My Wife Cooks Me, Her Favorite Meal For The First Time, After 2 Years Without Seeing Each Other

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ความคิดเห็น • 728

  • @QuangTran.
    @QuangTran.  2 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    What should be the first meal I cook for my wife?!

    • @theralphies777
      @theralphies777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Canadian Poutine 💯☺️💜💙

    • @xxfreshgodxx1218
      @xxfreshgodxx1218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Louisiana spicy fried chicken would be interesting 😋 (edit thnx for the likes his fried chicken game is international)

    • @ohxander7577
      @ohxander7577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      CHEESE STEAK QUICK TIME

    • @seun_the_great0
      @seun_the_great0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Fried chicken!

    • @luckylib
      @luckylib 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Crack chicken. When did yall get married?

  • @h0ng_stuff
    @h0ng_stuff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +553

    The wife is gentle and Quang is aggressive cooking. The perfect balance 😂

    • @JimboJones99
      @JimboJones99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They should all be wearing masks inside 😷

    • @motivationalcult777
      @motivationalcult777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@JimboJones99 yeah and drill a hole in the mask so they could eat

    • @shaanbae6096
      @shaanbae6096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@JimboJones99 🐑

    • @Shiesty723
      @Shiesty723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@JimboJones99 fr and they should season their meat with hand sanitizer. Stfu. 😂

    • @JimboJones99
      @JimboJones99 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shaanbae6096 @Shaan Bae I don't need flat earther anti-vaxxers infecting me with their germs. If you ain't double vaxxed 💉 + boostered & lining up your 4th booster ... Don't talk to me!

  • @aisadal2521
    @aisadal2521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    This is the second honeymoon period, and I am _here_ for all of this wholesomeness 🥰😄

  • @harkuri6847
    @harkuri6847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    My god I’m tearing up seeing Quan so happy, I know how hard it was for him being alone away from her & also buying a house and making sure he’s doing his best for his future family in Canada

  • @VannieEats
    @VannieEats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Love watching your wife cook! You should make this a series. So cute 💖

    • @TinhVutXaUocMo
      @TinhVutXaUocMo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      everytime when my gf takes me food shopping she would let me grab pate and coke because it's hot out

  • @MikeJones-rh4xk
    @MikeJones-rh4xk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You guys actually give off such great vibes man, these videos with you and your wife, just makes me so happy

  • @JenCole2107
    @JenCole2107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Her and her family seem so nice and laid back. 💜 Awe, you're officially back at your 2nd home! She is so cute and you guys look great together.

  • @hamrandy44
    @hamrandy44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank for sharing you and wife on video that was very sweet makes me happy when couples get together working together the kitchen

  • @dmac7376
    @dmac7376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Glad you’re getting to see your wife

  • @stufoo
    @stufoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    for people who have never tried fermented shrimp paste/sauce - think of it like a very smelly cheese. its an acquired taste but if you give it a chance it is incredible

    • @fleshtaffy
      @fleshtaffy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is a terrible comparison haha

    • @jlm2609
      @jlm2609 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mam Tom smells more like a wet shoe. However it is oddly tasty.

    • @fleshtaffy
      @fleshtaffy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tainanking I've had mam tom many times lol how bad it tastes depends on how much sugar and stuff they add. But it tastes absolutely nothing like strong cheese. You'd be surprised how popular cheese/pho mai is in Vietnam.

    • @fleshtaffy
      @fleshtaffy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tainanking still a bad comparison, mam tom is more extreme than any "stinky" cheeses. Anyways, my poop break it over I'll ttyl.

    • @fleshtaffy
      @fleshtaffy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tainanking 🤦 clearly, you're the one who's never had mam tom or stinky cheese.

  • @BlossomWithDeborah
    @BlossomWithDeborah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Waw I'm not on here every week but for everytime I've watched his videos, that's the first time that I see him sooooo happy like... its contagious! Canada is tough for immigrants and I'm so happy you're happy!

    • @joem2130
      @joem2130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Canada is pretty incredible for immigrants compared to the US. It makes me happy that the US isn't the norm.

    • @fleshtaffy
      @fleshtaffy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joem2130 Canada is extremely overrated, I moved to Saigon cause it was such a sh*tty place haha if he was smart he would stay here or move to Hue where their family is from.

  • @janepstk
    @janepstk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Congrats on your marriage, glad she is finally at home with you! Great meal!

  • @fn_flashy9101
    @fn_flashy9101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The wife’s brother is back! Give him your famous fish sauce fried chicken Quang! He loved it last time.

  • @boeyleslie4928
    @boeyleslie4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Watching you guys eat together is so wholesome, so glad you were able to get into vietnam before new years ! it'd be pretty hectic if you got in any time later ! LOVE YOU GUYS !

  • @koreanmukbang
    @koreanmukbang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Couples goals!! What a great reason to bond all the time. You two will never have any problems. Beautiful to watch.

  • @theralphies777
    @theralphies777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So excited I’m mean “So Pumped” for this!!!
    🥰🥰💜💙👏🏻👏🏻

    • @abdullah_z101
      @abdullah_z101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn you an OG being a fan of quang for 5 years

  • @mansagum7
    @mansagum7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quangs wife’s brother is seriously so gorgeous. When he gazed at the camera it was actually so physically refreshing

  • @peculiarwoman1047
    @peculiarwoman1047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Y'all are too cute. I love the way she dabs your mouth so sweetly, and then you say "thank you my love". :))))

  • @bukkeadnoi2377
    @bukkeadnoi2377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    *Luxurious! 😃 😃 ผมเจริญอาหารขึ้นทุกวันก้เพราะได้ดูคลิปอร่อยๆ ขอบคุณความอร่อยนะครับ*

  • @Cocobutterhoney78
    @Cocobutterhoney78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's beautiful Quang! I am so happy for you guys!

  • @MsLansones
    @MsLansones 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Oh now this is different! Now I want to cook this dish! I’m going to have to rewatch this. I love me some Vietnamese food! 🤤🤤🤤🤤

  • @Sanderly1820
    @Sanderly1820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If anyone wants to make this, recipe for you guys it's long sorry
    Ingredients
    Pork Patties
    1 pound ground pork
    2 ounces pork fat
    2 tablespoons minced garlic
    1/4 cup minced shallot
    2 tablespoons fish sauce
    2 tablespoons sugar
    1/2 teaspoon freshly ground pepper
    Marinated Pork
    1 pound sliced pork butt
    2 tablespoons fish sauce
    2 tablespoons sugar
    2 tablespoons hot water
    1 tablespoon vegetable oil
    1/2 teaspoon freshly ground pepper
    2 tablespoons chopped shallot
    1/4 cup chopped scallion
    Pickled Vegetables
    4 ounces carrot, peeled, cut crosswide about 1/8 inch thick
    4 ounces papaya, cut into 1 inch length and 1/8 inch thick
    1 cup water
    1/2 cup rice vinegar
    1/2 cup sugar
    Dipping sauce
    1/4 cup fish sauce
    1/4 cup fish sauce
    1/2 cup water
    1/2 cup sugar
    1 red bird's eye chilli, thinly sliced (optional)
    Assembly
    10 ounces vermicelli noodles
    1 head of butter lettuce, shredded
    1 bunch mint, picked and washed
    1 bunch Vietnamese mint, picked and washed
    1 Thai basil, picked and washed
    1 perilla, picked and washed
    dipping sauce for serving
    pickled vegetables for serving
    Instructions
    Pickled Vegetables
    To make the pickle liquid, combine water, vinegar, and sugar in a bowl and whisk until the sugar has dissolved.
    Divide the pickle juice into two bowls. Add carrots and papaya separately in each bowl. Let the vegetables pickle for 2 hours.
    Pork Patties
    In a large bowl, combine ground pork, pork fat, garlic, shallot, fish sauce, sugar, and pepper and mix well. Cover bowl and refrigerate mixture for 2 hours to let flavor develop.
    Weigh out about 2 ounces of pork mixture. Form the pork mixture into small patties with oiled hands, about 3 inches in diameter. Put the formed patties on a tray lined with parchment paper.
    Pork Marinade
    Combine the hot water and sugar in a bowl and stir until the sugar has dissolved.
    In a large lidded container, combine the sugar water, fish sauce, vegetable oil, scallion, shallot, and garlic. Mix everything together. Add the pork and toss well to coat.
    Cover the container and put the pork in the fridge and let it marinate for 2 hours.
    Grilling
    Set up the charcoal grill by placing coals on one side and lighting them. Rake the coals to create a flat even bed to create an even steady heat zone.
    Once the coals have burned down to about 375-400 degrees F, place the pork patties and marinated pork over the coals to sear for a minute on each side.
    Move the meat to the opposite side, frequently turning for 6 minutes for pork patties and 4 minutes for marinated pork or until cooked through. Transfer cooked meat to a serving plate.
    Dipping Sauce
    To make the dipping sauce, combine everything in a bowl and whisk together until combined. Set aside until ready to serve.
    Assembly
    Cook the noodles according to the package instructions. Drain and run under cold water. Drain again and set aside.
    Place the noodles, lettuce, and herbs on one platter.
    Divide the pork and pork patties between 6 dipping bowls. Add the pickled vegetables and pour the dipping sauce into each bowl. Each guest should have their own dipping bowl, with the platter of noodles and herbs in the middle of the table.
    Take a mixture of noodles, herbs and meat, and dip into the warm fish sauce with each mouthful.
    For convenience, put the meat, noodles, lettuce, and herbs into individual bowls. Drizzle the sauce over the bowl and enjoy with p

  • @doodahgurlie
    @doodahgurlie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She's such a cutie, QT. You chose well. :) BTW, that herb is perilla (the purple perilla is what a lot of Viets eat, but the green one is what the Japanese call shiso). The citrus is likely calamondin, not kumquat.

    • @Joekool88
      @Joekool88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, limes [calamondin/calamasi] rather than kumquat

  • @malikeltheos5509
    @malikeltheos5509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She is the Yin to your Yang, Quang. A perfect balance of love, Tao style. I am so thrilled for the both of you. A match made in heaven. Enjoy your time together in Veitnam. Can't wait for the ceremony one day. She will be a beautiful bride & the food will be BOMBS!!!

  • @zanegamingtv2252
    @zanegamingtv2252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    QT: Does your sister cook very good?
    Wife Brother: Không
    🤣🤣

  • @andthethingis2582
    @andthethingis2582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Awesomeness. I love seeing you with your family! Enjoy! 💚💚💚

  • @kaichen7907
    @kaichen7907 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    QT, you are hella lucky my guy. Definitely blessed. Have a good trip and visit.

  • @Dunamis_82
    @Dunamis_82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good stuff Quang. Glad to see you guys happy! Such a beautiful thing!

  • @nanaopalopalka6340
    @nanaopalopalka6340 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think she cooks very well. Even the gloves tell you she is a good cook!! You can see she is enjoying preparing you her favorite meal!! Plus she is no longer shy with the camera!! Enjoy!!

  • @JT-152
    @JT-152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sooooooo happy to see you and your wife together again bro!!!!

  • @SoriyaPeng
    @SoriyaPeng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:09 omg the cutest!!!!

  • @drdunkan15
    @drdunkan15 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Food of Life is such a beautiful thing! Love the love! ❤

  • @jackbukraba6570
    @jackbukraba6570 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow man I remember hearing about what happened abour a year ago and felt terrible. The fact I’m seeing this video makes me wanna cry. I can’t believe how happy you might be. Love you quang!!!!!!!!

  • @sirconde3822
    @sirconde3822 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It makes me so happy that u 2 are still 2gether n happy. I love u guys. Stay safe. Love 4rm the windy city.

  • @guavagirl8344
    @guavagirl8344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I went to a Filipino market in California years ago, and this guy had just ordered a dish w a side of that shrimp paste (Filipinos call it bagoong). He lost his grip on his plate, the shrimp paste went flying and splatted all over me. He was soooo embarrassed.😂 And that's my funny story.

  • @maybeido03
    @maybeido03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Glad you guys can spend time together again. She seems lovely. ❤️

  • @oldmankettlebells
    @oldmankettlebells 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s awesome my guy she waited for you and cooked a sick dish 🤌🏽👍🏽👊🏾! Congrats to both of you! Awesome from Grande Prairie, AB Canada!

  • @samtiueti9584
    @samtiueti9584 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good to see you haven't changed in 2 years brother. Love from New Zealand

  • @elijahpreston
    @elijahpreston 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good see wife back on channel love it

  • @elleh3399
    @elleh3399 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your wife has warmed up to the camera. I remember she was very shy at first lol. It’s good seeing you with her after 2 years. Love the videos. Keep it coming!!

  • @carleendatuin4445
    @carleendatuin4445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We need longer and more videos of you guys

  • @theeyethatchanges
    @theeyethatchanges 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing your happiness. Y'all got me smiling :)

  • @aureliaglover4188
    @aureliaglover4188 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love seeing you with your wife. It’s not good to live separately. I hope you can bring her to Canada with you soon.

  • @rush2275
    @rush2275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wonderful couple and video..

  • @drygrapejce8020
    @drygrapejce8020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That intro was adorable

  • @joybenko2826
    @joybenko2826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love “Family Style” meals that you can eat together.

  • @kingsman2.065
    @kingsman2.065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her " don't you think " hits differently 🥺

  • @judyNewEdenJD
    @judyNewEdenJD 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for.sharing your culture and beautiful family.

  • @scrapyang8977
    @scrapyang8977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Siblings always gonna speak the truth!!!🤣🤣🤣even though it's good they always going to say no..!!!

  • @juliebland2753
    @juliebland2753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally so glad to see her again. Love you two together.

  • @stephenedwards1409
    @stephenedwards1409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m loving all of this wholesome stuff and I’m here for it

  • @RiceRocket777
    @RiceRocket777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super pumped for this

  • @deedumeday518
    @deedumeday518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love you so much Quang, keep it up!!

  • @jameswoods6900
    @jameswoods6900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Wife, Happy Life!

  • @erinbarrow4819
    @erinbarrow4819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Katie I missed you nice to see you again after 2 years

  • @ultratv5535
    @ultratv5535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy for you quang, what a nice humble family you've found there. God bless.

  • @aninjaguardian
    @aninjaguardian 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    QUICK TIME! You and your wife look so happy spending time together

  • @ggizeee
    @ggizeee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice to see the Mrs. doing good 🙏🏻

  • @anitayee9084
    @anitayee9084 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both can spent time for 2022 Lunar Year together.

  • @l3loodyLove
    @l3loodyLove 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love these videos . More Mr. and Mrs. Quan

  • @neil1988
    @neil1988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great to see you guys 😁

  • @padou.
    @padou. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I though u guys broke up already long long ago. Happy to see you two together again😍😍

  • @ReneesatItAgain
    @ReneesatItAgain 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super cute!!! Yal are naturals together!!! It's a beautiful thing to wife in the makes, QT!!! The food looks sooooo delicious!!! Love hearing yal say the names of the dish in Vietnamese!!!

  • @trueytone2021
    @trueytone2021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the intro was 🔥

  • @CorbinDallasMP
    @CorbinDallasMP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Little bro trolling caused me to bust up at the end. 😭😂😭

  • @JazzNOtis
    @JazzNOtis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a great video she is doing amazing

  • @janedoe3900
    @janedoe3900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was today years old when I found out that kumquat was a food instead of an insult

  • @tinaburnette4170
    @tinaburnette4170 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing! Looks delicious

  • @feliciaalbanese3338
    @feliciaalbanese3338 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Of course her nails are perfect 😍

  • @rosn62
    @rosn62 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    6:12 he forgots to say Quick timmeeeee.. super pump for this

  • @mbdsmu
    @mbdsmu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The look you gave her the end.

  • @madeinaotearoanz
    @madeinaotearoanz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's a chop it up nicely kinda woman. He's a pick it up & chuck it in kinda guy. 😂 Love the happiness between you both. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @r4nge2h1
    @r4nge2h1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro! I’m obsessed with them rn lmfaos!!!

  • @sassyvickiwelcome4245
    @sassyvickiwelcome4245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm glad u too are together u make a great couple

  • @DATISHIM
    @DATISHIM 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man I missed these Vietnam videos ! You fit in so well with her family !

  • @mrbigz3389
    @mrbigz3389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was it just me that was waiting for Quang to say “super pump for this” 😂😂

  • @bkbjorn3487
    @bkbjorn3487 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi brother Q. She’s so beautiful and dainty. And you’re so attentive towards her. So beautiful to see a young man who knows how to properly treat his lady. 🖤

  • @fightnight14
    @fightnight14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quan is finally back woooot

  • @ShawnPlusOne
    @ShawnPlusOne 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love seeing you and your beautiful wife cooking on TH-cam.

  • @Ashholaay
    @Ashholaay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This makes me so happpyyyyy🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @elihu7772
    @elihu7772 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quiet wife and crazy husband, PERFECT lol.

  • @catriesjohnson1903
    @catriesjohnson1903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was funny "Does your sister cooks really good". "NO"🤣🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

  • @ejachildofgod6644
    @ejachildofgod6644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quang ‼️ bruh your wife so cute she said don't you think ‼️ sow soft and sweet much love bruh 💯

  • @MSR_Ma
    @MSR_Ma 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m subscribed to you from my other channel and I remember loving the videos with your wife! And then it stopped so, I don’t know I thought something went wrong but, seeing this! OMGOSH I love you two together! Beautiful beautiful! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheLamont0914
    @TheLamont0914 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quan,your wife "slows you down" in the kitchen. What a great balance. 👍🏿👍🏿

  • @mrsannette7
    @mrsannette7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did I miss something? Quang when did you get married? So happy for you both! And she’s so lovely 🥰

  • @julietmeyer6111
    @julietmeyer6111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful wife, wonderful life. Happy for you 2!

  • @cuuoi9457
    @cuuoi9457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Spicy Beef Noodle! Bún bò Huế nha! You should cook to your wife this meal! You are the best! Hope She love you the way you love her!

  • @alkristoff3432
    @alkristoff3432 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so nice to watch you guys..

  • @outrighthighlights
    @outrighthighlights 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the video Quang! Excellent content! Keep it up my guy!

  • @leslierenee888
    @leslierenee888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the way she chews❤️so cute ☺️

  • @nicholegory3303
    @nicholegory3303 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi !! Quang Happy 😊 Thursday Awww she cooked for you how sweet she is such a sweet lady . You guy's make a beautiful couple 💑 Her brother is so funny 😁 The food looks really good although I can't eat tgat sauce. I am allergic to seafood. Best wishes to the both of you . ❤️ ❤❤❤💥💥💥💥🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @SoTanhFilms
    @SoTanhFilms 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad to see u back with ur wifey my guy

  • @MrMit50101
    @MrMit50101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You let me down when you changed the camera angle of your first mouthful I was waiting for your brother in laws reaction I was as invested in that as he was

  • @jeanelleherrington5139
    @jeanelleherrington5139 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who makes it best she does happy wife happy life

  • @Death7trap
    @Death7trap 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The meal looked really good, I just don't know about the tofu but still good. Seems like you keep calm around your wife and don't let loose like you usually do.

  • @co4279
    @co4279 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love seeing you happy

  • @jm8153
    @jm8153 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how she cleaned your mouth with a napkin. Quan usually cleans it with bread 😆

  • @kei9174
    @kei9174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so happy for you both! Enjoy every moment!

  • @talalove4560
    @talalove4560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She's not your wife if you're not married so stop calling her your wife Quang.

    • @TomSNC
      @TomSNC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We get it he dumped you, you don't gotta keep stalking all his videos hating

    • @talalove4560
      @talalove4560 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TomSNC What's your problem? I think in my OPINION that it's inappropriate to call someone your wife when you're not married to that person. And FYI I'm happily in a relationship for 4 years, not that it's not any of your business. Sounds like you have your own personal issues.