For a grown ass man to say an 18 year old came off as VERY mature, tells you alot a out how "mature" he is. He's disgusting. And I PRAY that she managed to find her happy ending.
But he did wrong in the first place. He knew she wasn't the age he thought to be appropriate. I bet he thought about it before he got in trouble. He wanted to say he thought she was of age
@Beverly Rhame Yes. Too many think so immaturely and sex is always what they are after. He probably thought he could mold her into a woman who would obey him, most likely.
I know she's of legal age, but this is still disgusting. That girl is 18 and looks 14. When she opens her mouth, she sounds immature. I don't believe for one second that he didn't know her age, but even if he was lied to, he should have left when he found out the truth. He knowingly married and impregnated a child. I'm 27 and couldn't imagine dating an 18-year-old. How does a 44-year-old man see nothing wrong with it?
He KNEW what he was doing. He wanted a young woman, but he doesn't want a young woman, who acts young. She's just a kid and is just trying to figure her life out. He's getting everything he deserves.
Yeah He Is A Loser It's Obvious His Mentality & I.Q Is Like That Little Baby The Truth Is He Cannot Stand Himself He Could Not Put Up With His Daughter Mother She Was Too Much Of A Woman!🌻🌷
@@melaninandaura9713 exactly. Shaming her for what he says she lacks in common sense when where tf was his common sense to even think messing around w a child they were going to have things in common.
My daughter turned 18 yesterday and there's NO way she could handle the responsibilities of being a wife or mother. I hate when much much older predatory people attempt to say they didn't know how old the younger person is because the second they open their mouths and speak, their age is obvious.
@@roslynhawkins1475 She said she was happy with this guy though, so he didn't break her arm...I fault him for not saying you're too young find someone at least within 10 years of your age someone who's 18 needs to look for someone 28 at the very most if said 18 yr old wants to go play house... Thing is Most women tend to be nesters and they want long term steady relationships and guys their own age when their in late teens to mid twenties don't want that, their into smash smash SMASH and Dash onto the next... That's why some of these young girls are going after guys in their late thirties into their mid forties, because their trying to find someone to play house with them..
@@RayRay002 I take it you've never had children this age because if this was your 18 year old baby, I'd like to think that you wouldn't be standing on the sidelines. This child has no idea what she wants because she is a child. Obviously this child doesn't have any caring adults in her life because no one in their right mind would allow this for their daughter. No, he didn't break her arm, he broke her spirit, which is worse and the effects can last a lifetime. I'm a 45 year old woman and my daughter is 18. Right now, she is hosting a birthday party for herself and her teenage friends, not pregnant with some middle age man's baby. Men and women who predate younger people are seriously mentally ill. Normal, healthy minded adults have no sexual or romantic interest in children. They literally have nothing in common.
She was the best. I think it was her decision to leave it. She had a good run at 14 years. The last season with her, you could tell, and she had had enough lol.
Agree. I recall reading an article where in other words she didn’t seem to be happy with the direction the show was heading towards. The whole circus like conduct they were embracing in her last season wasn’t something she was interested in being a part of. Of course this is my interpretation of what she had said but it also makes the most sense, I wasn’t feeling it either. I haven’t watched since she left the show.
The others were great in their own way and Judge Star is handling it very well but Judge Lynn IS THE SHOW. The knowledge, the advice and her own personal life experiences that she shares with the couples are absolutely priceless. This is why I watch all the Re-runs of her shows. You learn so much after watching. Thank you Judge Lynn❤️
I hate cases like this because people hide behind the fact that it’s legal. She’s a BABY. LITERALLY. Wtf could you gain from this ?! She has too much life to live. Leave her alone.
I'm 100% sure that that young lady is looking for love in the wrong places in a father figure as well. I was her very long ago and got out of that mindset and corrected it
This is what older men want with younger women… more times than not it’s bad intentions… and on top he was suing her, it don’t get any lower than that… he knew she was young and wanted a younger women… because the women within his age range know there’s something wrong with him! Absolutely disgusting…
I said this same thing! He is too immature to handle a woman his age! If he couldn’t look at her clear as day and see she was young as hell and once you converse with an 18 year old you can CLEARLY see the age gap! Wth would a grown mature 44 year old have in common with an 18 year old! Absolutely nothing! Then had the audacity to get her pregnant and want her to be a mother to your two younger kids and she is still in high school! I wouldn’t even want him around my kids! I pray his daughter will not grow up to think this is ok!
He should feel disgusted with himself.... I was her age once and had men of all ages hitting on me and it is not attractive when you get older at all. He knew exactly what he was doing.
This is so sad. She doesn’t realize she is wasting her young years with him. She will never get back that time. And once you realize how precious it is and how fast it goes by, it becomes too late.
Real Spit Brotha It's Losers Like This Clown Make Us Look Bad He Found A Good Girl I Have An 18 Year Old I Would Have Wished If She Feels She Can Bring A Loser Like Him Around My House I Have 38 Special REASON Why She Would Not Disappoint Me With A Loser!👍🏾😎
For the sake of my freedom God please don't send a man like this to any of my 3 daughters at any age let alone 18. And this no good man asked a 18 year old girl who is 5 months pregnant with his child for $1,000. Who he planned on leaving!!!! WTF!!! BTW where are the ppl who introduced this lil girl to him??? That's a effed up neighborhood
This is the first time that I’ve EVER seen an age gap this much on the nose on this show.. Mr. Maxwell is 44 and Ms. Cannon is literally 18.. Barely even legal.. WHAT DID YOU EXPECT DUDE?! I’m not even mad at her, she’s just starting life! I just can’t- That’s a WHOLE generational gap my dude!
Well he was being dumb for going to marry that girl and knock her up, BUT at least he was wanting someone long term which was selfish BUT how many (Bruthas) in YOUR community just bounce from 16-18 year old to 16-18 yr old knocking them up calling them baby momma's and impregnating these kids making them single moms and wrecking their life before it even begins??? Don't even try and lie dude your community in large part is trash and YOU know it..
As controversial as this sounds, if you are my brother, sister, friend etc and you have an attraction to someone who is not in your age bracket or even close to it; for dating. You're not spending time on your own with my kids. I have a 18 yr old son and two younger daughters. I don't play them ones.
I ABHOR these types of marriage. The older folks seeking children, marry them, then expecting them to be mature. Ninja....she's 18!!! She hasn't had time to mature!!! You married her right outta the gate!!!
File for child support because he’s not worth it You can do bad by your self and baby value yourself and love you and that baby you got this and God got both you and your baby
please this dudes a creep he knew she was young when he met her guys a pervert she didnt have anyone in her life to stop this dude he saw her coming a mile away
That would release a whole can of worms and people lying about certain things to rip off kind gestures. Advice and counselling are the best case scenarios.
She said she was raising her siblings so that’s the answer to your question and the reason why she fell for a father figure. Little girl wanted to be taken care of for once in her life, unfortunately she ran into a predator 😢
I don’t think he cared about her age until it truly mattered. Now he wants a mother and a wife out of a young lady who doesn’t fit that description. Big dummy 🙄
What on earth does a 44 yr old want with an 18 yr old. That's predatory behaviour. It reminds me of another divorce court case, which Judge mentioned talking about the cougar. It was called "Dipping in the kiddie pool." The woman in that case was 30 and was attracted to her "partner,", who was only 15 years old at the time!🤢🤢🤢🤢
He said he seen other women doing mature things but it sounds too me he loves little kids because how can you know how other young girls are mature so he's just hanging out with kids daily
He's a pervert! He wants younger women because he's not man enough to handle a women in his age bracket. It's easier to handle someone young and naive, they don't require much. Now a grown women, we know what we want, we come with standards, and that's usually the reason why most men his age go after women that haven't mentally grown up. I call them pervs and predators.
Be weary of a man who dates someone half there age and broke. I learned that the hard way when I was 18 they can't meet the standards of someone there age so they date someone who doesn't know better
This should not even be a case. Why is this dude even in court. He should be in Prison. Where is this child's parents, SMH!!! I don't understand what a grown man sees in a child. #SMH
Where the hell is her mother, daddy or even brother there is not no damn way this old man would be seeing my 18 yrs old daughter when you already got a damn 18 yrs old getting ready for prom your self fool make this make sense and you got a 9 yrs those other mother must have been very young also and left you holding the bag but I would not even feel safe with any little girl beening around this guy since he really like them very young period lady pack your bags and run far away from this nut here
Wow where are her parents....she's young and inexperienced what did he think he was getting by marrying a child. He loves the teenager look and the things he can get her to do for him, then wants a grown woman to mother his daughter, to cook, to clean, to bring in money, to be smart. Shame on him! She hasn't been alive long enough to have gained that experience. A 1yr old bottle of wine will not taste like a 50yr old bottle of wine. He needs to grow up himself. Hope she gets her education, doesn't have anymore kids with him and move on. I wish her all the best and hope he doesn't break her.
date a 40 yr old woman?? Nigah Plz! Perhaps 30yrs old though should be a good bench marker... U hook up with a woman 40 odds of ever having a kid with her is next to zero% and if u do the odds of it being a Retard is through the roof... Retard baby? No way dude...
@@RayRay002 First of all, you better kill with with the N word, ok?! You don't even fucking know me! He's 44 years old and DOES need to be with a woman his own age instead of women young enough to be his daughter and over 10 years younger than him. That's called age-appropriate and there IS such thing as that. Mark my words, cradle robbers are perverts!
She's only 9 year's older than his daughter. She's a kid herself. You can't expect her to be a mother a figure. Mentally, that's not where she is. You should've pick a women, not a kid. Even, once she has the baby she's carrying, she'll grow up as the baby grows up. She'll mature eventually. Think about these things in the beginning, not after the fact. Stop expecting adult behavior, from children. It doesn't matter, she looks like a woman, she's not. That's a kid. Now, you have the audacity to complain about it, ridiculous.🤦🏾♀️
We need to stop generalising the effects of pregnancy judge. Some women cannot move about a lot at a certain point. Some women have to constantly visit the emergency room and can't even handle the smell of food cooking.
That child will be his paycheck and we all will be paying him. She can’t get support from his disability and he won’t marry her so she can get help from the system.
He is an 44 year old boy for asking for her to pay him a, thousand dollars.He can never pay her for risking her life for having a kid for him. Plus he's going to need her to help him when he can't do for himself. I wonder will he pay her when he can't clean, drive, himself, because when he gets to be 74 -years old, she will 48, if I'm right. She might put you in the rest home, you can't do for yourself.
I hate this man so much. Men are supposed to be the protector in the leader of the households and provide financial support. That's his job point 👉☝️ blank! he's complaining about a kid being an actual kid and took no accountability for what he voluntarily did ! His expectations and mindset are absolutely absurd and ridiculous!
He needs his @$$" kicked, got her pregnant and now he's talking about she's immature to be a wife. It seems like he's too immature! He is extremely unreasonable. He shouldn't have married a teenager! It's your job to take care of her!
This is uncomfortable to watch. Hearing this young baby defend herself and her voice sounds like she could be 10. I feel so sad for her. How could he have claimed he didn't know her age. Listen to her voice!!!
That's what happened to my parents. My mom was 18 my dad was 35. My dad took advantage of my mom. Their both dead. My dad killed my mom. They both left behind 5kids. Were all grown 1 not here. By the grace of God were all doing good. Men or Women need to be mindful of that big age difference. That is still grooming and trapping.
Man I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you and siblings are in a good place now. I didn't even understand the mechanics of conception when my 26 year old abusive boyfriend got me pregnant at 17 and just starting to understand when he got me pregnant again at 19. People who take advantage of young people like this are trash. There's nothing worse than a predator. I have a daughter who turned 18 yesterday and this would NOT happen under my watch because she is a child. I wish I could take this girl home and care for her because this is pathetic.
What was he expecting??? She's 18. Yes she's old enough to make these decisions but she is still becoming a woman. She is still growing. You dont automatically have it all together at 18. He expecting a 35 year old in a 18 year old body. He wanted the youth and that's what he got .He should be ashamed. Now he don't want youth anymore. Smh... He got some nerve. Im glad the judge read him.
@ Dannileigh He was wrong i will agree with you on that, BUT u have to admit that Stereotypical Angry Black Woman is a handful that he was obviously afraid of if he'd gotten someone his own age... So many Black Women are angry and naggy and that's why he didn't go for someone his own age cause he was afraid they'd beat his A__!
@@RayRay002 she was 18..... are you kidding me? There was nothing obvious about that. He knew EXACTLY what he was doing. He wanted something younger and he got what he wanted. This had nothing to do with the angry black woman. He wanted someone to control, then when he didn't get what he wanted, he wanted to leave her PREGNANT.
@@VanityTableTalk Theirs a reason why So many black women die alone, and 70%+ of ALL black babies are Born out of wedlock, with some black families not seeing a man of the house for 3 or more generations deep...The Angry Black Woman has played a huge role in destroying the Black Heritage in this country... Your Nutz are Not as Big as the Kahunas of an Actual Man... Shave your Beard, Get rid of your Butch Hair Cut and start dressing like a lady instead of a tramp and maybe your community will start to thrive..
@@RayRay002 I agree with all you said. But THIS particular situation...has nothing to do with that. He went in for his own selfish needs. He didn't get what he wanted now he wants to bounce. That's it.
That’s why people need to teach their children,be there for as a friend and counselor, that’s why she chooses him she doesn’t know anything about love and makes her loose her self esteem and chooses that fool over there.
He can’t even provide for her yet got her pregnant. He should’ve been providing, asking a young woman that’s 18 for help with bills? At 44 you should have your own home, car and financially stable.
His issue is that he hurt himself and is on disability and wants her to pay bills. Has no one else seen this? He said he wanted bill money at least 4 times and at the end he said he couldn't work anymore and barely has any money and she should give him some.
Wish I could hug the young lady. The guy is evil for marrying her, she needs guidance, love and support. What about her family, where are they? Maybe he knew she did not have anyone to stand up for her so he grabbed her. As it relates to maturity I know teenagers who are more matured than this 44 years old, he was 26 when she was 1 year old...yack!
This I.D story doesn't make any sense, it clearly states under 21 how is that the same as yours,Of course it's made the same but yours shouldn't say under 21 I'm confused at this story that you've made up. I can see the blank look in his eyes that he doesn't care
He say the younger guys be flirting with her, even when they're together, they probably think he's her father, no disrespect there 😂🤣
My thoughts exactly 🤣🤣
Exactly 😂😂😂
For real
Right!!!!!!!!
Exactly good job young man
He should be ashamed of himself, 44 years old with this poor child and he wasn't man enough not to make her pregnant. What a looser.
Esther Rodriguez:
Truth!
Total loser. Taking her to court too. What a low life.
Exactly,!!!
He like them young to control
she's an adult, not a 'child'.
For a grown ass man to say an 18 year old came off as VERY mature, tells you alot a out how "mature" he is. He's disgusting. And I PRAY that she managed to find her happy ending.
Fr 😢 this is sad
He's very disgusting n God I hope so too
He doesn't want to feel like he's coming home to two daughters but technically his wife is someone's teenage daughter..
But he did wrong in the first place. He knew she wasn't the age he thought to be appropriate. I bet he thought about it before he got in trouble.
He wanted to say he thought she was of age
This is a man who think with his smaller head like so many others.
He wants a young kid to boost his ego, who will act his age.🙄
@Beverly Rhame
Yes. Too many think so immaturely and sex is always what they are after. He probably thought he could mold her into a woman who would obey him, most likely.
@Beverly Rhame
Lol Beverly! I like the last part. You made me giggle 😃
That's right
I know she's of legal age, but this is still disgusting. That girl is 18 and looks 14. When she opens her mouth, she sounds immature. I don't believe for one second that he didn't know her age, but even if he was lied to, he should have left when he found out the truth. He knowingly married and impregnated a child. I'm 27 and couldn't imagine dating an 18-year-old. How does a 44-year-old man see nothing wrong with it?
He's a weirdo.
WHAT A CLOWN, AS soon as she opened her mouth he knew she was to young . !!!!!
Right!!Smmfh
Exactly !!
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Shit he sounds worse than her 🙄
He KNEW what he was doing. He wanted a young woman, but he doesn't want a young woman, who acts young. She's just a kid and is just trying to figure her life out. He's getting everything he deserves.
The hunter got captured by game!
TheStarsDon'tDance:
I AGREE with you FULLY!
Real jerk he is.
Pretending to be Stevie Wonder
@@shirleybramebanks7867 th-cam.com/video/W-vNHRExA7/w-d-xo.html
What's wrong with this man? People are still trying to find themselves at 30 much yet 18. She's still a child.
I can bet he wasn't mature at 18.
He still isn’t mature @ 44
Lol...right late bloomer think he understand more...
He ain’t “mature” now
Yeah He Is A Loser It's Obvious His Mentality & I.Q Is Like That Little Baby The Truth Is He Cannot Stand Himself He Could Not Put Up With His Daughter Mother She Was Too Much Of A Woman!🌻🌷
@@melaninandaura9713 exactly. Shaming her for what he says she lacks in common sense when where tf was his common sense to even think messing around w a child they were going to have things in common.
Even if you thought she was 24, what does a 44 y.o. man want with a 24 y o.? And what kind of maturity are you expecting from a 18 y.o.?
Exactly what I was thinking!
She’s a child. She’s a child you can see it in her face. Wth?
My daughter turned 18 yesterday and there's NO way she could handle the responsibilities of being a wife or mother.
I hate when much much older predatory people attempt to say they didn't know how old the younger person is because the second they open their mouths and speak, their age is obvious.
@@roslynhawkins1475 She said she was happy with this guy though, so he didn't break her arm...I fault him for not saying you're too young find someone at least within 10 years of your age someone who's 18 needs to look for someone 28 at the very most if said 18 yr old wants to go play house...
Thing is Most women tend to be nesters and they want long term steady relationships and guys their own age when their in late teens to mid twenties don't want that, their into smash smash SMASH and Dash onto the next...
That's why some of these young girls are going after guys in their late thirties into their mid forties, because their trying to find someone to play house with them..
@@RayRay002 I take it you've never had children this age because if this was your 18 year old baby, I'd like to think that you wouldn't be standing on the sidelines. This child has no idea what she wants because she is a child. Obviously this child doesn't have any caring adults in her life because no one in their right mind would allow this for their daughter. No, he didn't break her arm, he broke her spirit, which is worse and the effects can last a lifetime. I'm a 45 year old woman and my daughter is 18. Right now, she is hosting a birthday party for herself and her teenage friends, not pregnant with some middle age man's baby. Men and women who predate younger people are seriously mentally ill. Normal, healthy minded adults have no sexual or romantic interest in children. They literally have nothing in common.
@@RayRay002 And what's your point? He's 44 and she's 18 and guess what he did...smashed and now he's ready to dash.
@@roslynhawkins1475 predators will always defend other predators. That's what it is.
Please bring this woman back as judge. It’s just wrong she isn’t on this show anymore. She is so perfect for it
She was the best. I think it was her decision to leave it. She had a good run at 14 years.
The last season with her, you could tell, and she had had enough lol.
Judge Lynn intensely with
common sense. Yes
Judge Lynn will always be legendary. However they couldn’t afford her so she did what’s best for her. I think judge Starr is doing well tho.
Agree. I recall reading an article where in other words she didn’t seem to be happy with the direction the show was heading towards. The whole circus like conduct they were embracing in her last season wasn’t something she was interested in being a part of. Of course this is my interpretation of what she had said but it also makes the most sense, I wasn’t feeling it either. I haven’t watched since she left the show.
The others were great in their own way and Judge Star is handling it very well but Judge Lynn IS THE SHOW. The knowledge, the advice and her own personal life experiences that she shares with the couples are absolutely priceless. This is why I watch all the Re-runs of her shows. You learn so much after watching. Thank you Judge Lynn❤️
You go Lynn Taylor you're awesome telling that guy off kudos to you!!!
Ruth Urquiola:
You know that's right.
Actually, it's Toler
ITS TOLER NOT TAYLOR
We need a "where are they now" on this story!!!!
That was alot...🤦🏾♀️
Facts!! I would love an update to see if she gets the strength and confidence to leave, that would be amazing
We definitely need a where are they now.
He is lying about the age…Soon as she opened her mouth I knew she was just a baby adult….
She sounds just like my daughter
I am having a difficult time believing all of this has happened in her 18th year...she was probably under age.
There is no such thing as a baby adult and her voice doesn't mean she a child a know older women with finer voice make some sense
@@gabrieljohn2282 It is just an expression that my friends and I use for young adults (under the age of 25). Peace and many blessings to you🖤✊🏾
@@gabrieljohn2282 Also, you said “make some sense”, however, your run-on sentence doesn’t🤷🏽♀️🤔
Thank you Judge Lynn for saying what her parent(s)/guardian(s) should've said to the plaintiff in the beginning. I felt your passion!!
Agreed
I hate cases like this because people hide behind the fact that it’s legal. She’s a BABY. LITERALLY. Wtf could you gain from this ?! She has too much life to live. Leave her alone.
I mean he's literally a pedophile, a predator. This is so wrong on so many level
Judge Lynn's face at 2:06 let me know how this was going to go. Her immaturity?? She's 18 and he's 44. He's a creep.
He used her and threw her away....with his child. He's a liar. He knew she was too young. He robbed the cradle.
I'm 100% sure that that young lady is looking for love in the wrong places in a father figure as well. I was her very long ago and got out of that mindset and corrected it
The Judge is on point. He is just as immature as she is. He is much older, and just as childish. In my opinion.
This is what older men want with younger women… more times than not it’s bad intentions… and on top he was suing her, it don’t get any lower than that… he knew she was young and wanted a younger women… because the women within his age range know there’s something wrong with him! Absolutely disgusting…
I said this same thing! He is too immature to handle a woman his age! If he couldn’t look at her clear as day and see she was young as hell and once you converse with an 18 year old you can CLEARLY see the age gap! Wth would a grown mature 44 year old have in common with an 18 year old! Absolutely nothing! Then had the audacity to get her pregnant and want her to be a mother to your two younger kids and she is still in high school! I wouldn’t even want him around my kids! I pray his daughter will not grow up to think this is ok!
He should feel disgusted with himself.... I was her age once and had men of all ages hitting on me and it is not attractive when you get older at all. He knew exactly what he was doing.
This is so sad. She doesn’t realize she is wasting her young years with him. She will never get back that time. And once you realize how precious it is and how fast it goes by, it becomes too late.
Lord have mercy...I'm 46 and my daughter is 17 going on 18. If a 44 year old man look at my daughter, whooo child
I don’t know you but I’ll sure be behind you asking you what’s the plan 😩😭👏🏾🤬
@@Iamlindagraham lol.. just get the bail money ready..
@@bebebe1354 I got you Mam! 💰💸💵💷🤑
And call me I'll put his ass in the trunk and we going for a ride
I would be going to JAILLL
He's done this before. That's why he compared her to other YOUNG ladies.
u r right! and that´s why his friends thought it was ok to introduce them at the party
Right...I wonder how old his 9 yr olds mom is.
Yep
I wonder how he will feel if his 9-year-old daughter grows up to be 18 and starts to date someone his age 🤔
Real Spit Brotha It's Losers Like This Clown Make Us Look Bad He Found A Good Girl I Have An 18 Year Old I Would Have Wished If She Feels She Can Bring A Loser Like Him Around My House I Have 38 Special REASON Why She Would Not Disappoint Me With A Loser!👍🏾😎
Exactly. Ends up pregnant as soon as she hits 18.
Only time will tell 💯👀
😂👀😂
He won’t care
She reminds me of my 18 year old daughter I always taught her to always ask questions if you don’t know something it’s better to ask than not to know!
For the sake of my freedom God please don't send a man like this to any of my 3 daughters at any age let alone 18. And this no good man asked a 18 year old girl who is 5 months pregnant with his child for $1,000. Who he planned on leaving!!!! WTF!!! BTW where are the ppl who introduced this lil girl to him??? That's a effed up neighborhood
Don’t accept any blk men in your home. The blk men have gotten worse
You know it's the Ghetto, niggah stop Playin!
Bet she wasn't even 18 when they introduced them
Right it sucks and it’s crazy
@@RayRay002 the person that did the same to me was a yt man smart had money and did the same shit race color doesn't mean shit
This is the first time that I’ve EVER seen an age gap this much on the nose on this show.. Mr. Maxwell is 44 and Ms. Cannon is literally 18.. Barely even legal.. WHAT DID YOU EXPECT DUDE?! I’m not even mad at her, she’s just starting life! I just can’t- That’s a WHOLE generational gap my dude!
Well he was being dumb for going to marry that girl and knock her up, BUT at least he was wanting someone long term which was selfish BUT how many (Bruthas) in YOUR community just bounce from 16-18 year old to 16-18 yr old knocking them up calling them baby momma's and impregnating these kids making them single moms and wrecking their life before it even begins???
Don't even try and lie dude your community in large part is trash and YOU know it..
Yup ..he's gross
Two gaps.
There’s another episode where the girl is 20 and the guy is 62.
2 decades shm😮
As controversial as this sounds, if you are my brother, sister, friend etc and you have an attraction to someone who is not in your age bracket or even close to it; for dating. You're not spending time on your own with my kids. I have a 18 yr old son and two younger daughters. I don't play them ones.
Exactly! Same
Ain’t nothing controversial abt tht statement
Well said.
He hurt himself and wants her to pay him disability money. Let the man go kick rocks.
I ABHOR these types of marriage. The older folks seeking children, marry them, then expecting them to be mature.
Ninja....she's 18!!! She hasn't had time to mature!!! You married her right outta the gate!!!
What’s crazy is that she doesn’t even act immature! He’s a POS who wants to justify his actions!
File for child support because he’s not worth it
You can do bad by your self and baby value yourself and love you and that baby you got this and God got both you and your baby
I did
please this dudes a creep he knew she was young when he met her guys a pervert she didnt have anyone in her life to stop this dude he saw her coming a mile away
She I salute you Sir.
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Young girls who find themselves jn these situations are usually troubled youth. And you're right, these predators see then a mile away!
Y'all be failing your children. There is no way that this would've went down on my watch. Whoever set them up are predators also.
In these kinds of cases I wish the judges or shows could offer her some type of trade or scholarship after the baby is born.
That would release a whole can of worms and people lying about certain things to rip off kind gestures. Advice and counselling are the best case scenarios.
I'm sure if this young lady would've reached out for assistance Judge Toler would have helped her.
Maybe they can do it secretly, but yes that would be perfect.
i have one question, where is this young lady’s parents?
She said she was raising her siblings so that’s the answer to your question and the reason why she fell for a father figure. Little girl wanted to be taken care of for once in her life, unfortunately she ran into a predator 😢
I don’t think he cared about her age until it truly mattered. Now he wants a mother and a wife out of a young lady who doesn’t fit that description. Big dummy 🙄
Theres no way they got together when she was 18.... shes five months pregnant .....they were messing around before that clearly
I was in a similar situation at 20 years old with a 41 year old man ..
Biggest mistake in my life .
Run girl!!!
What on earth does a 44 yr old want with an 18 yr old. That's predatory behaviour. It reminds me of another divorce court case, which Judge mentioned talking about the cougar. It was called "Dipping in the kiddie pool." The woman in that case was 30 and was attracted to her "partner,", who was only 15 years old at the time!🤢🤢🤢🤢
He said he seen other women doing mature things but it sounds too me he loves little kids because how can you know how other young girls are mature so he's just hanging out with kids daily
He's a pervert! He wants younger women because he's not man enough to handle a women in his age bracket. It's easier to handle someone young and naive, they don't require much. Now a grown women, we know what we want, we come with standards, and that's usually the reason why most men his age go after women that haven't mentally grown up. I call them pervs and predators.
This man is well enough to stand why isn't he working???
This judge is ON point and mad as heck as this man! I am with her!!
Be weary of a man who dates someone half there age and broke. I learned that the hard way when I was 18 they can't meet the standards of someone there age so they date someone who doesn't know better
This is nasty. Something is wrong with these men
I hope she is doing well and away from him!
Judge Lynn Toler Said What she Said 🔥🔥but she's still with him, I don't think it will end well!!!I wish her the Best Going forward!
maybe she was 17ish they met? Hmm🤔🤔🤔 Scary!
This should not even be a case. Why is this dude even in court. He should be in Prison. Where is this child's parents, SMH!!! I don't understand what a grown man sees in a child. #SMH
The tale is as old as time. Old man has fun with a young girl. When young girl becomes pregnant, old man is ready to dump her.
Your damn wife was only 9yrs older than your 9yr old daughter! Let that sink in!!!! Smh I just cannot with this guy
I can tell from the thumbnail she regrets marrying a man who looks like her father
Where the hell is her mother, daddy or even brother there is not no damn way this old man would be seeing my 18 yrs old daughter when you already got a damn 18 yrs old getting ready for prom your self fool make this make sense and you got a 9 yrs those other mother must have been very young also and left you holding the bag but I would not even feel safe with any little girl beening around this guy since he really like them very young period lady pack your bags and run far away from this nut here
R Kelly vibes. Predator.
Wow where are her parents....she's young and inexperienced what did he think he was getting by marrying a child. He loves the teenager look and the things he can get her to do for him, then wants a grown woman to mother his daughter, to cook, to clean, to bring in money, to be smart.
Shame on him! She hasn't been alive long enough to have gained that experience. A 1yr old bottle of wine will not taste like a 50yr old bottle of wine. He needs to grow up himself.
Hope she gets her education, doesn't have anymore kids with him and move on. I wish her all the best and hope he doesn't break her.
She is looking for a dad figure. I like to know her history
Yes.. curious to know where her parents are
u dont have to go to get it. listen at the 7:59 mark. She tells it there
Oh Lord put this woman in place where she can lead us because we need her
He look older than 44
Sounds a lot older too
Yeah he does
Well said Judge Lynn, you hit the nail right on the head.
He needs to keep paying her bills
He didn't have a problem with her when he was getting her pregnant
That man better find people his own age and stop being a cradle robber. You're 44 years old, date a 40 year old, not a 20 year old!🤢😠
Not even 20 she is 18!!!😮
@@faithvarner2402 Still too young for him, always will be
date a 40 yr old woman?? Nigah Plz! Perhaps 30yrs old though should be a good bench marker... U hook up with a woman 40 odds of ever having a kid with her is next to zero% and if u do the odds of it being a Retard is through the roof... Retard baby? No way dude...
@@RayRay002 First of all, you better kill with with the N word, ok?! You don't even fucking know me! He's 44 years old and DOES need to be with a woman his own age instead of women young enough to be his daughter and over 10 years younger than him. That's called age-appropriate and there IS such thing as that. Mark my words, cradle robbers are perverts!
She is not ready for this, poor thing :-(
She's only 9 year's older than his daughter. She's a kid herself. You can't expect her to be a mother a figure. Mentally, that's not where she is. You should've pick a women, not a kid. Even, once she has the baby she's carrying, she'll grow up as the baby grows up. She'll mature eventually. Think about these things in the beginning, not after the fact. Stop expecting adult behavior, from children. It doesn't matter, she looks like a woman, she's not. That's a kid. Now, you have the audacity to complain about it, ridiculous.🤦🏾♀️
We need to stop generalising the effects of pregnancy judge. Some women cannot move about a lot at a certain point. Some women have to constantly visit the emergency room and can't even handle the smell of food cooking.
He really going to be strained financially WITH THAT EXTRA child support coming out of that fixed income.
I don’t think they take child support out of someone who gets disability.
That child will be his paycheck and we all will be paying him. She can’t get support from his disability and he won’t marry her so she can get help from the system.
He is an 44 year old boy for asking for her to pay him a, thousand dollars.He can never pay her for risking her life for having a kid for him. Plus he's going to need her to help him when he can't do for himself. I wonder will he pay her when he can't clean, drive, himself, because when he gets to be 74 -years old, she will 48, if I'm right. She might put you in the rest home, you can't do for yourself.
Big man! SMH!😖 He just robbed this young lady's youth!🙄🍼
I hate this man so much. Men are supposed to be the protector in the leader of the households and provide financial support. That's his job point 👉☝️ blank! he's complaining about a kid being an actual kid and took no accountability for what he voluntarily did ! His expectations and mindset are absolutely absurd and ridiculous!
Lawrence tryna fast talk the judge ✋ 🛑 NOT gonna happen
Iktr 🥴🤣🤣🤣
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That’s a CHILD
He needs his @$$" kicked, got her pregnant and now he's talking about she's immature to be a wife. It seems like he's too immature! He is extremely unreasonable. He shouldn't have married a teenager! It's your job to take care of her!
This is uncomfortable to watch. Hearing this young baby defend herself and her voice sounds like she could be 10. I feel so sad for her. How could he have claimed he didn't know her age. Listen to her voice!!!
That's what happened to my parents. My mom was 18 my dad was 35. My dad took advantage of my mom. Their both dead. My dad killed my mom. They both left behind 5kids. Were all grown 1 not here. By the grace of God were all doing good. Men or Women need to be mindful of that big age difference. That is still grooming and trapping.
Prayers and blessings to your family 💜
Man I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you and siblings are in a good place now.
I didn't even understand the mechanics of conception when my 26 year old abusive boyfriend got me pregnant at 17 and just starting to understand when he got me pregnant again at 19. People who take advantage of young people like this are trash. There's nothing worse than a predator. I have a daughter who turned 18 yesterday and this would NOT happen under my watch because she is a child. I wish I could take this girl home and care for her because this is pathetic.
Sending prayers hugs condolences and strength to y’all
What was he expecting??? She's 18. Yes she's old enough to make these decisions but she is still becoming a woman. She is still growing. You dont automatically have it all together at 18. He expecting a 35 year old in a 18 year old body. He wanted the youth and that's what he got .He should be ashamed. Now he don't want youth anymore. Smh... He got some nerve. Im glad the judge read him.
@ Dannileigh He was wrong i will agree with you on that, BUT u have to admit that Stereotypical Angry Black Woman is a handful that he was obviously afraid of if he'd gotten someone his own age...
So many Black Women are angry and naggy and that's why he didn't go for someone his own age cause he was afraid they'd beat his A__!
@@RayRay002 You are so obtuse. I don't know it was purposely or by accident 🙄😒and ignorant with the comment
@@RayRay002 she was 18..... are you kidding me? There was nothing obvious about that. He knew EXACTLY what he was doing. He wanted something younger and he got what he wanted. This had nothing to do with the angry black woman. He wanted someone to control, then when he didn't get what he wanted, he wanted to leave her PREGNANT.
@@VanityTableTalk Theirs a reason why So many black women die alone, and 70%+ of ALL black babies are Born out of wedlock, with some black families not seeing a man of the house for 3 or more generations deep...The Angry Black Woman has played a huge role in destroying the Black Heritage in this country... Your Nutz are Not as Big as the Kahunas of an Actual Man... Shave your Beard, Get rid of your Butch Hair Cut and start dressing like a lady instead of a tramp and maybe your community will start to thrive..
@@RayRay002 I agree with all you said. But THIS particular situation...has nothing to do with that. He went in for his own selfish needs. He didn't get what he wanted now he wants to bounce. That's it.
He got young women to boss around and this sick
That’s why people need to teach their children,be there for as a friend and counselor, that’s why she chooses him she doesn’t know anything about love and makes her loose her self esteem and chooses that fool over there.
She even sounds like a Chid. Mening her voice. Poor girl.
What am i hearing? He wanted someone to manage. Thats why he dont have his child mother around.
He can’t even provide for her yet got her pregnant. He should’ve been providing, asking a young woman that’s 18 for help with bills? At 44 you should have your own home, car and financially stable.
My 20 yr. old son forgot and left the iron plugged 🔌in and went to work.
I recently did the same
He used her up and dropped her… what a jerk
His issue is that he hurt himself and is on disability and wants her to pay bills. Has no one else seen this? He said he wanted bill money at least 4 times and at the end he said he couldn't work anymore and barely has any money and she should give him some.
He can't work legally, so work under the table.
Yep ...he expected her to significantly contribute financially and then nursed his ass when she's got hagar out from working how many jobs.
That’s what he gets wit his old azz!
Looks like this girl isn’t the only immature one in the relationship 😠
That man is a p3rv! Should be ashamed of himself. I genuinely feel bad for that young lady 😢
Wish I could hug the young lady. The guy is evil for marrying her, she needs guidance, love and support. What about her family, where are they? Maybe he knew she did not have anyone to stand up for her so he grabbed her. As it relates to maturity I know teenagers who are more matured than this 44 years old, he was 26 when she was 1 year old...yack!
This I.D story doesn't make any sense, it clearly states under 21 how is that the same as yours,Of course it's made the same but yours shouldn't say under 21 I'm confused at this story that you've made up.
I can see the blank look in his eyes that he doesn't care
He said it wasn't the same as his.
Reckless eyeballing took me outtt😂😂😂
He makes me wonder if there's really an adult in this marriage.
This is 1000% this grown az man's fault wtf was he thinking messing with a child just turning 18
She will eventually outgrow him.
This grown man wayyyy to insecure for his age.🤦🤦🤦 A matter of fact he still a little boy.
She's too young
44 year old man. 18 yr old n now pregnant. Omg , this is so wrong.
Legal don't make it right.
I'm furious... this man... may God have mercy, you sick and somebody needs to make sure his daughters are safe from him..
Agree with every word the judge tell him 👏
She is immature because she's only 18
Where are her parents?