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Living ALONE in Spain - My Experience

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  • My experience living alone in Spain. Well, I guess I don't technically live alone because I have an apartment full of new Spanish friends, but I can here alone. I moved to Spain months ago and I didn't know anyone, nor did I speak the language. At first I felt very alone. It was hard to get accustomed to the new culture, speak the language, and deal with not having close friends or family. With time, things got better. I started to learn the culture and establish routine while meeting new friends that made me feel at home and less alone, I love them. I went to school to study Spanish, which helped out with getting accustomed and less isolated in society. Moving to Spain and living in Spain alone can be very scary and at times hard, but it is the best decision I have made with my life. Living in Europe abroad or somewhere new can be difficult, yet very interesting.
    I want my channel to be about travel, adventure, and lifetsyle

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  • @chemophile14
    @chemophile14 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bro, you seem a kind person

  • @ApeIsi
    @ApeIsi ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Really appreciate your honesty and the effort you put in to post videos so regularly! They really make my day as I also have the desire to spend time in Spain for a longer period of time :) Thank youu

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey! You really make my day with such kind comments :)
      I think you should spend some time on Spain! Anywhere away from home can really be beneficial to your growth as a person. For all you know, maybe you fall in love with Spain and stay here for a while!

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also, I am always trying to improve my videos, so if you see anywhere that could be better, please let me know!!!

  • @garrettmcguire9952
    @garrettmcguire9952 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great to see an honest perspective of your experience! Great video mate

  • @vinylwaif
    @vinylwaif ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Omg 😫 literally can’t imagine having to move FOUR times, that’s so rough. It’s nice to see things have improved and you’re settled 😊 Moving abroad is rough, but if you’re clear on why you’re doing it, it’s definitely worth the adventure. Thanks for sharing your story!😊

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Things were very hectic at the start, but they have settled down now and I am very happy :)
      If you don’t mind me asking, where are you from?

    • @vinylwaif
      @vinylwaif ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@comfortablylost6459 I’m from Massachusetts (go Sox, go Pats!) and my family is west African by origin. Watching your content from Valencia tho ☺️

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vinylwaif Oh that’s amazing! Have you seen me in my Boston hat yet? I’m not sure if I’ve worn it in a video but I love the Sox!
      Well, thank you so much for your support. You’re always writing me the sweetest comments and I cannot thank you enough for your kindness ❤️

    • @vinylwaif
      @vinylwaif ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@comfortablylost6459 yes I have, it’s awesome! 🥹 my pleasure, thanks for the great content!

  • @yu-too
    @yu-too ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oye,I'm not gonna lie I loved this video and I've already subscribed and liked.I hope your channel grows because this content is amazing man.
    Love from SA 🇿🇦

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oye! You are AMAZING! Thank you so much for this kind comment. I would love to visit SA one day, seems like such an interesting place.
      Cheers!

  • @RSAremiXx
    @RSAremiXx ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow, This was another great video, i'm doing the same thing moving to Valencia in January. The realism and honesty of this video has really helped me put it in perspective. Im learning a lot through your experience, thanks for making these videos! looking forward to starting my own journey also very nervous 😅

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks my friend! Your move is coming up very soon, it is totally understandable that would feel nervous! I think this will be a great experience for you. There is no definitive route that anyone takes, it’s a matter of figuring yourself out and learning along the way! Stoked for you :)

    • @RSAremiXx
      @RSAremiXx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@comfortablylost6459 Thanks, do you have discord or IG? If your down for a video chat, Would be awesome to get to know some fellow content creators in Valencia.

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RSAremiXx yeah man I actually just made an instragam a couple days ago:
      @Comfortablylost.jpg

    • @RSAremiXx
      @RSAremiXx ปีที่แล้ว

      @@comfortablylost6459 Sick, i'll message you on Insta!!

  • @HelloMyNameIsDreamer
    @HelloMyNameIsDreamer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really liked this an happy you’re making a place for yourself 😊

  • @BetsyBigNose
    @BetsyBigNose ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Valencia. Hopefully visit again for the fourth time in 2023. Thanks for showing an honest video rather than "I moved, everyone is great as is everything" which is nonsense, as there are always challenges as you have mentioned.

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you get a chance to visit in 2023 as well! I have since moved home but it was such an amazing life experience. Like you said, moving far from home can bring plenty of problems but they all help towards personal development

  • @ericwarren4074
    @ericwarren4074 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for posting this.

  • @alexgardner5060
    @alexgardner5060 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video! I had done a road trip through Spain in August 2019 and planned to study abroad in Valencia for my spring 2020 semester, but the pandemic forced me to put that on hold. Now that I’m finishing up my master’s degree, I’m wanting to find a way to do what I was unable to in 2020 and live in Valencia for a bit. Thank you for the thorough and honest insight into your own experience!

  • @j.n.sloane
    @j.n.sloane ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent perceptions. Growing in wisdom and strength. I especially admire how open you've made yourself. Your attitude is serving you well and you seem to realize that this strength may occasionally abandon you, but that's just temporary. It passes. I am enjoying your journey. Buena suerte desde Asturias.

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is a very beautiful comment to read right now ❤️
      Seriously, often times I feel a sense of loneliness due to being so far from my loved ones, but I 100% agree with what you have to say about strength coming and going! Even in those bad days it’s always nice to realize that the storm will pass :)
      Thank you again for your kindness!! You are a really great person

  • @antjuan
    @antjuan ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy for you dude! You really helped me a lot with your videos. Tomorrow is my 30th day here in Valencia and I am so happy I have taken this step!

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Im happy for you as well man! How have the past 30 days been? Have you been getting accustomed to the city?

  • @joseadegbemi7723
    @joseadegbemi7723 ปีที่แล้ว

    You inspiring dude, keep doing what you doing💪🏾💪🏾

  • @spirosakalestos3185
    @spirosakalestos3185 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice video dude!

  • @alekboi4016
    @alekboi4016 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks bro, moving to Spain to hopefully, vid helped me a lot. just a realy great vid to watch full stop

  • @AlesyaYakimovich
    @AlesyaYakimovich ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i’m in valencia now, too. had pretty the same parts of my first months here.
    thank you for your videos, always so great!

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      I am glad to hear that it is relatable! I think so many people believe that moving to another city or nation is easy, but it is far from that. Although, once you figure out life it is very rewarding:) thank you for your comment!

  • @chaseatlanticfan6553
    @chaseatlanticfan6553 ปีที่แล้ว

    you have such a fun friendly vibe and make me feel great about choosing spain for uni ,ive been wanting to move there for 4 years now and ill def be going this september

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you will enjoy it a ton! I have since moved home because I was only studying there for a year, but I look forward to when I get to visit again! I hope all goes well with your uni :)

  • @aya6053
    @aya6053 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I m Happy for you because you're doing great now , I m gonna go to Valencia next year to finish my studies and you re helping me a loot and I appreciate it . I hope that you do more videos about the life and the university there , thank you so much 💜

    • @aya6053
      @aya6053 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Universities*

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey! Thank you for the sweet comment ❤️
      I am glad I can help you out. Is there anything in particular you want to see in the University area? I’m sure I can go over there one of these days :)

    • @aya6053
      @aya6053 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@comfortablylost6459 reallyyy thank you sooo much actually i want to study architecture there and i don t know how the university looks like

    • @aya6053
      @aya6053 ปีที่แล้ว

      and because i want to study architecture in english everyone recomended u.v for me

  • @RobertRod818
    @RobertRod818 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're an inspiration. Thanks for sharing your experience in Spain.

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re an inspiration to me! It’s comments like these that keep me motivated to continue making new content

  • @kathleenv510
    @kathleenv510 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very real, in going to share this video with my daughter. Are you taking a formal Spanish classes? We were in Valencia and Madrid 2+ years ago and you're right, not a lot of English spoken.

  • @scheme9929
    @scheme9929 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey man, I just binged your videos - hope all is well! Would be interested in more videos

  • @Mitchgophermad
    @Mitchgophermad ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watched the whole thing. Very enjoyable. I'm glad you are pushing through.

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey thank you my friend! Really appreciate all of your endless support

    • @Mitchgophermad
      @Mitchgophermad ปีที่แล้ว

      De nada. You are so much smarter and braver than I was at your age. I enjoy seeng your progress.

  • @dogsprints5660
    @dogsprints5660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good to see you back

  • @elenawilson7687
    @elenawilson7687 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awe look at that cute face. Leah & I loved to see your update. Glad we were always a phone call away. I adore you 💙

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey I adore you too! Thanks for your kindness. Love you

  • @michaelblaze4711
    @michaelblaze4711 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Insanely proud of you for doing this, and all the progressions that you've made. This was such a good video, and it was great getting the overall recap man. Beyond stoked to be able to call you one of my best friends :)

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      My Love ❤️
      You are the motivation that keeps me going. Appreciate you my friend

    • @scheme9929
      @scheme9929 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey, is your friend okay?

  • @christinac8491
    @christinac8491 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this! I can relate in so many ways and I lived abroad in a few places including valencia

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s amazing! Valencia is a great spot to spend some time. I feel that most people living abroad experience this a bit

  • @taidghrichards4329
    @taidghrichards4329 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just found your content, I can relate to a lot of your experiences when I lived in Lisbon, Portugal for a year on Erasmus. I'm thinking of visiting Valencia for a few days to practice my Spanish and take a few photos and found your vlogs as I was searching for content about Valencia. Really like your energy bro and you have a natural style with vlogging, keep up the content bro!

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey thank you tons for the kind comment! I am glad to hear that this is a relatively universal experience for most people that spend time away from home. Hope you have time to make it to Valencia!!

    • @taidghrichards4329
      @taidghrichards4329 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@comfortablylost6459 Of course man, I'll be stopping by the channel again!

  • @sdafhsdasdc6098
    @sdafhsdasdc6098 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad to hear things are working out well

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Things have been very nice lately. Thank you for your kindness

  • @lifestyle-zn9rm
    @lifestyle-zn9rm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great content as always

  • @chaseatlanticfan6553
    @chaseatlanticfan6553 ปีที่แล้ว

    and oh my gosh so sorry you had to put up with all that luv that its gotten better for ya ive heard housing is tough

  • @veravero80
    @veravero80 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice video! I am hoping to go to Valencia in the beginning of next year to work there for a while. Your video's give a realistic view on moving abroad! Greetings from the Netherlands!

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello! I am glad that my videos are helping you out. I am about to leave Valencia because my visa is expiring, but I really enjoyed my experience. I hope you get the chance to enjoy it as well :)

    • @veravero80
      @veravero80 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@comfortablylost6459 I am here now almost a month and I really like it so far! Its funny to experience it now myself instead of via TH-cam. Takes a while to settle and all, pero poco a poco!

  • @gentledhruv7989
    @gentledhruv7989 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Keep going bruh ❤ love from india 🇮🇳

  • @LifeIsGood-nm3kb
    @LifeIsGood-nm3kb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Valuable insight as to how life really is

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      That is what I am trying to provide! Thank you for the comment

  • @samiromeo6991
    @samiromeo6991 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nice

  • @jessicabeca1234
    @jessicabeca1234 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Free spirited like me.
    Honestly if I saw you in Spain I’d think you’re Spanish, I’d never guess you’re American. 😅

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you like to love free spiritedly as well!
      I have a bit of Spanish heritage so I’m sure that’s why you thought that

  • @gnarlifestyle8076
    @gnarlifestyle8076 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looks to me like an interesting time

  • @hitardo
    @hitardo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, and great advice!
    Cheers to you.
    I live in Portugal, so, if you want to come and visit, feel free 🙂

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey thanks for your kindness!
      What part of Portugal are you from? I have visited a couple of times and LOVE it there

    • @hitardo
      @hitardo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@comfortablylost6459 Do you have a business email, so I can contact you?

  • @caballoloco100
    @caballoloco100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guiri is a slang word for foreign national, similar to gringo in Mexican Spanish. Gringo is not used in Spain.
    If you like graffiti Street art, then visit Fanzara, a village in the province of Castellon.
    If you would like to visit a roman castle, then visit Sagunto, a coastal town in the north of the province of València which can be reached by train.

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately my visa actually expired so I had to go home. However, I will write down these suggestions for the next time I visit! Thank you so much :)

  • @clivejo8276
    @clivejo8276 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really wanna move to Valencia as soon as I finish school, my plan is
    1. Save up 5 grand over a course of 2 years working.
    2. Hopefully get a job within the first few months.
    3. Get an apartment there on my own but to keep me company try to get an apartment that allows dogs

  • @stellaphph
    @stellaphph ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video! I'm very interested to know what major did you study in college? And which language school are you attending?

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! So I actually studied business marketing in college and I studied Spanish at El Carmen Spanish school (although I just finished my courses)

    • @deadpoet6726
      @deadpoet6726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@comfortablylost6459So what are you doing now? Are you still in Valencia?

  • @karpiz1
    @karpiz1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hey man, love the video. just wanted to ask you about skateboarding conditions there. moving to valencia in few weeks, deciding if i should take my Globe 26' cruiser or just buy something bigger, lets say 30' there? the question is how wobbly it can get there. I'm not really sure how to explain this in english, but I hope u get it

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey thanks for checking out the content! I understand what you’re asking, and I’m happy that you’re skating!
      Valencia is a very flat city. You will not be faced with huge hills. There is a bike lane that runs around a lot of the city. Sometimes it is smooth, other times it is bumpy due to the tile floor. I think it would be fine to start with your Globe cruiser. If it doesn’t work out you can always get a larger skate deck. Good luck!

    • @karpiz1
      @karpiz1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@comfortablylost6459 thanks for reply, now i'm definitely taking it with me :)

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karpiz1 I would encourage it! Skating near the harbor and beach is super fun :)

  • @NathanGardnerinsanity
    @NathanGardnerinsanity ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s a good world 🤙🏼

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s for sure my man! Thanks for the support 🤙🤙

  • @learnwithkrishnagautam
    @learnwithkrishnagautam ปีที่แล้ว

    i am planing come their for study any suggestion ?

  • @LifeIsGood-nm3kb
    @LifeIsGood-nm3kb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NICE

  • @TheMariodeblas
    @TheMariodeblas ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️💛💛❤️👑💪🏻🥇

  • @flight101
    @flight101 ปีที่แล้ว

    I live in I iza and would never ever go back to the UK.

  • @H.A.T.E.U
    @H.A.T.E.U 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why did u stop making videos

  • @maryamrahim342
    @maryamrahim342 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey plz make a video on scholarship plz plz it's a humble request plz

  • @ntd.1760
    @ntd.1760 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im moving to valencia in january no spanish any advice

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey thanks for the comment! How long will you be here for?
      Without Spanish things will be more difficult, it honestly you will be fine, you can easily live without Spanish. In the meantime, just practice some basic phrases and try to get in as much listening practice as possible

    • @ntd.1760
      @ntd.1760 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@comfortablylost6459 currently looking for around 3-6 months in Valencia. yes looking forward to all the learning

  • @jupiterlandslide9503
    @jupiterlandslide9503 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    :)

  • @RomonWrites
    @RomonWrites ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey mate!
    Quite the interesting experience, similar to mine here in France, but yours was much more complicated.
    Mine, I suppose, was good, for the most part.
    Anyway, I decided to message you here, because no other means was available, to see if you'd be potentially interested in collaborating in the future. If that interests you, let me know.
    #Cheers!

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey my friend! Hope you are having a good week. Glad to hear that you are getting setting in France.
      What kind of collaboration would you want to do? Unfortunately I am actually leaving Spain very soon (because I end my studies in December) so it may be hard to meet in person

    • @RomonWrites
      @RomonWrites ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@comfortablylost6459 Thanks for responding mate. My week's been pretty great, thanks, and I hope that it's the same for you.
      Let me start off by saying that we'd do a video which benefits us both, one for you and one for me, thus, we both benefit from the situation.
      I was thinking along the lines of an interview where I may get an American perspective of questions pertaining to Spain/your stay in Spain/America. It's quite wide, but what is certain is that it's cultural in nature, and I'd narrow it down based on further dialogue.
      By the way, I wasn't sure if you'd be interested, so there are certain logistics which I haven't ironed out as yet.
      However, since you'll be leaving Spain, that might complicate things in terms of ease of meeting up.
      But if you're, in general, open to a collab (terms to be mutually agreed upon, of course), and you'll keep your channel active, then, arranging something will definitely be possible!
      Let me know your thoughts.
      #Cheers!

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RomonWrites hey man, this sounds pretty cool! I’ll be 100% honest with you so as to not waste your time. I am not sure what will happen with my channel after I leave Spain. It all depends on work/ future goals. With my short timeline as well I think it would be hard to meet.
      However, I like your idea and figure that maybe I can help out. Perhaps I could even film some video clips answering the questions you ask and I can send them your way to be used in a video. Or maybe we could do a video call if you are interested. My following weeks are massively busy as I wrap up my time here, it we can try to make something work

    • @RomonWrites
      @RomonWrites ปีที่แล้ว

      @@comfortablylost6459 Brilliant! That works, and certainly, your situation takes precedence.
      Also, I appreciate the time you took to consider and respond to my offer.
      If you do find the time, don't hesitate to let me know.
      However, irrespective of, and whatever the outcome, te deseo mucha suerte y éxito con tus proyectos personales y profesionales.
      #Cheers!

  • @mehtatrambak
    @mehtatrambak ปีที่แล้ว +1

    CAN YOU HELP ME OUT TO GET INFORMATION ABOUT IHMGS UNIVERSITY CULLERA

    • @mehtatrambak
      @mehtatrambak ปีที่แล้ว

      HELLO

    • @mehtatrambak
      @mehtatrambak ปีที่แล้ว

      IHMGS UNIVERSITY IS IN CULLERA VALENCIA SPAIN.... PLEASE TELL ME

  • @Mongoose-ct6us
    @Mongoose-ct6us ปีที่แล้ว

    Spain is the greatest country in the world. Valencia and Madrid are the greatest cities in the world.

    • @comfortablylost6459
      @comfortablylost6459  ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a pretty cool spot! All nations have their own treasures

  • @eugeniosilvarezendebh
    @eugeniosilvarezendebh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you have an Instagram account ? Would it be ok to ask you a few things about living in Spain through Instagram ?