"Why Are You Advising Men To Talk To Single Mothers?" Anton Tells Women It's a Crazy Offer For Guys
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Old wht man from the 1950's called and said..
Stay a virgin till you get married.
Marry your high school sweetheart
Get a job
Turn the job into a career
Then have kids.
Grow your fortune together so there is an interest in staying together.
Be good parents
Love America
Love Jesus
Pull your pants up and don't act a fool.
And that girl sitting next to hundo never been honest, I just can emagin her up bringing and story
Anton u funny af bro u told that nigga he was already big in middle school I’m dying that dude had full beard at that age the step dad was afraid of his big clumsy ahh
What Kion raises another lion cubs? 🤔. Rico is an idiot
Im a childless man. Im not raising another mans child single mother hood had become too normalized..
Single woman, and I am not helping to raise another woman's child UNLESS she is deceased.
As long as baby mamas succeed in finding simps to save them, they're going to keep expecting it and doing it. It's not going to be fun for a whole generation or two of men, but we have to break the baby mama culture.
99 percent of the time you are not required to do so but a dude playing step daddy is expected to do so financially @@listeningviayoutube7229
Yo word im good on that. Guys who have no kids stepped in thinking to step up for the bad choices she made? Thats crazy.
Shut up@@listeningviayoutube7229
Them two with dreads is soft as hell.
Rico ain't nothing but a pretty-boy Tyron... He's the exact type of dude these hoes be bitching about...
The one talking about the gazelle is a stepdad that’s why I think.😂
He fruity
Facts💯
Facts. No surprise. they were raised around step fathers and indoctrinated. So they are doing the sae dumb shit
Women in America would rather be Chris Browns 4th baby Momma than start a family from scratch with a good man. Brutal
Brutal but true😂
@@Oldpangolin100% true
Not everyone like or wants Chris browns . You need to get out more...
Facts
@@misskeah8893you must be a female
When AD started talking notice that all the step parents, step kids and step baby daddies were instantly triggered😢😂😂😂
I was raised by a stepdad and I'm better off because of it. And I 100% agree with AD.
Facts 💯
Facts
🤔 good very good point
😂🙈😂
I see 5 women and one male.....
You see five people raised in a feminist mindset and one that wasn't.
@@rdkirk3834Exactly
FACTS!
Put some respect on Rico's name and the dark skin chick next to Anton she speaks facts as well on her platform. You need to branch and watch other podcast because they have the same mindset as Anton.
Damn
Thank god Anton was there. This would’ve been the most delusional conversation on the internet ever if he wasn’t.
Yeah, I almost left the comments while the 1st dude spoke. Like, bruv, you get that dad God gifts you. The same way he got the son God gifted him. Now men have to be hyper-masculine to overcome their own children? Your father's masculinity is threat to you in childhood? Straight madness!
These Simps are the army of the SisterHood
Every time they opened their mouth, they proved Anton’s point😀! “My dad was a bitch ass n*gga”! Feminine ass dudes bro!
Anton is giving a solution but it's not received it ,its sad
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This is why I can’t stand conversations like this. Anton Daniels speaking rationally while the rest are clearly pandering to their audience
YUP, you can’t have a real and honest conversation with any of them. It’s a joke.
I was raised by a single mother.
I refuse to perpetuate the cycle, nor will I validate these women's poor choices.
Proud of you...however she didn't get preggers on her own
So basically you’re saying you’re punishing another woman for your mother’s mistakes? Sounds about right?!? Many women do the same. It’s broken world we live in
@@TheMetamorphosisEffectis this intentional trolling or are you just making a very ignorant false equivalence?
Baby mamas outnumber baby daddies which tells me most of them share the same baby daddies.
Exactly, it's the Future, Nick Cannon effect, ghettorized. Small number of men, multiple baby momas. 54% of BM are single and childless.
Facts
Exactly.
Why don’t we ever hold both parties accountable … if they have common baby daddies … why we ain’t ever telling men to value their sperm more … to be more responsible with the women they sleep with …
Women outnumber men
Dude in black is pandering. He's going to find out later that his anger is misplaced. Men don't leave the child; they left the non-accountable mothers.
Facts
He is not listening. Like with the big, he think size; not understanding
Unfortunately, regardless of the conditions that the father left, the child winds up suffering
The azz clown 🤡 IN BLACK just minimized the duty and purpose of a FATHER.
They used him as an emotional beta to control masculine men. I've been seeing this shit since I was little.
Single parents, date single parents. It’s simple. Leave childless folks alone
How about the ones that’s childless that’s messing with single parents and are well aware stay away from them it’s simple 😂
@@quilasskoolofglamology9109 i agree
Like someone making you get the coochie. You sound like a real punk.
⬆️this guy gets it
Yeah, let them fume by themselves. Not having children is a pretty sweet existence.
They cannot understand Anton’s point because their foundations (background experience or upbringing) is the thing he is speaking against. Therefore they receive it as criticism and take it personally.
6:11 - You were already big. Yeah I’m a big dude, I’m 6’5’’’.
He is not the smartest tool in the box clearly 🤣
He didn’t change rooms for class
I was like bruh I know you not that slow lol
Lmao man
Son Husband mentality
He just wanted to throw that out there since the hoze love it. Thinks another man is gonna be moved by it. He knew it wasn't what Anton meant.
We aren’t taking care of someone else’s kids . We just arent. Stop trying to shame us! It won’t work! Woman up and get back with your baby daddy! Men with no kids deserve better!
Facts
7 out of ten u will be if ur 30 and over.....
Facts
Amen to that.
I got married at 35 to a beautiful woman without kids, because I left the U.S. and the bs. @@larenda318
I’m not mad at these men at all. As a 31 year old woman with NO kids…I feel similarly. I would feel like I’m getting the short end of the stick…you get me free and clear…no exes, no kids , no BD but I have to accommodate your child, your baby mama, her family and y’all situation?…mmmm trade off doesn’t seem worth it
She gets it👍
I agree, for people who don't have kids. My problem is men who have kids thinking they are too good for a single mother. Like sir, you're both two peas in a pod lol.
@@themanifestorsmind 🤣 I agree
I feel you, I wouldn’t date a man with kids. I’m single with no babies so why would I want to be with someone who has kids? I’m not dealing with Baby mamas or whatever. I don’t even want to be a step mum to a cat 🐈
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
You doing this again I see…
Ladies and gentlemen, it's very simple. The same way Eboni K said she wouldn't date a bus driver many men are saying they don't want to date/marry single mothers. The same way men accepting Eboni K's preference is the same way these single mothers will have to accept what these men are saying. To try and shame men into dating/marrying single mothers look so stupid right now fr.
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But black men definitely went mad hard on Eboni K for saying she wouldn’t date a bus driver. Can’t shame Anyone into dating anyone, man or woman
Tell it
@@ReshaGlows It was the way she talked about the Bus Driver that men took issue with. I.E when she said she wouldn't have anything in common with him to talk about. Simply because of his job.
there is nothing comparable to a job and biology nice try tho you females know exactly what y'all doing with these petty ass incomparable comments
Anton, keep yo foot on they necks. Continue standing up against crash test dummies movement. Protect Anton at all cost.
Yes Anton needs to be protected. He is very sharp and wise
(Anton Daniels) and thousands of other “Black Men” are co undercover Queers! 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Step crash dummies ** lol
Yeah I hope he keeps his circle small
Baby mama culture is strong on this panel. Anton the only person with any sense up there
Bro said i don’t need a father im 6’5 ….bro ain’t serious 😂😂
😂😂
😂😂😂😂
He is the type of dude that these women are sleeping with which is why the kids out of wedlock ratios or what they are
He pissed them off 😂😂😂
Bc he spoke to their life experience
The big dude said it himself “I ain’t need my step dad, I had my grandpa & when this dude came around I was already in middle school”
Exactly
Fuck a step dad gon tell a 12-14 year old boy who doesn’t know him 😂😂😂
@@olaakande5581 the truth hurts...and they didn't want to hear it🤣
Good!
I can tell you that the woman in white is triggered when Anton mentions why normalizing dating single mothers.
@@donaldpowell6725 He triggered the whole panel.. They all had flames in their eyes🤣🔥👹
The guy who spoke prior to Anton don't know jack. He is just talking. Aside from Anton, both of those guys were raise by step fathers. I'm rocking with Anton all day.
One was raised by a stepfather, the other was raised by a grandfather. Both are exceptional situations. They're not the rule.
To be honest the one raised by a stepfather probably didn't learn anything from him because the mom wore the pants
@@rdkirk3834Facts💯. The exception doesn’t make the rule. I wish a lot of black people going against statistics understand that simple concept.
@@ike.o6944 In fact, the exception proves the rule because it is an outlier. "That's not true because I'm an outlier with exceptional situations."
@@rdkirk3834they don't even come across like they were raised into sensible men
If you have kids, date a person with kids. If you don't have kids, don't date a person with kids. This is simple....lol
Anton is 100% on point. He's stating facts. They just don't want to hear it.
You can't have a serious conversation with slow people and unfortunately it seems most people in our community today are very slow.
faxxxx
💯...Ish in.....Ish out.
Sheep just wandering and talking.
200%
What Community? “Black Men” who keep getting Women Pregnant 🤰 they are not Married too are definitely slow! 🖕🏾🖕🏾🖕🏾
Single moms don’t want their sons to be with a single mom.
Don't bet on it, some mothers will throw their sons to the wolves if it gets them approval from other women.
Moms throw their sons under the bus all the time fort the sisterhood
@@user-lo5bm8xz6n with no hesitation.
Bingo!
Anton is the only one with the results to back up what he says. That simple
The guy with the braids on the far end got all his opinions about his father directly from his mother. I can guarantee you that. Also Anton, this group you were talking with aren’t on your level morally or intellectually and are full of excuses. They represent the typical mindset of too many people in our community. Your patience is amazing brother.
These adjustable 6s are out of control.
LOLOLOLOLOL
They are. But to be fair, the women on this show are adjustable 5s. Means they can doll up and reach the peak of average. Take out Becky's hair, the 10lbs of drag show makeup, the fake lashes n nails,and what are u left with? Some 3s and 4s
4/5*
6s?
ajustable 2s!!!!
This panel is an example why the Black Community is dying. Humans have been doing relationships for thousands of years. Somehow a simple process has become complicated AF. So complicated that it's not worth the BS
Yes, and the result of what we've been doing for the last three generations is clearly negative overall. We're not counting the exceptions....we can't create a society based on exceptions. Every functional society in history and all around the world has set up family systems that lock in the care, nurturing, and care of the next generation. It may not look like the European-style nuclear family, but _they've got it locked in._ They have identified who is accountable and the village holds those people to it. If people don't care for their children the way they should, the village holds them accountable. A man who doesn't measure up; doesn't get to father children. There is no "you do you" in any _functional_ culture.
@@rdkirk3834precisely this! This self-centered way of living/being of our culture and society has created a community/society of degenerates with no sense of self-awareness, worth, accountability, and solidarity. Just a bunch of individualism and fake competition towards goals/outcomes with no true value. 🤡 🌍
Facts trying to justify everything being out of order
Men forced women to marry them for thousands of years. Evolve brother!
@@latoyablackmon9033 🤣🤣🤣 Sisters need to pick a struggle. Marriage or poverty. Today's women have the same rights as men. Women even have special gender based laws and privileges above men (welfare, affirmative action, abortion rights to 💀 babies, alimony, child support).
With all this power, opportunities, and safety nets the majority of modern women will die in poverty without a working husband. Single Black Women who practiced the White Woman's Feminism are almost gaurenteed this future. Do the research regarding Black Women, wealth, and retirement.
If I already got kids I’m definitely not paying for another man kids. That doesn’t even make sense. That’s just taking more money away from my own kids.
Exactly. The problem with the recklessness is that everyone is tight. The only reason why this is even sustainable is because a lot of people living like this are stealing tax payer money.
Well if you plan to date, I hope you're not looking for a single woman to date. You sound entitled. If you already have kids you probably should be dating someone else with kids...otherwise you're a hypocrite
@@misskeah8893 Shame and insults. You didn’t combat the point at all.
@@misskeah8893 How can he justify spending money on someone else's kids when he has kids of his own to take care of? What should be his priority?
Unfortunately, doing the wrong thing creates serious problems.
Get real. The dating pool is filled with baby daddies too. Baby mamas and baby daddies should date each other. They’re each other’s match.
The dude with the dreads just been going out sad since last month
Right. I think his show isn’t doing good so now he’s trying to pander to women to get them views up.
Derrick 2.0
@@chrissmith5747😂 That rent due.
@@unc1221 Facts😂
This fool got his own show???? I can only imagine
Raising another man's seed when you don't have your own is nasty work.!
Creating children with multiple women is nasty work...let's have that convo.
@@misskeah8893 34 no kids let's talk about it it takes two create women have the last say so when it comes to child birth
And I REFUSE to ever do it. You CANNOT get so locked in on one woman to think that a single mother is a better option than one wirh no children AND with virtues.
@@misskeah8893 you aren't dealing with deadbeats and losers over here. Go back to the kiddie pool.
Yu stopped talking 😂@misskeah8893
Anton right. No single man without his own kid should settle for raising another man’s child. To the men who do more power to u. Buddy in blk is an example of a child traumatized by not having his dad around and misplacing his anger towards a man who accepted his mother baggage..kids like that are an example of why u shouldn’t do it bro
They were listening to respond and not listening to comprehend. The divorce woman was talking over Anton as he was trying to explain his point because she was triggered. As a single man with no kids, I am not going to wife a woman with kids, knowing the current laws, how much it costs to raise a kid, etc.
When I was younger it was hard to find a black woman without kids
How old are you 😅???
Well, things haven't changed now that you're older.
And its even worse now 😮
No it’s not y’all be wasting those women’s time.
Why limit yourself to black women?
I am a man who had his real father in his life as well as a step dad who I love and appreciate. I am also married to a woman who was a single mother. With all that said, I ALWAYS ADVISE ALL MEN TO STAY AWAY FROM WOMEN WITH KIDS AND START THEIR OWN FAMILIES. It is not a good deal no matter how you try to dress and pretty it up. Not even for "recreational use" as we like to say (that is how I got caught up). I made bad choices and I am performing my duties as a father and holding myself accountable for the situation I created, but I would NEVER advise a man to not go down a better path just because I didn't. If at all possible, AVOID IT!!!
Thank you for your truths
Please explain the issue. Why do you assume having children of your own first with a women will cut any possible chances of that relationship not ending. I’m previously married have one child and her dad takes care of her and we are both dating. What is the issue with grown folks not understanding that having children and even marrying does not guarantee a lasting relationship
@@beautifulsoul6535 the guy didn't even say anything about a lasting relationship...
@@beautifulsoul6535 Marry before you carry gives your child the best chance yes a marriage can possibly end I mean it’s a 60% chance it will. But the fact you tried to do it the right way is what matters. Give your child the best chance to be successful
@@BDAthleticInsider I did it, married for security and never again. I mean he’s a great father but was a horrible partner nothing I said matter after marriage it was pretty much shout up and be happy I’m here. No emotional support during pregnancy and not to mention his verbal abuse. It was like he married me to hate me. Him being out of the home is the best thing for my mental health. Stop shaming women for not marrying most of these married folks are suffering
No mom wants their son to get with a single mom as their first choice 🎉…. This is the only time you can get honesty from a women , or an emotionally driven man .
A man with a child is NOT the same as a woman who's a single mother. That's what the broad at the end of the clip doesn't understand. A man with a child isn't looking for a step-mother the way women look for step-fathers.
I laughed so hard at her she thought she was making a point 😂
@@paulofame Me too. You can tell Anton's points really hit home with her😂
He's not looking bc he left his Baby momma to raise the child....
@@misskeah8893 Why does that have to be the narrative? Women break-up their families more than men. I believe the conversation was about absent fathers. Women with "deadbeat" baby daddies.
Actually it's even worse in most cases. Because he is not actively raising his child. He created a baby mama and moved on to go find a wife. Now if you are bare comparing single fathers and single mothers, then they really are the same. I was raised by both. Well, not exactly single because my parents were married but they separated when I was 6 and never divorced. They lived in different cities though, so it felt like having a single mother. Then when my mom died, we moved with my dad and he raised us as a single father. In both cases, whoever they dated had to take the kids as a package deal. And yes there is a difference between a man who has a chikd and a "single father" because a single father has custody of his kids and is actively raising them alone.
Explaining this topic to Kita is like explaining gravity to a chicken. Good luck
Types like her need to see pictures with bright colors in order to get it.
That's funny lol
😂😂😂
People forget the great financial liability that the step father picks up. Then the man has no authority over the child. I had a woman tell me no one should say anything to her children. I said to myself I won't marry you and I'm sure she saw it on my face without me saying it.
Great point! It's amazing the amount of women that I see requesting six figure earners are single mothers. I understand the need for provision, but there are good men (with and without kids) that get looked over by these women because they don't make enough to compensate for the financial liability that comes with single moms.
I understand your statement. But any woman who has a problem with a man saying something to her children, is not the woman to marry. ALL single mothers are not that level of stupid...
That’s wild it’s expected to pay for the kid but can’t discipline them
I don’t know why this mess is being put on there. No one is looking for anyone to take care of their kids. Especially if that woman has one child and is good financially on her own. Yall act like the only women with children are broke
Because most women, childless or not are broke. But keep acting like that's the issue and not the fact nobody wants to come second to another person's kids. Childless women have that same energy for single fathers
Dog in the coogi sweater is making sense
I’m almost 40, just had my first child at 38 and unfortunately it wasn’t planned, but my first mistake was dealing with a woman with children already in the first place. Love my boy though 💯
Buuuuuulllshiiid!!!! Will not marry or entertain single baby mamas!!!!! NOPE - BEEN THERE DONE THAT, A FEW TIME!!!!!! God bless that child - But no!!!!
Me too bruh and once I started reading and listening to men I never met tell my exact same experience I was like never again
25.
Never dated a woman with children and never will 😂
@Jedilord882 Don't!! You'll be spending ur hard earn money, raising another man's child when you could do that for your own!!!
@@jayburns94facts
Ain't no single mother allowed in my home I'm going to tell you that right now
@@demond1818 recreational use only:-)
I’m trying to find the person that is actually forcing you all to do this. Who is this person and where are they and are they standing on the flagpole? Are they making billboards of telling you men what to do? Tf
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@@HamTeddy26 do you not understand a single mother has been bred has been mated with from a different man who impregnated her are you not able to comprehend this it is not another man's job to pay for that child whatsoever
@@tonydiesel3444ok cool. Don't date her or sleep with her or take advantage of her. Just leave single mothers alone.
Imagine getting the statics and still say it's on the men😂 so the 70% of women having kids with 30%of the men it's the 70%of men without kids fault 😂
You cant make this ish up in my Kevin Samuels voice
Those dudes sound insane. Be good men to your own children.
Women will not take responsibility for their bad decisions in men.
Then they will continue to create Passport bros. They dont wanna change good. Works for the rest if us men
I get it but i hate when yall just pinn it all on the man, like how you know the woman was the one that wasn't shit and the men pick the wrong woman ?
They are the ones taking responsibility when they are raising the child. What’s up with these low IQ people commenting.
@@bryantwilson5761he needs to take his time getting to know her instead of rushing for the sex...that's the only way to properly vet...
@@misskeah8893Women need to do the same. However, men basically put it this way. After a certain time if you don't put out, they no longer want to talk to you. So, no one can get the proper time to get to know one another.
The point that keeps getting missed here is that 10 single moms share the same 1 Dad lol...thats the whole point when Anton is saying most Black men dont have children out of wedlock. And women hold access to sex. You dont have to have a baby if you dont want to. ITS ON YOU
I’m done advising women on this which is why they cling to abortion. We need to help men avoid impregnating these toxic females
🎯 There really is a disconnect, because she was still saying the same thing at the end of the clip & the guy in black was agreeing too. Smh
Stop blaming women for not wanting unattractive men and men they do not love. If you want a women to settle for you based on what you can give her say that.
This keeps getting said and it just goes in one ear and out the other. It's like they have a hearing block on those specific sequence of words
Agreed...seems like the common denominator is that 1 irresponsible male... stop creating the pandemic
I get all points but in TODAYS market, if you are a man with 0 kids and your business is in order, I would not deal with a single mother with small kids. I think small kids is a key point. I’ve met a few females looking to actually blend families bc consciously they know that route may turn out more successful leading to a marriage. I raised somebody child from 3yo until he was 23 when I got a divorce, paid his medical insurance until he was 26. They both are basically non existent in my life today. Twenty years lost. It’s very important for MEN and WOMEN to choose wisely and not bc you want some pay or dck for the night. In reality, that’s where most kids come from.
Anton right, there's NO ACCOUNTABILITY for women's bad choices.....we all have been seeing single moms being celebrated past 10-15 years strong w baby showers, most time no father in the picture, or in a new relationship w a new born being sexual again.....
I'm 42, and yes the chances of me running into women that have a kid or more is highly probable and finding women in their 30s - 40s without kids are very slim. If I were really interested in dating at this time in my life I'm not dating or getting involved w/women that have kids.
Like why? Where's the benefit of any single childless male getting involved with a single mother that more than likely has at least 2+kids w/multiple men? In most situations it's nothing but chaos. Just like these dudes who run around and create 2-3+kids w/multiple women these same women that choose to lay down with these guys deserve to be criticized for the choices they make as well.
Great point but like you said there is a slim chance of finding us women who do not have children. Best of luck on your quest.
@@listeningviayoutube7229 but I never said I was dating or actively looking for anyone...
As long as baby mamas succeed in finding simps to save them, they're going to keep expecting it and doing it. It's not going to be fun for a whole generation or two of men, but we have to break the baby mama culture. MGTOW is probably the way to do it.
@listeningviayoutube7229 that's why I have that passport 😊. The great equalizer.
Why is this always the example. I’m previously married have one child and can take care of myself and my children just fine. My child fathers is in her life and I have no drama he’s moved on with dating as well. Why do men always give the most rachet examples
These Brothas are soooo lost! Her body, her choice! Never a discussion about the woman. Where are all of these successful, flourishing Step Dad statistics and overwhelmingly successful adopted kids. Most one time single moms, eventually, end up being a 2 or 3 or 4 time single mom. Just give it some time. The best way to not be 2x2, 3x3, or 4x4, is to stay with the 1st father. Choose as if your life depends on it, because it does.
There are a bunch of successful step dad stories. I can use my brother. We have different biological fathers. But my pops raised him his whole life. And now my brother is a retired navy officer, has PHD, and a successful marriage with two children. And that’s just one success story that I can name but have plenty more.
@@Quatin-mg9lv Thx for sharing and I'm happy for the success of your brother, but the reference is for the father or in this case, step father. Still happily married to your mother? Also, how was he treated and respected by your brother, as well as, compromises that he subjugated himself to in dealing with your brother's biological father? To be frank, this conversation would be best had with your Brother and your Father. Some things are just man business as is also the case with women. So as a sister, you'd definitely not have the full picture of any tension or male competitiveness between those three, (son, father, step father) growing up. But I appreciate your sisterly perspective.
I’m pretty sure her father comes from a different generation and era of time, where a single mother was more appreciative of whatever the stepfather did.
They also ensured that the child respected the stepfather.
Now many women today and single mothers are more entitled and brainwashed by society and SM.
Dude a lion will kill the cubs if they are not his, talking stupid.
Amazing how they immediately attacked Anton for telling the truth about women’s *CHOICES.* Men automatically by default defend the women who made BAD CHOICES instead of putting the women on the spot for CHOOSING BADLY.
Life’s too short to be with a woman who’s forever ♾️ tied to another man
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What if the man is deceased? Does that make a difference? Life can end at any moment for any of us.
Life's too short to be tied to a man who has another woman (baby momma).
Baby mommas are not wives.
Rico and the next to him have "second class" thinking. Since they are experiencing what Anton is against. They are trying to rationalize/justify the behavior that doesn't work.
The baby-mama can still date or marry a single childless man. They just have to be more understanding, fit, friendly and feminine.
Rico a step dad himself I think
@@providencefirm2988Exactly! They need to work harder to compete with the childless women otherwise the men dont have any reason to pick them.
Anton did an excellent job
@@demond1818 Either they need help financially or a place to stay. Also, they have no options. I believe men that mess with baby mamas have no options or confidence.
A woman with a house full of kids really think they have better options than a man without any… let that sink in 🎉🎉
The woman in the "New York" jacket was holding back a UNIVERSE of RAGE wanting to attack Anton. I could feel the HEAT from that glare all the way here in Brooklyn!
There are way more single mothers in the black community than single father's. That chick in the blue jeans thought she was being clever by claiming that for every single mother out there, the father of that child is a single father.
I don't know why this chick thinks that a non custodial baby daddy would be lumped in as a SINGLE FATHER which implies him having PRIMARY CUSTODY. If the woman is a single mother, the baby daddy who is barely around or not around at all isn't a single father. Duh!
She knows but, she has to stay on code, Anton nothing in life has changed and she said we are still slaves? she knew what he was talking about and went to a high schoolers thought process
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Just explained that shit to my wife! The nerve,.. they are baby daddies, not FATHERS!
This topic is getting old lol
If men and women worry more about being/becoming good, honorable individuals, we wouldn’t have these useless discussions/attacks on each other. Pay attentions to ppls actions instead of what they say.
@@jessicajohnson8339 Absolutely! It is getting old. The reason the red pill space exists is to counter the talking points of radical feminism and other woke ideology. Women should be just as accountable for being single mothers the same way men are accountable for being dusty dads. Yes I agree with you, be better humans and make sound, rational and informed decisions. 👍👍
I'm like anton I'm not doing it. These are not widows or divorces. These are chicks that got pregnant by random dudes. And now they want somebody to clean up their mess
Even divorcees. They pressed eject on their marriage. They are single mothers because they don't want the kids Dad to be in charge.. they want men under their rules and regime
Divorcees are almost as bad as the baby mamas. The only people that get any grace from me are the widows.
Divorcees are just as bad if not more devious. They are like Tia Mowry... Or they have been abused and/or mentally scarred.
Even the divorces are messy and sometimes messier.
I’m so glad Anton is a voice of logic and reasoning inside these rooms…a lot of these young influencers banter is simply bad advice and anecdotal experiences that perpetuates destructive behavior and keeps us toxic and delusional
Don't do it! If you're a single man, start your own family. Do not get with a single mom. Spend all your resources on caring and raising your own. These women have to learn to choose better men, and stay with him. That's all
Simps will always simp.....stay strong kings
This is wild, 😱😳 Look at what this dude is saying, man... 😭😭😭 I can't believe this... Is he serious about what he's saying? His verbiage is of a sassy bitter woman, I'm sorry... 🤦🏾🤦🏾😫 And the young lady with the jacket is only listening to respond, she could care less about listening to Anton. The tall fella, "I've always been big, I'm 6'5 😂😂😂." C'mon dude let our brains be big, our thoughts not statue... 🥴 AD, I respect you to the fullest. You my friend are taking on all of them and you're holding your own... 💪🏾
Rico? Yeah, he emotionally moves like a woman and tried to get AD off his frame. And failed. But it's men like Rico that keep women's bad behavior held aloft on high.
I’ve always been big 😂😂😂😂 his big Dumb Ass 😂😂😂😂
Bruh!!!!!! U the truth...you called everything I saw he talking like he just read t.i dictionary and the tall dude like u said "did he really say iam 6'5" like omg bruh 🤦♂️
This aint even fair for Anton. Man makes the whole panel look special🤦💯🥶. Anton definitely underappreciated💯
Glad Anton was apart of this important conversation. Dude in the black was a pandering simp and other dude seems lost in the sauce. Nice to have a real brother living in reality and speaking true, honest facts.
A lot of these dudes who Cap for single mothers They see their Mothers which is weird why do you see every female you come across as your mom.Bro analyze the situation for what it is take your feelings out and make the best decisions for you.
Facts 🤣🤷🏾♂️
That's a fact. And they argue emotionally because of it.
Because they feel bad for them
She cant do math at all. And she thought she made a point saying for every single mother there is a single father, not realizing most those dudes have multiple baby mamas.
Her coping skill is OUT OF CONTROL. That DUMBASS LOOK she had thinking she scored a point was laughable..
Exactly, black people really think it's a 1 to 1, roughly 54% black men single and childless compared to 39% of black women and any 37%, single with children. All rough estimates. Now, when you look at that, it should be black men saying where are the good women.
I see pander-bears 😂
Why are majority of Us so opposed to holding women accountable. It’s like let’s not do that. Let’s not go there. Nah. Terrible! 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
When are we going to start holding bm accountable to learn how to be husband and what is means. I grew up in two parent household. It takes two. Both are accountable. I saw a role of a wife and husband. That's the problem in black community. We don't teach men to be husband and women to be wives. I can tell u didn't grow up in two. People who grew up in two homes. Know both are responsible
Keisha only wants Pookie.
Good Men get Used.
That's the truth.
They dont want Good Men.
They dont like Good Men.
They dont appreciate Good Men.
They only use Good Men.
She's only with a Good Man because its out of convenience for her situation.
Pookie dont wanna act right so now she picks Good Man to do all the work. That's bs.
Good Men are not made to be the Clean Up Men.
Why would any man be happy to take care of someone else's kids. Why would any man be happy knowing his girl is settling for him. They are supposed to be together and the whole time she's thinking about somebody else's, only because your Mr. Reliable, is why she sticks around.
Women file divorce the most because they were married to men they didn't really want.
Thank you. Shit like this will get looked over. Keep spreading the message as best you can
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Comment of the year by far. The realest shit ever.
I was born in DC, 1980 to be exact, Being the first child and grandchild. I was the second parent to my siblings and cousins. I never had kids and never married. I went to military school, when I got out in 97, everybody had kids. The dating pool has been full of single parents since the 90’s. It’s been rough out here for me. I don’t want a pre cooked family.
I definitely empathize with you as a man with no kids and now 40. Although I have that same desire, it can be disheartening to know that if I date/marry someone in my age range, there is a high probability that they will have not only kids, but potentially grandkids as well.
@@imperialrf4058 The majority of my peers are grandmothers. I simply can’t relate. When I turned 18, my mom had another child, then adopted again 4 years later. She passed away when they were teens so of course, I had to continue to raise them! I’ve done enough parenting. I love my peace
Majority of my friends don’t have kids. Some married and don’t have kids. It’s just depends on where you look and date
@meek_toatee2118 sad. All respect though and agree with your comment on dating pool the last 30 years. Just hook up, booty calls, and herpes.
@@meek_toatee2118But as a woman, the dynamics of you getting with a man with kids is much better than a man getting with a woman with kids. Single father households do much better than single mother households. Don’t allow the fact that a man already has a child deter you from considering him as a potential partner especially if he is responsible and takes care of business. I’m afraid at your age, it is your best bet and single childless men would want a younger woman.
Im not raising no other mans kids.
🗣Boycott single mother's, hold single mother's accountable!
Both sides need to be held accountablen
I’m 34 & do not have children. I will not ever be with a baby mama. Sorry, not doing that
0:35 yup you can tell he was raised by a single mother he’s still hurt that his father wasn’t there that’s the only reason why he’s saying this. Y’all are trippin playing on another man’s save raising his kids is crazy lol 😂
When in history or in any society, has single mothers been mid to top pickings for single men with no kids?
Thousands of years of natural families that birthed great citizens who fought tyranny, established laws, institutions and great endeavours... Now we have clowns pushing blended families and co parenting and endless holidays
There’s plenty of women without kids. Plenty. In any age bracket.
😂 Anton "that's crazy " 🤣
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I caught that too. 😂😂😂
Why single mothers and Fathers just don't date one another, why single BM looking for men that doesn't have kids.
They want Pookie genes and father bills and responsibilities. Double mating strategy.
They would if single men stop using the for recreational purposes which is sick my the way. Single men target women with children
@@beautifulsoul6535stop being a victim.
@@beautifulsoul6535 That literally means they have not learn to stop opening their legs to the wrong men
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@@zxcccccc1Victim blaming instead of calling out the predator...yeah that'll solve the problem 🙄
That girl sitting next to Anton can’t stand him lmfao, them facts hitting home!
Facts 😊
Everybody on the stage outside of Anton are probably stepparents. That’s why they tripping
“you can’t make this shit up” -Kevin Samuels
Single mothers have zero upside.
Yes they do. Free food.
Stay away from single mothers to avoid any drama and financial loss. Who needs that headache and disrespect. There are plenty of women to choose from that are willing to build a future.
Financial lost y’all are funny every single mom is not broke
@@beautifulsoul6535 stay over there, loser. We don't bother with your ilk. No matter how much you chirp.
Why does she always start overtalking men while their making their point????
The guy with the Dreads started getting emotional lol. He made absolutely no sense. He 100% proved Anton right, he said he had a stepfather but the stepfather pretty much wasn't his father figure. He was a good man but he didn't give him that credit as a father figure!!! It's levels, you just won't get the recognition that you should no matter how great you are to another person's kids.
It's incredible that in the internet age there's still people walking around that dont know basic facts about who is responsible for single moms.
🎵you let him hit it raw🎶🎶
Dudes be cloaking simping like crazy these days. Being over 6 foot doesn't ensure you not simping!
Every large extended family of 20-40 men has 3-5 men with hella children with different women who the men never intended to stay with. I see this in my extended family as well as others...The women that had these children didn't have a strong father or man in the family to steer her right and vet the men she chose to let smash...
I have a friend who has gotten 3 abortions w/ 2 living dog 2 different bd. Had an excellent father figure keep picking the wrong dude. What would you say her issue is??
@@Butterflies515 its culturally acceptable and imprinted into the culture now. It’s almost like a badge of honor. In before times the father had a huge influence on the daughters mate.
What you're calling an "extended family" is, sorry to say, just black American dysfunction. If you want to see a real extended family, go to some other nations that have hammered out exactly who in the family group _is allowed to have children,_ and who will raise those children. For instance, in the ancient Hawaiian family, it was the grandparents' role to raise the children. The parents learned from the grandparents, then when they became grandparents, they had the knowledge to raise their own grandchildren. In other cultures, aunts and uncles have _specific_ roles in raising children. They don't have so-called "extended families" of people having babies willy-nilly. Everyone has a specific role in raising the children, and their community holds them accountable to that role.
What's funny about what she said at the end is when you see a single mother, that automatically means that there's a single father around for that child..... it's funny to hear her not mention deadbeat fathers but rather credit that all fathersare active just as much as the mothers because a child exists to fit her narrative 😂😂😂 ol girl is bat sh*t crazy and you can tell that she never just stop.
Anton you are absolutely right. Props for standing 10 toes down even when they didn’t see it your way.
You can tell how their feelings get so involved when we're talking logic and right and wrong they quickly throw their feelings into it
Male lions don’t raise another male lion cubs they kill them.
Right lol...I was like folk always using animal kingdom analogies WRONG. The lion that takes over a pride, kills all the cubs that don't belong to him. That immediately makes the female lions go back into heat, so he can then impregnate them so the pride will have his bloodline.
Sounds like men need to educate the importance of community and taking care of their own pride instead of creating multiple single mother households
@@misskeah8893most men don’t create single mother households. How are men creating single mother households but the women aren’t
Why are you comparing yourself to an animal 😂😂😂 smh
@@sewblue187we apart of the animal kingdom genius
Anton stand on his square the other two are panda bears 🤣 🤣 🤣
The bad behavior is bringing a child into this world without being married.
Say it louder to the folks in the back!!!
A step dad just puts himself in a position to be used then the mother may still be screwing around with the baby daddy.
Dear Men, when you date a single mother you are implicating yourself in her divorce/breakup. Remember, women are like music execs, they don't adjust bad deals, they merely search for the next victim to sign it! So ask yourself, why is this position vacant????
So only Anton isn't pandering and apologizing to women for wrecking their own lives?
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