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  • @the._.elemental90999
    @the._.elemental90999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    My mom was a neurotypical and my father was a diagnosed psychopath. When people hear this, they assume I hate my father and they think he's abusive but I hate my mom because she's the one that left after years of being cruel to me. My father was the one who stayed and fought his disorder to be a good parent to me. Don't judge someone based on what is wrong with them, judge someone based on what they do about it.

    • @purityebere4081
      @purityebere4081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I can totally relate ❤

    • @LightYagami-iv2vo
      @LightYagami-iv2vo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I am so sorry you had to go through this 😔 stay strong. Wishing you all luck and support

    • @Charlie-yq8hu
      @Charlie-yq8hu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My father had antisocial behavural syndrome (sociopathy)
      I hope youre happy niw

    • @nayla4838
      @nayla4838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's really brave of your Dad 😭💗

    • @TheOfficialDirtyDan
      @TheOfficialDirtyDan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Props to your dad for trying to stop, I hope you and him are okay. 💕

  • @nbhd_deadpoet
    @nbhd_deadpoet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    i started sobbing when dean and mary came up but when BOBBY came up, I died

  • @chansprotector
    @chansprotector 3 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    i rarely see damon here so thank you for putting him in. he was an abused child as well and that is not shown enough.

  • @rhx_ary
    @rhx_ary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Dean's 'I never was' always hurts

  • @sophianash6097
    @sophianash6097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I'm so glad someone finally put Mickey Milkovich in one of these edits. The Gallaghers are always in them but never Mickey and idek why

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      yep he deserved a happy life/family.

  • @FatherlessDog
    @FatherlessDog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child

  • @ArizonaAngelEyes
    @ArizonaAngelEyes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Damn it! I thought I could watch this without crying but then it opened up with Dean and Mary...

    • @oliviavance5154
      @oliviavance5154 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what episode was that

  • @alex-vl3bg
    @alex-vl3bg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Dean and Bobby both made me cry....

  • @tararosx
    @tararosx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I wish my dad would've left instead of putting me and my siblings through hell... with my mom

    • @Flowerrr101
      @Flowerrr101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same. If only he wasn't in our lives, we would have ended up like normal beings instead of dysfunctional, emotional, broken human beings with anger issues.

    • @loverofalondonboy9146
      @loverofalondonboy9146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too

    • @zoi9237
      @zoi9237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same :(

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that.I hope you are doing well now. Plz be safe and stay strong.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that.I hope you are doing well now. Plz be safe and stay strong.

  • @hayleesmith6724
    @hayleesmith6724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Dean…Where do I start? He wanted a normal life…But he had to be a Father, A Mother, to keep Sammy safe…And Bobby, man Bobby…He was the best father to Sam and Dean when he didn’t have a good father himself

    • @oliviavance5154
      @oliviavance5154 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what episode was it dean and mary in this video

  • @ItsurfavArrow
    @ItsurfavArrow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    My mom emotionally and mentally abuses me and my sister to the point where I almost killed myself after my brother did. Sometimes present parents are worse than absent ones

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you are doing well now. Stay Strong

    • @nursemercy5676
      @nursemercy5676 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True.....true.....my mom is so manipulative. She bullies me with her words to the point that I'm crying. I try so hard to get her approval and listen to her despite having my own opinions to the point that I don't even know how to file my own taxes without fearing her disapproval.
      I've tried so hard to try to make our mother daughter relationship work so history won't repeat itself with her and my grandma, but I can't do it anymore. After a while, you just stop caring what they think

  • @maria-um4uq
    @maria-um4uq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    DEAN WINCHESTER

  • @astroodante
    @astroodante 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i've never seen bobby in one of these, thank you. spn characters have so much trauma it's- overwhelming

  • @shreyagnadig7759
    @shreyagnadig7759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I just dont hate mary for joining the men of letters, i dont like her because she remembered the deal with Azazel and yet had two childern

  • @adriennemcdonnell9354
    @adriennemcdonnell9354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I was so confident I could get through this without crying, but my bby Arthur came on and I couldn’t keep it together

  • @masonjarr6369
    @masonjarr6369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    My baby Damon🥺

  • @girlartist1105
    @girlartist1105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    the description is almost as long as i would cry after my "parents" neglected and abused me

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      i hope you are doing well now. plz be safe and stay strong.

  • @seanperks2702
    @seanperks2702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The older i get the more i realise how fucked my childhood really was. Toxic atmospheres, getting blamed for my parents arguing, getting pinned down or dragged by the back of my neck (granted i was a little shit) the constant "im such a bad mother" comments to this day.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you are doing well now. plz be safe and stay strong.

    • @seanperks2702
      @seanperks2702 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fangirlackles i can't say im doing well or that im better but im slowly processing it

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@seanperks2702 I hope everything goes well for you and u heal fast and be happy :)

  • @ImAdamSandler
    @ImAdamSandler 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Dean came up and I was like there’s probably a high chance I’m not gonna make it though this with out crying but then.... Bobby and I was just like oh now there’s not way! AND THEN THE JOKER!! 🥲ahh

  • @nataliawashington872
    @nataliawashington872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Bonnie’s Mom from The Vampire Diaries should be here, I’m still watching the show and honestly it feels like she doesn’t even want to try and establish a relationship between herself and Bonnie and just runs like a coward

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep, he deserved so much better

  • @Tk-qg4xc
    @Tk-qg4xc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Promise that we will better then our parents.

  • @edselflores9596
    @edselflores9596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    A year later and still underrated

  • @momo7337
    @momo7337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "no more manipulation"

  • @nellabozhko6941
    @nellabozhko6941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some kids are better off in the system than in an abusive home.

  • @alfr9752
    @alfr9752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My dad made so many memories then left with no explanation💔

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that, Stay strong

  • @JuanRodriguez-qw9bd
    @JuanRodriguez-qw9bd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This makes me breakdown in tears cause it reminds me of my father

  • @sheyannegorrill7768
    @sheyannegorrill7768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My mom always blames me for everything and all I want to do is leave and never come back

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you are doing well. be safe.

  • @batmenn
    @batmenn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I have reason to believe that my mom is toxic ..
    1): Always somehow putting the blame of everything on me. Her phone broke? Oh, I did it. She’s having a bad day? My bad, I’ll try to ask god to make it better. Her makeup ran out? My apologies!
    2): Yelling at me for no reason. (This is similar to the first one)
    3): Treating me like a therapist.
    4): Acting like I am invisible.
    5): Randomly saying that she’s disappointed in me. But when they’re not random it’s always for a stupid reason; You didn’t share your food? I am very disappointed with you. You didn’t go on your walk today, I am so disappointed in you.
    6): Always calling me a jerk, or bitch, because I don’t want her to sleep on me. Let me say that again, she’s always calling me a jerk, or bitch, because I don’t want her, to sleep on me.
    7): Blaming me for financial problems.
    8): Asking why I don’t love her anymore because I said I didn’t want to sit by her, for one night.
    9): She gave me trust issues, a fear of social interaction, a fear of being vulnerable, and a fear of small, enclosed spaces.
    10): She makes me cry. A lot.
    11): All her “I love you”’s don’t sound real or are only said in front of her friends.
    12): She always picks me up 1 hour after school ends because I “need practice with my patience”.
    13): She didn’t do anything about stepdad and his random urges to insult, threaten to hit, and yell at me and me only.
    14): She scares me.
    15:) I want to live at my father’s house, permanently, but I’m too afraid of telling him about my mother and stepdad, so I have to come back to her house every other week.
    16): She has never said “I am so proud of you”, or “You are so beautiful”, or “I will always be with you, no matter what, and no matter who you grow to be”.

    • @heavensent146
      @heavensent146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      felt that , you're not alone

    • @BellA-gu7zd
      @BellA-gu7zd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel that. The only thing is that even tho I should hate them for it I can't because then I have no where to go or I just feel like I am being a little bitch. I tried to kill myself and the most fucked up thing was that they blamed me for everything thing and told me I was being ungrateful...

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      i hope you are doing well now. plz be safe and stay strong.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      i'm sorry to hear that. plz be safe and take care of yourself.

  • @bree546
    @bree546 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am so glad that they all left mom dad and left me behind to survive on my own😭

  • @parishenry2570
    @parishenry2570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My mom treats my sister better than me, and do all kind of stuff which she calls parenting, but I swear that when I get older I'm going to therapy I'm not staying in this so called family no matter what

    • @nellabozhko6941
      @nellabozhko6941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's not parenting. That's favoritism. It's not right to do that to a kid.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      i hope you are doing well now. plz be safe and stay strong.

  • @rebekafatovic4666
    @rebekafatovic4666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my dad left me when i wasn't even born and im 17 years old and i feel empty and shallow like i was a burden but im trying too live without him but i sorrow my pain in alcohol cus i can't stand pain

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      Stay strong. plz be careful and take care of yourself

  • @aysi6889
    @aysi6889 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The saddest part is that I got them I understood what's characters have been throw cuz I'm like them

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you are doing well now. Stay Strong

  • @prabhjotkaurxoxo
    @prabhjotkaurxoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    My mom just told me that I am dead to her and she’s never trusting me ever and the fact that she believed some random girl over me hurts I love my mom I do but this hurts a lot like a lot and they all lost me the day they said these awful things to me

    • @shizuka6900
      @shizuka6900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey prabh... Stay strong 🤗 everything'll be ok

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry to hear that.I hope you are doing well now. Plz be safe and stay strong.

    • @prabhjotkaurxoxo
      @prabhjotkaurxoxo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fangirlackles 💗💗

  • @mkworld9172
    @mkworld9172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Alice Cooper wasn’t a bad parent she was just overly protective of Betty.

  • @kpop_lover7665
    @kpop_lover7665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mom, I always loved you, and I always will, but each night when I go to bed, I wish I never become just like you in anything… Each time we call, you make me cry, but I still love you because you’re my mom. I still love you even though you were never sympathetic to me. I feel sorry for myself, for my heart, for my childhood, for my peace, and the freedom I could have had. I just wish you could leave me alone rather than controlling me and giving me responsibilities that are much higher than a normal expectation… I wish you weren’t a narcissist at least after my father passed away… I always felt helpless, and I was parenting you all the time…I don’t know when I’ll get free from the traumas or even the things you are doing to me now…what hurts the most is that you’ll never understand…and I can never send this to you.

  • @shambhavimishra4503
    @shambhavimishra4503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    mention the shows, please

  • @my_girl_seraphine5294
    @my_girl_seraphine5294 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I grew up in a house as a disabled child with a alcoholic mother who wanted a daughter but she never ever wanted a disabled one. And I look just like my dad so that invited sexual and verbal abuse from her. My dad was an alcoholic too but he at least treated me like I was a real person, and when he left I wish he took me with him.

  • @emelyumanzorrodriguez6487
    @emelyumanzorrodriguez6487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My mom abused me in all the types of abuse that exists and my dad neglected me for 11 years… I’m 13

    • @stevenattwood61
      @stevenattwood61 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay strong 1 day all will be brighter

    • @samarasilva1749
      @samarasilva1749 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sinto muito Emily.forçar garota . SAMARA , Brasil.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you are doing well now. Stay Strong

  • @rachelburdick2078
    @rachelburdick2078 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was never good enough for my dad he always made me feel not good enough well he loved my sister all the time and my mom never stood by me

  • @artgirl1339
    @artgirl1339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Came here for dean

  • @borntovlog6804
    @borntovlog6804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When i was 2 years my father just dumpbed me and lefttt me..... I just hate dads......

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry to hear that. Stay safe

  • @hedi6309
    @hedi6309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can somebody please say these films?
    I really need to see them and cry

    • @strange........
      @strange........ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The ones I know are, The Vampire Diaries, Supernatural, Lucifer, Riverdale, Shameless, Prison Break, Peaky Blinders and Animal Kingdom.

  • @Anastasia-ro3oi
    @Anastasia-ro3oi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have too much to even right I'm 12 and I've gone through so much I'm so tired

  • @marcelleninakwa7007
    @marcelleninakwa7007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where is Klaus in this edit 🤔

    • @strange........
      @strange........ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Klaus Mikealson or Klaus Hargreeves because I think that they should both be in this.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/rc20L1JVUGE/w-d-xo.html here :)

  • @rent5729
    @rent5729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    (Spoilers for Billy’s story)
    Honestly remembering billy breaks my heart. He was a jerk in the show, but he had a reason. His father fed this stuff into his brain and treated him like absolute shit, of coarse he ended up like that. He deserved so much better. Killing him off made me so mad. The poor guy didn’t get a chance at a normal life and just- died.

  • @levid.2592
    @levid.2592 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why isn't Sarah from "My Sister's Keeper." On here?

  • @250vidhyagaonkar7
    @250vidhyagaonkar7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey i don't know how to react after watching this becoz my parents are worse then this they never ever thought about me i was always cornered. My parents doesn't like me talking to boys secondly they are so strict that they don't give freedom even my phone comes busy while i m talking to my friends they are asking me y your phone is busy i don't know when ill go far from them sometimes it feels like i should leave and run away from house but at that time even if i run they will find me and kill me my father is a complete psycho he doesn't understand only us ....

  • @chitrashukla06
    @chitrashukla06 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Names of the dramas plz??

  • @OnlyAlyna
    @OnlyAlyna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Song?

  • @yaliehaclayvon7480
    @yaliehaclayvon7480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What names are some of these shows they shouldn’t have to go through that 😥😭😢😥😭😢😥😭😢😞🙁☹️😩🥺😟😔😣

    • @strange........
      @strange........ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you asking for the names of the shows or did I misunderstand your comment?

  • @lea_jl
    @lea_jl ปีที่แล้ว

    What series at 4:53 ? I really wanna know

  • @advitiyasingh6573
    @advitiyasingh6573 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the name of movie/webseries at 01:00 ?

  • @chitrashukla06
    @chitrashukla06 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:57 which show ??

  • @مطبخرهف-ض7ب
    @مطبخرهف-ض7ب 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the music name

  • @ninagreen8228
    @ninagreen8228 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    abusive children grow up being broken adult and hurt people and some time abusive their kids

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  ปีที่แล้ว

      Our past will affect our future sometimes in a good way and sometimes...

  • @satanic_aries
    @satanic_aries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i wish i knew what movie or show was the one at 2:53

    • @elizagonzalez75
      @elizagonzalez75 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Someone let us know pleaseeee

    • @daisysegura4321
      @daisysegura4321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stranger things

    • @ashleyk7165
      @ashleyk7165 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elizagonzalez75 stranger things

    • @lea_jl
      @lea_jl ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@elizagonzalez75 its billy from stranger things

  • @rukentoprak8361
    @rukentoprak8361 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What drama is the scene in 4.08

  • @projectdarktrooper2721
    @projectdarktrooper2721 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    3:44 what movie or show is this.

  • @cameronelizabeth7665
    @cameronelizabeth7665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jesus loves u!

  • @jinxxx_03
    @jinxxx_03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Song???

    • @strange........
      @strange........ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The song name is at the bottom of the description if you haven't found it already.