Dudes try to get with women that they would not be able to get if she did not have kids. He knows and she knows it, which is often why she doesn’t respect him.
@@emmanuelallen4376 Because childless younger women are better. It's common sense.🤣🤣 If a man is tall, attractive, successful,it doesn't matter if he has kids or not,it really doesn't hurt his market value.
I say that to men all the time. Never take a single mum serious. She can never truly commit to you because she’s committed to ensuring the survival of another man’s excrement.
It's funny how they'll say things like "Don't get with single mothers if you can't accept her kids." but get triggered when men say no to single mothers.
I checked out at "You're supposed to be..." and "That's not a man." Then go back to "the man" with whom you had sex to produce your child/children. You have no right to demand anything from a single, childless man that you aren't getting from your children's father. The arrogance and double standards abound. Guaranteed she doesn't see it because she is outwardly focused rather than inwardly reflecting on her poor choices. No thank you. She wants an easy solution to a complex problem of her own making.
A single mother only wants an ATM.Why should a guy want awoman.Who has had kids to another man.The man cant tell the kids anything.She will tell him off for this.Just avoid these women guys.
As a childfree woman offering a fresh perspective on dating dynamics, single moms might find greater harmony and mutual understanding by dating single dads. After all, stepping into a step-parent role can often be a challenging and underappreciated journey. 💛
Nice idea but its not the same..unless that single dad had custody of his kids and they live with him. i can can tell you these "modern women" are not taking care of another woman's children.... ain't happening yet they want men to do it?
@@bondson0094 Thank you for sharing your perspective! You bring up an interesting point about the challenges of co-parenting and blended families. While it’s true that everyone’s situation is different, there are plenty of men and women who willingly take on the role of stepparent or caregiver because they value the relationship and the family as a whole. It really comes down to the individual and their willingness to embrace those dynamics. Modern relationships are diverse, and people often find ways to make them work despite societal norms or expectations.
I’ve always said this. But I’ve learnt having single fathers as friends that are high value, they still attract women with no kids just as much if not more than a childless man. Most women don’t care if a man has kids if he is a high earner and willing to provide.
A rare intelligent take. Problem is that single moms don’t want single dads. The single mom has to compete with the dad’s baby momma and his kids for resources
Single moms, nobody owes you anything. Men will come and go, because they like you but will see the baggage you are carrying. Oh yeah, children are baggage. "Passports Up!"
Exactly and that's the same thing I said my kids are grown and out the house I want to date someone with kids that's grown like mines and out the house
When a male lion gets with a lioness with cubs he doesn't take care another lions cubs 🤷🏾♂️ he kills them I know that's harsh but the lion wants his bloodline if he protecting the pride the lioness has to get with the program
Yeah I wonder what percentage of American black men that have no backbone, but is worth $170M. Yeah the average black woman totally have a shot with a guy like that. Lol
You never hear these SM’s ever talk about working things out with males that they’ve chosen to procreate with they always directing ad hominem attacks towards men who’s not the father of their children, it’s just flat out delusional.
I always felt this way when I was a single mother. My husband and I shared that common experience. We both understood the need to get babysitters or take the kids with us. He had a child from a previous relationship, I had my own child, and together we had one more.
She has a good point when she said if a man can't love those kids like his own when he chose to get involved with a single mother then don't date a single mother. But, the problem with that is when a man choose to not to date a single mom because of that reason she would get offended at the fact of him not getting with her and wanting to love those kids. If she really sincere about what she's saying then she and other single mothers like her, if she is a single mother, should stand on what she said if a man especially a man without kids rejects dating her because of that reason
There’s no such thing as a step dummy. Fellas, never take a single mum serious. She’s is committed to raising another man’s release while she’ll use you to play the dumb role of crash dummy.
I'm proud of my Gen Z black men standing on business. WE AIN'T GOING FOR THAT. Go holla at GenX. They are the SIMP Generation (I don't care if the old heads get offended) if you get offended then I'm probably talking about you
@@clockehvac1240 yes. The afrotech guys - have no real experience dating attractive women prior to making 6 figures. So these nerds are prime prey for single moms, escorts, and clout chasers.
I am a white man and can tell you this isn’t just a black man problem. I understand Phil speaks mainly to his community but just understand this is a western world problem. White men have been dealing with some of the same sh*t. We just got our passports earlier than black men and got out. Happy to see black men (really all men) figuring out we don’t have to take this sh*t anymore.
No no no , I used to be on that page and it was actually due to the women in my family telling us when we were boys if we're going to get involved with a woman with kids" we have to love them and we have to do this and have to do that" Hell no , I learned over the years that responsibility is hers whoever she laid down with make him accountable I quit making myself feel obligated no more ready-made families for me
The one thing i didnt take into account when being with a woman with kids is you dont know the history the family bloodline, these kids can have mental illness, i dealt with that and it aint nothing nice
Nobody wants to admit this.. but ppl cannot love another child that’s not theirs like they are.. it sounds like the right thing to do.. but it just don’t happen. Don’t mean you’ll do anything to them, but you have no biological tie.. I wish men and women alike would just admit this.
Single fathers should not date a single mother. Honestly, nobody should date a single mother. As a single father who is divorced, I would never date a single mother.
@iceman_2360 nope here is the problem that you and these single mothers won't understand it's expected for men to help pay for her kids but she not expected to help pay for his and why would any man take on a woman with kids 🤣🤣🤣
She has valid points, however I do not associate, entertain, let single moms in my life for dating purposes this does not applies to me. Good luck to her finding that dude that will give her what she wants
My best friend is a single mother and she said she doesn't want a man that dosent already have kids because she feels a man without kids either wont understand or is a pedophile i told her that was very wise!
These ( Single Mother's ) " Got things ( Confuse) . You can't tell ( Men) who don't have kids..What to do." If anything " Stop having (Babies) with men. Who won't or can't take care of these ( Babies) ..That y'all keep having.
What bout the guy who tries to discipline the children and the kids say, “you can’t tell me what to do, ur not my dad”. Or the woman saying, “I’m not looking for a father for my kids cuz they already have a father”
She outta of her damn mind, your kids are your responsibility ! Single men leave baby mamas alone, been there before and its not worth it and its a shitty deal cause you can't discipline them without the mother getting in the way!!
I’ll never understand why a man without kids will deal with a woman with kids.
Dudes try to get with women that they would not be able to get if she did not have kids. He knows and she knows it, which is often why she doesn’t respect him.
Just because a man has kids doesn't mean he has to be stuck with a woman with children.
@@jonthomson9262Yes he does because why come to a childless women
@@emmanuelallen4376 Because childless younger women are better. It's common sense.🤣🤣 If a man is tall, attractive, successful,it doesn't matter if he has kids or not,it really doesn't hurt his market value.
Because, subconsciously, he feels that he can't do better.
You single mothers need to work things out with the fathers of your children… single men stop dating these single moms
AMEN!! Where is their pappy?😊
I say that to men all the time. Never take a single mum serious. She can never truly commit to you because she’s committed to ensuring the survival of another man’s excrement.
Agreed 💯
And dads that made women single mothers…need to work it out with the single mothers 🙄
@@RTA6226 or PAPPIES?🤔
They’re always trying to “real man” men into taking care of their kids. She can keep it moving.
Manipulation.
the baby daddy should be a "real man"
They always say “a real man” does this and a real man does that. What does a real woman do
Exactly
@jonthomson9262 everytime
Don't be with a woman with kids as a single man, THANK YOU LADY. THANK YOU SO MUCH, Im gonna do just that.
Find your baby daddy. A man takes care of his kids. Go away lady please.
💯
Preach Uncle Phil! My parents told me that. "No man wants a ready made family."
Chuchhh boss lady
What if the kid loves children but can’t have any of his own?
The delusional aspect . A single mother telling us what a man is😂😅 probably a child of a single mother....😅
You can't make this ish up ~Kevin Samuels 🤦♂️🤣🤣🤣
And the crazy part, it's alot of weak men, that will fall for her bs
Isn’t it funny how they all of a sudden know what a real man is after they push out kids from dudes that ain’t real men??
Nuttin But Pookies, S!MPS, & StepDad Crash Dummies In The Black Community SMDH!!🤣
💯😂😂😂
Those same woman be telling men that’s my child not your child later most times and then don’t want the man saying anything to them.
💯
Its funny how they have their own dad when it comes to discipline, but when it comes to provisions they need you.
Right f that
SINGLE MOMS ARE A MESS
It's funny how they'll say things like "Don't get with single mothers if you can't accept her kids." but get triggered when men say no to single mothers.
single mothers should "real man" their children's father's into marrying her and raising his own kids.
I checked out at "You're supposed to be..." and "That's not a man." Then go back to "the man" with whom you had sex to produce your child/children. You have no right to demand anything from a single, childless man that you aren't getting from your children's father. The arrogance and double standards abound. Guaranteed she doesn't see it because she is outwardly focused rather than inwardly reflecting on her poor choices. No thank you. She wants an easy solution to a complex problem of her own making.
There in no position to have no demands. They should go back to the man you agree to lay down with & examine yourself.
What is it with our community trying to promote single motherhood? Straight goofy sh*t.
She’s got kids? You ain’t ready for that? STAY AWAY Bruh!😁🫡
A single mother only wants an ATM.Why should a guy want awoman.Who has had kids to another man.The man cant tell the kids anything.She will tell him off for this.Just avoid these women guys.
Facts
As a childfree woman offering a fresh perspective on dating dynamics, single moms might find greater harmony and mutual understanding by dating single dads. After all, stepping into a step-parent role can often be a challenging and underappreciated journey. 💛
Nah scratch that
Nice idea but its not the same..unless that single dad had custody of his kids and they live with him. i can can tell you these "modern women" are not taking care of another woman's children.... ain't happening yet they want men to do it?
@@bondson0094 Thank you for sharing your perspective! You bring up an interesting point about the challenges of co-parenting and blended families. While it’s true that everyone’s situation is different, there are plenty of men and women who willingly take on the role of stepparent or caregiver because they value the relationship and the family as a whole. It really comes down to the individual and their willingness to embrace those dynamics. Modern relationships are diverse, and people often find ways to make them work despite societal norms or expectations.
I’ve always said this. But I’ve learnt having single fathers as friends that are high value, they still attract women with no kids just as much if not more than a childless man. Most women don’t care if a man has kids if he is a high earner and willing to provide.
A rare intelligent take. Problem is that single moms don’t want single dads. The single mom has to compete with the dad’s baby momma and his kids for resources
Fellas, whether you have kids or not. Be extremely cautious with a woman expecting you to be a father to her ex’s release spawn. It’s delusion
Single moms, nobody owes you anything. Men will come and go, because they like you but will see the baggage you are carrying. Oh yeah, children are baggage. "Passports Up!"
When they see the baggage they know it’s recreational use only
Why don't the kids have a father in their lives that should be the number one question.
My mother always told me from a young age that if you ever wanna start a family one day, start one with someone who don't have kids already.
Why do they do it? Because they'll do anything for the box, even destroy themselves!
Stay away from readymade families. Build your own family.
- Confucius (500 BC)
She can demand whatever she wants and you can also leave her right where you found her too 😂
I don't have a problem with a woman with kids, as long as they are Grown and Gone from Home 😳🤔
Exactly
Exactly and that's the same thing I said my kids are grown and out the house I want to date someone with kids that's grown like mines and out the house
That means she is pretty old. 🤣🤣
That still don't matter if they grown or not they still gonna exact for the same for them grown kids too
@CharlesBrewer-ey6do.....Hopefully She Don't Lie On You & Get The Kids To Beat You Up 🤣
NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOM
Yes sir I agree with you 💯😁💯😁💯
When a male lion gets with a lioness with cubs he doesn't take care another lions cubs 🤷🏾♂️ he kills them I know that's harsh but the lion wants his bloodline if he protecting the pride the lioness has to get with the program
Sad but very true
Kevin Samuels was brutal with this example but he was right
They really think we supposed to be a bunch of Russel Wilson’s
Yeah I wonder what percentage of American black men that have no backbone, but is worth $170M. Yeah the average black woman totally have a shot with a guy like that. Lol
You never hear these SM’s ever talk about working things out with males that they’ve chosen to procreate with they always directing ad hominem attacks towards men who’s not the father of their children, it’s just flat out delusional.
Some men actually do not want kids. What makes everyone think that they'll take up someone else's kids?
Facts you speaking phill
I always felt this way when I was a single mother. My husband and I shared that common experience. We both understood the need to get babysitters or take the kids with us. He had a child from a previous relationship, I had my own child, and together we had one more.
So nobody thinks to be financially stable before having kids???? No wise dude will pursue a liability chick.
Would she feel the same way about HIS kid's? Doubt it!
❤ yourself more than anyone else! 🤬the kids!
I know she is a DAM LIE!!! WhERE THEY DADDY AT?????????? Gentle, please respect yourself and leave these broke women alone.
She has a good point when she said if a man can't love those kids like his own when he chose to get involved with a single mother then don't date a single mother. But, the problem with that is when a man choose to not to date a single mom because of that reason she would get offended at the fact of him not getting with her and wanting to love those kids. If she really sincere about what she's saying then she and other single mothers like her, if she is a single mother, should stand on what she said if a man especially a man without kids rejects dating her because of that reason
Truth! Great commentary!
Forget them kids
Single mothers dates the type of guys they would not if they were child free
Kevin Samuels was right about these privileged women
What these men need to do is stay the hell away from the single ass baby mama and their drama.
These single mothers have some nerve they so out of pocket its astounding at this point. Where those kids father at? Im not him end of story.
"Don't be with a woman if you can't accept her kids." You're preaching to the choir lady.
Sir, nailed it once again 🎯🎯🎯🎯
There’s no such thing as a step dummy. Fellas, never take a single mum serious. She’s is committed to raising another man’s release while she’ll use you to play the dumb role of crash dummy.
If I can't discipline them....then I ain't supporting them. GO TO YOUR REAL DADDY AND SEE HOW THAT PLAYS OUT!!
You’ll end up in jail. Be careful
I'm proud of my Gen Z black men standing on business. WE AIN'T GOING FOR THAT. Go holla at GenX. They are the SIMP Generation (I don't care if the old heads get offended) if you get offended then I'm probably talking about you
You sound like a retard No disrespect.
@@clockehvac1240 GenX are major simps. So are military men. And software engineers.
@qikstar definitely right on the software guys . The Afro tech dudes are catching hell is a good example.
@@clockehvac1240 yes. The afrotech guys - have no real experience dating attractive women prior to making 6 figures. So these nerds are prime prey for single moms, escorts, and clout chasers.
I am a white man and can tell you this isn’t just a black man problem. I understand Phil speaks mainly to his community but just understand this is a western world problem. White men have been dealing with some of the same sh*t. We just got our passports earlier than black men and got out. Happy to see black men (really all men) figuring out we don’t have to take this sh*t anymore.
Now when you date women with kids they ask can their 30 year old children can live there ! NO ! Drinking all my KOOL AID !
No say so No Peso…. That’s my motto💯
She lost her Last Damn Mind!
😂😂
Love the little pookies as you would love yourself. 😂😂😂
As a wise man once said, it is like finishing off another man's warm beer
YOUR NOT MY FATHER FORGET THAT
She’s wants it only her way 👀
Fair point for the children's sake. I'll just avoid other men's babymamas altogether.
To meet a black woman over the age of 25 without at least one child is rare in 2024. While a good majority black men around that age are childless.
@@dondraper4890 It's crazy, I just turned 28 damn near all black woman my age have kids. Just stack & improve. Then get my passport
No no no , I used to be on that page and it was actually due to the women in my family telling us when we were boys if we're going to get involved with a woman with kids" we have to love them and we have to do this and have to do that"
Hell no , I learned over the years that responsibility is hers whoever she laid down with make him accountable I quit making myself feel obligated no more ready-made families for me
When you said "Why bruh" I felt that lol 😆
I agree that dynamic is more plausible, a single father and mother hooking up.
Less drama!
The one thing i didnt take into account when being with a woman with kids is you dont know the history the family bloodline, these kids can have mental illness, i dealt with that and it aint nothing nice
if she’s so good at knowing what a real man is then why didn’t she pick a “real man” to be her baby daddy???
BROTHERS AVOID THESE KINDS.
Nobody wants to admit this.. but ppl cannot love another child that’s not theirs like they are.. it sounds like the right thing to do.. but it just don’t happen. Don’t mean you’ll do anything to them, but you have no biological tie.. I wish men and women alike would just admit this.
Just remember,she would not pi$$ on you if you were on fire if she was not a parent. Don't invest in a woman who was reckless with her drawls!
“If” I choose to be with someone that has kids that aren’t mine. I’m choosing none of you! 😂
Sorry ma'am but you missed the simp train. Those days are over.
A struggling single momma making demands....😅😅😂
Shhhhhhhhiiiiiii.... I would never! She lost her mind....
When a women talk with hand like that action. RuN!
The self entitlement is at Unicorn status. They be speaking very unreal dialogue...😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 📘✈️🫡 I’ve seen the mountain top & it damn sure ain’t this
Them grown kids drink up all the Gatorade and ice tea and bottle water and you think I want them here ? No !
😂
Me personally, I would never get involved with a ready made family!!!!! It's a recipe for disaster.
Christmas 2017 I bought 5 bicycles for Scorpio grand kids ! Thanks grandma no thanks Mr KEVEN 🤔
She's half right, treat or love!!!
Single fathers should not date a single mother. Honestly, nobody should date a single mother. As a single father who is divorced, I would never date a single mother.
Stop that nonsense and take the L. Single parents should date other single parents.
@iceman_2360 nope here is the problem that you and these single mothers won't understand it's expected for men to help pay for her kids but she not expected to help pay for his and why would any man take on a woman with kids 🤣🤣🤣
Phil I like the shirt bro. I can remember those dollars 💯
Keep 💯..frfr just smash and keep it on that level only..
Its very simple
Those kids know he's not thier father and will let you know it .
When her and her son was arguing she wanted me to say something to him 🤔
You don't have the upper hand in this situation. YOU..... either get with program or raise your kids by yourself ma.
You must be kidding 😂😂😂😂😂
Single parent baby mama with demands...sounds DELUSIONAL! 😧😮 B1
I don't even watch these videos anymore, i just come to the comments to Lmfao 😆🤣😆🤣😆...
She has valid points, however I do not associate, entertain, let single moms in my life for dating purposes this does not applies to me. Good luck to her finding that dude that will give her what she wants
The baby daddy needs to take care of them
Some women don’t even like the man’s kids especially if they got a territorial daughter of a certain age ‼️😂😂
My best friend is a single mother and she said she doesn't want a man that dosent already have kids because she feels a man without kids either wont understand or is a pedophile i told her that was very wise!
Most single fathers still won’t date single mothers. I was one of them.
NO TO PLAYING ANOTHER MAN’S SAVED GAMES!
These ( Single Mother's ) " Got things ( Confuse) . You can't tell ( Men) who don't have kids..What to do." If anything " Stop having (Babies) with men. Who won't or can't take care of these ( Babies) ..That y'all keep having.
Plus I don't need to love your child cause how those that benefits me. I wouldn't die saving your child cause I'm not the daddy.
What bout the guy who tries to discipline the children and the kids say, “you can’t tell me what to do, ur not my dad”. Or the woman saying, “I’m not looking for a father for my kids cuz they already have a father”
Beauty doesn't cost a thing becoming a high value man and becoming someone does Beauty will never compare.
Bottom line..let the Supersimps take care of that..
Delusions of grandeur in overdrive 😂
How about no
She outta of her damn mind, your kids are your responsibility ! Single men leave baby mamas alone, been there before and its not worth it and its a shitty deal cause you can't discipline them without the mother getting in the way!!
Damnnnnmm these🙄🙄 single mothers sure do b asking for alotta!!!!
A lot of males are afraid to be alone that’s why they’re willing to accept single mothers. In my opinion