आमा भएपछि कति धेरै कुरा पाइन्छ र कति धेरै कुरा गुमाइन्छ भन्ने कुरा लगभग सबैको साझा कथा रहेछ!! यो कुराकानीले अलग किसिमको आत्मविश्वास पैदा गर्छ । धन्यवाद दुवै जनालाई!! यी सबै कुरा हरेक पुस्तालाई बुझाउन जरूरी छ त्यसैले अझ सहज भाषा प्रयोग गर्न मेरो विशेष अनुरोध छ । दुवैलाई धेरै माया र सम्मान 🙏❤️
Interview hoina real life hera yo aaimai ko aafno bachha matra bachha ra aru ko bachha lai j sukai hos help Magda pani harassment is a normal thing vanera avoid garne nature cha asti aaimai saga ko basna chahan6 so don’t idolised her
Malvika represents maturity, she is such a strong headed women. Best part of the entire podcast- how she indirectly told Priyanka not to be judgmental on her experience of seeing a mom beat her kid. Malvika says " childcare is a privilege- its her circumstances the mother is frustrated, not her kid." Loved it. And everything else about this podcast is so relatable.
This episode was very worth listening. Growing up with my single mom and little brother, i feel most out of pain my mom actually went through. My father left out when my brother was just newly borned in kathmandu where we could not afford rice to eat. She started working after 7th day my brother was borned. I vividly remember how she used to work 'geeta kutney kaam', 'working on somebody's house' in expensive kathmandu. Nobody stood out to help for all those years when we were having everyday tough time. How bias is our society is? She did everything for us. I feel so proud to be daughter of strong mother. I love you mom ❤️. I hope to make you proud one day.
Could you also bring Raveena ma'am to the podcast some day? We want to hear the difference in now and the previous generation. And who can say it better than her.😍❤️
She is the only one i admire most in Nepalese industry .My heart melt seeing u cry❤lots of love.respected mam.u r so strong and courageous women in the entire world for me.🌷🌷
Malvika Subba is one of the strongest personality , bold and brave lady! The ups and downs she faced will make her more stronger! Hatsoff to her courage!
Yes very strong thatsway she is thinking harassment is a normal things women vayara women ko bida nabujhne le men ko bhawana kasari bujna sak6 kutriya aaimai
Malvika’s life story shows maturity in every level, physical, mental and emotional. Congratulations to all the fam members who cooperated well. This is something every divorced couple should have an understanding on.
Lots of supportive hugs to Malvika ji . Grass is always greener from other side. All the best for future endeavors in work. Love to see her thrive . ❤ plus point of the video is she never talked ill about her ex. Very graceful
I really salute all the mothers who really sacrifice their life for children.hats off to u Malvika for being such a strong bold lady.more power to u lady tc much ❤
I've seen Malvika ma'am in TV's as a host, but the way she's here after a long time shows how life has been sculpting her into a well furnished individual! Such a mindfulness seen so rare in today's world!
i got to see the raw and authentic version of Malvika, thank you for being brutally honest. lots of nuggets of knowledge on self care and mental health. Malvika, you have become a therpist to yourself!! wish you all the best for the next chapter of life!!
Just want to tell Malvika didi that maybe not all but some of us have seen your struggles throughout all these years and we know how strong are you. I have always appreciated you for taking stand and talking about all the social issues going around. You are great. Much love, power and strength to you ❤
Its really a bitter truth story that lots of women are facing in day to day life in Nepal.Thanks Malvika for expressing what you have gone through in your life❤
True said घर भित्र बाट नै सुधार हुनु जरुरि छ pragnancy मा need to more support everybody एउटा healthy mentally बच्चा हुनु लाइ घरको परिवारको धेरै सहयोग हुनु पर्छ and Malvika Subba ले त एति धेरै straggle गर्नु पर्यो भने 😢❤bless to you up coming future 🥰
I think you should invite fathers too in future episodes. That way we can spread the message that a father also needs to talk about raising a child and pregnancy journey.
Growing up, I always spoke on behalf of my friends who couldn’t speak up for themselves, defend them when they couldn’t. After being full grown up, I have started empathising with strong headed, opinionated woman more cause it’s extremely difficult for out spoken, strong woman especially in country like Nepal. Everyone thinks they are strong and don’t require any attention but deep inside we are all the same. Malvika dd, thank you for being you. Not everything is in your control and that’s okay. We love the new you too.
Most awaited episode. Malvika might sound rude but she is straight forward. People on tiktok makinh videos like kasto buhari ho esto blah blah. But being a buhari doesn’t mean that women don’t have a voice or right on herself. Stop spreading so much negativity mind your own business
Malvika Di, I am watching you from Australia. Since you were crowned as a Miss Nepal, I am so obsessed with your thoughts. I do hardly miss your interviews.. But this time, I felt so sorry for you listening to your struggles that you had to go through in your life. Whatever happened in the past, do not regret it. I wish you have a wonderful days ahead Di.. ❤❤❤
Was already her big fan from the beginning but after watching this interview, I have grown more and more respect to this brave woman who dealt with all the challenges and overcomed it so gracefully. This only shows how great of a person u are! Only love and more power to u “MALVIKA SUBBA” the queen 👸 ❤
One of my favourite Miss Nepal till yet from my heart ❤ I started watching Miss Nepal from 2002, especially from training session which used to be on air on nepal television . Since then I become fan of her till now. Such a bold woman I ever seen ❤ Whenever I think of strong woman of Nepal then Definately Malvika Subba comes to my mind . That’s Malvika Subba power to be in everyone hearts and mind ❤ hats off 👏👏👏👏👏 In addition, if I hear the word Miss Nepal then suddenly Malvika Subba comes to my mind 👏👏👏
I can relate so much to this. I am also raising my child as a single mom and there was also a time when I didn’t want to leave. I guess I am also still alive because of my daughter. Thank you for showing this vulnerable side of you. ❤
And the worst thing is, i live in Germany and had a german partner. My life was the mixture of Malvika‘s story and the movie Mrs Charterjee. I don’t know how i came out alive.
I got a little teary Being a mother is so tough if your spouse is not understanding or supportive including his family even if they don’t mean to be that way.
अझै बलियो हुनु अझै अरु धेरैको लागि प्रेरणा वन्नु मालविका जी। जीवनको उतरचढावको हरेक पलहरुमा आत्मा वलियो हुदै जावस।हामी त चाहेर पनि आमा वन्न सक्दैनौ।हामीले सन्तान जन्माउने न त प्रकृति बाट बरदान पायौ न त कानुनी अधिकार । मातृत्व जन्म दिएर मात्र होईन भावानाको जन्म बाट पनि हुन्छ तर कानुनले सन्तान राखने अधिकार हामीलाई दिएको छैन।
Respect for Malvika mam have increased after listening this podcast. She is someone whom we have been looking and listening from a long. It is not uncommon for anyone to go through life's vulnerabilities and unexpected problems. It is about how we overcome them and shape ourselves with those experiences. We as audiences should not haste to judge people we do admire based on surface things and also not expect them to be perfect making them superhumans. They too are like every humans who must earn their bread. At last, we all have our own matters ro look after.
केटी मान्छेको लाईफ नै अच्चम छ २० २५ वर्ष सम्म बसेको घर चटक्क छाडेर बिल्कुलै नयां घर जानु पर्ने , त्यहि गार्हो छ !! तर आजको समयमा धेरै केटाहरुले बुज्नु हुन्छ यस्तो कुराहरु पहिला पहिला जस्तो समय छैन आजभोली !! भावाना कदर गरुम !!!
I was watching interview in full volume fully concentrate Suddenly tear was in my eyes i paused video and take a long breath❤❤❤ Dearest malvika i Dont have words to express my feelings how much i adore you Even more more after this interview. Love you so much.❤❤❤❤❤ d.lots of respect and love to u🎉❤.
When many other miss Nepal’s chose to marry a rich man and live a happy life, you chose to work hard and live a simple life! May not be now but it will definitely pay you back one day! It may take some time but you will get stronger day by day sis! You will rise and shine on your own ❤ #staystrong 💪
What not a mother goes through in silence.. Malvika dd you have come out so strong through your heartbreaking journey 😢 thanks a million Priyanka ji for being such an empathetic host/listener ❤
Her sad story makes my tears out. Such a strong lady. Tara public figure vayera kura lukayera vayeni afnu bachha lai important dinu is the most touched one❤. Stay strong Miss Subba. Thanks Piku for such a great episode.
She is such a doting mother. I was so wrong on judging her with so many other things. I am sure she took a lot of strength and belief to heal. Keep healing Malvika. We all will find good things to learn from you.
Priyanka being profoundly supportive, considerate and compassionate on different topics is extremely commendable. This is how a woman should support another woman. We never talk about post natal depression esp in Nepal. It is a silent disease. I think Priyanka should invite experts to highlight on this topic. Excellent interview Priyanka. ❤
More power to Malvika ji! I also happened to misjudge her during that controversy but i was not aware of the fact that she herself was going through the darker phases of her life. So please accept my apologies and would like to wish you for more power and better health.
Such an honest conversation about motherhood and the struggles! The most honest interview by far in the show where finally someone also talks about clash with you own husband and marriage life suddenly becomes also very challenging even though thats just a phase!
This is the reason why women like Malkiva and women like her are single and will die alone. If u make ur man feel like he has no say in anything about his child or urself and make him feel unwanted, eventually he will learn to live without u . In first half of the interview , she says how hard it is during and after pregnancy for mother ,but still women like her promotes work and working like a man, competing with men and all that bullshit that comes out of her mouth, women like her dont deserve to be mother.
..Actually, i could share my story through her...Not me only...she represents everywoman who went through these situations. THANK YOU PRIYANKA MAM FOR THIS PODCAST❤❤❤ The line is same of mine...I chose to live just coz of my son..
Worth episode ever😊 usually I don't watch the podcasts.but this is emotion!! Malvika Ma'm speaks out so many mummy's words😢 I have been thru the almost same situation and got divorced. While I was in severe postpartum depression 🫥 my angel is turning 5 years this Aug 2023. I got lifetime trauma, but I believe I'm gonna heal soon ✨️ ❤
Literally my favourite session so far. Such a great way to see how much every experience in our lives makes us a better person everyday and eventually makes us much more insightful.
Sakdo Nepali language use garnu bhayo vane ajai older generation pani inspire hunu saknu huncha hola. Nevertheless, this episode was truly inspiring ♥️
इनिहरु बाट के नै सिक्नु छ र खाली लोग्ने छोड्ने ,परिवार संग नबस्ने ,म नै सबै भन्दा सुपेरियर हो ,सबै परिवार ले मलाई मान्नु पर्छ नत्र डिभोर्स गर्छु भन्ने यस्तै लर्न गर्ने हो इनिहरु बाट ,म त भन्छु सेलिब्रेटी बिहे गर्नु भन्दा बोरु आजिबन कुमार कुमारी बस्नु
@@michigannepalifamily6561bihe pachi jatti compromise wife le garnu parcha tetinai compromise husbandle garnu parne ho bhane 90% ko divorce hunthyo. But you go on, keep blaming every independent woman who stand up for themselves.
@@PhuyalRita what is the compromise you're talking about? Just listen to the whole podcast, j ma pain budo le yesto garena, ghar ko manche le testo garena bhanne kura matra chha. iniharuko compromise chai kata gayo? Family ko manchhe le bacha Kauai lagda, asahi hune ray, daar lagney ray. Tei ho Malvika ko compromise? Afno family lai trust garni compromise moina? Khoi ta trust gareko? This is toxic feminism at its peak!
@@PhuyalRita ,गाऊ घर कि सोझी महिला हुन् माल्भिका ?तेत्रो संसार बुझेको देखेको महिला ले आफ्नो परिवार संग थोरै कम्प्रमाइज गरेर बस्ने कि परिवार को अग्रज हरु लाई मान्छे नगन्ने ,म जस्तो जान्ने सुन्ने कोइ छैन भन्ने ,के उनि हरु जस्ता महिला का अगुवाई गर्ने मान्छे बाट अरु महिला हरु ले यस्तै सिक्ने ?उनीहरु जस्ता समाज का दर्पण ले यस्तो सिकाय पछि हाम्रो समाज म कस्तो असर पर्छ,यौटा हैन दुइटा होइन सबै अगुवा हरु यस्तै ,
Such a fine episode...i have heard all the episodes of fourth trimester..this is by far the most awaited and the best episode...loved it..malvika is most beautiful and well spoken person....
Truly touching conversations......., brilliant analysis of structural discrimination, voice for gender equality and discussion about unconscious/conscious biases. My solidarity for women empowerment and sending positive vibes and strength for fighting against social taboos
Always a true admirer of Malvika subba and priyanka karki... i am glad u saw my cmt and invited her. Somewhat very similar to my story... such a strong women.. Love u both..
बच्चा जन्माएपछी नेपालको केटामान्छेहरु बाउको भुमिका निर्बाह गर्नु जरुरी छ। कति दुःख हुन्छ भन्ने कुरा जन्माउने मान्छेलाई मात्र थाहा हुन्छ। मैले पनि पुरै पोड्काष्ट सुनेको यो नै होला। सलुट छ माल्भिका ज्युलाई!!!
आमा हुँदाको त्यो सुखद् अनुभव त कसले पो गरेका हुन्नन् र। माल्भिका सुब्बा मलाई एकदमै मनपर्ने व्यक्तित्व हुनुहुन्छ। धेरैजसो उहाँको कार्यक्रमहरू हेर्ने गरेको छु। तर उहाँको जीवनको त्यो अँध्यारो पाटो छर्लङ्गै बुझ्ने मौका पाएको थिइन रहेछु।अहिले यो मौकाको निम्ति नायिका प्रियङ्का कार्कीलाई धन्यवाद छ। यो शो हेरिसकेपछि माल्भिका सुब्बाप्रति अझ सम्मान बढेको छ। त्यो विशेष विवादपछि आज बल्ल उहाँलाई हेर्न, सुन्न र बुझ्न पाएँ। अघि बढ़िरहनुहोला। जीवनको अन्तिम समयसम्म पनि सकारात्मकता कहिल्यै नडग्मगाओस्। मायासहित शुभेच्छा कालेबुङबाट ❤❤❤
Mallvika, your story of resilience will provide so much inspiration to Nepalese women. Thank you for being vulnerable and telling your story with so much honesty .
One of the best interview I have ever watched I have also gone through these all and still going on And still can't decide 😢 It is not easy for all to take a step
So proud of Mavika Subba ji and very thankful Priyanka ji for providing space to real expressions, great to hear such a real insight. Very greatful and powerful ❤
Informative. Being a psychologist myself I feel human emotions vary depending on their personality, culture, experiences and many more. So let's not judge. #Beautiful conversation. #Mental health matters. #Best wishes.
माल्भिका दिदी what a safe landing. मैले पनि उहीँ टाइपवाला भोगाइ भोगेँ । झण्डै ४ वर्ष नै कसरत गर्यौं सम्बन्ध टिकाउन । अन्तिममा छुट्नै उपयुक्त लाग्यो र छुट्टियौं । छुट्टेको २ वर्ष भयो तर हामिसंग अहिले पनि इगो दुस्मनी छैन, कैले काहीँ वोल्छौं । हामिलाई प्रेसर कम पनि थियो चाइल्ड नहुनाले । हजुरले जसरि म्यानेज गर्नुभयो अद्भुत म्यानेजमेन्ट । पश्चिमा कल्चर र पुर्वीय सभ्यताले गाँजेको समयमा वाँचेका हाम्रा पुस्ताका लागि हजुरको म्यानेजमेन्ट अनुकरणीय छ ।
You are a brave woman who has taken a step ahead.I think many of Nepalese women are still scarred to take this step because of the conservative society and family.That’s because women were financially dependent on men.But now slowly women are being financially independent so that one can make their own choices.If an educated person like you had to face so many issues in life despite you had an love marriage I believe (sorry I don’t know here )then what do we say about the uneducated women who knows nothing .I really sympathies to all those women..I hope you are now enjoying your life with your loving son.Wish you the best
I also went through this during pregnancy 😢Malvika ji we have never seen this side of you,so sorry to hear. Anyway you are the strongest mom. Stay happy and healthy ❤
Malvika jasto talented , educated , independent manche Lai Yati struggle garnu parcha as a mother vane aru normal uneducated women Lai Kati garo hola . I cannot imagine .. ❤
Ufff….being a new mom i can relate most of the things k….malvika subba…. U r the best yr….jati suny pani thakdina ma tapai laai….thaxaina mero cmnt padnu hunxa hudaina bt u r super 😁…love you n proud of u 👍
Priyanka could you please also mention fathers who have went through a lot during pregnancy as well the way they got new changes to the life and many more it would be absolutely wonderful. This talk show is worth it giving birth and raising kid is two different phase and process that anyone can have different stories ❤❤❤❤
That phase of life 😢. Been there, had those moments, and a proud mom. Thank you for sharing this episode, it’s beautiful to hear stories as such. Many moms out there will be inspired and motivated.
So sorry to hear her struggles but such a great inspiration from her struggles to everyone out there. Kudos to Priyanka for bringing her and sharing her then pain. More power to you Malvika
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आमा भएपछि कति धेरै कुरा पाइन्छ र कति धेरै कुरा गुमाइन्छ भन्ने कुरा लगभग सबैको साझा कथा रहेछ!! यो कुराकानीले अलग किसिमको आत्मविश्वास पैदा गर्छ । धन्यवाद दुवै जनालाई!! यी सबै कुरा हरेक पुस्तालाई बुझाउन जरूरी छ त्यसैले अझ सहज भाषा प्रयोग गर्न मेरो विशेष अनुरोध छ । दुवैलाई धेरै माया र सम्मान 🙏❤️
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Right sis respect your opinion
Interview hoina real life hera yo aaimai ko aafno bachha matra bachha ra aru ko bachha lai j sukai hos help Magda pani harassment is a normal thing vanera avoid garne nature cha asti aaimai saga ko basna chahan6 so don’t idolised her
Malvika represents maturity, she is such a strong headed women. Best part of the entire podcast- how she indirectly told Priyanka not to be judgmental on her experience of seeing a mom beat her kid. Malvika says " childcare is a privilege- its her circumstances the mother is frustrated, not her kid." Loved it. And everything else about this podcast is so relatable.
This episode was very worth listening.
Growing up with my single mom and little brother, i feel most out of pain my mom actually went through. My father left out when my brother was just newly borned in kathmandu where we could not afford rice to eat. She started working after 7th day my brother was borned. I vividly remember how she used to work 'geeta kutney kaam', 'working on somebody's house' in expensive kathmandu. Nobody stood out to help for all those years when we were having everyday tough time. How bias is our society is? She did everything for us. I feel so proud to be daughter of strong mother. I love you mom ❤️. I hope to make you proud one day.
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Love you strong mom..make your mom proud one day n show to your you all are happy without him
Could you also bring Raveena ma'am to the podcast some day? We want to hear the difference in now and the previous generation. And who can say it better than her.😍❤️
She is the only one i admire most in Nepalese industry .My heart melt seeing u cry❤lots of love.respected mam.u r so strong and courageous women in the entire world for me.🌷🌷
ma mero chora vaera nai bachirako chu vanda it hit straight to my heart literally tears rolled down 🥹
Keep inspiring both ladies 🫶🏻
I cried literally…. Finally she spoke about it
Malvika Subba is one of the strongest personality , bold and brave lady! The ups and downs she faced will make her more stronger! Hatsoff to her courage!
I watched this video by not skipping one second
Malvika is such a strong lady❤❤❤.we all love you a lot ❤❤❤
True same ur so beautiful n sweet interview they really talk from the heart❤❤❤❤
Yes very strong thatsway she is thinking harassment is a normal things women vayara women ko bida nabujhne le men ko bhawana kasari bujna sak6 kutriya aaimai
Such a beautiful and emotional moment. ❤❤ Two bold queen of Nepali Society industry. Malvika and Priyanka di .. 🙏🙏♥️
How my marriage and motherhood journey relates so much with Malvika , ekdam emotionally connected feel bhayo! ❤
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Malvika’s life story shows maturity in every level, physical, mental and emotional. Congratulations to all the fam members who cooperated well. This is something every divorced couple should have an understanding on.
She showed a maturity when Sushmita came to her trusting her with all her might. 🙄 #malvikaisafakebitch
Tears rolled 😢😢😢 I have always admired these two bold n beautiful ladies Malvika n priyanka ❤
Lots of supportive hugs to Malvika ji . Grass is always greener from other side. All the best for future endeavors in work. Love to see her thrive . ❤ plus point of the video is she never talked ill about her ex. Very graceful
Being father , watching you feeling so sad & happy about you !
Proud of you Malvika much love❤
I really salute all the mothers who really sacrifice their life for children.hats off to u Malvika for being such a strong bold lady.more power to u lady tc much ❤
माल्विकाको सबै story सुनेर कस्तो रोए । 😥 सबै कुरा सुन्दा लाग्यो सबै भन्दा strongest person Malvika subba 🫶❤️🫶 यो video end भएको थाहा नै भएन । ❤️❤️
I've seen Malvika ma'am in TV's as a host, but the way she's here after a long time shows how life has been sculpting her into a well furnished individual! Such a mindfulness seen so rare in today's world!
मानव जीवन मा विपत्ति(ups and down)आउनु part of life हो,अनि विपत्ति(ups and down)मा पनि मुस्कुराउदै जीवन जिउनु नै art of life हो। so be strong 💪दिदी🙏
i got to see the raw and authentic version of Malvika, thank you for being brutally honest. lots of nuggets of knowledge on self care and mental health. Malvika, you have become a therpist to yourself!! wish you all the best for the next chapter of life!!
Just want to tell Malvika didi that maybe not all but some of us have seen your struggles throughout all these years and we know how strong are you. I have always appreciated you for taking stand and talking about all the social issues going around. You are great. Much love, power and strength to you ❤
Its really a bitter truth story that lots of women are facing in day to day life in Nepal.Thanks Malvika for expressing what you have gone through in your life❤
Tears rolled down 😢 … appreciate you Malvika. You are one of the inspiration for many women in the world ❤
We need more woman like Malvika in Nepal.. I can totally feel every word I can relate been through same situation..proudly raising by boy separately❤️
True said घर भित्र बाट नै सुधार हुनु जरुरि छ pragnancy मा need to more support everybody एउटा healthy mentally बच्चा हुनु लाइ घरको परिवारको धेरै सहयोग हुनु पर्छ and Malvika Subba ले त एति धेरै straggle गर्नु पर्यो भने 😢❤bless to you up coming future 🥰
I think you should invite fathers too in future episodes. That way we can spread the message that a father also needs to talk about raising a child and pregnancy journey.
True
Good point
Yes true
Yeah lets start from ayushman himself
Growing up, I always spoke on behalf of my friends who couldn’t speak up for themselves, defend them when they couldn’t. After being full grown up, I have started empathising with strong headed, opinionated woman more cause it’s extremely difficult for out spoken, strong woman especially in country like Nepal. Everyone thinks they are strong and don’t require any attention but deep inside we are all the same. Malvika dd, thank you for being you. Not everything is in your control and that’s okay. We love the new you too.
38:52 😢 goosebumps you really are a mentor. Many women didn't express what she felt. This is also a great Lesson for men too.
Most awaited episode.
Malvika might sound rude but she is straight forward.
People on tiktok makinh videos like kasto buhari ho esto blah blah.
But being a buhari doesn’t mean that women don’t have a voice or right on herself. Stop spreading so much negativity mind your own business
The way Priyanka asks questions….Knows exactly what she is saying… ❤❤
Malvika Di, I am watching you from Australia. Since you were crowned as a Miss Nepal, I am so obsessed with your thoughts. I do hardly miss your interviews.. But this time, I felt so sorry for you listening to your struggles that you had to go through in your life. Whatever happened in the past, do not regret it. I wish you have a wonderful days ahead Di.. ❤❤❤
Was already her big fan from the beginning but after watching this interview, I have grown more and more respect to this brave woman who dealt with all the challenges and overcomed it so gracefully. This only shows how great of a person u are! Only love and more power to u “MALVIKA SUBBA” the queen 👸 ❤
I completely agree with you. ❤
One of my favourite Miss Nepal till yet from my heart ❤ I started watching Miss Nepal from 2002, especially from training session which used to be on air on nepal television . Since then I become fan of her till now. Such a bold woman I ever seen ❤ Whenever I think of strong woman of Nepal then Definately Malvika Subba comes to my mind . That’s Malvika Subba power to be in everyone hearts and mind ❤ hats off 👏👏👏👏👏 In addition, if I hear the word Miss Nepal then suddenly Malvika Subba comes to my mind 👏👏👏
❤❤❤ This is it. Open conversation is what Nepali community needs. Hope more of us build up empathy before judging another human.
I can relate so much to this. I am also raising my child as a single mom and there was also a time when I didn’t want to leave. I guess I am also still alive because of my daughter. Thank you for showing this vulnerable side of you. ❤
More power to you Mumma ❤
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And the worst thing is, i live in Germany and had a german partner. My life was the mixture of Malvika‘s story and the movie Mrs Charterjee. I don’t know how i came out alive.
@@mnsadvkta you were much stronger than you thought you were, that’s why! I hope you find strengths on all walks of your life 💛
@@sudixaaa thank you ❤️❤️❤️
I got a little teary
Being a mother is so tough if your spouse is not understanding or supportive including his family even if they don’t mean to be that way.
अझै बलियो हुनु अझै अरु धेरैको लागि प्रेरणा वन्नु मालविका जी। जीवनको उतरचढावको हरेक पलहरुमा आत्मा वलियो हुदै जावस।हामी त चाहेर पनि आमा वन्न सक्दैनौ।हामीले सन्तान जन्माउने न त प्रकृति बाट बरदान पायौ न त कानुनी अधिकार । मातृत्व जन्म दिएर मात्र होईन भावानाको जन्म बाट पनि हुन्छ तर कानुनले सन्तान राखने अधिकार हामीलाई दिएको छैन।
Respect for Malvika mam have increased after listening this podcast. She is someone whom we have been looking and listening from a long. It is not uncommon for anyone to go through life's vulnerabilities and unexpected problems. It is about how we overcome them and shape ourselves with those experiences. We as audiences should not haste to judge people we do admire based on surface things and also not expect them to be perfect making them superhumans. They too are like every humans who must earn their bread. At last, we all have our own matters ro look after.
केटी मान्छेको लाईफ नै अच्चम छ २० २५ वर्ष सम्म बसेको घर चटक्क छाडेर बिल्कुलै नयां घर जानु पर्ने , त्यहि गार्हो छ !! तर आजको समयमा धेरै केटाहरुले बुज्नु हुन्छ यस्तो कुराहरु पहिला पहिला जस्तो समय छैन आजभोली !! भावाना कदर गरुम !!!
I was watching interview in full volume fully concentrate
Suddenly tear was in my eyes i paused video and take a long breath❤❤❤
Dearest malvika i Dont have words to express my feelings how much i adore you
Even more more after this interview. Love you so much.❤❤❤❤❤ d.lots of respect and love to u🎉❤.
The best episode I ever watched.. Mal is always my mentor and she’s the best woman in this planet 🌎 love you Mal ❤
You all forgot about what she did to sushmita regmi or what!??
@@sanjiiii4.and you had to remind it for what reason? If you don’t like the person, don’t bother watching it, its simple as that.
@@meenasherpa1985 and if you don't like the comment don't bother replying to it, it's simple as that 🤡
@@sanjiiii4.olice bhanne ho ki Malvika lai Vance ho
My best Mal🤪🤪
OMG! tears rolled down along with you Malvika. You are real inspiration ma'am
Behind this strong lady there was a very sad story which she had gone thru..can't stop my tears 😢😢
This is the one podcast I watched without skip...Malvika is always my favorite person... ❤❤
When many other miss Nepal’s chose to marry a rich man and live a happy life, you chose to work hard and live a simple life! May not be now but it will definitely pay you back one day! It may take some time but you will get stronger day by day sis! You will rise and shine on your own ❤ #staystrong 💪
Sorry though your words sounds judgemental.
What not a mother goes through in silence.. Malvika dd you have come out so strong through your heartbreaking journey 😢 thanks a million Priyanka ji for being such an empathetic host/listener ❤
Malvika and priyanka is such a gem! Such a lovely conversation! I am a new mom of a son and totally get what Malvika is talking about !
Her sad story makes my tears out. Such a strong lady. Tara public figure vayera kura lukayera vayeni afnu bachha lai important dinu is the most touched one❤. Stay strong Miss Subba. Thanks Piku for such a great episode.
She is such a doting mother. I was so wrong on judging her with so many other things. I am sure she took a lot of strength and belief to heal. Keep healing Malvika. We all will find good things to learn from you.
Everyone has their own story but it relates to most of the person's private life. Such an inspirational and emotional moment. Love to hear her voice.
Aaja ko kuraley really touched,life relatable and so inspiring...always and forever love Malvika ma'am
Priyanka is so blessed with so supportive parents and husband... ❤
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Me Crying with malvika and thinking why we women has to go through all these 💔 it's like listening to own story by malvika 😭😭
Priyanka being profoundly supportive, considerate and compassionate on different topics is extremely commendable. This is how a woman should support another woman. We never talk about post natal depression esp in Nepal. It is a silent disease. I think Priyanka should invite experts to highlight on this topic. Excellent interview Priyanka. ❤
More power to Malvika ji! I also happened to misjudge her during that controversy but i was not aware of the fact that she herself was going through the darker phases of her life. So please accept my apologies and would like to wish you for more power and better health.
do you know what she did to Sushmita ?
I literally cried with her...yeuta mahila le afno bachako lagi kati sacrifices garnu parx...u r great mam...
Such an honest conversation about motherhood and the struggles! The most honest interview by far in the show where finally someone also talks about clash with you own husband and marriage life suddenly becomes also very challenging even though thats just a phase!
This is the reason why women like Malkiva and women like her are single and will die alone. If u make ur man feel like he has no say in anything about his child or urself and make him feel unwanted, eventually he will learn to live without u . In first half of the interview , she says how hard it is during and after pregnancy for mother ,but still women like her promotes work and working like a man, competing with men and all that bullshit that comes out of her mouth, women like her dont deserve to be mother.
Also its better to live Single healthy and happy life than suffocating yourself everyday being unhappy with a wrong partner!!
Probably, this is my first podcast, which I didn't skip ! Lots of wisdom in this conversation, salute and love you both of you, Malvika and Priyanka 🎉
..Actually, i could share my story through her...Not me only...she represents everywoman who went through these situations. THANK YOU PRIYANKA MAM FOR THIS PODCAST❤❤❤ The line is same of mine...I chose to live just coz of my son..
Lots of love and hugs to Malvika ji ❤so nice to hear from her about her experience ❤ heads up to her my fav episode
Worth episode ever😊 usually I don't watch the podcasts.but this is emotion!! Malvika Ma'm speaks out so many mummy's words😢
I have been thru the almost same situation and got divorced. While I was in severe postpartum depression 🫥 my angel is turning 5 years this Aug 2023. I got lifetime trauma, but I believe I'm gonna heal soon ✨️ ❤
Literally my favourite session so far. Such a great way to see how much every experience in our lives makes us a better person everyday and eventually makes us much more insightful.
Ewta buda budi ko relation bigarne bhaneko chai keta ko family ko thulo haat huncha praye jasto case maa ❤
This conversation touched me a lot n cried with her😢😢 what a strong lady!! ❤ lots of to Love both beautiful n talented ladies !!
These two women are unstoppable ❤
Hats off 🫶🏻
I could relate when you said you felt empty because divorce is similar to dealing with death in the family.
Sakdo Nepali language use garnu bhayo vane ajai older generation pani inspire hunu saknu huncha hola. Nevertheless, this episode was truly inspiring ♥️
इनिहरु बाट के नै सिक्नु छ र खाली लोग्ने छोड्ने ,परिवार संग नबस्ने ,म नै सबै भन्दा सुपेरियर हो ,सबै परिवार ले मलाई मान्नु पर्छ नत्र डिभोर्स गर्छु भन्ने यस्तै लर्न गर्ने हो इनिहरु बाट ,म त भन्छु सेलिब्रेटी बिहे गर्नु भन्दा बोरु आजिबन कुमार कुमारी बस्नु
@@michigannepalifamily6561bihe pachi jatti compromise wife le garnu parcha tetinai compromise husbandle garnu parne ho bhane 90% ko divorce hunthyo. But you go on, keep blaming every independent woman who stand up for themselves.
@@PhuyalRita Absolutely 100% right 😊
@@PhuyalRita what is the compromise you're talking about? Just listen to the whole podcast, j ma pain budo le yesto garena, ghar ko manche le testo garena bhanne kura matra chha. iniharuko compromise chai kata gayo? Family ko manchhe le bacha Kauai lagda, asahi hune ray, daar lagney ray. Tei ho Malvika ko compromise? Afno family lai trust garni compromise moina? Khoi ta trust gareko? This is toxic feminism at its peak!
@@PhuyalRita ,गाऊ घर कि सोझी महिला हुन् माल्भिका ?तेत्रो संसार बुझेको देखेको महिला ले आफ्नो परिवार संग थोरै कम्प्रमाइज गरेर बस्ने कि परिवार को अग्रज हरु लाई मान्छे नगन्ने ,म जस्तो जान्ने सुन्ने कोइ छैन भन्ने ,के उनि हरु जस्ता महिला का अगुवाई गर्ने मान्छे बाट अरु महिला हरु ले यस्तै सिक्ने ?उनीहरु जस्ता समाज का दर्पण ले यस्तो सिकाय पछि हाम्रो समाज म कस्तो असर पर्छ,यौटा हैन दुइटा होइन सबै अगुवा हरु यस्तै ,
Such a fine episode...i have heard all the episodes of fourth trimester..this is by far the most awaited and the best episode...loved it..malvika is most beautiful and well spoken person....
Truly touching conversations......., brilliant analysis of structural discrimination, voice for gender equality and discussion about unconscious/conscious biases. My solidarity for women empowerment and sending positive vibes and strength for fighting against social taboos
Two eloquent & mentally strong ladies!
Keep fighting for the positive changes in our society as large number of people listen & follow you guys!
Always a true admirer of Malvika subba and priyanka karki... i am glad u saw my cmt and invited her. Somewhat very similar to my story... such a strong women.. Love u both..
बच्चा जन्माएपछी नेपालको केटामान्छेहरु बाउको भुमिका निर्बाह गर्नु जरुरी छ। कति दुःख हुन्छ भन्ने कुरा जन्माउने मान्छेलाई मात्र थाहा हुन्छ। मैले पनि पुरै पोड्काष्ट सुनेको यो नै होला। सलुट छ माल्भिका ज्युलाई!!!
Never thought malvika subba inspiring everyone went through can't see you cry maam you are really an inspiration
आमा हुँदाको त्यो सुखद् अनुभव त कसले पो गरेका हुन्नन् र। माल्भिका सुब्बा मलाई एकदमै मनपर्ने व्यक्तित्व हुनुहुन्छ। धेरैजसो उहाँको कार्यक्रमहरू हेर्ने गरेको छु। तर उहाँको जीवनको त्यो अँध्यारो पाटो छर्लङ्गै बुझ्ने मौका पाएको थिइन रहेछु।अहिले यो मौकाको निम्ति नायिका प्रियङ्का कार्कीलाई धन्यवाद छ। यो शो हेरिसकेपछि माल्भिका सुब्बाप्रति अझ सम्मान बढेको छ। त्यो विशेष विवादपछि आज बल्ल उहाँलाई हेर्न, सुन्न र बुझ्न पाएँ। अघि बढ़िरहनुहोला। जीवनको अन्तिम समयसम्म पनि सकारात्मकता कहिल्यै नडग्मगाओस्। मायासहित शुभेच्छा कालेबुङबाट ❤❤❤
I was desperately waiting for this episode. Made me sad and also learned more about the life . Love malvika subva❤❤
I am crying with Malvika dd. I totally understand and feel you!!
Thank you priyanka dd for bringing malvika dd❤
नेपाली भाषाको प्रयोग धेरै गरौं।सबैले अङ्ग्रेजी बुझ्दैनन्।यो कार्यक्रम मेरो आमाले पनि हेर्नु हुन्छं।❤धन्यवाद
Mallvika, your story of resilience will provide so much inspiration to Nepalese women. Thank you for being vulnerable and telling your story with so much honesty .
I love you Malvika Subba! You inspire me. You deserve all the good things in life.
One of the best interview I have ever watched
I have also gone through these all and still going on
And still can't decide 😢
It is not easy for all to take a step
Two bold women in one frame ❤
Waiting since yesterday...and finally waiting is over😚
So proud of Mavika Subba ji and very thankful Priyanka ji for providing space to real expressions, great to hear such a real insight. Very greatful and powerful ❤
I cried a lot after this podcast of malvika dijju😢i love u a lot stay strong dijju. ❤
Informative. Being a psychologist myself I feel human emotions vary depending on their personality, culture, experiences and many more. So let's not judge.
#Beautiful conversation.
#Mental health matters.
#Best wishes.
Extremely related dijju...kasto touched vayo malai ta... proud to be a mom
You made everyone cry with your true stories. We cannot judge people by the way they look or come across. Everyone is going through a battle
I like the way Priyanka didn’t interrupt Malvika and let her out all of her emotions. Great interview Priyanka 😊
Felt so proud to watch this as Nepali woman 👠, ajkal Nepali women's KO concept kasto beautiful vako❤❤
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माल्भिका दिदी what a safe landing. मैले पनि उहीँ टाइपवाला भोगाइ भोगेँ । झण्डै ४ वर्ष नै कसरत गर्यौं सम्बन्ध टिकाउन । अन्तिममा छुट्नै उपयुक्त लाग्यो र छुट्टियौं । छुट्टेको २ वर्ष भयो तर हामिसंग अहिले पनि इगो दुस्मनी छैन, कैले काहीँ वोल्छौं । हामिलाई प्रेसर कम पनि थियो चाइल्ड नहुनाले । हजुरले जसरि म्यानेज गर्नुभयो अद्भुत म्यानेजमेन्ट । पश्चिमा कल्चर र पुर्वीय सभ्यताले गाँजेको समयमा वाँचेका हाम्रा पुस्ताका लागि हजुरको म्यानेजमेन्ट अनुकरणीय छ ।
You are a brave woman who has taken a step ahead.I think many of Nepalese women are still scarred to take this step because of the conservative society and family.That’s because women were financially dependent on men.But now slowly women are being financially independent so that one can make their own choices.If an educated person like you had to face so many issues in life despite you had an love marriage I believe (sorry I don’t know here )then what do we say about the uneducated women who knows nothing .I really sympathies to all those women..I hope you are now enjoying your life with your loving son.Wish you the best
I also went through this during pregnancy 😢Malvika ji we have never seen this side of you,so sorry to hear. Anyway you are the strongest mom. Stay happy and healthy ❤
Never imagined these side of her
Really so inspiring
Harek dukha paxi sukha aauxa if you work for yourself
38:00 Thanks for being vulnerable and showing your true self Malvika Subba.
Malvika jasto talented , educated , independent manche Lai Yati struggle garnu parcha as a mother vane aru normal uneducated women Lai Kati garo hola . I cannot imagine .. ❤
Ufff….being a new mom i can relate most of the things k….malvika subba…. U r the best yr….jati suny pani thakdina ma tapai laai….thaxaina mero cmnt padnu hunxa hudaina bt u r super 😁…love you n proud of u 👍
Priyanka could you please also mention fathers who have went through a lot during pregnancy as well the way they got new changes to the life and many more it would be absolutely wonderful.
This talk show is worth it giving birth and raising kid is two different phase and process that anyone can have different stories ❤❤❤❤
That phase of life 😢. Been there, had those moments, and a proud mom. Thank you for sharing this episode, it’s beautiful to hear stories as such. Many moms out there will be inspired and motivated.
I listened with out scalping even a second
I remembered my mother after listening her 😢💔
Fruitful conversation to all ❤
So sorry to hear her struggles but such a great inspiration from her struggles to everyone out there. Kudos to Priyanka for bringing her and sharing her then pain. More power to you Malvika
I love the way malavika Dijju explained it . She nailed the show. Kasto politely .