the beauty of an ordinary life - social media and simple living
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Today I wanted to share some of my experiences and feelings in regards to social media, and the benefits and challenges associated with it.
I also wanted to share why I only share certain aspects of my life, and how important privacy is for me, especially when it comes to my relationships. This channel will always be an artistic haven of light and peace, seen through a creative lens that seeks to highlight the picturesque and beauty of the ordinary and everyday.
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I got rid of my Social Media (except TH-cam) months ago and I have never been more creative and happy. The best decision I have ever made. 💕
@@oneill765 but you don’t need to worry about how many likes or follows you get, you can just relax while watching whatever you like.
Same here 🙋♀️
Me too. TH-cam is the only thing I kept. I’m very happy!!
I have only had email, Pinterest and TH-cam. Email feels more essential but less fun and creative. I enjoy TH-cam and Pinterest! Don’t think I’ll ever really join other social media. I made it this far in life without it.
I only keep Facebook for games and the messenger for my grand daughters to chat with me. It is such a relief not to read all of the negative and bickering going on back and forth over everything. I love TH-cam and my TV gets turned on once a month or less...Brightest blessings.
Me: *wants to get into Politics, Travel, Change the World, know about everything*
Also me: *wants to live alone in the woods*
You'll succeed with learning about many things and living in the woods if you build your small library 💚
oh that's me as well...hope it happens asap
Samee
@@Aliena92 yes however when it comes to learning about STEM we need to have a working computer & an internet connection, as it evolves so quickly... =/
@@mke_gal live in the woods AND have internet?? :D
I don't wish anything from my birthday. I just want the people reading this to be happy because everyone deserves a happy life. You're maybe at worst situation now but i believe you'll overcome it soon! Keep spreading love ❤️💕
Happy belated birthday~ thank you for that wish and i wish the same for you and everyone else too 💛
Thank you so much ,enjoy your birthday ,happy birthday ♥️♥️♥️
Amenn🙏
Happy belated birthday.. I wish u can get everything u wanted
Belated happy birthday ❤
Being teenager and got rid of social media.(not TH-cam) it.s. the best decision I ever take..
Now I Iam more happy and more relax..
Every teenager need to do that..
i wanna do this sm but im finding so many inspirations on tiktok, discovering new bands, movies, books and outfit ideas...
@@frytkaprostozmcdonalda8732 Id be a hypocrite because this is exactly why I don’t want to delete most social media, but you can find all of that information on just TH-cam alone too!
@@frytkaprostozmcdonalda8732 yeah icl just inspire yourself elsewhere, libraries etc
@@frytkaprostozmcdonalda8732 It’s time for you to create now not just look at creations
Hi pbhr. Do you feel really happier? I am thinking about doing again. I realize that at nighttime I lay on the sofa and scrolling the screen for 2hours..🫠
When my mom said that it's because of phone and social media .
She was 100% right .
I feel a LOT better since deleting tiktok
aag lago tya phone la
@@steffthesensitive4697 OMG SAMEEEE but sometimes I download it again because it's so addictive. I've deleted it once again and hopefully I can keep going
@@steffthesensitive4697 same ☺️
is ur mom asian?
Let's avoid the concept of hustle culture and competitive environment and just simply be kind and love our life. When we love life we don't hurt anybody. Peace shines throughout the world. Oh my that's beautiful 🥰
I support this entirely
A beautiful imagination, hoping it turns to reality for everyone who craves it
Yes yes
im for what u said!! hustle for what anyways, things get even more & more difficult and expensive for the current gen
Only possible in first world countries tho.
ever since i had an extremely terrible mental health episode that lasted around 7-8 months, i realized that i need to have a life style change. I’m only 17 and still go to a small town high school but i’ve started to get off social media more, embrace the beauty of actual life, go outside more, do whatever i wanted quietly, and just live in my own peace and try to heal. This video was so inspiring to watch. thank you ❤
Same. Love to you ❤
im 17 too and i relate
What caused to have that crisis
17 too and literally same, much love to you and the other teens who relate, in this rapidly growing age of social media and just this knack for over-consuming in general (phone/apps usage, fast fashion, & trends) it is so difficult for us to really connect with ourselves and align with a life that feels true to us. Sending you and the rest of us so much peace and love on our journey, our future selfs will thank us immensely❤
@@niaxox0 you're so sweet
I deleted my social media except TH-cam just recently after being on IG and Facebook for 10-15 years! I’m so proud of myself because I forgot what life was like before those platforms but still had the strong intuition that my life is much better without them. 😊
The narcissism is disgusting. Caught myself doing it as well 5-6 years ago and wiped the internet of my presence except for youtube. WAY better for my mental health, also I enjoy my privacy.
Well done
Same, I also deleted my social media expect TH-cam and trust me now I live so much peaceful and happy life 💗🤍
Dou you like planting? Where are you from?
@@miyaelsewhere are farm girl ma'am?
I feel so obligated to take pictures, when I put my phone away I worry I’m missing capturing a moment and memory. I realized because of social media I feel anxious truly living life. I think many gen z people can relate to this POV.
Same, I used to get this way too. But then I thought to myself, how often do I rewatch those concert videos I took? The answer is literally never. Unless it’s a picture of my mum, someone else I love, or a really special place, I don’t think there’s any need. I can just take one picture then actually enjoy where I am. The more you do that, the brighter the memory will be in your mind- and I think that’s more special than loads of photos at times💗
@@shen8171 that’s so true, I will try to implement this!
@@juhikotwani3457 good luck 🥰
@@shen8171 Agree! I now started to implement this a lot in my life. Just shoot a 10 second max long vid to remind me about that day or place and then put my phone away and enjoy the moment, only that way would that picture or short vid be a beautiful memory. I'm also trying to save up for a good camera as I'm slowly realizing that capturing these precious moments is more valuable than I thought. I'm doing it not just for me, but for the future generations!
I use to be like that. But taking pictures and capturing every moment of my life just added burden on my mind. It made super attached to them and sad that those moments are gone. “Less is more” is truly a life changing word. Now I’d rather be fully present in those moments and keep them in my memories. Now that I don’t try to hold on to every aspect of my life my mind is more cleaner and at peace.
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
…because it’s growing over the septic tank, haha
It is not on the other side, just there is a road in the way
The grass is greener where you water and tend to it!
@@HotchildinMurf what fence means?
Zeyno Pasvan if you say that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, you mean that other peoples situations always seem better or more attractive than your own, but really this is how everyone feels - the people on the other side of the 'fence' probably see greener grass elsewhere. the moral is to be content with what you have.
This is precisely the life I wanted as a child, sadly for health reasons I need more access to infrastructure.
I really hope you and your little self will be able to find the same peace you deserve, even in a different environment, I believe in you
I am 17 and recently i was really into this social media which made me depressed. My whole life was going in a wrong way and i had no idea what to do. I cried a lot. Was sad seeing other people living their best and not me until i deleted every social media app except youtube. Now my mind is at peace. I once again started enjoying studies which i used to in past and started spending my time with my family. And i am proud of myself its like the best decision i've ever taken!!!
First, my friend...good for you :) Second, those you see on social media are not "living their best". 99% are made-up, and people on sm rarely - if ever - show their real day-to-day. It's all an illusion. However, good job for leaving social media. I left as a bday present to myself in 2018, and I can't ever imagine going back to it.
It's truly a life-changing difference, and a good one. Books are awesome ;))
i'm proud of you :)
You aren’t boring. I think you are living the most meaningful life than millions of people. I discovered your channel today and I have subscribed.
Sameeee
We tend to think that peoples life on social media is much more interesting than our own but the reality is that every life is about simple things.
sameee
@@montessorimom6946 yess and also they share just the filtered image of their lifestyle
Meaningful !?
I showed one of your videos to my sister yesterday and she actually had tears in her eyes. She has been having such a rough time over the past few months and your video really helped her to connect with the sense of peace she wants to regain in her life. Thank you Paola.
Sending hugs to your sister! 😊
Marisa thank you so much for your kind thoughts 😌
Wishing and praying your sister find peace, joy and happiness in her life. If no one has not told you, I love you by way of a higher power.🙏❤️
She does that for me as well. I really hope your sister's life smooths out soon!
Thank you all so much!
The irony that this is shot for social media and so many people think they should quit social media is not lost on me...
Ordinary life is best life to live with happiness 😊
Simplicity is the key :)
Her voice, the music, the scenery.. is really therapeutic.
This is one of the most visually and spiritually beautiful videos I’ve ever seen.
She’s now added to the list with Lana blakely for me their voices are heaven
frrr!
Facts
She reminds me of Miss Honey from the movie Matilda. Her voice, and her calm and even her cottage.
Sometimes the answer is always so simple but we just didn't realized it.. yet.
The end of capitalism and chasing money
I donno y but this comment made me shead some tears 🥺❤️
The simplest answer is usually the right one
@@andromedabengala6062 Resource Based Economy RBE ❤️🗺️🖖🐇
Until you get older, you realize you missed a lot of the essentials in life.
During school breaks, I enjoy deleting social media to unwind and disconnect from everyone. I genuinely feel so much happier that way.
that's probably the most beautiful youtube video I've ever seen...it's a whole cinematography, loved it!
“Embrace whatever chapter your story you are currently in, each one is precious and has so much to give.” - beautifully said by the fairy.
Even her YT name is pretentious. Seriously.
@@kevinadams9468 okay kevin
I will be 70 in two months, and you have done what I always wanted to do, but didn't have the guts to do. I love your sweet voice and relaxing videos. Thank you.
Ow:( too late to say happy birthday but I hope you have a good Day sir💕🌷
You can do it now !
Wow. Im 23 and it put into perspective if I’m willing to give up normal comforts for what I also desire.
Go for it!!! You can still do it old man! ❤💡🙏💫🫵🌝💥🔫
@@Fer-yc3wb Isn't Phyllis a female name?
This is one of the most natural videos I have watched so far, I rather live a simple life than being with a life full of stress due to a lot of comparisons brought by social media.
A teacher once told me that art as has the ability to increase the beauty in the world. You art speaks to that truth. Thanks for making the world a more beautiful place.
Whenever I used to feel inspired or moved by a TH-cam video and was about to comment, I always became a little dissuaded by the fact that there were already so many comments, and that mine wouldn't be seen. That forms part of that social media culture you spoke of, the 'is my stuff good enough to share/say' feeling because we are comparing constantly. But I realised with time, that whether or not the video poster sees this, someone else will and it may make a difference to them. Anyway, thank you for this beautiful video, and you are very wise and enlightened for a 24 year old. I often yearn to live in the country, even though it isn't an easy life. Love and light xx
I agree Erin, I haven't even put up a picture to replace my "S" (lol). I, too, have been overwhelmed with what others might think ... but I'm working on that! Thanks, too, to Paola for her lovely, peaceful, nature filled videos and soft, gentle, compassionate voice.
Everybody feels the same . but people deal it differently depending upon their situation
This was such a raw and real comment i love it cuz i feel the exact same way. Thank you so much for sharing!!
@@maschalmirzada786 ah bless, my absolute pleasure. Sending love x
Exactly 💗
I forget about life pre social media. I forget there was a time that I didn't compare every single thing I did to someone else. I think this is a good reminder to disconnect..
I have never felt this demotivated and discouraged ever in my life....and this breaks my heart to realize that this is the high time I need to gather the strength and start working on myself but I am unable to do so....leave everything that makes me feel anxious or worried all the time..stop worrying about the future...and to just focus on my own self...I had a terrible day but out of nowhere your videos popped up on my feed and this was what I needed the most right now....thank you for being someone's reason to carry on...and May Allah guide you and be with you 🤍🤍 May He turn your slightest sadness to joy Ameen....stay healthy and happy 🤍🤍
Ameen! May Allah SWT help and be close to us all! May Allah SWT reward us all with goodness and peace in all ways.Ameen!🤲💛✨
this is the video that’s makes me wanna want to take my phone and delete all of my social media and start to live the life i’ve been blessed to live
Yes I think so❤❤
It can be difficult to appreciate and understand who we are. Often it takes time and we appreciate ourselves later just by reminiscing. Always important to stop, and take a look.
You are so right. I wish I could make my grandchildren understand that.
Victoria Savu they will eventually. But to do so they have to want to accept change and go through a lot of struggle to raise up.
For now keep calm and understand everyone starts off as a seed and grows different. Keep having faith.
I know that focusing on the muffins is missing the point, but they sure looked good I was so grateful that the video didn’t end until they were cooked and beautifully decorated.
They were so yummy! ❤️ thank you
I going to make cranberry orange muffins. I think I will decorate with flowers. So beautiful.
@@victoriasavu3943 can you eat those flowers?
I know right!
Just thinking the same thing, wouldn't it be great if we could all pop around to join Paola for tea and cup cakes ☺ X
I got rid of social media for about 2 years ago and I've never been this more different. It felt like I finally found who I am or what I like. I LOVE IT. I like this side of me.
Loved the video! I’m 22 and just graduated from university, trying to decide which direction to take my life in. I got a degree that could get me in the corporate world but I just don’t feel like that is what is meant and aligned for me. I resonate so much more with a calm and slow life. I hate that every job says you have to be able to work in “a fast paced environment” and do as much as possible, when I just want to slow down and take my time to do things well. Also a side note - I LOVE your dungarees. They look so cute and comfy, where are they from?
Girl saaaaaameee
You are lucky in today's world that most work is remote. So you can still work for a company with a slower culture and work remotely for them. Back in my day (I am 40) it's always been in the office until the pandemic, and that can get hectic. I say try everything once and see what works!
I’m dealing with the same thing as u
we are in the same boat girl!! i feel you, we all will find our path aligned with us. keep trusting
Same girl. I am 23 and I don't want to work or live in a fast paced world.
I deleted all my socials a few years ago so all my moments could be personal and special. And nobody has to share in them with me. Just me and whoever is with me.
I am quite a bit older than you (just turned 50 on the 3rd of this month) & I lived most of my life with no social media. I miss the simpler times when everyone just enjoyed their daily lives & the people in it without saying let me get my phone & post this!! Life is so much richer no matter how you choose to live it if you actually savor the moments & record them in your heart ❤️ much love & hugs Paola
Indeed
Me too ✋ in my 40s...and kind of embracing my lost dreams as a young girl through this beautiful young poala because this is the kind of life I always dream of♥. Nature ,Quiet, peaceful ! Thank you poala for inspiring even the older generation to aspire 🙏🏻 much love from Nagaland 💛❤🧡💙
I totally agree, with only the caveat that I was always a hobby photographer anyway, even back when film was so expensive for me that I couldn't ever take as many pics as I wanted to! Hence I've always liked perusing various accounts on Instagram and posting pretty photos of my own now and then, little anonymous memories of moments in my world. But funny thing is, back in the day if Instagram had been, say, a magazine to which people would submit their amateur photographs, well, the pleasure would've been much the same! The fast-paced, hyperactive and overly complicated milieu of Facebook was actively damaging and alienating. I've begun calling people on the phone again (and sending emails and letters) and though I've gotten some bemused reactions, for the most part people seem to really like it. :-)
I agree, I'm 41, and miss the times before all of this!
Nice written , maybe right🤔
But I'm only 21years old 😅
Though I liked it ❤
She motivated me to do cleaning, organization and food vlogs, greetings from Colombia❤😊
I’m trying to break myself of my TH-cam addiction. Yet, here I am watching your videos, curious about your lifestyle. You’re not just living alone, you seem interested living in a different time. I was in my late 30s before I could afford a place of my own. I loved my tiny two level utility near the ocean. It was a great experience, lived as I pleased and also faced a lot of my inner demons. Grieved much loss I experienced in my childhood and early adult years. Now I live in a state park with my partner of 20+ years. Not all has turned as I hoped, but with his support, I got my master’s and have a happier career as a teacher. Still, I will be honest, I miss my little place.
Whoa! It’s been a strange year going from a flip phone a few years back to making videos, and I can say I have enriched my life in many ways through this + realized how important it is to keep a balance when it comes to social media.
When I started making videos I felt like I was nurturing my inner child, taking great joy in finding beautiful ways to showcase everyday objects and activities through the lens of a camera. I shared what I was excited and passionate about, because it was one of the best ways to keep me feeling positive and happy last year. This was a challenge to maintain once my channel started to grow. I felt a lot of pressure to share more and more details about my personal life and relationships (the good, bad, and ugly). Sharing these things seems to be associated with being authentic online, but I do not believe that is necessarily true, and can deter more shy or introverted people from opening up or sharing their art. I believe you do not need to share intimate details that would feel invasive to your privacy, especially when it isn’t relevant to what you are creating. Instead, through my words I like to communicate my heartfelt thoughts and trials of daily reality. But when it comes to imagery, I wish to capture everyday beauty - and that passion for art is the most genuine and authentic thing that I can offer other people ❤️
My definition of authenticity will always be: sharing from your heart and celebrating things you love, while respecting your own personal boundaries. These videos are short films, exploring art and imagination and ideas. And that is why it brings me joy to share them with you, and connect through reading your stories and thoughts. I value that more than any other part of this channel. Thank you again and again for your comments. I am unable to answer my dm’s on IG so please comment below and I will respond if I am able.
My name is Paola, I am Puerto Rican American, and I am 24 years old.
I would choose living in the rural...over and over again....there are unexplainable things in rural lifestyle.
Your videos are really inspiring to watch. Thank you so much! 🥰❤️
Everyone has bad days--stars, academics, athletes. This past few weeks a dear dear mate of mine from the Fiji Rugby 7s team lost hips place to play for Fiji in the Tokyo Olympics (contract terminated from well red cards)--of course he says he is AOK (this is also his job so) --all stoic and all 6 ft 4 inches of this macho dude. But I know him and he is struggling--I asked him what now? He said --Now I go fishing lol --live in the moment (its the ADHD way lol I guess or Fiji same thing) Vinaka for your openness and your inspiration.
@@1nasharemarbleousgoodness778 I’m praying and saving to live a rural lifestyle 🙌🏾
Incredibly.... when I feel sad even happyness also I love to be with your vedios.. I dunno why it is but I know one thing what they are heal my soul ❤😘 love you.. go ahead ❤ love from 🇱🇰 ...
This screams Howl's Moving Castle vibes omgg. I hope I can also achieve a life not influenced by social media, it's really draining.
True, was getting the same vibes
More like wolf children
Off topic but I love your kyo pfp!!
@@sari9645 thank u!! I love him sm
I love kyo 🥺
When I watch your videos, I feel like I'm getting a break from reality and is like a breath of fresh air. I've wanted to live in the forest since I was little, run with long dresses through its trees, stop near streams and dance with the fish, watch the sun set and the stars rise again. I don't know, watching your videos makes me think that it's possible, that I dont have to follow what everyone else is pushing on me (college, city life, social media, traveling the world) and just live how I want to.
Thank you for your videos.
You are precious . Your life is precios and you'are connected to nature, yourself and the harmony of a World peacefully and plenty 9f sense. Thank you for share that there is another way of live respecful to others. Good bless you.
I'm a 16 year old girl and I haven't felt well for a long time. A lot has happened in my life and I've had so many problems with my family and myself that I have lost my taste for things and for life in general. I feel very unhappy and so disoriented all the time. Fortunately I found your youtube channel, your videos make me feel something and I thank you for it. Make me hope that one day all these bad feelings will diminish and I will feel at peace with myself for a change. You have no idea how much you have done for me in all this time, words are not enough to thank you. I am still here because of you and your videos, it makes me feel ... less alone. Thank so much, again...
Edit: God, I didn't expect so many replies and likes at all, but ... thank you all for your beautiful words and wishes, I will keep each word in my heart. Really, thank you. This has made me feel better.
I hope things get better for you:)
When I was your age I had a friend in high school. We were not in the popular group. He had more difficulty than I even though he came from a well off family. We would go on a hiking trip every year. We lost touch after we went to college. I guess he still couldn't find happiness after college while I ended up getting married. He decided to end his life. I too had difficulties but could not understand his choice. Now, almost 50 years later, I still think of the experiences he missed out on having. My life has drastically changed maybe 5 times in all these years and I am a totally different man now than when I was younger. Be patient with yourself. If you are draw to this channel and Paola's story it is because life touches you and you are more alive than most, so you feel more. Be patient and kind to yourself. Life has many more good than bad experiences for you. Learn to find simple things that bring you happiness like Paola. Those experiences will begin to fill your soul. Blessings young one.
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The darkness will pass, Michelle. From someone who has been there. You are precious, you are beautiful. Much love from Argentina
Hang in there, it may be hard now.
But things will get better.
Sending you strength from Canada.
I'm a teenager but I don't have any social media accounts except youtube because the other social media platforms are so toxic. Leaving social media is the best decision that i have made so far! I became more happy and productive in life. And your lifestyle and where you live is my dream. It's so peaceful and quiet!! 🥰❤️
You have an old soul young lady. Very refreshing to read your way thinking.
@@Unlike230 thank you so much ❤️
@@jamielle5338 You're welcome ❤️
Me too! Since I can't see my friends to often, I decided to get Snapchat with the new year. Well... It wasn't what I expected in the least. I felt more disconnected than ever before and my exposure to the constant pressure of my peers to fit in didn't help. I have since deleted it and have been looking for other friends and better ways to connect with those I can truly call my friends.
@@naomimueller9912 yes, if you're a person without social media, you get to know who your real friends are. goodluck on finding your true friends! they will come at the right time.❤️
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 3 months ago about self development. Now I have 262 subs and almost > 97 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
I appreciate your rawness. Life is hard to navigate. Especially when it comes to mental health. Social media has been controlling most of my life. Since I was 10. I’m now almost 21 and I can say that having social media for a decade, especially in my formative years, has caused so much negativity. I have since deleted all accounts this year and feel so much better. I felt like I was living through others. Now I’m finally finding my self
Good for you! There are more interesting ways to live if you give yourself a chance. Go for it. I'm rooting for your 😊😊
10 years ago I cried every day watching the social media of my friends showing their happy lives, one day I decided to leave all social media (except TH-cam) and from that day I began a wonderful journey to grow as a person and learn many things, I will never regret having made that decision and I encourage everyone to do the same, at least do a test and you will realize that they do not lose anything, instead you will win a lot 💜
Do you have a happy life now? Personally I have no friends, a clean happy house, or anything to do really. I go on social media to live vicariously through others who actually have friends and lovers. I feel like if I got rid of social media, I won't be able to vicariously enjoy life anymore and all I'll have to pass the time are the thoughts of how alone I am 🙃
@@tychopanda Hello, I would not say that I am happy since I have some problems to solve, however I can say that I am better than before, I understand what you say and I must admit that sometimes I do feel alone, but I felt very lonely when I used the social networks, I think the key is to understand and learn to be your own company, nurture your being with things that you like and begin to value the time you spend alone, over time there will be opportunities to meet the right people, until that time comes, I hope you find the best way to live your reality in a healthy and happy way, I currently maintain the TH-cam social network, I think that not all social networks are bad, you just have to control the content you consume, good luck 💜
I just deleted Instagram, Twitter, & TIK TOK only a couple months ago and I have felt guilty about it (It feels weird sometimes being one of the few 'GenZ' without it I guess(?). I am so glad to hear it was a good decision for you, I'm slowly starting to see good things for myself as well.
It is so cool to hear your story. 👍🏻
@@mgy2877 make sure to turn TH-cam notifications OFF as well
Or YT is as addictive (dopamine related) as TikTok & Twi
Anyway it's just an EGO issue.
Like "ah someone answered me" , selfishness selfish selfies ,
and kinda "I'm superior to others "
This being said , there is the Lonely feeling in exchange?
Until you find your inner values
Find your Upper goal and VISION for your Life , this is your ultimate target
Once found and in progress, then why not turning back to social medias.
Actually it's what the woman pictured here is this video is saying, did and now she found balance in her mind
Enjoy your precious time bro!
Best regards
Emmanuel
i am also on a journey of personal development and studies for a new career.... I have to remind myself that is my goal and my focus and not travelling all of the time.
Last year, I deactivated Instagram. It was hard at first but months later, I understood that there's so much more to life. I had time for everything and I love myself now. It's bliss.
Very beautiful, serene, calm place. Extreme peace, wonderful!
Been off social media for afew days and it's been a blissful experience. Simple things like working with garden tools or tinkering on an engine seem relaxing. Our minds weren't made to experience that level of intense mental engagement that social media easily provides.
I have an idea: What about a mini recipe booklet with illustrations??? A few tea recipes, a cookie, muffin or scone recipe, jelly, jam or butter recipe....just maybe 4 recipes in total and beautifully illustrated!!! It might be fun!!! Maybe. OR just recipe cards illustrated of course!! Just a few ideas. Thanks for listening. ☕🍪🍰🌹🌻🌾🌿🍎🍓
Yes I was thinking about that too... the chamomile icing looked really good
What a fantastic idea!
yes that crossed my mind too! some recipes😋💕👍
Illustrated recipe cards is a great idea
Yes I would buy her book in a hart beat 🌸
I grew up without SM….. there wasn’t even an internet and phones were hung on walls. I still try to live that way.
Those days were the best. I just started a Instagram but only for my family. We seemed to have lived a much more peaceful life back then. Thank you for sharing this. ,:)
@@msmtnsunny958 Same. Grew up without internet, only three TV channels, a garden, and was outside a lot.
Me to...phone in the hall and 3 tv channels. We were outside a lot of the time 😁🇬🇧
@Linda I agree completely, though I'm 63, that's how I lived as well. I brought my children up in the country because I wanted them to know the quality, simple life, to play outside and to know what real working is. They all are successful and hard workers, just wish technology hadn't changed to this point, drawing them into the fast changing tech life. But, this is what they call, progress.
This is the exact video I needed to see right now.
I grew up in an isolated small town and never knew any different. Then for schooling and university I moved across the globe to a city for 4 years. Always pining for the countryside again. And now that I'm back in the country side I find myself glued to social media out of fear of missing out. I needed this to remind me of how carefree life was before big city media life. Thankyou 💛
Social media always made me think how imperfect I was. And other people’s life are always better. I just deleted social media. Then I realized, my life is beautiful. I got my family. And not every people’s life was perfect and posh. Everyone has their own problems. Deleting social media has given me more time to read the books I always wanted. I’ve never been this happy in my life as today.(English is not my native language, if there is any mistake, pls forgive me)
Paola: Starts off with bunny in arms carrying a basket....
Me: A big contented sigh as I already know this is going to be a favorite of mine!
Hugs 💛🐰
Hello Jessica I love your Comments 💜🐰
Doesn’t Mr Darcy communicate volumes, even in his precious “silence?!” 🥰
@@PAWANKALYAN_21 Thank you that’s very nice of you to say! Have a lovely day. 💛
@@rrhines3151 Yes I absolutely agree. I loved watching him sniff and hop of into the garden of wonders!
i recently connected with jesus and found my peace from suicide and toxic relationships and the void i have been in and i hope one day i can earn enough so he can let me live somehwhere peaceful like you
Sis I want to give an advice. You should learn about Islam. I hope you would find the right purpose. Just saying. You may agree. You may disagree
Jesus is the way the truth and the light. Amen sister.
Praise God sister! Only God can truly give us that peace that surpasses all understanding! ❤️
Me too
Same ,God bless you ❤
It takes a lot of inner peace to watch your videos.
This way of life is one reason why people live longer because it's a simple stress free life.
Haha yeah.
I don't believe it's stress free, Just different stress
Thank you for sharing your insight on social media! I relate to the "everyone looked so happy online" so much, I often have to remind myself that the grass is greener where I water it 🌻
Ah! Well said, I love that 🌸
I love being around nature. Living in the busy city, I rarely gets a chance to do that. You are not boring. You are living your moment, your choice and you are happy with it, that's important. Actually I'd love to be where you are. This is the life or retirement that I have dreamed of, in a calm and serene environment that is close to nature and I hope to achieve it. You inspires many and one of them is me. Thank you for your artistic beautiful life story 🧡
Where you live is beautiful!😯so green and peaceful, never leave that place it's paradise. The way you talk is so sweet, calming, and articulate you're really great😊
“If you believe it’ll work out, you’ll see opportunities. If you don’t believe it’ll work out, you’ll see obstacles.” - Wayne Dyer
Sharing some love with ya all, have a delightful day
so beautiful, thanks for sharing mi Amiga ^^
Obstacle and opportunity are the same thing
Simple life like you is the way of life that god wants for us. Close to nature. Farming, gardening, got healthy and fresh food from it. And most importantly have a good community without any envy or desire to compete.
This what Allah wanted for us :)
Ameen!
Yes and love :)))) Loving Him and loving others. What a world that would be!
be sure of that its soo much envie conflicts fights in the countryside as well.I have experienced that a lot
Hi! I just wanted to say that I've been watching your videos lately, and I am more inspired to continue my vlog and motivated. I love how you just connect with your audience. I love you! Keep inspiring people 💙
These 8.26 minutes is the most calm I had been today thank you
I deeply resonate with that feeling of not enoughness - or of missing out, or of not being satisfied with where I am. I'm just recently coming to terms with this.
Thank you for this video 💛
Just the same...
Maybe you need to relax and watch some videos about simple living - welcome to my channel! Sending lots of love!
Perfect, now I can watch a beautiful video while I drink my night time tea…
and now i get my tea in the morning 😂
Me too watching while having my morning coffee.. 😊
I've been painting and writing poems and stories about the beauty of everyday life for about 7 years now. I see it as a gentle movement that has taken place very organically and is growing. It's beautiful to watch videos of people doing things with their hands. Peaceful and calming. It slows us down to the rhythm of the earth. Thank you.
Are your writings available to read online? I am interested!
How kind of you! I never received your message until now. I am on Linked In if you are still interested. How would i get the information to you?
oh my gosh how have i only just found you fairy friend 🌿🌱🧚🌺🌿🌱🧚🌺 that poRch is a dream. well done you, well done sister! so much goodness and LIFE here 🌿🌱🧚🌺🌿🌱🧚🌺
Instead of comparing our lives' to others, why not be uplifted and inspired when we see someone showing life as we wish it would be. It's good to remember that in order to have a rainbow, there must first be rain. Thank you for sharing your rainbow moments every week!
I cry a lot as well. Someone once said to me: ' Tears are the words of the heart".
You've got yourself a new subscriber because I'm a fan of beautiful sceneries, nature and beautiful words that you've combined together in your videos.
I appreciate your admission of your emotional ups and downs. It’s too easy to compare our everyday messy lives to someone’s beautifully curated life online. What you present is your growing understanding and appreciation for your perfectly normal emotional highs and lows. I now see emotional ups and downs as an emotional “heartbeat”; we wouldn’t want it to be constantly too low or too high. I think you’re doing a wonderful job of expressing this. You’re doing good work and making people smile. 🙏🏽👏🏽
If humans don't think of developing too much and instead of that living this kind of life i think there won't be any so many issues on global problem/ climate problem/poverty and many more.
Yeah, but development is important too. Both life styles have pros and cons.
A city person who is unsatisfied with the competitive culture, they'll enjoy a quieter country side,
While someone who grew up in a countryside might long for the opportunities of a city
soooo true!! 🥺:(
@@_SomyaY I know the pros and cons but listen too much development has its own consequences...which we now suffering... Isn't it us who wants to make it easy and comfortable by producing and manufacturing so many things with plastics, why now suffering! You are talking about pros and cons then why people are loving the old days back..... There's a lot of things to talk....what i mean is the conservation cause more development in technology won't help in conservation as it require more energy sources!
Glad I found this channel. I've been trying to calm down more and enjoy life and my own time, so finding this channel that's relaxing and wholesome really helps!
I love how you narrate your stories. Your videos are so calming and relaxing. You are such an inspiration to many aspiring artists!❤️
I’m in my early 30s and I have never had a social media account in my adult life, a MySpace when I was in high school for a very short while and felt it wasn’t for me and I feel great and at peace
Don't want a huge house, swimming pool or luxurious car......
Just want a simple and beautiful ✨cottage like this 💜🥀surrounded with full of nature 🌿🍃 and so much peace 🤍
And mostly a simple, joyful and aesthetic living ♥.
Paola you don't know you have maked a 19year old girl feel really happy from inside 🌼 who was terribly suffering from so much anxiety and stress..
and maked her realize the beauty of life💜🥀 and there is so much beauty out there in life 🌺 we are just stuck upto some bounded space, we should explore them all and should never loose hope that there will be a happy self of all of us existing in the future☘
Thanks for radiating soo much positive and magical energy🥀✨
Hii poorba.... Actually i also have been suffering from anxiety because I see alot on social media about big house, billionaire life, luxury car and women doing Skincare sometimes i also get obsessed with all these things btt having seen her video about simple life I feel these things are more important than having luxurious life... Nowadays people are much aware about money, looks and skincare btt no one is actually focusing on clean water, Air and food
@@khushbookhushboo6323 Yes dear🤍 and I think
By cultivating thoughts for a simple joyful life we can actually find big happiness in small things. and that also motivate us to freedomly nourish our soul with goodness because then we don't have much insecurities or big expectations 🥀
Calmness is a thing most people often don't find it to be focused much initially but as life goes on we learn it's important. 🌼 Paola's video really helped me to learn the skills of living life (mostly peacefully 🤍) I came across the true concept of life and it's beauty♥
I hope my words radiated some good feelings to you.
Wishing you a life you get satisfied with ❣
Blah Blah Blah, Women too much Talking, Too Much disatisfaction. Always want More. WOMEN ☕ I THOUGHT IT WILL BE PEACEFUL VIDEO BUT BLAH BLAH BLAH !! HATE THIS VIDEO.
I’m so glad I came across your channel. You are eloquent, thoughtful, gentle and wise and a breath of fresh air to the chaos of humanity. Thank you for what you do and for inspiring millions ❤
such a lovely vibe! As someone who is just getting into TH-cam, I admire your cinematography and storytelling skills ~
I can't stop thinking of the Barbie and Diamond Castle when she's picking all those flowers.🥺♥️ Craving for that life🤍
💜💙💚💛🧡❤️
Yeah love it
I don't easily like and subscribe videos unless it has an amazing content. But Paola's videos are so Catchy and breathtaking that I subscribed and liked all her videos instantly
Thank you Asheer, that is so encouraging 🤍 I appreciate it
This is my first time seeing one of your videos and I love it. Your words are so full of wisdom, and your visuals are so calming. Thank you.
Your videos are so calming. Whenever I feel low I watch you and feel so much better. Being a socially anxious introvert who loves plants and elegant vintage art, I've always imagined living like that and you inspire me.
You don't have to film in your sad moments. I appreciate your positive energy and that you share your struggles with words. That's more than enough. Thank you.
Thank you very much ❤️
To have such wisdom at such a young age, gives me great hope for this beautiful world we live in! You truly are a gift to this Earth.
Hey just wanted to say the cinematography, voice over, editing and just the whole composition of this video is absolutely beautiful. You would be excellent at making any kind of content and you yourself come off as so genuine thank you for sharing such a positive message that is so true! And please keep making videos your amazing at it I really feel like this video brought me some peace.
That was the most aesthetic video I’ve ever seen! OMG, this vibe and the way of shooting made me so peaceful and content ❤
I do love the aesthetic, but at the same time when I see these "cottagecore" version of being outdoorsy and down to earth I feel a different pressure from the glamour of the city, like it has to be perfect and pure. That everything is polarized and I get what you mean about yearning for city life in the country and vice versa.
For me this is why I am moving to a small town with lots of nature. Small enough to have "country" aspects, but big enough to have community, friends, things to do.
Believe me, she knew exactly what she was doing when she moved to the country. It's less about yearning for the simple life, but more about the creating an online persona to earn a living. Straight up business. Like if I'm a photographer and I want my content to be dark and urban, sure as hell Im not gonna keep on living in a sunny place with lots of palm trees. I'd move elsewhere.
Agree
@@ruok3351 I don't think it's a bad thing at all, as long as she feels suitable of living that way. Life isn't easy anyway, so create a social media persona that vividly represents yourself would also take efforts. She also stated that she wants this channel to be about happy and thoughtful days of hers, not daily struggles (like the majority of people out there who uses social media).
Key point here is that she dared to live her life, while finding ways to sustain it, and I do find it's inspiring, whether it's business or not
@@duyhiep0808 Well, she says the problem with social media is people end up feeling inadequancy. If she only portrays the "nice" "perfect" ambience of her setting, she is actually contributing to it. I agree with Ruok and Staria here, there was something "off" about this video appearing "too" perfect. It's like a romantizised version of life and not a realistic one.
@@tme98 Yea i get what you mean, she doesn't really do a great job of portraying the realistic life out there. Maybe that's why i don't feel attracted to her channel enough to watch it on a daily basis. But then again, I don't have anything against it, whether business or not. She does her best, and whether it's suitable or not, the result will speak for it, and it's up to her whether to adjust things or keep it that way for personal purposes
Her video quality is as good as my eyesight 😍
Her video quality is better than my eyesight
Bettr thn my eyesight 😅
My eyes actually got better watching her videos. Lol. Jk
i'm amazed how one could be so genuine about life thoughts.. i keep watching each of your videos over and over & never get tired..
I just started using social media getting my Facebook account this year I have had a TH-cam profile for a couple years just to listen to music videos or some TH-camrs…still it’s kinda not my thing but I do enjoy creators like you . Your different not boring, most people are but your not afraid to live a peaceful life , not just what society wants you to be , obsessed with your weight, hair, make up, money ,and materialistic ideas..it refreshing to see a truly beautiful natural women enjoying her life.
I was just binging a few of your videos and feeling warm about how at peace I am when I watch them. Thank you for sharing this feeling thru your art with the world 🌎 💗
Ah, that is so lovely to know Nicole, thank you very much for sharing that ❤️
I love your videos! They're very grounding, and you are wise beyond your years :)
Aw, thank you 🤍 that is very encouraging
Incredibly beautiful imagery and power message all delivered in just 8 mins. Magical!
I just found your channel today. I so appreciate your openness and the beauty and serenity of your videos. Thank you!!!
I appreciate you keeping this a calm and happy space. The internet can be such a negative space and misery seems to love company so it’s often hard to avoid. I find myself unable to read the news as I cannot help reading the comments which are always full of negativity, sometimes I long for an actual newspaper where I am influenced only by the story and not others option of the story.
Emily, decades ago I stopped reading newspapers, reading magazines, watching any news whatsoever, etc. The trade off of maybe one good uplifting story wasn’t worth all the other horrific images and horrific stories. Even when I go on my email I have all these cut out cardboards that I place all over the laptop screen first so I don’t get inundated with all the negativity and horrific images they purposely put on there for all of us to see. I always say structure your life in such a way that works for you to maintain your happiness and joy. And meditate 🧘 often. Namaste 🙏.
99% of what one thinks they may be missing in "the world" is an illusion. A peaceful and quiet life on the other hand is real, fosters mental, physical, and spiritual health. And God has provided you with a boy friend who is also a peaceful and gentle soul...like you. You are both blessed. Thank you dear fairy...again.
❤️❤️✨
Your videos make me feel magical, truly a wondrous thing
I love seeing your videos it makes me so calm every time I felt everything's overwhelming. It helps me relax.
My girlfriend is in a coma. I may loose her. I feel so lost and have no peace right now. Questioning everything. This video gives me some peace.thank you🙏
Oh..how Is she now ??
Praying for your girlfriend 🙏🏼
i recommend Dr. Robin B. Navarro, you may search him on internet, his clinic & diet lectures on you tube video. VCO coconut oil is needed by our brain. bible verses helped me greatly in life. just sharing.
Praying for her brother.
Kristofer Milhauser . Take very good care of her. Tell her " I love you " . She is in Coma, and she can't tell you, she loves you .
I'm 40 years old and your words are wise beyond your years. Blessings on you sweet girl. Thanks for the reminder of who i used to be❤🙏😘