The Commission Experience from your Worst Nightmares

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  • @cosmosis1601
    @cosmosis1601 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    imagine proposing an "art trade" and saying the other party isnt entitled to your art.....insane

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +20

      RIGHT?!?! I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that was crazy 😅😅

  • @Emilying2k
    @Emilying2k ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Its important to show people that you know what you're worth, never give your life efforts for free, it only brings problems and ambitious people. "You give a hand and they grab your arm"

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That is so true! I also really like that saying, mind if I use it?

    • @Emilying2k
      @Emilying2k ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@honeypotstudios of course you can :) its an old saying so don't worry about that

  • @Rheyndraziel
    @Rheyndraziel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have a simple rule, if they block me I block them too, I don't want the individual to try to crawl into my life again .

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As someone who struggles with setting boundaries and telling people no, this is wonderful advice!! Thank you

  • @teakettle5194
    @teakettle5194 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    GIRLYYY I’m SO glad I found you!! You’re voice is everything and so is your art! I’m gonna be so happy when I get to say, “You know honey pot? Well I knew her since 500 subscribers!!”

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Goodness! I hope you know that your comment made my day! Thank you so much! Stuff like this means the world to me🥹🥹🥹

    • @teakettle5194
      @teakettle5194 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@honeypotstudios STAWPP THANK YOUU

  • @_K.Rinn._
    @_K.Rinn._ ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Kinda off topic but I love your accent. It has a charm to it! :]

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You think so? I try to not talk with it. In school, they always told us to try to talk more “proper” because interviewers for colleges or jobs would think we were stupid! So hearing you like it makes me really happy! ❤️😅

    • @iRONICALLY887
      @iRONICALLY887 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@honeypotstudios see i told u it sounds good

    • @Quinqyincy
      @Quinqyincy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@honeypotstudios it really do sounds good

    • @tiaryzi8853
      @tiaryzi8853 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@honeypotstudios your accent is really pretty, I’m also a people pleaser too. Though I am trying to fix that, however your advice is helpful!

    • @UnknownMercy6
      @UnknownMercy6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@honeypotstudios is that a southern accent i hear? i'm southern too and it's so reassuring so see another content creator with it!

  • @anisa_mazaki23
    @anisa_mazaki23 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Most "karens" like Ruby - if I ever get them trying to apply to my Art Request Service, they automatically get insta banned from my accounts the very moment they try to act like a karen at me for any reason. This is because even though I do say that sometimes I am open for doing Art Requests (at the times I do feel like doing them), I tend to have very strict rules and instructions one MUST read, understand and follow before they decide to DM to apply to the Service, as I am the type of person who's not into bs, and will actually get you blacklisted in some way by other people if you decide to "f**k around me to find out."
    I would say that in the 60 Requests I received over the years (the majority being in 2021 and 2022 for an Anon Covid Project I came up with), I've only gotten 2 people who acted like "Ruby" - one of them being a guy who wanted DND fanart and when I called him out in the DMs telling him that I didn't appreciate that he didn't read my bio before messaging me (cuz I did list what I was willing to draw: Portraits of real people's selfies, Flowers, Fruits or real Animals), and sent him a screenshot of said bio to prove my point that he should have read my bio and chat box intro (where these things were clearly stated, cuz you can't hit the "chat now" button without seeing the list cuz it's like right there infront one's face in the app), and ie he shouldn't have asked a dumb question > instead of apologizing for his mistake, he attacked me calling me a c**t, telling me that I can take my bio and shove it where the sun don't shine and to f**k off and then they started calling me a useless b*tch and wh*re - all because said karen/ken got mad that he couldn't get his precious DND fanart - which wasn't listed as something as I said I would do. When I blocked him, he tried to come back at me with a second account immediately to continue trolling. Q - the Head Staff of the app who for whatever reason attached himself to my account on the app I was using - they banned this karen/ken user, after I sent in reports for their abusive behavior.
    Other than that, everyone's been polite and patient and they obey my rules, since I don't mess around if someone behaves toxicly like your Ruby.

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do have to agree with you, 99.9% of people who have messaged me about art trades and such are also super friendly and nice.
      I guess the few bad apples out of the bunch kinda ruin it. They’re the reason we have to be so strict and skeptical despite so many people not acting that way. It’s unfortunate.

  • @JustAnInsomniac_7
    @JustAnInsomniac_7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I wonder what had to go through her mind to tell her that sending you all of those awful messages was ok, off topic but I love your art style! It's so bouncy and dynamic, and your color coordination is nice.

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I sometimes wonder that as well… 🤔 And thank you so much!!! ❤️

  • @MonMon_W
    @MonMon_W 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    you're such a good artist AND storyteller

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s so nice! Thank you so much 😄

  • @yuriiokey
    @yuriiokey ปีที่แล้ว +18

    you have amazing talent! keep it up!

  • @Enrommie
    @Enrommie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ill never understand people pleasers

  • @outlqwed7719
    @outlqwed7719 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love your accent!

  • @Yinoh99373
    @Yinoh99373 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First, I have to say your voice is like candy to my ears. Secondly, I have never started commissions, but I think you’re right people have to be confident in themselves or else how will they know what is their worth as an artist. Finally, I’ll be sure to check your art some time because well I like the anime/ manga style your aiming for.

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aweee thank you so much!! I’m so glad you like my style and voice!
      Also, please don’t let my bad experience stop you from starting commissions if you’re interested in doing so. Yeah, this person wasn’t fun to interact with at all, but I’ve working with dozens of people who were truly amazing. Don’t let one rotten strawberry stop you from enjoying every other delicious one in the patch.
      (And sorry it took so long for me to reply, I stepped back from social media to focus on my work and just figure out life. 😅)

  • @couldyounotdude3168
    @couldyounotdude3168 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your southern accent so much omg its so comforting

  • @Spotted-Claws-707
    @Spotted-Claws-707 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m sorry to hear that happened to you D:!! Glad to hear you blocked her!
    Side note; I love your voice!! It’s very calming :3

  • @Invomniac
    @Invomniac ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This makes me scared of ever doing commissions honestly...
    (By the way, I love your voice!)

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some people will try and take advantage of you, but the majority of people commissioning you are so nice! Don’t let my or other people’s bad experiences stop you. Also, thank you so much!

  • @hypetrail
    @hypetrail ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love ur accent, and ur art is so beautiful!! keep up the grind

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว

      Aweee thank you so much! You’re so sweet ❤️

  • @Missyaoifangirl100
    @Missyaoifangirl100 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn, your art is amazing! Sorry that you had to deal with such terrible people.

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awe thank you so much! And it’s okay, all the amazing people I’ve gotten to meet because of my art makes up for the few bad ones.

  • @mila6589
    @mila6589 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You should've blocked her in the first crazyness

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeaaaah. I unfortunately learned that out the hard way 😅

  • @DragonGirl2000
    @DragonGirl2000 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so sorry this happened, and glad that you stood up to the person who tried to an advantage of you. Hope your doing okay after that experience and never let anyone walk over you for art ❤

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! It was sucky, but I learned a lot from it. I’m able to better handle people who try to take advantage of me.

    • @DragonGirl2000
      @DragonGirl2000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @honeypotstudios Your welcome! And have a good day 😊

  • @Sylvainjose-satoyumiyato
    @Sylvainjose-satoyumiyato 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im so sorry that happened! My artstyle is not anything people would buy, so I don't do comissions, and this kinda stuff would not help either 😭
    Also, you accent is WONDERFUL! It reminds me of a country accent but... different

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh, don’t say that! I use to think the same thing, but just like me you’re mistaken. Because you are your biggest critic people find you ~30% more attractive than you find yourself. I have a theory that also goes for a person’s art. Anyhow, I’m saying all this because you shouldn’t be so hard on yourself. If you wanna do commissions, just try and see. I think you’d be quite surprised at how successful you’d be.
      Also, thank you! I use to be self conscious of my accent, but apparently a lot people like it. It’s an Appalachian accent. I live in southeastern Kentucky. The heart of the Appalachian mountains.

  • @Pizza-r6g
    @Pizza-r6g ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your art style is so gorgeous!! And also damn- it really sucks people try to take advantage like that :/

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! But it’s ok I’ve developed a thick skin from it 💪

  • @Lofutex
    @Lofutex 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im a small artist with a wopping 10 followers on tiktok and someone asked for a commission and paid already, this is my first ever commission and i am very excited! this video gave me so many tips of a bad commissioner and i am happy that i found this video :DD I love your art sm and hope you never get a bad commissioner again!

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg that’s amazing! Congratulations, I’m so happy for ya 🥳🥳🥳

  • @Moonotter1
    @Moonotter1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this story im sorry this has happened to you.. sounds like you were dealing with a demon..

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s ok, at least it makes for a good story to tell 🤷‍♀️

    • @Moonotter1
      @Moonotter1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@honeypotstudios it's good to always look at the good side of things

  • @marzvstheworld
    @marzvstheworld ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your super underrated! I love your work.

  • @WeezyPuff
    @WeezyPuff ปีที่แล้ว +3

    have to say I love the art :D

  • @santerisnoodles
    @santerisnoodles 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    :> I agree with all the people telling you you have a really nice voice!
    I love subscribing to talented artists. Subscribed!

  • @puggyboi672
    @puggyboi672 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Where are you from? You sound like you have a southern accent lol

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m from Kentucky. I try to talk without my accent, but I end up sounding weird 😅😅😅

    • @iRONICALLY887
      @iRONICALLY887 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@honeypotstudios see everyone talks about your accent cuz it sounds good

    • @GloomyFish
      @GloomyFish ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@honeypotstudios I like your accent, you shouldn't have to hide it

  • @SubliminaIMessages
    @SubliminaIMessages ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Was…was Ruby trying to gaslight you? Lol

  • @zomxom5274
    @zomxom5274 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love all your videos please keep up the great work

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hehe. That means a lot, especially coming from you 😄

  • @octos_art
    @octos_art ปีที่แล้ว +2

    my commisions get no requests

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It takes time! I thought I’d never get them, but look at me now! Keep on trucking 🥰

  • @SUTAZZZ
    @SUTAZZZ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your accent???😭💕

  • @AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAthanks
    @AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAthanks ปีที่แล้ว

    psychotic behavior right there

  • @distorti0n_
    @distorti0n_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i love ur voice sm 😭/vpos

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you really mean it!?!?! 🥹🥹🥹

    • @distorti0n_
      @distorti0n_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@honeypotstudios mhm!!

  • @Aatrooper
    @Aatrooper 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i like your voice

  • @p1x1ep0p3
    @p1x1ep0p3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Unrelated but your voice sounds like applejack

  • @MASTEROFEVIL
    @MASTEROFEVIL 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You ever thought about voice acting?

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I always wanted to be a voice actor, but u don’t think I could ever pull it off 😅

  • @AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAthanks
    @AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAthanks ปีที่แล้ว

    i wouldnt have been that nice if i were you just saying

    • @honeypotstudios
      @honeypotstudios  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t blame you. I’ve learned through this experience to not let people drag me along as much as I let this person did. (And sorry it took a month for me to reply, I’ve been busy focusing on my work.)

  • @iRONICALLY887
    @iRONICALLY887 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People are just the worst on the internet.
    (Honey chilli potato)
    =3