To all those individuals or women that have some slick to say about as they say woman cheating channel only!? Women have always had a platform to speak regarding men, groups to vent their frustrations, and even laws the past that favored their agenda. I'm not saying this channel is devoted to men, but if it was why can't men have their own space to fit their situations frustrations and emotions as a means of therapy, or helping out someone going through the same situation. 🤔🤔🤔🤦🏾♂️
He's the AH for asking if he's the AH. It always saddens and dismays me when a betrayed spouse asks "am I the AH" for having a completely normal reaction to being betrayed.
Nah, this was not a spontaneous "one time" thing. OP's friend said he saw his wife at a hotel bar - all "dolled-up." Meaning: this was a planned meet-up, involving regular communication, planning around OP's schedule (and possibly AP's wife's schedule) - and looking good. Wife admitted to this one-time incident because that's all he knows of. Most likely, there were more encounters. One cannot believe a cheater (man or woman) on just their word, because they have proven to be untrustworthy and their word don't mean squat. Leave . . . let it hurt . . . then let it heal.
def NOT a one-time thing .... as you mentioned, this needed planning, constant communication, and most prob some emotional involvement (if it wasn't physical YET). This is the diff bet men and women (I read somewhere) women are just good at compartmentalizing - so she really meant it (in her twisted mind) that "it meant nothing" as effed up as it sounds.
You just don’t go to a hotel one night and meet someone she was planning this for sometime because she knew you were going out of town the cheating was going on for a long time before that weekend
Does anyone honestly believe that was the one and only time she cheated in the 25 years of marriage! Let's be real, that's who she was and she's only sad she got caught
I believe the friend at the barbeque was telling the OP "Your wife might be messing around" without being direct. "I never seen her so dolled up. Must be those work meetings huh?"
It wasn't a drunken moment at a party where she was taken advantage of. This was a calculated plan that she initiated. She told you that she was home with a migraine while she was really "all dolled up" for another guy. Fidelity is staying true to your spouse despite temptations. The length of the marriage, 25 days or 25 years doesn't change anything. She cheated, you can't and shouldn't get beyond that, so divorce is your only option.
"As a ring of gold in a swine's snout, So is a lovely woman who lacks discretion." - Proverbs 11:22. There is absolutely no reason for a married women to be cheating publicly. Committing adultery is wrong; doing it publicly shows a complete disregard for the other person and a complete lack of common sense, since the guy would have likely accommodated any request for privacy and discretion.
Li have listened to many of your videos. Regarding men speaking on their issues and concerns of the marriage. At first I thought you only post for the men. But, now I believe you provide a level of comfort and belief in the hard decisions they had to make. It is just what it is. Men need a healthy healing space also! We have enough men in jail or on the street. Let them live. If this helps so be it! ❤
A moment of weakness my ass. She went out dressed to 9's to a hotel bar a told her husband that she was at home with a migraine. She planned ever step of that betrayal.
1. Her remorse is only for getting caught, because . . . 2. She acted no different for the 2 years after the betrayal, but now that hubs knows, she's all stressed out. 3. She acted no different before and after the betrayal. 4. It cannot be known if this was her only betrayal. 5. Given the account of the neighbor, it cannot be known if she knew her AP or not. 6. The betrayal required at least a moderate amount of planning and deception.
I guarantee you this was NOT her first rodeo!!! It may have been a one-time thing with the guy, but she was too casual about it. She had it all planned out and executed that plan like a pro!!! ANYONE, man or woman, who takes a cheater back deserves what happens next!!! Also, if anyone asks if this is a women's cheating-only channel, tell them yes until a woman submits a cheating story. Women typically only talk about being cheated on specific platforms, platforms where they won't be questioned!!! They want to be believed no matter what asinine and idiotic things they say!!!
Had his friend not seen her at the bar she would’ve taken that secret to the grave. I think he’s doing the right thing. Can’t trust someone after that.
My friends tell me, "She doesn't go out anymore"??? Did anyone else catch that? After 25 years this has been the only time? So she's known for "going out". This isn't her first, it's the first time she got caught.
@@tonyscheatingstories More Women cheat, more women file for divorce. There's MILLIONS of channels for the ignoramous female mindset, only a handful for men.
You got another one Tony 🔥 keep em coming. Man I tell you every time I hear about a 20 years plus marriage ending due to cheating I get sad. Wasted decades of a person life. Waste of the most precious asset we all have. Time.
So, OP believes he may be overeacting about his wife having a hook up two years ago. however, This is the thing that OP isnt asking himself, how does he know she hasn't been seeing this person more than once? When his friend caught OP wife going to that hotel, that could have been one hook up out of many. He needs to let this woman go. There's literally no way he can trust her.
That letter was painful to listen to. I could feel his pain. Whichever option gives some relief that’s the one he should take. Remember though, no one is perfect! Forgiveness is not for her but for you to let go and move on. Holding a grudge keeps you from moving forward.
This is an easy one. You dont throw away 25 years of marriage, at 52 years old, because she had a one night stand. If she was cheating with the same guys for an extended period of time, sure... but not because of one night. Go back to your wife, work it out together and move forward.
Good LUCK to the men who THINK they can RECONCILE with their woman after she cheats on them EVEN if it was ONLY ONCE . You’ll LEARN the HARD WAY that they do it when they’ve MENTALLY CHECKED OUT of the relationship. It is essentially OVER.
This was not just an accident. She got dolled up and was with this guy at a hotel. Serious planning and sneaking behind his back. I would be surprised if this was a one of occurrence. Difficult to get over and it might have been two years ago for her, but this emotional injury just happened to him.
You can't trust her, you're not safe with her. She doesn't value you. And most importantly, you can bet the farm that this is not the only time she's cheated. Always remember, this is NOT a mistake. It's a conscious descision, one that she will make again.
Doesn't matter if it was just once or 100 times. If they were in a relationship and she did that, she broke the compromise, the commitment. It could've been 30, 50 years ago, it doesn't matter. For her, it may have been long ago; but for him, it's TODAY, when he discovered the betrayal. Cheating has no expiration date.
Most certainly not a spontaneous one-time alcohol fueled chance encounter with a stranger. A woman getting "all dolled up" and making her way to a hotel is not spontaneous, it is planned. Also, what are the odds that her "single night of cheating" was observed by a neighbor. Likely she cheated every time she had an opportunity.
As a female , I'd advise divorce - reason , you would never be able to trust her again . That was NOT her first time at that bar , or with someone else - sounds like a' rearrangement ' . Sneak and check her social media sites , 'shadow lover' may still be on them . Go back over your out of town business trips and excuses she made to stay home . 😎
As a woman I enjoy this channel you came on my timeline and I've been watching you. And as for this one he was right to divorce her. She was never gonna tell him plus she said she was sick while she was being a married Thot pocket. Allot of these channels it's always the women talking about cheating spouses but men get cheated on as well. You play cheating games you get cheating prizes like divorce.
I actually can relate to this "woman only cheating stories" cause I am a man. Keep giving us gold content for men Mr. Tony. He can run his channel how he wants. If you are offended you know what do, you are here by choice. Most of the cheating done now a days is done woman reflected in the content. All I hear is this dudes wife is cheating or she left him for another dude.
How do you hook up with a random person when you’re married? Also did she use protection and did it really only happen once? Sometimes you have to walk away because and cut your losses. She really sorry he found out,because if she was truly sorry she would have confessed 2 years ago.🤔🧐💀
P.S. Ah - so some of these cheating women have been commenting and giving out about your channel? Good good, maybe your content will teach them to be better people :D
To all those individuals or women that have some slick to say about as they say woman cheating channel only!?
Women have always had a platform to speak regarding men, groups to vent their frustrations, and even laws the past that favored their agenda.
I'm not saying this channel is devoted to men, but if it was why can't men have their own space to fit their situations frustrations and emotions as a means of therapy, or helping out someone going through the same situation. 🤔🤔🤔🤦🏾♂️
He's the AH for asking if he's the AH. It always saddens and dismays me when a betrayed spouse asks "am I the AH" for having a completely normal reaction to being betrayed.
Another 304 that nuked her marriage for her selfishness. 25 years of marriage down the drain.
Nah, this was not a spontaneous "one time" thing. OP's friend said he saw his wife at a hotel bar - all "dolled-up." Meaning: this was a planned meet-up, involving regular communication, planning around OP's schedule (and possibly AP's wife's schedule) - and looking good. Wife admitted to this one-time incident because that's all he knows of. Most likely, there were more encounters. One cannot believe a cheater (man or woman) on just their word, because they have proven to be untrustworthy and their word don't mean squat. Leave . . . let it hurt . . . then let it heal.
def NOT a one-time thing .... as you mentioned, this needed planning, constant communication, and most prob some emotional involvement (if it wasn't physical YET). This is the diff bet men and women (I read somewhere) women are just good at compartmentalizing - so she really meant it (in her twisted mind) that "it meant nothing" as effed up as it sounds.
absolutely a long time cheater F Cheating is ALWAYS a choice!! Good post
You just don’t go to a hotel one night and meet someone she was planning this for sometime because she knew you were going out of town the cheating was going on for a long time before that weekend
She violated the covenant of Marriage... BYE!
Does anyone honestly believe that was the one and only time she cheated in the 25 years of marriage! Let's be real, that's who she was and she's only sad she got caught
Definitely first time she got CAUGHT 😆
@@SkullyMcKnight-nq1kglol you beat me to it!
Wasn't her first rodeo at that bar .
That's the point even if this was her only time. The doubt will be there the "what ifs". That's lit.
Men love to lie to ourselves about our partners. We want her to be pure. She ain’t.
I believe the friend at the barbeque was telling the OP "Your wife might be messing around" without being direct. "I never seen her so dolled up. Must be those work meetings huh?"
It wasn't a drunken moment at a party where she was taken advantage of. This was a calculated plan that she initiated. She told you that she was home with a migraine while she was really "all dolled up" for another guy. Fidelity is staying true to your spouse despite temptations. The length of the marriage, 25 days or 25 years doesn't change anything. She cheated, you can't and shouldn't get beyond that, so divorce is your only option.
Which clearly means she has been with this other guy more then once.
If someone doesn't like your channel, they need to just move on. Not hard at all. Literally millions of other channels here to choose from.
Absolutely 💯💯
I'd be wanting some paternity tests too
"As a ring of gold in a swine's snout, So is a lovely woman who lacks discretion." - Proverbs 11:22. There is absolutely no reason for a married women to be cheating publicly. Committing adultery is wrong; doing it publicly shows a complete disregard for the other person and a complete lack of common sense, since the guy would have likely accommodated any request for privacy and discretion.
Li have listened to many of your videos. Regarding men speaking on their issues and concerns of the marriage. At first I thought you only post for the men. But, now I believe you provide a level of comfort and belief in the hard decisions they had to make. It is just what it is. Men need a healthy healing space also! We have enough men in jail or on the street. Let them live. If this helps so be it! ❤
In my opinion you offer Men a safe place to share, which is very rare. 🥰🤗
A moment of weakness my ass. She went out dressed to 9's to a hotel bar a told her husband that she was at home with a migraine. She planned ever step of that betrayal.
@@prentisjackson1601 predicated murder
Absolutely
totally agree... a premeditated choice to fuck this guy at the bar!!! I'm pised
Really sad because he truly loved her.
1. Her remorse is only for getting caught, because . . .
2. She acted no different for the 2 years after the betrayal, but now that hubs knows, she's all stressed out.
3. She acted no different before and after the betrayal.
4. It cannot be known if this was her only betrayal.
5. Given the account of the neighbor, it cannot be known if she knew her AP or not.
6. The betrayal required at least a moderate amount of planning and deception.
Cheating is not a mistake.
Huh? You mean falling on some meat and bouncing up and down on it isn’t a mistake? That’s the way these women make it seem
Lets be honest with each other,who's to say she didn't step out on the marriage more then once.
I guarantee you this was NOT her first rodeo!!! It may have been a one-time thing with the guy, but she was too casual about it. She had it all planned out and executed that plan like a pro!!! ANYONE, man or woman, who takes a cheater back deserves what happens next!!!
Also, if anyone asks if this is a women's cheating-only channel, tell them yes until a woman submits a cheating story. Women typically only talk about being cheated on specific platforms, platforms where they won't be questioned!!! They want to be believed no matter what asinine and idiotic things they say!!!
Being ignorant is not having a happy life that's delusion.
Tony, this is a channel for men so tell that person to FO! Love your stories and content!! Keep it up....love it!!
"if i could turn back time...if i could find a way"
Cher couldn’t do it.
Keep a secret like that from me and I'm cutting ties......in fact, I'm ghosting.
Forgive? Sure.....but I'm not taking you back.
same here.... she's never coming back. She's a pathological Liar.
Had his friend not seen her at the bar she would’ve taken that secret to the grave. I think he’s doing the right thing. Can’t trust someone after that.
My friends tell me, "She doesn't go out anymore"??? Did anyone else catch that? After 25 years this has been the only time? So she's known for "going out". This isn't her first, it's the first time she got caught.
Marriage seems like such a headache...
If it was by accident, why did she lie and get dolled up ? The most important thing is that you have to believe she's done it before.
We don't wanna hear from women!
Yeah, understood , but i'm an equal opportunity storyteller !!
@@tonyscheatingstories More Women cheat, more women file for divorce. There's MILLIONS of channels for the ignoramous female mindset, only a handful for men.
You got another one Tony 🔥 keep em coming. Man I tell you every time I hear about a 20 years plus marriage ending due to cheating I get sad. Wasted decades of a person life. Waste of the most precious asset we all have. Time.
So, OP believes he may be overeacting about his wife having a hook up two years ago. however, This is the thing that OP isnt asking himself, how does he know she hasn't been seeing this person more than once? When his friend caught OP wife going to that hotel, that could have been one hook up out of many. He needs to let this woman go. There's literally no way he can trust her.
What mistake? She is a grown ass woman. She knew what she was doing.
That letter was painful to listen to. I could feel his pain. Whichever option gives some relief that’s the one he should take. Remember though, no one is perfect! Forgiveness is not for her but for you to let go and move on. Holding a grudge keeps you from moving forward.
This is an easy one. You dont throw away 25 years of marriage, at 52 years old, because she had a one night stand. If she was cheating with the same guys for an extended period of time, sure... but not because of one night. Go back to your wife, work it out together and move forward.
Hey Tony
Amazing story. Thank you for sharing.
You are right, women never admit when they get cheated on, they hide it to protect their ridiculous, enormous Egos
Great channel Toney. I enjoy listening to your stories.
It was not a one-time stand. It was a one-time stand that was uncovered.
Good LUCK to the men who THINK they can RECONCILE with their woman after she cheats on them EVEN if it was ONLY ONCE . You’ll LEARN the HARD WAY that they do it when they’ve MENTALLY CHECKED OUT of the relationship. It is essentially OVER.
It wasn't just one time. She got dressed up and went to a hotel bar to meet someone. You don't do that for a one night stand.
This was not just an accident. She got dolled up and was with this guy at a hotel. Serious planning and sneaking behind his back. I would be surprised if this was a one of occurrence. Difficult to get over and it might have been two years ago for her, but this emotional injury just happened to him.
Dump the cheating 304.
The pain never stops...women never change... I tried giving her a second chance and within 3 months she cheated again. Once trust is gone it is gone.
You can't trust her, you're not safe with her. She doesn't value you. And most importantly, you can bet the farm that this is not the only time she's cheated.
Always remember, this is NOT a mistake. It's a conscious descision, one that she will make again.
Doesn't matter if it was just once or 100 times.
If they were in a relationship and she did that, she broke the compromise, the commitment.
It could've been 30, 50 years ago, it doesn't matter. For her, it may have been long ago; but for him, it's TODAY, when he discovered the betrayal.
Cheating has no expiration date.
Most certainly not a spontaneous one-time alcohol fueled chance encounter with a stranger.
A woman getting "all dolled up" and making her way to a hotel is not spontaneous, it is planned.
Also, what are the odds that her "single night of cheating" was observed by a neighbor. Likely she cheated every time she had an opportunity.
Wow! Twenty five years. 😢
Once a cheater always a cheater, Why would he trust her, The marriage would never be the same
TCS is keeping my weekend full!👍And I am here for it!👍
She decided to dress up and see another man behind your back … disrespectful/ cheating and she knew what she was doing
As a female , I'd advise divorce - reason , you would never be able to trust her again .
That was NOT her first time at that bar , or with someone else - sounds like a' rearrangement ' .
Sneak and check her social media sites , 'shadow lover' may still be on them .
Go back over your out of town business trips and excuses she made to stay home . 😎
As a woman I enjoy this channel you came on my timeline and I've been watching you. And as for this one he was right to divorce her. She was never gonna tell him plus she said she was sick while she was being a married Thot pocket. Allot of these channels it's always the women talking about cheating spouses but men get cheated on as well. You play cheating games you get cheating prizes like divorce.
Dump the cheating 304. She doesn’t deserve you.
I love the channel and your voice reading the stories. Keep up the great work bro, haters gonna hate..
Thanks for sharing Tony
I actually can relate to this "woman only cheating stories" cause I am a man. Keep giving us gold content for men Mr. Tony. He can run his channel how he wants. If you are offended you know what do, you are here by choice. Most of the cheating done now a days is done woman reflected in the content. All I hear is this dudes wife is cheating or she left him for another dude.
You only caught her that one time who knows how many indiscretions there have been😮
Tell ‘em OG! Shit, stay the F*** out if you don’t like his voice or whatever! In my book, nobody does it better OG! Keep up the good work, it’s good!
Why was she at the hotel just for the cheating or some other event
Might be more than one night.
Get a sweet young thing that will make you forget all about this 304
The only thing u can do if u stay is to get u a side piece
5:21 no, she didn't respect the request for space.
Damn, this one hit me
Another Great Video Tony!
Proud members of the He Man Woman Haters Club 😂😂😂😂
Really 😂😂😂😂
YOU LOST A SECRET 304... THAT'S ALL NOTHING SPECTACULAR..
How do you hook up with a random person when you’re married? Also did she use protection and did it really only happen once? Sometimes you have to walk away because and cut your losses. She really sorry he found out,because if she was truly sorry she would have confessed 2 years ago.🤔🧐💀
Great story Tony feel really sorry for him, such a shit situation. Love the channel Tony keep going 👍👍👍
Not her first rodeo dude, she planned to meet someone there, or she went out to hook up with a stranger. Either way, she is gone.
The 1 you know about, so there are 10 other situations.
GOOD VIDEO
P.S. Ah - so some of these cheating women have been commenting and giving out about your channel? Good good, maybe your content will teach them to be better people :D
I appreciate your content. I was divorced in 2020 and would love to send you my story.
@CorproNegus - Hey, I am sorry you had to go through a divorce. My email is cheatingstoriesbytony@gmail.com
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Anyway, I'm on it!
Thank you 🙏
Why don’t people think before putting loves ones through imaginable pain 😕
8:40 you did the right thing. But never get married again bro. Never take her back.
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