Have the same point of view about friends, finally understood that I should be more self-centred and always choose my own feelings and my priorities. Never betray yourself.
Sonya, what you say about friendship.. I feel you so much and I feel ashamed sometimes not having close friends. But for me friendship is almost like love, just obviously without attraction, and it’s soo rare. People are not invested that much.
I resonated with every word you said - about love and friendship and life in general. You are not alone in feeling this way. I love you so much, Sonya. 🥰♥️
Resonated so deeply with your conversation/feelings on friendship. Thank you for sharing, makes me feel weirdly less alone/comfortable in my isolation. Much love 💕
Они и расставались, она еще и видос целый записывала, в котором тонну говна на бывшего вылила, какой он ни к чему не стремящийся мамин додик) Естественно, видео на канале уже нет ахах.
@@TreyAri1) Видео все еще на канале, на русском 2) Взрослые люди расходятся и иногда даже сходятся, о, да) 3) это ее жизнь, и она не обязана давать объяснения о своей жизни, чего и вам советую, Ариэла)
@@Invisibletotheeyesгосподи боже, как будто я прошу ее давать объяснения)) Я только ответила на чужой вопрос вообще-то. Повезло мужику, что не знает русский и не найдет это видео, где о нем на полтора миллиона подписчиков отзываются как о каком-то додике, чо уж)
It’s not easy finding good friendships, especially in LA. I moved to LA right after college and I had ppl I hung out with but I never felt like I belonged. For many years I was very alone. But eventually I met these wonderful grounded amazing women. Through these friendships I’ve learned that friendships can bring mostly joy and the ones that don’t aren’t worth your time. I’ve also learned that there is a season for everything, if I had met these woman a year before I did we would not be friends. In my alone years I had to learn a lot of self awareness to be able to nurture my current friendships. Therapy also helps a lot to bring things into perspective. And from hearing you it doesn’t seem that it’s so much about figuring your brain out but it seems more that you are hurt and disappointed and therapy might help you heal some of the wounds you have. ❤
Can I ask this? I remember you said in russian video that you broke up with your boyfriend and talked in detail about how the person wasn't really for you. It seems that you talk about the same person in this video. How ? just confused
@@Anonymous_starrrr I mean maybe they got back together but in her russian video she literally admitted that she sort of was delusional about him and he is wrong person for her, it sounded that she lost absolute interest in him and the topic was quite intresting actually lol I don’t remember it all but she talked in so much detail how sometimes we can be wrong about the person we date etc. don’t know what changed but hopefully she’s happy 🤷🏻♀️
Очень интересный формат видео, жаль только что ты не показала результат картин, которые рисовала🙂 Про дружбу и отношение к ней, про одиночество и энергию, я тебя так понимаю, каждое слово откликается в моей голове. Это нормально, у тебя другие приоритеты и я думаю, что они действительно выше, чем у других людей, и твои цели более значимые, чем у большинства. У каждого в голове свои динозавры, а сколько разновидностей..😁
I feel the friends thing as well, I also enjoy a good amount of alone time and have too many interest and love exploring all of them so I can easily keep myself really busy as well. So on one hand I don't mind it yet on the other I do yearn for that friendship as well, but also don't want to be a neglectful friend lol, so its gotta be a certain kind of person where you can both do your own things but when you do get time together your all in.
CHAPTERS =) Are you and your bf long-distance? 2:54-6:19 Have you ever been in love with someone other than ur bf? 6:19-9:31 Do you have close friends? 10:14-12:53 Do you plan on getting plastic surgery? 13:04-14:20 Did you ever think you’d end up alone? 14:20-16:26 House or apartment? Why? 16:26-17:38
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on friendship, Sonya! I can relate so much. I also soak up people’s energy so I purposefully isolate myself to tap into my own creativity and explore what I’m capable of. But even as an introvert, I’ve realized social connections are a fundamental human need that I’m been depriving myself of. So I’m planning to explore this further: how to build a community that actually energizes you.. it’s a tough one as an adult!! It’s comforting to know I’m not alone in this experience. ❤
I relate to many of the things you shared. Thank you so much, it makes me feel less alone in my feelings that often do not correlate with people I am surrounded with. This video is so refreshing for me right now. Wishing you and your partner to achieve your goals soon❤
I can relate to everything you said about friendship 🥰 I have almost no friends myself but I feel really comfortable spending time with myself. I’d rather go for a 3 hour walk instead of sitting in a cafeteria and sipping a 6 dollar coffee or a 12 dollar wine. Also, I was a late bloomer too 😉
Thank you for sharing your long distance relationship situation. It’s very helpful what you’ve said. I am in a very similar situation right now, my bf works multiple jobs in UK and I live in Europe. We have a few plans at hand but sometimes it gets too hard and the hardest part is not to get emotional and start distrusting your partner.
The no friend thing is not that complicated. You are just an INFJ or INTJ or INFP. 90% of the time you has to be left alone in order to heal, think, create, recharge... Most people just cannot have the level of deepness as you in term of feeling, perceiving and comprehending. Maintaining friendship is bad for your mental health. The 10% left is for the love of your life. So having a long distance relationship and no friendship is actually the perfect situation for you. Congratulations!
соня, насчёт отношений - жизнь и особенно молодость очень короткая для того чтобы оставаться в тех отношениях, которые не делают тебя счастливой. прямо сейчас у тебя ещё есть широкий выбор людей твоего возраста, которые свободны, достойны тебя и могут дать тебе то что ты хочешь. с возрастом большинство из них женятся, заводят детей, стареют, да и просто чувствовать влюбленность всем становится сложнее. отношения становятся циничными и поверхностными, частично потому что именно такие люди, не способные любить, и остаются свободы. поэтому мой дурацкий и непрошеный совет - не жди и живи прямо сейчас. разреши себе иметь то что ты хочешь.
Она объяснила, что ей не нужны поверхностные отношения, а вы описали именно это. То есть просто выбрать из толпы кого-то и сказать :"вот теперь мне хорошо". Ей хорошо и одной, а разбрасываться хорошими людьми как то глупо. Уверена, Соня думала об этом тысячу раз, поэтому совет :"брось все это и живи здесь и сейчас, ведь вокруг куча мужчин" совершенно не то, о чем можно мечтать
@@Anonymous_starrrrможно познакомиться он-Лайн. И через знакомых/ друзей на разных вечеринках / праздниках. Также, на разных кружках: по общим интересам.
Thank you for your video❤ I have a question for you, how to become native speaker as you? Did you take a individual lessons or it is just practice and time? Thank you again💕
Никогда не понимала людей, спрашивающих делал ли тот или другой пластические операции 🤷♀️ что они делают с этой инфой и зачем она 😁😁 в чем интерес объясните))
Pleeeeeease does anyone know where the shirt from 1:49 is from it's the perfect white button down I've been searching for all my life and its haunting me
Come to Ireland, there are plenty of place, better immigration system and you can have a farm or live near farms 😂 But no fruit trees except apple tree 😂
Sonya! Thank you so much for the video! But what do you think about Ukraine? Are your favorite boys who were following you dying there? And, well, the boys from Russia who love you are dying! Для украинцев! - Соня! Огромное спасибо тебе за видео! Но, что ты думаешь об Украине? Там умирают твои любимые мальчики, которые были подписаны на тебя? А, так, же умирают мальчики из России которые любят тебя!
Hi Sonya, I am really looking forward to that Cilantro Hummus recipe! I make my own hummus and I love cilantro too. I actually take the time and de-skin my chickpeas, it makes a much smoother hummus. Anyway, I liked the bags and now follow them on Insta. You’re right, they are cute AND affordable! Have a good week and I hope you get to see your Beau soon!!
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Have the same point of view about friends, finally understood that I should be more self-centred and always choose my own feelings and my priorities. Never betray yourself.
Sonya, what you say about friendship.. I feel you so much and I feel ashamed sometimes not having close friends. But for me friendship is almost like love, just obviously without attraction, and it’s soo rare. People are not invested that much.
I also think of it the same maybe because i didnt have a loving family
I resonated with every word you said - about love and friendship and life in general. You are not alone in feeling this way. I love you so much, Sonya. 🥰♥️
She is not alone , but finally we are all alone in this world
@@lilpolivlogs true! I feel that 🥹🥰
Resonated so deeply with your conversation/feelings on friendship. Thank you for sharing, makes me feel weirdly less alone/comfortable in my isolation. Much love 💕
Ну вот я снова влюбилась в тебя, Соня, кинню каждую твою freaking мысль из твоего storage, аааа как же fucking relatable I can’t
i thought you made a video about how you broke up a while ago?
i also thought so
she did
So? Obviously they’re back together. She doesn’t owe us an explanation
Yes, I also remember
Соня, я очень рада, что ты буквально говоришь мои мысли и про отношения на расстоянии (муж работает в море) и про друзей (та же история). 🤍
a purring cat in the video is heaven for my ears:) we need more of that😻
Мне казалось, вы расставались какое-то время назад🤔
Тоже так думала, она же говорила что больше нет отношений 🤔
Они и расставались, она еще и видос целый записывала, в котором тонну говна на бывшего вылила, какой он ни к чему не стремящийся мамин додик) Естественно, видео на канале уже нет ахах.
@@TreyAriдада, я тоже помню что-то такое😂
@@TreyAri1) Видео все еще на канале, на русском
2) Взрослые люди расходятся и иногда даже сходятся, о, да)
3) это ее жизнь, и она не обязана давать объяснения о своей жизни, чего и вам советую, Ариэла)
@@Invisibletotheeyesгосподи боже, как будто я прошу ее давать объяснения)) Я только ответила на чужой вопрос вообще-то. Повезло мужику, что не знает русский и не найдет это видео, где о нем на полтора миллиона подписчиков отзываются как о каком-то додике, чо уж)
You are the first TH-camr I've ever watched over 10 years ago. I used to watch all of your acting videos.
I was about to say this!! Haha we are veterans 😁
It’s not easy finding good friendships, especially in LA. I moved to LA right after college and I had ppl I hung out with but I never felt like I belonged. For many years I was very alone. But eventually I met these wonderful grounded amazing women. Through these friendships I’ve learned that friendships can bring mostly joy and the ones that don’t aren’t worth your time. I’ve also learned that there is a season for everything, if I had met these woman a year before I did we would not be friends. In my alone years I had to learn a lot of self awareness to be able to nurture my current friendships. Therapy also helps a lot to bring things into perspective. And from hearing you it doesn’t seem that it’s so much about figuring your brain out but it seems more that you are hurt and disappointed and therapy might help you heal some of the wounds you have. ❤
Соня: ведет канал на английском
Также Соня: "Мусь..." (о да, чистый русский язык ахаха)
Can I ask this? I remember you said in russian video that you broke up with your boyfriend and talked in detail about how the person wasn't really for you. It seems that you talk about the same person in this video. How ? just confused
I also thought she is single again
@@Anonymous_starrrr I mean maybe they got back together but in her russian video she literally admitted that she sort of was delusional about him and he is wrong person for her, it sounded that she lost absolute interest in him and the topic was quite intresting actually lol I don’t remember it all but she talked in so much detail how sometimes we can be wrong about the person we date etc. don’t know what changed but hopefully she’s happy 🤷🏻♀️
I apologize if your question was already answered. But Sonya actually married this guy recently 😊
@@tanya_lux wait how do you know?
@@ynn-zx3jy She shared that with her Russian followers in Mogilko’s interview. It is no longer a secret. I’m truly happy for her!
Keep doing content for this channel. This video is really aesthetic. P.S. I like the microphone, the sound is nice.
Очень интересный формат видео, жаль только что ты не показала результат картин, которые рисовала🙂
Про дружбу и отношение к ней, про одиночество и энергию, я тебя так понимаю, каждое слово откликается в моей голове. Это нормально, у тебя другие приоритеты и я думаю, что они действительно выше, чем у других людей, и твои цели более значимые, чем у большинства. У каждого в голове свои динозавры, а сколько разновидностей..😁
I feel the friends thing as well, I also enjoy a good amount of alone time and have too many interest and love exploring all of them so I can easily keep myself really busy as well.
So on one hand I don't mind it yet on the other I do yearn for that friendship as well, but also don't want to be a neglectful friend lol, so its gotta be a certain kind of person where you can both do your own things but when you do get time together your all in.
CHAPTERS =)
Are you and your bf long-distance? 2:54-6:19
Have you ever been in love with someone other than ur bf? 6:19-9:31
Do you have close friends? 10:14-12:53
Do you plan on getting plastic surgery? 13:04-14:20
Did you ever think you’d end up alone? 14:20-16:26
House or apartment? Why? 16:26-17:38
I have a long distance with my husband. Hate this. We also have a 4 years old daughter and she hate this too😢 But now we can't be together
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on friendship, Sonya! I can relate so much. I also soak up people’s energy so I purposefully isolate myself to tap into my own creativity and explore what I’m capable of.
But even as an introvert, I’ve realized social connections are a fundamental human need that I’m been depriving myself of. So I’m planning to explore this further: how to build a community that actually energizes you.. it’s a tough one as an adult!!
It’s comforting to know I’m not alone in this experience. ❤
Sonya pleeeeeease where's the shirt at 1:50 from? (white button up)
I relate to many of the things you shared. Thank you so much, it makes me feel less alone in my feelings that often do not correlate with people I am surrounded with. This video is so refreshing for me right now. Wishing you and your partner to achieve your goals soon❤
I can relate to everything you said about friendship 🥰 I have almost no friends myself but I feel really comfortable spending time with myself. I’d rather go for a 3 hour walk instead of sitting in a cafeteria and sipping a 6 dollar coffee or a 12 dollar wine. Also, I was a late bloomer too 😉
Thank you for sharing your long distance relationship situation. It’s very helpful what you’ve said. I am in a very similar situation right now, my bf works multiple jobs in UK and I live in Europe. We have a few plans at hand but sometimes it gets too hard and the hardest part is not to get emotional and start distrusting your partner.
Would you mind making the text that you add bigger? I have to stop the video and zoom in to read it, I find your intakes so interesting ❤
I’d love to see recipes from you and what you cook/eat on daily basis 😊 looking forward to cilantro hummus!
Нет ну асмр от мисс Китти should be longer 🥺
The no friend thing is not that complicated. You are just an INFJ or INTJ or INFP. 90% of the time you has to be left alone in order to heal, think, create, recharge... Most people just cannot have the level of deepness as you in term of feeling, perceiving and comprehending. Maintaining friendship is bad for your mental health. The 10% left is for the love of your life. So having a long distance relationship and no friendship is actually the perfect situation for you. Congratulations!
ура-ура new video right at time 🙂 time to make morning coffee ☕️ ❤
Thank you for being vulnerable !
Omg I need a Luna bag in my life like immediately!
Sonya, what kind of camera and mic do you have? If you could help telling the exact model/type, I would really appreciate that
Answering my question with my favorite lofi music in the background, I feel seen ❤
Love love love your point of view on so many of these questions, always and inspiration
for me it's such a red flag of a person doesn't have ANY friends
i mean come on, at least one!!
соня, насчёт отношений - жизнь и особенно молодость очень короткая для того чтобы оставаться в тех отношениях, которые не делают тебя счастливой.
прямо сейчас у тебя ещё есть широкий выбор людей твоего возраста, которые свободны, достойны тебя и могут дать тебе то что ты хочешь.
с возрастом большинство из них женятся, заводят детей, стареют, да и просто чувствовать влюбленность всем становится сложнее.
отношения становятся циничными и поверхностными, частично потому что именно такие люди, не способные любить, и остаются свободы.
поэтому мой дурацкий и непрошеный совет - не жди и живи прямо сейчас. разреши себе иметь то что ты хочешь.
А что если никто не знакомится((( как заводить эти отношения во взрослом возрасте когда универ закончен а на работе в отношениях или женатые
Она объяснила, что ей не нужны поверхностные отношения, а вы описали именно это. То есть просто выбрать из толпы кого-то и сказать :"вот теперь мне хорошо". Ей хорошо и одной, а разбрасываться хорошими людьми как то глупо. Уверена, Соня думала об этом тысячу раз, поэтому совет :"брось все это и живи здесь и сейчас, ведь вокруг куча мужчин" совершенно не то, о чем можно мечтать
@@Anonymous_starrrrможно познакомиться он-Лайн. И через знакомых/ друзей на разных вечеринках / праздниках. Также, на разных кружках: по общим интересам.
I love your cat 🥹 such a cutie
Love that type of video, just catching up with you :)
Обожаю твои видео и твой приятный голос❤ и даже твою рекламу!
«Мусь» 😍😍😍😍😍😍
I, a fellow Gemini, can completely relate to this 😅
Sonya is my favourite blogger
Thank you for your video❤ I have a question for you, how to become native speaker as you? Did you take a individual lessons or it is just practice and time? Thank you again💕
She was raised in Canada. English is her native tongue along with Russian.
5:38 was that green flash part of the dilusion or was that a timely glitch lol
Никогда не понимала людей, спрашивающих делал ли тот или другой пластические операции 🤷♀️ что они делают с этой инфой и зачем она 😁😁 в чем интерес объясните))
More videos like this please!
Pleeeeeease does anyone know where the shirt from 1:49 is from it's the perfect white button down I've been searching for all my life and its haunting me
i really relate to the friend thing
Just hopping in for cat safety note - I hope the lilies in the bg are fake? They’re super toxic for cats
как по России ездять блогеры - th-cam.com/video/mUmzkrLa9zk/w-d-xo.html
Ну, вот Вам женщины Украины! Нет никакой морали...
Does anyone know where the pants/shirt at 1:50 are from?
where do you edit your videos?
Thanks you 💖
xoxo from Indonesia ❣️❣️❣️
Котька супер
5:31 i'm sorry but if you look at your eye at that moment, your lash-curler looks like a torture tool, very creepy hahaha
Come to Ireland, there are plenty of place, better immigration system and you can have a farm or live near farms 😂 But no fruit trees except apple tree 😂
❤❤❤
ia ne ponimaiu angliski na otlichno na russkom govori )
Sonya! Thank you so much for the video! But what do you think about Ukraine? Are your favorite boys who were following you dying there? And, well, the boys from Russia who love you are dying! Для украинцев! - Соня! Огромное спасибо тебе за видео! Но, что ты думаешь об Украине? Там умирают твои любимые мальчики, которые были подписаны на тебя? А, так, же умирают мальчики из России которые любят тебя!
Какой бойфренд ты взрослая уже.... Годы летят... ну ты знаешь.
Какой дурацкий коммент
@@Lauryn-Bay Дурацкая - армия Украины. А камент тупой, на большее ей не стоило расчитывать.
@@Lauryn-Bay Какой контент такой и комент. 🤣
Hi Sonya, I am really looking forward to that Cilantro Hummus recipe! I make my own hummus and I love cilantro too. I actually take the time and de-skin my chickpeas, it makes a much smoother hummus. Anyway, I liked the bags and now follow them on Insta. You’re right, they are cute AND affordable! Have a good week and I hope you get to see your Beau soon!!