In which case, she'd be a bad wife. Being a wife is a deeply personal connection. It does no good to consider women "good wife material" if they reject you. That's like saying, "Remember, this is an extremely good tasting pizza. But you don't get to taste it." The comparison means nothing. I'd revise your statement to something like this: "Just because she has the godly qualities you're looking for doesn't mean she'd make a good wife."
@@KevvoLightswift It goes without saying that she has Godly qualities because why would you be considering someone without them in the first place? Having Godly qualities doesn't necessarily mean you will make a good wife because one can have Godly qualities but not be called to marriage.
@@GearzMonkey Let me put it another way: Saying she'll make a good wife for someone else is putting her on a pedestal. She'll make a bad wife if she doesn't want you, because again, "WIFE" only has context in relation to you yourself. Don't be a simp. If a woman doesn't want you, she'll make a bad wife.
@@KevvoLightswift I respectfully disagree with you, brother. Firstly, wife is not a possessive noun I.e. she can be a wife and not be YOUR wife. Secondly, what is wrong with saying she’ll make a good wife for someone else? There is humility in accepting that although a woman has godly qualities, you and her are not compatible and therefore you guys won’t make a good partnership - doesn’t mean either of you are bad spouses, you’re just incompatible. Lastly, if she doesn’t want you, she can’t make a bad wife because she can’t even be a wife to begin with, based on your definition of wife (I.e. being she has to be your wife to be a wife).
@@GearzMonkey You can disagree all you want (and screw the respect; honestly, we can duke it out here without getting our feelings hurt). The point is, you can't know she'll make a good wife unless you have experience with her as YOUR wife. At best, you can say you "think" she'd make a good wife, but without actually testing her in a marriage, you have no way of knowing. Doesn't matter what others say. Take. Women. Off. The. Pedestal. They are not God. God is. You call it humility. I call it simping. God never intended for Eve to be a wife for a man other than Adam. I don't respectfully disagree with you. I absolutely disagree with you. And I'm not afraid to say it. You shouldn't be, either. This is a battle of ideas, not identities. Maybe you can hold the idea a woman is a godly spouse for someone else, but in my own experience, that only leads to resentment and idolization. Do not give your power or thoughts to women who don't reciprocate. God is your rock, not them. If you can say to yourself, "She's a great woman, just not for me" without losing sleep or idolizing her, go for it. I welcome more discourse, because this helps me sharpen my own ideas. So thanks for that!
I have seen several women that had an internal beauty that made them desireable despite not being a 10 on the beauty charts. They made about 5 to 6 but were more desirable than the 10. You just knew she would be totally with you if she gave herself to you. So don't let her outward looks fool you. Seek her internal beauty and that will let you know her real beauty.
It's basically telling u how to find a righteous woman from God, from the Bible that's seeking marriage. From an ordinary woman u see out in the real world so he's teaching u how to seek them
You are right and wrong regarding your 1st sign,I am a single man who has an enormous appreciation toward a woman with a good heart as well as a woman who knows how to dress, do her hair, and wear jewelry and makeup so it compliments the natural beauty, I have a great appreciation of the arts and colour coordination.
Agree, to some extent....remember the Bible has the Book of Solomon, which describes a woman's outward beauty...many times !...God designed humans to be physically attractive to each other !
7:32 I'd disagree that women are better with words....they use MORE, yes....but most of the best storytellers throughout history are men. Men use minimal words to make a point...women often babble endlessly, and it usually goes nowhere...in fact it's been scientifically studied that the average woman needs to let out several thousand words per day, as her way of de-stressing.......in contrast, a man doesn't even need to let out half that amount...(generally of course)
Interesting breakdown about a woman’s gift for using words being used for uplifting or for being quarrelsome! For us men who struggle at understanding how women use their words, this is a powerful way to discern in any situation! Do her words lift you up or make you look bad? Specifically for me, there are several women whom I know that use their words in a confusing way that I must take the time and process. Some of their intentions seem nearly impossible to read. I find myself having to focus on the facts, consider what Jesus would do, and shelf any attempts at trying to read them. And NO, if that is the vibe you get from a lady, DON’T marry that person!!! Be careful, brothers!!!
For a man to want a woman to submit to him, he better have the quality the character for the woman to want too,see women some naturally want to, but he can’t be a man with brutal mindset and expect gentle reciprocation. He can’t be a man who thinks he has marital privilege and disrespects no, marriage isn’t a get laid because I want it to bad about you, that’s marital rape. He can’t be a man that thinks that the woman is the helper when the Bible says partner, you see the dishes should be equally taken care of the diapers should be equally taken care of the groceries should be equally taken care of, etc. Submission where the husband gets supper brought to him, dishes cleaned, etc the wife is not a maid, a care taker, a financial assistant, a sex doll, etc, thewoman, the wife is a partner, elevate each other, be of good character and conduct yourself from a place of love everything will fall into place. Love, love and then love some more.
if a ‘man’ treats you like an object or he’s aggressive, mean or brutal, he most likely is not seeking The Kingdom of God & His righteousness everyday & has much work ahead of him to grow spiritually & in other areas in life. in Genesis, God created Adam to attend to the garden & after a while He saw Adam was sad / lonely so he made Eve out of Adam’s rib after He saw it is not good for man to be alone for long time. the Bible does say He gave Adam a help mate. people do take that out of context but everyone still has areas to grow we never stop learning as long as we allow ourselves to be students of the TRUTH! I believe it’s in regard to Gods Biblical order for marriage & family - Christ - husband - wife - children. God made man the way he did so we can lead like He wants. all we can do is spread the Truth & let the Fruits show! Biblical marriage is about men & women coming together to be one flesh all for Gods GLORY! He is in charge He made the rules & He has DOMINION Praise to Almighty God in Heaven
Thank you, good video. I hope my man knows that women and men are both spiritual before they are physical whether they are believers or not, because if all men need to lust after female beauty there is no reason to get married and women might as well be whores. I just needed to get that last part out before I attach myself to the right man. Bless you..out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.
I don’t think you should be teaching on wives submitting to their own husbands if you do not provide full context for the other side - you may have said this in another video but I think they should always be done together. The ancient Greek (that the word submit replaced) actually means ‘do not strive with’. Ie Wives do not strive with your husband - it more means do not fight him, be for him not against him. Spiritual order is another matter. The position of women in the world is a result of the curse of the fall. When Christ returns this will be fully corrected.
The position of women in the world yes I could agree with you. It’s due to the fall because of patriarchy it started immediately Adam blamed Eve the winner takes all you see the Bible is written from a patriotic point of view. What if Adam was actually the one who took the first bite, then gave it to his wife, perhaps even with brute strength after all he blamed the woman, to God Adam said, “the woman you gave me.” He blamed God and Eve the winners write history think on it for a moment, what would the world be like in a matriarch society would y’all have the same attitude?
@@mtl6405 Your comment is not written very well, it is a bit garbled. Can you please clarify what you are trying to say? Add: God placed curses on men, women and the serpent. Men also have a curse from the fall. I do not agree ‘winners’ write history. There are no winners here except God who triumphed over death. Men or women are not ‘winners’.
it is a blessing to be beautiful on the outside. but a necessity to strive to have a beautiful, meek & kind soul. those are Fruits both men / women should operate in & LIVE by. of course God has different purposes for men & women we just gotta learn Who God is & how He wants us to live while we’re on this earth! may God be with you always
I used to wonder about what would make a good wife but now I know it's more important to be the godly man that attracts a godly woman.
Remember guys, just because she'll make a good wife doesn't mean she'll be your wife.
In which case, she'd be a bad wife. Being a wife is a deeply personal connection. It does no good to consider women "good wife material" if they reject you. That's like saying, "Remember, this is an extremely good tasting pizza. But you don't get to taste it."
The comparison means nothing. I'd revise your statement to something like this: "Just because she has the godly qualities you're looking for doesn't mean she'd make a good wife."
@@KevvoLightswift It goes without saying that she has Godly qualities because why would you be considering someone without them in the first place? Having Godly qualities doesn't necessarily mean you will make a good wife because one can have Godly qualities but not be called to marriage.
@@GearzMonkey Let me put it another way:
Saying she'll make a good wife for someone else is putting her on a pedestal. She'll make a bad wife if she doesn't want you, because again, "WIFE" only has context in relation to you yourself.
Don't be a simp. If a woman doesn't want you, she'll make a bad wife.
@@KevvoLightswift I respectfully disagree with you, brother.
Firstly, wife is not a possessive noun I.e. she can be a wife and not be YOUR wife.
Secondly, what is wrong with saying she’ll make a good wife for someone else? There is humility in accepting that although a woman has godly qualities, you and her are not compatible and therefore you guys won’t make a good partnership - doesn’t mean either of you are bad spouses, you’re just incompatible.
Lastly, if she doesn’t want you, she can’t make a bad wife because she can’t even be a wife to begin with, based on your definition of wife (I.e. being she has to be your wife to be a wife).
@@GearzMonkey You can disagree all you want (and screw the respect; honestly, we can duke it out here without getting our feelings hurt). The point is, you can't know she'll make a good wife unless you have experience with her as YOUR wife. At best, you can say you "think" she'd make a good wife, but without actually testing her in a marriage, you have no way of knowing. Doesn't matter what others say.
Take. Women. Off. The. Pedestal. They are not God. God is.
You call it humility. I call it simping. God never intended for Eve to be a wife for a man other than Adam.
I don't respectfully disagree with you. I absolutely disagree with you. And I'm not afraid to say it. You shouldn't be, either. This is a battle of ideas, not identities.
Maybe you can hold the idea a woman is a godly spouse for someone else, but in my own experience, that only leads to resentment and idolization. Do not give your power or thoughts to women who don't reciprocate. God is your rock, not them. If you can say to yourself, "She's a great woman, just not for me" without losing sleep or idolizing her, go for it.
I welcome more discourse, because this helps me sharpen my own ideas. So thanks for that!
My wife is both and the most precious thing in my eyes.
I know we both have faced persecution for simply being us. I am like Hosea and she is like Gomer... but luckily the story will soon be ended.
I have seen several women that had an internal beauty that made them desireable despite not being a 10 on the beauty charts. They made about 5 to 6 but were more desirable than the 10. You just knew she would be totally with you if she gave herself to you. So don't let her outward looks fool you. Seek her internal beauty and that will let you know her real beauty.
It's basically telling u how to find a righteous woman from God, from the Bible that's seeking marriage. From an ordinary woman u see out in the real world so he's teaching u how to seek them
You are right and wrong regarding your 1st sign,I am a single man who has an enormous appreciation toward a woman with a good heart as well as a woman who knows how to dress, do her hair, and wear jewelry and makeup so it compliments the natural beauty, I have a great appreciation of the arts and colour coordination.
God made men and women perfect, makeup distracts men from the internal beauty, a potential trap if men are focused on external beauty.
Agree, to some extent....remember the Bible has the Book of Solomon, which describes a woman's outward beauty...many times !...God designed humans to be physically attractive to each other !
😊 Thank You Brother! God Blessed 🙏
Good job!
7:32 I'd disagree that women are better with words....they use MORE, yes....but most of the best storytellers throughout history are men. Men use minimal words to make a point...women often babble endlessly, and it usually goes nowhere...in fact it's been scientifically studied that the average woman needs to let out several thousand words per day, as her way of de-stressing.......in contrast, a man doesn't even need to let out half that amount...(generally of course)
Exactly, honest conversation but security is through actions.
I think he meant like words being used to manipulate the man (in an argument )
Interesting breakdown about a woman’s gift for using words being used for uplifting or for being quarrelsome!
For us men who struggle at understanding how women use their words, this is a powerful way to discern in any situation! Do her words lift you up or make you look bad?
Specifically for me, there are several women whom I know that use their words in a confusing way that I must take the time and process. Some of their intentions seem nearly impossible to read. I find myself having to focus on the facts, consider what Jesus would do, and shelf any attempts at trying to read them. And NO, if that is the vibe you get from a lady, DON’T marry that person!!! Be careful, brothers!!!
Message!!!!! ✝️🙋🏾♂️🖤💪🏾✊🏾🕊💒📖🔥🇿🇼🛐
Feminist have killed this seeing men's strength in the church as a positive to .
Where were you in 1994 and 2000?
For a man to want a woman to submit to him, he better have the quality the character for the woman to want too,see women some naturally want to, but he can’t be a man with brutal mindset and expect gentle reciprocation. He can’t be a man who thinks he has marital privilege and disrespects no, marriage isn’t a get laid because I want it to bad about you, that’s marital rape. He can’t be a man that thinks that the woman is the helper when the Bible says partner, you see the dishes should be equally taken care of the diapers should be equally taken care of the groceries should be equally taken care of, etc. Submission where the husband gets supper brought to him, dishes cleaned, etc the wife is not a maid, a care taker, a financial assistant, a sex doll, etc, thewoman, the wife is a partner, elevate each other, be of good character and conduct yourself from a place of love everything will fall into place. Love, love and then love some more.
if a ‘man’ treats you like an object or he’s aggressive, mean or brutal, he most likely is not seeking The Kingdom of God & His righteousness everyday & has much work ahead of him to grow spiritually & in other areas in life.
in Genesis, God created Adam to attend to the garden & after a while He saw Adam was sad / lonely so he made Eve out of Adam’s rib after He saw it is not good for man to be alone for long time. the Bible does say He gave Adam a help mate. people do take that out of context but everyone still has areas to grow we never stop learning as long as we allow ourselves to be students of the TRUTH! I believe it’s in regard to Gods Biblical order for marriage & family - Christ - husband - wife - children. God made man the way he did so we can lead like He wants. all we can do is spread the Truth & let the Fruits show! Biblical marriage is about men & women coming together to be one flesh all for Gods GLORY! He is in charge He made the rules & He has DOMINION Praise to Almighty God in Heaven
Ever since I subscribe to this channel, I think it only addresses single men and women. Does it? As a married man myself, I think am lost. 😂 Am I?
Yes, it's geared towards single men mostly :)
Often most ppl makes simple mistakes it's for both single n ppl that's in relationships u seek those things n married
This channel is mostly about Christian dating. Mark runs a program to teach people biblical dating. Hope that helps :)
My ex-wife was an extremely attractive woman…and a serial adulteress. I’ll take a plain-looking, faithful woman any day.
Thank you, good video. I hope my man knows that women and men are both spiritual before they are physical whether they are believers or not, because if all men need to lust after female beauty there is no reason to get married and women might as well be whores. I just needed to get that last part out before I attach myself to the right man. Bless you..out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.
I don’t think you should be teaching on wives submitting to their own husbands if you do not provide full context for the other side - you may have said this in another video but I think they should always be done together.
The ancient Greek (that the word submit replaced) actually means ‘do not strive with’.
Ie Wives do not strive with your husband - it more means do not fight him, be for him not against him.
Spiritual order is another matter.
The position of women in the world is a result of the curse of the fall. When Christ returns this will be fully corrected.
Wives must submit to their husbands just like men are to submit to the will of the Lord
The position of women in the world yes I could agree with you. It’s due to the fall because of patriarchy it started immediately Adam blamed Eve the winner takes all you see the Bible is written from a patriotic point of view. What if Adam was actually the one who took the first bite, then gave it to his wife, perhaps even with brute strength after all he blamed the woman, to God Adam said, “the woman you gave me.” He blamed God and Eve the winners write history think on it for a moment, what would the world be like in a matriarch society would y’all have the same attitude?
@@mtl6405 Your comment is not written very well, it is a bit garbled. Can you please clarify what you are trying to say?
Add: God placed curses on men, women and the serpent. Men also have a curse from the fall.
I do not agree ‘winners’ write history. There are no winners here except God who triumphed over death.
Men or women are not ‘winners’.
SORRY MARK BUT THE BIBLE MENTIONS MANY WOMEN WHO ARE BEAUTIFUL ON THE OUTSIDE!
Perhaps you’ve missed the point. Blessings.
I hope you don’t forget to add in there that husbands are to submit to their wives or are you cherry picking the Bible?
So should both spouses take turns leading? Should they take turns making critical family decisions? Context, context, context.
#PassportBros. These concepts are lost on American Women.
The same for men.
I guess Mark thinks we are all supposed to try to be ugly.
Yeah be a Leah and not a Rachel and see how far it gets you, and I have experienced it so I know.❤
SORRY MEN TELL ME I AM BEAUTIFUL!!!! BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN I AM NOT BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIDE. WHY ARE YOU NEGATIVE ABOUT OUTER BEAUTY?
it is a blessing to be beautiful on the outside. but a necessity to strive to have a beautiful, meek & kind soul. those are Fruits both men / women should operate in & LIVE by. of course God has different purposes for men & women we just gotta learn Who God is & how He wants us to live while we’re on this earth! may God be with you always
Someday you will have wrinkles, inner beauty remains. 🙂