My ex used to ring me when I was on the bus coming home from work wanting to know why I was late. He used to check my phone and delete my friends numbers and often texting them pretending to be me! I knew I had to get out and I did. Never regretted it!
Gotta stop dividing us by gender on this issue as it still feels like these groups only assume men can be or are more likely perpetrators of dv which is a massive part of the reason men are less likely to seek help or speak up, from someone who has experienced trauma from a female. Got your backs brothers too? Is there a reason it needs to be divided that way that I am missing? Constantly showing these images of it only being women that are victims isn't helping men in dv situations at all if not worsens it. Stop using gendered terms in these campaigns and get everyone some help and confidence to seek help or speak out.
This is very helpful Thank you
My ex used to ring me when I was on the bus coming home from work wanting to know why I was late. He used to check my phone and delete my friends numbers and often texting them pretending to be me! I knew I had to get out and I did. Never regretted it!
If It was me, I'd tell him to mind his own business to what I got up to, & what has it got to do with him?
Gotta stop dividing us by gender on this issue as it still feels like these groups only assume men can be or are more likely perpetrators of dv which is a massive part of the reason men are less likely to seek help or speak up, from someone who has experienced trauma from a female. Got your backs brothers too? Is there a reason it needs to be divided that way that I am missing? Constantly showing these images of it only being women that are victims isn't helping men in dv situations at all if not worsens it. Stop using gendered terms in these campaigns and get everyone some help and confidence to seek help or speak out.
98% is perpetrated by men dear, grow up stop victim shaming