ایک بھی اپنی ذمہداری ٹھیک سے نبھا سکے تو اس سے بچے کو مدد ملتی ہے۔میرا ذاتی تجربہ ہے۔ میں خود اس کی زندہ مثال ہو۔ میرے والد صاحب ہی کی وجہ سے جو مجھ میں بچ سکا وہ بچا۔
For that you can watch our video titled 'How to Work on Your Own Emotional Needs'. It has two parts, the first one is linked below. th-cam.com/video/DYIiV3zYzOw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=9q4fsrnbXhYaEmWk
- Don’t do jasoosi . If you were not present when they were doing something , you need not other jasoosi. Parallel lives , in their own rooms and parents in their own rooms don’t know what’s happening in each others lives - giving each other time is difficult in such a situation - milaap ke mawaqey zyada rahein. They spend more time with you. Being with parents is more precious than being at tuitions . Separation , isolation , individualistic life nowadays . Meetings happen on Sundays . Different time Zones in their lives . At such a juncture , u cannot even ask about looking into their activities on phone , on computer. If you don’t have the time to l talk to them, spend time With them you cannot expect to be looking at their phones and computers with them Being at ease - try to win the trust of the child : fulfill promises , uncharacteristic thing shouldn’t be found to be present in your life - you can’t be watching something u don’t want ur kids to watch . - if and when kids share their personal things , their faults , their mistakes - don’t share with others , no relatives , nani khala - pardadari karna is ehem… - Allah hides the ayb of his bandey …
Sir very informative much
Such deep thoughts, mashallah, barakallah feel, jazakallah khair
Sir Thanks for such a nice video
Great thoughts
Masha Allah❤
Mashallah..so thought provoking talk..i am new in this chanel and alhamdulilah learning so much..may Allah make this easy for me to act upon..
بہت شکریہ
جزاک اللہ خیر آمین
Jazak Allah khairan kaseera bhai
Mashallah sir ❤❤
والدین میں سے ایک آپ کی باتوں پر عمل کرتا ہے جبکہ دوسرا نہیں کر پاتا ہے تو بچوں پر اس کا اثر منفی ہی نظر آتا ہے۔
جی
ایک بھی اپنی ذمہداری ٹھیک سے نبھا سکے تو اس سے بچے کو مدد ملتی ہے۔میرا ذاتی تجربہ ہے۔ میں خود اس کی زندہ مثال ہو۔ میرے والد صاحب ہی کی وجہ سے جو مجھ میں بچ سکا وہ بچا۔
Thank You so much
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Sir please can we have a session on saying NO and Praise/Rewards ?
Sir, what about adults? How do you help heal an adult who didn't get their emotional needs fulfilled in their childhood?
For that you can watch our video titled 'How to Work on Your Own Emotional Needs'. It has two parts, the first one is linked below.
th-cam.com/video/DYIiV3zYzOw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=9q4fsrnbXhYaEmWk
- Don’t do jasoosi . If you were not present when they were doing something , you need not other jasoosi. Parallel lives , in their own rooms and parents in their own rooms don’t know what’s happening in each others lives - giving each other time is difficult in such a situation - milaap ke mawaqey zyada rahein. They spend more time with you. Being with parents is more precious than being at tuitions . Separation , isolation , individualistic life nowadays . Meetings happen on Sundays . Different time Zones in their lives . At such a juncture , u cannot even ask about looking into their activities on phone , on computer. If you don’t have the time to l talk to them, spend time
With them you cannot expect to be looking at their phones and computers with them Being at ease
- try to win the trust of the child : fulfill promises , uncharacteristic thing shouldn’t be found to be present in your life - you can’t be watching something u don’t want ur kids to watch .
- if and when kids share their personal things , their faults , their mistakes - don’t share with others , no relatives , nani khala - pardadari karna is ehem…
- Allah hides the ayb of his bandey …
1:41:31 overview of the topic
اگر ماں کی غیر مادی ضروریات پوری نہیں ہو رہیں تو وہ کیا کرے؟کیسے اپنے بچوں کی ضروریات پوری کرے
Mashallah sir ❤❤