Mark you are so right, sometimes I don’t know what to do, like I’m ready to explode. I thank you for your help and encouragement, especially with my OCD issues.
Thanks to Mark's OCD/Perfectionism broadcasts etc, I have been able to recognise these things in myself.. its deep stuff and Mark has such a handle on it and delivers so eloquently & thankfully - phew!... with a sense of humour. So grateful for this.
You show me that I'm really not crazy🥵😂 and don't HAVE to be crazy. You bring me comfort and an understanding that I've never had before. God Bless you both! ❤️🙏🏻
WOW! Mark, I just came across this video and I literally saw myself in (almost) EVERY part of this lady’s email. I too am currently newlywed 2 years, (as of this comment). And I can honestly relate to the struggles of this person. I’m so glad I came across it, I believe God led me to watch it. I desperately needed to hear once again and be assured of God’s love for me in the mist of my anger issues and even outbursts. I didn’t grow up learning healthy ways to cope with negative emotions. As an adult, I was apart of a church that was legalistic and cultivated an unhealthy fear of God. I’m so thankful for your ministry and for what God is doing here. Thank you Mark for another great teaching. God bless, Ari
Dude, you have no idea how much I needed this video right now. I don't have enough words, or the right words, to express where I have been at, the torment my mind has been in and how badly I want out of it. I have been learning a lot lately about myself. This video was a reminder on some things I have recently grasped and also I learned some things about myself I didn't see or realize was there. Thank you. I literally was searching tonight for some help in obsessing over this anger I have and found this video.
I have been listening to you for the past 4 hours more or less, and the way you explain things and the pace you explain it is something i am drawn to. Thank you for making these videos. It's helping my thoughts and anxiety. I feel my cluttered thoughts felt mashed up and confused. Your breakdowns give clarity and separate my thoughts. Again, thank you. I am looking forward to keep listening and learning. I have ocd and you are amazing.
Well I found your channel just now because I’ve had diagnosed OCD for over 32 years. Today I prayed for the Lord to help me find biblical based help for what is almost constant agitation I live with and I found this channel. As I’m listening to this video I thought 2 things 1. That is so me and what I’m struggling with and 2. Thank you Jesus for as always providing specific help when I ask on specific issues… He always amazes me. I’ve struggled over the years with the many facets that come with OCD but I’ve become angrier over time and I knew it had to be tied somewhat to my OCD mindset, perfectionism and unrealistic expectations on both myself and others. I’ve been off medication for over 10 years and can say first there was a time when God provided much needed relief via correct medication but also that I am thankful to have not had to take any for a long time and how God has been faithful to me all these years especially in some very dark times dealing with mental illness. Anyway , this is an older video so maybe you’ll see my post and if you do, please know I’m extremely thankful to have found your channel and to watch the content you provide. God bless you Sir ✝️🙏😊
"I don't know if I can land in this relationship, maybe they won't love me and I'll be alone." That is profound and that has been me. Although my husband has said and done plenty of things to exacerbate that insecurity. When there is no explanation, resolution, or just a flat out denial, it makes it tough to trust the heart of that person who is doing the wounding. This can make for a difficult relationship.
I am INFP - we get on well with INFJ's and share many of the same traits. I see many people in the comments saying that they are also INFJ's. Perhaps the NF's (Introverted feeling types) are especially prone to OCD / perfectionism. Thanks for making me laugh several times throughout this video. "God did you tell Gabriel?"
Alrighty then. Now I get why I'm angry several times a day, I run away from it. Until this video, I never knew how to cope with it and there's that fear that I could explode and hurt someone else.
Wow thank U i learn a lot...thank U we have such a Good God...i learn everyday more and more how much He love me....i Love it it's so precious...Love for You and Your Family...
Watching my son as he suffers the mental torment of Scrupulosity is agony. He gets so angry, I feel I'm traumatised by his behaviour. His violence towards himself and I literally have to hold him down, a 5'3" mother, he's nearly 6'and strong. I've has to warn him about his behaviour saying I'm going to have to call the police if he doesn't stop. He's so crazy he says "call them, I deserve to go to prison, I deserve to die". I'm heartbroken, the things he says and does is destroying me, and us as a family 😮. Interestingly, I'm an infj..... I absolutely carry all the burdens of the the whole family
I feel that being alone would probably be a good thing, this way I piss off fewer people. My wife has a tendency to get mad at me because I'm mad at me.
Mark you are amazing, for letting God use your past to help us. Yes it is always like you are speaking directly to me. No one has ever been able to crack this nut🥜 shell before. It feels so great to be on a healing journey 😊God Bless you and your family ❤️
Thanks Mark. I suspected my approach to anger made it worse even though I am perceived as mild-mannered. I, too, have thought of the Star Wars "disturbance in the Force" analogy. I also often connect my thoughts to sings (only I sing off-key), so I'm wondering if that's an OCD thing? :)
One thing I know from several yrs of marriage is that it is a " love/ hate relationship. I don't really mean" hate", but all the conflicting emotions that come with being married to a member of the opposite sex. I think other people experience this but FEW Christians would EVER admit to it. Are we ALL so fake in the church? MY experience is yes we are.
It sure is, others have become completely irrelevant. Their feelings don't matter, injustices toward others no longer matter, their opinions are worthless, etc. Separating from evil.
"20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ lives in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me."" You can't tell me that THIS verse & others like it are NOT confusing & taught in the church that we don't even have a life, except that Christ lives in us. Christians don't deal well with their own emotion & CERTAINLY NOT with OTHERS emotions in the church. Most Christians aren't safe people BECAUSE they don't know how to be & they have no grace for other's emotions or their own.
14:10 - 14:20: Or they claim to see it on you through things like your facial expression and constantly accuse you of passive aggression. Almost making it seem like you are a covert narcissist who can't take one hint of criticism when, in having the issues you have, you have had to live with much of it your entire life, just as much as anyone else, whether constructive or not. And your silence or what they call your "surliness" is actually you longing to try to fix your attitude, but you can't get away from people when you need to, because then you're, you know . . . selfish.
New phone…..QUESTION: Are subliminal and Binaural Beats / Alpha 8-13 Hz tones for listening on headsets for issues for sleep…OCD…depression…etc…acceptable tool to use for intrusive thoughts (In Jesus name)? Or are they satanic and a sin? Some say it’s scientific, some say a waste of time. I do steer clear of any talk of “manifesting a Porsche”. LOL . What’s you opinion? To use in a Christian way. Is it a sin as just another tool. Not to take the place of prayer and Bible Study….of course. Bless You….
I’d stay away from all of those! Just play God’s Word in the back as you head off to bed. They have some really good ones that even include water waves to make it relaxing.
@@vernonscott7999 Well if yu want to know, keep waiting on God and reading the Word. He will point it out to you if He wants yu to stay away. What are the reasons behind what you're doing? Are you waiting on God to reveal it to you?
@@vaultofria I tried to use frequency’s that were not New Age just the ones backed by science. Hence Delta Waves for sleep….Alpha for alertness. Many have been helped by Gods created frequency’s. Some doctors report it helps. But.I’ve also been using Christian ABIDE apps with Gods Word. Yes especially ones for healing TRAMA……OCD. Mark talks about casting out archetypes and Spirits of OCD. He also said using SOZO scripts has benefits according to the to the spiritual state of the practitioner!
Literally though, in the best way! I remember when I would listen to his videos and be laughing out loud at some moments. Especially as someone who can be serious a lot of the time I appreciate how he addresses these topics with sprinkles of humor.
Mark you are so right, sometimes I don’t know what to do, like I’m ready to explode. I thank you for your help and encouragement, especially with my OCD issues.
You’re such a blessing. I might as well been the one who wrote this. It’s so hard to sort out.
Thanks to Mark's OCD/Perfectionism broadcasts etc, I have been able to recognise these things in myself.. its deep stuff and Mark has such a handle on it and delivers so eloquently & thankfully - phew!... with a sense of humour. So grateful for this.
I can’t thank you enough for these videos Mark. My life has improved from learning from these videos.
Wow! I am INFJ also! Pretty cool how we group together without even knowing it.
Yo! I am too!
You show me that I'm really not crazy🥵😂 and don't HAVE to be crazy. You bring me comfort and an understanding that I've never had before. God Bless you both! ❤️🙏🏻
Yea me too! I was literally just thinking that before I seen your comment. Lol
If I'm angry it's usually about me and the mistakes I've made.
WOW!
Mark, I just came across this video and I literally saw myself in (almost) EVERY part of this lady’s email.
I too am currently newlywed 2 years, (as of this comment). And I can honestly relate to the struggles of this person. I’m so glad I came across it, I believe God led me to watch it.
I desperately needed to hear once again and be assured of God’s love for me in the mist of my anger issues and even outbursts.
I didn’t grow up learning healthy ways to cope with negative emotions. As an adult, I was apart of a church that was legalistic and cultivated an unhealthy fear of God.
I’m so thankful for your ministry and for what God is doing here. Thank you Mark for another great teaching.
God bless,
Ari
Dude, you have no idea how much I needed this video right now. I don't have enough words, or the right words, to express where I have been at, the torment my mind has been in and how badly I want out of it. I have been learning a lot lately about myself. This video was a reminder on some things I have recently grasped and also I learned some things about myself I didn't see or realize was there. Thank you. I literally was searching tonight for some help in obsessing over this anger I have and found this video.
Thank you for making us laugh at ourselves. I must 🔎...
I have been listening to you for the past 4 hours more or less, and the way you explain things and the pace you explain it is something i am drawn to. Thank you for making these videos. It's helping my thoughts and anxiety. I feel my cluttered thoughts felt mashed up and confused. Your breakdowns give clarity and separate my thoughts. Again, thank you. I am looking forward to keep listening and learning. I have ocd and you are amazing.
Well I found your channel just now because I’ve had diagnosed OCD for over 32 years.
Today I prayed for the Lord to help me find biblical based help for what is almost constant agitation I live with and I found this channel.
As I’m listening to this video I thought 2 things 1. That is so me and what I’m struggling with and 2. Thank you Jesus for as always providing specific help when I ask on specific issues… He always amazes me.
I’ve struggled over the years with the many facets that come with OCD but I’ve become angrier over time and I knew it had to be tied somewhat to my OCD mindset, perfectionism and unrealistic expectations on both myself and others.
I’ve been off medication for over 10 years and can say first there was a time when God provided much needed relief via correct medication but also that I am thankful to have not had to take any for a long time and how God has been faithful to me all these years especially in some very dark times dealing with mental illness.
Anyway , this is an older video so maybe you’ll see my post and if you do, please know I’m extremely thankful to have found your channel and to watch the content you provide.
God bless you Sir ✝️🙏😊
This message is so needed ! Thank you for doing what you do 👏
"I don't know if I can land in this relationship, maybe they won't love me and I'll be alone." That is profound and that has been me. Although my husband has said and done plenty of things to exacerbate that insecurity. When there is no explanation, resolution, or just a flat out denial, it makes it tough to trust the heart of that person who is doing the wounding. This can make for a difficult relationship.
I am INFP - we get on well with INFJ's and share many of the same traits. I see many people in the comments saying that they are also INFJ's. Perhaps the NF's (Introverted feeling types) are especially prone to OCD / perfectionism. Thanks for making me laugh several times throughout this video. "God did you tell Gabriel?"
Alrighty then. Now I get why I'm angry several times a day, I run away from it. Until this video, I never knew how to cope with it and there's that fear that I could explode and hurt someone else.
you give me so much hope for spiritual freedom! Praise God.
Wow thank U i learn a lot...thank U we have such a Good God...i learn everyday more and more how much He love me....i Love it it's so precious...Love for You and Your Family...
I’m also an INFJ! I of course became obsessed with personality type!! I have adhd depressed and anxiety
Thankful He sent you!
Thank you Mark for this!! So helpful and encouraging. Healing and freedom is so good.
This hit me right in my INFJness!
This helps so so sooooo very much right now. Thank you brother Mark
Watching my son as he suffers the mental torment of Scrupulosity is agony. He gets so angry, I feel I'm traumatised by his behaviour. His violence towards himself and I literally have to hold him down, a 5'3" mother, he's nearly 6'and strong. I've has to warn him about his behaviour saying I'm going to have to call the police if he doesn't stop. He's so crazy he says "call them, I deserve to go to prison, I deserve to die". I'm heartbroken, the things he says and does is destroying me, and us as a family 😮. Interestingly, I'm an infj..... I absolutely carry all the burdens of the the whole family
So good Mark! Thank you! You nailed it in regard to OCD and anger.
I feel that being alone would probably be a good thing, this way I piss off fewer people. My wife has a tendency to get mad at me because I'm mad at me.
Mark you are amazing, for letting God use your past to help us. Yes it is always like you are speaking directly to me. No one has ever been able to crack this nut🥜 shell before. It feels so great to be on a healing journey 😊God Bless you and your family ❤️
God, help me with my ocd and anxiety, and addiction issues. You know. Have mercy on me, the sinner. Amen
Can’t wait to get the new book. Thanks Mark
So good! ❤️
Thank you ❤️
Greetings, sir! I hope you can read the email that I sent you.
I am grateful for your insight, which has been a blessing to me.
Thanks Mark. I suspected my approach to anger made it worse even though I am perceived as mild-mannered. I, too, have thought of the Star Wars "disturbance in the Force" analogy. I also often connect my thoughts to sings (only I sing off-key), so I'm wondering if that's an OCD thing? :)
One thing I know from several yrs of marriage is that it is a " love/ hate relationship. I don't really mean" hate", but all the conflicting emotions that come with being married to a member of the opposite sex. I think other people experience this but FEW Christians would EVER admit to it. Are we ALL so fake in the church? MY experience is yes we are.
I have been told that I was born angry. I’m the scapegoat! And I’m still angry.
Hey Mark is there anyway I could face time you, I would like to email but I feel like I will struggle to get my point across.
It sure is, others have become completely irrelevant. Their feelings don't matter, injustices toward others no longer matter, their opinions are worthless, etc. Separating from evil.
Hey Mark, do you talk about punishment based relationships with God in one of your books?
"20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ lives in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.""
You can't tell me that THIS verse & others like it are NOT confusing & taught in the church that we don't even have a life, except that Christ lives in us.
Christians don't deal well with their own emotion & CERTAINLY NOT with OTHERS emotions in the church. Most Christians aren't safe people BECAUSE they don't know how to be & they have no grace for other's emotions or their own.
Obsessive compulsive behavior.
14:10 - 14:20: Or they claim to see it on you through things like your facial expression and constantly accuse you of passive aggression. Almost making it seem like you are a covert narcissist who can't take one hint of criticism when, in having the issues you have, you have had to live with much of it your entire life, just as much as anyone else, whether constructive or not. And your silence or what they call your "surliness" is actually you longing to try to fix your attitude, but you can't get away from people when you need to, because then you're, you know . . . selfish.
I meant…..”sin OR another tool?” Thanks….
💙
New phone…..QUESTION: Are subliminal and Binaural Beats / Alpha 8-13 Hz tones for listening on headsets for issues for sleep…OCD…depression…etc…acceptable tool to use for intrusive thoughts (In Jesus name)? Or are they satanic and a sin? Some say it’s scientific, some say a waste of time. I do steer clear of any talk of “manifesting a Porsche”. LOL .
What’s you opinion? To use in a Christian way.
Is it a sin as just another tool. Not to take the place of prayer and Bible Study….of course.
Bless You….
I’d stay away from all of those! Just play God’s Word in the back as you head off to bed. They have some really good ones that even include water waves to make it relaxing.
@@vaultofria So did I Sin? Or just placebo effect?
@@vernonscott7999 Yes. I believe so. I've repented of this in the past, due to my old past of New Age beliefs.
@@vernonscott7999 Well if yu want to know, keep waiting on God and reading the Word. He will point it out to you if He wants yu to stay away. What are the reasons behind what you're doing? Are you waiting on God to reveal it to you?
@@vaultofria I tried to use frequency’s that were not New Age just the ones backed by science. Hence Delta Waves for sleep….Alpha for alertness. Many have been helped by Gods created frequency’s. Some doctors report it helps. But.I’ve also been using Christian ABIDE apps with Gods Word. Yes especially ones for healing TRAMA……OCD. Mark talks about casting out archetypes and Spirits of OCD.
He also said using SOZO scripts has benefits according to the to the spiritual state of the practitioner!
Let it go...let it go!!😂
Ocb is annoying
You’re so funny
Literally though, in the best way! I remember when I would listen to his videos and be laughing out loud at some moments. Especially as someone who can be serious a lot of the time I appreciate how he addresses these topics with sprinkles of humor.
He is hilarious!!
He helps to lighten the mood…