Marriage Q&A #1: How Do You Keep Your Marriage Healthy & Strong?

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  • Even after 26 years of marriage, Jenise and I still take the time to intentionally think about our marriage.
    No matter the season or challenges we may be facing, we're asking questions and evaluating where we're at on a scale of 1-10. In today's video, we sat down to answer some of the most frequently asked questions we've received about marriage, how we "work" on our marriage, and how we work through life's challenges together.
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  • @jamikatheplug
    @jamikatheplug ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “People that work on their marriage, marriage works for them” - Jenise Johnson

  • @krishostetler3340
    @krishostetler3340 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    You guys are literally a breath of fresh air!! I discovered you all through your daughter's channel and I've just been absorbing as much wisdom as I can. Thank you so much and keep sharing!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Kris. So grateful. Appreciate your feedback and comments.

  • @amandaw30
    @amandaw30 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Yes! More marriage videos please! I found your channel via your daughters channel and I can’t tell you enough how much the mother/daughter q&as have inspired me. In fact a few weeks back I was in a rut and just put on the playlist and went about my days work and it just revitalized my perspective and my ambitions as a wife and mother!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Praise the Lord! So grateful Amanda. Really appreciate hearing about your growth!

    • @user-oy4st5cq6i
      @user-oy4st5cq6i 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊😊

    • @user-oy4st5cq6i
      @user-oy4st5cq6i 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊😊😅😅😅

  • @creativereindeer
    @creativereindeer ปีที่แล้ว +9

    3 years late to this party and picking this up in London England and delightedly inspired 💛 thank you for this. Many blessings x

  • @SavedBySweetGrace
    @SavedBySweetGrace วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ya'll are such a blessing! As a 37 year old wife, and mama to 5, I am so blessed by your wisdom! I love ya'll!

  • @RachelDarleneGilliland
    @RachelDarleneGilliland ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Just found your family.. LOVE your content! Thank you..
    You are truly a ministry to many of us who find ourselves living life without the solid foundation of truth in the relationship of marriage and caring for our families. You give us a tangible, modern example of the beauty God intends for us and the tools and blueprint to grow ever closer to the ideal God has for us ♥️

  • @chelseyledoux5366
    @chelseyledoux5366 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Can you please make more videos? You two are GOLD!

  • @barbiec6
    @barbiec6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Loved this! Found y’all from your daughter Kathryn. Definitely would love to hear about the model you use for difficult conversations.

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We will share that real soon. Thank you so much for following along!

  • @BecauseitMatters
    @BecauseitMatters 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love, love, love the example you two set of an absolutely beautiful marriage!❤️ You both are so encouraging to those of us who are new to this when looking around at the world which views marriage in such a sad and unsuccessful state! Janesse, I cannot tell you how much of a challenge and inspiration you have been to me in my short journey so far of trying to be the best wife, mama and godly example I can be. I absolutely adore you both and thank God for the blessing you are in my life!💕 please continue these type of videos. We all need them!:)

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Praise the Lord! Our desire is to see him praised and marriages encouraged. Appreciate your kind words. :-)

  • @nika...
    @nika... ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow. Just wow, you guys are like a clear sparkling running stream. I just want to stop by and stoop to drink whilst admiring such a glorious view. I don’t know, it’s like your whole life is just illustrated by your dynamic and it’s like a kind of glow on you.

  • @tabithal9170
    @tabithal9170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have really enjoyed the mother/daughter Q and A’s on Now That I’m A Mother. It is such a blessing to me for you guys to talk on marriage and family on your channel. “When you work at marriage your marriage works for you” Wow, I needed to hear that truth and be reminded to put more work into my marriage. You guys are such an encouragement! I would love to hear more on the topic of marriage and family.

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Tabitha. So glad you are excited about investing more into your marriage. It is so worth it.!

  • @momof3498
    @momof3498 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jenise you are my role model I’m life!!! I pray everyday the Lord would bring me a spiritual mama like you!! You have encouraged me beyond words! Especially when you do the question and answer on your daughters, TH-cam platform, but comments are disabled, so I can never leave a remark telling you guys how much those mean to me. And I really want to get on neolife but having so much trouble getting some ondd we to speak to me personally. Maybe you could help? I’ve left message in your daughters instagram and left a message on neos website to find someone but no response.
    God bless you both and keep the videos coming we need them

  • @martinethevenau69
    @martinethevenau69 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was awesome. I have been married for 20 years this year and love my husband deeply. I do think the love language of your partner is important to nuture. We love date nights too. God bless you guys for sharing.

  • @CHOOSE_TO_BE_U
    @CHOOSE_TO_BE_U ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very helpful. Not married (yet). I desire to be to the the one God has for me. So many good tips in here. Thank you for sharing this info. I have often said, "God, Our Father, didn't make man & woman so different to frustrate each other, but to compliment and enjoy each other!" I know I have a lot to learn, but sure do appreciate your willingness to share. Thank you and bless you and may your marriage to continue to be a bright light in this dark world. Following God's way is the best way. 📖

  • @dontalkback8067
    @dontalkback8067 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everyone needs to hear what you are saying!!! Maybe my prayers were answered in finding your advice & ideas, because I haven't know what to do! God bless you!

  • @majo8576
    @majo8576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm here from Katie's channel! You guys are awesome. God bless you! Enjoying your channel somuch!

  • @ajgood4998
    @ajgood4998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oh how the Lord honors those that walk in His ways!! Thank you for sharing Truth and tips with us. We value the input and advice from those that are living it out! We are in our 20th year and can definitely agree that it takes "work" but is is WORTH IT!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true! He is so good! Congrats on 20 years! The work is worth it! So well said.

  • @Fireandfunsocks
    @Fireandfunsocks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys are so cute! Please do more marriage videos!

  • @saintamerican6105
    @saintamerican6105 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a pure hearted fruitful couple
    God bless yall 🙏❤️

  • @jasonandjulie
    @jasonandjulie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    More marriage videos please! And parenting videos also! Thank you both for sharing your wisdom

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for the feedback and encouragement. We are planning to do more. Thanks again.

  • @steffa648
    @steffa648 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are hilarious!!! I laughed out loud when Chad said the free thing 😂😂😅😅 I love your videos! I am going to binge watch some. Very encouraging!!

  • @motherhoodforhisglory
    @motherhoodforhisglory 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom! And what a great quote, Jenise! The best part was the fist pump 😂

  • @AB-bt9se
    @AB-bt9se 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SO helpful! Very wise, Bibilical counsel presented in a fun, playful, appealing way! Keep it coming! Marriages need advise like this!

  • @aguilacec
    @aguilacec 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys are such a great couple! Thanks for all the advice.

  • @jrkreiser
    @jrkreiser 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Looking forward to hearing more about the courageous conversation model! Thanks for such wonderful advice!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We plan to share this next week! Stay tuned.

  • @sharlenedepaz2562
    @sharlenedepaz2562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please keep making marriage videos! They are amazing and inspiring !

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Sharlene. Really appreciate it!

  • @reywalker5951
    @reywalker5951 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a blessing of video! Thank y’all so much!

  • @erinashdown1355
    @erinashdown1355 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am interested in the talk
    Very helpful, thank you

  • @earlginabontrager7739
    @earlginabontrager7739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Came over from Now That I’m a Mother. Thank you for sharing your wisdom! We are a young couple with 2 children and it’s so encouraging to hear from older couples who are very invested in their marriage.

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad to have you here. Pray that we can be of encouragement. Blessings.

  • @barbieduggan
    @barbieduggan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to hear more about these courageous conversations too please!

  • @becca.carroll
    @becca.carroll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for your humility before the Lord and each other. blessed by your content.
    -sister from PA

  • @MorganMunday
    @MorganMunday ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to hear about courageous conversations!

  • @nickgavrilov8888
    @nickgavrilov8888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey there Chad and Jenise, would you be able to share more of things you did and did not do with your kids to keep relationships strong between parents and children and between siblings. Thanks for the videos - LOVE EM!! Please don’t stop 😁👍🏼

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is very important topic! And one that is near to hearts. Hope to share more soon.

  • @barbieduggan
    @barbieduggan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely love
    Your Family!!!! Please please keep doing marriage advice, you 2 have so much wisdom to pass down, About everything, this was awesome!!! My husband especially loved Chads last little piece of advice 😂😂😂

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. You've got a good man. :-)

  • @juliekeene8369
    @juliekeene8369 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can't wait to hear more about marriage and the courageous conversation!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Will share soon. Thanks for the feedback. :-)

  • @paigedeclue9766
    @paigedeclue9766 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would love to know more about courageous conversations. ❤️

  • @jewishgirl1581
    @jewishgirl1581 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so informative thank you 😊🙏

  • @jaquievalencia9702
    @jaquievalencia9702 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whaaatttt? So glad you have a chanel 🥰

  • @cindyb4219
    @cindyb4219 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to hear more about the courageous conversation you mentioned covering.

  • @CHOOSE_TO_BE_U
    @CHOOSE_TO_BE_U ปีที่แล้ว

    Would like to hear more about what you mentioned: courageous conversation. Sounds very helpful. Thank you!

  • @joydurand
    @joydurand ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys! Thank you for finding the time for each other over the years as well as making these marriage videos. God bless you and your family ❤️

    • @joydurand
      @joydurand ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Courageous conversations 👏😁

  • @irinamoraru5114
    @irinamoraru5114 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to hear more about the courageous talk, please.
    Thank you for being a nice Christian example. As I don’t have any. God bless you.

  • @johnnycanales9569
    @johnnycanales9569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your daughter’s channel so I found y’all through her. I would love to hear how old you were (for the Mrs. if that’s not too intrusive) when you had each of your 11 children. I’m curious because I’m an “older” Mom (38), pregnant with my third. I love hearing encouragement about having children later in life. Thanks so much.

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for asking. Jenise was 27 when she had Kathryn Joy, and she was 45 when she had our youngest Kordelia Mae, who is now 7 years old. Take care of yourself; God made us amazingly capable to have children well into our forties and some even beyond.

  • @katedavid7080
    @katedavid7080 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MORE! More! more!

  • @MamaWads
    @MamaWads 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please keep sharing marriage and family videos. These are most helpful.

  • @dontalkback8067
    @dontalkback8067 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bring on the courageous conversation!

  • @PraiseAbbaFather
    @PraiseAbbaFather 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankful for this!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Heather! Appreciate you!

  • @yuniwengerd1559
    @yuniwengerd1559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank-you so much for sharing!! All the ideas for date night...cant wait to start! God bless you for sharing your heart and marriage life with us!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so welcome Yuni! Thank you for your comments and feedback. Very helpful for us.

  • @davidbeiler7106
    @davidbeiler7106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it!!! Do more videos on marriage, and I don't mind if they are yours long! :-)

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Better be careful what you ask for...Lol!

  • @meglupo18
    @meglupo18 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please please please make more.

  • @TheBigSkiFamily
    @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What was your favorite part of this week's video? 👀 Drop us a comment below and join the discussion. We LOVE hearing from you and sharing the parts of our lives that you find most interesting. 😊

  • @cynthiatew4638
    @cynthiatew4638 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing ! Thank you for this video! Keep them coming!

  • @EdZerweck
    @EdZerweck ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you read Willard Harley? A lot of the same ideas with some go to techniques for healthy relationship skill development. Keep up the good work.

  • @sashasmith2109
    @sashasmith2109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please keep making more of these! Loved hearing everything!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We hope to share more. Thank you for the feedback.

  • @TaylorMScott89
    @TaylorMScott89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this! New subscriber. Can’t wait to hear more on the line of marriage.

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Taylor. We love the subject and look forward to sharing more. :-)

  • @danielleroth2947
    @danielleroth2947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love hearing your wisdom! So encouraging. Would love to hear more!

  • @elizabethlile6693
    @elizabethlile6693 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found ya, your such a cute couple 💑..Thank you, God Bless!

  • @p6nch6
    @p6nch6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this Q&A style! Please do more!! 😊

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! We are discussing doing a weekly video where we answer one question. Appreciate the feedback.

  • @TheBrownsDaily
    @TheBrownsDaily 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So encouraging! I appreciate you both sharing your wisdom!

  • @Asformeandmyhouse1989
    @Asformeandmyhouse1989 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so good! More please!!😀❤

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! So fun for us to share. Appreciate your encouragement. :-)

  • @damarissanchez-raluy5325
    @damarissanchez-raluy5325 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!! So much good wisdom!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Damaris. We really appreciate your feedback. How long have you been married?

    • @damarissanchez-raluy5325
      @damarissanchez-raluy5325 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Big Ski Family , on September 20th is our 5th year Anniversary!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@damarissanchez-raluy5325 Congratulations! Celebrate well! :-)

  • @beckyjoy4811
    @beckyjoy4811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this!

  • @shaunahorsting9019
    @shaunahorsting9019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep sharing!

  • @jamikatheplug
    @jamikatheplug ปีที่แล้ว

    I believe God will provide resources for quality time with your spouse !!

  • @jacobsnewadventures
    @jacobsnewadventures 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would like more info on how to have those tough conversations please, thank you

  • @hannahk1887
    @hannahk1887 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So so good!!!! I love you guys!!! You are such an inspiration to all of us!!!

    • @TheBigSkiFamily
      @TheBigSkiFamily  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! You are so dear! Appreciate you.

  • @patriciabellah9392
    @patriciabellah9392 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you think the little things stopping back rubs, dates, compliments.

  • @FemalesDecoded
    @FemalesDecoded 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kate has her father looks but mum's sweet voice

  • @shayneleavitt5974
    @shayneleavitt5974 ปีที่แล้ว