6w5 I made this “friend” when I was a teenager and said “friend” abused me for 6 months, so I felt I couldn’t trust myself or my judgement. As an adult, I logically know that the abuse wasn’t my fault. I do trust my judgment now, because I’ve learned a lot throughout my life. I got into therapy October of 2019 and it’s been super helpful
Yes…counter phobic 6s plan more and will walk through their fears therefore trusting themselves. Also healthy 6s usually have learned to trust themselves.
I'm a 6w5 sp/sx 694 and whenever I hear things about the 6 I suddenly feel like crying even if I think I only relate partly from as far as I can remember. I feel like maybe some things did happen and I just forgot but it's really strange to me that I'm so sad even though I can't directly think of a reason. Type 6 is the only one where this happens, cried through a 30 minute video about behavior and reasoning of a type 6 ;-; oh btw it's not weird for me to cry but just not so randomly ~INFP
I am loving this series. A bit nervous for mine, but I know that it's sorely needed at this time, as I'm navigating it solo rn. I'm feeling too many feels about it, and the TH-cam comments section is not the place for it, lol. I realized recently that because 6s are often untrusting like me, they're perfect at coming up with the optimal trick question that gives you all the answers you need. Can I come up with those questions myself? Absolutely. But they can do it in 10% of the time with virtually no extra energy spent. It will take me at least a week and completely drain me emotionally. It seems to be a fun puzzle for them, whereas for me, I have to go through the ethics of crafting such a question, lay out a roadmap for all the ways such a question could be circumvented with half-truths, etc. In short, I'm grateful to have a 6 on my side who is a wizened sage and is willing to entertain my conundrums.
As a 6, when I was a kid, I went through childhood trauma so now even at 30, I don't ever feel safe. BC I didn't feel safe as a kid. Edit: I'm going to counselling to deal with it and I journal a lot
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When are you doing 7??? I will confess the wounded childhood message is one of the most difficult aspects for me being a 7. It seems so firmly embedded in me. It really feels like I try but the longer I live, the more true it seems that I really can't depend on anyone for anything. It even bleeds over into my relationship with God. and I know that's not right because I know He IS Faithful but the struggle here is real.
Would you say countertype 6 look at it the same way? My husband is a countertype 6 and it seems like it's hard to find content for countertype 6 because they don't relate to everything that a phobic 6 would 🤔
6w5
I made this “friend” when I was a teenager and said “friend” abused me for 6 months, so I felt I couldn’t trust myself or my judgement.
As an adult, I logically know that the abuse wasn’t my fault. I do trust my judgment now, because I’ve learned a lot throughout my life.
I got into therapy October of 2019 and it’s been super helpful
As a counter phobic 6 I think that I trust myself more than others
Yes…counter phobic 6s plan more and will walk through their fears therefore trusting themselves. Also healthy 6s usually have learned to trust themselves.
I'm a 6w5 sp/sx 694 and whenever I hear things about the 6 I suddenly feel like crying even if I think I only relate partly from as far as I can remember. I feel like maybe some things did happen and I just forgot but it's really strange to me that I'm so sad even though I can't directly think of a reason. Type 6 is the only one where this happens, cried through a 30 minute video about behavior and reasoning of a type 6 ;-; oh btw it's not weird for me to cry but just not so randomly ~INFP
Once again thank you ... I will keep journaling and know myself .. I am safe ... Trust is me as we ....
Not a type 6 but watching and commenting to tell the algorithm that I love your work ❤️
Thanks! This means so much to me!❤️❤️❤️
I am loving this series. A bit nervous for mine, but I know that it's sorely needed at this time, as I'm navigating it solo rn. I'm feeling too many feels about it, and the TH-cam comments section is not the place for it, lol.
I realized recently that because 6s are often untrusting like me, they're perfect at coming up with the optimal trick question that gives you all the answers you need. Can I come up with those questions myself? Absolutely. But they can do it in 10% of the time with virtually no extra energy spent. It will take me at least a week and completely drain me emotionally. It seems to be a fun puzzle for them, whereas for me, I have to go through the ethics of crafting such a question, lay out a roadmap for all the ways such a question could be circumvented with half-truths, etc.
In short, I'm grateful to have a 6 on my side who is a wizened sage and is willing to entertain my conundrums.
I love that perspective.
As a 6, when I was a kid, I went through childhood trauma so now even at 30, I don't ever feel safe. BC I didn't feel safe as a kid. Edit: I'm going to counselling to deal with it and I journal a lot
Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️❤️ Sounds like you are on a great path to healing.
I relate to the 6 wound and the 9 wound...I watch your 9 and 6 videos...both are helpful.
Thanks for watching!
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Great work 🥳 Thank you 💜
Thanks!
Thank u thank yo thank you .. Type6 here 50 on the road with as ESTJ ... Journaling lots .. Looking for more inner strengh... RoK
0:39 i think I have all of them!
When are you doing 7??? I will confess the wounded childhood message is one of the most difficult aspects for me being a 7. It seems so firmly embedded in me. It really feels like I try but the longer I live, the more true it seems that I really can't depend on anyone for anything. It even bleeds over into my relationship with God. and I know that's not right because I know He IS Faithful but the struggle here is real.
It's coming Lorrie! I have couple of videos before it but I will get to the 7 very soon! ❤
Would you say countertype 6 look at it the same way? My husband is a countertype 6 and it seems like it's hard to find content for countertype 6 because they don't relate to everything that a phobic 6 would 🤔