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This has to be the most selfless act of love! Him protecting you at all cost. Physically and mentally. He’s happy with the life you’ve provided for him.
So he’s willing to make sure you have nothing to worry about during intimacy.
As a woman, who has suffered multiple miscarriages - almost passed away in one. Finally got her miracle baby, I understood when you said you almost saw death.
Till this day - intimacy is so hard. Because I fear getting pregnant again. I can only do so much, I’ve hinted Vasectomy to my husband, but for him I think it’s a pride thing in not moving forward with it.
Nancy hopefully one day your husband will change his mind. If it’s a pride thing, no one has to know. That’s between you and him🙏🏻.
Same. My husband macho personality doesn't let him see the whole picture.
He cheated he owes her that
It’s okay to only have two baby’s or one or none! People need to understand everyone has different mindsets. Never put down a mom because she no longer wants kids or doesn’t want kids at all.
Happy for you guys JAS!💗 you have two beautiful girls you get to focus on & cherish every moment.🥰
He’s a trooper! My husband decided to get one and it was the best decision ever!!! He said I went through a lot after 3 births and it was the least he could do. So happy everything went smoothly! ❤
I’m glad he thinks that way… After having 2 kids & 10 years of birth control, I want to try going off birth control BUT when bringing up a vasectomy to my husband he said ABSOLUTELY NOT. He doesn’t even want to go in for a consultation.
@@evelyncruz9281 girl get tubal ligation
Thank you for sharing you story. I cried when you talked about Kai’s birth. Hopefully this is a wake up call for everyone so quick to question or judge your decision when it has zero affect on their lives. It’s best for you and your family. We’re all lucky to have you here with us!!! ❤❤❤ y salud a Valentín por haciendo su parte 🎉
This !!!💯 👆🏽people don’t realize how dangerous giving birth is in general !
I love the way Valentin speaks about his wife and his family. You can definitely see that Homs family comes first before himself. Thank you for sharing this🫶🏼
Can we have more videos like this with Valentin ? He speaks with so much respect and wisdom.
It’s so freshening to see a man express himself so unselfishly and be mature in making this decision for himself but ultimately his family. May God continue to bless your marriage, home, and family!
Im Not Even Half Way Through The Video But When Valentin Said "Antes De Ser Papa Fui Novio Fui Esposo Mi Prioridad Tambien Es La Salud De Mi Esposa"
I BALLED MY EYES OUT !!!
Yasmin You Got Yourself A True Man
& Valentin MIS RESPETOS PARA TI Porque Hombres Como Tu Ya No Hay.
Im 34 and I still don’t know if I want or can have babies. It terrifies me to even think about it 😭 I give moms so many props and respect, you guys are true heroes and so strong!! This was very educational. Thank you for sharing your experiences 🤍
You better get checked now that ur still young. I’m 43 and struggling to get pregnant. 😢
It’s not just the pain you go through. Having kids is very rewarding but also very painful. Seeing them suffer seeing them sick 😔.
Props to the both of you . This is very responsible & partner supportive of you two 🙌
One of the best videos I’ve ever seen. So personal but informational. And everything you said makes me admire you even more. It’s no game to have children. To see you both handle this with maturity, and naturallt being on the same page is admirable! Way to go Valentin and Yasmin❤ Jaylin & Kai have the best parents! ❤
Congrats to Valentin !
My Husband did his 15 years ago. We have 3 kiddos. 2 boys & last one girl!
We always agreed having just 3 children.
He said, you have gone through 2 normal labors & 1 C-section now it's my Turn ❤
Now that's a good Husband 👍🏻
You’re so blessed. You have such a good man and you can see that he really loves you and his family ❤ blessings 🙏🏻✨✨
Gracias Valentín por compartir tu experiencia públicamente, puesto que si es un tema Taboo 💙 deberíamos normalizar esto, que mas hombres tomen la rienda y cuiden a su esposa si ella ya les dió hijos
yo tengo una cuñada ke al ver como. batallo con su segundo hijo no la pensó 2 veses y se opero y 5 años después keria tener otro bebé y hasta entró en depresión porque eya keria más pero por esos minutos de dolor ke sintió tomo la decisión duro años en depresión hasta ke se dio por vencido ya su bebé tiene 18 nomas con 2 se quedo
Fijate y yo nunca he tenido la necesidad de cuidarme con nada, me casé con un hombre asexual! Jamás había escuchado que existian personas asi, y menos que me iva a tocar un esposo asi a mi, llevamos 4 años casados, y yo creo que hemos tenido sexo solamente como 10 veces o menos sin mentir. Yo tengo 28 años y el 34 años.
He’s such a good man reminds me a lot of my husband i just adore y’all!! ❤
Es realmente admirable el apoyo que se tienen uno a otro y la decisión tan sabía que tomaron, bendiciones para su hermosa familia ❤
My significant other and I have been discussing this as well bc I have health issues and birth control has been hard on my body. Thank you for sharing ❤
Thank you for sharing this experience! 💞 My husband’s appt is coming up. We have 4 kids already & also in a way doing it for me 🥲. These men that take us into consideration are so amazing! He jokes he’s getting neutered but he’s ready.
Me encanta la humildad de valentin siendo ciudadano, prefiere hablar el español, felicidades y que valiente 👏 Valentin ❤
Si,y si el habla español es bueno que le pongan subtítulos en inglés , pero si ella prefiere hablar inglés ,debería poner subtítulos en español..mi humilde opinión!!..
@@gabigarcia2449 y veo que a perdido suscriptor@s por lo mismo de que no habla español ☹️
@@lauhernande14 alcontrario, creo tiene poco que llegó al millon no?
@@irmamireyacastellanosceja2073 la verdad no se ya no veo mucho su contenido 🥲
@@lauhernande14 cierto , la seguiría pero no le entiendo bien.🤷🏼♀️
Girl! There is only so much we see on your channel and you telling your story with Kai, I was balling tears, your are one strong mama and I’m glad your husband was able to keep strong with you and be there to support you and keep it positive thoughts when you were going through it. He is such an amazing husband and father and you are an amazing mother and wife, love your family♥️♥️♥️♥️Thank you for the subtitles as well!😁😁😁
Great decision, Valentin! My husband got a vasectomy as well a few years back. I love him so much more for doing so! God bless your family!
girl he’s SOO good to you may god bless y’all’s relationship always💗
For the English subtitles I appreciate that
I understand you perfectly. I wanted 2 kids but after my first child I was told to be super careful because my blood pressure went up super high and that can make me have a heart attack. So we decided to one have one my 1 and only daughter. Tough decision but thank God I am a mother to a beautiful 5 year old girl and I am ok with that. She's my world
I’m glad you talked about this and when you mentioned you feel death you do, I wanted to tell my husband take care of her I love you but I didn’t say bye to him when I walked to the room I wasn’t ready to say that unfortunately my baby passed away and it has been the most difficult situation ever.
Felicidades Valentín por ser un gran hombre y esposo a la Beauty bird
Never really knew what you really went through with Kai. 😢 also kudos to Valentin for getting a vasectomy. No muchos hombres think that’s it’s “manly” to do
If you ever want to later in life go through surrogacy you still will be to. Vasectomies are reversible and you can freeze your eggs. But at the end of the of the day you would definitely need to mentally prepare yourself for that.
Y’all’s story is so great! ❤
You weren’t given the information after Jayleen, but God said, hold on, it’s because I have another angel I’m going to bless you with, and I personally feel so thankful and blessed that you open up your life to let us watch them grow up! It’s an honor and a blessing to be a part of your guys family! You did what was best for you and your body, I love yours and ValentineS relationship, it’s so pure and honest, probably one of the most pure and honest real and raw, social media presented relationships, you both have so much love for each other, and respect, and that’s some thing that’s beautiful to watch! Thank you so much for letting us into your life, thank you for letting us watch your babies grow up! And thank you honestly for taking the time to make us aware of the situation, and for updating us! God bless! Y que Dios les bendiga a sus hijas!💜💜👨👩👧👧🙏🏼🙏🏼
Me gusta mucho la mentalidad que tienen. Yo igual con mi esposo tenemos una hija y pensamos igual que ustedes. Mucha gente tiene hijos por tener pero es una responsabilidad muy grande. Aparte es muy bonito dedicarles el tiempo a ellos.
Aww he’s so supportive I love to see it 🥹 your health definitely comes first!! You guys are blessed with your 2 beautiful girls💕💕
Gracias por compartir su historia 😊muy buena desicion tienes tus 2 bebes y gracias a Dios estan bien. Valentin todo un hombre ❤Dios los bendiga! Y que lindo que tengas un apoyo asi.
I’m crying 😢 thanks for sharing your story and your husbands story with us.!!!
Thank you for sharing your story with Kai, I got chills knowing first hand a mother's love.
I have experienced that dark moment in my life I wish you nothing but eternal blessings!
La verdad Que viejo tan chingon y amoroso tienes Yas! the way he loves you and that he did this to take care of you is amazing! i love you guys! Y ahora si a chocar carritos sin preocuparse lol ♥
What a good man you have by your side.
Thank you for this video. And an even bigger thank you for putting subtitles! 😍 You're a real one for doing that girl. Those of us who don't understand Spanish, I'm sure appreciate you doing that. It's nice to know what Valentin is saying. You guys are a lovely couple and wonderful parents. God Bless you and your beautiful family. I love sit down videos like this. Very informal but interesting to watch. Thank you for opening up to us and sharing your story. 🩷 Valentin is a good man and great husband. 💙 You're very lucky Yas! Love you guys. 🥰
I pushed and dilated to 10cm and ended up with a c-section. Hemorrhaged and was hospitalized 10 days. Crazy! My husband still doesn’t want to do a vasectomy so now I’m on an iud even after I explained the damage I felt I would get. Pero sólo Dios sabe yo también que quedaré con mis dos niños y uno en el cielo. ❤
How is your experience with iud? I just got mine put inside me and have cramps since then ! Does it get better?
I know you didn’t need to do this and you definitely didn’t owe us an explanation but THANK YOU to the both of you for this very transparent and honest conversation. I got teary eyed at some points because I completely get what it feels to think you’ll have a really big family and to come to terms that two is just enough for you both. I’m in the same boat. My fiancé is about to get his vasectomy after my three pregnancies- we have two babies earthside and one that’s in heaven. But your health comes first and I admire your husband for being so understanding, supportive, and loving throughout all this. You both are so blessed to have one another. Que dios los bendiga XOXO ❤
I’m getting tears just from hearing you we understand your health is best
I like his Spanish so good
I love that he’s a supportive husband! Yes whatever is meant to be will be. I had my kids natural and that was traumatic so I can only imagine. I’m so glad you got through that experience.
Love how you guys dealt with that and my respects for him for stepping up to do the vasectomy. You have a beautiful family 🙏🏼many blessing to your gorgeous Girls💕 Saludos
Your daughters will have kids in the future and they will help make you expand your family and you guys will live your big family dream through them. 😊
Valentin is a true MAN to recognize all these things woman go thru , hes golden!
Thank you for sharing your video! 🫶🏻 going to be showing my hubby this. We already have a boy and girl and I feel like we’re done. Love ya beauty bird💕
I’m currently 14 weeks pregnant .. I’ve been pregnant 6 times but this will be my 5th baby .. all my babies have been c sections .. I made the hard decision to tell my doctor that after having this baby I want my tubes tied .. it was a hard decision and I’m still crying about it but every time I have a c section my body takes a toll .. I totally understand you guys ❤
Apoco querias mas de 5 hijos?
Omg love…. What makes y’all happy I am here to support ❤
My hubby got his vasectomy right after baby was born(10 months ago) & I can honestly say that I felt a huge weight off my shoulders because I don’t have to take BC & that fear of getting pregnant is completely almost gone. My 3 pregnancies have been very painful & difficult that I don’t want to experience pregnancy ever again..I am so happy he decided to do this instead of me getting my tubes tied!!
So your still able to have kids with another dude but he can’t have kids anymore with another woman if y’all breakup?
@@applemxchi1911 Who said I wanted more kids? Definitely NOT. & if he agreed to go through with it, it’s because he is done as well. He would have never done it if he wasn’t sure. Don’t you think?
I tied my tubes because I had toximia on both of my babies. I totally understand you because it’s your life and it’s risky and you want to be around your daughters. And that’s exactly what my doctor told me. You want to be around you kids get it done. It hurt to do it but it was my life. And my babies where premature at 2 pounds they suffered a lot so I had to .
What a beautiful relationship you guys share. Valentin is so supportive ❤ thank you for sharing your story.
Valentin is TOO funny 😂😂 & honestly such a blessing, so loving and understanding towards you and your experience. I wish I could give you a huuuuge hug over the screen, every time you talk about your pregnancy/birthing journey’s I can feel the emotion and pain you’ve gone through to get here. I admire your strength, your composure & your faith in God. May you continue to receive allllll the blessings and love He has in store for you & your beautiful family!! ❤
Que bonito teñir una pareja como Valentín ❤️ love your family 🫶🏻
Thanks for sharing & bringing awareness. 💕 Love to see such love & compassion for one another. Sending much love your way from L.A.✌✌
What an amazing video. I also have Bandl’s Ring which was diagnosed at my second pregnancy as well. my son (first birth) was tiny so I was able to deliver him vaginally but it did take way longer and now having Bandl’s ring, makes sense. I am currently pregnant with baby number 3 (surprise baby while on IUD) and thanks to this diagnoses, I have scheduled my 2nd c-section already and getting a tubal ligation. Thank you so much for making this video. No one really understands when I say “I have Bandl’s Ring so I cant risk having a V-Bac just to say I had one”.
Hi❤thank you so much for the translation. I have been watching since the begin of your journey and see you family grow. Your such an inspiration as a mother. I don't speak Spanish and I just wanted to thank you for the subtitles would love to see here and there on your videos.
You have a good husband and father to your girls you are blessed with a beautiful family. ❤
This video is much appreciated guys. Valentin, eres un campeón! ❤ Looking out for your queen.
HOLA , HERMOSA, SIEMPRE BELLA.
HOLA ,VALENTIN ME ENCANTA COMO ERES, COMO HABLAS ESPAÑOL, ERES UNBUEN HOMBRE, ERES EL COMPLEMENTO DE YAS, Q DIOS TE BENDIGA GRANDEMENTE. MAS DE LO Q YA TE DA. SALUDOS
My husband got his vasectomy after baby number three. Honestly we just naively thought we had done a great job at not getting pregnant in the past for many years with only two kids and then surprise here came number three we both just knew we were done ✅ long story short research shows vasectomy has less recovery time. Tubal litigation is another procedure to have to go through right after birth and we chose not to consider it. My husband had time to think about it and told me he was done having children and he would get it done ❤ best decision ever! Let’s normalize vasectomies especially in the Latino community
reading the comments it is so sad how taboo it is to our culture to have a supportive husband. So happy for you guys to understand each other ♥️ It is an amazing feeling to have a husband like that, I am blessed with a very supportive and hands on husband too.
Good decision, you have a beautiful family i wish you the best
I watched this video even if i have my tubes removed myself.btw you look beautiful jazmin!
El es bien lindo con ella y bien sencillo, se mira la persona tan maravillosa que es, siempre esta apollandola, pero ella es muy sangrona, en Instagram me bloqueo por un simple comentario que no tenia para nada algo de malo
Gracias por compartir tu experiencia. Debería de ver más como tu.
Excelente esposo Valentin. Que Dios los siga bendiciendo.
Oh my gosh thanks for the CC i usually can’t catch all the words
Thank you for sharing. I had my tube tied, burn or whatever they do lol because my husband refused a vasectomy 🙄. My pregnancies are difficult so I decided that my third was my last especially since I am older. The operation was not difficult and only needed a week to recover. You have a supportive husband which is a gem and wish I had one too 😢
Aww, so sweet. Good Video and the ocean in the background!
Thank you for sharing your guys story. It was so touching and I hope people understand your guys decision. Your husband is a great support system as a friend, boyfriend and husband. God blessed you and your family.❤🙏☺️
My 2 brother in laws also got a vasectomy. One is 44 the other is 33. Both have kids. It is so cool he got the procedure. It’s a lot harder for the woman. May God Bless your family…🙏
Una platica muy interesante ❤ son unas personas muy maduras!! Muchas bendiciones para ustedes y su familia!!! 😊
Thank you for sharing your story. You guys are an example for many marriages. Hopefully men can start thinking differently and not think it makes them less of a man. God bless and watch over you guys always🙏🏻❤️❤️
I feel like I have that too. I've had 3 c-sections and the same, I opened 10 cm with each baby but they couldn't come out vaginally. They even let me try to birth them naturally but I just couldn't do it. The babies head is there but they don't come out. I was so bummed but anything to keep our babies safe. But the Drs never told me what I have. 😢
My husband seen me struggle with birth control and he doesn't care. He says that friends told him that he won't get an erection.
Sad that he cares very little for my wellbeing.
Same boat here 3 c sections 4 babies and my last one I felt the dark feeling and my husband after that he looked at me and told me he was getting his vasectomy for my own health! I thanks god for him ❤
Very interesting video! I love how Valentin is always so supportive husband ❤️ and of course you are supportive wife to him ❤️ finding each other was blessing for sure 🥰
Yas, can you please share from where did you get the blazer jacket you are wearing in the video?
I love the waves in the back. More videos in this scenery 🙏 Thank you for sharing.
I would've just gotten my tubes tied after the last c section.
I’ve been watching you guys for years now and I just have to say this is by far the best video I’ve seen you both do. The vulnerability, the realness and faith you have in God is truly truly inspirational ❤ los quiero mucho! Y para adelante con sus dos niñas chulas❤
I'm not going to lie I'm totally shocked but you got to do what makes you happy
He speaks so beautifully about women ❤
I dont have children and this is definitely something that scares me.... 😞
I can definitely relate but it was with my first delivery. I kinda had a dark feeling around me but thank God I gave birth to a healthy baby but I did bleed out..
I ended up having my second baby and even was told to a nurse that because of my history I can definitely pass away so that made me really scared to give birth but thank you Lord I was able to give birth for the second time. & im okay with having two 🥹
My husband will also be getting a vasectomy. Congratulations a los dos! ❤️
Thank you for doing this video !!! ❤
All I can say is I admire Valentin.
Lmaooo YOU HEARD HIM YAS 💀 2-3x
Muy buena decisión de sus parte como Padres de 2 hermosas niñas que son hoy en día, cuidar la salud de Jazmín que es lo mas importante, por su condición vulnerable en los embarazos. La vasectomía no debería verse como un tabú, al contrario si es para cuidar el bienestar de la esposa lo veo muy bien.
Dicho eso, ya se les extrañaba esa despedida con besito y todo entre uds. Jazmín y Valentín. ❤ Mis cordiales saludos van desde Lima/Perú. 🇵🇪
Sabes porque no se operó ella en vez de el?
Mis respetos para Valentin, un gran esposo. Como el dijo, antes de ser papa fue novio y esposo y le importa la salud de su esposa
Thank you soooo much for sharing this 🤍🤍🤍
Omg but valentine neeeds his boy his little him 😢
When valentin was saying “cuando veo a una mujer embarazada digo pobresita” im currently almost 7months pregnant😭🤣🤣 but hes right! My husband is also doing this too!
You guys are so fucken amazing couple❤❤❤ your Princess are so beautiful and God knows when it’s the right time. Valentin is amazing father and am sure his a good husband
Yes please let’s normalize this in our culture. También como dijo Valentin only having kids with one person is the goal the babies end up suffering more at the end of the day. Love the example you’re setting for others to normalize this concept 🫶💕
I could never birth my sons vaginally ever. I stopped at two kids too because it was traumatic. C sections are serious and I didn’t want to keep getting pregnant.
Thank youuu for sharing! I had preclamsia my first time around and I’m scare to get pregnant again. I’m taking my time. But if I end up having one more, I will do done having babies.
Valentin es un esposo muy comprensivo ❤
You go daddy!!! Cheers to papa. 👏
Best decision when you have that support. My husband and I wanted 4 babies, if god would of blessed us with 2 of each perfect amazing if not whatever would of been fine. I have 3 beautiful kids and each pregnancy was so different yet each one was getting worst to the point where I also saw that death really close. My husband and I came to the agreement that no more cause of my health cause thankfully my babies all 3 came out great but it was me the one with the issue. Honestly I sometimes regret it getting my tubes done cause I've been having tons of dreams me holding a baby boy being mine. I feel god did wanted me to have him to have faith but I interrupted it but then again I remember how bad I got that it's the best decision I could of done even though it hurts at times.
Mi esposo tambien se la hizo y le fue super bien super facil como si nada el hombre tampoco tomo el sedante andaba como si nada, nosotras hubieramos batallado mas con la epidural cortes internos blablabla aparte dicen que la menopausia da mas fuerte cuando te hacer histerectomia asi queee 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 a todos los hombres que apoyan en el proceso de planificación familiar😎❤️aparte de que si queremos otro bebe es mas sencillo tomar muestra de ellos o reacer sus ductos que los de la
mujer asi que es la mejor opcion🫶🏼