why are y'all so mean to BLACK women/girls...

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  • white men on night mode.
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    HELLOOOOOOOO EVERYONNNNE!!! welcome back to mi channel! in today's video we are going to be talking about social media and its hatred of black women due to misogynoir obviously. we will be discussing events with people like Ari Lennox, Lizzo, and Blue Ivy Carter (the supreme). so if that interests you keep on watching! I love you all and thank you guys so much for watching! -xoxo that bitch
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  • @kdragon713
    @kdragon713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3409

    The people attacking blue ivy are just pathetic

    • @astrobarbzz
      @astrobarbzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      Kk dragon fr a damn child, hoo Chile anyways soooo..

    • @CassieJazz96
      @CassieJazz96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      She's a freaking CHILD. It's so ridiculous to me.

    • @ecjsmith7759
      @ecjsmith7759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      TL;DR: it's because no one, including black people, sees black children as children =/
      So short story, I spent New Year's on a boat with my family and another (white) family. We decided to play a boardgame and have a rule so that the kids can have an advantage. They had a 13 y/o son and 8 y/o daughter, and I have a 15 y/o brother. They really tried to say that my brother can't use that advantage because he isn't a kid. When he's literally only 2 years older than their own "baby". People really don't see black children as children. In the best cases, it's just a little boardgame, in the worst cases, kids are killed 😔
      Oh, and yes, I know it's different for boys and girls

    • @poilapse
      @poilapse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Seems like those pathetic bullies have nothing better to do than to lay in their bed and bully minors until their thumbs decide "That's enough hate speech for today".

    • @ari3732
      @ari3732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Really pathetic, like they have nothing better to do with their lives🙄

  • @bupstar12
    @bupstar12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2775

    how can we be fetishized AND disrespected sm I hAte it here

    • @micahcook2408
      @micahcook2408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

      You’d be surprised..... it’s been happening in the LGBT community with black people too... but that’s another video.

    • @bupstar12
      @bupstar12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @Emma XTC ! very true

    • @bupstar12
      @bupstar12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@micahcook2408 ugh seriously?? when do we get a break🤢

    • @selfcompassionate
      @selfcompassionate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@micahcook2408 ooh chile. i'm _physically_ *sick.*

    • @mauhuff
      @mauhuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      They hate us because they will never be us

  • @victoriaadaini
    @victoriaadaini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1851

    Literally! When Ari said “why is that your Speech?”. It really spoke to me. Why are people so loud about free speech when they are using their words to spew negativity and hate. These people are *PATHETIC!* The absolute weakest links, this fool really tried to say that his tweet about Ari and Teyana wasn’t negative and we just took it that way, *what in the gaslight* And why are there so many shit people on Twitter, GET A JOB!!

    • @micahcook2408
      @micahcook2408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Twitter needs to be deleted

    • @ishlahk
      @ishlahk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Victoria Daini pp

    • @velvetstorm4563
      @velvetstorm4563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Fatima Roah I thought africana grenade was black?

  • @dominique3001
    @dominique3001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1082

    "TEYANA TAYLOR AND ARI LENNOX WERE COMPARED TO ROTTWEILERS! ROTTWEILERS!... I'm trying a new foundation today and I actually have issues with how small this is but later for that... ROTTWEILERS! COMPARED TO DOGS!"
    Me:"Okay, go off sis. Cause I do the same." 😂

  • @overthisshite1373
    @overthisshite1373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1085

    She be like YALL ARE DISGRACEFUL and here’s this Dior foundation I’m trying out lol

    • @jodycochrane888
      @jodycochrane888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      I giggled a little although it's a serious topic, sis went off while promoting 😂

    • @randomperson-de1rs
      @randomperson-de1rs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ikr

    • @donteatmyfood416
      @donteatmyfood416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      bruh this is off topic but I love your usermane and profile pic

    • @angelacooper8973
      @angelacooper8973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok but did you get what she’s saying or do you even give a damn?

    • @JonesyFit
      @JonesyFit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lmao! right?

  • @jeness
    @jeness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2295

    I say this in the kindness way, biracial women do not represent me and I'm tired of seeing women like Zendaya, who I *LOVE* , being forced to be the black women of the entertainment industry because we are still uncomfortable with strong black features. Anyways... it's been a minute since I have seen a good amount of *BLACK WOMEN* in a lead role (ex. Insecure) *especially* for movies that are not about slavery

    • @librarianrose4472
      @librarianrose4472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      Someone had to say it sis☕️

    • @kaciamonique2145
      @kaciamonique2145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      everything you said

    • @k.d3983
      @k.d3983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +299

      As long as black people in our community keep claiming biracials as black, then we're going to keep seeing this foolishness within our community. There is nothing wrong with being biracial or multiracial, so they need to have their OWN spaces and representation, not in black spaces.

    • @tulullawilliams2155
      @tulullawilliams2155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +368

      I am waiting for a day they make a rom-com staring dark skin unambiguous women with no struggle, (i.e no police brutality, no broke dusty, no slavery, no kids, no strong independent stereotypes and no being turned into a frog for 95%) just regular young black women EXISTING.

    • @toriselders9768
      @toriselders9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      THISSSSS!

  • @brenduuhh2000
    @brenduuhh2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3449

    “The most disrespected woman on the planet is the black woman”- Malcolm X

    • @simi6003
      @simi6003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      He aint lying

    • @israsaleh
      @israsaleh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +374

      The saddest part about that quote is it had to come from a man in order to be as widely used and impactful

    • @k.d3983
      @k.d3983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      I would say native American/Indegenious women too or come at an extremely close second. But, it's true black women are definitely disrespected a lot more than other women, especially more so than white women. .-.

    • @mauhuff
      @mauhuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Facts

    • @mauhuff
      @mauhuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      1997 Moomoo why even add that? This video and this person’s comment is about Black women.

  • @mayagaylor9030
    @mayagaylor9030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +925

    "Freedom of speech MY. BOOTY. RIM. YALL CAN CHOKE!"
    Felt that from the pits of my soul.

    • @coqui9879
      @coqui9879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Maya Gaylor EVERY last one of you

  • @victoriaadaini
    @victoriaadaini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1047

    Why won’t people just leave Lizzo alone? People were really under her tweet calling her sensitive for needing to take a break from twitter as if they don’t attack her under *ALL* her tweets, hell they even make their own tweets/memes/videos etc insulting her on the regular. Yet she’s sensitive? She can’t be human and be upset by hundreds literally hundreds of people bullying her daily. The same goes for Ari, can she not be sad when people are constantly criticising her?
    *What in the world is wrong with people?!*

    • @DeezNuts-cw6sc
      @DeezNuts-cw6sc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      Because it's easy for them to say horrible things to someone from behind a screen.

    • @LangBellsChannel
      @LangBellsChannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      They forget celebrities hear everything they say million times before.

    • @User-xk3nw
      @User-xk3nw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I feel like lizzo is putting on a fake image. I hope she is ok

    • @micahcook2408
      @micahcook2408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Y’all social media is literally hell... phones are fucking addictive and I cannot

    • @Alexis-wg5nx
      @Alexis-wg5nx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Victoria Daini I’ll be real here. Lizzo’s dress incident was really gross and not it and I really don’t appreciate how her fans tried to twist it into some “you hate fat black women” victim narrative. However, it should’ve been left in 2019. That was, what, a month ago? Like, the fact that she’s still being bullied over it (by MEN) is fucking disgusting. Leave the girl alone!

  • @Jasminep111
    @Jasminep111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +903

    As a black girl who has broad features it is actually hard trying to be confident. I'm most insecure about my nose because I feel like it makes me look less feminine. I've never been insecure about my skin color. I'm definitely not light skin but i haven't experienced colorism but imagine that on top of it. Black women who have broader features are always getting called men. And god forbid you have a toned body. Look what they do to Serena Williams. Its okay for black men to have wide noses and big lips but black women get ridiculed for it. It's a hard knock life for us.

    • @DanielleP0314
      @DanielleP0314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      Jasmine same!!! I’m a brown skin black girl and I’ve never really felt ignored or insecure about my skin color, more so for being a geek or a nerd and liking music and anime lol. But still. It breaks my heart to see so many black women feel deeply depressed over men treating them like isht for being their natural black selves.

    • @ifeesinachionuorah9938
      @ifeesinachionuorah9938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Preach

    • @ivyrainbitch
      @ivyrainbitch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I have a big nose as well and it makes me feel ugly

    • @kadensmike8190
      @kadensmike8190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Look, don't place value on stupid male opinion!! It's okay for anyone to have wide noses and sumptuous lips. Black men with sexist views of black women until we all challenge their assumptions. The thing is many men see female partners as trophies - they want what other men value. You'd be surprised at how many men get off on other men envying their female partners. I hope you find a man who isn't an idiot!! ;)

    • @jemmastar5649
      @jemmastar5649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Jasmine it really is. But lemme tell you, girl you’re probably out there SLAYING YOUR LOOK. KEEP BEING CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF. I WILL ALWAYS STAND BY YOU SIS ❤️❤️

  • @takeyaoliver1384
    @takeyaoliver1384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +762

    Sis really said “it smells REALLY good...it smells like chemicals” ....HUH?!

    • @nylamichelle3268
      @nylamichelle3268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Takeya Oliver i related so much because i love the smell of gasoline and chemicals too.

    • @Bdognintendo777
      @Bdognintendo777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She made several points

    • @stophatingmichael6767
      @stophatingmichael6767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nyla Michelle me too since I was a kid

    • @sophiaulysse6689
      @sophiaulysse6689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So you never sniffed bleach or a dry erase marker to smell it’s chemicals to get height off of?

    • @autumn0378
      @autumn0378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nyla Michelle’s Teen couponing same I don’t know why but my sisters and I love that smell.

  • @ledriaunnaweary8583
    @ledriaunnaweary8583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    Colorism is VERY REAL! My first cousin who swear im his favorite cousin just told me he dont date darkskins cause he think they are ugly.... and im darkskinned and he thought about it once he said it and was like he aint mean it like that. Yes you did its fine just dont talk to me nomo🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Girlintheewild
      @Girlintheewild 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Ledriaunna Weary that’s fucked up! And you’re very beautiful btw

    • @ledriaunnaweary8583
      @ledriaunnaweary8583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Sanders thank you💕 so are you

    • @ledriaunnaweary8583
      @ledriaunnaweary8583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      bkchic4life right but ppl will easily believe lies when the truth is right there🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @shanquill9091
      @shanquill9091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Omg your so pretty😩

    • @kyliahood2205
      @kyliahood2205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      you're beautiful girl.

  • @strudelh
    @strudelh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +778

    I cant with these intros Amanda lmao 😂👋

    • @Feliciatanktop
      @Feliciatanktop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      StrudelDaddi I burst out laughing 💀💀💀

    • @cherie5913
      @cherie5913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      the camila one really had me crying laughing i-

  • @tytwi450
    @tytwi450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    3:59
    Nobody:
    Amanda in the middle of calling out racism and misogyny:
    ROTTWEILERS 😡
    I’m trying this new foundation today ✨😊
    ROTTWEILERS 😡

    • @CrazyFai
      @CrazyFai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I love her so much😭😭😭😭

  • @abog_6205
    @abog_6205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    i love how she goes in between ranting about atrocities and then describing her products lmao love her

  • @amariafields3270
    @amariafields3270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    What makes the Teyana Taylor situation worse is a BLACK man made those comments.

    • @stanfatou2002
      @stanfatou2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Micheal Johnson oof...

    • @wmnmp3
      @wmnmp3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Amaria Fields they dnt realise the way they treat us allows other non blacks to co sign and disrespect mono racial (dark skinned) black women fr fr

    • @sophiaulysse6689
      @sophiaulysse6689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Micheal Johnson it’s really all down to self hate ugh this world is fucked up can’t we just appreciate everyone and ourselves

    • @CC-rm9uq
      @CC-rm9uq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Micheal Johnson yall are the weakest links. your up under everybody's comments trying to deflect from the issue at hand.

    • @drippingpeaches3056
      @drippingpeaches3056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish nothing but teyvoodoo on that sore loser ✨💅🏿

  • @gymeni
    @gymeni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    They did it to Michelle, Sasha and Malia Obama when their husband and dad was President.

  • @brenduuhh2000
    @brenduuhh2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +595

    The relentless bullying of black women needs to STOP! Can we just be happy being the most educated group of people in America?!

    • @MarjorieStewartBaxter
      @MarjorieStewartBaxter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      BM won't let us. They're jealous. Their constant vitriol is the result

    • @kadensmike8190
      @kadensmike8190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Judging by my daughters' experiences the struggles continue!

    • @martikabraidbar394
      @martikabraidbar394 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I Agree ❤

    • @annt.7785
      @annt.7785 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now the famous fake pastors are going against us, and telling the world that everyone should hate us. We can't just live our lives, because black men will go against us no matter what we do. 😔

  • @najamcgowan4059
    @najamcgowan4059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    “White men on night mode” when I tell you I felt that!!! Your content is just... *chefs kiss*

    • @audramcdonaldapologist3676
      @audramcdonaldapologist3676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Jeremy Jones You wish that we were obsessed with you but we are too busy being black queens 👸🏿

    • @audramcdonaldapologist3676
      @audramcdonaldapologist3676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Jeremy Jones What does “you people?” Mean....🤔 can you explain that Jeremy? Or is it just some racist crap coming out of your mouth again?

    • @audramcdonaldapologist3676
      @audramcdonaldapologist3676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Jeremy Jones If anything it’s white men that are obsessed with us...but okay 👌🏾

    • @msgirly6827
      @msgirly6827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@audramcdonaldapologist3676 i love how you are dragging little jeremy everywhere you see him. Yess queen 👑❤

    • @Fuzzy_Slippers111
      @Fuzzy_Slippers111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jeremy Jones You are literally on a video about black some yet WE’RE obsessed?!? Chile- anyways.

  • @fantasticplanet2002
    @fantasticplanet2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    its because we are and were always at the butt of the joke. these people can't STAND to see us succeed. we could breathe and apparently, we have done something wrong

    • @jemmastar5649
      @jemmastar5649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hosanna Pwasanga RIGHT?? ITS ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS

    • @martikabraidbar394
      @martikabraidbar394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That Is Exactly what it Is

  • @jaydinamari685
    @jaydinamari685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    i couldn’t understand how people watched that live of ari in tears & were able to laugh at her . like it made me emotional , how can people black men in particular listen to celebrities from ari to lupita to even their own girlfriends & mothers talk about the self hate they were taught at such a young age & watch their tears & not feel any type of sorrow or empathy or sympathy. it’s truly disgusting . it makes it worst cause you’ll go to these men profiles & they have daughters who look like the black women they make a joke out of . what are they teaching their daughters ? what are their daughters subconsciously taking in from their “jokes”. i hope they take their money they take from scamming & invest in a sociology 101 class or at least just buy the textbook and educate themselves .

    • @runawaypacman
      @runawaypacman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I think people laughed at ari instead of sympathizing with her partially because of the STRONG black women stereotype.men view black women especially dark skin women as boarder line men ,that's why when black women are variable men see it as weakness and clown black women like they do to another man.

    • @_alanawalker
      @_alanawalker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      jaydin amari it’s so sad.. they would lose their shit if someone treated their daughters like that

  • @juratory8876
    @juratory8876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +522

    A black woman on Twitter said this and it stuck with me: "Black women should refrain from society and let it collaspe. Focus on self-preservation." I think it's about time we stop playing the hero, caretaker, fetish, "spirit animal", and emotional punching bags for those around us. From here on out, we're putting ourselves as black women first and foremost. Everyone else can deal with their problems on their own, as far as I'm concerned.

    • @femininechaos4931
      @femininechaos4931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Black women make up like what? 6% of the population in America? I’m sure we’ll be fine.

    • @queentobe6721
      @queentobe6721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Valerie Martin You’re going to be surprised. We hold more together than you think.

    • @juratory8876
      @juratory8876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@queentobe6721 Agreed.

    • @juratory8876
      @juratory8876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@femininechaos4931 As everyone else keeps voting for corrupt politicians and regressive policies that will deteriorate our society as you know it. Our voting power as black women (we have the greatest voting power out of any other group in the United States) won't be wasted trying to "save" the rest of you, as you continuously fuck yourselves over. 😊

    • @femininechaos4931
      @femininechaos4931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Juratory You claim we have the greatest voting power but over 90% of black women voted for Trump and he still won 🤔 hmm

  • @nicole-te3sn
    @nicole-te3sn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +554

    amanda, thank you for the content you’ve been providing us with
    youtube is highkey running dry

    • @shay4988
      @shay4988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Facts!! 😩 Her, AsToldByKenya, Chrissie, Jouelzy, For Harriet, NappyHwadedJojoba, AdrianXpression, Shallon Lester, and Calvin Michaels are the only reasons I still regularly watch TH-cam

    • @dalisophiri7675
      @dalisophiri7675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shay4988 don't forget honest

    • @beautyandfashion1563
      @beautyandfashion1563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shay BRUH WHY DID YOU NAME EVERYONE I WATCH

    • @qutielove2208
      @qutielove2208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@shay4988 You forgot my favorites Troycetv, IamEloho and TheeMadoiselle

  • @bryyyyy
    @bryyyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +424

    Black men GENUINELY need to figure out the problems with themselves and their self hate issues so they can stop this nonsense🥴 also I hear your accent peaking through and it’s so funny😂

    • @micahcook2408
      @micahcook2408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Truth 😪 black parents need to start treating their children better too, it really starts at home and in the community.. this shit is just a mess all the way around

    • @juratory8876
      @juratory8876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @Micheal Johnson Or maybe that's some highly presumptuous bullshit stemming from whatever stereotypes you've learned about us from TV or movies, or some of the women you grew up with? Get over yourself.

    • @queentobe6721
      @queentobe6721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Micheal Johnson Black women spent 500 years growing balls because men like you don’t have any.

    • @Thula_Impala96
      @Thula_Impala96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Agreed! Starts at home and a lot of lil boys have never had a father or positive male role model at growing up anyway. All they saw was mama being treated like trash consistently and expect women to tolerate bad behavior like their mama did

    • @minzyxox7612
      @minzyxox7612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@queentobe6721 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jeness
    @jeness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    Abby Lee in the beginning 😂 Some black men love to force their insecurities about blackness onto us and you dont even need to imagine how tired we are Amanda 😖

    • @micahcook2408
      @micahcook2408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It’s such an issue and mess all around... parents need to start truly loving their children and stop treating black kids like mini 40 year olds, or this shit is not going to end.

  • @chrisromero58
    @chrisromero58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    “i hope i insterted that clip” you didnt but its okay, the facts from you were all i needed

  • @braxtonbudd4235
    @braxtonbudd4235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    not the new york accent on the word “dogs”😩😩

    • @br3akstuff
      @br3akstuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i love it

  • @landlovessky
    @landlovessky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    It's genuinely disgusting the amount of hate people harbor for black women living their lives. Black women can't have an opinion, always gotta protect the community, always gotta put others before themselves. Can't be fat, dark skinned black women cannot be beautiful, can't be funny. We can't be graceful, little black girls aren't allowed to be young. We express all of this and suddenly WE'RE the bad guy. Like no???? I refuse to see anymore black women in trauma???? Worst part is some of our biggest enemies are other black women caping for the black men and non-blacks who do this to us.

    • @bloopdaddy
      @bloopdaddy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God bless.

  • @khxliakhxlia3605
    @khxliakhxlia3605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    I honestly feel like I'll never find love because of my skin color.

    • @victoriaadaini
      @victoriaadaini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      khxlia khxlia Of course you will, Honey! You’re beautiful and these types of people aren’t the kind you want falling in love with you anyway.

    • @suoutubez19
      @suoutubez19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      khxlia khxlia ❤️❤️❤️❤️ hope you see your inner and outer beauty, queen

    • @alexisaspy2429
      @alexisaspy2429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      khxlia khxlia aww you will! You will find someone who loves you and your beautiful skin. ❤️ I know how it feels to be discouraged by having dark skin. It can be tough but you can push through it

    • @femblvd3114
      @femblvd3114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      This broke my heart to read but girl don’t think that. There is someone out there for you and they will show it and embrace it because they love you for you and not the physical aspects of you. Don’t let the negative self hating side of people discourage you from that,they need to learn to love themselves. And if you find where you’re appreciated most it’ll attract the love you deserve the most

    • @awkwardletter9533
      @awkwardletter9533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      You find love when you decide to love yourself the way you are! 😘

  • @felixqwq8370
    @felixqwq8370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    i ran here so fast... i wanted to know if u we’re going to add about how some of the black women in the cosplay community have been harassed for “not being accurate” and the “ your the n - word version” of the character.. the title/video just reminded me of this ,,there’s a article about this (if u did i’m sorry to bring it up again.. i was watching while typing this)
    - thenerdywoc.home.blog/2019/12/16/a-serie-of-bullying-tweets-raise-conversation-about-racism-in-the-cosplayer-community/

    • @khxliakhxlia3605
      @khxliakhxlia3605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Seems very interesting. They're allowed to dress as what they want, it isn't white face😂 just like white people could dress as black characters just dont paint your skin black.

    • @alandriaontheinternet6900
      @alandriaontheinternet6900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah ermm that is a thing. Tuff

    • @alandriaontheinternet6900
      @alandriaontheinternet6900 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@strangehthefail Actually many anime characters are European. But aite.

    • @mimmikibilly
      @mimmikibilly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Technically if that was true even white people should cover their bodies in foundation or tan, because I bet that not all of them have the exact skin tone as most of the clearly above-averagely pale anime characters.

    • @felixqwq8370
      @felixqwq8370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Fruitorsch it’s true! read the article .. they don’t have the same skin tone and it doesn’t matter if they do.. you don’t have to race face / blackface to cosplay and you don’t need to tell black ppl they can’t cosplay bc they skin doesn’t match

  • @Jasminep111
    @Jasminep111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    "White men on night mode" lmaooo.

  • @mauhuff
    @mauhuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Everything you’re stating is true but I’m sure there’ll be some non Black poc coming in to gaslight and detract. 🤷🏿‍♂️😒

    • @mclandekenna
      @mclandekenna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      the norm. people always gaslighting 🤢.

    • @gibsonn2018
      @gibsonn2018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Already some Latinos going “B-but what about us?” And “Well what about when you were mean a Cuban Latina???” Like eww go away

    • @juratory8876
      @juratory8876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@gibsonn2018 Their sense of whataboutism is pathetic.

    • @MarjorieStewartBaxter
      @MarjorieStewartBaxter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      There are other BM here gaslighting too. Get your brothers. y'all never do

    • @mauhuff
      @mauhuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      M. Of course

  • @1234lyndia
    @1234lyndia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    BUT EVERYONE TAKES FROM BLACK WOMEN!!!! MAKES NO SENSE

    • @SitaSita-TeamBigMirr
      @SitaSita-TeamBigMirr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      1234lyndia : We’re the Mothers of this Earth... People always take advantage of “Mother”. Be a bad Mom... They deserve it.

    • @jemmastar5649
      @jemmastar5649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      1234lyndia KENDJDHR RIGHT?? I HEARD SOME PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT KYLIE JENNER TODAY SAYING “Anything that Kylie Jenner does, everyone else does. She’s such a big influencer” WHICH I MEAN IS TRUE BUT ANYTHING THAT BLACK WOMEN DO, KYLIE JENNER WILL DO.

    • @-t9214
      @-t9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      they jealous of us

    • @Babygirllivecam
      @Babygirllivecam 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like what?

  • @princesswells9469
    @princesswells9469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    When she says white men on night mode, does she mean black men?

    • @dolledout8
      @dolledout8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Wells Powell yup

    • @stanfatou2002
      @stanfatou2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ooo

    • @Charmedsas1
      @Charmedsas1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dolledout8 ooo🙊 I didn't know

  • @iceylatte2027
    @iceylatte2027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    random, but i'm so glad your yt channel exists. there aren't a lot of black women on here who discuss these topics and you hit the nail on the head in every video. wishing you nothing but success this year, sis!

  • @nahhbia
    @nahhbia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Why can’t people just leave us alone???? Like???

  • @jelowzee
    @jelowzee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    i'd love to see you talk about blackfishing and blackface. you're so articulate with what you're passionate about and i'd love to see you elaborate on the atrocities that is blackfishing & blackface. also this video captured everything perfectly, it's so important that things like this are talked about

  • @kaylazapata2770
    @kaylazapata2770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    I hate who most people HATE black women but Love black men. That’s crazy. We are goddesses no CRAP.

    • @ivyrainbitch
      @ivyrainbitch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kayla Zapata especially Billie eilish.

    • @seacow4705
      @seacow4705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@ivyrainbitch Billie Eilish hates black women? What? Please elaborate. (Sorry if I sound rude)

    • @jeralinsunflower7300
      @jeralinsunflower7300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Kayla Zapata they really don’t love black men, they fetishize them.

    • @janepaige928
      @janepaige928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ivyrainbitch if this is true then my spider senses were completely on point about her. I could never bring myself to like her/ listen to her music.

    • @ivyrainbitch
      @ivyrainbitch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Jane Paige right; something is off about her and I hope someone call her out on her blaccent

  • @jomi9957
    @jomi9957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Amanda: "im going to insert a clip"
    crickets..

  • @eve2000daley
    @eve2000daley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I'm not trying to ass kiss but you are my absolute FAVORITE TH-camr because you really only need your personality and that IS your content, and that never ceases to entertain me. Amanda, you're doing great sweetie!!

    • @librarianrose4472
      @librarianrose4472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg you’re so pretty I thought that your profile picture was a painting

    • @beautyandfashion1563
      @beautyandfashion1563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Eve Daley girl you are gorgeousss

    • @eve2000daley
      @eve2000daley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@librarianrose4472 Wow lol thank you! You are beautiful ❤️

    • @kamorracousins9952
      @kamorracousins9952 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@librarianrose4472 😅

  • @TheLeah2344
    @TheLeah2344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    We also have to take some responsibility because I remember a few years ago when Blue Ivy was a toddler BLACK WOMEN were ATTACKING Blue Ivy for looking like her dad and her 4c hair. Some of y’all were calling her ugly and nappy headed and a BLACK WOMAN started a CAMPAIGN to comb Blue Ivy’s hair. Don’t try to act like y’all weren’t saying shit. Black women can sometimes be our own WORST enemies and we need hold ourselves ACCOUNTABLE!

    • @DailyPositiveAffirmatives
      @DailyPositiveAffirmatives 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That was so disgusting and I knew it was a black woman who started the petition before her identity was ever revealed.🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Babygirllivecam
      @Babygirllivecam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bc you guys are soo hateful it’s so sad

    • @jaxthewolf4572
      @jaxthewolf4572 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Babygirllivecam So are you

    • @Babygirllivecam
      @Babygirllivecam ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jaxthewolf4572 Lmaoo how

    • @ramses-vici
      @ramses-vici ปีที่แล้ว

      American black women never take accountability for anything, EVER. Ya’ll are a national embarrassment and an international joke. Literally everyone thinks you’re ridiculous. Including BM.

  • @jemilam4406
    @jemilam4406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Thank you for saying this Amanda!! Literally people don’t understand the STRUGGLE to be a blk girl in society, especially in HS (that is predominantly white) My good Nigerian sis coming through! 👏🏾 🇳🇬

  • @tfan850
    @tfan850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Imagine if bey gave blue ivy weave they would claim Beyoncé is sexualizing blue 🙄 they will be damned if they do damned if they don’t

  • @volleyballer1566
    @volleyballer1566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    this is the content youtube was designed for

    • @junesdogdays
      @junesdogdays 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I absolutely agree. This is what should be trending.

  • @TheeEarthQueen
    @TheeEarthQueen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Racism, misogynoir, self hate, low self esteem
    They hate Lizzo bc she’s dark skin, fat and HAPPY. She has a high self esteem and it makes people, in general, very upset to see fat people loving themselves

  • @madiisonniicole
    @madiisonniicole 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    “white men on dark mode” 😂😂 that was actually funny .

  • @VsgKeemie
    @VsgKeemie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    "White men on night mode" 🤣🤣🤣you're a whole mood

  • @endiya.
    @endiya. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Her: “Anyway soo... y’all are pathetic”
    Me:Automatically thumbs up 👍🏾 video 🤣🤣💀💀💀🤣🤣😭

  • @ivyclawz7986
    @ivyclawz7986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I remember when I was 11 or 12, I was told by some people I couldn't dress up as Harley Quinn because I am dark-skinned. I ended up having a meltdown in my mom's car because I felt like no one would like my costume because other people had told me I looked awful. I'm not black, I'm mixed, but have pretty dark skin as I'm half African-American and half Mexican.

  • @DanielleP0314
    @DanielleP0314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I’m a brown skin black girl and I’ve never really felt ignored or insecure or torn down about my skin color, more so for being a geek or a nerd and liking rock music and anime lol. But still. It breaks my heart to see so many black women feel deeply depressed over men treating them like isht for being their natural black selves.

    • @SharonBoo0305
      @SharonBoo0305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      why do black people need to tear each-other down so much? I'm mixed and very light-skinned but enjoy hiking, nature, rock music & edm and have been given side eye for it by....other BLACK people, not non-black people. They need to quit that shit. It's a big reason that despite being half-black, I distance myself from the community.

    • @ponderingmyexistence3884
      @ponderingmyexistence3884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      For me it's the same. I'm light/brown skin but I have African features, the nose, lips, body ect. But I don't fit in because all my interests aren't stereotypically black. I like rock and metal music in addition to rap and r&b. I like watching anime and reading lovecraftian novels. I'm interested in computer programming. Whenever I interact with other black teens my age, I act too white or I'm too weird. What some fail to understand is that their is no defined way to be black, only stereotypes enforced by generations of ignorance and the media.

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are pretty light and you do not even have the usual features of black people like big lips. You are also really young looking so people don't want police called. Most very young black women don't encounter as much disrespect.

  • @Pagesandperfumes
    @Pagesandperfumes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    What annoyed me the most with the Ari situation was how Joe Budden set on his podcast and insinuated that Ari had low self esteem for addressing the tweet. So one hand black women are told we are too masculine and not vulnerable or feminine. Yet when we let our guard down and become vulnerable and ask for the support of black men to defend her she's told she has low self esteem. This is why we are not vulnerable we DON'T FEEL SAFE. If I can't count on my community to protect me why would I let my guard down

  • @ShaneTheCreative
    @ShaneTheCreative 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Amanda having the conversations that need to be had! 👏🏿🗣the amount of online hate Black women have been receiving over the past couple of months have had me so disgusted and tired of platforms like Twitter where it’s so rampant

    • @Paytttoon
      @Paytttoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I mean literally everyone gets made fun of on the internet. That’s just how it is, and how it will probably be forever.

    • @User-xk3nw
      @User-xk3nw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Paytttoon that does not make it right. The idea of that thinking that something is ok for you to do because you see everyone else doing it, is a sign of a person who still has a child's mentality. A mature adult knows how to think for themself and see wrong from right for themselves.

    • @Queen-ut1dy
      @Queen-ut1dy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Paytttoon
      I mean stop trying to deter the situation.

    • @Paytttoon
      @Paytttoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      minted oil did I ever say it makes it right??? I never said it wasn’t bad.

    • @Paytttoon
      @Paytttoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Queen I’m just saying black woman aren’t the only people who are being bullied. I bet people won’t be making videos on how kids are being made fun of or anything. Or what about Muslim woman??? No one ever really makes videos about that.

  • @shamarkenny
    @shamarkenny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    at this point im ready to fight bcuz this disrespect is getting out of hand

    • @ThebigGLRams
      @ThebigGLRams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It really is...
      I also think people were better of with social media

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ms lady, I got in almost 3 fights this week cause of the disrespect, I can't even hold my tongue anymore.

  • @brittneyjones1763
    @brittneyjones1763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I've been saying this FOREVER. There's this treatment that's wildly spread on how black women are treated. For some reason we're talked down on and aren't approached with respect even by our fellow black men and it's sad. Just the other day a random black guy cursed ne out and blatantly said he was gonna smack my "black ass" and noone even stood by my side. I didn't even do anything I was coming from school and I had a bad day. It's honestly ridiculous and people don't comprehend how much they affect other people.

    • @aaronflowers8881
      @aaronflowers8881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm very sorry to hear that. Yall are still the most beautiful people ever.

    • @drfifteenmd7561
      @drfifteenmd7561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They do, just not how they affect us.

  • @skye7023
    @skye7023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    we literally CANNOT exist on this earth without constant ridicule and HATRED directed at us. there’s no way they would allow us to live peacefully. it makes them UNCOMFORTABLE and THREATENED.

    • @brooklynlondon4383
      @brooklynlondon4383 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      right we got ot go thourgh bullshit everyday

  • @phil6748
    @phil6748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I find it funny that I get this from a lot of black men, then they expect me to be loyal to them. Like am I going to be loyal till I have hunch back ? To people who aren’t loyal to me. They’ll say how they don’t like me but the moment I say the feeling is mutual they loose their shit. Like bro, shut up.

    • @loul2195
      @loul2195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wow that second to last statement is sooo true

    • @junesdogdays
      @junesdogdays 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alot them are quite narcissistic and immature

  • @tlahuelpuchis
    @tlahuelpuchis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    growing up a mexican and black in mexico it really doesn’t happen to mexican women like it does black women but colorism effects everyone down there it’s really weird 😐

    • @bloopdaddy
      @bloopdaddy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      White washed world

  • @essencenoelaniray4174
    @essencenoelaniray4174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Can we also stop giving black women food names please! I am nobodies chocolatey mocha latte!

  • @Don11550
    @Don11550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is why I deleted twitter and I haven’t been on ig like that no more! I’m minding mines and reading more books this year because social media is too toxic for me!!! Hurt people, hurt people!! And I believe the main ones on these social media accounts are hurt as hell!!!🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @superash4u578
    @superash4u578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I hate when someone says "You're gorgeous." And I blush and say thank you! Then they follow it with "So what are you mixed with?" And I'm only a little mixed from r*pe so it really hurts.

    • @femininechaos4931
      @femininechaos4931 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aren’t you black? Like you don’t like mixed?

    • @melaninprincess.5237
      @melaninprincess.5237 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Valerie Martin basically she hates being mixed cause of rape.

    • @superash4u578
      @superash4u578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@melaninprincess.5237 I dont being mixed but the rape part is sad

    • @superash4u578
      @superash4u578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@femininechaos4931 I mean I don't like that I'm mixed because of rape only something consented

  • @kdragon713
    @kdragon713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    The intro killed me lol

  • @bk5600
    @bk5600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Ari Lennox is so fine like dude comment was so uncalled for. I know everybody got different taste but everybody knows big noses are an African American trait so yeah he was trippin.

  • @paige2166
    @paige2166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    just because blue ivy doesn't look exactly like Beyonce, ppl hate on her. She has two parents, she's not gonna look EXACTLY like one parent omg, at least her parents are in her lives.

  • @phishfuud9481
    @phishfuud9481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I get told I look like a poodle because of my afro (I’m lightskin) and to me I think people mean it as a compliment because poodles are fancy looking dogs with poofy hair??? Idk but Ik they don’t mean malice behind it, now calling someone A DARKSKIN WOMAN/WOMEN a Rottweiler a known vicious dog, a dog that’s not a small toy dog, that’s fucking disgusting and you can tell malice is behind it. Me getting called a poodle vs others getting called a Rottweiler is no where near the same. I don’t even know how I would react if I was in their shoes this shows the bias between dark skin women and light skin women, colorism does exist, malice towards dark skinned women exists

    • @burningleo
      @burningleo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Totally agree. If someone gets called like a deer, or fox, or any type of cute animal that’s a compliment, but a Rottweiler or rat is definitely something else. That is definitely just straight up bullying.

    • @Queen-ut1dy
      @Queen-ut1dy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Shit, if I'm a Rottweiler then you're giving me permission to destory your ass 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @israsaleh
    @israsaleh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I used to hate Lizzo cuz she stole a song from a small musician back here in Minneapolis, but when I started hearing about all the unwarranted hate she gets on a daily basis I felt SICK 🤢🤮

    • @bloopdaddy
      @bloopdaddy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @Tommy gibstain did it ever occur to u she's tired of people coming for her so she's biting right back?

    • @googlemeets9672
      @googlemeets9672 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I remember the tiktok slanders of lizzo I thought it was funny but I realize how cruel they were plus I was kid

  • @kikib9091
    @kikib9091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I was strolling on my twitter timeline and one of my followers retweeted a video of Ari crying with barking noises in the background SMH. I didn't even know how to respond...

  • @LoveK1
    @LoveK1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I literally don’t hear about any celebrity scandals or whatever until I get on TH-cam because I be at work. I don’t have time to keep up with everything. It’s funny how you and Kenya say people need jobs to occupy themselves because that’s sooo true. What do people do with their day?

    • @frydiavolo
      @frydiavolo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right? Like I have things to do! I dont have time to keep up with drama!😂

  • @lennygmusic
    @lennygmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The internet should cancel itself

  • @astrobarbzz
    @astrobarbzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Sis always speakin facts

  • @Giuggiulu.
    @Giuggiulu. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I saw a tweet a couple days ago that was like "I would rather do [series of gross humiliating things] than doing X" and among the ~gross humiliating things~ they also listed dating Lizzo and I was like... without even talking about how the racism JUMPED OUT, first of all you must have an ego the size of Russia to think she would ever grace you with even a glance
    And second of all as a lesbian I would be more than happy to do that in your place 👀

  • @megan7663
    @megan7663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I honestly feel sorry for Black women, this video has brought to light so many problems that most people don’t acknowledge or understand. The fact that people were calling Ari Lennox and Teyana Taylor Rottweilers is just plain disgusting and takes being disrespectful to a whole other level. Furthermore, Lizo didn’t deserve all the abuse and hate she was and still is receiving. And people wonder why mental health issues are rising because Twitter and the people who use it are TOXIC. I can whole heartedly say that I agree with Amanda when she said the app needs to be deleted because it is a cesspool of toxicity. People need to just grow up and stop being blatantly racist and disrespectful to black people, ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN.
    Love your videos, by the way. 🥰

  • @adityathokchom5280
    @adityathokchom5280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Imagine the trauma blue will possibly endure once she's all grown up and knows what people have been saying about her all over the world

  • @chasebarber10
    @chasebarber10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So my little brother is very dark skinned (beautiful tone) and I'm light skinned. When I was little I was always envious of his skin tone bc it's just beautiful, but I would always think to myself that as a girl I needed to be light skinned and that dark only looked good on men. Luckily I grew out of that thinking long ago, but just the fact that this thought was established into my mind at such a young age is terrifying bc lots did not grow out of that mindset.

  • @saigie3908
    @saigie3908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Men (especially black men): I want a woman with *confidence*
    *Black women who loves herself*
    Them: Nah not you
    😐

  • @micaylad6651
    @micaylad6651 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Your intros are the only ones I actually enjoy.

  • @BlackGothGirl1
    @BlackGothGirl1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    A black boy in my last year of middle school called me a man because I had a dark upper lip. He also called me a gorilla. He was overweight and not so good looking. I'm in college and I see black men with white girls.

  • @CassandraBerko
    @CassandraBerko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    off topic but the new york really be jumping out lmao

  • @nyquismorgan
    @nyquismorgan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love the way Amanda switches from discussing the topic to describing the products she’s using. She’s so fluid with it and does it at the best moments. 😂👌🏾

  • @landlovessky
    @landlovessky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    side note: some of the jokes and disses you had in here had me CACKLING

  • @princess_tamia_25
    @princess_tamia_25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I truly pray for Blue Ivy’s mental health and self esteem. No wonder Bey got her a confidence coach. I will protect her because society hates black girls. She’s adorable and I love her so much. The hate that she’s gotten is they same reason she doesn’t show Rumi and Sir. It’s unfortunate but I see why.

  • @brianaguirre2774
    @brianaguirre2774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i was listening to the dirty computer album earlier and specifically when i was listening to django jane i thought so much about what has happened over the past few days/weeks with twitter speaking out the side of their necks and spouting hate towards black women. it’s gotten so old and tired now and it’s really unfortunate that when social media is at its prime (in terms of promoting, branding, etc.) people are literally being bullied off of these platforms that have become essential towards building up your brand. i don’t even think “bullying” begins to cover the disgusting behavior that people have projected on these women, and FOR no reason at that. truly sick and twisted.

  • @hallg07
    @hallg07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've accepted that nobody is "my ppl", not even black ppl unfortunately

  • @numacamara
    @numacamara 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    People really have the time of day to bully black women and girls on the internet. Could never be me

  • @asecretchannel4135
    @asecretchannel4135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Miss Kenya's "Why are y'all so mean to Blue Ivy"s video in my recommendation too

  • @simplynautica3233
    @simplynautica3233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amanda I cannot explain how much I appreciate your channel. Thank you for centering, defending, accurately explaining us. Watching your videos is literally like yelling in a mirror with my reflection. I’ve had to pause this video to rant on side tangents like 5 times already and I’m not even halfway through the video. Best channel on this big red app period!!!!!

  • @amariafields3270
    @amariafields3270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yasss you took my suggestion! Colorism is real...

  • @d.dajone
    @d.dajone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love how all my fav black commentary channels (Troyce, Kenya, Keisha, Amanda, Eloho ,etc) show each other love in their vids and direct their subscribers to each other. Love seeing black people supporting each other 💕

    • @frydiavolo
      @frydiavolo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      All of them should do a video together. Or just start a commentary house.💜

  • @toomuchpassion2361
    @toomuchpassion2361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Black men literally do the least, THE LEAST, to support the black women who have supported them their entire goddamn lives.

    • @givenchymuse5444
      @givenchymuse5444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Which is why we should stop. Just only support black women only cuz at the end of the day black women are alone in this. Save ur engery for when they(black men) leave us hanging when our issuse happen. Until black men/other groups defend /support black women esp the darker ones we should just support ourselfs and not fight anyone elses battles ESP BLACK MEN

    • @ramses-vici
      @ramses-vici ปีที่แล้ว

      The only thing BW do for BM is insult, nag, and berate them. It’s no wonder they can’t stand you. No one can.

  • @francestorblue5617
    @francestorblue5617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Its weird because Black Women are actually the most powerful women especially coming from the slavery and segregation days. Rosa Parks, Ruby Bridgets, etc. even in the current events they constantly have to rebuttall, argue and discuss everyday their selfworth and how important they are. Black Women are not supposed to constantly tell people to stop degrading them.

    • @gracielakh
      @gracielakh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Frances Torblue the most powerful women are from all colours!!! I’m Bulgarian and I’m white we have a lot of powerful WHITE Bulgarian women as well... so I absolutely disagree that black women are the most powerful

    • @joyyy4413
      @joyyy4413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don’t forget Covette Colvin! She was to refuse her seat to a white person, spread the word!

    • @janethebluemouse
      @janethebluemouse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gratsiela Smith have white Bulgarian women been racially discriminated against for 400+ years and belittled for their features?

    • @francestorblue5617
      @francestorblue5617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gracielakh Thank you. I am aware that alot of Women of different colors are powerful. Trust me I know 😉. Sometimes you need to step back and see why we should compliment African American Women. Because while the world tells them they are ugly, the ones who know is not true should help to uplift them. I am not saying that Black Women are powerful just to make them more superior than other women, I am just trying to uplift and go against the hatred and the unequality that they face 😁. I hope you understand. Women should uplift other Women, Men should uplift Women and vise versa.

    • @francestorblue5617
      @francestorblue5617 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joyyy4413 Thank you, I did not know that 😁.

  • @MostOfMiree
    @MostOfMiree 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve wanted to do a video on this FOR SO LONGG!! 😭😭 But i was kinda scared to because people look at me like I’m a little itty bitty child and can’t speak on such topics (granted yes i am technically still a child I’m only 17) but I am old enough to form my own opinions on controversial topics and you took the words RIGHT out of mouth with this video. I APPRECIATE THIS SO MUCH.

  • @flxwercxrpse1871
    @flxwercxrpse1871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love your channel and “i am eloho”’s channel. It helps educate me more and also has made me realize so much more things that go on or notice things i didn’t notice. I wish more people would see these videos

  • @remichloegoyo
    @remichloegoyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    People need to stop treating black women like we’re monsters because we are human beings just like everyone else and we have feelings. The hate against black women needs to stop it’s getting ridiculous! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

    • @aaronflowers8881
      @aaronflowers8881 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've been saying this for the longest. It really pisses me off. Yall are beautiful and strong.

  • @saffy771
    @saffy771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wtf, Blue Ivy is just a cute little girl. Plastic surgery? Are you kidding me? The fact they even think that way about a little kid is so messed up

  • @boostedboosted3088
    @boostedboosted3088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Jealousy. That’s it. Jealously. Main cause.

  • @dinaras2900
    @dinaras2900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your channel is the best thing happened to me in 2019 honesty

  • @HaileyDanielle
    @HaileyDanielle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    people really have nothing better to do, it's just sad

  • @anterine31
    @anterine31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for this content. 💕 Like honestly we need to start talking about this because people are really acting like it doesn’t exist, but it does. We cannot keep acting like we’ve resolved this racist issue because it’s 2020 and we still haven’t.

  • @diosyxoxo
    @diosyxoxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the part where you get upset at the end actually really hit me to be honest, you looked really disturbed and honey i’m with you !! all the hate she was getting on twitter was kinda fucking me up, i had to leave twitter as well cause it was triggering me. it’s crazy how she receives all this hate...just because she just so happens to be big and finds comfort in that...fat people aren’t allowed to be blessed and confident? i’m glad she’s back on twitter now tho 😌 but still can’t believe they were all celebrating after she announced her break, i was actually completely unaware of this until i watched this video, she must’ve announced it when i bounced too..just wow...if only we had this energy for people who actually deserved it.

  • @twice_velvet
    @twice_velvet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i personally have never been though anything like that but makes me so sad to see others go through it, especially with what happened to lizzo.

  • @Zz_topp469
    @Zz_topp469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You are SLAYYYINGG AMANDA👏🏽✨