There was no point confronting her before hiring the PI because she showed that when confronted with evidence, she still tried to lie her way out of it.
Good show my man being one of the few not to use a horrible AI voice and taking his time to narrate the stories with his own awesome voice. Why is he questioning his actions? She is a piece of work going off the rails after finding out that you caught her cheating by "spying " on her. She believes that him hiring a PI is worse than her cheating since it didn't mean anything. Those who believe that he first should have confronted her without hard evidence and then gone to marriage counseling are out of their minds.
She literally denied it when you confronted her with the evidence how would you have confronted her without getting the PI? She would’ve never admitted it and you would’ve never known for sure.
She denied with proof fake photos and he was crazy and then said he was spying on her … imagine if buddy just confronted her without none of the proof. She would have had him thinking he was crazy. He did the right thing.
she was more worried about the 6000 dollars than for her cheating ways. Best to use the money for good, than for her to get it in the divorce and she would have spent it on the AP.
Cheating wives always come up with the same lines. "We can get past this, this is just a bump in the road, it meant nothing, we can go to couples counseling". Couple counseling my ass. She should have brought that up before she spread your legs for another guy. The karmic joke in all of this is that, about 90% of the time, the guy dumps them when they get found out. The affair fog dissipates. She was a fun side piece, but he doesn't want her 24/7. Then she's left holding the bag.
Just leave her. By the time a woman cheats on you she doesn't love you anymore. She can care less about your revenge cheating. She just doesn't want to lose the resources. Cheating women are cold bro.
Nta... what guy wants to stay married to a cheater who will do and say anything to cover up her cheating? She is for the streets and that's exactly where she went back to. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
I’m single and when my coworkers hit on me, I told them I don’t mess with coworkers. I don’t hang out period. These ladies don’t know what they want. Why you gonna cheat and you know what’s gonna happen, then you call crying and asking for forgiveness and second chance, really!!!
Would anyone expect a woman to question if using the savings is okay to hire an investigator? No! First, if there's no "girl's nights," it narrows down ridicules excuses to be out like some single person. Guys need to stop allowing "single activities" when married. It's boundaries, not control. Where there's smoke there's fire.
I don't understand why men feel guilty about there wives cheating. I don't care if you paid 10k or put the house up. She was the one cheating and lying. Keep your head up men and stop simping
She lied and denied even with the evidence in front of her. Confront directly without evidence? Gaslighting, 'you're crazy', etc etc. No choice but to get your proof, take action and move on.
You want to be trusted? ACT TRUSTWORTHY! It really is that simple. Her withdrawal, lack of time/affection, girls nights, locked phone, taking calls at 2 in the morning, etc. - how many red flags you gonna parade in front of your spouse before you admit you gave them probable cause to investigate? 🤔😜✌️
That 6k was better than buying any car, any stocks, any Crypto 😂that was wise business, money comes and money goes, you can always get it back🤷🏿♂️but your peace of mind and mental health are priceless
Been there, I’m not doing therapy, waste of money, I will never trust again, I don’t want to. I will never marry again, I don’t need to, I don’t want to. I have 2 lovely children, my ex is a great mother!
I mate my amazing African king on a dating app. We are happily married, also he lived in Dubai when we mate now he is in the USA with me been today for 4 years. Praise god.
For those friends of his saying he was wrong, drop them, why keep them.... All she would have done was lie to him like she's been doing this whole time, girls nights out, work needed to be done while she was getting her back blown out. Confronting her would have been useless, it would have been lies, lies and more lies. If he would have asked to see her phone she just would have said no, and came back a day or two and wiped it clean. She would have A brought a burner phone, or B installed a messaging app and deleted it daily. He did the right thing to come with outside proof. Y'all SE she lied saying them pictures was fake when confronted......
The one thing cheating women never get is this, the side dude does not want a relationship with you, they only wants to fuck you. When the main guy is no longer there, the woman now becomes a burden. If you the side dude, you show up, hit and gone about your business. You don’t have to put up with the bullshit. Also, why would he ever trust you. You lied and cheated on a man that sacrificed for you, married you and intended to spend the rest of his life with you. And you fucked over him. I know damn well I’m next it if I choose that course of action. No no no ❤❤❤
Best thing to do, PI gives you the evidence. You meet your attorney. Get divorce papers drawn up. Have her served divorce papers at work. Ghost the 304 and never say another word to the tramp.
6 grand to spare him from future misery and disappointment?
I'd call that an investment.
There was no point confronting her before hiring the PI because she showed that when confronted with evidence, she still tried to lie her way out of it.
Ah yes, confront her before you had proof so she can deny and cover her tracks better
Yep
Man. Smh! Exactly
These cheating stories just don’t hit unless Tony’s voice is behind em 👍😎
Why do they think saying "it meant nothing" makes it better? So, u were willing to throw away our marriage for "nothing"?
It makes sense when you understand that women view themselves as completely unaccountable.
@@OldManAndTheSeaOfTooManyCats Nah, cuz men say the same thing when they're caught. That isn't a gender specific statement.
The marriage was worth less than nothing
He was justified in using their savings
@@baldmanariz absolutely. It's there money.
Good show my man being one of the few not to use a horrible AI voice and taking his time to narrate the stories with his own awesome voice.
Why is he questioning his actions? She is a piece of work going off the rails after finding out that you caught her cheating by "spying " on her. She believes that him hiring a PI is worse than her cheating since it didn't mean anything.
Those who believe that he first should have confronted her without hard evidence and then gone to marriage counseling are out of their minds.
She cries for the lost money and status not the dirty deeds.
This guy did it well, those 6 grand were a good invesment, there is no lie or gaslight that handles proof
She sure did try to gaslight him.
Complaining about hiring a PI? That’s like the Japanese calling Hiroshima an unprovoked surprise attack.
She literally denied it when you confronted her with the evidence how would you have confronted her without getting the PI? She would’ve never admitted it and you would’ve never known for sure.
If he had confronted her without evidence he would still be in a cheating marriage
If you suspect something is going on you're never an AH for trying to find out.
She denied with proof fake photos and he was crazy and then said he was spying on her … imagine if buddy just confronted her without none of the proof. She would have had him thinking he was crazy. He did the right thing.
NTA! I've been married for 39+ years, and I never wrapped my head around marriage therapy. It's like trying to put Humpty back together again.
Why does he give her the evidence?
I ask the sane thing.. I was like 🤔 huh?
It’s was better than spending money on their 10 year anniversary.
You did the right thing. She would have denied to the end
Trust your gut, but remember you can't take your gut as evidence to court.
They cry for pity and because they got caught... otherwise they'd continue. Healing will happen in time.
NTA: if she did tbr same to you it wouldn't have been an issue.
This man did the right thing, you need evidence...otherwise she would gaslight him and lie just like she did...Imagine if he didn't have the evidence?
I’m glad he spent that bread! I’m 37 and never had a problem with getting a new one 😂
The 6 thousand was his money, she didn’t ask permission to cheat he got proof which was his right. Her actions were much more costly than the 6k.
she was more worried about the 6000 dollars than for her cheating ways. Best to use the money for good, than for her to get it in the divorce and she would have spent it on the AP.
Had it been her taking the cash, she would have been celebrated as brave
The double standard. I love when the men gets alimony.
Her affair was underhanded!
I'd laugh like crazy if she accused me of invading her privacy. Money well spent. I'm sure she spent on her AP.
Even if its 100Grand if it saved you from living a lie it's not wrong call it even...Other people do worst she 's lucky she dont get beaten up
This is a smart man. Men should never simp
Cheating wives always come up with the same lines. "We can get past this, this is just a bump in the road, it meant nothing, we can go to couples counseling". Couple counseling my ass. She should have brought that up before she spread your legs for another guy. The karmic joke in all of this is that, about 90% of the time, the guy dumps them when they get found out. The affair fog dissipates. She was a fun side piece, but he doesn't want her 24/7. Then she's left holding the bag.
Exactly
There's one thing about A$$-holes that few will admit: if people think that a person is an A$$-hole, they will think twice before they cross them.
When they say they'll do anything to make it right. I;ll b like yeah u can I', going to get me a side piece while u stay here at home.
Just leave her. By the time a woman cheats on you she doesn't love you anymore. She can care less about your revenge cheating. She just doesn't want to lose the resources. Cheating women are cold bro.
She's sorry she got caught. She doesn't love you, she doesn't care about you. If you give her another chance, she will do it again.
Act accordingly.
Nta... what guy wants to stay married to a cheater who will do and say anything to cover up her cheating? She is for the streets and that's exactly where she went back to. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Counseling just part of the Marriage deal for others to make bank off your situation.
I’m single and when my coworkers hit on me, I told them I don’t mess with coworkers. I don’t hang out period. These ladies don’t know what they want. Why you gonna cheat and you know what’s gonna happen, then you call crying and asking for forgiveness and second chance, really!!!
Hi Tony thank you for keeping these stories coming, I look n forward everyday watching your TH-cam channel 🙏🏿💪🏿
Thank you 🙏
If you in a relationship neither one should " hanging out with the guys or girls,..
This is an easy call. He was well within his right to use the $6k to pay for the PI. He shouldn't feel guilty about this one bit.
he used the money to make sure she did not get her hands on it .
Would anyone expect a woman to question if using the savings is okay to hire an investigator? No! First, if there's no "girl's nights," it narrows down ridicules excuses to be out like some single person. Guys need to stop allowing "single activities" when married. It's boundaries, not control. Where there's smoke there's fire.
I don't understand why men feel guilty about there wives cheating. I don't care if you paid 10k or put the house up. She was the one cheating and lying. Keep your head up men and stop simping
Confront her first???? Confront her with what???
What I’m mad at is at him having to give up half his shit even tho she cheated
Not the ahole. I have absolutely no respect for a cheating spouse
NTA you had to find out what was happening. Money well spent. ♥️♥️
She lied and denied even with the evidence in front of her. Confront directly without evidence? Gaslighting, 'you're crazy', etc etc. No choice but to get your proof, take action and move on.
The saving acct, is a saving and emergency acct. You very much had an emergency!
You used half of😮 your joint savings. How you get um is how you lose um
He is the AH for leaving any money in it lol.
You want to be trusted?
ACT TRUSTWORTHY!
It really is that simple.
Her withdrawal, lack of time/affection, girls nights, locked phone, taking calls at 2 in the morning, etc. - how many red flags you gonna parade in front of your spouse before you admit you gave them probable cause to investigate? 🤔😜✌️
That 6k was better than buying any car, any stocks, any Crypto 😂that was wise business, money comes and money goes, you can always get it back🤷🏿♂️but your peace of mind and mental health are priceless
nbdy can tell you how to deal with it. he shouldve confronted her instead of hiring a PI ? whoever said that is ridiculous
Been there, I’m not doing therapy, waste of money, I will never trust again, I don’t want to. I will never marry again, I don’t need to, I don’t want to. I have 2 lovely children, my ex is a great mother!
Peace of mind is invaluable...
I mate my amazing African king on a dating app. We are happily married, also he lived in Dubai when we mate now he is in the USA with me been today for 4 years. Praise god.
good video
No you were not wrong. WOW these women are bold; I guess I watch too much Snapped 🤭
LOL 🤣
Those women on Snapped are much more ruthless
For those friends of his saying he was wrong, drop them, why keep them.... All she would have done was lie to him like she's been doing this whole time, girls nights out, work needed to be done while she was getting her back blown out. Confronting her would have been useless, it would have been lies, lies and more lies. If he would have asked to see her phone she just would have said no, and came back a day or two and wiped it clean. She would have A brought a burner phone, or B installed a messaging app and deleted it daily. He did the right thing to come with outside proof. Y'all SE she lied saying them pictures was fake when confronted......
The one thing cheating women never get is this, the side dude does not want a relationship with you, they only wants to fuck you. When the main guy is no longer there, the woman now becomes a burden.
If you the side dude, you show up, hit and gone about your business. You don’t have to put up with the bullshit. Also, why would he ever trust you. You lied and cheated on a man that sacrificed for you, married you and intended to spend the rest of his life with you. And you fucked over him. I know damn well I’m next it if I choose that course of action.
No no no ❤❤❤
Stop simping and leave for good😂😂
It was your money... how you wrong?
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You misheard. She said contact not contract.
My guy you needa do audio books
Hey love the channel.. was wondering how I post my story here
Email is cheatingstoriesbytony@gmail.com
What race so we can know have statistic
Best thing to do, PI gives you the evidence. You meet your attorney. Get divorce papers drawn up. Have her served divorce papers at work. Ghost the 304 and never say another word to the tramp.