BKS Live Experience | A Conversation On Friendships, Friend Breakups & Meaningful Friendships!

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ธ.ค. 2023
  • Hello BKS lovers! Welcome to the season finale of season 3.
    On this episode, our host Sharon K hosts the first ever BKS Live Experience where they got to have an episode on a conversation on friendship, friendship breakups and how to build meaningful friendships ft Lydia K.M.
    Please let us know your thoughts in the comments and don't forget to share, like and subscribe!

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  • @janenjambiserah
    @janenjambiserah 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Lydia is a true friend bro. she's injured and still made it. we need more friends like this😇

  • @hinesightmind
    @hinesightmind 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    We recently parted ways with a friend. We actually had surface level friendship. We never talked about anything minus going out😢. Hanging out with her felt like a punishment.I realised we were on different levels of life. So it's okay to let go of people who don't align with us.

    • @itstiana26
      @itstiana26 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true am currently going through pain n can't get to move on from them

    • @randombeb
      @randombeb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have such a friendship I had to move miles away juu I was we weren't aligning,always felt like a servant to her and not a friend felt cornered kabisa

    • @ahumuzamarion
      @ahumuzamarion 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i had the same experience glad to relate

    • @dnabwala
      @dnabwala 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thought I was alone on this one. 😅 I don’t know why female friendships have never worked for me. There’s a lot of pretense in them. I’m glad and content with my hubby who is my best friend. I also have 7blood sisters to whom I can confide in plus a male best friend for over 10years now. For now my plate is full. And I am grateful to God.

  • @sharonthuo5705
    @sharonthuo5705 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I love how openly you share about God and the word Sharon ❤
    Loved this episode ❤

  • @wanjamuchiri132
    @wanjamuchiri132 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I have lost two friends over time and I loved them, introduced me to my space and gave my all . My all, I mean it.. Little did I loose them under various circumstances. The first one was eyeing my boyfriend then (2016) and no way I could continue with such friendship. The other one we lost contacts after campus(2019) cause she got a job immediately after attachment but I was in the village struggling.She could initiate outs at the malls but I couldn't afford 200 to go meet her so when she realized I'm not "her level" we went mute and that was it. Truthfully, I wasn't in my right mental space and I felt I needed my" space".. Later God came, so is my healing .
    It's hard to put it but 4yrs down the line, I've not had the courage to trust or bring in a person as a friend. I feel any other person out there would do what my friends did. Maybe soon, I dunno I'll get over it but for now am comfortable .
    Journalling has been my thing ,am loving it.

  • @margaretwambui4602
    @margaretwambui4602 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've literally looked for friends my whole life, wondering is there something wrong with me but at the right time I know God will give me a friend/friends 😊

    • @sotigalgalo4416
      @sotigalgalo4416 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We can be friends 😀

  • @lizlyne1050
    @lizlyne1050 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I broke up with my friend in 2021😢It still hurts 😭.Now I can see the reason was we never had the difficult conversations.Since then I have never had someone to call a friend....I just fear making friends . This has been really helpful 😊 Can't wait to have a friend

  • @Ray-yg3nr
    @Ray-yg3nr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I have fallen off from so many friendships, especially this year and I can relate. Friendship breakups hurt so badly.

  • @069-flightt
    @069-flightt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Finally!! It's here .

  • @livingalongsideLolo_
    @livingalongsideLolo_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Been here & will always be here to learn❤️. T

  • @ladydee.6289
    @ladydee.6289 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved it sooo much 💞, congratulations Sharon🤩🤩

  • @mukaminkoroi5918
    @mukaminkoroi5918 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That is a beautiful episode Sharon, with lots of amazing insights and lessons on how to navigate friendships. I'm keen to attend the next one, though

  • @miriamshaba5004
    @miriamshaba5004 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Murungi munyi!!!!!? Lydia Km!!!! In the building💃💃💃💃

  • @monrosemurugitravels
    @monrosemurugitravels 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Third one today! 🎉❤. We should treasure friendships. A man is not an island!

  • @ClaretWanjiku
    @ClaretWanjiku 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wanna hear more of these conversations❤

  • @riyahshamar2222
    @riyahshamar2222 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is so beautiful . Thank you for blessing us with this podcast.

  • @praisehawi7258
    @praisehawi7258 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Thanks to best kept secrets im growing and nuturing to a woman of more value and elegance. And i think its good that friends write a letter to God for thei friends ..the prayer part made me emotional ..and i wished that i could have a friend that prags for me genuinely 😊

    • @lizlyne1050
      @lizlyne1050 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too

  • @valpaleky
    @valpaleky 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    AMEEEEN TO THE PRAYER
    THIS EPISODE WAS EPIC.
    I have called myself to ameeting

  • @Hazel-uv2yb
    @Hazel-uv2yb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Such a wholesome episode🤗, I want to be more intentional with my friendships.

  • @WanjikuDaniels
    @WanjikuDaniels 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Stephanie You did a great job WOW!! 👏

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just got here 🌺🌺🌺 I came so fast .

  • @nobumasiziba1680
    @nobumasiziba1680 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish if I was there. We are speaking the same language when it comes to friends. I enjoyed the conversation. We need more of such content. Keep it up. Watching from Zimbabwe.

  • @keshymacharia5204
    @keshymacharia5204 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen....this was amazing episode..God bless you Sharon,May God's wisdom always be filled in you❤

  • @dnabwala
    @dnabwala 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This has been so timely for me Sharon! I have really struggled. Kwanza the part where you talked about sharing with your mum🙈that has been me. I took it all to God and surrendered😭. I now feel better that I am not the only one who has gone through this.

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wooow great conversations❤

  • @njerililian
    @njerililian 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this and I cant wait for the next episode of this event so I can show up

  • @Wanderlustafricanfamily
    @Wanderlustafricanfamily 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have CRIED! Especially while writing my letter.

  • @MichellMukami
    @MichellMukami 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was great take a shot everytime Sharon says period and you will be down

  • @olivewawira2060
    @olivewawira2060 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a beautiful event!

  • @naomiwangare754
    @naomiwangare754 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Some friendship end just because you are on two diffrent paths ,no matter how hard you try to save it ,it is done for .

    • @dnabwala
      @dnabwala 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯 correct

  • @mercykanene5692
    @mercykanene5692 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love this so much

  • @user-my9wg8ss8l
    @user-my9wg8ss8l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The episode was amazing❤. I have learnt a lot thankyou Sharon for this episode

  • @mwikaliesther5680
    @mwikaliesther5680 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    First one today😊

  • @lindaochieng1193
    @lindaochieng1193 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ouuuu so excited ! Thank you for sharing with the youtube family Sharon 💋

  • @nancymarende1003
    @nancymarende1003 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg! The letters😍😍

  • @Ishagishanug
    @Ishagishanug 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Second one today 🎉

  • @ms.rosalia7594
    @ms.rosalia7594 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    we finally have the queen of oversharing!😂

  • @rubyswanapool3428
    @rubyswanapool3428 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So beautiful!

  • @randombeb
    @randombeb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Am nowadays more in the line of acquaintance more than a friendship, have always felt like the odd one out maybe because my friends always seem way ,settled than i am, my recent one i had to literary move since i felt that the friendship i had has changed being like a servant to her (was going through some low season and she made use of it a good one ) once i moved i got to see the damage of it all(she was all that u talked about sharon,manipulative, controlling and she would really be little me in public at any given time)

  • @elleakenya
    @elleakenya 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not me crying 😢 on the letter to God time

  • @user-rk8ps9iz9w
    @user-rk8ps9iz9w 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing conversation 👍

  • @Rosteve2010
    @Rosteve2010 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AMEN to the prayer🙏🏾. This was a vibe✨and God centred. Necessary convos #Friendship💛.TMI queens❤ in the house🎉. Lyd intro🔥👏🏾👏🏾😊.Queenbetweener hapa💃🏿.

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @achiegift1794
    @achiegift1794 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What Lydia said about red flags. The hurting my feelings yet you still want to justify, I felt that to my core. My best friend did something that made me break up with my 4yr boyfriend. And instead of being sorry and trying to mend things all she did was blame this guy over and over again. I already knew the truth but she denied it all and put the blame on him smh. I don't know if I can trust people anymore coz we'd been friends for 15yrs lol. I just didn't think she'd be the one I was going to cut off

  • @jamilasvlogs
    @jamilasvlogs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When women gather, the greatest things happen♥

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    For someone who is knowledgeable with the Bible I seek your help.....what does having a vision of PSALMS 88 mean like what does that chapter mean?? I'd like to understand it please anyone ❤

  • @annewairimu1035
    @annewairimu1035 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Jesus is my best friend.

  • @elleakenya
    @elleakenya 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Me I'm here to learn

  • @sheillalugwiri
    @sheillalugwiri 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Them: Form hii December?? Me: Drink and puke, drink and puke😂😂😂

    • @gracemaina7290
      @gracemaina7290 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Okay enough youtube for today 😂😂

  • @MananiKe-bt9ut
    @MananiKe-bt9ut 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    R she was absolutely

  • @PaulineWambutsi-ob5ip
    @PaulineWambutsi-ob5ip 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How can someone go to this events

  • @mashiano254
    @mashiano254 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mbona hatuna option ya kudownload??

    • @janetnduta5198
      @janetnduta5198 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope next time they'll make it downloadable

  • @malaikamungai2106
    @malaikamungai2106 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do we contact you?

  • @wangarikareh9203
    @wangarikareh9203 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What happened to Lydia??????

  • @pattyray328
    @pattyray328 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I need a new bestie.

    • @itstiana26
      @itstiana26 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Need one too

    • @alicemoraa4272
      @alicemoraa4272 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too

    • @itstiana26
      @itstiana26 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alicemoraa4272 or we be friends

    • @Jerutosharon
      @Jerutosharon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I need one too

    • @mercykobia9197
      @mercykobia9197 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I need one too

  • @missblessedbellablessed
    @missblessedbellablessed 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Friends talk trigger the life out of me🥲💔