I made all the mistakes in this breakup. :( I love him so much, but I’m an anxious person with abandonment issues and feel so betrayed that we couldn’t figure things out together. It’s hard for me not to think about him and how much I miss him. He was kind, thoughtful, sensitive and I failed him. I tried very hard to be there for him, but he didn’t feel safe with me, and that was a betrayal to him, too. I don’t know how I’ll ever move on from him or get over him. He said I meant the world to him, all the time, and he was the best thing to ever happen to me and I ruined everything.
She lost interest in me because I’m living at home while getting my MBA (I’m 25), and I don’t yet have the ability to spend endless money on her, as I don’t yet have an amazing job yet.
A lot of tough love in this video, but Coach Craig, I think compared to your videos from 5+ years ago, this was pretty gentle lol! Thanks for sharing this email coaching with us.
what I see here is that he got fed up with being hurt over and over by her manipulations, threats and devaluing behaviors... what did he do, he said he wants to sleep with other women.. probably as a threat trying to let her know that if she's not going to meet his needs he will need to move on in one way or another... Good for him, and also even better for him that he didn't fully lower himself and he actually still cared enough to try and soften the blow but I'm sure it was for the best. I was in a situation like that.. I didn't know why I was so unhappy but I finally left to go back to having my mother manipulate me and devaluate me.. along with Craig Margaret and Victoria in the videos.. I did the workbooks multiple times and now I can see things so much more clearly now. Life is a learning process but sometimes we need to unlearn certain things in order to become better.
You are exactly right. I thought she never leaves me and I did something that made her leave me. I destroyed all the trust and she didn’t feel safe. Anyway I love your work and I admire all the things you said. Totally facts. Much love❤
I want to write him a letter, to see him, to hold his hand and feel our love again but it feels like I just keep pushing him further and further away. I wish he could see and feel how much love I have in my heart for him and for our relationship. I don’t know how to tell him how much he means to me, how much our relationship means to me. I. Feel. Horrible.
Hi coaches, I’ve been watching your videos and was feeling better until I found out I was only his rebound. It’s been months and I can’t fully forgive and move on and I hear about him and his ex because our sons are best friends. His break up with her was a year before he and I dated. He told me the most outlandish lies, he was passionate and everything I’ve been looking for as far as communication and lifestyle. Can you please make a video on healing after being used and for those who have been left for someone else and can’t prevent hearing about them? It’s easier until I hear about him and her and my rage and feelings of betrayal come back.
My ex took sex of the table for religious beleifs. But she gave it to me real.good off the jump. Felt kind of maniputlative. She wants marriage before sex now.
I made all the mistakes in this breakup. :( I love him so much, but I’m an anxious person with abandonment issues and feel so betrayed that we couldn’t figure things out together. It’s hard for me not to think about him and how much I miss him. He was kind, thoughtful, sensitive and I failed him. I tried very hard to be there for him, but he didn’t feel safe with me, and that was a betrayal to him, too. I don’t know how I’ll ever move on from him or get over him. He said I meant the world to him, all the time, and he was the best thing to ever happen to me and I ruined everything.
She lost interest in me because I’m living at home while getting my MBA (I’m 25), and I don’t yet have the ability to spend endless money on her, as I don’t yet have an amazing job yet.
I watch all of your content. I just want to thank you and Victoria for your hard work, dedication, and insights.
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A lot of tough love in this video, but Coach Craig, I think compared to your videos from 5+ years ago, this was pretty gentle lol! Thanks for sharing this email coaching with us.
what I see here is that he got fed up with being hurt over and over by her manipulations, threats and devaluing behaviors... what did he do, he said he wants to sleep with other women.. probably as a threat trying to let her know that if she's not going to meet his needs he will need to move on in one way or another... Good for him, and also even better for him that he didn't fully lower himself and he actually still cared enough to try and soften the blow but I'm sure it was for the best. I was in a situation like that.. I didn't know why I was so unhappy but I finally left to go back to having my mother manipulate me and devaluate me.. along with Craig Margaret and Victoria in the videos.. I did the workbooks multiple times and now I can see things so much more clearly now. Life is a learning process but sometimes we need to unlearn certain things in order to become better.
Watching these videos gives me so much peace. You guys going a great work keep it up
You are exactly right. I thought she never leaves me and I did something that made her leave me. I destroyed all the trust and she didn’t feel safe. Anyway I love your work and I admire all the things you said. Totally facts. Much love❤
Were you emotionally unavailable to her, ignored her?
I want to write him a letter, to see him, to hold his hand and feel our love again but it feels like I just keep pushing him further and further away. I wish he could see and feel how much love I have in my heart for him and for our relationship. I don’t know how to tell him how much he means to me, how much our relationship means to me. I. Feel. Horrible.
so now she wants him back but does she care about what he wants?
Hi Coach Craig and Victoria, thank you for your content and all you do! I would love to see more videos about an ex we have children with.
Hi coaches, I’ve been watching your videos and was feeling better until I found out I was only his rebound. It’s been months and I can’t fully forgive and move on and I hear about him and his ex because our sons are best friends. His break up with her was a year before he and I dated. He told me the most outlandish lies, he was passionate and everything I’ve been looking for as far as communication and lifestyle. Can you please make a video on healing after being used and for those who have been left for someone else and can’t prevent hearing about them? It’s easier until I hear about him and her and my rage and feelings of betrayal come back.
miss margaret
Same ❤
That Stevie Wonder joke was outta pocket 😂😂😂
We All make Mistakes
I'm half Sicilian too ! And my family on the half Sicilian side was crazy and loud lol
My ex took sex of the table for religious beleifs. But she gave it to me real.good off the jump. Felt kind of maniputlative. She wants marriage before sex now.
You dodged a bullet bro.
well she wants to make sure you dont use her, which is understandable
Sex should not be used as leverage to get marriage.