Sister awwww....txhua yam kev nyuaj thiab mob siab koj tau txais los txog li no thiab mus tom ntej ces yog koj rov ua rau koj tuskheej xwb. Neb ob daim ntawv doctor ces tsuas yog pab neb tau haujlwm khwv nyiaj xwb. Koj cov sisters ces tseem ntse tshaj koj lawm. Thaum pib xam hais tias koj tsis paub es thiaj yuam kev tabsi txij li hnub koj paub qhov tseeb los lawm ces yog tab meeg ua lawm os. Xyov qhov koj tso lawv tus txiv tseg es tseem niaj hnub sib tiv tauj no yog phem los zoo rau lawv tus pojniam li os. Koj tus txiv twb tsis tau ua phem npaum li lawv tus ua rau lawv es koj twb lwj siab npaum ko, cas koj thiaj tsis xav txog lawv tus pojniam txoj kev lwj siab tseem loj thiab ntau tshaj koj 100 npaug lawm na. Thaum lawv yuav lawv tus pojniam los yeej yog lawv nyiam nyiam thiab hlub hlub es lawv thiaj yuav. Thaum koj yuav koj tus txiv los twb tsis yog koj dig muag yuav thiab mas. Koj hais tias koj tus txiv tsuav qub lus los hais no....cas koj tsis tig saib koj lub siab tsis ncaj ncees ua ntej tso os. Es koj tseem muaj plhus tuaj qhia koj lub qe rau teb chaws thiab tuaj complain txog koj tus txiv thiab tseem cav hais tias koj daim degree koj thiaj yog tus ntse. The fact that you still keep in touch with someone's husband and you still keep his stuff explains clearly why your husband cannot love you.....and he's right; you don't even love him. I feel sorry for your husband and the other wife. They deserve better. And your ex....he is where he is today because his wife sacrificed to support him. Yet, you fail to see and understand the truth. You have no empathy for others except to meet your own desires and self satisfaction.
Tus txiv dev no yog koj mus kawm ntawv lawm koj tus poj niam nyob hauv tsev tham hluas nraug xwb how do you feel? Tus maum dev ko los ib yam thiab lawv tham koj tus txiv txhua hnub txhua hmo how do you feel?
Tus me ntxhais kuv paub hais koj kawm tag los ua ib kws kho mob koj paub txog tej tshuaj kho mob ntau yam kawg lawm tab sis koj tsuas paub tus kab nyiam kab nco thiab tus kab hlub ntawm tus txiv neej uas koj ua dim lawm xwb tab sis koj tsis paub nws tus kab mob ua yuav ua rau koj zaum laub thiab koj plaub hau hle tag ua rau koj tuag Ciaj ntawd koj tseem tsis tau paub nawb yog tsis tau to taub no hu nug rau kuv ntawm tus xov tooj 6513234137 kuv muaj peev xwm yuav qhia kom kawm tiav kiag ib daim DR degree los ntawm qee tus txiv tus kab mob qab txias tias nyob puag hau tus txha uas koj paub tsis txog nawb
Your love affair was not romantic at all because your relationship was not pure. It might have been a “love story” for you, but only heartache to his wife. Lady, you may be educated but you lack common sense or any sense.
I can't believe u still keep in contact with him after all these years. He only becomes extra special bc u can't have him. If u guys end up together, trust me it ain't gonna be that great. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Look, he cheated on his wife with u once. And he's still secretly cheating with u after that. U need to stop. U guys can never be friends ok. Stop keeping in touch with another woman's husband.
@@shuavheu2992 she was the cheater why you said she was not happy moved on that was wrong she shouldn't cheat on her husband then everything will be ok.
Your life will never be good because of you. Not your husband. You communicate still with your ex which is someone els husband. Is karma that makes your life sucks. I feel sorry for your husband. It’s you who destroy your husband
You and your ex are both unfaithful and disloyal at heart. Unfaithful people will never to happy because their hearts will never appreciate the one by their side. In their eyes, they always want what’s on some else’s plate. Your unhappiness and his unhappiness is the karma of those who have unfaithful hearts.
Absolutely true...love can blind a person but if that person does it intentionally than you become a stupid fool for wanting something that doesn't belong to you
Omg you’re a doctors doctor you’re talking for that cheater’s lies? Have a heart. You’re hurting another woman. Move on doctor. Live your own life. Go love your husband.
I’m glad you’ve moved on and not be a home wrecker! However, if you want a successful marriage with your husband, please cut all ties with your ex. There’s no point on still communicating with him. You’ll never find happiness if you can’t let go of what was never meant to be your’s.
Well, she's still secretly keeping in touch with him so even she's not homewrecking 100%, she's still homewrecking a little bit. Whether she agrees or not, she's still secretly cheating with him. Cheating doesn't necessary means sex.
He thought he was too smart to get caught. That is how selfish and unbelievable this man is. He actually thought that he could have it all. A wife and kids at home and another woman on the side. Lady, he was not cheating on his wife, but was also cheating on you. A decent human being would not put his wife and children so low that he would do this to his family or to you. I believe you are not thinking clearly. The best thing for you to do is forget about this man. Honestly, think about what good he can do for you. Basically nothing. If he can do this to his family, he can do this to you, too. I don't think your doctor's program taught you anything about your boyfriend, but the comments by some of these supportive people are giving you life lesson suggestions. Best wishes.
Tus sister if you give all your love and efforts to your husband. You will find that your life will be at peace and more happy. You are a doctor so you should know that living a life like this will only bring miserly and sadness to you and your husband. A man who is marry and still cheat on you is selfish and not worthy to cry over him. Imagine how his wife must feel. I'm sure he said the same thing to her when he dated her. Also keep in mind that without his wife he will be nobody and you won't like him. You love him because his wife grown him to be the person you see and fall in love with. I hope that you find love and peace in your heart and live your live now without waiting for someone else husband in your old age. You will regret wasting your life away. I believe that there are some people who waited to be love and those who give love. I hope that you will choose to give love to your husband and not waiting to be love by your ex.
@@mainhiathao7448 she probably keep pondering on her past. Not giving her 100% to her husband. How can she still keep the ex book while married to another. I wouldn't be so happy with someone who keep something from their past like her.
@@mainhiathao7448 well, it's obvious she's still not over him. I'm sure she made it known to her husband. I'm sure he sees through her sadness, unhappiness, and miseries with him. That's why he keeps rubbing it on her bc ppl like her (who are still overly in love with their exes) will not realize, but the signs are clear in their words, their body languages, and their actions. When a person doesn't love u, u will sense and know. So I'm sure her hubby sensed and knew.
@@pkcyang2910 exactly. I thought she's supposed to give up all things of her ex. Why she has his book? See, she had intentions when she decided to keep his book after she's married. She wasn't letting go of him at all.
Your ex bf was a manipulate, lying man and you still missed him? Wow I have no words for you. How can you love a liar like that? No one forced him to married his wife. He picked her the same as he picked you too. How can you not be mad and angry at him for lying to you for so long? I would he furious with someone like that. Sister, burn that book up. Focus on your marriage. Sit your husband down and have a heart to heart talk with him. Give all your heart to him. Don't dwell on the past. Tell your husband that you're were lost and made a terrible choice with a manipulated man. I'm sure your husband is the way he is to towards you because he can sense that your heart is not 100% with him. You're there physically but not your heart. Don't you know it is a big sin to live dwelling on your ex like that? People who cheat with their heart already is cheating. People who cheat on their spouse will be punish by God after you die.
She should divorce and ruin her life. Now, he will just use her and she find out. If he really loves her they will be together. But I doubt it. She was just an ass on the side.
Omg I was just saying the same thing! I was so annoyed by this so call “educated” woman. Hate should be the only thing she should have for this lover that lied and manipulated her from the very beginning. So pathetic.
💯 facts. She’s not a good woman if she’s still in love with someone’s husband. You should never tell your partner everything everything, they can use it against you but you’re right that she tell her spouse that it was a mistake n change to love the husband fully. Because she’s still in love her ex, that’s the reason he probably came at her like that too. She’s a cheater too if she’s still love her ex n still thinks that they’ll get a chance together when they’re old. She has to realize that if she did get marry to her ex, he’s still going to connect with his baby mama n kids and she’ll probably rubbing it on his face like how her husband rub it on hers. Smh 🤦♀️
Most people who have love in their marriage don't have money. Some marriages have money but no love. Nothing is perfect. We just keep living on with the one that God picked for us. Your bf should be ashamed of what he did. His hard work for a better life for his family is what hurted his family the most. What a waste.
I’m glad that u chose not to pursue y’all’s relationship even though u truly love each other. Keep ur love in ur hearts. U have to put urself in his wife’s shoes n c how much it hurts. He betrayed both of u but I’m pretty sure she’s more hurt than u. Move on n live happily!
When I heard this story about love lives of two doctors, they made me sick. They were cheaters on their spouses; they were selfish; they were morally corrupted as a individual because they knew what they did were wrong , and still keep on doing it.
I wouldn’t even bother to finish the “book about him”. Sorry but you’re not the only person who has been in love and out of love. Love hurts when it doesn’t work out but there is a reason why it didn’t work out. You just need to make a healthy decision and move on with your life with your current husband. You are not just hurting yourself but you are hurting the ones who loves you. You need to distance yourself from your ex at all cause.
You and his wife got played....you said you are hurt but his wife is more hurt...put yourself in her shoes u will understand....as for your husband he got cheated by you because u didn't love him with your whole heart that y u r miserable.....I hope your husband have someone that he loves left behind like u so u know how it feels....you and your ex are still not over each other thats why u guys still talk....you guys are still waiting to rekindle your love for the old age....y wait til then????...you guys should just ruins both of your marriage and be together if you want and love each other that much...both your spouses dont deserve this from u guys....they deserve someone who truly truly love them, y keep them with u if your heart is not in it...let them go and find someone who deserve them....you n your ex just think about yourselves only.....damn thats a shame....I feel sorry for the two spouses!!!
That's what i was thinking too. If they both so desperately love each other that much to where they cannot be happy with others, they are hurting their spouses, and are yearning for each other that much then might as well gjve up everything to be with each other. I respect cheaters who fight to be together. Not cheaters who refused to be together, but live miserable lives and make others miserable with them. I honestly want them to be together so they will both know and realized that it's not really that great. Why wait til old age? No point by then.
It doesn’t take a genius or someone with a doctorate degree to figure out that if he can cheat on his wife with you that he cannot do the same to you! Move on lady!
Niag pog DOV PIM,DOV QAUS cas tseem yuav sau kom lawv tus txiv npaj siab muab lawv lub neej tso es los ntxi koj lub pim rau yav laus ntsej muag dov pim, dov qaus
Why are you still keep in touch with your ex? You know that your ex is a cheater; what make you think that he's not going to cheat, if he is end up with you.
If “Love” has an education rating level within the “book” you’re talking about then both of you are high school drop out. Your love didn’t meet required expectations; You two failed miserably when it comes to Love. ~This world is full of Sins/temptations. This story is one perfect example of individuals who fell into the trap of lust/temptation. The unfaithful guy had a choice to be faithful to his wife but he chose to be bad. It’s so easy to bad. A cheating individual surely diminished all blessings; A cheating individual created chaos/karmas in life because nothing good can come from “sinful” behaviors. In fact, lust is NOT love, lust is temptation for weak individual. Unfortunately, this guy is weak who mistaken lust for love. He isn’t a wise nor a good man considering all degrees he had obtained. His wife deserves better. Life is too short, it’s NOT worth ruining his marriage over lust. To the sister of who shared this dark story, there were red flags you failed to pick up. If you’re seriously involved in a relationship but he makes excuses of bringing you around his families/meeting his family....there’s something wrong with that picture. You have to be smart about men, dating and don’t rush into falling for someone. Like mommy’s advise when I was younger, “Don’t trust men easily, see yourself as gold.” Be careful & chose wisely when it comes to love. Remember love is pure and innocent......nothing like this guy dr presented.
He's a cheater & an lier, she's dumb and naive doesn't know what love really is. Probably lost her virginity that's why she so obsessed with him. Facts on scientific research found that when couple make love it releases a fluid from the brain or whatever that makes your interested in the person your with, makes you bound together.
You can't let go of the dr Dev , you wont be able to move on. If you were educated like you said, you would've let the past go and move on with your life. Your Dr Dev don't belong to you from the beginning.
Tso tseg tsi txhob nco txog txoj kev hlub dag es rau siab mus ua koj lub neej kom zoo tshaj kheem tus txiv neej dag ntawd koj thiaj yeej. Koj tseem yuav tos rau thaum laus thiab ces koj tseem yuav npam tag koj lub neej xwb os. Koj tseem tsi zeem vim nws dag koj es koj thiaj tau txoj kev mob siab ces pab tsi tau.
Let it go. You both are not meant to be. If you both deleted contact info long time ago. You wouldn't be missing each other this much. First cut is the deepest 😢. But life goes on.
Two doctors who cheated and looked down on there spouses, here I fix you the title...you blamed your husband for not understanding you but you are the one that hold him back....imagine each time he looked you in the eyes and knowing he is not the one you love....pity you want your ex to have a good life but give miserable life to your kid and husband...you should leave
In order to let him go, don’t have any contact with him. He’s a lesson for you. What have you’ve learned from being with him? What have you’ve learned about who you are? Ask yourself this. He built your relationship based on a lie of betrayal. Have more patience for your husband now. He doesn’t have to be the same or think the way you do in your arrogant ways. You’ll sync up one day and you’ll learn to appreciate him and his love. It took my husband 25 years to intellectually catch up to me as I opened the doors of travel, opportunities and self education for him slowly for his purpose. Don’t live in the past, you’re robbing yourself of Joy. The present is the best but allow your husband to grow with you. Live in this moment now, not what could have, should have been. You’ll never move one second in the future if your mindset is in the past with him.
Crazy lady! He will do the same to you like how he did it to his wife when he finds someone younger! Get over it, stop missing someone else’s husband. Yeah I get it, you didn’t know but after you’ve known already, you should have stop everything instead of keeping in touch with him, writing to him. Just put yourself in his wife’s place, how would you feel??? Maybe you should forget about someone else’s husband and love your husband with your whole heart.
You are better than that! Guys always think women are weak because they will try to make you feel sorry for them. Don’t let him trick you so he could play with you both. He is so selfish! Move on with life! Think about it, your husband feels that way because you still have feelings for the your boyfriend! Put yourself in his shoes!
One of the saddest lessons in life is letting go of someone you love. I understand how painful it is to miss someone who you didn't want to leave behind. I hope you find peace in your heart and calm in your life after writing your story/book.
Sister, never fall in love with a married man! He only fool you. Put yourself on his wife spot, imagine you're his wife, you'll be hurt forever. Remember that one song "tus yus tsis tau ces yeej khuv xim"!
Wow, woman you are so unfair to your husband. Honestly you don't love your husband 100%. You married him just so you can try to forget your ex. I was in your husband shoes before, so I know exactly how he feels. So wrong on many levels, next time dont marry another man if you don't truly love them. Meaning letting go of your past...
Tus poj hmoob no twb tsis yog medical doctor, nws tham dag dhau lawm. Medical doctor lawv tsis sau phau ntawv hu ua thesis no, xav dag yuav tau dag kom txaus ntseeg mas niag Dr. Zab.
I know it hurts and it is so hard. But, you know you both can't be together. So, learn to let him go. Even if will take you a many years. It will be worth it. He will only cause your heart aches and I pain. Focus on the here and now abd your husband and kid. You are so powerful, brave and intelligent. You deserve so much better than to carry the hurt around like this.
Are we supposed to feel sorry for you? He didn't "love" you. If he did, he would have divorced his wife. He isn't a GOOD person. And it sounds like you are purposefully sabotaging your own marriage and you think you are better then your husband. Get over him.
Txoj kev sib hlub ua tau rau neeg vwm muaj tseeb tiamsis koj nco tias hlub nws nco nws los nws yog luag tus thaum pib nws twb yeem los dag zais tias nws muaj pojniam lawm ua ib siab mog txoj kev hlub no yeej ua rau mob yus heev tiamsis yuav tau tso nws tawm hauv koj lub siab koj thiaj qhib tau koj lub siab txais tos lwm tus os mog sister
Yog lawm o tus me niam laus kv lub hnub yug tab Tom nyob rau kj lub thaum ntawv thiab kv txoj kev hlub los zoo li kj txoj. Kj hlub nrog ib tug neeg muaj poj niam nw yeej txawj ua txhua yam kom yus zoo siab txhua lub sij hawm hai txog qhov yuav tso nw yog ib qho nyuab rau yus tshaj plaws vim nw yeej g kam tso yu ho nw lubneej sab tov los nw yeej g tso thiab. Thaum you paub qhov tseeb lawm lo lus uas you tau ntawm nw tsuas hais tias yuav tuav you mu kom kawg seb yuav zoo li cas.
Sister you hurt yourself. You are single when you meet someone's husband. You have the opportunity to find someone new and let the dog go. He already hurt his wife enough and his hurting you too. From now on please let his wife have trust in him 🙏
Cia nyob nro txoj kev hlub tsis sib tau es thiaj sib nco sib hlub os. Yog sib tau kev mob siab loj dhau muab koj mus nyob nws tus poj niam dhov es. Koj thiaj li paub os mog
Love is the hardest thing to let go but it’s not meant to be for a reason. I hope you find peace with yourself and let go of the past so that you can enjoy the love that is really meant for you.
Tus me niam hluas hnub no tau hnov koj zaj dab neeg hlub cas zoo ntxhawv tsis deb kuv zaj thiab sim neej no yog leej twg leej twg thiaj nkag siab hnub no kuv hnov koj xaus koj phaus ntawv lawm uas cas kuv phaus tseem tsis tau xaus li. Yog li ntshe kuv yuav tau xaus kuv phaus thiab tus siab taag ntsho ib sim li os ua tsaug koj muab faib rau peb saws nrog koj tu siab thiab os.
Tau ua Dr. es put down your husband ces kawg tsis sib haum xwb......koj put down koj tus txiv vim koj hlub lwm tus txiv lawm es koj lub neej thiaj tsis tsheej...............txhob ntshaw mus rhuav lwm tus lub neej.
Your relationship with your ex was based on a lie. I don’t disregard your feelings, but two educated people living in a fantasy world seems pretty immature. Don’t waste your time focusing on something that wasn’t meant to be and lose sight of the people that truly love you, for you, your husband and him, his wife, despite the fact of the loneliness and neglect they must feel. Don’t blame your spouses for your unhappiness, when their feelings are not returned. Count your blessings that they’re still tolerating your selfishness and haven’t left. There was no question that the degree and reputation were more important otherwise he would have left his wife in the beginning. I hope you don’t fall for his trap twice, because you have more to lose now and the ending of your book might not be happy like what you imagined.
He only cared for his pleasure and happiness. A selfish man 😭 I don’t blame you for the mistakes you’ve made. Falling in love with him was without your means. He manipulated you into falling in love with him. I’m glad you moved on although it hurts🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 Sometimes... it’s not worth fighting for love ❤️ Good luck 🍀
Tsis yog xyoo 2020 phem rau txhua tus. Rau tej tus, xyoo 2020 haj yam zoo. Nyiaj los khaws tau ntau, kev mon siab los tsis muaj ntau. Ib cov neej los ruaj dua. Tej no vim mus tsis tau nplog teb lawm. Sawv daws nyob hauv tsev ntau, ua rau tsev neeg tau nyob ua ke ntau heev.
Kav Liam mas Txawm ua tsis tau ib tug niam tsev txiv zoo rau teb chaws qhuas los Tsuav neb tau sib nug moo xwb zoo siab lawm mas thaum lub neej lwj siab los ho tshuav ib tug nug moo es kom ho zoo siab ua neeg nyob thiab os mog tus me sister aw
........ REAL men stays faithful. They don't have time to look for another woman because their too busy looking for new ways to love their own. Real men don't love the most beautiful girl in the world, they love the girl who can makes the world beautiful. 😎
This has got to be one of the dumbest story. There is a saying, that you can't just be book smart you have to be street smart too, you are just book smart. Dwelling on a situation for so many years causing you to lose your husband's trust and love all for a loser who can't respect his wife enough to be loyal to her. For someone with such a high degree that needs life saving skills, you sure do have a lot of time on your hands. It isn't your husband who has too much time on his hands, it is you which allows you to constantly think and live your past all over again. You claim he's the one who can't let go of your past but here you are sharing with the world how you still live in it. You make him live it with you, I don't blame your husband for his words or actions.
both of you are Doctor dev....
Hahaha yog yog
Totally 👍
I was going to make the same comment you did but I sew your comment first...😂😂😂
@@jervang6706 ....hahahahaha
For real, these two doctors are shame
Sister awwww....txhua yam kev nyuaj thiab mob siab koj tau txais los txog li no thiab mus tom ntej ces yog koj rov ua rau koj tuskheej xwb. Neb ob daim ntawv doctor ces tsuas yog pab neb tau haujlwm khwv nyiaj xwb. Koj cov sisters ces tseem ntse tshaj koj lawm. Thaum pib xam hais tias koj tsis paub es thiaj yuam kev tabsi txij li hnub koj paub qhov tseeb los lawm ces yog tab meeg ua lawm os. Xyov qhov koj tso lawv tus txiv tseg es tseem niaj hnub sib tiv tauj no yog phem los zoo rau lawv tus pojniam li os. Koj tus txiv twb tsis tau ua phem npaum li lawv tus ua rau lawv es koj twb lwj siab npaum ko, cas koj thiaj tsis xav txog lawv tus pojniam txoj kev lwj siab tseem loj thiab ntau tshaj koj 100 npaug lawm na. Thaum lawv yuav lawv tus pojniam los yeej yog lawv nyiam nyiam thiab hlub hlub es lawv thiaj yuav. Thaum koj yuav koj tus txiv los twb tsis yog koj dig muag yuav thiab mas. Koj hais tias koj tus txiv tsuav qub lus los hais no....cas koj tsis tig saib koj lub siab tsis ncaj ncees ua ntej tso os. Es koj tseem muaj plhus tuaj qhia koj lub qe rau teb chaws thiab tuaj complain txog koj tus txiv thiab tseem cav hais tias koj daim degree koj thiaj yog tus ntse. The fact that you still keep in touch with someone's husband and you still keep his stuff explains clearly why your husband cannot love you.....and he's right; you don't even love him. I feel sorry for your husband and the other wife. They deserve better. And your ex....he is where he is today because his wife sacrificed to support him. Yet, you fail to see and understand the truth. You have no empathy for others except to meet your own desires and self satisfaction.
Tus txiv dev no yog koj mus kawm ntawv lawm koj tus poj niam nyob hauv tsev tham hluas nraug xwb how do you feel? Tus maum dev ko los ib yam thiab lawv tham koj tus txiv txhua hnub txhua hmo how do you feel?
How do you feet li cas ? Tsis kawg ntshav siab xwb los ma !
This one should be titled, "Nco Hmoob Tej Txiv!" 😂
Yog kawg 😅😂😂
True
😀😄🤣😂😅🥲 agree 💯 %
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Nco ntsoov tias yog nws hloov siab tau rau nws tus poj niam ces hnub twg yog nws dhuav koj ces koj kawg mob siab ib yam nws tus poj niam thiab, qub neeg ces qub siab
Thov txhawb Koj hais Yog tshaj plaws nawb
Yog. Tsis sib tau lawm es thiaj nim zoo li nkaus nws hlub hlub yus xwb os. Yog tau kiag no ntshe xyov puas yuav kav thiab os.
Tus me ntxhais kuv paub hais koj kawm tag los ua ib kws kho mob koj paub txog tej tshuaj kho mob ntau yam kawg lawm tab sis koj tsuas paub tus kab nyiam kab nco thiab tus kab hlub ntawm tus txiv neej uas koj ua dim lawm xwb tab sis koj tsis paub nws tus kab mob ua yuav ua rau koj zaum laub thiab koj plaub hau hle tag ua rau koj tuag Ciaj ntawd koj tseem tsis tau paub nawb yog tsis tau to taub no hu nug rau kuv ntawm tus xov tooj 6513234137 kuv muaj peev xwm yuav qhia kom kawm tiav kiag ib daim DR degree los ntawm qee tus txiv tus kab mob qab txias tias nyob puag hau tus txha uas koj paub tsis txog nawb
💯yog tshaj
lawv muaj poj niam lawm lawv yuav hais zoo npaum cas los cov niag lus dag xwb os
This story is annoying. She needs therapy.🙄🙄🙄
Your love affair was not romantic at all because your relationship was not pure. It might have been a “love story” for you, but only heartache to his wife. Lady, you may be educated but you lack common sense or any sense.
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She's only book smart not street smart. She lacks a lot of common sense.
Geese you're so educated ms. Doctor. We get it. You over used your "doctor" degree. So annoying.
You can't let the past go That's why you never have a peaceful and successful marriage
I can't believe u still keep in contact with him after all these years. He only becomes extra special bc u can't have him. If u guys end up together, trust me it ain't gonna be that great. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Look, he cheated on his wife with u once. And he's still secretly cheating with u after that. U need to stop. U guys can never be friends ok. Stop keeping in touch with another woman's husband.
Yep. Move on with your life. If you’re not happy with your husband, leave.
Yap that’s y your marriage is not working Bc u keep comparing him to your bf. Being with ur husband and dreaming about your bf will not work.
You said it! A woman who's pretending to call someone's husband a friend and keeps in contact with him is for sure a homewrecker.
I like your idea your comments.
@@shuavheu2992 she was the cheater why you said she was not happy moved on that was wrong she shouldn't cheat on her husband then everything will be ok.
Your life will never be good because of you. Not your husband. You communicate still with your ex which is someone els husband. Is karma that makes your life sucks. I feel sorry for your husband. It’s you who destroy your husband
Agreed. Both the husband and the ex bf wife are who I feel sorry for, not these two losers
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You and your ex are both unfaithful and disloyal at heart. Unfaithful people will never to happy because their hearts will never appreciate the one by their side. In their eyes, they always want what’s on some else’s plate. Your unhappiness and his unhappiness is the karma of those who have unfaithful hearts.
Absolutely true...love can blind a person but if that person does it intentionally than you become a stupid fool for wanting something that doesn't belong to you
Omg you’re a doctors doctor you’re talking for that cheater’s lies? Have a heart. You’re hurting another woman. Move on doctor. Live your own life. Go love your husband.
These two doctors surely do not behave like their own professions.
They are BS Hmong doctor only 🤣
I don't see why not?
Medical doctor don't write thesis, I think she is a medical doctor.
I’m glad you’ve moved on and not be a home wrecker! However, if you want a successful marriage with your husband, please cut all ties with your ex. There’s no point on still communicating with him. You’ll never find happiness if you can’t let go of what was never meant to be your’s.
Well, she's still secretly keeping in touch with him so even she's not homewrecking 100%, she's still homewrecking a little bit. Whether she agrees or not, she's still secretly cheating with him. Cheating doesn't necessary means sex.
You're a doctor, but no other doctors want you except the doctor dev. Congratulations to you. Hahahaha
He thought he was too smart to get caught. That is how selfish and unbelievable this man is. He actually thought that he could have it all. A wife and kids at home and another woman on the side. Lady, he was not cheating on his wife, but was also cheating on you. A decent human being would not put his wife and children so low that he would do this to his family or to you. I believe you are not thinking clearly. The best thing for you to do is forget about this man. Honestly, think about what good he can do for you. Basically nothing. If he can do this to his family, he can do this to you, too. I don't think your doctor's program taught you anything about your boyfriend, but the comments by some of these supportive people are giving you life lesson suggestions. Best wishes.
Tus sister if you give all your love and efforts to your husband. You will find that your life will be at peace and more happy. You are a doctor so you should know that living a life like this will only bring miserly and sadness to you and your husband. A man who is marry and still cheat on you is selfish and not worthy to cry over him. Imagine how his wife must feel. I'm sure he said the same thing to her when he dated her. Also keep in mind that without his wife he will be nobody and you won't like him. You love him because his wife grown him to be the person you see and fall in love with. I hope that you find love and peace in your heart and live your live now without waiting for someone else husband in your old age. You will regret wasting your life away. I believe that there are some people who waited to be love and those who give love. I hope that you will choose to give love to your husband and not waiting to be love by your ex.
That's not true because her husband keeps bringing up her ex bf.
@@mainhiathao7448 she probably keep pondering on her past. Not giving her 100% to her husband. How can she still keep the ex book while married to another. I wouldn't be so happy with someone who keep something from their past like her.
Well said.
@@mainhiathao7448 well, it's obvious she's still not over him. I'm sure she made it known to her husband. I'm sure he sees through her sadness, unhappiness, and miseries with him. That's why he keeps rubbing it on her bc ppl like her (who are still overly in love with their exes) will not realize, but the signs are clear in their words, their body languages, and their actions. When a person doesn't love u, u will sense and know. So I'm sure her hubby sensed and knew.
@@pkcyang2910 exactly. I thought she's supposed to give up all things of her ex. Why she has his book? See, she had intentions when she decided to keep his book after she's married. She wasn't letting go of him at all.
People need to understand that if someone cheats on their spouse to be with you, they aint shit.
Some people don’t get that.
Well said, but most don't believe in that old American saying "you lose them how you get them"
Some plp are shit enough to not believe that.
He got experience so he hit her g spot good that’s why she can’t forget.
Your ex bf was a manipulate, lying man and you still missed him? Wow I have no words for you. How can you love a liar like that? No one forced him to married his wife. He picked her the same as he picked you too. How can you not be mad and angry at him for lying to you for so long? I would he furious with someone like that. Sister, burn that book up. Focus on your marriage. Sit your husband down and have a heart to heart talk with him. Give all your heart to him. Don't dwell on the past. Tell your husband that you're were lost and made a terrible choice with a manipulated man. I'm sure your husband is the way he is to towards you because he can sense that your heart is not 100% with him. You're there physically but not your heart. Don't you know it is a big sin to live dwelling on your ex like that? People who cheat with their heart already is cheating. People who cheat on their spouse will be punish by God after you die.
She should divorce and ruin her life. Now, he will just use her and she find out. If he really loves her they will be together. But I doubt it. She was just an ass on the side.
You're right
Omg I was just saying the same thing! I was so annoyed by this so call “educated” woman. Hate should be the only thing she should have for this lover that lied and manipulated her from the very beginning. So pathetic.
💯 facts. She’s not a good woman if she’s still in love with someone’s husband. You should never tell your partner everything everything, they can use it against you but you’re right that she tell her spouse that it was a mistake n change to love the husband fully. Because she’s still in love her ex, that’s the reason he probably came at her like that too. She’s a cheater too if she’s still love her ex n still thinks that they’ll get a chance together when they’re old. She has to realize that if she did get marry to her ex, he’s still going to connect with his baby mama n kids and she’ll probably rubbing it on his face like how her husband rub it on hers. Smh 🤦♀️
Most people who have love in their marriage don't have money. Some marriages have money but no love. Nothing is perfect. We just keep living on with the one that God picked for us.
Your bf should be ashamed of what he did. His hard work for a better life for his family is what hurted his family the most. What a waste.
I’m glad that u chose not to pursue y’all’s relationship even though u truly love each other. Keep ur love in ur hearts. U have to put urself in his wife’s shoes n c how much it hurts. He betrayed both of u but I’m pretty sure she’s more hurt than u. Move on n live happily!
When I heard this story about love lives of two doctors, they made me sick. They were cheaters on their spouses; they were selfish; they were morally corrupted as a individual because they knew what they did were wrong , and still keep on doing it.
Sister koj ua ib tug ntxhais nyob es luag muab nyiaj muag kiag koj tawm koj puas muaj nqis thiab txhaj muag na? Cas neb yuav nkim txoj kev kawm DR. Ua luaj os ob niag qias neeg Aw....
I wouldn’t even bother to finish the “book about him”. Sorry but you’re not the only person who has been in love and out of love. Love hurts when it doesn’t work out but there is a reason why it didn’t work out. You just need to make a healthy decision and move on with your life with your current husband. You are not just hurting yourself but you are hurting the ones who loves you. You need to distance yourself from your ex at all cause.
Right?
Burn the bridge, burn his books, burn your book, block him, build your marriage life.
You and his wife got played....you said you are hurt but his wife is more hurt...put yourself in her shoes u will understand....as for your husband he got cheated by you because u didn't love him with your whole heart that y u r miserable.....I hope your husband have someone that he loves left behind like u so u know how it feels....you and your ex are still not over each other thats why u guys still talk....you guys are still waiting to rekindle your love for the old age....y wait til then????...you guys should just ruins both of your marriage and be together if you want and love each other that much...both your spouses dont deserve this from u guys....they deserve someone who truly truly love them, y keep them with u if your heart is not in it...let them go and find someone who deserve them....you n your ex just think about yourselves only.....damn thats a shame....I feel sorry for the two spouses!!!
That's what i was thinking too. If they both so desperately love each other that much to where they cannot be happy with others, they are hurting their spouses, and are yearning for each other that much then might as well gjve up everything to be with each other. I respect cheaters who fight to be together. Not cheaters who refused to be together, but live miserable lives and make others miserable with them. I honestly want them to be together so they will both know and realized that it's not really that great. Why wait til old age? No point by then.
It doesn’t take a genius or someone with a doctorate degree to figure out that if he can cheat on his wife with you that he cannot do the same to you! Move on lady!
Niag pog DOV PIM,DOV QAUS cas tseem yuav sau kom lawv tus txiv npaj siab muab lawv lub neej tso es los ntxi koj lub pim rau yav laus ntsej muag dov pim, dov qaus
Ten minutes into the story and I don't feel I want to waste any more of my time. This lady is up to no good.
Why are you still keep in touch with your ex? You know that your ex is a cheater; what make you think that he's not going to cheat, if he is end up with you.
If “Love” has an education rating level within the “book” you’re talking about then both of you are high school drop out. Your love didn’t meet required expectations; You two failed miserably when it comes to Love. ~This world is full of Sins/temptations. This story is one perfect example of individuals who fell into the trap of lust/temptation. The unfaithful guy had a choice to be faithful to his wife but he chose to be bad. It’s so easy to bad. A cheating individual surely diminished all blessings; A cheating individual created chaos/karmas in life because nothing good can come from “sinful” behaviors. In fact, lust is NOT love, lust is temptation for weak individual. Unfortunately, this guy is weak who mistaken lust for love. He isn’t a wise nor a good man considering all degrees he had obtained. His wife deserves better. Life is too short, it’s NOT worth ruining his marriage over lust. To the sister of who shared this dark story, there were red flags you failed to pick up. If you’re seriously involved in a relationship but he makes excuses of bringing you around his families/meeting his family....there’s something wrong with that picture. You have to be smart about men, dating and don’t rush into falling for someone. Like mommy’s advise when I was younger, “Don’t trust men easily, see yourself as gold.” Be careful & chose wisely when it comes to love. Remember love is pure and innocent......nothing like this guy dr presented.
Very well said.
He's a cheater & an lier, she's dumb and naive doesn't know what love really is. Probably lost her virginity that's why she so obsessed with him. Facts on scientific research found that when couple make love it releases a fluid from the brain or whatever that makes your interested in the person your with, makes you bound together.
You can't let go of the dr Dev , you wont be able to move on. If you were educated like you said, you would've let the past go and move on with your life. Your Dr Dev don't belong to you from the beginning.
lol Dr. Dev....🤣🤣🤣
Agree with u. She got the degree but not educated enough.
Tso tseg tsi txhob nco txog txoj kev hlub dag es rau siab mus ua koj lub neej kom zoo tshaj kheem tus txiv neej dag ntawd koj thiaj yeej. Koj tseem yuav tos rau thaum laus thiab ces koj tseem yuav npam tag koj lub neej xwb os. Koj tseem tsi zeem vim nws dag koj es koj thiaj tau txoj kev mob siab ces pab tsi tau.
Zaj neej neeg no tus ntxim hlub tshaj yog koj tus txiv vim nws yuav tau ib tus poj niam siab tsis ncaj li koj
Let it go. You both are not meant to be. If you both deleted contact info long time ago. You wouldn't be missing each other this much. First cut is the deepest 😢. But life goes on.
Tu siab ua luaj os me niam ☹💔💔
Affairs......no matter how sweet the love is, it includes betrayal and lack of integrity.
Good sad love story...
Wow this is a great love sweet beaters story.
Two doctors who cheated and looked down on there spouses, here I fix you the title...you blamed your husband for not understanding you but you are the one that hold him back....imagine each time he looked you in the eyes and knowing he is not the one you love....pity you want your ex to have a good life but give miserable life to your kid and husband...you should leave
Zoo kawg lawm os!!! Ua tsaug os
This story should be titled, "Smart in books, Dumb in love. " Sorry...I don't feel any remorse for either of them.
In order to let him go, don’t have any contact with him. He’s a lesson for you. What have you’ve learned from being with him? What have you’ve learned about who you are? Ask yourself this. He built your relationship based on a lie of betrayal. Have more patience for your husband now. He doesn’t have to be the same or think the way you do in your arrogant ways. You’ll sync up one day and you’ll learn to appreciate him and his love. It took my husband 25 years to intellectually catch up to me as I opened the doors of travel, opportunities and self education for him slowly for his purpose. Don’t live in the past, you’re robbing yourself of Joy. The present is the best but allow your husband to grow with you. Live in this moment now, not what could have, should have been. You’ll never move one second in the future if your mindset is in the past with him.
Crazy lady! He will do the same to you like how he did it to his wife when he finds someone younger! Get over it, stop missing someone else’s husband. Yeah I get it, you didn’t know but after you’ve known already, you should have stop everything instead of keeping in touch with him, writing to him. Just put yourself in his wife’s place, how would you feel??? Maybe you should forget about someone else’s husband and love your husband with your whole heart.
kuv nkag siab neb zoo o
Zâj dab neeg cas zoo ua luaj li thiab tu siab heev li os
You are better than that! Guys always think women are weak because they will try to make you feel sorry for them. Don’t let him trick you so he could play with you both. He is so selfish! Move on with life! Think about it, your husband feels that way because you still have feelings for the your boyfriend! Put yourself in his shoes!
One of the saddest lessons in life is letting go of someone you love. I understand how painful it is to miss someone who you didn't want to leave behind. I hope you find peace in your heart and calm in your life after writing your story/book.
Koj zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu siab hev 😭😭😭😭
What I know is she’s using power over the husband , and the husband wanted power over her as well. This problem will never solve.
PHD don't do either of you shit. Once I know he belongs to someone I would never continue that relationship.
This one should be like Nancy Yang says El Cheater El Liar. 🤣
Great story thank u for sharing
Sister, never fall in love with a married man! He only fool you. Put yourself on his wife spot, imagine you're his wife, you'll be hurt forever. Remember that one song "tus yus tsis tau ces yeej khuv xim"!
Kawm ntawv siab siab los pab tsis tau dabtsi yog siv los hlub nco lwm tus tus Txiv ces Yeej tsis muaj nqis dabtsi li yog kawm tag es siv rau qhov steem ceeb ces muaj chaw khaws thiab yog muab yus lub siab hlub yus tus Txiv ces lub neej yeej tsis muaj sib cas sib ceg , yeej tsis muaj Kev nyuaj siab yog yus lub siab twb tsis tuag rau tus yus yuav thaum pib es kuj tsis Txob yuav xwb thiab txhob pub muaj menyuam thiaj tsis ua rau menyuam ua ntsuag. Luag tias qub neeg qub siab qub dev qub ntxiab ces yog neb tiag lau. Txawm kawm siab kawm qis los yog sib hlub ces yeej mus tau zoo. Koj tseem yuav tus kawm siab ib yam li koj mas thaum tsis xav sib hlub nyias khav nyias tus kheej mas haj yam tsis xav sib ntxia.
Wow, woman you are so unfair to your husband. Honestly you don't love your husband 100%. You married him just so you can try to forget your ex. I was in your husband shoes before, so I know exactly how he feels. So wrong on many levels, next time dont marry another man if you don't truly love them. Meaning letting go of your past...
I would be pissed too if my husband married me to get over his ex. F*ck that.
Nyob zoo sawv ntxov xyoo tshiab os phooj ywg aw
Txiv neej Hmoob mas siab phem tiag2 muaj poj niam me nyuam tag tseem dag.
Tus poj hmoob no twb tsis yog medical doctor, nws tham dag dhau lawm. Medical doctor lawv tsis sau phau ntawv hu ua thesis no, xav dag yuav tau dag kom txaus ntseeg mas niag Dr. Zab.
Hai taus tuv siab heev os
Tos Peb hmoob Tsi xav yuav cov ntxhais kawm ntawv siab l los yog zoo li koj ne... koj kawm siab2 ces koj saib saum ntuj xwb ces Tsi haum leej twg li
Txhua leej yeej mag ib zaug zoo li kos os
I know it hurts and it is so hard. But, you know you both can't be together. So, learn to let him go. Even if will take you a many years. It will be worth it. He will only cause your heart aches and I pain. Focus on the here and now abd your husband and kid. You are so powerful, brave and intelligent. You deserve so much better than to carry the hurt around like this.
lady Dr stop dreaming whats not your and it'll never be your
Are we supposed to feel sorry for you? He didn't "love" you. If he did, he would have divorced his wife. He isn't a GOOD person. And it sounds like you are purposefully sabotaging your own marriage and you think you are better then your husband. Get over him.
Txoj kev sib hlub ua tau rau neeg vwm muaj tseeb tiamsis koj nco tias hlub nws nco nws los nws yog luag tus thaum pib nws twb yeem los dag zais tias nws muaj pojniam lawm ua ib siab mog txoj kev hlub no yeej ua rau mob yus heev tiamsis yuav tau tso nws tawm hauv koj lub siab koj thiaj qhib tau koj lub siab txais tos lwm tus os mog sister
tos koj tu txiv neb tsis sib hlub los vim yog koj nco koj tu qub hluas nraug kom xwb es lub neeg yuav cas kaj siab na
Tsis yog qub hluas nraug, yog qub lawv niag txiv xwb
Yog lawm o tus me niam laus kv lub hnub yug tab Tom nyob rau kj lub thaum ntawv thiab kv txoj kev hlub los zoo li kj txoj. Kj hlub nrog ib tug neeg muaj poj niam nw yeej txawj ua txhua yam kom yus zoo siab txhua lub sij hawm hai txog qhov yuav tso nw yog ib qho nyuab rau yus tshaj plaws vim nw yeej g kam tso yu ho nw lubneej sab tov los nw yeej g tso thiab. Thaum you paub qhov tseeb lawm lo lus uas you tau ntawm nw tsuas hais tias yuav tuav you mu kom kawg seb yuav zoo li cas.
สวัสดีปีใหม่ค่ะ
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2021
Has tau haib kawg thov pab rub teg thiab os py
Sister you hurt yourself. You are single when you meet someone's husband. You have the opportunity to find someone new and let the dog go. He already hurt his wife enough and his hurting you too. From now on please let his wife have trust in him 🙏
Thawj tug ces yeej nco tshaj plaws li os
Tab sis nco tau xwb hlub tsi tau lawm
Txoj kev hlub mob hauv nruab siab tuaj. Mas mob ti nkaus txha. Tsi muaj ib yam dab tsi yuav mob npaum.
Nyob zoo xyoo tshiab rau koj os niam ntsuab teev.
Cia nyob nro txoj kev hlub tsis sib tau es thiaj sib nco sib hlub os. Yog sib tau kev mob siab loj dhau muab koj mus nyob nws tus poj niam dhov es. Koj thiaj li paub os mog
Yg kawg kev hlub yeej mob tshaj txhua22 yam nyb rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no
Cov me ntxhais aw, yog thaum ib tus hluas nraug xav xav deev yus heev ntawv txhob yig yig tsam luag mus nrhiav tau lwm tus lawm ces yus pawv os nawb. Thaum tus hluas nraug xav xav dawj dawj ces kav tsij tso phluav rau nws ua raws nws siab ntshaw thiab siab nyiam ntag, txog txij nws kum yees los yus yeej pov khawv nkaus lawm thiab. Nws ho tso yus xav mus nrhiav tus tshiab los yus yeej txaus siab tso nws es yus mam sim tus tshiab thiab xwb. Ua ib zaug neeg deev tsis txog 3 tus txiv neej ces txhob rawm mus yuav txiv mog. Txhua tus txiv neej tsis zoo ib yam nawb. Txhua tus pojniam los yeej tsis zoo ib yam. Cov luag ua neej kawg vim 2 leeg yeej muaj kev txaus siab hlo rau qhov luag ntshaw lawm nawb.
Finally you are back... been waiting for your stories!
Tu me muam txhob tu siab koj lub Neej zoo li kuv lub thiab cia muab xav tias yog txoj hmoo no xwb os mog
Love is the hardest thing to let go but it’s not meant to be for a reason. I hope you find peace with yourself and let go of the past so that you can enjoy the love that is really meant for you.
Tus me niam hluas hnub no tau hnov koj zaj dab neeg hlub cas zoo ntxhawv tsis deb kuv zaj thiab sim neej no yog leej twg leej twg thiaj nkag siab hnub no kuv hnov koj xaus koj phaus ntawv lawm uas cas kuv phaus tseem tsis tau xaus li. Yog li ntshe kuv yuav tau xaus kuv phaus thiab tus siab taag ntsho ib sim li os ua tsaug koj muab faib rau peb saws nrog koj tu siab thiab os.
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Tau ua Dr. es put down your husband ces kawg tsis sib haum xwb......koj put down koj tus txiv vim koj hlub lwm tus txiv lawm es koj lub neej thiaj tsis tsheej...............txhob ntshaw mus rhuav lwm tus lub neej.
Happy NewYear.
Your relationship with your ex was based on a lie. I don’t disregard your feelings, but two educated people living in a fantasy world seems pretty immature. Don’t waste your time focusing on something that wasn’t meant to be and lose sight of the people that truly love you, for you, your husband and him, his wife, despite the fact of the loneliness and neglect they must feel. Don’t blame your spouses for your unhappiness, when their feelings are not returned. Count your blessings that they’re still tolerating your selfishness and haven’t left. There was no question that the degree and reputation were more important otherwise he would have left his wife in the beginning. I hope you don’t fall for his trap twice, because you have more to lose now and the ending of your book might not be happy like what you imagined.
Koj yuam kev qhov koj ua kom nws khib nws tu siab..
Txoj kev ua kom luag khib luag tu siab rau yus yog ib qho uas yuav ua kom luag hnov qab koj xwb.
He only cared for his pleasure and happiness. A selfish man 😭
I don’t blame you for the mistakes you’ve made. Falling in love with him was without your means. He manipulated you into falling in love with him. I’m glad you moved on although it hurts🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲
Sometimes... it’s not worth fighting for love ❤️
Good luck 🍀
Love is NOTHING but an ILLUSION.
Peb cov txiv neej hmoob tseem muaj kev kawm loj li cas los tseem muaj tus ນິດໃສ dag tsis lees qhov tseeb li no tiag hmoob nes hmoob
Txiv neej muaj Degree thiaj nyob tau nrog poj niam. Poj niam muaj Degree tshaj koj ces lub neej kawg piam.
Tsis yog xyoo 2020 phem rau txhua tus. Rau tej tus, xyoo 2020 haj yam zoo. Nyiaj los khaws tau ntau, kev mon siab los tsis muaj ntau. Ib cov neej los ruaj dua. Tej no vim mus tsis tau nplog teb lawm. Sawv daws nyob hauv tsev ntau, ua rau tsev neeg tau nyob ua ke ntau heev.
Muaj tseeb.
Online shopping went through the roof.
Kav Liam mas Txawm ua tsis tau ib tug niam tsev txiv zoo rau teb chaws qhuas los Tsuav neb tau sib nug moo xwb zoo siab lawm mas thaum lub neej lwj siab los ho tshuav ib tug nug moo es kom ho zoo siab ua neeg nyob thiab os mog tus me sister aw
........ REAL men stays faithful. They don't have time to look for another woman because their too busy looking for new ways to love their own. Real men don't love the most beautiful girl in the world, they love the girl who can makes the world beautiful. 😎
Goes to show how potent lies, lust, betrayals and fantasies are....
Happy new year 2021 may.
Txiv neej hmoob siab phem heev yuav vwm rau kev hlub rau ib tus neeg twg yuav tsum paub luag kom zoo nov yog ib txoj kev yuav loj tshaj rau koj! Lub neej tsis zoo los ua siab nrauj mus mam nrhiav dua mog zoo dua nyob ua neej lwj siab mob stroke plawv nres tuag os nawb!
This has got to be one of the dumbest story. There is a saying, that you can't just be book smart you have to be street smart too, you are just book smart. Dwelling on a situation for so many years causing you to lose your husband's trust and love all for a loser who can't respect his wife enough to be loyal to her. For someone with such a high degree that needs life saving skills, you sure do have a lot of time on your hands. It isn't your husband who has too much time on his hands, it is you which allows you to constantly think and live your past all over again. You claim he's the one who can't let go of your past but here you are sharing with the world how you still live in it. You make him live it with you, I don't blame your husband for his words or actions.
Ua cas nej cov Dr txoj kev hlub tseem nyuaj siaj tshaj peb lawm thiab
Karma for ruining someone else’s marriage..