Ep 15 What It’s Like Taking A Boy Home To Naga Parents
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- In this episode, we have Asu, Debbie and Merenla from Nagaland to tell us about growing up in Nagaland, their experience moving to Mumbai and what Naga parents look for in an ideal daamaad
Have you heard the story of Ohh Merenba.. A young boy from a small village in a loving and lively home of 4. With Very hardworking parents and children who never complained of whatever that is served on their plates. Now a hole on the roof brings beautiful beams of sunshine ☀️ in their tiny house but the strong winds were never so kind. The young boy would go sleepless nights worriying for the tired parents and a scared little sister.
So as a boy has to become a man, Makes decisions only he knows.
He gives up his career ,his dreams to work on the fields so that the scared little sister is scared no more, her dreams would have no holes on their roof.
That night the young boy decided to fight the storm. ✌🏻😋
And if we group of men talk about women the same... You’ll label us as misogynists & insecure. 🙏🏻
You become INDEPENDENT & act like you’ve achieved such a great feat and bash up all men after you earn for yourself. But Wake up... Being independent is called being a responsible adult which every adult does. Not that of a big deal..
Nijor chowka deh bhaat khai kene bahaar ulaishele nijor chowka ke laat marishe
koa.
Hope bishi thakisele...
Tui khan kun ke date kuriwo, ami khan la ki jai but labelling us as if we naga men are all misogynists & insecure people like their friends and exes.
Left-wing pseudo-feminist ideology bukhi kene dialogue dhama dam mari ase.
I mean... It’s sad that you’ve been treated like second by your conservative environment but Like you’ve changed, society here is also changing. So speak for yourself.
Applauding their achievements but Idk what they're talking about by generalising all men into one group they might have experienced 😂
I need my men and women in my life. My father, brother, uncle etc.
I need all uncles and their families native to our State who helped me when i first ventured out in the cities. They're still living there and helping others students. (God bless them)
I need my men at home who sacrifices good opportunities outside the state & Abroad to help the family here.
Men and women co-exist together. Every boy and girl needs to know this
While yeah women are less privileged in certain aspects but saying things like Naga men can't do this, live in cities like us because they can't take discrimination etc is plain BS.
@@markimark1313 Their argument clearly makes them a Misandrist.
❤️❤️ love the pod guys !! What an amazing selection of guests. Please do repeat the guests that you get!
I make sure to comment hearts all the times cause I love the pod and hope you girls keep rising up
This was soo funn! Also the fashion thing is soo freakin true!! Everytime I see a person from NE they're pulling looks and how!! I wanna know their secrets😂
Pliz don't misinterpret the Naga people history just because you live in Mumbai to make a living my simple advice to Nagas like you
Grow up
Bishi mun tok Kota ase dey Naga chokra Khan 😢😢😢
Tinta didi bhai Khan Kai bikai disha......to the world 😢😢😢😢
They're now Mumbains😂😂😂
LOVEDDDD the thumbnail and ofcourse loved the podcast ❤❤
Yay finally🥳😁 Naina and Shakshi are the best🫂 they literally made my dream come true lol. I have always wanted to hear from these girls and loved their impeccable sense of humor💕😁 Thankyou for bringing them. Proud naga here ❤️I'm on a mission on what to manifest next lol
OMG I really love this episode ❤
Nagaland represent 🙌🏻 What a fun & hilarious podcast!! 😻 Loved every bit of the episode 🫶🏻
The sound is SO OFF guys please sort out the mic situation its so hard to watch this.
Debbie is such a queen 💕 and merenla’s comic timing is impeccable ☺️
Oh how I love Merenla.❤❤ Came here for her wit and humor.. 🌹Nafink but laavvv..
sakshi eating while others are having a convo is such a mood
Loved the episode and the girls' dynamics
Love the pod guys...just a suggestion, if you're bringing in guests could you do maybe try out a couch setup rather than a table?...nothing concrete just the vibes of the pod are very flowy toh cozy feels aati hain thodi...cheers
Such a fun episode 😍
Coming because I saw Miss Imsong in the cover😅 Nice one😊
Watching the podcast felt like a normal conversation with my girls, very interesting and so much fun, enjoyed every part of it. As a Naga I could relate to all the points😅
Marenla made it more interesting and Funny.
Ayaaaa! Naga mota Khan kay roast kore bo lay jaishay neake. Our girls here in Nagaland loves us, and gender equality is improving a lot too, back then we were less educated. Give Nagaland some time, we will improve. Also, I'm proud of all of you Naga girls who fought through all the odds and are now independent. Yes, I still feel you should marry a Naga guy but even if you marry others well and good, happiness should be the priority. God bless the three of you.
To conclude Naga mota Khan b komti nohoi.
chill
It's not just Naga men but they are generalising all men based on the experienced they might have at home.
While i agree that women are less privileged in certain aspects. But calling every men out as Kings who cannot adjust to the discrimination out of their native place is so wrong. When i go outside my house i see Non tribal men. When i go and live in the city i see Tribal men making a living.
They're talking as if like they are the only people living outside. 🐸 in a pond mentality is getting exhibited here where they sre out of touch of reality. Didn't expected that from Merenla. Maybe she said that by mistake still other than everything else that was really stoopid response from her side
@@akharn86753onainainejenny.
Idk but as far as I know, none of us or any men I know were treated like kings😂😂 Besides those wealthy privileged guys.
Probably men from their families lived like kings and were treated like one because they grew up in a wealthy family & were those rich ungrateful egoistic son of a B...
Took out their pent-up anger on all of us... 😂
@@TalismanTopG- investigate all three's background. Sure thakibo de 😂
@@TalismanTopG- tbh..
I know but lemme not expose 👻
Love this segment so much ❤
2:23 It was God's calling upon those missionaries for the Nagas that they started sharing the Gospel & it was & is a blessing that we accepted the Lord & Saviour JESUS CHRIST coz the Lord we serve is a living God....Let's put it this way😊
Amen 🙏
if their is a god may be coz i am a Atheist he will never never convert you for your betterment . they didn't bring food to you they buy your faith from that well, i don't care if you happy then oky but don't apply this saviour bullshit to convert other also.
It's Debbie's world and we're all living in it 🦵
Hey lad! What happened with Porto 1-0 😡
@@aosanenkichu5660 Sorry, mate. We gave it a go, but you deserve more and we'll up our game. #COYG
Wtf white sir what are you doing here?
@@meribemomozhui-ew8xz Happy Tokhü Emong in advance Ango !!!
Benny blanco even commenting on some naga TH-cam videos! Wtf mann
Omg Sakshi & merenla two of my favo content creators in one room!!!
Deborah I remember your drummer phase... So proud of you 🤗
Our naga girls looks joborjoss... stick to the basic ❤ . Joke about the church? Not funny.
Earning? Well and good for you. Just don't give liberal answers, nagas are conservative...likewise you can't speak for everyone
loved it
You have been raised like a princess if your father and brothers are concerned about your safety. Change your mentality.
Enjoyed 😊
Great going girls!
The audio pick from the mics is pretty bad
More power to you Sakshi & Naina ❤
Love Debbie's energy so badass and positive.
The various ways of saying "ayyyaaaa" 😹😹 loved it
Lots of love to Niana & Sakshi
I should study now cause I've my exam tomorrow but wait is this notification from moment of silence ?!!💗
Yoo my gals in the house 😘🥳
They are saying what they're time was going through. This is new Nagaland and in this new Nagaland boys are pressured and girls are daddy's little girls.😂 We men knows how much precious our land is and so we go through alot even sacrificing something dear to us to make the land provide milk and honey. We aren't Princess to explore shit and get influence, we are Kings that build and even make our girls Queens.
The last part is the best wrap up, food brings people together.
Lovely ❤
Milo's Pizzeria in Dimapur serves some super delicious wood fired Neapolitan style pizza, with amazing Naga toppings, including smoked pork and also pulled pork with Raja Mircha
No it's because of the way of how most mailander guys think of our naga girls .
We also wish our girls to get into good family and do well
Why don’t you guys put 10 secs podreels to bring more traction
Episode 7,8,9 background suits you guys the best
But I liked the background of Delhi vs Mumbai and vision board related episodes more>>>...it was giving comfy and cozy vibes ....
Amazing girls ❤
Absolutely fun watching this! Also the point made by Merenla couldn't get more obvious/ accurate. The fact that you mentioned Jenny and Lalrempuia as one name 😂 Jenny would be a female as per the standard identication systems and Lalrempuia a male 😂. Accurately, it would be Jenny Lalrempuii (the -I and -a in the end 😊) I mean we really are the sister state but we are quite beautiful diverse yet knit 😊😊
This video has been on my suggestion for like a week and I finally gave into it and I absolutely love this and I can’t stress enough how much I love Naga women. They really are an embodiment of strength, grace and empathy and that’s on period!🎉
May our God bless u 3 beautiful Naga Aunties...
We human beings are so foolish that to make oneself look cool n knowledgeable,we casually take our all mighty Jesus Christ name in a conversation n laugh it out like an evil ... We humans are so foolish that we start criticising about our own race #socalledNaga . May our lord Jesus bless u 3 beutiful naga Aunties (Luke 23:34 Father forgive them for they do not know what they are doing) .
I Am not a pastor which u sisters can laugh at but before laughing at them please close ur eyes.. n see what he/she is sacrificing for ...
Ekdum proud feeling para Naga sis khan k sabo ahi shele dissapointed hoishe, they turned out to be bitchy Karens, so ungrateful.
😂I feel you broda😂
It's okey...it's a lesson moreover they're now Mumbains 😂😂😂. ....RASTA NATHAKA NAGALAND DEY KINIKA AHIVO....,...JUNGUL DEY BOHI ASE NAGA MANU KHAN TOH........
INDEPENDENT GUY TRYING IN DELHIII😂🤪
7:48 sakshi is there to just have her good time 😂😂😂
Mara Gucci Ladies. Fun session 🎉
Are Naga girls running from reality?
We become so educated that we forget what's inside the box rather we become obsessed with what is outside of the box.
Accept it not but politicians shape the world in that case, women should join politics and therefore we may see brighter ahead rather than blaming those uneducated politicians.
During head hunting, Women's and Children's heads were more precious, and more weight was given it is because both were protected and guarded by the men folks, and whoever broke the fence and entered the village and brought back the heads of women and children were considered fierce warriors. It was like a gem for the raider and hunter to get that heads.
Naga women have been liberal and independent since immemorial and to this day male folks give respect and protection.
For instance, Naga society, especially the Sumi community has been paying a bride price rather than a dowry to the bride's parents.
Naga women were never deprived of anything although there might be flaws in some way or another but this doesn't mean that only the men were raised like a king.
Sad to see that nowadays Naga women who themselves call independent started to talk s**t about men.
These days many Nagas are marrying off to Indians/foreigners and I appreciate the privileges that we are getting to exchange each other cultures whereas only a few Nagas marry with Indians/foreigners. Why? Maybe because of stereotyping the races by the Indian women? Or is there any valid reason to prove it why Indian women are not willing to settle with Naga guys?
Hahaha let them have their moment,their delusional.😂
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Women in UP Bihar Delhi and Mumbai can scream at men and hit him with slippers and fight with him in traffic.Naga men would either commit suicide or get his whole relatives to fight with that ladies family if anything happens like that.There are serious problems with northeastern men which needs to be addressed and initiated by concern states by awareness in schools and homes.There are good men too but men are always sitting to assassinate a women's character.Only women knows how it feels so men can justify what's happening.Naga men are married to outside women too but that is again ignored😂.😂😂😂😂
Very well said. I agree with you 👍🏻
They should be grateful for being so free and doing what they want. But at the same time, they also shouldn't generalise all men or all Naga men into one group .
Most tribal familes love to stay close with their families. While braver strong willed girls like them with different or stronger mentality seek job that offers more money and opportunities. Even guys are getting the same opportunities.
While Naga familes will not pressure girls that much to get married by 25 or 30 and girls have the permission and Liberty to go out. It's not the same for most boys. Because it's expected of boys to stay home close to familes and take care of their families.
While they're out there who knows maybe their brothers and sister in laws are the ones giving their old parents company'.
Why I see Debbie as an Hollywood actress 🔥
I am watching it today 8th march❤love from Manipur
Podcast idea invite 3 man and 3 woman make it vs so that will be interesting to see
Awesome vlog mam love from Pakistan 🙂. Best regards from Pakistan 🙂.
I only watched it just to listen to Merenla who was one of my senior way back in school. But hmm… interestingly I watched the entire podcast without any intention of watching it. Love the camaraderie among the girls and their POVs abt Naga men too 🤔btw I’m a man 😅
One day ago was in a cab in Delhi.
Was chatting with driver in hindi, thought he knew me that I'm an Indian, but suddenly he started asking where are you from and stuffs. Then I replied Nagaland, which he had was no idea!! Then he said you guys have different currency right? I smiled with disappointment and educated him what Nagaland is and it's from Northeast(at least he knew this)....
PS: not the first time!
Naga men are simple . We also go out of state to work, gain experience over time and come back to settle in our humble Homeland although we know we won't be able to enjoy the perks of a city life back at home. While most Naga women also go outside to work but start loving the city life so much that they become so high class types and don't want to settle back in our humble nagaland ✌️
Jeez let people dream and celebrate what they love without putting them down
@@yourslovingly77jeezz... He's speaking fact! Why so triggered woman??? I believe there are more boys and men working abroad probably earning twice or thrice more than them but they don't go around telling how independent they are unlike these few Naga girls😆 bahar jaina naam olop kamai sheleh, podcast teh Naga mota Khan bahar jawole ballz nai Kwa toh, I khennot😆. Another pandemic and Boom! They'll be running back to Nagaland 😆 be humble deh...
Because you guys have it good in your state than the women in your state 😂😂
You literally live in America what do you know....
fragile naga "masculinity" has entered the chat
Am I the only one who wanted Sushi to sit in the center of the table when he appeared?😳🥺
yay !!!!!!!!! NE representation 🥰
Omggg quote on quote don't need Qualifications😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sakshi and Naina. ❤
Mm that was interesting ⭐❤️👍
all the men crying in the comments literally proving a lot of points discussed here it’s so funny
If possible make your podcast longer like 1 to 2 hours 😊if possible
AI ONLY NEEDS THIS ONE VIDEO TO KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT NAGALAND XD
Just came to this channel through happenstance
moreee powerrr
Gender equality had always subsisted in nagaland good thing, given the less interactive nature to outside and external traditional l influences in the past .
In the government sector you may see 4 women out of 1 men employee . Especially in teaching & education section
THE TEA
24:54 PERIODTT 💅💅💅💅
23:52 its not misogyny lady its a real man who cares and provide
I am a Naga boy and i couldn't agree more about Imsong views on Naga culture ,she is right gentle men we need to remove these colocasia leaves or whatever covering our ball sac.
Naga cuisine has a "funky" or umami flavours.
Thank for trying different content 😊 love it
Deborah oh ya....Debby
I support all north eastern content
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I so much agree with Merenla on her thoughts about Naga Men. Cant agree more!!!
What she said was typical Nagas in the 60s. I don't disagree with what she said but I also don't completely agree with what she said.
GenZ or the millennials born Nagas are an upgraded version.
Every society evolves with each passing year and the origin of every society originates from its root.
Strong and independent women should be able to fit in every given society or situation.
We must not forget our left foot.
Our home is where we belong.
We should stop living with past mentality. C'mon! It's time we move forward. Stay upgraded.
When you agree to a Naga lady who has spent only a little time in Nagaland, that too in the 60s mindset .
@@temjenimchen7925 Correct. So much for feminism. It's getting worse.
@@Mr.AnnoyingX these girls are talking as if they are the only Naga families. Majority of the Nagas are improving and growing mentally at a fast rate and the status of women both domestic and public has been increasing a lot. There are lots of families here in Nagaland giving the freedom to theirs daughters be it education, career or love life.
fuck i m so happy to watch this episode ❤️❤️❤️
This show is awesome everything is good but accept about naga boy..wchich disappointed to every naga boy..😢
One word, "yaa"
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The irony of north indians living in Mumbai is that they will interact and glorify the north east, but will never interact with a Maharashtrian in real life.
Is that sakshi ?
Whoever Tf came up with this ‘diversity inclusion’ podcast deserves a standing ovation
Another naga version of @whatever podcast
Jamaila Aboya Smashing 😀🤣
16:34 - My parents told me to date hindu(not me cause i am cool...apologetic)
15:55 - Goes to church...yay u r so cool to say that
Hindu girls in bharat... laughable plight🤦🤦
Bunch of double standards and hypocrites...
in some northern states people do get agitated by non veg smell leave alone funky smell of dried fish or aged meat
well i somehow can understand because there is huge vegetarian population so to them ,that smell can be yuck , im bengali so we need non veg food ,but nowdays here people eat chicken atleast ,
naina looks so much like tyla and she lowkey sounds like her too ahaha
They are my sisters duh😂
Naga Mota khan key emaan tak disrespect naki! Moi khan Naga maiki khan bi komti nahoi tey!
Nagaland te chiriya nishina uri wo dia.. tatey jaine disrespect kuria ho.
Tai kan laga kokai, bhai kan laga kisa koi ase. Chinta nakuribi sob mota kan tai kan kua nishena nahoi. Naga hobi, alag hobi.
Investigation jai sabhi toh. Tai kan ek jun laga toh sure ghor de ekta mota toh taikan describe kurea nishena hobo.
General Preception kua toh nijor ghor de hi shuru hoi.
Mota kan toh huile bahar kaam kuribo koi lebhi ama baba sabo karney wapas ghor ahi bo lay ulai jai . Tai kan toh shadi kurea nai toh bahar aram pra berai ase kaam saam kurina. Aru nijor Nagaland de toh tai kan kokai bhai aru taikan kokai laga maiki kan hi ghor sai thakibo
Naga maiki khan ke dikhi kene khushi pra Naga manu ke represent kuriwo bhabisele... Nijor laka chowka teh bhaat khai kene etya toh bahar jaisele etuhi chowka ke laat mari dishe koa. Sorom deh.
Pseudo feminist ideology bukhi kene Naga manu sob ke generalise nakurile bhal asele...
Nijor chowka teh bhaat khai kene bahaar ulaishele nijor chowka ke laat marishe koa...
Hope bishi thakisele...
Labelling us as if we naga men are all misogynists & insecure people like their friends and exes.
Left-wing pseudo-feminist ideology bukhi kene dialogue dhama dam mari ase.
Etu manu khan ase toh, Naga manu, Naga Naga koi thakiwo aro Nagaland teh ahile foreigners khan nishi acting kuriwo. “Influencers”... And that’s how they influence people.
(someone deleted my previous reply here) maybe someone couldn't handle the truth.
Only for #Imsong❤
debbie start a yt channel
Ladies always ends with food 🤣🤣🤌🏻
Mumbai such a miserable city High rent, Everyone lives a rat race, Poor Lifestyle etc and still praising how cool the city is Tsk tsk tsk. Home Nagaland is everything though we have setbacks however I won’t trade my wonderful life here in Nagaland. I don’t like Mumbai at all.
Mumbai and delhi both are worst cities of ghettos in india .