I'm so proud of you for rising above all the pain and suffering from your parents' divorce. You are a very good daughter and big sister who make your dad so proud. I believe you saved his life when he was talking about ending his life. You are like an angel to your dad and your siblings. I'm so glad you use the hard life as a motivation to become a good example that dreams can happen. I have a similar life like you with my stepmother after my mom died 💔 😔. I'm now a RN and finally gained her respect before she died.
You’re such a great daughter!!! you will always have a good future.. you must of married a great guy too for you to be able to love n support your family... your husband is right too about your mom! It’s ok, your mom chose that road... keep your head up, there’s Always a light at the end....
Doc, in the story you kept saying how much you loved your father and how much you felt for him. However, I only felt bad for you. You took on the responsibility of mother and father at such a young age and you never once expected anything from your parents. You are an extraordinary person. Your dad should have married someone his own age after your mom left, his heartache is on him, you shouldn’t have to carry his pain or burden. Your bio mom on the other hand is a not a mom! No mom could ever leave their children the way she did you guys. I applaud you for being the backbone for your younger siblings. It’s so sad how selfish some parents are, to leave the burden of the younger children on to the oldest child. I hope you are able to find peace within yourself and know that it is NOT your job to financially support your brothers/sisters and see them married off. ♥️
Perseverance prevails all. You’re a brave and strong woman. Your heart is pure and kind. You’re a great example of someone who overcomes negativities and life misery by using life obstacles to boost motivation. God bless you.
Your husband is a smart man, think logically and with common sense. It's a pity that you and your siblings had to go thru this hardship. I'm glad, as a daughter, you are able to love your dad. All the best to you and your family, tus niam hluas.
Your dad made the mistake of marring your mom when she doesn’t “like” him that’s why your mom left the marriage. Then he decides to go overseas to marry a young “girl” who he thinks truly loves him? Come on! Hmoob men and their last resort to overseas and expects the woman to stay...Most agreed to marry because of coming to mekas.
This father created his own doom and misery. Not sorry for the father. He should've learn his lesson from the first wife. Marry someone your own age, please!!!
The dad made the mistakes but the mom also left her kids and said she have stomach to go birth more🙄🙄🙄🙄 yeah the mom is so great right??? At least the dad through his mistakes and suffering never left his kids.
@@maiherojj these parents are from the older days, unfortunately during these times, some elders are still very traditional where it's not easy to haul the kids back to wife family. I'm not making excuses for her because if this was me, I fight to the death for my children. A husband can be replaced but not my children. Seem like she was super confidence but didn't find any happiness either. Lesson to be learned here is no more force marriages and please stop producing too many dang kids especially when you are abandoning them. No child deserve to be brought into this world to suffer all the misery and mistreatment from their parents and step parents.
Don't feel bad for your biological mom. She made her bed now she has to lay in it. She willingly left you and your siblings without any remorse or considerations so you don't owe her anything. So happy for you to overcome your hardships and give back to your father. He is the only parent who deserves your love and support.
The life of a hmong oldest child is the ultimate surrogate parent to all younger siblings n even the living parents. You have done beyond well n you are not alone! I am also someone like you too n im proud of you for surviving!!!
Yet I still don't understand why some people have so many dang kids when they don't even love or care for each other. It's not the older siblings job to be parents to their young siblings. There's this thing called birth control.
Koj yog ib tug ntxhais txawj xav heev li os. Koj hlub koj pab mi nus muag, hlub koj txiv heev. Hos nyob li nej niam yug nej ces hlub li hlub tau tabsis nco ntsoov hlub koj txiv thiab niam tshiab no thiab mog.
Happy ending. Again, stop bringing nkauj hmoob nplog xyob txhiaj to meka teb, nej juav lawv nqi los ua cas naw... stop bringing them blitzzz over, useless, it is a disease, please stop
Sister, I am very proud of you. You are very strong and very lucky of your dad. You are doing the right thing. Don’t feel bad about your your logical mom, she deserved what she is facing today. Love your dad as much as you can and listen to your husband suggestions to keep your marriage.
Great ending to the story. You are a great daughter and you saved for father from taking his own life. I get that your mom was forced to married your dad and was unhappy. She made the choice to leave and its not your fault. She wasn't there for you and your siblings. Its always when they go and it doesn't turn out right for them they come crawling back or ask for help. Its too late than. Glad your father found happiness.
I'm proud of you, actually God sent you to be a savior for your dad and your family, keep up the good job. God bless you Merry Christmas and a happy new year.
Nej niam los yog ib leej niam uas muab tau tej minyuam daws tes tseg es tsuav nws tau txoj kev zoo siab rau nws xwb mas yog lub siab nyoos heev thiaj tso tau tej minyuam quaj ntsuag cia. Kuv lub neej ib txwm yav tag los tsis muaj 3 hnub zoo tiag2 li tabsis kuv xav txog qhov uas yuav muab kuv cov minyuam tseg es yuav nrhiav kuv, yuav quaj nco kuv hos kuv los yuav hlub thiab nco lawv npaum cas thiab ho muab lawv cov nus muag sib Xais ntshe lawv yuav sib nco npaum cas yog li kuv muab tej no los xav ces kuv thiaj tso tsis tau kuv cov minyuam ua ntsuag ciaj li ces uv2 los tau 30 tawm xyoo no kuj tsis tuag thiab es nrog nej zoo siab uas hnub no nej twb sim txoj kev txomnyem lawm mog
You’re thinking is correct. 👏👏👍👍 Love your dad and his wife now since she makes him happy and she loves you guys. Your mom is the one that gave birth to you but she abandoned you r dad and her kids, now she’s stuck with no one to love her so she wants your love again, kind of too late. Sometimes blood is not as thick as they should be. Love the one that loves you and makes you happy, not the one that abandon you when you needed them most.
Ib 💯 whether a man or a woman leaving the other spouse his or her life never turn out fine. There is always that regret but too late thing. Very happy for you tus mes vivncaus that through your parents ordeals you made it through and made a better life for you and your siblings. Uas tsaug raus koj tus Txiv for understanding your situation and helped you along the way. Life is always easy and better when you have a spouse that understand you. Glad your dad’s life finally got better and as for your mom, I petty her but do what you can and don’t go ruin your marriage for her. Men and women like your mom will always give you guilt but remember who loved and raised you. God bless you and your family.
I can understand why your mom left your father. She was forced to marry him, and that’s not love and that’s not how people want to live their lives. A lifetime is a long time. Leaving a unhappy marriage is okay. But leaving your children is not. I’m sorry to hear that she abandoned you and your sibling and the heartache you all felt.
cas kuv tsuas pom nej cem tus leej txiv thiab qhuas tus leej ntxhais xwb thiab tseem pom zoo tias leejniam uas tsis txhaum vim "raug yuam". Awww tsim nyog qhuas tus me ntxhais no rau koj txoj kev txawj xav, muaj siab hlub, thiab paub qab haus beyond your age tabsis nco ntsoov tias yog tsis muaj cov teebmeem no ces tej zaum koj lub neej twb tsis zoo li hnub no thiab no nawb mog. Kuv yog ib leej niam thiab tseem tsis tau leejniam txoj kev hlub puag thaum kuv muaj 6 xyoo los lawm mas kuv nrog nej ntshaw leej niam txoj kev hlub kawg li, yog leejtwg tsis tau raug mas tsis paub. Peb li mas xam tias niam tuag lawm ov ho koj niam es tseem nyob ntsuab muag xiab na. Txawm nws tsis hlub koj txiv los yuav tsum hlub nej pob. A loving parent can and will NEVER leave his/her kids so willingly. I applaud you for rising above the rain and cloud to stand tall to look after, even your parents! I believe that people make mistakes and both of your parents made huge mistakes but your mom's mistake is unforgivable in my eyes. You're one hecka strong woman.
Zaj no mas tu siab ua luaj li kuv mloog mas kuv lub kua muag poob thiab os... tus me niam tsev Aw.... ua li Koj ua yog lawm nawb vim yus niam twb tsis Hlub yus thiaj Muab yus tsi tseg tsam no tsis muaj chaw cov cuav ho rov los taij yus tus yog lawm...
You are one daughter who do more than most sons do for their siblings and parents. Your dad deserves every 💘 from you kids. Your mom deserves nothing for sure!.
Sorry excuses of parents you have. I’m sorry you had to go through this, your mom truly did not love you. I don’t care if there’s no love, there’s children already and they don’t need to suffer.
Best story of the year, tus mi niam Dr. You're the role model for all of us. I wish we have more very determined women like you, I'm glad you can help your dad to be happy again.
Wow you are so strong person, your dad is very lucky to have you as a daughter. I'm so glad no matter what happens, you love your dad and help taking care of your brothers and sisters. Also you should be proud of your husband for being there side by side next to you. Not many husband are understand and have a good heart like yours
You made the right decision to love your dad. Your husband made a good decision too. What your youngest brother said was true. I respect his decision. You do the right things. Keep up the good work and be a strong woman. Your mom is not a good role model for her children, grandchildren or the public’s eyes. She’s a loser. Let her live her own life and don’t disturb her anymore. She’ll learn her life lesson the hard way.
I'm glad u know who was there for you when u needed it the most...your mom will be fine without u guys in her life...she choose to leave and have nothing to do with you guys so just love her the way you can only....now that she's old she's gonna used you guys and guilt you guys into helping her....you guys don't owe any one anything...yes, she your mom but don't go beyond anything....still love and respect her as a mom and that's it.
So sorry that you had to go through so much starting at such a young age. Your step mom is evil and because she is the same age as you she's definitely jealous of you.
I don't blame her, I'm sure she want the life the daughter is living but she stick with an old man who's could be her father. Can't expect a child to act like a grown up when the grown up is acting like a child.
That's what I said. She's jealous. Ppl who are jealous of someone would put that person down, say mean things to them to try and deter them from doing what they want to do to better their life. This is exactly what that bixth did. She KNEW what she was getting herself into when she decided to marry their father. She just wanted to use him as a one way ticket to 'merica just like every Hmoob nplog wants to do. I hope that bxtch gets her karma!
You’re a wonderful daughter! No matter how stress it may be just know god see you and he gives you strength for this matter for you to be able to keep going!
Koj txiv tos tau poj dab tuaj ua nej niam xwb twb Tsis yog ib tug zoo niam tuaj rau nej ne me sister. Koj Tsis mus tos tus niam zoo tos poj dab tuaj xwb es thiaj li zoo li ntawv os es txhob tu siab vim twb Tsis yog yus yug yus. Muaj xav tia tus yug yus kiag twb kav tso yus cias thiab os mog.
Your dad should never married your step mom from overseas. That’s a huge mistake. But I’m glad you able to reach your goal and become a supported person to your dad and the family. You’re such a great woman to raised everyone!
Cov leej niam uas tus txiv twb coj zoo lawm tseem muab nej daws tes cia tau li no ces yeej yog ib leej niam tsis hlub nej kiag tsis tas hlub los yeej tsis npam nawb kuv xav na.
I’m so proud of the daughter. She has excellent leadership skills for herself and initiatives. When her dad didn’t show up she went to pick him up instead of feeling bad. Girl keep doing what you’re doing. Your mother in law is the same age and she is so jealous of you.
It's a typical hmong family. If not the father than it's the mother. The innocent ones are the children. They are selfish but the children should love both parents, if not love the mother more. She carried you for 9 months and gave birth to you.
Yep, marrying someone the same age as your daughter expecting her to be a mother to 6 children, this father is denial. She only used him to bring her here. I don't blame the wife from Laos, she has her own agenda. This father didn't learn his lesson from the first wife. Not sorry for him.
Tus sista es..Dont feel bad for your mom, im old fashioned and i agree with your dad..she had every right to take care of u guys and she didnt..as a child u always to be loved by both parents and she never raised, care, support you or your siblings in any ways she can..she shouldn’t put the guilt on you or your siblings like she did everything..she is putting the guilt on you kids..she made the decision to leave u guys so that is her consequences
So proud of you for supporting your younger siblings. Your husband does have a point though. Your birth mom was never there while you kids were struggling growing up.
Try to understand your husband. He just trying to make you understand why you should support your dad's love instead of your mom. She left you guys and didn't bother keeping yal relationship. On the other hand your dad stay by you guys regardless of what happened to his life. He didn't give you guys up. Don't take it to heart and love your husband. I'm happy of your success. May God continue to bless your heart.
Your new mother are very bad to you and your brothers. muaj ib cov ntxhais hmoob nplog tuaj yuav txiv tim mes kas no kuj phem kawg li tsis puab hlub cov mes nyuam tsis muaj niam hlub li
Hais rau koj txiv, Niag qaud laus tsheej me nyuam cas twb paub ib zaug lawm Los tsis ua zoo xaiv ib tug tim no kom siab zoo laus phim yus es xav rau lub pim mos2 xwb tab Tom phim
No matter what happened in the past I wish you the best and love your biological mama to complete your beautiful life. It will be too late if you still listen to other and stop loving her
This is a sad story. This is what happened when back on the days when people are forced to marry. This is why your mom doesn't love him, he wasn't the one she love. Then your dad being old, marry a young over sea girl, of course she won't love him. Don't blame your mom for wanting love. Yes love your new mom too.
A free flight to the land of the free, who wouldn't want that ticket. I'm not against having a better life but this father have 6 children and he married someone the same age as his daughter to be their mother. He's living in a fantasy world. Please marry someone your own age!!
Your real should not be made at you , she have to understand , she leaves you guys for long time, not taking care of you guys so hopefully she knows what she deserves for.your husband is right .
We called the lover heart deadly, but the skeleton bones still moving, no sorrow life live. That people calling your own act, you pay you own shame. no one wrong no sorry
I'm so proud of you for rising above all the pain and suffering from your parents' divorce. You are a very good daughter and big sister who make your dad so proud. I believe you saved his life when he was talking about ending his life. You are like an angel to your dad and your siblings. I'm so glad you use the hard life as a motivation to become a good example that dreams can happen. I have a similar life like you with my stepmother after my mom died 💔 😔. I'm now a RN and finally gained her respect before she died.
You’re such a great daughter!!! you will always have a good future.. you must of married a great guy too for you to be able to love n support your family... your husband is right too about your mom! It’s ok, your mom chose that road... keep your head up, there’s Always a light at the end....
Doc, in the story you kept saying how much you loved your father and how much you felt for him. However, I only felt bad for you. You took on the responsibility of mother and father at such a young age and you never once expected anything from your parents. You are an extraordinary person. Your dad should have married someone his own age after your mom left, his heartache is on him, you shouldn’t have to carry his pain or burden. Your bio mom on the other hand is a not a mom! No mom could ever leave their children the way she did you guys. I applaud you for being the backbone for your younger siblings. It’s so sad how selfish some parents are, to leave the burden of the younger children on to the oldest child. I hope you are able to find peace within yourself and know that it is NOT your job to financially support your brothers/sisters and see them married off. ♥️
Perseverance prevails all. You’re a brave and strong woman. Your heart is pure and kind. You’re a great example of someone who overcomes negativities and life misery by using life obstacles to boost motivation. God bless you.
koj txiv npam tsis tau txaus thiaj mus yuav cov msum dev khaus pim mes cab tim nplog.
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Your husband is a smart man, think logically and with common sense. It's a pity that you and your siblings had to go thru this hardship. I'm glad, as a daughter, you are able to love your dad. All the best to you and your family, tus niam hluas.
Muab niag poj laib xa rov mus nplog kiag xwb mos. siab phem ua luaj na. Poj Niam siab zoo tseem muaj coob muaj ntau teb chaws USA no.
Me ntxhais koj yog ib tug me nyuam uas txawj xav tshaj nplaws li os, nej lub neej txaus hlub dhau lawm.
Thov qhuas kj ua ntxhais txoj kev coj ncaj, zoo heev li.
Your dad made the mistake of marring your mom when she doesn’t “like” him that’s why your mom left the marriage. Then he decides to go overseas to marry a young “girl” who he thinks truly loves him? Come on! Hmoob men and their last resort to overseas and expects the woman to stay...Most agreed to marry because of coming to mekas.
This father created his own doom and misery. Not sorry for the father. He should've learn his lesson from the first wife. Marry someone your own age, please!!!
He made every mistake and his kids suffer bc of it. Ver poor decisions maker. He needs to reflect on himself.
Right
The dad made the mistakes but the mom also left her kids and said she have stomach to go birth more🙄🙄🙄🙄 yeah the mom is so great right??? At least the dad through his mistakes and suffering never left his kids.
@@maiherojj these parents are from the older days, unfortunately during these times, some elders are still very traditional where it's not easy to haul the kids back to wife family. I'm not making excuses for her because if this was me, I fight to the death for my children. A husband can be replaced but not my children. Seem like she was super confidence but didn't find any happiness either. Lesson to be learned here is no more force marriages and please stop producing too many dang kids especially when you are abandoning them. No child deserve to be brought into this world to suffer all the misery and mistreatment from their parents and step parents.
Don't feel bad for your biological mom. She made her bed now she has to lay in it. She willingly left you and your siblings without any remorse or considerations so you don't owe her anything. So happy for you to overcome your hardships and give back to your father. He is the only parent who deserves your love and support.
The life of a hmong oldest child is the ultimate surrogate parent to all younger siblings n even the living parents. You have done beyond well n you are not alone! I am also someone like you too n im proud of you for surviving!!!
Yet I still don't understand why some people have so many dang kids when they don't even love or care for each other. It's not the older siblings job to be parents to their young siblings. There's this thing called birth control.
Yog ua tau li nej ua ces peb yeej tsis muaj txoj kev sib tua tiag, me ntxais. Tus twg yog tus khiav, nej ua yog lawm nawb.
Koj yog ib tug ntxhais txawj xav heev li os. Koj hlub koj pab mi nus muag, hlub koj txiv heev. Hos nyob li nej niam yug nej ces hlub li hlub tau tabsis nco ntsoov hlub koj txiv thiab niam tshiab no thiab mog.
Happy ending. Again, stop bringing nkauj hmoob nplog xyob txhiaj to meka teb, nej juav lawv nqi los ua cas naw... stop bringing them blitzzz over, useless, it is a disease, please stop
Sister, I am very proud of you. You are very strong and very lucky of your dad. You are doing the right thing. Don’t feel bad about your your logical mom, she deserved what she is facing today. Love your dad as much as you can and listen to your husband suggestions to keep your marriage.
Great ending to the story. You are a great daughter and you saved for father from taking his own life. I get that your mom was forced to married your dad and was unhappy. She made the choice to leave and its not your fault. She wasn't there for you and your siblings. Its always when they go and it doesn't turn out right for them they come crawling back or ask for help. Its too late than. Glad your father found happiness.
I'm proud of you, actually God sent you to be a savior for your dad and your family, keep up the good job. God bless you Merry Christmas and a happy new year.
Koj hais yog lawm me ntxhais. Mloog yus tus txiv lus yog nws hais mus rau qhov yog thiab qhov zoo lawm.
Koj ua yog lawm os me ntshai. Hlub koj txiv nawb mog vim tsi muaj koj txiv ces koj tsheej neeg. Thov qhuas koj nawb mog
Nej niam los yog ib leej niam uas muab tau tej minyuam daws tes tseg es tsuav nws tau txoj kev zoo siab rau nws xwb mas yog lub siab nyoos heev thiaj tso tau tej minyuam quaj ntsuag cia. Kuv lub neej ib txwm yav tag los tsis muaj 3 hnub zoo tiag2 li tabsis kuv xav txog qhov uas yuav muab kuv cov minyuam tseg es yuav nrhiav kuv, yuav quaj nco kuv hos kuv los yuav hlub thiab nco lawv npaum cas thiab ho muab lawv cov nus muag sib Xais ntshe lawv yuav sib nco npaum cas yog li kuv muab tej no los xav ces kuv thiaj tso tsis tau kuv cov minyuam ua ntsuag ciaj li ces uv2 los tau 30 tawm xyoo no kuj tsis tuag thiab es nrog nej zoo siab uas hnub no nej twb sim txoj kev txomnyem lawm mog
Koj ua yog lawm
Doc, your story brings tears to my eyes. Your doing the right thing.
Yog lawm ib leej niam zoo li ko txhob hlub heev2 yuav hlub ces hlub nej txiv kom tau li nej txiv hlub nej nawv mog
You’re thinking is correct. 👏👏👍👍 Love your dad and his wife now since she makes him happy and she loves you guys.
Your mom is the one that gave birth to you but she abandoned you r dad and her kids, now she’s stuck with no one to love her so she wants your love again, kind of too late.
Sometimes blood is not as thick as they should be. Love the one that loves you and makes you happy, not the one that abandon you when you needed them most.
Ib 💯 whether a man or a woman leaving the other spouse his or her life never turn out fine. There is always that regret but too late thing. Very happy for you tus mes vivncaus that through your parents ordeals you made it through and made a better life for you and your siblings. Uas tsaug raus koj tus Txiv for understanding your situation and helped you along the way. Life is always easy and better when you have a spouse that understand you. Glad your dad’s life finally got better and as for your mom, I petty her but do what you can and don’t go ruin your marriage for her. Men and women like your mom will always give you guilt but remember who loved and raised you. God bless you and your family.
Myself I said you do a good job and do the right thing.
Pab koj tu siab kawg! Zoo siab koj kuj mus muaj lub zoo neeg mog!
Niam laus kj hais tau zoo hv li os
I can understand why your mom left your father. She was forced to marry him, and that’s not love and that’s not how people want to live their lives. A lifetime is a long time.
Leaving a unhappy marriage is okay. But leaving your children is not. I’m sorry to hear that she abandoned you and your sibling and the heartache you all felt.
Agreed. She have the right to be happy, but she have kids she shouldn't abandon.
Koj txiv mob tsis tau txaus thiaj li mus yuav niam cov niam ntiav tim nplog teb tuaj ua poj niam
You are a good daughter and person to help your dad and siblings. Hopefully they all appreciate you and all the things that you have done.
Cas zaj neej neeg no yuav tu siab ua luaj ....😭😭😭😭
cas kuv tsuas pom nej cem tus leej txiv thiab qhuas tus leej ntxhais xwb thiab tseem pom zoo tias leejniam uas tsis txhaum vim "raug yuam". Awww tsim nyog qhuas tus me ntxhais no rau koj txoj kev txawj xav, muaj siab hlub, thiab paub qab haus beyond your age tabsis nco ntsoov tias yog tsis muaj cov teebmeem no ces tej zaum koj lub neej twb tsis zoo li hnub no thiab no nawb mog. Kuv yog ib leej niam thiab tseem tsis tau leejniam txoj kev hlub puag thaum kuv muaj 6 xyoo los lawm mas kuv nrog nej ntshaw leej niam txoj kev hlub kawg li, yog leejtwg tsis tau raug mas tsis paub. Peb li mas xam tias niam tuag lawm ov ho koj niam es tseem nyob ntsuab muag xiab na. Txawm nws tsis hlub koj txiv los yuav tsum hlub nej pob. A loving parent can and will NEVER leave his/her kids so willingly. I applaud you for rising above the rain and cloud to stand tall to look after, even your parents! I believe that people make mistakes and both of your parents made huge mistakes but your mom's mistake is unforgivable in my eyes. You're one hecka strong woman.
So sad 😢poj hmoob aw yuav khiav cas Tsi khiav thaum peb tag kis es txhob yug tau tsheej tsev me nyuam los txhom nyem os
You are a wonderful daughter...bless you in all you do.
Zaj neej neeg no tu siab tshaj plaws li😭😭😭ua rau kuv lub kua muag poob nthav😭
Zaj no mas tu siab ua luaj li kuv mloog mas kuv lub kua muag poob thiab os... tus me niam tsev Aw.... ua li Koj ua yog lawm nawb vim yus niam twb tsis Hlub yus thiaj Muab yus tsi tseg tsam no tsis muaj chaw cov cuav ho rov los taij yus tus yog lawm...
cov poj niam siab phem siab txias ntshav yuav npam 3 tiam tom ntej no kom txau nkau rau nawb 👏👏👏
Mab, mloog koj hais neej neeg nyob meka teb poj niam lub siab phem heev li....
Koj yog ib tug ntxhais txawj xav tshaj, yog g muaj koj ces koj cov nus yuav txom xyem tshaj. Koj txiv twb nyuaj siab txaus lawm los tseem g ris siab tseem mus yuav tus hluas kev nyuaj siab thiaj rov caum cuag dua. Ntuj muaj qhov muag pom koj txiv kuj yog neeg zoo thaum kawg nws hos tau ib tug hlub nws thiab
You are one daughter who do more than most sons do for their siblings and parents. Your dad deserves every 💘 from you kids. Your mom deserves nothing for sure!.
Ho hais rau koj niam thiab nej tus tig nplog 2 niag maum Dev liam lim xyiam txhob k txog.
Sorry excuses of parents you have. I’m sorry you had to go through this, your mom truly did not love you. I don’t care if there’s no love, there’s children already and they don’t need to suffer.
You should not have to be responsible for your family. You need to focus on your own family too. It's time to let go of both your parents.
Neeg ntse txoj kev xav yeej zoo heev
Best story of the year, tus mi niam Dr. You're the role model for all of us. I wish we have more very determined women like you, I'm glad you can help your dad to be happy again.
Koj has tau yog kawg thov pab ncu Kuv thiab os phooj ywg
Wow you are so strong person, your dad is very lucky to have you as a daughter. I'm so glad no matter what happens, you love your dad and help taking care of your brothers and sisters. Also you should be proud of your husband for being there side by side next to you. Not many husband are understand and have a good heart like yours
2 tug maum dev laus mas muaj xob txiaj loj heev tsis xav tau yeej meem txav deb li deb tau nawb.
You made the right decision to love your dad. Your husband made a good decision too. What your youngest brother said was true. I respect his decision. You do the right things. Keep up the good work and be a strong woman. Your mom is not a good role model for her children, grandchildren or the public’s eyes. She’s a loser. Let her live her own life and don’t disturb her anymore. She’ll learn her life lesson the hard way.
Tu2 siab li os niam laus aw cas nim zoo kiag li kuv lub neej niaj hnb niam no thiab os 😭😭😭😭
Tus vauv hais yog dua
Tim koj txiv pheej mus yuav tus pojniam uas nws nyiam luag xwb, luag tsis nyiam tsis xav hlub nws. Tus twg los thiaj khiav mus.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob meskas ces yeej liam li koj niam nawb....
I'm glad u know who was there for you when u needed it the most...your mom will be fine without u guys in her life...she choose to leave and have nothing to do with you guys so just love her the way you can only....now that she's old she's gonna used you guys and guilt you guys into helping her....you guys don't owe any one anything...yes, she your mom but don't go beyond anything....still love and respect her as a mom and that's it.
Txawm phem thiab zoo los yeej swb tus yug yus thiaj hlub yus tiag hauv siab tuaj tus tsis yug yus txawm hlub los hlub saum daim tawv xwb os lawv.
Kuv kuj raug zij yuav kuv tus txiv thiab, tabsis kuv cov menyuam yog kuv lub ntuj. Kuv yeej tso tsis tau kuv cov menyuam uas ntsuag ciaj ib zaug lis. Kuv tsis nkag siab cov poj niam tso tau nws cov menyuam mus caum hluas nraug es tsis quav ntsej lawv.
You do the right thing Doctor.
The moment you decide to abandon your kids is going to be the days of regret.. ppl can only grow old remember that
Zoo siab tias koj yog ib tug ntxhais zoo heev. Your dad is so lu c KY to have you. God bless you.
So sorry that you had to go through so much starting at such a young age. Your step mom is evil and because she is the same age as you she's definitely jealous of you.
I don't blame her, I'm sure she want the life the daughter is living but she stick with an old man who's could be her father. Can't expect a child to act like a grown up when the grown up is acting like a child.
@@maipha8560 well, she knew what she signed up for. She knew she's marrying an old divorced man with kids.
@@maryly09 yep because those are only the ones who want her. She got her own agenda.
That's what I said. She's jealous. Ppl who are jealous of someone would put that person down, say mean things to them to try and deter them from doing what they want to do to better their life. This is exactly what that bixth did. She KNEW what she was getting herself into when she decided to marry their father. She just wanted to use him as a one way ticket to 'merica just like every Hmoob nplog wants to do. I hope that bxtch gets her karma!
May, those grilled jerky looks delicious 😋
You’re a wonderful daughter! No matter how stress it may be just know god see you and he gives you strength for this matter for you to be able to keep going!
Kuv yog koj los ntshe kuv yuav hlub kuv txiv zog thiab o sister
Koj txiv tos tau poj dab tuaj ua nej niam xwb twb Tsis yog ib tug zoo niam tuaj rau nej ne me sister. Koj Tsis mus tos tus niam zoo tos poj dab tuaj xwb es thiaj li zoo li ntawv os es txhob tu siab vim twb Tsis yog yus yug yus. Muaj xav tia tus yug yus kiag twb kav tso yus cias thiab os mog.
Your dad should never married your step mom from overseas. That’s a huge mistake. But I’m glad you able to reach your goal and become a supported person to your dad and the family. You’re such a great woman to raised everyone!
Cov leej niam uas tus txiv twb coj zoo lawm tseem muab nej daws tes cia tau li no ces yeej yog ib leej niam tsis hlub nej kiag tsis tas hlub los yeej tsis npam nawb kuv xav na.
I’m so proud of the daughter. She has excellent leadership skills for herself and initiatives. When her dad didn’t show up she went to pick him up instead of feeling bad. Girl keep doing what you’re doing. Your mother in law is the same age and she is so jealous of you.
It's a typical hmong family. If not the father than it's the mother. The innocent ones are the children. They are selfish but the children should love both parents, if not love the mother more. She carried you for 9 months and gave birth to you.
Poor father with good heart but less fortunate .this day girls can do everything even better than many son very proud daughter
Cov niam nkauj mos ab ces yeej tsis sawm zoo nawb lawv aw.....
Maum dev xyob txhiaj lub neej ces zoo li no
Love cannot be bought. Love is free and can only be true when it’s what the heart desire.
Hmoob men stop going overseas for a wife, they're not wife materials. You're a great daughter, God bless you and your siblings
Yep, marrying someone the same age as your daughter expecting her to be a mother to 6 children, this father is denial. She only used him to bring her here. I don't blame the wife from Laos, she has her own agenda. This father didn't learn his lesson from the first wife. Not sorry for him.
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Tus sista es..Dont feel bad for your mom, im old fashioned and i agree with your dad..she had every right to take care of u guys and she didnt..as a child u always to be loved by both parents and she never raised, care, support you or your siblings in any ways she can..she shouldn’t put the guilt on you or your siblings like she did everything..she is putting the guilt on you kids..she made the decision to leave u guys so that is her consequences
This is such a very sad story. I'm teary now
Wow.....this guy never learn. But I have to applause him for getting only the good looking woman.
So proud of you for supporting your younger siblings. Your husband does have a point though. Your birth mom was never there while you kids were struggling growing up.
Try to understand your husband. He just trying to make you understand why you should support your dad's love instead of your mom. She left you guys and didn't bother keeping yal relationship. On the other hand your dad stay by you guys regardless of what happened to his life. He didn't give you guys up. Don't take it to heart and love your husband. I'm happy of your success. May God continue to bless your heart.
Your new mother are very bad to you and your brothers. muaj ib cov ntxhais hmoob nplog tuaj yuav txiv tim mes kas no kuj phem kawg li tsis puab hlub cov mes nyuam tsis muaj niam hlub li
Cov niam nkauj mos ab ces yeej phem li no nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw....
Hais rau koj txiv, Niag qaud laus tsheej me nyuam cas twb paub ib zaug lawm Los tsis ua zoo xaiv ib tug tim no kom siab zoo laus phim yus es xav rau lub pim mos2 xwb tab Tom phim
No matter what happened in the past I wish you the best and love your biological mama to complete your beautiful life. It will be too late if you still listen to other and stop loving her
Txoj kev ntxeev siab phem yeej tsi vam meej tab tws kev xwb
Your a good daughter to your father and family.
Oh too sad yuav tus mos ab ua ab tsi naw tus mob ab xav yuav tau money tuaj meskas teb ua cas tsis yuav tus hlub Tiag... kawg rau mob ab Lawv li
This is a sad story. This is what happened when back on the days when people are forced to marry. This is why your mom doesn't love him, he wasn't the one she love.
Then your dad being old, marry a young over sea girl, of course she won't love him.
Don't blame your mom for wanting love. Yes love your new mom too.
Hmoob leej twg qhia rau nej tias > yuav Nkauj hmoob Nplog ua Poj niam es zoo? No ways!!!!!!!
Yog kawg qhov koj hais muaj tseeb
@@pajthao4813 leej twg Poj hmoob Nplog hnub no ces ciaj dev tag kis ntag ho, kwv tij muab yus lawb dov kaus hnub ntawv ntag ho.
Tu zoo yeej muaj thiab os txb hai li ma peb tuaj txg los peb twb tuaj rau22 siab ua neej li neb thiab ma cov me sister aw
@@lialor8071 hais rau cov uas ua phem xwb os txhob xav ntau yeej muaj cov phem thiab zoo
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That is so sad for you and your siblings. Your mom is being selfish and your mom doesn't deserve you guys in your life and in her life, too.
Cov pojniam thiab cov txiv neej tso lub neej qha qhua li no hlub tsawg los tsis ua cas.
Txoj me kev ntshaw niam mos ab ces zoo li no ntag yus Laus lawm mus yuav tus Laus kom phim yus xwb
Neeg tsis sawm zoo cia nws kawm nws
Mus ci noj nrog hav zoov puas hnov qab...น่ารัก
Poj niam hmoob dab tsi koj xya g mob koj lub pim los cas yuav siab phem ua luaj g hlub tej me nyuam li tej me nyuam g paub dab g yuav g hlub li
That was expecting of your stepmom and especially she is from Laos. So many stories about them married to old men just to get here.
A free flight to the land of the free, who wouldn't want that ticket. I'm not against having a better life but this father have 6 children and he married someone the same age as his daughter to be their mother. He's living in a fantasy world. Please marry someone your own age!!
@@maipha8560 the step-mom should also marry someone her age and not want that visa too much too. It goes both ways.
@@maryly09 yep but those are non avail. He knew she was only using him to get to America. If he was thinking something else, he's in denial.
Tos koj txiv lub neej poj niam pheej khiav khiav los, koj txiv pheej yuav tus tsis nyiam thiab tsis hlub koj txiv xwb ne.
Your real should not be made at you , she have to understand , she leaves you guys for long time, not taking care of you guys so hopefully she knows what she deserves for.your husband is right .
Tus poj niam no tsis paub hlub me nyuam li os
We called the lover heart deadly, but the skeleton bones still moving, no sorrow life live. That people calling your own act, you pay you own shame.
no one wrong no sorry
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