Self Care Date | My Reset Routine 🐱✨
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ส.ค. 2024
- Here's a little reminder that self care is super important! I was feeling overwhelmed and cluttered so I decided to clear out my schedule for a little me-time. Sometimes we just need to reset our life with a little self care date.
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Aileen Xu
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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle blogger sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
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My self care day
Good breakfast
Stretch
Clean
Organize
Free time(movies or on my phone )
Pamper myself
Dress up
Hang out with friends
Come home and relax
I love how this is different from others selfcare videos I see all of which show bath,face mask ,food etc which I understand but this;I love because it addresses the basic and core things and seems like this will work long term
Aileen, i was looking for some morning inspiration and came across your blog. OMG, it's soo beautiful!!! Thank you for what you do here! Greetings from Russia
+Bookademy 💕💕
Perfectly timed video. As I come home exhausted from work to an untidy flat (I work in mental health) it's great to be reminded that tidying up isn't a chore, it's part of self care! It can be part of a ritual to clear my mind and feel less overwhelmed. Once I watched this I immediately got up, put away my clothes and tidied my flat. Feel so much calmer now I've done so. Thanks for the inspiration 💐
you are radiating! Thank you for showing the world that you are not perfect and even you forget to do things or unpack weeks later, I would have never guessed. You seem so perfect! I am convonced you are an angel ^.^
nobody's perfect! haha. everyone has an ideal we're striving towards but the journey there is never perfect, and that's totally okay 💕
i love the topic reset routine.... everybody needs to identify what it is that needs reset to get you back on track ready to be joyful again. We all have down/low times and is is great to identify your triggers and reset when needed... we all should then design a self care reset routine to use when needed the same as we set our morning and night routines...
yes!
okay, i kinda don't understand how is this possible but it is the second time that your video goes online right at the moment when i'm worried about something and feel not very good.
like the previous time i was worried about my self-confedence, about how to really gain it and stuff - and your video came up just at the middle of the day (i mean, idk what'a the time at your area but for me it is afternoon). and for a week i was spending days like very good, i was doing things i love, i was pretty busy having fun. 😂
but today somehow i can't do anything and can't even think about what to do, sounds like i am bored.
and here you are with the video i needed! how is this possible? you're a magician, for sure. 😍🌟
thank you! ❤
(sorry for my english, it's messy a little bit...)
miss marsie aww that sounds so magical! Thankful you're here ✨✨
Lavendaire thank you for the work you're doing for us! 💕
Thank goodness I'm not the only one this happens to. It's like she knows exactly what I need to hear. Thank you so much Aileen 💕
miss marsie Sounds like the 'Law of Attraction' to me :) The universe is conspiring to help you :)
Paintmeblueagain wow, yes, i think you're right! then this is great. 😌
Sharing these words and tips of positivity are so important for young people to hear. Additionally, it's refreshing to hear that not everyone is perfect, and life can get overwhelming at times and your space can get cluttered. Learning to not hate yourself for these "failures" is something that I am slowly working on, as I'm sure many others are. Keep doing what you do Aileen 💕✨
i love your voice it's so calming❤
So true! Whenever I feel owerwhelmed I just watch one of Lavendaire videos. Her voice does help me to calm down.
This is so genuine and inspiring I love it 💕
I love that your closet is colorful. I always thought it wouldn't be for some reason.
I try to schedule in at least one self-care afternoon a week. You've inspired me to be a bit more "productive" with my time though. Like you, a messy environment really impacts my mood so, instead of using my self-care time to forget about it and switch off, I should be using it to fix the problems and messes I see.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us!! Your channel has really helped over the past month and your videos are so good and concise that I never feel the need to skip anything. I feel better after watching them!
Whenever I need inspiration I come to your channel.
I definitely will be incorporating this into my life sometime soon. I realized after watching this that I do feel cluttered and out of order. Thanks so much for these amazing videos!
I really need a day like this
your voice is so soothing.
I have started journaling because of your advice Aileen, and it really works for me! Sometime I write a lot, other days I just write down a couple of things including my to do list and it is so much easier to figure stuff out when you write everything down. Thank you :)
That "piano in the background" playlist has been carrying me through this WHOLE week. it's definitely one of my "evening self care" playlists that i play when i'm winding down for the day and reading in bed. really enjoyed this video!!
Your videos are super refreshing, encouraging and motivating. Your voice is very soothing. I mean, it puts me in a very calm state of mind. I absolutely love you. ❤
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I'm going through a "rainy" phase in my life&your videos are my medicine.Xoxo
You are so inspiration to me . I have your" You are enough" one video in my playlist and it makes me feel super amazing . your voice makes me feel relaxing love you take care ❤
I've really been stressed and stuck lately with all my work, but this video gave me the inspiration and ideas to help clear my mind and space properly. Thank you!!!
love your space and your voice is calming to hear ❤
that's my routine for every single day and it's the reason why I have a full self love. thanks for sharing and I love that dress you're wearing in the beginning of the video, it has this magical touch and it fits you so well. love
I love your self-care videos because they are so inspiring and definitely powerful reminders
This is just what I need right now. Your videos always make me feel better. Thank you. Keep spreading good vibes. ❤
Your channel is the calmest channel I have ever. Come across! Love it!
Your videos are a life-saver. Whenever I feel anxious - hearing your calm voice sort of resets me. :)
Your videos are the best thing that happened to me. I just discovered you today and watched so many of your videos in a row. You are definitely my favorite TH-camr. Love all your tips, keep up the great work. Stay blessed.
I love your editing style. It's simple and elegant, and not only that, but it's super calming and really reflects you as a person. Thanks for creating such amazing content Aileen!
I did something similar a few days ago. It's funny how we all take the small things like this for granted in our busy lives. Great video!
Thank you Lavendaire. Such a big help!
Thank you for sharing your positive energy!
Love this video! You're so right. Self care is something we need to invest in more. Yesterday I ran myself a bath and picked flowers from the garden & put petals in the bath, with some lavender oil. It was lovely. I lit candles and wore a argan oil face mask. Much needed TLC!
Soooo relatable, it's like a talk to myself. Love it, gives me such a good-clear-peaceful vibes. Keep this great, chill and gorgeous videos. They actually transmit. Love, Luisa.
This is my day today! So overwhelmed with youtube, job, uni... I will still have to work today but after taking care of myself I will do it in much better mood. thanks Aileen x
As much as we are all different we really all are basically the same. This video was so me! Sometimes you just really have to step back and regroup!! And it is so o.k. I am working on removing all thoughts, feelings and opinions every morning and starting with a fresh uncluttered mind!! Really great video!!
I didn’t know this was what it means. Now I will plan my self care dates. Thank you. I just love your videos. You need to do more because you are so inspiring. But however you do, they are always on time and never old no matter when they’re uploaded.
Today's my first day journaling and I must say, it helps so much. Especially for those times you have so much on your mind. Thanks so much xx
So helpful!! Self-Care is so essential.
Thanks I needed this! Breakups suck but that’s where self care comes into place
I love this self care date idea. We work too much sometimes and totally forget to show some love to ourselves and our families. It's a great idea to just clear your day once in a while and give yourself the time to actually express some love to yourself and others. Thank you for this beautiful video!
Your voice is so calming and soothing... Love ya!
keep up the good work Aileen. You are really helping a lot of people out there in the world by your videos. I am from a very different culture and environment than yours but seeing your videos has had a real positive effect in my world. keep it up :)
I love all your videos 😘 thanks so much for posting self care videos !
wow i wish i was more like you, youre like really trying and then theres me who's just like meh whatever. but your videos actually makes me feel more motivated, so thank you, i love the internet
Your advices are always the best! Love you! ♥
Self dates are really important. I'm glad you took the time to vlog about this subject. I'd go even farther in my self dates though, especially now that a lot of the productive things mentioned in this video are becoming part of my morning routine. I don't have self date days very often and I can literally feel myself almost depleting in a way. What I've done in the past for those days would be something as simple as taking myself to a movie, going to the gym (when I had a membership) and getting myself a smoothie, taking myself to a "Starbucks & Chill" date, or treating myself to a nice meal at a favorite restaurant in the afternoon or late morning while reading a good book.
I think sometimes we forget that we can do such things on our own and it will still feel good. Better even, because we're recharging our batteries, clearing our minds, and taking the time to really appreciate and be comfortable witg our own company which is SO important.
I'm enjoying your video's so far and I really like your vibe! I'd love to collaborate with you someday!
I am really liking that piano in the background playlist. Very calming.
Omg I LOVE your honesty! You are part of my morning routine👌
just watching this relaxed me so much! beautiful video, as always :)
this is so relaxing!!
you're such an inspiration love you !
Really loved this video! I freaking love cleaning up my room, because it truly helps with feeling calm and relaxed!
Watching your videos always makes me feel motivated to take care of myself and progress in life, so thank you for that.
Omg, I loved it! This was what i needed right now😍😍 thank you!
Thank you for your beautiful and inspirational videos, Aileen 💗
you are AMAZING! I can't believe someone so young can be so inspiring too in a daily life. x
first few minutes and i already can relate sooo much. sometimes everything is just incredibly messy (my mind especially) and have have this urgent feeling if getting rid of everything cluttery. meditation is then even harder for me cause my thoughts won't shut up, but once you get into the zone you'll feel so much better! btw i just came across your channel and i love it. so much quality content and such a huge inspiration for me since I'm focussing on similar topics. much love, xx
I love this! I love the writing part.
Love it! I feel the refreshment that just happened here 😇😊
LOVED this, self care is so important ❤️
I am LITERALLY in that phase right now. I also keep my laundry in a pile I just started folding half of them. After watching this I'm gonna mark today as my self care date. Thank you & I love that I can relate to almost everything you say in this channel. 💜💜💜
This is so helpful and I love how do-able all these things are, thank you!!
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Thank you for existing. Just love your videos. 💟🥂
Yes, sometimes we just very busy to work and forget about how important is self care. Thank you for inspiring me, 💎
the feeling i have/get whenever i watch your new videos is just amazin. I won't trade it for anything else in the world. 😊
And yet another powerful video. Taking a 'me day' as we speak. Love you 💕🦄
This got me inspired! It was a lovely video, thank you for making it!
Your videos are just so inspiring, Aileen!
You inspire me so much!! Thank you!!!
This is just what I've been needing these past few weeks! Thank you for the inspiration 💜
im so thankful that you make videos💕❤️
I really enjoy positive channels like this.
Omg this video was so needed 🙏🏼
Love your channel ♥️ it’s so inspiring
Loved this. Saved it for when I need it.
LOVE LOVE LOVE your videos. Thank you!!!!
You are so cool and real. I just love it. Although, not super glamorous, these days are much needed. Thanks for the reminder :) keep up the awesomeness! xoxo
I just love this channel😊 nd Aileen Ur Voice is so peaceful to hear.
your video is really relaxing and gives positive tips, thank you, have a positive and nice day!
she is so amazing!
love love love💕❤ .. I feel so calm watching your videos and my mood instantly changes feeling happy!😍💕💕
You're so inspiring and so genuine! Much love 💞💝
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Thank you Aileen. Needed this
Your voice is so soothing
Listening to you gives me a feeling of relaxation
LYSM 💜
much needed, thank you😊💞
Hi !
Whenever I watched your videos I feel at ease and calm and I'm not a very calm person ^^" I started meditation, journaling a little bit more than I used to and I can tell that it is new but I actually like it ;)
This video is amazing ! You are an amazing person and thank you for sharing so much positivity around the world 😊😊
krystal Kpop that's amazing!
I really appreciate this video. It reminded me that I haven't focused on self care in a really long time
Thank you Lav!💜
I totally needed that right now. Your videos aren't just amazingly edited and super aesthetic, but they also add SO MUCH VALUE. 😊
Visual Mind 💕💕💕
You are amazing and such an inspiration
You are such an inspiration ❤ You inspired me to clean my room 😘 Have a good day !
Such a beautiful mind full of great ideas , thank u Lavendaire 😻
you are so beautiful and you having no makeup and being vulnerable is even more beautiful!
Sharon Bear 💖💖
amazing video as always, good reminder to slow down and don't feel pushed to live in the fast lane ❤😍
i just love your color choices :)
its really simple...but also touching and inspiring :) you're awesome thank youuu