day in my life as a quadriplegic

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  • @d100sanityloss7
    @d100sanityloss7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3162

    3 years ago my wife had a spinal stroke which completely paralyzed her making it impossible for her to take care of herself. Her family (hell even the nurses at the hospital) thought I was going to leave her behind because it was going to be a lot of work for me to care for her from then on, but I quit my job and am now her full-time caregiver. It is a lot of work, but I love her more then anything so I enjoy helping her and can't imagine leaving her to fend for herself after everything we've been through. It changed our lives drastically, but brought us closer together and made our love for each other stronger then we ever were before. (Also her family loves me now. LoL)

    • @michaelanthonysalgado1834
      @michaelanthonysalgado1834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      ❤️

    • @MelissaPerry
      @MelissaPerry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      She is lucky to have you! I wish I could say with 100% certainty, that my old man would stay by my side!

    • @vampirexion
      @vampirexion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      That's amazing of you.

    • @artsyfartsyme
      @artsyfartsyme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      You are amazing. Thank God for people like you.

    • @amygentry4351
      @amygentry4351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      You are a wonderful man.

  • @Sandrahsings
    @Sandrahsings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2876

    I suffered a spinal cord injury 3 years ago. I remember the doctor coming into my room after my MRI and saying most likely you will never walk again. After he left the room I looked at my fiance and said "the f*$k I won't"😂. SO much work and therapy.. 3 years later I am able to walk a mile with a walking stick. It takes me almost 40 minutes BUT I can do it. Your attitude is EVERYTHING!! NEVER EVER GIVE UP!! Your family is AMAZING! YOU ARE AMAZING! You've got this girl!!!! So inspirational to others!!!

    • @taylorrichards3698
      @taylorrichards3698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      YOU GOT THIS!!!! YOUR DETERMINATION IS AMAZING ALSO!!!’ Praying for you Sandra!!!:))♥️

    • @cahayalensa8854
      @cahayalensa8854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She got accident?

    • @mariahewitt9787
      @mariahewitt9787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Congratulations. I am truly happy for you. Sending much love, from Australia

    • @sc33h3o3
      @sc33h3o3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      YESSSSSS WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE

    • @lauralethcoe7610
      @lauralethcoe7610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      1 Thank God your ok. 2 Keep up those good spirits. I will say in the morning you can tell you have makeup on.

  • @Lyra34764
    @Lyra34764 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    I am a 15-year-old paraplegic I have been a paraplegic for about a year due to cancer that moved from my brain to my spine. It was a drastic change in my life, and I felt like I was lonely and there was no one like me. but watching this video was really inspiring to me, and I was hoping maybe you or someone in the comments could reach out to me about any teenage support groups in the Dallas Texas or Forth Worth Texas area.

    • @mariamkhalil62154
      @mariamkhalil62154 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ❤️

    • @johnpauljones1499
      @johnpauljones1499 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Philippians 3:20-21 KJV
      For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
      This life is like a shadow by the time the sun rises to its highest level of the day our life is evaporated..... God said we are all sinners and lost that's why Jesus Christ suffered on the cross, love! He looked down the portal of time and saw you and in love he took your place. Call on him now so when you leave this world you'll be with him and millions more that love you. And you'll never be sick again. Love you little buddy

  • @jordynsmith6450
    @jordynsmith6450 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Her mom rubbing her hand in the beginning 🥺 she is so lucky to have such a loving mom and sister

    • @marilyncalvert4143
      @marilyncalvert4143 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes she is! As we get older we don’t have the team of people to help us anymore. For many of us our lives are cut short. Her hands will regain after she keeps up with therapy. Thinking positive is a huge part of getting these back.

    • @streaming5332
      @streaming5332 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah she'd be stuffed otherwise.

  • @Damatovg
    @Damatovg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4191

    No clue why TH-cam recommended this to me, but I'm glad it did. Had the biggest smile on my face the entire time. Keep smiling Makayla, your smile and positive attitude is infectious.

    • @corenejohnson9092
      @corenejohnson9092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I look forward to Med Beds returning you back to perfect health 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Damatovg
      @Damatovg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Simon Templar I feel really bad for you. So ashamed of their own life that they try to bring politics and negativity into a comment section about someone trying to enjoy life.
      I wish you the best my friend. Hopefully you can find happiness

    • @whatup7214
      @whatup7214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here not sure why, but was an interesting watch and wish the best for this sweet person.

    • @-.-._---_--_._-
      @-.-._---_--_._- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Simon Templar Why would you comment this

    • @dubinatub1
      @dubinatub1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Simon Templar you sir without doubt are a remarkable nasty individual

  • @bebelove--
    @bebelove-- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +653

    The single most important thing I got out of this: you woke up with a smile on your face. That's everything.

    • @issystar96
      @issystar96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Most non paralyzed people don't 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @Alex-sg3yz
      @Alex-sg3yz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@issystar96 they don't and I don't all the time. it's sad

    • @AnnSisuLiv
      @AnnSisuLiv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any idea what happened?

    • @khoaleanimation
      @khoaleanimation 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AnnSisuLiv i believe she might be a cheerleader, and broke her neck in a tumbling accident...

    • @stephaniebarrett6193
      @stephaniebarrett6193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Let’s not mention the make-up and lashes!

  • @yorkiemom4272
    @yorkiemom4272 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    My boyfriend of 4 years was a quad. We traveled a lot. He drove. We flew. We did a ton of stuff. He was so independent. It taught me so much. He passed. But later when I had a baby, it was easy as pie. Maybe God prepares us for future challenges. Paul had an awesome life and I never saw him depressed. This is a young woman who has a great spirit. God bless her Mom and sister. Thank you for this video, it will help so many of us!

    • @goddesscafe2116
      @goddesscafe2116 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes maam! GOD is always preparing us for the next stages in our lives.

    • @Imbrokeaswell
      @Imbrokeaswell ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How he drive.

    • @yorkiemom4272
      @yorkiemom4272 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Imbrokeaswell he had a modified steering wheel and hand brakes. He never did get an electric wheelchair because he didn't want to lose the mobility he had.

    • @slumpthetwink
      @slumpthetwink วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      isn't quadriplegia when both your arms AND legs are paralyzed?

    • @yorkiemom4272
      @yorkiemom4272 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @slumpthetwink yes. Paul was able to drive with a modified car. He used his shoulders to move his arms, and had metal claws to help his fingers grasp. People who haven't worked with quads may not understand what they are able to do. It all depends on where the injury is.

  • @guitarkis4969
    @guitarkis4969 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I fractured my C3 three weeks ago, along with my jaw, cheek bones, nose and eye socket, I'm on the mend and can walk and function pretty normally. But watching you has made me realize I need an attitude check, because I've been in the "poor me" limbo for too long, Thank you Makayla, you are truly a blessing to me and others. Sending my best 🙂

    • @dle5457
      @dle5457 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Get well soon🙏❤️

    • @SasaSasa-wy9wu
      @SasaSasa-wy9wu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      It’s such a hard thing to go thru. Allow yourself to grieve and go thru all those emotions. Take your time, I hope by the time ur reading this you’re doing well

  • @wilsterone6689
    @wilsterone6689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +599

    I was a care giver for my late wife for four years after an accident left her a quadriplegic. Watching this brought back all those memories. You stay strong. Glad you have mom and sis. No one gives care like family. One bit of advice is get a medical pressure relieving air mattress. It wiggles all night and makes a lot of noise but no more turning. I cared for her for 4 years with zero pressure sores.

    • @Twolilsproutsmom
      @Twolilsproutsmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      God bless you, Wilster 🙏🥰

    • @mariahewitt9787
      @mariahewitt9787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Merry Christmas and a happy new year everyone.

    • @lindaanderson4331
      @lindaanderson4331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      God bless you. She was so blessed to have such an amazing husband to care for her. Merry Christmas!

    • @evilsquirrel5214
      @evilsquirrel5214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God bless you and your family

    • @ConnyNordlicht
      @ConnyNordlicht 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don't agree, my whole family out doesn't care for anything in my wheelchair - life and problems. My son, now 21 is the only one of all. He is wonderful. And I've got some few friends who sometimes have time. It's wonderful and a reason to be grateful and thankful if one has got a good and caring family.

  • @sherisellars5129
    @sherisellars5129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    As a nurse who has worked your unit at TMCP some years ago, can I just say that 1. You are doing SO GREAT! Mental attitude about all this is EVERYTHING!! And 2. Your family is doing a PHENOMENAL JOB of caring for you and helping you care for yourself. What a bunch of #mightygirls you are! I hope you will write your story. So many will benefit from your inner wisdom.

    • @Vbluevital
      @Vbluevital 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wishing all the best. It's wonderful to have an excellent supportive family and the equipment to help with daily functions. My heart goes out to all and especially those struggling threw with little support.

    • @alcproduction7855
      @alcproduction7855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes that is so true we need stories like this

    • @marianneturner8784
      @marianneturner8784 ปีที่แล้ว

      U know I love 💘 the day I get home and try and be a long day 😴 and I'm going 😴 to a new place and I'm not sure what I want 🙃 but I'm sure I will not

  • @bigrik5620
    @bigrik5620 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    It's amazing to see someone smile through such tragedy what spirit she must have

    • @richardlawson6787
      @richardlawson6787 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm sure it was lots of tears until she realized life still has pleasures to offer....

    • @anastaciarodriguez2381
      @anastaciarodriguez2381 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sure medication helps her not be so sad

    • @leelunk8235
      @leelunk8235 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      SHE IS AMAZING BUT WHAT CAN SHE DO, BE SAD, SHE ACCEPTED THIS FAIT, IT'S EITHER THAT OR DIE

  • @verynearlypure
    @verynearlypure ปีที่แล้ว +50

    You can really tell how much she loves and how well it reciprocates with her family. Infectious personality. Beautiful inside and out.

  • @endtimeawakening5557
    @endtimeawakening5557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1549

    Makayla, you need to invest in an alternating pressure pad system for your bed so that you can sleep through the night without interruption. It will also allow your mom and sister to sleep as well. You can find these simple air mattress systems for under $200.00 and they last for quite a while. I've been paralyzed for 21 years and have been sleeping all night since I discovered these awesome machines. The body really needs it's restorative rest for building your immune system along with many other benefits. Take care Makayla, God bless you sweetheart!

    • @clanorangechicken6648
      @clanorangechicken6648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      some APP (alt pressure pad) and LAL (low air loss mattress) are more quiet than others...keep this in mind before you buy. and dont rent one! they are super dirty and just gross. i worked in health care so i know.

    • @endtimeawakening5557
      @endtimeawakening5557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@clanorangechicken6648
      Good advice! I've been like this since a motorcycle accident 21 years ago and the only pressure sore I ever got was in the hospital lying on a standard mattress. Since using the alternating pressure mattress I've never had another issue in all this time. Come to think of it the only time that I get bladder infections is in the hospital also... Seems to be a pattern there somewhere...

    • @sunkissed1974
      @sunkissed1974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Those pads are AMAZING. We had one for my brother and it made a world of difference.

    • @perfekt526
      @perfekt526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      They are used everywhere in Healthcare in Denmark, where a citizen has to be in a bed for long time... they are free over here

    • @RichelleHeacock
      @RichelleHeacock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’ve been looking for one. Do you know of a good model/brand?

  • @carlysearing3137
    @carlysearing3137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1466

    I am a nurse and do all this at work everyday, but can’t imagine doing this at home. It brought me to tears to see how supportive of a family you have. Sending prayers!!

    • @cookedapple
      @cookedapple 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I couldn't even imagine doing all of this as a nurse! Thank you for what you do. I work in NICU and it's very different!

    • @TheBeingReal
      @TheBeingReal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      She’s sooo fortunate to have that support network. There are many who do not.

    • @Toffee146
      @Toffee146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's a bit late for prayers. 🙄 Where was 'God' to prevent her from being paralysed in the first place??? That's right. NOWHERE.

    • @TheBeingReal
      @TheBeingReal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Toffee146 As always!

    • @kB5TVP
      @kB5TVP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never heard of home healthcare? Lol

  • @MarinaMiniatures
    @MarinaMiniatures ปีที่แล้ว +63

    What a loving sister and mama you have, you are so blessed 💜💜

  • @kathleenmclaughlin7776
    @kathleenmclaughlin7776 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My younger sister Carol was a quad for 43 years....auto accident. She just died after 2 years of living hell. I miss her so much. This brings back memories of what she went through everyday. Carol is an angel now. She visited me a week after she passed. She showed me her small wings.

    • @Crazycamperlady69
      @Crazycamperlady69 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How beautiful

    • @jill8235
      @jill8235 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am so sorry for your loss.. it must of been so heart warming that she came to see you and showed you her beautiful wings ❤ sending a hug

  • @mariak7161
    @mariak7161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +507

    I know most people have good intentions and I may be wrong, but I can’t imagine saying things about her family caring for her like “wow I could never do that” or “I was a caretaker and it took such a toll so they must love you so much” would make her feel good. While their hard work and care should be appreciated, she is clearly not a burden to them and gives them just as much love as they give her. She has such an amazing energy and spirit it would be an honor and a privilege to care for her.

    • @lorellehugostino975
      @lorellehugostino975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I agree! It's almost identical as saying to a mother who is grieving the loss of her child; "Oh, I just don't know how you've been able to survive! You are much stronger than I would be! I just know I wouldn't be able to survive!" You may think that you are being empathetic, but what it sounds like you are saying is; The love you have for YOUR child MUST be greater than the love SHE had for her child. The fact is, OF COURSE you would survive, you'd have no other choice- just like this devastated and heartbroken mom has HAD to do- especially when there are other children who still need their mom just as much as they did before their sibling died.

    • @doriajakopcevic3560
      @doriajakopcevic3560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is the vokest comment I've seen this 5 Months

    • @greenearthblueskies8556
      @greenearthblueskies8556 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯👍🏼

    • @rainbowgirlism
      @rainbowgirlism 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Good grief. I'm a fulltime caretaker, and I love those comments.

    • @ayronlitkey7568
      @ayronlitkey7568 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      shut up

  • @Charlie10266
    @Charlie10266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +448

    … the love her sister has for her has me bawling my eyes out. “you’re petting her really good right now.” Her sister is the hype friend we all need. ❤️❤️😭

    • @Peelbacks
      @Peelbacks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too!! I cried through the entire video.

    • @crembruley2694
      @crembruley2694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are absolutely right! Imagine having a sibling like this! ❤️ So much love

  • @emilyschultz7826
    @emilyschultz7826 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    You are very lucky to have a family willing to put all this time and effort into helping you. As a caregiver of 13 years we barley have 10 minutes for each clients cares cuz of short staffing and people just not wanting to put the effort into each client.

  • @The_BullSchiffer
    @The_BullSchiffer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    My little brother was a quadriplegic the last 9 years of his life but could only move his head. I took care of him in my home for 3 years before it got too much for me to handle. Im 100% disabled veteran myself. May he rest in peace. I pray you recover and bless your family as well.

    • @mitch5222
      @mitch5222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry to hear that. Wonder why life is so cruel. I am partially disabled, with anxiety and depression. Struggling everyday.

  • @stephaniemccord6100
    @stephaniemccord6100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    I can't even imagine being paralyzed. God bless this young woman and her caretakers.

    • @mzee5226
      @mzee5226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Rude, god did this to her!! So shut it

    • @dwindlefoddl7225
      @dwindlefoddl7225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@mzee5226 lmao...what's wrong troll.?! Need more attention.?! Poor wittle neglected troll..

    • @dwindlefoddl7225
      @dwindlefoddl7225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Simon Templar rofl...WATCH OUT PPL..THE YT POLICE are on duty

    • @DottyWagz
      @DottyWagz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Simon Templar she is a quad, i work in disabilities and this is what most quads look like. But hey what would I know............

    • @DottyWagz
      @DottyWagz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mzee5226 and God made you an insensitive prick.

  • @TaniaRouserArt
    @TaniaRouserArt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    Hi, Makayla! I’m a C6-7 quadriplegic, and I use the same kind of wheelchair as you with orange details on wheels 😊 I have functional triceps and a little bit of moving fingers so fortunately after years of rehab I am able to do my daily stuff independently. I even can change and feed my baby son. Thank you for your attitude and positive energy. God bless you!

    • @brittnyhawk8633
      @brittnyhawk8633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Wow that's awesome! Just inspiring.

    • @ItsLaurenE
      @ItsLaurenE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Congratulations on your rehabilitation! I'm sure this gives hope to so many. ❤

    • @AT-nq3sy
      @AT-nq3sy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Not to be rude but you were able to carry a child?

    • @TaniaRouserArt
      @TaniaRouserArt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@AT-nq3sy yes, he was a miracle I didn't plan for. I carried full term but he was born slightly underweight. he's 6 months old now and developing according to his milestones

    • @AT-nq3sy
      @AT-nq3sy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@TaniaRouserArt that is amazing. I’m so happy for you! Good luck to you and your sweet baby ❤️

  • @brady9434
    @brady9434 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I just randomly found this video on my feed. The inspiration this just gave me is palpable. You are SUCH a positive person despite what you’ve been through! God bless you and your family!!!!

  • @alexandrazabala1488
    @alexandrazabala1488 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    You are incredibly strong, brave courageous n so positive. Wishing you all the blessings and healing

  • @ozziefern2738
    @ozziefern2738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +819

    Makayla is so strong. I’m in a wheelchair too. This video stopped me from continuing to seriously consider suicide. Thank you.

    • @slypork5030
      @slypork5030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Reading this at 5am hoping you're OK. 💛🇬🇧

    • @cameraobscura2379
      @cameraobscura2379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Hi. I can't imagine the challenges you must face daily. I hope you can find a way to focus on the joys and pleasures the world still holds for you. Your mind and heart are still strong and fully capable of expressing yourself and loving. Love to you. ❤

    • @aj3974
      @aj3974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I'm glad that this video helped you! Take care❤️

    • @wrenholmes4474
      @wrenholmes4474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Much love and support

    • @SoulShiner1115
      @SoulShiner1115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Please stay strong and get help, if you haven’t already. I’m sure that being in a wheelchair is a struggle, especially if it’s a new/newer injury, but you can do it. There are so many people in wheelchairs that live a happy and full life. It is very possible. You are loved. You are important. Please don’t let your circumstances defeat you.

  • @bethanycypert9281
    @bethanycypert9281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    Hi! Nurse who has worked with a lot of brain and spinal cord injury patients here. I really hope it’s not too late for y’all to see this message because this video just popped up on my feed today. Giant time saving tip for compression hose….use a plastic grocery bag! Put the bag over her foot then the stocking will go on like BUTTER! Pull the bag out of the toe hole and adjust where needed! And you’re kind of recycling! One of the best tips I ever learned!

    • @rhondahayward4528
      @rhondahayward4528 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Absolutely , without the bag they are almost an impossible task !

    • @carriethweatt129
      @carriethweatt129 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I hope she read this

    • @sheliahills2546
      @sheliahills2546 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      We used baby powder in the nursing home to put on the compression hoses

    • @Ephyne
      @Ephyne ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Oh my gosh, thanks for this! My mom (paraplegic; I live with her to help after work) stopped wearing hers because they bother her for some reason-I guess it annoys her how hard they are to put on? I keep telling her she should keep then on & offering to help, but she waives it off or resists. Will have to try this with her, and hopefully she’ll go back wearing them…
      Also, do you have any tips for compression socks that will avoid trapping or allowing fluid to pool down below her ankles? Her legs don’t swell, but the tops of her feet do. She tries to keep them propped up & lifted when she can, but it still doesn’t prevent it completely. She’s wheelchair bound, and even though she used to use the socks before, they never seemed to help with this much or else seemed to compress in the wrong spots and trap fluid.

    • @ElysetheEevee
      @ElysetheEevee ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I really wish I would've known this when I worked in assisted living.

  • @Wide_leaf_indica710
    @Wide_leaf_indica710 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She has such a good attitude! Bless this girl and her family!

  • @Turfsurfer62
    @Turfsurfer62 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This ANGEL makes me cry and smile at the same time. I just want her to get better. And her devoted family is awesome!!!

  • @marssssssssh
    @marssssssssh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +667

    I used to be a CNA, taking care of someone is a full time job. Your family is wonderful for taking care of you. You are also an angel for your positivity 💛

    • @teresam2579
      @teresam2579 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is a CNA?

    • @returntoyehovahthelord6185
      @returntoyehovahthelord6185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@teresam2579 - Certified Nurses Aid

    • @dani_beee6965
      @dani_beee6965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My babydad has been a quad for 6 years and I used to help take care of him but I’m not able too anymore bc I have my own spinal issues to deal with and another spinal fusion from sports injuries but my babydaddy was hurt on a four wheeler in a horrible freak accident basically it’s so sad but our sob is our biggest blessing and motivation and god bless the caretakers and nurses who take care of the disabled bc I know how hard it is I’m also a nurse, disabled now too unfortunately but 🙏🙏💕💕🤪 live as if today is your last

    • @user-dy3kf5mk8m
      @user-dy3kf5mk8m 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kellygrumley6720
      @kellygrumley6720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@user-dy3kf5mk8m Weirdo

  • @anthonydavis4829
    @anthonydavis4829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    You are the best Christmas gift I've ever received. At 60 I had a major stroke & divorce 2021. You're my inspiration and now hero. Thank you for posting.

    • @TeresaSlivinski
      @TeresaSlivinski 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What a beautiful sentiment.

    • @kenwalker1111
      @kenwalker1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Such an inspiring young lady and example of the power of choosing joy over sadness. Peace and healing energy to you, lovely soul.

    • @glennwhitt7375
      @glennwhitt7375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just want to lift you up. At 52 lost my wife to covid 19 & my job and home because I got really sick & lost my vehicle. My wife& I lost our home in hurricane Michael . & in August 2021 I lost my 56 year old brother to covid 19. I love God & he is good& i believe you & i will have a good year this year. This world still needs you ok ? God has good plans for you🙂

    • @spitfire577
      @spitfire577 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@glennwhitt7375 I am wishing you all the best . Your story reminds me of job in the bible . I am very grateful for people like you and the beautiful young lady in video along with the other stories I have been reading . I have such admiration for others who are suffering with the worst times of their lives and have so much positive reactions to their situations . Thank all of you your families and many blessings to all .

    • @cnatestprep1341
      @cnatestprep1341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jesus Christ is a a wonderful gift of love. I pray you accept his free gift🤗

  • @jordynsmith6450
    @jordynsmith6450 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Her smile and joy and strength is so inspiring...

  • @lisagarrabrant1800
    @lisagarrabrant1800 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am so inspired watching this beautiful young lady walk us thru the daily "doings" in her life now. Makala...you are blessed with an amazing sibling and mother. You can help so many young quadriplelegis by showing them this routine and how you are taking life day by day with such an amazing attitude. I see ZERO self pity here. You, my dear, are FABULOUS! xoxo

  • @TraciHinesMusic
    @TraciHinesMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2048

    Wow. What an absolutely beautiful family. Your joy and love for each other just shines out from all three of you and your spirits are absolutely captivating. Thank you so much for sharing some of your life with us. TH-cam needs more videos like this and creators like you! ❤️

    • @davereynolds7104
      @davereynolds7104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Could not have said it any better! It always comes back to Family!

    • @DDL2728
      @DDL2728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amen, Traci!! This is the first time I've seen Makayla's videos, & I've subscribed & will definitely be watching! She is amazing & a true inspiration, in so many ways! God bless her & her loving family! I will pray & trust God to continue to bless her with her testimony!

    • @ro3in327
      @ro3in327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sooo gay

    • @ro3in327
      @ro3in327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TraciJhined = GAY

    • @monalucia2610
      @monalucia2610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen 🙏🏼

  • @clayton9136
    @clayton9136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    You're the most optimistic group of women I've ever seen. Literally incredible.

    • @erikakarafa-chin2710
      @erikakarafa-chin2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I definitely agree 👍 with you, Clayton. U r definitely the most optimistic group of women I’ve ever seen in my entire life. So amazingly incredible!

  • @violetwilliamson2570
    @violetwilliamson2570 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wooooow! More than anything I am so inspired by your beautiful positive spirit... what a beacon of light you can be to so many people both young and old alike!!!! Thank you so much for your courage and your willingness to share your story with others! I pray God's blessings on you every day!

  • @wendyfoster5579
    @wendyfoster5579 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What an amazing attitude you have. I am sure there are tough days but you can inspire so many.

  • @Rani-bv7hw
    @Rani-bv7hw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +405

    I cared for quadriplegics for 10 years before I had my children. I've seen people at all stages of dealing with their injury. You are doing so so well. I am in awe of your mother and sister and family. Keep going. You're amazing.

    • @gracieamazing2076
      @gracieamazing2076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow. You must be a fantastic person. I know I couldn't but I praise you.

    • @whatrtheodds
      @whatrtheodds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are so loving 💓 and supportive

  • @theleopardcat938
    @theleopardcat938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Been paraplegic since 2000, so I know about the every day struggles. But we ARE just as capable as anyone else just have to get a little help and find alternatives ways of doing it. Love your channel you're so inspiring!

  • @drummerboy1545
    @drummerboy1545 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful to see family helping out when really need it.

  • @merikaislamurto9225
    @merikaislamurto9225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your positivity is amazing, i‘m so proud of you and i‘m glad your family takes such good care of you ❤️

  • @electricmick357
    @electricmick357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    8 years as a quadriplegic here. Treat everything as rehab even if it's just petting the cat. 👍

    • @michaelcooper9705
      @michaelcooper9705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Cats are a great comfort 💯

    • @juniorvonclaire3576
      @juniorvonclaire3576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m a Rottweiler owner. Definitely agree with the cat route. You don’t want a 100+ lbs. dog on your lap. lol not enough compression in the world. Would take a body cast 😅 “Here boy!”
      I hope you’re doing ok. 🙏🏻

  • @larissamowry1364
    @larissamowry1364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    My brother is a paraplegic. He has a piece on his bed that is similar to an air mattress that inflates and deflates periodically in different areas of the bed so he doesnt get bed sores. It has an air compressor that sits under the bed. Idk if this helps but it might be something to look into. Good luck on your journey!!!

    • @BrandyH-eh9up
      @BrandyH-eh9up 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s a good idea!

    • @lindsey8231
      @lindsey8231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      We use this type of bed at the hospital. Very helpful and reduce time consuming

    • @sagbrady8414
      @sagbrady8414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I actually remember something like that when my daughter had surgery..it kept inflating & deflating so she wouldn't get bed sores

    • @gordoswife
      @gordoswife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My son also has one and it has really helped. He was just hospitalized for 3 weeks in November. The mattress had one built in. It looks very similar to the mattress she has, so she may already be using one.

    • @hollyekeler6379
      @hollyekeler6379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! & they are super comfortable! I had one in the hospital!

  • @ariqueen8979
    @ariqueen8979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how positive you are about the whole situation!!God bless you!!

  • @wanjieriblackman6761
    @wanjieriblackman6761 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your attitude is amazing. Just a few minutes into the video and I had to subscribe. Just the love and positivity and grace !!! Very inspiring. God bless you and your family !

  • @koralp2059
    @koralp2059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    Fun tip for the Compression Stocking! Since the foot is open at the end, if you put a plastic bag over her foot and up her leg THEN try to put on the hose, the hose will slide up the leg SUPER easily then you can pull the trash bag down from the foot and it slides out!! Saved me SO much time as a CNA taking care of rehab patients needing those things! They also have special tools you can buy that are the same concept, just not a plastic bag 😅

    • @reginamcadory674
      @reginamcadory674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That is a big help. Some brands come with an open toe sleeve that you can just pull off after you get it on.

    • @krittles
      @krittles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes! I was going to suggest the same thing. CNA for many years here. The bag method really makes them go on SO much more easily!

    • @evercuriousmichelle
      @evercuriousmichelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Oh my gosh, I worked as a personal care attendant and no one taught me this trick!! I wish I had known! Also, Makayla, you probably already have this, but they make these mattresses called alternating air pressure mattresses that help you to make sure you never rest on one spot too long. They're pretty cool!

    • @orangew3988
      @orangew3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Legit was gonna write this tip down! Such a life changer on an elective surgical ward with 20 patients needing new stockings on every morning!

    • @KendraWilson
      @KendraWilson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely best tip to get the socks on. I came here to leave the exact comment 😊.

  • @johnmcdonough955
    @johnmcdonough955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    "I can not do that Yet." You are an inspiration young lady and I have the greatest respect for your family who love dearly and care wildly for you.

  • @kimberlyannesmith3450
    @kimberlyannesmith3450 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG girl, sending lots of love hugs and prayers for a speedy recovery

  • @rhiannonmahoney1919
    @rhiannonmahoney1919 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have just been watching totally random videos on TH-cam nothing in particular, and I just happened to see that one of your videos had popped up not this video another video but I clicked on it anyway and just kind of scrolled through and went to the beginning and kept scrolling and landed on this one. I am so glad that I watched this video!! You are an inspiration! An amazing young woman dealing with something that is beyond comprehension. A situation where many people would find it hard to smile yet your smile was shining bright through the entire video!!! With an amazing family that you are so lucky to have, I wish you health and happiness!!!!! Much love from Boston!!!

  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +752

    A little ray of sunshine🧸💗🌈
    Thank you for your light ✨

    • @gay8389
      @gay8389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ahhh hi

    • @Realzproductreviews
      @Realzproductreviews 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😍

    • @kandelika2902
      @kandelika2902 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a beautiful wise soul she is! She started her day (and her Video) with a big smile.

    • @ertanbalkir8670
      @ertanbalkir8670 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello from London England United Kingdom ❤️

    • @ertanbalkir8670
      @ertanbalkir8670 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello from London England United Kingdom ❤️

  • @shel4252
    @shel4252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Girl, I am literally crying watching this. And it's not because I feel bad for you. It's because of your positive attitude, and your gratitude. You have a heart of gold. ❤️

    • @atorahwarrior8567
      @atorahwarrior8567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At least, she has a mobility on her right hand. I was taking care of a quad and he's very nice. He's an engineer and still goes to work with the help of someone.
      He only has a li'l mobility on his left hand, but he can feed himself, with a little assistance.

    • @GardenJensJourney
      @GardenJensJourney 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!!

  • @debrafabac8776
    @debrafabac8776 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You are the MOST beautiful , strong , awe inspiring, mentally tough, incredible , other worldly young woman I have ever seen.
    I cannot express how blown away I am by your strength and the strength of your amazing family. I am new to your channel and look forward to witnessing your courageous journey continue.
    God Bless you always. You probably don’t even realize just how incredible you truly are. 😘🙏

  • @6thgraderfriends
    @6thgraderfriends ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'd love to see an updated version of this to see how much strength you've gained!

  • @ataristeve9753
    @ataristeve9753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    Hi Makayla, I'm Steve. This video popped up in my recommended videos this morning and I'm so glad it did! I was born with Spina Bifida, and when I was born there weren't tests to show it like there are now. My parents were told I may be able to live to 15 years old. By God's amazing grace, I am now 48 years old! You have a God-given gift for cheerleading and I believe He has opened the door for you to have a much greater audience. Your beautiful smile is exactly what I needed today.

    • @jenlachtara4398
      @jenlachtara4398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There's an easier way to get this hose on.
      Look for the plastic bag trick.
      Seriously saves a ton of time!

    • @kaptain113
      @kaptain113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah God's amazing grace. He sure looked out for you and this poor woman. Get real.

    • @danithedem8880
      @danithedem8880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@kaptain113 how dare u talk down to him about his faith..If he wants to believe in God or the tooth fairy it's his damn business..U atheists are free not to believe...but keep ur damn closed minded negativity to ur damn self.

    • @kaptain113
      @kaptain113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No. It's not negativity, it's reality. Her doctors saved her and made it so she can function. You faithers push your nonsense on us all the time. I'm not gonna be quiet. God's grace sure showed them, huh?

    • @kaptain113
      @kaptain113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      /s on this one I think
      Much more powerful. He provided the doctors to help. He invented the tech to lift her out of bed and communicate this video. He has a plan. To cause this pain with no relief. Oh, and only in the last 100 years was any kind of help possible. Oh and only where you can afford it. Fuck you poor people! Thanks god!

  • @fefemyluv
    @fefemyluv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    To be 2 months out and have the ability to talk about this so candidly is amazing. You will get stronger and stronger, and some of those gadgets you will no longer need. God bless you!

    • @williamsworld4873
      @williamsworld4873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen!

    • @44unda
      @44unda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Many nights falling asleep in tears. Don't get it twisted

    • @carriezhao3097
      @carriezhao3097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@44unda but she looks so positive though!

    • @ertanbalkir8670
      @ertanbalkir8670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello from London England United Kingdom ❤️

  • @robertdimitrelis5567
    @robertdimitrelis5567 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Her ability to be so resilient, positive and keep smiling, truly inspires me. I admire her, hats off Makyla.

  • @vickyhamlin
    @vickyhamlin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video popped up on my feed. You are such an inspiration and the positivity shines through. I've been bedbound 7 years now with Chronic illness and wonder how it will feel when I reintegrate into society. Watching this has given me the encouragement I need to keep going. Thanks for sharing 💕✨ xx

  • @samanthad2147
    @samanthad2147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Your life changing injury was only 2 months ago and you are this positive and upbeat??? Amazing. You go girl. Love your positivity and strength. It’ll only get better each day as you recover! Mind and spirit is more than half the battle.

    • @mzee5226
      @mzee5226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s disabled she’s not upbeat and positive

    • @owl_uwu1297
      @owl_uwu1297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@mzee5226 I'm not sure what you're on about. She seems very positive with the given situation.

    • @janetwilliams8630
      @janetwilliams8630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@mzee5226 she is upbeat snd positive, despite her paralysis. Yo go Makayla👍🏼

    • @samanthad2147
      @samanthad2147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mzee5226 what kind of a reply is that? Obviously this is extremely traumatic for her. I was simply being kind & responding to her amazing strength & attitude about what she’s going through. She is being upbeat & positive in sharing her story. If u have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all. 🙄

    • @lynnhexler-haan3357
      @lynnhexler-haan3357 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mzee5226
      I find your statement abrupt,clipped & just plain ignorant! Life has dealt this young lady a cruel blow, she has not let it diminish her spirit or dull her shine & appreciation of life.
      I can only applaud her & marvel at the positivity that comes from the family overall, you all are inspiration to so many. May I wish you all well for the future!

  • @the_crewchef
    @the_crewchef 2 ปีที่แล้ว +693

    wow, just wow. all strength and bravery to you girl! Keep at it!

    • @user-dy3kf5mk8m
      @user-dy3kf5mk8m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @bebelove--
      @bebelove-- 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-dy3kf5mk8m English?

    • @cookies6455
      @cookies6455 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is it brave? Corona? Is that what you're talking about?

    • @commadere27
      @commadere27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh

    • @ConnyNordlicht
      @ConnyNordlicht 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cookies6455 It IsS brave to show how minimalistic it is what she can do by herself, how much she trained to keep brushing her teeth by herself, to show her weakness and her trust in future although she nearly lost it all. She shows guys who are newbies in this that it's wjrth to go on. That really IS brave!

  • @chaseriderthetruthchaser5988
    @chaseriderthetruthchaser5988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Young lady , you're inspiring and you make me feel like my problems are nother at all, please keep going strong and showing the world that you going to live your best life no matter what.

  • @johnclements9085
    @johnclements9085 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the way she says good morning right away is so beautiful....i dont think i would be able to keep a positive attitude...I wish the best for you!

  • @NaomiVictorias
    @NaomiVictorias 2 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    You are a literal ray of sunshine 🥺😍🤍🌞

  • @luluxinator7935
    @luluxinator7935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    This literally randomly popped up on my timeline &I was totally confused just by the title but because it's unbelievable. Wow this young lady is so happy and her spirit is so rich&vibrant. I can not compute how much of a change this must be for u and ur family.ur confidence is amazing u are amazing God bless ur strength is of great magnitude &I hope u prosper forever and ever .I'm glad I watched TH-cam knew what I needed to see merry Christmas love&may u continue to conquer ur new goals😍🥰😘

  • @beth6288
    @beth6288 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a joy this beautiful girl can bring to whom ever watch her videos shes full of inspiration and hope for every one of us ...

  • @ashleybush3150
    @ashleybush3150 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your family is a blessing, you're beautiful and strong!

  • @neverenoughcowbell809
    @neverenoughcowbell809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    You know with all the hatred, and garbage that we constantly see. This is so refreshing and inspirational. Thank You

  • @chrisleigh485
    @chrisleigh485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I remember sleeping in those claw stoppers and TED hose. I was 20 when I broke my neck. I know it’s the hardest thing you will ever grow through, especially in the beginning. It’s been 20 years now, and it feels like it just happened. Please believe me….it gets better. I continued to get things back over the next few years, and even though I had to become a lefty, I can use one hand normally. Just KEEP PRACTICING. The more you do, the better it gets; I promise. One more thing…doctors do not know everything and they cannot predict anything either. I know you probably have thousands of people to talk to, but if you ever need to talk to someone who has been where you are, PLEASE contact me. Christie ☺️

    • @nattyslim124
      @nattyslim124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So ,sweet Christie. I hope all is well now.

    • @aprilfriend3787
      @aprilfriend3787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless you to Christie

  • @DudeGuyWho
    @DudeGuyWho ปีที่แล้ว

    Nearly in tears at how bright and loving each of you are. I know it can't always feel that way - but amazed at what you do do.

  • @SevenGC89
    @SevenGC89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such an inspiration Makayla! You're so lucky to have such a loving Mom and Sister. I can relate to you a lot. I have been sick all my life, I was born with a super rare kidney/liver disease and in my life (I'm 33) I have undergone 3 kidney transplants and 1 liver transplant and live with constant pain. The last transplant was in 2017 and was a kidney/liver and I was in the ICU for the first 2 months post OP and can attest to just how IMPORTANT that turning every 2 hours is for someone that isn't able to themselves. Sadly during my 2 months in ICU there was a 48 hour period where for reasons unknown to me (I was unconcious) I wasn't turned and developed a stage 4 backside wound that went all the way to my tailbone. It turned my recovery from what was supposed to be 3 months into 8 and left me with perm damage. I just wanted to let you know how inspiring you are, your attitude says so much about your personality as a whole and I can 100% confirm attitude is a huge part of any moment of our lives, it's so easy to let negetivity rule when something has changed your life and made things more difficult. Never stop being a warrior, and never lose that amazing beautiful spirit you have!

  • @wheeln00
    @wheeln00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    I'm a 1st time watcher and I'm also a c6-c7 quadriplegic with some tricep strength. My injury happened when I was 19 and now I'm 52 with a wife of 23 yrs. and 2 Daughters. Life has been great. Attitude is everything and you and your family seem to have the right attitude. Stay positive and keep trying new things. GOOD LUCK and GOD BLESS.
    GAME CHANGER - I sleep on a waterbed and can lay in the same position all night and I have never had any skin problems.

    • @daughterofenoch677
      @daughterofenoch677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You had two daughters while paralyzed ? That's ...um...

    • @paloma_lopez
      @paloma_lopez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Disable ppl can have kids too u know , thats none of ur buisness . 🤐 , Dont lisen to this person . Thanks for sharing , My cousins are the same and this opens my eyes more to know how to help .
      Like u said its all about the attitude , if ur always grumpy life stinks , but a positive attiude can always get you through the rough days .

    • @wierdo1111x
      @wierdo1111x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@daughterofenoch677 paralysis does not faze the mighty penis

    • @miawallace2306
      @miawallace2306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @josh I see what you did there

    • @daughterofenoch677
      @daughterofenoch677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @wheeln00
      Just ignore these silly sorts trying to take offence on your behalf. You sound like a man who can hold his own in conversation and who doesn't need "internet saviours" to come pick him off the floor (figuratively)
      Blessings.x

  • @Marie-ll1wy
    @Marie-ll1wy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    "I don't deserve all this stuff" ARE YOU KIDDING ME? YOU DESERVE THE WORLD MISS NOBLE. You, your mom and your sister are the strongest women on his planet, all of the three of you are inspiring

  • @julieshaw1452
    @julieshaw1452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praying for complete healing!!! You all rock!!!❤

  • @faerisoul
    @faerisoul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    When my dad was 16 he broke his neck in a car accident. He was originally paralyzed from the neck down but eventually regained use of his left arm and leg and partial use of his right arm and leg. Its amazing how much the human body can go through, I wish you all the luck on your recovery and the strength to follow through.

    • @davidgilbert5301
      @davidgilbert5301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's scary how fragile the human body is..

    • @thefriendlyandroidband5588
      @thefriendlyandroidband5588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God bless your Dad. He's a warrior and a real-life hero. Just living with and overcoming those kinds of obstacles floors me.

    • @faerisoul
      @faerisoul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Wasssup Dawwwg No.

    • @faerisoul
      @faerisoul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@thefriendlyandroidband5588 Thanks! He wouldn't think of it that way though, he's just a guy living his life.

    • @thefriendlyandroidband5588
      @thefriendlyandroidband5588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Wasssup Dawwwg let's be more respectful please. There are medical procedures to help injured persons plus his accident could have happened after he had children.

  • @iamknosound
    @iamknosound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    God bless her soul. Just when you think your job, relationship, neighbors, traffic, or spouse is too much to deal with, remember this beautiful woman with a heart of Gold.

  • @grandmagina1964
    @grandmagina1964 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a positive force in this world. Thank you for sharing your life with us!

  • @mariawhitney1603
    @mariawhitney1603 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your energy, attitude and smile!! You are a blessing to me!!

  • @StancyInTheCity
    @StancyInTheCity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Her mother and sister’s life changed drastically the moment she broke her neck. Their whole life is now about caring for this person. The devotion is incredible

    • @oisaux25
      @oisaux25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Family sharing their lives because they know love and good values.

    • @godzillaqueen
      @godzillaqueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Psychologically they WILL struggle with resenting the burden and caregiver burnout.

    • @oisaux25
      @oisaux25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@godzillaqueen more then most people will ever know. This amount care will have incredible affects on the care givers' lives. Now look at what their sacrifice provides. Uh I'm sorry to post this but it is important to explore these truths.

    • @vanilla5245
      @vanilla5245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@oisaux25 it's also more important to focus on the fact that disabled communities have no other damn choice. So if they dont want to rely on them or her family was abusive or simply not there for her she would be screwed. Many are in this position. How about instead of talking about caregiver burnout you talk about patient burnout? There is no damn resources for dependant disabled communities. Imagine being disabled and having to navigate everything on your own especially when there's no resources for you and any type of possibility is through tons of inaccessible hoop jumping and red tape. If you think it's a burden on the family then help change the medical system so theres other choices.

    • @oisaux25
      @oisaux25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Could you direct your comment to the right person please. Perhaps re-read?

  • @michaelh7527
    @michaelh7527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    She seems to be more full with life than most other people.... It really is a gift to have positive people like this around.

    • @abaddon4468
      @abaddon4468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love how she is so positive but you find a way to interject some negativity into this

  • @purpadurp84
    @purpadurp84 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Makayla you are so inspirational. Thank you! Its such a pleasure to learn about all your accomplishments!!

  • @EXXCE
    @EXXCE 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I admire her and her family, they brought me to tears many times. It is so human and so real to see, all my love

  • @elizabethcarroll8713
    @elizabethcarroll8713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    I love how she is always in good spirits. She doesn’t let anything hold her back.

    • @mythm4140
      @mythm4140 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That sounds wrong lol

    • @americajanson8848
      @americajanson8848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah she probably get the best drugs

    • @TheBeingReal
      @TheBeingReal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m pretty sure we just see the happy parts.

    • @olivialee3261
      @olivialee3261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The confidence too! I had surgery on my neck and would literally refuse to go anywhere w/ my neck brace lol

    • @timothypulliam2177
      @timothypulliam2177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's because the family has money. Imagine if they were poor

  • @dvitorino007
    @dvitorino007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    My grandmother got polio in her 20's. She went on to get married and had 4 children.she always had a smile and cheered up everyone who entered her room to visit her, you remind me of her.

    • @ashfaqjuna
      @ashfaqjuna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Impressive. What a wonderful character she must have been.

  • @danielcantwell9600
    @danielcantwell9600 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such an inspiration lady you really are the way you smile and stay strong is incredible to see.

  • @kristinberdis2827
    @kristinberdis2827 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have such a great attitude and so lucky to have so much support.

  • @marywangen4696
    @marywangen4696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    My Aunt became a quad at 16. I was her caretaker for a few years. Her positive attitude and love for life was infectious!
    You remind me of her.

    • @sylviaschepers5166
      @sylviaschepers5166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What happened to your sister? Did she get better? I saw a video of when Mickla was in the hospital 😢❗ It was so sad to see what she had to go through 😢❗ She like a lot of those whom become quads at first go through a depression and being someone who myself is disabled and have to use a wheelchair a lot of the time I can so understand 😢❗ I just got told that I am just getting worse. It seems that my bones are disappearing. I need to have surgery on my neck again to refuse it. But this time they said that they would have to do more of my spine. That means going from the base of my skull down to between my shoulders. But they can't because my bones aren't strong enough right now. I have to get infusions to try and build up the bones. Right now I run the risk of becoming a quad or even die. Because the fusion they had done already has clasped on itself. And there's just so much that can happen. I have a what I call a grocery list of things going on with me. But I try my best to try and stay out of the wheelchair if at all possible 😜. So I know what it takes to do just the simplest things to others but to you it's like a huge milestone! She has come such a long way. I'm so proud of her. Keep up the great work kiddo 👍😏❗

  • @kita3256
    @kita3256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Your positivity is inspiring. I’ve been suicidal for a while, but seeing your determination makes me feel renewed and empowered. Thank you for inspiring me.

    • @amfla3787
      @amfla3787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I don't know you, but I'm glad you're here 🕊️

    • @immealldayeveryday9425
      @immealldayeveryday9425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Keep positive, wishing u only the best 💜

    • @kel9n12
      @kel9n12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hello from a stranger 🤗 just for living in this world, you’re so strong already 💕

    • @lindseywagoner5848
      @lindseywagoner5848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are so loved! ❤️✌️

    • @creepyb703
      @creepyb703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Another stranger here - I’ve felt the same at times - wishing you strength and resolutions to what is troubling you- you matter

  • @jonathanellis7758
    @jonathanellis7758 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I could not stop tearing up during this video. This girl is so gorgeous. Such a vibrant outlook on life. Such an energetic and loving personality. Ive never met her and yet i want to hug her. I feel like such a piece of shit for being depressed with my life and I’ve never had to endure anything close to this. You are so strong and you are an inspiration to me. Thank you for making this video and shedding some perspective on my life. You are so beautiful in and out and your mom and sister are too. I have so much respect for you guys you just have no idea. Keep fighting girl never give up you got this. I am so rooting for you!❤

  • @MNlaw1234
    @MNlaw1234 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re smile, sweet spirit and story are so inspiring. You have me sobbing and yet so full of hope. You’re an incredible young lady. God bless you and your beautiful family. You’re all amazing!

  • @beet6470
    @beet6470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    First of all, I am so sorry this happened to you. As a quadriplegic of 20 years, I can attest to it being one of the hardest things one can go through, for the person themselves and their family.
    But from watching your video, I can see you are a cheerful, upbeat young lady and a good attitude is something that will help you out so much! And your family seems wonderful and willing to help in whatever way they can, which is beautiful and amazing to see.
    If I can give some advice from my own personal experience, it would be these things:
    - keep up with your physical therapy as much as you can and with your home exercises daily. I hated therapy. I was in a car accident at 13 and from being in school most day then straight to therapy afterwards three times a week and getting home late, I grew to hate it. I just wanted to be a kid and do my own thing. I didn’t realize how important it was to keeping me strong and healthy until years after I stopped and I could no longer be in my wheelchair most of the day like I used to. I get tired after an hour or two and am in bed most of the time now.
    - Family is SO important! But there will be hard times. There will be resentment on both ends. But these will just be moments. Try to remember that in the heat of the moment.
    - If your mother is going to be your exclusive care provider like mine is, or your father, or any person in your family really, be sure to have someone outside your family, preferably a professional, trained nurse or caregiver, who knows how to take care of your every need in case of an emergency or even just if your mother or etc needs a little vacation for self care, which will become so important for her mental health because if we’re not careful, our parents will give their all in taking care of us and leave nothing for themselves. As an example of an emergency, my mother had to stay in the hospital for 4 days last year and was unable to care for me. My sister came from out of state with her family and could take care of me fine except for my going to the bathroom. We hadn’t taught her because we didn’t think we needed to and we had no one else on such short notice. We called a program that had caregivers but enrolling into it took days. Needless to say, it was a wake up call.
    - Talking to a licensed therapist could be so helpful for you and your family. This is such a life changing event that has happened, there are things, mentally and emotionally that need to be worked through.
    - For your schooling, make sure your needs are met. It is your right. I went to a small high school where everyone knew everyone and the teachers and students were great and they helped me with everything I needed, aides that walked with me to open doors, to write for me, to get me my books etc. The school provided a laptop with a touchpad mouse so I could do my work. But this wasn’t the case when I went to college. They said I couldn’t have a person that went with me to my classes because it would be like this person was taking the classes for free but that a student could take notes for me. I needed more since I couldn’t get the necessary books or materials for myself for each class. I was such a quiet, reserved kid that asking other students for help was a hurdle for me and I had to on a daily basis for doors that weren’t accessible, items that fell, etc. I ended up dropping out after two weeks. Make sure you receive all the help you need to succeed, make your voice heard and never give up on your goals and dreams.
    I’m sorry for the length of this comment!
    I wish you and your family all the best!
    If you have any questions, please feel free to ask ☺️

    • @gracieamazing2076
      @gracieamazing2076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you so much

    • @oopsiedaisy1320
      @oopsiedaisy1320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      What a thoughtful post to help her get through. Your a strong person and are now doing what you can to help others blessings to you

    • @beet6470
      @beet6470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@oopsiedaisy1320 You're such a kind person, thank you. Blessings to you and yours as well!

    • @damolaogunleye6341
      @damolaogunleye6341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thanks for putting the time to right all this out to help her. God bless you and help you throughout the rest of your long and happy life

    • @beet6470
      @beet6470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@damolaogunleye6341 Thank you very much! I appreciate your words, they put a smile on my face. May God bring you and yours much joy and many blessings!

  • @donlocke64
    @donlocke64 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Won’t lie, the effort that it takes you to do ordinary things, brought a tear to my eye, keep up the good work and stay strong

    • @xana5649
      @xana5649 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sad

    • @kaktusdesiberie7196
      @kaktusdesiberie7196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We take a lot of things for granted. I’m absolutely humbled by her mindset!

  • @adambourne5141
    @adambourne5141 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I saw this video two years ago when it was released. I'm now a cat owner and often think about the part where she talks about being gentle with cats when I'm loving on my furball! Thank you for the inspiration!

  • @kathleenleonard3461
    @kathleenleonard3461 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My sister was a quadriplegic also from a car accident. She lived 20 yrs . But she was 45 when she had her accident. Technology is changing everyday don't give up you have more mobility than she did. And your upbeat personality and postive attitude will help you alot don't isolate yourself. I am glad your going out to shop . Sending love ❤️ to you and your family. And prayers.

  • @pillowtoonz3283
    @pillowtoonz3283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    The fact that she still smiles fills me with so much joy, It’s completely incredible to see someone get a bad play in life but come out on top with a smile. You’re amazing. Along with your mother and your sister. I appreciate you guys so much. Keep being you! ♡♡♡

  • @rairlove5678
    @rairlove5678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I’ve been a C3 quadriplegic for over 15 years. I have a wife and 5 children. Stay strong and positive. Always try to be independent and adapt. Most important, live to the best of your current capabilities and let go of the past. God bless you.

  • @sadiestyles5023
    @sadiestyles5023 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are such a bright happy person! That’s amazing💜

  • @deant6361
    @deant6361 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I worked as a paramedic for 17 years and I think you are incredible woman

  • @raynavarra
    @raynavarra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Truly incredible young lady. Makes me ashamed when I feel sorry for myself over nothing. Keep working. The world is yours.

    • @wintersprite
      @wintersprite 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      there will always be people who have bigger problems, obstacles, etc. and people who have smaller ones. Don’t let that invalidate yours.

  • @peggyandjamie9530
    @peggyandjamie9530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    I’m sure you have bad days and it just doesn’t seem fair but I just want you to know that you’re smile and happiness is helping others like me ! Thank you! God bless you and you’re family

  • @psaintpscott
    @psaintpscott 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love watching her videos when they pop up. She is super pretty and I admire her persistence and positivity. She is a big inspiration to me❤

  • @thatsher2059
    @thatsher2059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Lord. Please forgive me if I ever seem ungrateful. The next time I even attempt to complain, I will think about this beautiful young lady. Sweetheart. U have taught me to be happy no matter what situation I am in. Your strength and perserverance are incredible. God allowed that spinal injury to happen to you, because not only did he know that you could handle it like a pro, he also knew you would teach people like me to be grateful in all circumstances. I appreciate you showing your journey, and I am in love with your family! They are the true definition of what family is all about. Thank you for being a light to the world, and an inspiration to so many. Keep up the good work, and know that you have people like me rooting for you. I cannot wait to see your progress, and how u wake up smiling everyday can teach us all a thing or 2. Thank you again. I am forever humbled. God bless you all.

    • @Gitn2it
      @Gitn2it 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maykala is a testament to the human spirit. She and her family have already been blessed with someone they love and someone who loves them in return.

    • @thatsher2059
      @thatsher2059 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gitn2it And your point is? Whats with the negativity? You could've kept your comment to yourself for all that. And I'm sure Makayla would say the same.

  • @ttgyuioo
    @ttgyuioo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Your life can change in a moment..now, it's whole new world. She's lucky to have a supportive family.