They say it's a choice but it's more like a complicated maze. So glad YT has shown me your video! It's good for me to listen to British English native speakers because my English philology oral exam is coming.
Hey man, thanks for making this video (because as much as I'm still struggling with denial as a trans man because of my own fears and how men are portrayed in the media and in society in general, plus represented by mainstream feminist circles... I need to learn to accept myself as a guy). People don't even want to admit that they hate marginalised men, racialised men and trans men.
Thanks for sharing and for acknowledging my cis-male lesbianism. I've never felt good as a boy. I was that very odd one that was only around girls since kindergartner. I've had a huge identity crisis that made me ask myself if I wouldn't rather have been a girl in 2003, trans issues (mind me even gay issues actually) weren't even remotely as known as today and even though I have wonderfully open parents and psychological support I couldn't make sense of that until a good decade later. Before I started dating, I always came up to everyone as a proud gay boy in becoming. Yet, despite all my doubts and my quite painful inadequateness to masculinity standards, puberty saw me start having more intimate interest in women only. My first girlfriend raised the idea that I felt more of a lesbian male than the usual straight dude, it first somewhat came up as a joke, but that joke extended to my next girlfriends and at some point, I realized most of my close friends and family casually defined me as lesbian and started to think it maybe was a sign they genuinely had found a more adequate word than straight to define the oddity that my identity was. But lgtqi+ comrades only give a quick laugh to that idea when they even care to lend a ear to the cis dude I am. I understand where a portion of them are coming from and I'm certainly saying it's always so. But when you see how primarily misandrist they can become and how unwelcoming they are even to any male-born person that come to say they feel like they've had similar experience and wanna share thoughts, I doubt they'll convince anyone that didn't naturally and intellectually agreed with them on fighting inequalities and stereotypes like I did.
I'm only talking about trans men. Why would I be talking about cis male "lesbians" anyway? Lol Also I don't think it's the fact you're a cis guy, trans men aren't lesbians either.
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They say it's a choice but it's more like a complicated maze. So glad YT has shown me your video!
It's good for me to listen to British English native speakers because my English philology oral exam is coming.
Thank you, good luck on your exam
Hey man, thanks for making this video (because as much as I'm still struggling with denial as a trans man because of my own fears and how men are portrayed in the media and in society in general, plus represented by mainstream feminist circles... I need to learn to accept myself as a guy).
People don't even want to admit that they hate marginalised men, racialised men and trans men.
I just want to say thank you for making this video
thank you for making this video
we must help men
Thanks for sharing and for acknowledging my cis-male lesbianism.
I've never felt good as a boy. I was that very odd one that was only around girls since kindergartner. I've had a huge identity crisis that made me ask myself if I wouldn't rather have been a girl in 2003, trans issues (mind me even gay issues actually) weren't even remotely as known as today and even though I have wonderfully open parents and psychological support I couldn't make sense of that until a good decade later.
Before I started dating, I always came up to everyone as a proud gay boy in becoming. Yet, despite all my doubts and my quite painful inadequateness to masculinity standards, puberty saw me start having more intimate interest in women only. My first girlfriend raised the idea that I felt more of a lesbian male than the usual straight dude, it first somewhat came up as a joke, but that joke extended to my next girlfriends and at some point, I realized most of my close friends and family casually defined me as lesbian and started to think it maybe was a sign they genuinely had found a more adequate word than straight to define the oddity that my identity was.
But lgtqi+ comrades only give a quick laugh to that idea when they even care to lend a ear to the cis dude I am. I understand where a portion of them are coming from and I'm certainly saying it's always so. But when you see how primarily misandrist they can become and how unwelcoming they are even to any male-born person that come to say they feel like they've had similar experience and wanna share thoughts, I doubt they'll convince anyone that didn't naturally and intellectually agreed with them on fighting inequalities and stereotypes like I did.
I'm only talking about trans men. Why would I be talking about cis male "lesbians" anyway? Lol
Also I don't think it's the fact you're a cis guy, trans men aren't lesbians either.