Heidi Reacts to "Leave the house with kids"
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Hi! I'm Taylor Calmus, a Colorado-based actor/comedian. I started Dude Dad© two weeks before my son Theo was born as a way to stay creative while learning to be a father. My wife Heidi and I now have 3 kids and over 300+ videos. My purpose for the channel is to entertain, enlighten and inspire.
In addition to Dude Dad©, I have been in numerous TV shows, commercials, and have regular appearances on Jimmy Kimmel Live. I will also be hosting my own TV show called "Super Dad" on the new Magnolia Network / Discovery+. Heidi and the kids will also be a part of the show. I am originally from the rural community of Howard, South Dakota.
Heidi Reacts to "Leave the house with kids"
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Technical difficulty transitions brilliant. Watching Taylor play with fire to maintain his 'rightness' encourages us fellow brave men of success-less endeavors.
You still lose but the point still needs to be said.
@@LairdErnst yes siiiir
Um, be careful with that hahahaha
I teeter on this fine line daily
The reason he would "lose" is because the answer is for him to help more, particularly at night. But it sounds like he isn't willing to do that, yet still wants to somehow say she is wrong for not managing "her" time better at night.
I showed my wife the first video, and there were "technical difficulties" when we watched it together. I'm glad everyone has the same reaction
You obviously have no experience with women. You DO NOT show something like this to your wife to illustrate your point how it's her fault you guys are always late. No one wants to be married to a martyr.
100% the reason I drive myself to church separately. I’m the pastor and I can’t show up to church 15 minutes late mad at my wife and kids every week. Lol
I'm in the same boat. You just gotta leave them and let them come late.
Wise man
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You could help before you leave
Heidi’s look when she says “When?” Lol
Lol Taylor got her personality down to the T when he plays her hahaa
Who else saw the look on Heidi's face and feared for Taylor's life? 😂
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Omg the technical difficulties 🤣🤣 I'm DYING! The look on Heidi's face, you KNEW he was about to GET IT 🤣
I think I just heard Taylor volunteer to deal with the tantrums in the middle of the night in order to prove his point.... #MomSolidarity 😁
I second this!!!!!!!!!!
I third this #DudeDad !!! Hahaha!
Yup! That’s what i heard
My exact thought!
Haha I pretty much just said this same thing. 🤣
I have to be honest, it is so refreshing to see you guys being real. Sometimes it feels like the personalities we see on TH-cam are so put together and perfect, and to see you two having real moments with “technical difficulties” makes me feel like my marriage is really normal and okay too.
P.S. I love you guys!
I love Heidi's face as Tayler is making his point... Then "technical difficulties" I was thinking... "Don't do it Taylor" lol you guys are hilarious, I love it!!!
The slowly zooming in. Like: oh, are we going there?
I have to say, i love the raw authenticity of this video. Showing that yall arent a "perfect" couple and showing that every relationship deals with problems/drama. This video was phenomenal.
When I was frustrated with little kids getting in our bed, a coworker reassured me that they will grow out of it. She told me "I've never met a 15 year old who asked to get in bed with their parents, don't worry they'll grow out of it." Now with round two of small kids, my 5 year old gets in the bed, my 6 year old is over it unless he's sick. They will grow out of it. :)
yup, good advice because same could be said for potty training. Just when you think you are going to have a 15 year old in diapers, they finally just fu#$%^&* do it , lol
Yes! Yes! Yes!! After a while I made a cozy bed on the floor and if they came in at night they could sleep there. That only lasted a couple months and they stayed in their bed but in the beginning that’s the only way you get the maximum amount of sleep!! I always said the same thing, they’ll be potty trained when they’re ready! They won’t go to kindergarten in a diaper stop worrying!😂😂
Haha that’s a good idea…except our daughter is a huge mamas girl and gets her feelings hurt so I just keep taking her back to her bed and eventually she stays.
I 100% agree
My husband & I had 3 kids in 4 years. Our oldest liked sleeping in her own bed but the 2 younger kids not only lined to sleep in our bed but they would both try to lay ON me! After having them I had to get up 2-3 times a night to pee but would be trapped under 2 toddlers. I would need to wake the sleepy guy to get them off of me. As soon as I would start to lay down, they would climb on me. 😖 One day we asked the kids why they have to lay on me. They said, "Mommy is like a soft, comfy pillow" 😣😒
Well my husband laughed for like 20 minutes straight. He loved asking that question randomly & he laughed everytime. 😂😄😊 It's funny now that I'm a gramma though.😴👍✌
I love how honest, humble and real Heidi is!
It’s so true, and the fact that y’all can talk about it and acknowledge “you’re right” on a public platform is amazing, technical difficulties and all
Ok so this is so so good- especially when both Heidi and Taylor went back and forth about Heidi’s concession to the kids’ needs at night time. I had a hard time with my kids mostly at night, especially with the youngest. I ended up letting her share our bed for the sake of sanity and being able to function during the day. I low key resented my husband in that season for always saying “you give in too much, all you have to do is put your foot down” but he wasn’t there to support at 130 or 2am. He was asleep. So, I really think if husbands wanna help establish the boundaries they gotta be willing to team up with the wives and sacrifice some sleep too. It ain’t easy to parent by yourself at 130am when you’re so tired you don’t think straight. Thank you for bringing this up Taylor and Heidi. It’s, as always, super funny, super relatable and at the same time worth reflecting on. Btw my youngest finally slept in her own bed when she turned 9😂
you hit the nail on the head! we had the same struggles with all 4 of our kids. he told me exactly how to do everything but wasn't willing to do any of it. being up all night and all day will literally kill you afture a gew days! mama needs sleep, her lofe and those kid's lives depend on it and if dad isn't willing to help then he should just keep his mouth shut and not criticize. mama is in survival mode!
Yes yes.. so much yes! For me, hubbs has been mostly on night shift since even before our son was born (he's 6 now). So, even though he'd take time to help when he was home, he still needed to sleep during the day which left me grasping for sanity in any way I could find it. A lot of times that meant letting our kiddo sleep in bed with me so I could get some rest too. It was never "when the baby sleeps, I sleep" because I had to keep up with the cleaning and cook and pump and any "down time" I had went into personal hygiene which is also work. It's gotten easier since little man has been in school but I can't imagine having to do that with three kids. Heidi is a superhero... Partially for being a great mom but mostly for letting her husband live through the technical difficulties 😂🤣
Exactly! We tried so hard to set boundaries with the older kids but when #5 came along, We were just too tired and she climbs right in . I actually don’t mind a little extra cuddle since she is my last baby.
Amen! Preach sister! Haha ... I made that point with my husband. After literally one night of telling him to deal with the mid night wakey wakies - we moved all of our beds together in one bedroom. I nurse my daughter to sleep then roll over to the next bed. My two year son is on other side in his toddler bed. It may be strange but pretty sure it provides max sleep.
@@madelinejaneski9750 you have a beautiful name! my oldest daughter's name is Madeline. you're parents have great taste ☺️
Heidi has gotta get up on her Taylor impressions and give us some gold.
Yes, she needs to do a video of taking care of the kids at night while he sleeps
@@cy8125 totally
This was better than the actual video. You guys keep it real and that is what makes your videos so much fun. Keep up the great work!
I gotta give a shout out to Heidi for getting up a thousand times a night to take care of your kids. Parenting doesn’t stop when the lights go out despite what people may tell themselves!
Never change your ending baby dude dad babble. I have come to think of it as your signature. It's adorable and leaves me feeling light and happy.
I appreciate you guys sharing your lives in a honest way. So often we're pushing to meet an unreal unobtainable ideal. It's a relief to see you guys deal with "the way it is".
5:41 Oh those are dangerous eyes!! Don’t cross mama bear!
The leaving house vid was classically perfect. Dad power. Fam life. Making family cool.
I wish the camera would have recorded what was going on during the “Technical Difficulty” portions😂😂😂 FYI: Don’t mess with Heidi. She’s the mom and BOSS!
needed one more scene after getting in the car where the kids all have their seatbelts and shoes off.
With three kids just about the same ages as yours...this is ACTUALLY my life!! Spot on 💯
O.M.G. This is hilarious. I've already watched the original video (every single Sunday morning for us btw, and, as Catholics, we went every week and then some.) But we couldn't even stop for coffee, lol, not allowed to eat or drink before Mass. And I just bellowed through that video.
This is even better!!! Honestly, you could really turn these into a weekly sitcom, LOLLLLLZZZ!!!
Heidi's responses had me wheezing..
I absolutely love Taylor being "Mom" and explain to me how Heidi is so laid back with 3 kids? She really is my role model and I strive to be more like her every day. You guys are the best.
Same
Totally on Heidis side during the technical difficulties!!!!!
Yep. A mamas work is never done.
Lol I have lines to throw in my head already soon as he said to "wake up early" lol Heidi's death stare wasn't shown cause of technical difficulties 😆😆
I snort laughed at this. It's too true... "Technical difficulties."
Edit: the only thing missing is for the baby to have a poop blowout as soon as you buckle them in to leave.
yessss! or an older one to say "I have to pee" even though you told them several times to go right before leaving.
"Technical Difficulties "... haha truth is hard to take but our spouses are the best ones to talk it out with 🙃 I believe they know us better than we know ourselves.
Also, I enjoy getting to watch her reactions. These are so fun to watch. Real couples, doing real life in a humorous way during the little kid stage. It's such an interesting journey 😉
I really am amazed of how self aware they are about themselves and their kids! I don’t subscribe to everything but when I need my dose of humor and laughter for the day, this is the channel I go to!
I love that Heidi gets such joy out of Taylor getting a taste of what it's like while she was gone 😂
I love how they can laugh at one another and together.
I hear you Heidi! You handled this with much more grace than I would have! Well done!
I love the Look she gives.😒 Him 🤣
With Heidi - the struggle is real. The ability of being able to get ready in time as a female with long hair and makeup and outfits and everything it takes to get ready and look and feel put together is a skill that takes work to acquire and maintain lifelong - including and especially the timing of it. Figuring out and building a habit or routine of how and when to do it and in as little of time possible but with plenty of time so you're not late, etc etc.
So it's not like it can't be done but it is a struggle to get there and keep it up over time. And it is something guys don't have to deal with. I mean they gotta groom too, but the level is a lot more and different for women - especially if they need / want nicely done long hair, makeup, coordinated outfits, accessories, etc. etc. And add kids - much less THREE little kids into the mix and it can feel like an Amazing Race level challenge. 😳😩
And then when you think you have it down, your body will change/get older on you and will need even MORE time.
Men wants you to look good but at the same time they don't want it to take any time.
@@jolantagasentzer1454 😂🤪
LOL! It's the dialogue between Taylor and Heidi when they're in the car for me with Heidi being like "You wanna stop for coffee?" and Taylor looking at her like "Why are you even asking me this, we're already late?" and then responding with "Yeah." like he's already annoyed about the day started. 😂😂😂😂
The look on her face when you were explaining HOW she could keep from being up all night 🤣🤣🤣🤣 She’s like “You need to just stop now”!! 🤣🤣🤣
Taylor’s impressions of the kids are hilarious especially Juno, right in down to the little things like where she’s sitting in the back of the van in her seat and looking down watching him slide the door shut lol. 💯😆 The hide and seek and Theo’s “dad - watch this!!!” You guys are too funny. I also liked watching Heidi’s reactions! 😊
Her face when he said she brought it on herself. 😅
I love how Dad just slowly but surely digs a deeper hole until ultimately choosing violence at 5:59 🤣😂
But I also love that they are aboth so solid in who they are as husband and wife and also parents that the call-outs aren't even offensive anymore they're both just like "I am who I am and it is what it is" 🤣😂
Love Heidi's face when Taylor says something wrong before the technical difficulties like "you can take that back now"
I love ❤the open honesty in this video, the struggles with multiple small children and your spouse are real. How you deal with them can be a touchy subject. But it's important be open and honest with each other, and be a team, don't let pride take you down. You guys are the best example of this, way better than any parenting series. Because at this stage of life, there is not much helpful information to guide us through this life stage, just basically survive until the kids are old enough to do things on their own. The gray lines of how to deal with tantrums, kids sleeping in bed with the parents, disobedience, time management, priorities....these are different from family to family, you guys know each other and your kids the best, so you can pick what "works" for your family. ✅Keep up the real content in a funny perspective, it helps others be more open with each other when you can laugh through a challenging situation. ✅
Consider yourself lucky that your son can recognize and verbalize his emotions. It’s a skill that a lot of adults have never obtained. I have a nine year old who can’t do that, but I have a two year old who has been able to do it since she started talking and it makes it easier for her to manage her own feelings.
And I agree with Taylor on the kids in the bed thing. I have never let our kids into our bed at night, but I will go with them to their room and snuggle with them in their beds. They fall back asleep, sometimes I do and then I slip back into our bed. My husband appreciates having the sleep he needs to function at work and acknowledges my sacrifices in doing so.
That last part about the acknowledgement aka validation of that silent, consistent burden is what makes it work. When you're a stay at home parent you know how much that small affirmation and thanks at from another adult means. You don't realize how important that is until you suddenly arent around colleagues all the time and it's suddenly totally gone! Def one of the harder aspects of being at home, the cliche of a thankless job can sadly be very very true. Glad you too get some of that validation!
Now your gonna get a week or two of "I have a headache" for calling her out. Be strong my friend!
I'm glad though you guys are enjoying the journey. Too soon they will be grown up!, Its sad we parent in a blur of frenzy not always realizing that time marches on. Take deep breaths and enjoy!
If you're only 10mins late with 3 kids, maaannnnnn you're doing amazing!! Lol I love these Heidi reaction videos 🤣
I laughed so hard at the wife part, I had literally just closed my watch app to see how many times I had gotten up with our 9 month old when she made that comment and my partner was looking at me like I was crazy
Heidi is an optimist. They always think they have more time than they actually do. And she is very earthy...3 kids? Chaos rules, deal with it.
Both my husband and I relate to the first video and we laughed so hard reliving some memories!
I love that the dads who participate & know how hard it is to get out of the house. There’s days when our priorities are totally opposite and we end up in that frustrated zone right before leaving the house. This is awesome guys! Very relatable, since we are done having kids I have fewer of those unreasonable cleaning during rushed moments while all the kids are choraled in the car. And my husband is awesome and lets me be the slowest person out of the house too! He’s a gem.
The years with tiny kids are a great tensile test for the bond between husband and wife. 🤪
The editing, hahaha 😆
Ten minutes late IS on time! I will never understand the concept of every person getting to the same place at exactly the same time😅
Only Taylor Calmus can turn a hilarious and sweet reaction video to an incredibly video he made into a couples therapy session/inspirational moment. I laughed to tears! And I also feared for my life looking at Heidi's death stare. I know well that kind of conversation and I will try to handle it as well as you did.
You're such a great sport, Heidi!!
Amen! Pastor’s wife here who lives next door to church and still shows up late!
Oh my goodness I love you 2! Thanks for showing that there are technical difficulties with all marriages but they can be resolved. Hedi you are an amazing mom! The stage you kids are in is a difficult one but as your sure you know already it will pass. Taylor way to step up and get everything together in the morning. You guys are a true team! Lots of love your way ❤❤❤❤❤❤
So funny! I love your honesty! So glad this is a reality for other families.
Heidi's face previous to "technical difficulties"...perfection. 😁
My wife bought yoga pants because of these videos and now there might be more children.
Pics or it didn’t happen
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Hahaha
Heidi it's so true!!! 😂😅😆😆
When you have kids, add an extra half an hour if you want to get anywhere on time.
I add a full hour and get myself ready first.😂 With five kids, it's the only way I stand a chance. But we are almost never late. Still, the struggle is REAL.
Oh sweet Heidi...jokes are just real situations amplified. Your blessed to even have a husband that notices all those things! Great job as always guys! 🎉
Oh the accuracy, yesss! Me AND my kids were laughing at this. I love that you guys help us laugh through the chaos and you can see the love you have for each other and it's heartwarming ❤️
Beyond Absolutely ACCURATE...The BEST video (among your many others)! ..as a homeschool mom of three boys (now young men), I totally get the Mom, Dad, kids thing on Sunday. When we were in the Mennonite culture we use to invite people most Sun. or visit. That added meal prep and making sure house was clean and ready. I learned from other mom's to take Fri./Sat. as cleaning day and meal prep. The kids had their own areas every week.(but of course this meant more training,always)..The meal was often a huge roaster full of meat and vegies. The two of you are amazing parents. You both brighten my day. I struggled with over load and I have to do it all mentality. With no job outside the home I'd save money by making everything from scratch and getting most things at yard sales, even presents. It was more of an adventure. But time consuming and that's what kids want, your time. Most evenings I felt guilty and knew I failed in many ways as I crawled into bed to have my 15 min. of book time. Family life is hard. But I've seen and experienced some of the saddest broken lives in my recent homelessness. I've learned that many victims are the ones that nobody knows what they're doing or cares about them. The ones with "no" family. I've learned that family has the potential to love you better than anyone. And their church families can be rallied on your behalf. Of all your videos, the one's I've watched over and over are the bodyguard ones. LOL Thank You!!
"Technical difficulties" lol what I love is that you guys both seemed pretty level headed at the end. Parenting is so hard, and being on time even when you have zero kids is difficult. Props for the effort of trying to do so much, while keeping God and each other at the center
5:25 watch it Taylor. My wife and i argue about the same stuff 🤣🤣🤣
The humor, love, and honesty between the 2 of you is brilliant! ❤❤❤❤❤
Spot on! And the fact that you two can laugh about it is huge....here's to a long & happy marriage! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Love how you are so real for us. Not a "show", just marriage. You guys are the best!
Taylor is every man taking a deep silent breath trying to tell his wife the truth that he's right.
Because deep down he knows that he is probably also wrong. He may be right about part of it, but also he knows his getting up and helping might be the answer to the solution, but he wants to sleep, so he is also still wrong, too. She probably feels like she can't say that because he is already a good dad and helps a lot, and women are taught that we are supposed to be super grateful when a husband does anything to help, so how can she blast him for not helping more? (even though he should and that is the obvious solution).
Your honesty is so refreshing. Thank you for keeping it real!
I love how even in the reaction, there's Real moments that happen, but you still graciously handle this with the "Experiencing Technical Difficulties" breaks. 👍❤️
Also, my Parents were constantly late to Church and Family events because one of us either forgot something, wanted to take care of one extra thing, or needed to go to the bathroom again..
Fun times!
Keep up the great work and I'm glad you're still choosing to go to Church! It's important and I think it's great that you're continuing forward especially when it's difficult at times. 😊❤️💒🕊️
Absolutely LOVE Heidi's reactions! And I love that, when it comes to the kids, this was 100% accurate 😂😂😂
LOOL MORE OF THESE PLEASE! THIS IS GOLD!
They never want to stop for coffee Heidi!! So relatable!
I absolutely loved the original video, and loved her reaction as well. Her face when he nailed it on every kid was priceless!!!
100% for that time of life - giving me flashbacks! Love you guys, keep doing what you're doing!
I'm surprised Taylor lived after the first technical difficulties. That's me and my hubby all the time. Clearly I'm with Heidi on this one. Lol! Love you guys!!
You both are so hilarious- honest- spot on with real life with 3 small children and the stress of everyday parenting life- I LOVE ❤️ that you balance it with humor and acceptance with just dealing with it as it is- I LOVE 💕 these videos! They bring back so many memories of my earlier years with my own family- They are all grown now- I listen with a quiet smile when they relate their own life stress stories because they are creating memories of their own 😊💕
After watching your videos for a year this is the one that made me subscribe. I love Heidi’s reaction videos so much! 😂
Its all about appearance... (just in different ways) this is beyond relatable! I’m so glad you guys have eachother to balance the scales. Heidi is a mood & I’m here for it 🙌🏼 Keep it real sis!
Omg I was laughing right along with you ,Heidi.
When I was managing multiple small children, I would get the oldest up first, get her dressed and sit her down with a pop tart and cartoon so I could give undivided attention to the next one. Being able to give each one undivided attention made things go quicker. Got four children ready and out the door for church mostly on time.
Lol!! Loved the technical difficulties portions!! 🤣
Taylor is a brave man to do this reaction vid!
Absolutely hilarious! This is so accurate it’s wonderful 🤣🤣🤣 glad to see that we’re not alone in this. Your guys are great!
It was sooo accurate I told my husband this one was painful!!!! But it was also hilarious!!!! But we have 7 kids and our youngest is 5 now so when we go to church we have the kid that doesn't want to go, the one that won't eat breakfast, the one that is doing her makeup forever, the one that does everything to get ready as everyone is getting in the car, the one that can't find their watch and NEEDS IT now....OH, I could go on and on! You nailed this one!
My two year old refuses to eat breakfast on Sundays because he knows the volunteers will give him a cup of Cheerios at church. 🙄
You guys are amazingly adorable. I love how you are honest and open about the trickier parts of negotiating life with a family, while still being open to listen to each other and see the beauty in the mess. Accuracy on the kids-get-out-the-door scale if off the charts. :) And, of course, it ESPECIALLY happens when one is in a rush. :)
"Leave the house with kids" is sooooo accurate and is the funniest Dude Dad video yet! Always loving the Heidi Reacts videos too. Keep up the good work.
As a mom of a baby just a month younger then Otto. I have the same conversation with my husband. "Our baby woke up I had to feed him. Then I changed his diaper and he peed on me. Then I had to clean him up change his outfit clean the carpet. Feed him on the other side then take a shower then he was hungry again!!! And where were you??? Asleep mr sleepy sleeperson
It’s been a while, 18years, but I remember those sleepless nights…..me, glaring at my husband snoring away in bed while I can barely get a 30 min nap all day. And then he wonders why nothing gets done around the house. “When”, indeed.
I love Heidi's reviews! Keep'em coming.
I feel like these videos are a great way for these two to connect and work on some issues! Great video, keeping it real and working through disagreements and hard times!!! You two are one of my favorite couples!!
Love the realness in this video and showing how you guys aren’t perfect and aren’t afraid to show real married life with kids!!!
This is precious. Well done, both of you. Xxoo
I have two kids under 4 and I refuse to co sleep or have them sleep in my bed. They sleep perfectly in their own bed. Our kids were on formula (couldn't breastfeed) so we could switch hit when the kids were waking up throughout the night. The biggest thing that helped the kids sleep throughout the night was tanking them up before bed, and putting them in a wedge, a 30/45 degree foam insert in their bed. We strapped them down and they didn't wake up. Highly recommend one if your baby isn't sleeping well or keeps spitting up after laying down.
I feel you, Heidi! I have five kids, and the middle of the night is NOT when I want to negotiate with or train my kids. Just let em in the bed. All of mine did just fine.
Good job guys! Parenting is so hard! But so is staying present in the stressful times. You seem like you're doing a great job of being real and showing your kids how to make healthy relationships 😄
I love it! The coffee comment had me rolling
You two are so amazing. It makes me feel more human just watching you. I have my struggles. I’m aware of them. And, knowing others have them too brings me hope lol Love your beautiful family. Struggles and all.
Love the truth here…shedding tears of empathy. I feel ya Heidi!! IMO, each kid adds a 5 minute grace period for being “on time”. So really, if you are 10 minutes late, you were actually 5 minutes early. Way to go!
You guys Crack me up!!! I love your videos so much!!