or "you sissy". Many men often refer to other men as being womanly as a way to insult them. So for those men out there... imagine how it is to be a woman and hear that you think it's a bad thing to be like a woman.... it really does make women feel like most men think we are inferior to them. The fact that drag queens often say that when they get dressed up as a woman and get to be a confident woman strutting the stage and performing their asses off like queens and it makes them feel empowered?... that is such a damn amazing compliment and I am so honored.

  • @ciaratait8026
    @ciaratait8026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2490

    The fact they think people are taking babies to nightclubs ☠☠ i simply cant!!!

    • @Cha_Cha_Chai
      @Cha_Cha_Chai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Gurl there’s literally footage of straight parents doing that

    • @spawn3721
      @spawn3721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      @@Cha_Cha_Chai And let's not forget Hooters

    • @Koenig_Luiz
      @Koenig_Luiz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you being stupid on purpose? There's videos all around the internet of parents doing that.

    • @awkwardity5615
      @awkwardity5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I read that as barbies for a second and was confused why that is a bad thing... I can't leave my girl barbie behind for a party!

    • @Takapon218
      @Takapon218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@Cha_Cha_Chai and why is that gay people's problem??? lol

  • @cupofhannah9335
    @cupofhannah9335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3945

    idk if anyone else feels this way but as a cis woman watching drag has really helped me with body image and self esteem because drag queens embrace the female body in any shape without obsessing over size

    • @Turielen
      @Turielen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +280

      Yes, this 100%. Trixie particularly has a way of seeing physical beauty in everyone, and this really was a reset for me. Drag/Trixie have taught me how to look at myself and SEE the beauty.

    • @lydiajohnson4888
      @lydiajohnson4888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Drag has made me ashamed to be a woman

    • @ккє-о6ц
      @ккє-о6ц 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Wow...I never considered this

    • @cassandracornwell7595
      @cassandracornwell7595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      I have always been uncomfortable with my body no matter my age or size. dragcon 2018 Morgan McMichaels told me i had the most beautiful figure and signed my photo complimenting me on my "hour glass figure"😂My figure was very average, But her appreciation was 100% very real, i will never forget that. I pull the memory of that moment and complement anytime i need a confidence boost.

    • @akonialdane5750
      @akonialdane5750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      @@lydiajohnson4888 aw, that’s tough

  • @madeleinemmw
    @madeleinemmw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +647

    I can’t believe they wear makeup, do their hair, or even wear clothes since the designer designed so perfectly!

  • @leslierao2772
    @leslierao2772 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    My mom (rest her soul) took me to my fist drag show at 12
    I only remember her coworker who did Cher
    Was awesome
    She really wasn't a fan of drag but was there for him because she loved her friend

  • @mot0jo
    @mot0jo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1051

    Drag literally got me through the pandemic, post partum depression, regular depression and every bad thing that’s ever happened. Drag queens saved my life

    • @nicholas8484
      @nicholas8484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @suzy3899
      @suzy3899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Are you me? Because same.

    • @sdrrshock5594
      @sdrrshock5594 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So because of that children should be exposed to this! Think you have brain damage and not depression

    • @O2BAmachine
      @O2BAmachine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💞

    • @leiram8833
      @leiram8833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The pandemic, high school, gender dysphoria... drag has literally helped me through so much.

  • @jeremyduval3472
    @jeremyduval3472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +651

    it's true that doing drag does not mean you "want to be a woman", but it's also worth mentioning how transphobic their language is in this regard as well. there are trans drag queens and they're not any more dangerous to children than cis ones. trans drag queens deserve all the respect.

    • @seofra8252
      @seofra8252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Their language is solidly different phobic.

    • @romycartiere7088
      @romycartiere7088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Also like a lot of bigots they don't seem to understand the difference between being trans and doing drag at all.

    • @sneezecakexx
      @sneezecakexx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I made a drag reference in front of my mom and I said “you probably wouldn’t get that.. it’s a drag reference” and the look on her face 🤭 it looked like she was trying to process the fact that I watch/like drag, trying to be supportive, holding back judgmental words/looks, and confusion all at the same time

    • @SirFaceFone
      @SirFaceFone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I highly doubt they have an ounce of respect for trans people.
      _smacks forehead with notepad_

    • @Alice-gr1kb
      @Alice-gr1kb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@romycartiere7088 very clear from the number of transphobes who think that all of us trans women wear pounds of makeup daily and that we’re all in wigs. I’m sure some trans women do do that (which is perfectly normal to do? Idk why people act like that’s so bad), but also some of us wear little or don’t wear any makeup (I’m clueless about makeup so I dont wear any). Idk it’s crazy they act like all of us trans people constantly look like we’re heading to the club, when in reality we dress any way cis people do. I’m certian these people have seen a trans person before in like the grocery store or something and not known.

  • @reinerca
    @reinerca 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1707

    Petition to change “transitioning” to “slowly quitting this gender” 😂 Love. It.

  • @kathryndeck3873
    @kathryndeck3873 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    “Speak truth and love” coming from them is RICH

    • @RebaMcImTired
      @RebaMcImTired 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love how they always claim their opinions to be the truth and not just an opinion.

  • @miward0528
    @miward0528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1360

    As a Mom, I'll take my daughter to places where I feel she is safe and welcome. That includes children friendly drag events. And DOESN'T include places like...I don't know...church.

    • @Nails_By_Kimberlee
      @Nails_By_Kimberlee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Same.

    • @OutOfMarbles127
      @OutOfMarbles127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I wish more of our people had a mother like you. Thank you, your children are very lucky

    • @d3335
      @d3335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Amen 🤣 to quote Ashley and Ashley

    • @miward0528
      @miward0528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@OutOfMarbles127 my fundamental job as a Mom is to teach my daughter to be loving, accepting and kind to everyone. She’s still young and who she is to become is still unknown (gay, straight, bi, cis, trans) and in order for her to be loving, accepting and kind to herself as she navigates life & figures out who she is I have to show her that I, Mom, encourage and practice love and kindness to everyone. Sheltering our children from harmless things like drag does nothing but close them off to the world as a whole. ❤️

    • @Lizzehmeh
      @Lizzehmeh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🔥 🔥 🔥

  • @rw7458
    @rw7458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5084

    As someone who grew up watching my uncles do drag I can say my very conservative Christian parents absolutely fucked up my mental state and my gay, drag dressing, singing dancing uncles were the only people that kept me from being absolutely broken lol

    • @wiredwithwalsh6282
      @wiredwithwalsh6282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      Once again Christianity is the problem! Shocker!

    • @morbidmusing
      @morbidmusing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Your uncles sound like great people

    • @malloryg4251
      @malloryg4251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Your uncles sound absolutely fabulous. Sorry that your parents suck. I have a friend who was born into an extremely religious, conservative household, and I keep hoping that she'll tell her parents to f off, but she's still seeking their approval : (

    • @ithamarlowe6158
      @ithamarlowe6158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Parents sometimes screw up your life. My life is almost completely screwed.

    • @BuyJiafeiyassifiedpr0ducts
      @BuyJiafeiyassifiedpr0ducts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      They probably ate

  • @antleredghosts
    @antleredghosts ปีที่แล้ว +1362

    “do you think kids went to therapy because of a drag show” THIS HITS SO HARD HELP i have horrible religious trauma to the point where i have panic attacks the night before sunday because i know i’m going to wake up on sunday and be forced to go into a church where i’m NOT loved, NOT accepted and NOT wanted there just because i’m queer and non binary. i hear over and over again about how i’m wrong and i shouldn’t be the way i am / exist. love getting to rant about it on mondays to my therapist.. a genuine drag queen could not do a quarter of the damage religion has done to me

    • @spyrex9986
      @spyrex9986 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Hope you feel better now and are surrounded by people who rightfully love you

    • @Easori
      @Easori ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I hope you can get away from that church and to a place of acceptance amongst your peers. I'm glad you have a therapist to talk to. Just know that not everywhere is like that, and you will find a community one day. I actually attend a unitarian church that holds a special session for religious wounds, like an aa meeting but for people who were raised with religion imposed upon them, and I think it's a super cool class. Maybe you could look in to something like that?

    • @NiamhARTullivan
      @NiamhARTullivan ปีที่แล้ว

      hi sorry if this sounds rude but I just don't get the non binary thing, like could u just explain how u feel, and why u chose to be non binary? like does it help to be for example have she/her pronouns then they/them pronouns? im just trying to educate myself:)

    • @anncarlson1396
      @anncarlson1396 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love you. ❤️

    • @ReiAnikaAyanami
      @ReiAnikaAyanami ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ​@@NiamhARTullivanliterally just google the word "non-binary"

  • @erin9664
    @erin9664 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    they learned the words “over-sexualization” and desperately wanted to prove they could use it in a sentence

  • @urhexgirl
    @urhexgirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2876

    As a woman with a natural J cup chest size, I’m so offended that they’re calling breast plates “oversized”, like hello women do actually have big chests like that too. What a stupid delusional video they made.

    • @alondramarquez9226
      @alondramarquez9226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

      J cup ??? omg your back must hurt a lot. I have d cups and it's already so hard

    • @meganl9573
      @meganl9573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      hi sorry hi sorry hi sorry

    • @fart63
      @fart63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Girl I am so sorry for you

    • @natalieglynn2318
      @natalieglynn2318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      No same! I recently just had a breast reduction from a G cup to a C cup (100% best decision I ever made and I’m so thankful that we could pay for it) and like…they were naturally big. I had to go through so much mental torment because of them. Like? Idk. Bad taste in my mouth.

    • @LeslieRG23
      @LeslieRG23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same. DD here.

  • @dieCG
    @dieCG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69310

    Child pageants. You wanna talk about gross sexualization of children? Conservatives LOVE child pageants.

    • @cvrly2420
      @cvrly2420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2644

      oop. facts.

    • @TheSwede420
      @TheSwede420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +909

      This!

    • @guera2003
      @guera2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2853

      Frrr. christian women love toddlers and tiaras. dont even get me started on the photoshop of their headshots.

    • @wareforcoin5780
      @wareforcoin5780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +581

      I'm certain they're conservative, but to be fair, I don't know if _they_ like child pageants. Seems like something they'd condemn for teaching vanity or something, and they wouldn't touch the gross costuming those kids are put in.

    • @MrBuns-yi2hk
      @MrBuns-yi2hk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +380

      I wouldn't say that. Most of the conservatives that I have seen talk on the issue are also very against pageants.

  • @elizabethsolis3171
    @elizabethsolis3171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1358

    I WAS A CHILD AT A DRAG QUEEN SHOW!!!! 😂😂 My uncle, who has passed away, was a drag queen. My little sister and I were visiting my uncle with our aunt and cousin, he took us all to Disney land. He had a gig that night at a bar and grill, emphasis on the grill part, because children can go to bar and grills apparently. So there we were probably 8 and 9 at the time tipping drag queens in a place full of drunk people. We even got to go back where all the other queens were. Amazing night I will never forget. I turned out just fine 😂😂
    RIP Desiree La Femme 💜💙

    • @gossipandgrigio7200
      @gossipandgrigio7200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      💜

    • @ellaskrap
      @ellaskrap 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Your uncle sounds like an absolute blast to be around. RIP Desiree La Femme.

    • @miramuchachito296
      @miramuchachito296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Ohhh i just love this comment so much! Desirée La Femme will be so proud of you!

    • @ekaterina_shum
      @ekaterina_shum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Give it up for Desiree La Femme everybody! 👏👏👏✨✨✨

    • @elizabethsolis3171
      @elizabethsolis3171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Y'all are all so amazing and I can't thank you enough for your kind comments. 💙💜

  • @Lisa.sunshine.love333
    @Lisa.sunshine.love333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love that Trixie admits that she thinks they're beautiful
    So fierce and shows how confident you are in your own skin, girl!!! U don't have to lie and drag others down

  • @ijustneedausername6742
    @ijustneedausername6742 ปีที่แล้ว +1463

    As a cis woman, I’d absolutely LOVE to do drag. The glamour, the wigs, the makeup, the shoes- none of it is anything I can wear during my normal day, and the idea of being able to participate is something I’d adore. It’s not a mockery, it’s a celebration 🥳

    • @seahouse_cosplays4779
      @seahouse_cosplays4779 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      You can absoultely do drag! Drag King, Queen or whatever, go for it.

    • @catastrophicfailure2745
      @catastrophicfailure2745 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      same! cis woman, but everything looks so much fun! for me it would be more about accentuating what i already have and celebrating femininity in a glamorous way

    • @mitzara25
      @mitzara25 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Honestly it looks so fun

    • @miafigueiredoxo
      @miafigueiredoxo ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Literally it honors and celebrates femininity

    • @korperhaus8453
      @korperhaus8453 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      celebration or mockery both ways it's fun as Long as it doesn't come from a place of misogyny

  • @gneiss9620
    @gneiss9620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3051

    It's obvious that drag is just a place holder for what they really wanna say: all queer people. But they know if they just say "gay people are predators" and "gay people are against gods design" more of their audience will correctly perceive it as hate, so they use this as a cover. Their enemy is not drag, what they truly want to destroy is gay rights, Trans rights and liberation.

    • @KristiLEvans1
      @KristiLEvans1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No. As a Christian, I can say that that is a leap and a stereotype of Christianity. The vast, vast majority of lay (well, and not-lay, these days) Christians, do not think like that. That’s an overgeneralization that’s taught in order to engender hate. Just as, on the other side, we sometimes hear, “all queer/gay/trans people are, or want to groom your kids!” Hysteria and over-blowing the fringe on both sides, is no help.

    • @sadbroccolitree
      @sadbroccolitree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I was thinking exactly the same thing...

    • @karaa7595
      @karaa7595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not true. Many gay people don't want to be associated with drags anymore. See gaysagainstgroomers

    • @desmodeus2866
      @desmodeus2866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@karaa7595 Congratulations you're promoting a hate group

    • @anotherspawn
      @anotherspawn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's so true 😭

  • @tigergumby
    @tigergumby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2039

    I have always been a more masculine looking woman. I was shamed so much over the years by men and women for not being traditionally pretty. I hated myself. Then one day, out of the blue, Divine's "I'm so beautiful" came on. Something clicked at that time and I learned to start loving myself. Even though Divine has passed, I partially credit her with saving my life.

    • @WillSing4TP
      @WillSing4TP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Divine was divine.🥰

    • @KillerQueen-gx4vb
      @KillerQueen-gx4vb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I completely relate. Especially boys would be the ones that bullied me just because I looked different.

    • @cassiusvoidkin
      @cassiusvoidkin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Yes yes yes! Drag Queens made me feel like I could be myself.

    • @lindsay644
      @lindsay644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same. Drag shows have gave me so much power to be who I am and I am a christian "woman". The hate comes from their lack of understanding period.

    • @biggestastiest
      @biggestastiest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      the strict, hateful enforcement of gender stereotypes onto others harms cisgender people too. i think more people need to realize that because they don't even know they're being hurt by it.

  • @8jaime8
    @8jaime8 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    In the U.K., drag is a traditional part of theatre for children, especially at Christmas! The panto dame has existed since 1806 as a beloved drag character who is counted on to bring life to every performance. Panto theatre walks the line, being child-appropriate whilst still having a few Easter eggs (hidden adult jokes) for the parents.
    There’s also a British military tradition of men dressing up as women to do comedy and theatre to make each other laugh. It was listed in officer’s manuals as a way to build morale and esprit de corps back in WW1 and WW2. Despite the popularity of RPDR and the stars like Trixie who have gone on to be massively successful, I can’t imagine most Americans not being a little unnerved if dressing up as women were suggested as a new military tradition.
    Our empire and society in general may be in smoking ruins, but it isn’t the dame’s fault. Long may she reign!

  • @Ohana9999
    @Ohana9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    Okay but genuinely and unironically, Trixie looks GORGEOUS today! The wig and the exposed shoulders are really doing God's work!!

    • @brandon82841
      @brandon82841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      omg for real, it was giving me some laganja estranga vibes too i loved it

    • @oliviapierce8899
      @oliviapierce8899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It is a godfearing look

    • @thedarthflagger
      @thedarthflagger 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And the bingo chips are taking me to church.