Sarper Tries To GUILT Shekinah To TAKE HIM BACK
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ย. 2024
- Shekinah and Sarper are both reflecting on their fight and Sarper's aggressive behavior from last night. Shekinah’s convinced Sarper ripped her phone out of her hand and her extension out of her hair out of embarrassment because he hadn't bought her a birthday present. And while Sarper is remorseful and regrets his actions - as well he should - we can see his manipulation tactics and guilt tripping in full effect. So will Shekinah cave in and go running back to him? And if she does, irrespective of his remorse, how can Sarper guarantee he won't do this again the next time he loses his temper??
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All thoughts and opinions expressed are my own. This commentary video of Sarper and Shekinah (from 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 6 Episode 10) is in no way intended to replace or stop you from watching the original show. Remember, sometimes I'm right. Sometimes I'm wrong. These are just my thoughts and our opinions may vary. That's what makes things interesting! Let's continue the conversation in the comments 👇
I rem when he ripped the lollipop from her hand and threw it last season, the red flags have beeeeen flyin'! She's still in denial unfortunately
yeah, she goes for the guy who she thinks is hot, then surprised when he turns out to be a complete Ahole. smdh
I think they deserve each other at this point , she clearly cares more about getting her 🐱 filled than her daughter they are both so superficial toxic and fake 🤦🏼♀️ there’s been 🚩 from the start and because she likes the 🍆 too much she puts up with this crap , she’ll go back she always does all while her daughter needs her 😒
it may not be a punch or a push but like keep your freakin hands to yourself
Oh wow I forgot that happened!
It does take on average seven times for the abusee to leave the abuser.
It’s weird how Sarper talks about his anger like it’s a separate entity, not him. Like, it was my anger’s fault, not mine
It's not weird to me. He's a narcissist like my ex. They do it to try to distance themselves away from actions. To excuse themselves in their own minds. So, their actions are OK to them, and they don't apologize for it. Thus repeating actions often.
He didn't mean to push me in front of the train..he only pushed me a little bit and I slipped because I was in heels...blah blah still dead..
😂😂😂
@BleuReign13 Well Said!!! Agree👍🏽
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RIGHT!! LMAO!!
Exactly ❤😂
Of course he guilted her he’s straight out of the abuser handbook
Like I just said but with a lot more words! I like yours better 😂
100%
💯 I hope she finally sees what we see, he's a manipulative, arrogant abusive piece of 💩
Nobody's telling her to stay, absolutely big dummy go home with your dog to your daughter❤❤
When people show you who they are, believe them.
Maya Angelou
Amen to that
This is so predictable. It's what abusers DO for God's sake! Abuse, apologize, make up, calm period, repeat. Of course TLC won't help her like they didn't help Michael but with man on woman dv there is a huge power imbalance physically speaking. She NEEDS HELP!!
I wouldn’t touch Sarper with a 10 foot pole.
Same. Don't get the appeal
Dude is an AI created Ken doll with the vocab of a 6 year old lmao.
AI ken 😭🤣
What if they’re both really NPC characters
😂😂😂
My 6 year olds were smarter and way more aware. He's an old ass f-boy trying to stay in charge
we ALL tried to tell her. so did her child, her friends, her family and the cast.
1 million + 1 million more
she is already making excuses for him ..
If Shekinah dissolved her facial filler and found a self esteem she’d be unstoppable. I hope she does both of those things someday.
his eye contacts are terrifying
He looks so evil with them so bad they are
Seriously, there's no light of the soul in his eyes 🫣
Funny that they're looking for a vanity when they both already have Vanity.
Good one 😂😂😂
Love it! Good one!!!
Are we gonna pretend that we don’t know they’re getting back together?
They are already together
IKR fake ass couple
Right. She likes to bury her head in the sand. Those red flags don’t bother her
That's such a crock of SH**!!! He's abusive n she knows it, she needs to run for the hills n get away from him n not look back n stop making excuses for him!
Scary...even his "apology" texts always only about himself...
It's the fact that tlc is allowing abusers and giving them a platform is crazy!
Let’s be real purposely matching ppl with abusers
She will 100% be with him again.
100%
2 million percent! Look at his eyes! He looks insanse and she is a easily brainwashed woman who desperately needs love all whilst abandoning her family and her teenage daughter. Shes a joke sadly.
Uh oh. He overplayed his abusive hand
What does she see in him? he has nothing good to offer, especially his disgusting past & he has no ambition, now he also abused her.. WOW she needs to get her life together & go spend the precious time with the people that truly love her, her daughter & family.
Sarper is so insecure. They need therapy.
Don’t drag us into this…
@@therapy-lookintoit7710 😂😂😂
@@therapy-lookintoit7710 former BABHCMII, only reason I can say not group member.
It's his culture. His culture alows abusing women and controlling them.
I’m Sorry but it’s like watching a remix of DUMB And DUMBER I can’t they deserve each other
Don't go back Shekinah, don't do it! Abuse only gets worse, he has been controlling and verbally abusive toward you already, now it's gotten physical, he is pushing how far he can go, what you will accept, if you go back it will only get worse, I've seen this before, don't do it, don't go back!
You know she's going to go back right? She has no help and no support. She's completely vulnerable.
she will go back
She'll go back. I'd bet money on it. It's a sure thing.
Okay, ive been in a narcissistic abusive relationship, and i can confidently say it will get worse unfortunately. Hes already dividing her family and weasling his way to make sure she feels like she'll have no one if she doesn’t have him. A support system is the only way you feel like you can leave
The airhead will go back to him! First she tried to make it sound like he just straight ripped her hairpiece out but I just know she’ll end up saying it was an accident when he grabbed her phone. I couldn’t care less about She-kinda & her annoying bf!! What makes me upset is why didn’t tlc be this caring when Dirty Bird was abusing Michael for years!!! Double standards much!!!
TLC is not caring. They're making a TV show and this is good TV. They're despicable imho. The difference here is that Shekinah is in literal physical danger. She can't protect herself physically against Sarper whereas Michael could have knocked Angela out if he had chosen to!
I can't even listen to her teenage logic. Her defenses and excuses. Acck do whatever whatever. Nobody cares
I started calling her Skeletor from another channel after Sock went full MAGOT, transphobe, and trashed Mary's GFM donors.
A leopard does not change its spots.
Terrible couple
He made sure it happened after the cameras were off.
This is from the batterer's playbook. "He didn't mean to rip my hair out, he just meant to yank the phone from me". next it will be, "He didn't mean for me to crack my head on the coffee table, he just meant to lightly push me a little but I tripped"
It usually takes about 7 times to leave an abusive partner for good. I hope not in this case
Shekina is such an airhead
Offcourse she is going back 😮💨
She leaves every time he does something she genuinely wanted to leave him , she would have got a flight home amd blocked him. She loves the tv time and attention she is getting atm to leave
She prioritizes his feelings. She has to analyze, defend and explain what HE'S THINKING. OK Shekinah what about you?
Or she lacks confidence and self esteem 🙄
They are both selfish and immature
she will take him back
Yup. It's guaranteed.
He did it once, he will do it again. Been there done that with a few too many "men."
Narcissistic abuse!!! Girl in my best late Windham Rotunda voice #RUN
She’ll never leave him. I hope someone saves her.
She don’t wana be saved
She don't wanna be saved.
She can choose to leave him at any time but she won't. She loves the dysfunction.
How interesting is it that their downfall comes from a vanity...
I really don't know what she sees in him
Can't she just tell by looking at his face that he isn't a nice person, I mean good grief. He always looks pissed off.
Most of abusers regret what they have done. What a childish act because he had no gift? Can't stand this lame couple.
She likes the chasing she thinks is true love NO it's abuse
I think he is showing her who he truly is. She should get away from him or it could get worse for her. She is very beautiful.❤🙏
My soon to be x got mad and took my phone and broke it in his hand! Knowing it was my only form of entertainment. And my first husband ran at me and took the handle of a rotary phone from me,( because his side piece had called) and his discusting long nose picking pinky nail stabbed me under my eye! It bled and i have a scar.
I’m sure we’ll see them right back on the last resort 😬
Why can't he just appreciate the bombshell she is and love her faithfully?
If those 2500 "tunnel explorations" weren't enough to achieve maximum XP, don't go for the princess just yet, Sarper.
And get YOUR hair fixed! Jeez...
Hmmm 🤔 it seems they look like adults but behave like children 🤦🏽♀️
Umm, she didn't like the vanity. How about flowers, perfume, a card... Why no gift at all Sarper?
It can take up to seven times to leave the abuser. Just remember that.
I don't feel sorry for her she already seen these red flags and continues to go back to him. Alot of this is script shame on TLC for making all this drama
Why doesn't TLC look for new couples that would be more fun to watch?
He needs to button up his shirts. He ain't no thang.
The next time he’ll be even more physical, it’ll progress to a push, then a slap and before you know it a full beat down. Shekinah runnn!!!!
1:51 what is up with her face
That's not HER face anymore 🤣
Good question, let's ask her surgeon lmao
@@ViciousAthletics No need. Google her before/after. She used to be cute
Shekina can't you see that this man is abusing you lollipop from your mouth, cell phone from your hand your hair Jooooo next.......... 😭😭
I’ve noticed that women or men tend to be in the type of relationships because they feel like they could change that person and they take it as a goal to change that person but let me tell you this most likely will never happen and I’m talking about 99.99%
My ex ripped the phone away from my ear pulling hair and a dangling earrings thru my earlobe. The police came to get him, the judge put me under an emergency order of protection. Sarper is an abuser! She's got battered woman syndrome making excuses for his actions ugh!
I literally find him to be the most dislikable vile person alive.
Run 🏃♀️ run shek red flags.more abuse incoming.wake up omg
The moment you start making excuses for them and then they will start to fill entitled to be angry, throw tantrums, be manipulative and then abusive. One thing I learned in life is, what people show you take it for what it is, stop trying to understand them people are not that complicated.
This is beginning of DV.. Sarper is typical narcissist and manipulator. I hope she gets out. Its really not easy for those victims to see what it is. Especially, if she meets his family and they are so blindly supportive.
I believe that even if Shakinah will be a*** his family will be on his side and say that she deserved it. Its vicious circle.
We need to gain more awareness on DV and show support to all victims🙏🙏
Sarper is the epitome of narcissism and guilt tripping (among so many other negative things)! And Shakina will keep going back and running away! 🙄
He's just gonna go back sleeping with other women. Why doe's his face remind me of Lord Farquaad from the Shrek movie...
First it was the Lolipop that he Ripped now her Hair Extension whats next? This guy knows how to Play her she is going back to him ..
A leopard DOESN'T change his spots!!! So Sarper will be the same and won't change!
She knew what he was about the deal with the sucker now this and what we haven’t seen. She doesn’t want to be wrong again so she is staying.
omg,he is so creepy and narcissitic
Dont really feel bad, both of them are shallow, selfish, conceited, narcassitic, controlling etc. Another encounter with chad booooo hooooo.
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so it’s okay to attack someone if it’s over a bday gift ? or lack thereof. got it.
I had a husband once upon a time and when I left him he tried all kinds of tactics. I cant watch these TWo
But she has no right to tell him he cannot train females. Takes two to tango. My late partner was a personal trainer and manager at the gym. I was 11 years older than him but felt secure in our relationship
Have fun with your fancy parties lol
Handsome Squidward needs to stop enabling his abuse..........
He felt regret like a puppy 😂
Girl run red flag
Shekina is a smart girl. She just happens to be in love and wants it to work.. hopefully he does right by her from now on
he yanked a lollipop out of her hand + yanked her out of the chage room
It looks like she has in tape in extensions. If he ripped some out, that means he ripped her hair from the scalp. Those extensions don’t just slip out.
How beleavabl are those two ? Another Casanova action scripted by TLC. Drama, another Romeo Julliet scene. This as awfully as Jasmin and Gi o. Sarper continue to be a playboy, she agree to be a victim of his wild actions this can go on for some time ! Seeking only want validation, not bring him to the US !
No one wpuld know he didn't get her a gift...they were going home.
He wanted things his way and she didn't let him this time...... She is supposed to be extremely submissive...
Precisely he was just mad she didn’t do what he wanted
@@evapawlowska Exactly...
He is so controlling he tells you what to eat on the tell all and tell her what he wants her weight should be...run from him
Never been this early !!
I don't understand what kind of love they have
I feel like this guy does not even want to go to America so he is moving mad on her she needs to leave him tf alone or it will just get worse
Don't ever ignore red flags ... it will save u time & stress.
Unfortunately fake Barbie & fake Ken are full of red flags & love attention 😱
So over these 2 🤮
She’s going back and letting him design her nose
It's been obvious from day 1 that this guy hate woman and is an abuser. It starts with his control and emotional abuse and now he will escalate to physical. He has before grabbing her lollipop and throwing it. She will go back to him. She left her daughter for him. She is a DV victim unfortunately. He will end up killing her.
I think I get her mentality now but I do not agree with it , she knows his verbally maybe even physically abusive but she stays because she think since she has went through it already she can make him shape up aka get her power back but I don’t agree with it at all as a person who has went through it , that will never happen with an abusive partner they are willing to go to hell and back with it specially a narcissist and your not so I think she should just leave him
Cue the face palm meme from Naked Gun 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Two weirdos
4:27 does she have legs? Lmao people seem to forget you can still walk if you want to leave 😂😂 what would yall do without Uber or your phone?
This whole storyline is disturbing. My sense is that he could legit end up killing her.
Do you think he wants her back for tv fame? Or is he a huge misogynist?
It's just a typical dv relationship, thats all. As someone that was in 2 extreme dv relationships, this would positively happen whether on camera or not. They both need to leave each other alone for good, get into therapy and heal themselves. They can NEVER be together regardless, it will never end well.
Shekinah shekinah are u really that desperate u not seeing so many red flags wow what. Language will u understand he making u feel guilty for what he to u wake up u leave ur 15 year old daughter for a man that don't appreciate u wake up
She has a child she left at home.... she hvbe to take actions otherwise i don´t feel sorry for her anymore
Move on this abusive crazy men.shenikka you deserve better
sarper would 100% be one of those guys that assaults food on tiktok