Why Children Don't Listen | Salman Asif Siddiqui
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ม.ค. 2025
- An overwhelming majority of parents and teachers in our society can be found complaining that their kids don't listen to them. But why is that so? In this extensive talk, Salman Asif Siddiqui lays down some very important and rational reasons that explain why kids don't listen.
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سونے کے پانی سے لکھنے کے قابل گفتگو ہے سلمان صاحب کی
اللہ تعالی ہمیں عمل کی توفیق دیں آمین
Zabardast lecture. I am benefited. Solute to you.
Salman bhai, You are so underrated. May Allah keep you firm on your mission.
Zabardast u r the best in Pakistan Salman living in Virginia I always follow your lectures my prayers for u inshaAllah
اللہ آپ کے خلوص، علم، اسلوب اور دعوت سے امت کو بہت نفع عطا فرمائے۔ آمین
ماشأاﷲ
اللہ آپ کی عمر دراز کریں۔
آمین
ilahi aameen
Golden words. Every family has this problem.
Jazak Allah .Allah bless you .
Ma Sha Allah aik hi din me 2 lectures oh my good luck thanks ERDC 😀❤
kya bolte hain yar Ma Sha Allah, aik aik baat dil ko lagti hai
Assalamualaikum to all the team of erdc
We r grateful to u
Jazakallah for all your efforts
Keep working
Bht zabardast janab ma sha Allah. Allah pak ham ko amal ki tofeeq naseeb farmain ameen sum ameen. Or aap ko dhairon khushyan naseeb farmain ameen sum ameen.
Jazak Allah
Aik aik word MOTi he ... golden words... Masha Allah....
Nice 👍 bilkul sai
Jazakillah khair ⭐Allah ap ki hefazt kry👍🏻
MashaAllah Jazakallahu khair
Ma sha Allah extremly nice parenting video..request to all parents must listen it and use it at daily time....JazakAllah sir
Thank you so much erdc..May Allah bless you all...I'm very grateful to Allah that I got to know about this channel
jazakAllah hu khayir sir Asif Salman sidique... bHT qeemti baten 💯❣️💎
Aaj ka din meray liay bht accha tha Sir Salman say first time milay bht accha laga.
Where is his institute (erdc)
Mairay bachhay aur bhateeja bhanjay sab kehna maantay Hein. Alhamdullulah.Ibam grateful and lucky.I love them unconditionally.
جزاک اللہ خیر
Jazak-Allah
golden words☆☆☆☆☆
God is great💐
Thx alots ❤️
Nice topic
thanku
Sir....
Your efforts are well done
ماشااللہ بہت خوب اسلوب اور انداز
MashaAllah JazakAllah
Bhtreen
Excellent job sir!
Allah ap ko salamat rkhy
You are 95% right
He himself first suffered from all those things, he is also not alone
Bache unki baat maanne ke liye tayaar nahi hote sewae inkaar krne keh jin ki ikhlaaq pr zara sa bhi shuba ho
31:40 baap aur beta saath beth bhi jae to unka baat krne ka dil nahi chata jab wo 13 years tak pohach jate hai kiun ke unko intellectual talk chahiye hoti hai na keh nahi chahiye hoti
56:13 most worst place to go with childrens are malls (not jungles) because malls have too much noise not silence
Please make video on how to tell stories and waqiyaat to the children in detail. I'm poor at story telling.
First start story telling from books .
Me 17saal ka hun or baap banne ki tayari karra hun yani perenting Sikh ra hun
Follow meissamama youtube
I once n twice gave story of paigambars on mobile watch and prompt 2 - 3 questions from it in interesting way ..later I started to ask in my created diniyaat class as story time one liner questions ...q like ..name the paigambar(a s) who was first,created by god,name we ho is the last.. ,who is the one fish gulp for 40 days? Name the ayat which he recited ..?name the paigambar who's stick was eaten away by ants?..etc in a deniyat class type attire and it works fabulously.n bed time stories habit and recalling the stories again n again..n listening their stories with eye Contact .
MashaAllah nice way of talking sir.... great speech👍🏻
Assalamoalaikum.
All the lectures are worth watching. May i give a couple of humble suggestions,
1. Is it possible to keep a fast tempo. Some times there is repetition of the same messag. As for as i can recall, if the duration of any lectures exceeds 45 min, brain looses its capacity to retain, untill and unless a short gap of any form is given?
2. If you recap the lecture at the end and give a short take home message it will be very beneficial.
Best regards.
Fast forward Karke dekhlein
Actually this is way of dawah and its sunnah of our last Prophet Mohammad SAW, things which you want to be accepted by someone is repeated again and again in such a way that is not annoying. If someone repeats one thing for more than 45 minutes is wrong but to tell different things after each minute is not annoying at all and mind acceptance is less if same thing is repeated for more than 45 minutes.
If we really want to understand his concepts it takes ages not only few minutes but it depends on our priorities.
@@naziaalishah6311 جزاک اللہ خیر ۔ وضاحت کا شکریہ۔ آپ نے درست فرمایا
@@gulnazkhalid6752 wonderful advice in a wondrfull way, may Allah reword you for beautiful ikhlaaq
Watch it in a higher speed, and take notes, when message repeated it gives you time to check your notes are correct
JazakAllah boht Ala
sir boht khoob ,i am big fan of u boht mza aata h apki speech sunne m,god blees u sir thx v much
This is right way of thinking 🎊🌈🌈🌅💯✨🔓
Sir apki videos ke liye aik like bohut kum hei meri taraf se🙏😟
Beshakh
I m waiting....
Waiting
Good
Amazing
I really love you sir for the sake of Allah,U r my beloved Sheikh
Nice
great🖒
How to contact sir?? I have some questions, so much in need.
Pls add English subtitles
Mashallah nice 👍
Allah un logon ko hidayat de jinhone ye video dislike kia ha hai
Very beneficial lecture, I just object to word Jadu 33:32. Hope there is another Urdu word to describe sweetness in our tongue
زبردست۔ماشااللہ۔
I love my parents because they give us a lot of love and care
JzakAllah
I pray for Erdc team
Main bhi a pnay buchon ko achi kahaniyan aor hidith sunati hon MashaAllah alhumdolilah
Ya kon log hai Jo unlike krta hai
Sir......I'm a regular listener of your lectures.Not only a learner but also try to implement your suggestions regarding parenting issues in my life.I've two teenage boys n can say a good bonding with them but I felt totally blank when somedays ago my son said to me that gradually he has been decreasing his love for me .
What it should sound to me???
Can you please share some books or links to good stories for kids of different age groups. I need for 10 to 15 years boys specially
Zabardast
MashaAllah very helpful. JazakAllah
Sir kindly make your video duration 30 mins so that we may take information in less time
Sir,
Assalam o alaikum,aap ka lecture bahut achhe hote hain.aap ki kon konsi kitaben hain meharbani kar ke ek list de dein
Recording thek nahe h is lec m
1:48:11
Karachi mai kab lecture hoga please send me dates and times
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AoA ... sir i m very thankful for this lecture. Please answer my problem. Allah will give u lots of jaza for this.
My 17 years daughter is not talking with her 15 years brother n brother also don't want to talk her. Sir I did all the techniques for combining them. We play family games. But they don't talk. What i can do. Request from worried mother
I think you should meet him.. And discuss your problem with details....
Ok
Mera beta 4.5 year ka ha wo bht shrarat karta hai sab usy mana karte hain mgr wo nahi rukta... Me kya karu bht pareshan hu bache ko jese shararten karne se rokun
Sir I have a problem my son writes very slow. He takes very long time yo finish all task. I am very stress full for him. I am forcing him all the time try to do little fast. What should I do. I need your suggestions. Plz JazakAllah
Please don't do this. This is not a greater goal of Taleem o Tarbiah. Your pressure will let him hate writing. He will tend only to write for please you and teacher. He will not love writing at All
Same is th issue with my 7 years old. Plz help
aor bohat acha result paya
استاذ محترم السلام علیکم، اللہ گواہ ہے میں خود اپنی والدین کی نہیں مانتا تھا، آج میرے بچھے میرے بات نہیں مانتے، جو جیسا کرے گا ویسا ہی بھرے گا
اسی میں ہمارا ایمان ہے، اسکی ذمہ دار ہم سب خود ھیں، اللہ ہمیں ھدایت نصیب فرما ئے امین
Ameen
اپنی خطا کا اللہ سے استغفار اور مثبت انداز سے ہدایت کی رہنمائی لیتے ہوئے آگے بڑھنا مطلوب ہے۔سب انسان خطا کار ہیں اور بہترین خطا کا ر توبہ کرنے والے ہیں
sir please un logon k baray may discuss krian jo dusron k sath ziyadti krtay hain lkn muzlom khud ko hi smjhtay hain or itnay confidence say apnay aap ko sucha khaitay hain k dusron ko hi doubt honay lag jata hay k shaid hum hi ghalt hain
aaysay logon ko kaisay smjhaya jaay?
q k mujhay jo bhi treeka smjh aya may nay try kr k dkh lai pyar say emotional blackmail Quran Hadees say facts say
dusray logon k zariay khandan k baraon k zariy
hr trhn say lkn aagay say insan ka behaviour aaysa ho k qayamat aajay duniya idhr key udhr ho jaay lkn may sahi hon is lai may nay kuch nahi smjhna
even 0.0000001% bhi apni ghlti na smjhna
agr maan bhi lian k wo insan sahi hay to itna perfect to koi nahi hota na sirf angle hi itnay perfect ho sktay hain
Sir hum kuch bhi karlein phir bhi controlling hona chahtey hai
Mene Puri Video dekhi hai
بہت محتاط انداز اور لہجہ اور الفاظ استعمال کیجیے تاکہ بچوں اسے جذب کرے
وہ کیا عوامل ہیں کہ بچے کیلئے والدین کی بات ماننا دشوار ہو جاتا ہے۔
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Mara waldan na kabe nahee kaha tm bat nahe suntee mara friend s k waldan mara friends ko ya khata tha ma sn kr Haran hote thee ka ma itne good girl who Ma na self study start kr de but ma Haran ho gaee I am not a good child yes I have some good habits but I need to Improve than I think my mom and dad are very lovely they're so nice than I try to follow them now today I am happy strong and because when I listen 👂 your spach I realized I already have that all or most of them
Sir aj kal english na bolna b uneducated hone ki nishani samji jati hai.
Parents be baat nhi maan te ous per koi video ha im serious not joking
سلمان اصیف صاحب سلام علیکم.
هم جرمن سي اپکي ویدو دومیهنئ سئ دیکتهیو موجئ اپکهئ نظریعئ بهوت بهوت اچهي لګتهئ یئ.
موجئ افسوس یهئ ای اکش مي اپکا ویډؤ پهلاُ کیو نهي دیکتهاُ. بهوت بهوت شکریه .
اګر میري لکهنئ کهي غلطي یهئ اپکئ بزرګهئ سهئ موجي ماپ کردیجهي.ایسلهیئ میرا زبان پشتویهئ.
Sir jo insaan preshani sy preshaan nahe hota Allah ke turf sy is ko sumujhta hy Allah pr twakul krte hy to log ( husband ya wife) ya uske behn bhae uska Jena haram krdetai hain
والدین کے لئے یہ دعا کیا سوتیلی ماں کے لیے بھی ہے۔ میری جاننے والی اپنی سوتیلی ماں کے لیے بھی دعاء مسلسل کرنا چاہتی ہیں
👌👌
Itna sara kub sekhayian gaye aur kub apply karayian gaye...😫😫
Maine 18 year tak apni beti se achha relation nahi banaya kiya ab talluq ban sakta hai ????
آپ اپنے اوپر کام شروع کردیں
Bhai hum nay tu piyar say bhi baat kar k daikh liya bacha tulla hai batamizi karnay per
💖👌
Allah humko samajhne aur Amal karne ke taufeeq ata farma.
Jazak Allah
Nice